I have broke my NC after 2 months because I know I become needy and become toxic, I ask for forgiveness just to let her know I'm not that kind of person she might think. I'm back at NC again in 4 days now. I want to recover at this breakup, but still a part of me still want her because I know she's a good person.
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a tough time Jor. What you’re feeling is perfectly normal. Agree to the breakup and let her be. In the meantime, focus on you and give yourself all the love you need. Work on the stuff you go wrong, level up, buy new clothes, start new hobbies, meet new people. I hope you feel better.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Yes im doing all of those right now. But i really don't know why would i still pray for us to be reconciled again. Maybe a prayer is powerful and i hope that i could move on so I'll be ready if she comes back or someone will come and understands that leaving someone else is not an option when things can be talked together. Thank you for your kind words. More power to your channel
@Unbounded Creator I'm already good now. Started talking to other women and continuing my life. All I can say is don't get stuck you'll definitely lose.
nice video nick!i do nc for this time 40 days...its not easy but its geting better..i agree with the suzan winters...chanel.also i like lucia the art of love..is very clever and true!!take care mate!!!i love edimbro!!i lived once there!!!
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Within a month of breaking up, and discussing working things out, she ended up sleeping with two people (including the rebound). The relationship was 3 years long. She has BPD, so can't handle abandonment, and is extremely impulsive. After finding out from her, I went no contact several times within the last month or so, but she has reached out numerous times, wanting to meet up and breadcrumbing me. She wants her cake and eat it.
I’m sorry to hear that man and I know this must be very tough for you. Some honest advice. It’s not your problem to fix. Her having BPD is her problem. Her rebounding is a reflection of her own insecurities. This is less to do with you and more to do with her. Given what you know now, why would you want someone who’s got more baggage than an airport? It’s all about you now. You’re single. The world is open to you. Take some time to feel bad but don’t stay there too long. Start working on you, meeting your own needs and living your best life. I promise you’ll be okay. You’ve got this. 😊
Lol when you’re ex is narcissistic and has discarded you. You just look weak and pathetic in their eyes. sometimes they will take you back for the joy or further tormenting you or ignore you because they find joy in your suffering. Why would you want someone in your life that threw you away like thrash. Men who try to use the no contact rule to get someone back is a bit sad. Shows you have no respect for yourself. Be a king not kid.
I don't have a fear of going back to dating. I just feel like crap after. I don't have issues with talking to women. I met really nice Croatian girl and we started to kiss at her place. She wanted more but I couldn't do it. I felt like a bitch for few days after.😢
Sorry to hear you’re having a bad time. What if I said the best way to get them back is to first lose them? Would you do it? I don’t know if your ex will come back, no one can tell that. But for right now they asked you to leave them alone, so give it to them my friend. I know it’s painful but it’s all can do right now. Go be with family, friends and go for long walks in nature. I promise you’ll be okay if you do the work on yourself. Stay strong 💪💪💪
I hear you buddy. My friend, you can’t show her anything. You have to show yourself. I know it feels weird and counter intuitive but you can’t out logic feelings. Your ex feels how they feel so you have to let them be. It’s going to suck for sometime but that’s okay because you WILL BE OKAY. The best thing to do with your ex is nothing. The best thing to do for yourself is everything.
Honestly, both Nick and Rory have been a blessing these past couple of months.
Thank you for everything you guys are doing ❤❤❤🙏
LOL at the direct callouts!
They’re gone
I have broke my NC after 2 months because I know I become needy and become toxic, I ask for forgiveness just to let her know I'm not that kind of person she might think. I'm back at NC again in 4 days now. I want to recover at this breakup, but still a part of me still want her because I know she's a good person.
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a tough time Jor.
What you’re feeling is perfectly normal. Agree to the breakup and let her be.
In the meantime, focus on you and give yourself all the love you need. Work on the stuff you go wrong, level up, buy new clothes, start new hobbies, meet new people.
I hope you feel better.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Yes im doing all of those right now. But i really don't know why would i still pray for us to be reconciled again. Maybe a prayer is powerful and i hope that i could move on so I'll be ready if she comes back or someone will come and understands that leaving someone else is not an option when things can be talked together. Thank you for your kind words. More power to your channel
@@jorbald1807 cause Ur tiny unused brain is tricking U. Don't chase women chase Ur passion Ur aim.... There are many more big better fish out there.
@Unbounded Creator I'm already good now. Started talking to other women and continuing my life. All I can say is don't get stuck you'll definitely lose.
You are spot on with everything you said and I couldn’t argue one point cause you’re right!
Appreciate the kind words Jason.
I hope you’re well.
Thank you for your advices they have helped me a lot these past weeks. Enjoy Scotland! Greetings from Brazil
I’m happy to hear that and I’m glad. You’re making positive steps.
I’ll do my best to enjoy Scotland.
Have a great day. 😊
The shots at coach Adrain, damn! lol
Life’s a lot easier when you don’t give a f*ck my friend 🤣
Appreciate your honesty 🙏👍🏼🙌🏼
Awesome video .. I’m going through a bad break up and your really helping me so thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻💫💫🌈🌈
I hope you’re feeling a little bit better today Claire. Never quit 😊😊💪💪
@@TheLoveFix-Nick thank you great advice 🙏🏻🙏🏻
nice video nick!i do nc for this time 40 days...its not easy but its geting better..i agree with the suzan winters...chanel.also i like lucia the art of love..is very clever and true!!take care mate!!!i love edimbro!!i lived once there!!!
Well done buddy. Stay on your purpose 😊😊💪💪
Wow! You're really good!
Great vid bro keep it up👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you Deezy. I hope you’re well.
Well mine is already in a "long distance rebound relationship" so there is no point.
Same
@@LyraxPH Finally found someone in the same boat lol Mine wants to meet up, but I'm not emotionally ready to.
Robins nest I’m sorry to hear that buddy.
Rather than internalising it, what do you think it says about your ex?
@@TheLoveFix-Nick Within a month of breaking up, and discussing working things out, she ended up sleeping with two people (including the rebound). The relationship was 3 years long. She has BPD, so can't handle abandonment, and is extremely impulsive. After finding out from her, I went no contact several times within the last month or so, but she has reached out numerous times, wanting to meet up and breadcrumbing me. She wants her cake and eat it.
I’m sorry to hear that man and I know this must be very tough for you.
Some honest advice. It’s not your problem to fix. Her having BPD is her problem. Her rebounding is a reflection of her own insecurities.
This is less to do with you and more to do with her.
Given what you know now, why would you want someone who’s got more baggage than an airport?
It’s all about you now. You’re single. The world is open to you. Take some time to feel bad but don’t stay there too long. Start working on you, meeting your own needs and living your best life.
I promise you’ll be okay. You’ve got this. 😊
Lol when you’re ex is narcissistic and has discarded you. You just look weak and pathetic in their eyes. sometimes they will take you back for the joy or further tormenting you or ignore you because they find joy in your suffering. Why would you want someone in your life that threw you away like thrash. Men who try to use the no contact rule to get someone back is a bit sad. Shows you have no respect for yourself. Be a king not kid.
I don't have a fear of going back to dating. I just feel like crap after. I don't have issues with talking to women. I met really nice Croatian girl and we started to kiss at her place. She wanted more but I couldn't do it. I felt like a bitch for few days after.😢
I can not lose my bestfriend please help me somebody 😔💔
Please we’ve been together for 3 years and been through so much.. please help me get my bestfriend back😞 please
Sorry to hear you’re having a bad time.
What if I said the best way to get them back is to first lose them? Would you do it?
I don’t know if your ex will come back, no one can tell that. But for right now they asked you to leave them alone, so give it to them my friend. I know it’s painful but it’s all can do right now.
Go be with family, friends and go for long walks in nature. I promise you’ll be okay if you do the work on yourself.
Stay strong 💪💪💪
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I get scared sometimes..😞idk why and it puts me further and further down this dark hole I’m in😞
How can I show her I’m better ???? If I’m not supposed to reach out ? 😞please help me
I hear you buddy.
My friend, you can’t show her anything. You have to show yourself.
I know it feels weird and counter intuitive but you can’t out logic feelings. Your ex feels how they feel so you have to let them be.
It’s going to suck for sometime but that’s okay because you WILL BE OKAY.
The best thing to do with your ex is nothing. The best thing to do for yourself is everything.
non sense
@Alma, care to elaborate?