I'm a woman and I love your content because this applies to me. Five month relationship where everyday we are talking, seeing each other at least once a week (because he lived an hour away), with him doing more of the driving down to where I am, us touching and kissing (but no sex. I wanted to wait till marriage if possible), to now nothing and him even blocking me. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship after ALL that time and spending time together and saying he cared to him actually blocking me, how sad and devastating (in many ways). To be honest with you though, off topic, but you kinda look like him too lol. But anyway, this content of yours is gold for me because a couple weeks in, it still hurts. I still feel like if he had just met up with me one more time, he wouldn't have broken up? Or maybe he would I mean listening to other coaches, they tell me the dumper usually knows weeks if not days in advance that maybe the relationship wasn't going to stand in the future. All I want to say to him is that I HOPE (if he still wants that), is for him to FIND someone that he loves and cares about so much that he NEVER will let her go from his life. ...He still lives with his parents and is unfortunately a Papa's boy. I don't know what he wants. I feel like he wanted someone perfect or has hardly any flaws. He's dreaming. I don't have children from previous marriages. I stil look great for my age (39) while he (40) is overweight and having thyroid issues.. I just wish that this pain subsides in the future, and I get the strength to find someone else and finally my heart can let go.
Awesome bro. If you like this kind of stuff you will like my new channel The better man project. Link is the description. It’s going to go deep into self improvement
What if I broke up with her and needed time alone to decide things then am trying to come back a month or so later after having gone to therapy and working on myself, and now they won’t let their heart open up again. I know no contact wouldn’t work but how do I show and give my value without taking attention way because I feel like at least some attention is needed to show that I’m here and able .. sorry if that didn’t make sense ..
If I can chime in: 1. It always takes two to have a working relationship unfortunately. 2.The fact that you broke up with her shows some arrogance on your part. Do you think you can just get her back whenever you want? People don't work like that. They have feelings and egos. Any self-respecting person should not jump in with someone who has a history of being unsure. 3.Talk to her about it. See what she says. That is your best bet.
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 I’m trying. Took her on a trip to Mexico this weekend to help her with some things. It’s different than before and I’m Re building trust and all but I’m having to learn to take it slow and trust that all is well. Very tough time for me, but I will follow my heart and try to give space and be there for her.
@joshuamac6302 I chased her got no where ..After 2 weeks I left it started dating somebody new....Im blocked again..Started dating somebody new...Posted about it a few times, all of a sudden shes posting quites up abiut being free and having inner peace and being on the rise again...Is this aimed at me ?
Nothing illustrates strength through inaction more than losing weight. There's a donut don't act to get it. Right? You don't *have* to have that fried chicken. Slim chickens is pretty good though but I digress. And it's like you are feeling sooooo hungry. Everything about you is saying to eat all the burgers from McDonald's. Billions and billions served? Nope. Just me. So it takes strength to find the good stuff that will benefit you and having the strength to tame the stuff that's not so good.
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I'm a woman and I love your content because this applies to me. Five month relationship where everyday we are talking, seeing each other at least once a week (because he lived an hour away), with him doing more of the driving down to where I am, us touching and kissing (but no sex. I wanted to wait till marriage if possible), to now nothing and him even blocking me. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship after ALL that time and spending time together and saying he cared to him actually blocking me, how sad and devastating (in many ways). To be honest with you though, off topic, but you kinda look like him too lol. But anyway, this content of yours is gold for me because a couple weeks in, it still hurts. I still feel like if he had just met up with me one more time, he wouldn't have broken up? Or maybe he would I mean listening to other coaches, they tell me the dumper usually knows weeks if not days in advance that maybe the relationship wasn't going to stand in the future. All I want to say to him is that I HOPE (if he still wants that), is for him to FIND someone that he loves and cares about so much that he NEVER will let her go from his life. ...He still lives with his parents and is unfortunately a Papa's boy. I don't know what he wants. I feel like he wanted someone perfect or has hardly any flaws. He's dreaming. I don't have children from previous marriages. I stil look great for my age (39) while he (40) is overweight and having thyroid issues.. I just wish that this pain subsides in the future, and I get the strength to find someone else and finally my heart can let go.
I hope you moved on because he sounds like such a weak and broke man
One of your best videos Kyle
Coach I am listening to your videos even though I am not in the no contact period
Awesome bro.
If you like this kind of stuff you will like my new channel
The better man project. Link is the description.
It’s going to go deep into self improvement
Well this is awesome thank you
What if I broke up with her and needed time alone to decide things then am trying to come back a month or so later after having gone to therapy and working on myself, and now they won’t let their heart open up again. I know no contact wouldn’t work but how do I show and give my value without taking attention way because I feel like at least some attention is needed to show that I’m here and able .. sorry if that didn’t make sense ..
If I can chime in:
1. It always takes two to have a working relationship unfortunately.
2.The fact that you broke up with her shows some arrogance on your part. Do you think you can just get her back whenever you want? People don't work like that. They have feelings and egos. Any self-respecting person should not jump in with someone who has a history of being unsure.
3.Talk to her about it. See what she says. That is your best bet.
@@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 I’m trying. Took her on a trip to Mexico this weekend to help her with some things. It’s different than before and I’m Re building trust and all but I’m having to learn to take it slow and trust that all is well. Very tough time for me, but I will follow my heart and try to give space and be there for her.
What if I removed them from my social media, don't post anything and we have no mutual friends?
Same here.
They wknt call if they are stubborn and emotionally damaged..She has however unblocked me after dumping me ? I messaged her but she didn't reply ??
Leave her alone
@joshuamac6302 I chased her got no where ..After 2 weeks I left it started dating somebody new....Im blocked again..Started dating somebody new...Posted about it a few times, all of a sudden shes posting quites up abiut being free and having inner peace and being on the rise again...Is this aimed at me ?
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Nothing illustrates strength through inaction more than losing weight. There's a donut don't act to get it. Right? You don't *have* to have that fried chicken. Slim chickens is pretty good though but I digress.
And it's like you are feeling sooooo hungry. Everything about you is saying to eat all the burgers from McDonald's. Billions and billions served? Nope. Just me. So it takes strength to find the good stuff that will benefit you and having the strength to tame the stuff that's not so good.
That’s right.