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Hello Filipina pea. How are you doing today? I have two quick curious questions about the cost of food in the Philippines. ( Specifically in the Bulacan provinces) Is it true that food is cheap to buy by USD? (Getting more quantity over quality) And is there a website online that gives you the latest update or better picture on prices on food over there?
Thank for asking Brandon! Typically, food in the grocery store is equal to (and sometimes a little higher) than in the west, but food at the local public markets can often be purchased WAY less than anywhere else, but with very limited selections. As far as I know, there’s no database of food prices, though 😔
I'm American who married a Filipina. She is the nicest most kind hearted person I have ever known. She is also very pretty too though she doesn't think so. We have been together for 12 years now and hope to stay together for the rest of our lives.
Faithful...they spoil you..all while working from home in covid... I'm not allowed in kitchen...she even wakes up to see if im hungry... she was from caloocan... now san jose ca.... last year grossed 145k...usd... last year 179k.... smart as a whip...doesnt want a dime from my millions... makes her own...damn priceless... but get agrivated I am retired and make more then she does goofing off..... but it's all mine...is your wife like that???
I don’t care if she has had 10 ex-boyfriends or 2 children who she raised as her “younger siblings”. The women overthere are still 1,000,000 times better than those pale whale feminists who demand to marry men with the wealth of Elon Musk.
I married my filipina at age 52 and now three years married, i am one truly blessed man! I will just point one thing out I believe filipinas have over western women, that is filipinas seem to have the two ingredients for lasting love, that being commitment and dedication, characteristics I share as well. I know there are snakes in all cultures, but if you are blessed to find a good filipina you are blessed indeed. I won't even get into the beauty of a filipina. I am a permanent resident in the Philippines and don't plan to ever reside anywhere else. Great videos Pea I enjoy them :-)
@@brianjohnson9456 I once stayed at a native's home in Batangas that's $25 USD a month for rent. I paid $50 for the hospitality and no one in the house wanted the money at first and started crying. I gave $100 just because I thought it'll help and they stretched it to 6 months. Poverty is crazy but people are happy there. Just protect your pockets!
It is always good until she has a kid and has been in the U.S for 10 years. Once that happens most of them leave their husband for another man that have secretly been seeing for years.
My son married a Filipina and she is kind and thoughtful and a real sweetheart. She is a wonderful mother that is a good teacher to my granddaughter and I love her dearly for the joy she brings to my family!
I've been married to a Filipina lady for over 12 years and over the years I've been patient and understanding with her insecurities knowing she was in a different culture and country! And have always treated her with respect and kindness!! I could care less what her bra size is or if there's some junk in the trunk, I measure her how she treats me and what's in her heart NOT how fancy she looks!! I'm proud of her and her achievements adapting to our culture and I wouldn't think of measuring her up to an American woman!!! There's NO comparison in my book!! After being married to two different American woman for a total of 40 years, SHE WINS HANDS DOWN!! I'm in my "Golden years" now and she takes care of me like a king!! I want for nothing and couldn't have found a more loving woman!! God truly blessed me!! My last step in life will be moving over to her country which I've been to twice, and set her up in her own home which she owns and where I can draw my last breath smiling, quietly, with her loving family there to watch over her after I'm gone!! And by the way I'm Not "diluted" In my thinking!! She deserves this as she's the ONLY woman that has ever treated me with love and respect ever in my life!! (Hands Down) American woman just don't get it!! sorry, but from day one they've always been demanding, selfish, immature and self centered!! Even though I busted my ass to provide all their needs, I always came in last!! The Lord has truly blessed me and my prayers to him always reflect that!!..........
I'm Aussie, married to a Filipina who is a native Higaonon tribeswoman in Mindanao, and living in Cagayan de Oro with her. She is a fluent speaker of English and five Filipino languages. She is 56 years old, and I am 64. She had 7 daughters with her first husband, a Filipino, who died n 1999 aged only 34. She was pregnant just after she turned 17. After my first wife died in Australia in 2015, I met her sister in my hometown, and she introduced us. Her second husband, an American 22 years older than her, had suffered a stroke in 2010, was bedridden, and she nursed him until he died in late 2016. When we first chatted she told me her story, and I told her mine, and our relationship blossomed quickly, communicators. We met online in March 2017, she came to me in Australia in late April 2017, and we married there in June 2017. I realized she wanted to work but could not do so in Australia, and she had trouble with the cold winters where I lived. So I decided to retire and move to the Philippines with her. We have a small house and she runs a family business producing made-to-order furniture. Her five surviving daughters have one son and five daughters of their own between them. My wife looks more like 40 than 56. She is 5 feet 2 inches and actually her breast size is in the Caucasian range (somewhere close to D). She has beautiful "small eyes", a round face and a small nose. Yes, she has dark armpits and some hair on the upper lip, and all her teeth are false. So what? It's the heart that really matters in the end! She is loyal to a tee, hard working, and always helps those worse off than her when she can. We are too old for more children, and our relationship is not based on sex. I have copped the occasional flak online from Aussie guys who say "Why are you in the Philippines? Couldn't get an Aussie hey?". I love my wife, she loves me, and we both changed our lives to be together. QED!
You have that totally correct, it doesn't matter how many children, husbands, boyfriends or whatever, who cares! What matters is happiness and I will be back in the Philippines 31st March to join my lady.
Biology doesn' t discriminate. But, they' re at least feminine and not infected with feminazi bs, like in the west. We( the men) are simple beings and therefore- we' re not hard, to please. That' s the art, which our( delusional) women have forgotten. "Be a woman and we' ll be your men".
I have a Filipina fiance who is 41 and looks like she is in her 20's. She is so beautiful, though she doesn't think so. She has even thought she was ugly because of the cultural stigmas you talked about. I remind her how beautiful she is daily even when I showed her pictures to my American coworkers they thought she was beautiful as well and I told her that. She is not only beautiful she is so kind, caring and smart. She knows I love her inside and out and we are looking forward to be married soon. Thanks for your videos and the insight that helps me love her even more.
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My wife is in her early seventies and is still wrinkle-free. Though I still feel attracted to her, her real beauty is on the inside.
Dear Pea, I am awestruck and swept away by your candor, maturity, and insight. You are a very rare and shining gem. I hope that your man knows and appreciates what a treasure you are. Incredible sense of humor too.
I must've REALLY been blessed when I met my asawa then; the night we met she was upfront with me about her past -- her ENTIRE past. That she had a child out of wedlock to a Filipino, based on the typical false promises. That she'd had her share of boyfriends -- three steadies altogether, I was the fourth. And one thing she and I both had in common -- being so tired of having our hearts broken we weren't looking for anyone at all. Such an irony that only four months later we were married -- with a LOT to learn about each other, but it wasn't for lack of knowledge about each other's past. I guess her honesty -- or perhaps OUR honesty -- set the stage for a successful marriage of 42 years. May God rest her soul.
Listening to Pea describe all those fears, it hit me that she must be going through that as well! Makes me wish I could give her a friendly bear hug, tell her everything will be okay, she will meet someone and have her happily ever after! Thank you for posting what must be a very personal video for you Pea.
Oh, one more thing Pea. As far as I'm concerned, you don't need to worry about your body/looks. You are a very beautiful woman! I'm not just referring to your arm pits!
She can pick and choose as she like on a very big table of opportunities. 868K views on this video alone as we speak, good looking, perfect english. I think her situation is exactly as she likes it to be and totally by choice.
A different perspective: my wife and her filipina friends went on a road trip to Dallas to go shopping,about a 300 mile total trip. All the other husbands kept calling their wives to see when they would be home. At 9:30 I laid down on the couch and fell asleep.Next morning Gerda told me about the calls and asked why I didn't call. Honey, I trust you and knew you'd be home when you got home. If something happened you would have called me.Why stress over something that shouldn't be stressed over? I'm almost 60 and Honey is 48. Not kids anymore and trust has been earned.
Women also like it when you check in to see if she was okay. The way most fillipinas i know would think is the other husbands called, why not mine. Is he cheating😁😂🤣
You are not alone. All I can say is don’t let your wife join a Philippina organization or you may loose her. I had to put my foot down and told her to choose. Sometimes I think all philippina’s are gay as they show it all to each other.
Wow, Thank you so much for the insight.. I have finally met "the one" , she has shared some of these fears with me. She is past the "expiration date" as you said, has a child, but she is honest, beautiful on the inside and out. I watch all of your videos to get a better insight in your culture. You are an inspiration. Keep up the good work.
Pea, this was a great episode. It really hurts to know that Filipina women have such feelings of being expendable, even at the top of their beauty. You are beautiful people both inside and out. Thanks for being so honest and transparent. I love your content.
Okay, my wife and I enjoyed this like we enjoy so many of your videos. That said, we found your examples a bit weird. The armpit thing especially. My Filipina looked at me and said, WHAT? Now, admittedly my wife and I are not your typical Filipina / Western man relationship. That we will both readily admit. We met at the UCSD. She an Accounting and Finance student and me, an EE student. But, she is a Filipina born and raised in the Philippines. Not just that, she was a girl raised in The Province. She's from Negros Oriental. The very first College Graduate in her family. The entire family sacrificed for her. Recognizing her potential and all pitching in to support it. When she applied for and was granted a full scholarship to UCSD based on her academics her family was in shock. But, she was still a young Filipina from The Province. And, getting that young, intelligent girl to let down her guard took quite a bit of persistence. She was so shy it was something I had never encountered before. I thought, how can a girl with so much intelligence be so shy and demure? I discovered it was my uniform. I was an ROTC student. Specifically, Marine ROTC. She was fascinated AND totally intimidated. Long story short, my Filipina became an incredibly accomplished professional. A Corporate CFO here in the USA. And, the wife of a career military man and mother of 4 children. And, she will tell anyone who listens that as a child growing up in The Province she never ever imagined such a thing was ever possible. I am one very Proud and Lucky man to have been so fortunate to have met and married this incredible Filipina from The Province.
I really enjoy your channel. After almost 10 years of marriage, I still reassure my magandang asawa na babae that I will always love her and have no plans to trade her off. A good Filipina is a treasure to be kept and show off to your friends and family.
Thanks for making this video. It helped me understand what happened to break off a serious relationship I had. It wasn't with a Filipina, but I think your perspectives, or at least some, apply far more broadly than just Fiipinas. It's almost like you were saying the exact words my ex said, in terms of fearing I'd leave her. I wanted to offer a counter perspective addressing what you said about "fear nothing much prevents [a guy] leaving for another new option." There are many reasons a guy wouldn't leave. The biggest is (some) guys can recognize and respect loyalty plus sacrifice. Guys and girls have inverse power when it comes to age. Girls have the most power when they're young, and this decreases as they age. With guys it's the opposite, since the older a guy is (before being too old) the more wisdom, resources, and ability he likely has. So when a female 'gives herself' to a guy the guy often values that especially if he isn't yet well established. Quality and caring guys would continue valuing and respecting that even as both people aged. Second, nobody can turn back the clock on life experiences. So a guy knows he can never have the same experience with someone else because he will age and change all his circumstances (and abilities) as time goes on. That means that regardless of his female partner aging, she remains in his mind for experiences at key times of his life. No new replacement could do that. Not all guys are the same, though. I'm sure there is some good reason to have that "replacement fear" for females. That's why it's important females choose wisely. Some personality types are less likely to hop around than others.
I’ve been with my Philippines girlfriend for three years. She is the most wonderfully delightful woman I’ve ever met. Her friends and family are such friendly welcoming people you could ever meet. Life has been great since meeting her, I’m so lucky.
A few years back I went into a coffee shop . The server was a Filipina who had limited English , obviously very recently in canada , it was -30 degree's that day and I asked how long she had been in this country. She replied ,10 days , quite a temp shock . Being old enough to be her grandfather I didn't feel that she would feel I was to forward if I engaged in conversation I chatted with her about her coming to this country , and she told me she came to get married . I remarked on her having a fiance , and she said she had not met anyone yet , so I told her I thought it might take a bit longer than the 6 months before her visa ran out to meet,fall in love and marry. She replied that she was going to meet someone and marry , and he would never have reason to regret it , that she would learn to love him , but it was not necessary beforehand . Couple years later I ran into her in a grocery store , with a big , bearded Caucasian guy he was pushing a baby carriage and she was expecting another . The guy looked very content and paternal and I thought she was making him the happiest man on earth. On a side note in the same store that day I saw 2 other Filipina women , with Canadian husband's , all looked like it was love . My stepson has had some poor relationships , and my wife keeps saying that she wishes he and our daughter would just meet some nice partner from the Philippines . She thinks that a spouse from there is the best chance of happiness
I have been to the Philippines twice and enjoy being there each time, my last visit I met the love of my life, she is beautiful and has a heart of gold!
My brother moved to the phillipines to be with his fiancé that’s why I watch your videos to get to know your culture better for when I visit them! And I love your humor! You are knowledgeable about the cultures you talk and compare about! Lots of love from Canada❤
Amazing video! Makes me want a Filipina woman in my life more just so I can prove to her that perception of herself to be not wrong and not something to worry about. I don’t think any Filipina is unattractive at all! I guess I’m smitten. It’s nice to know these things though. It will help me understand Filipinas better. I want to show them not only respect, but also compassion. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong with them. That’s why I’m on a Christian Fililipina dating website. They are,as a whole, just as good if not a woman that is best suited for me.
Some of nothing but pretty little charming con artists with partners and kids at home while fleecing gullible love struck foreigners. Good ones are worth it, but online most are out for money.
Was married to a Filipina ( Imelda Baysa) from Samar for 7+ years, I met her in Subic Bay.....long story short we divorced and she’s happier, she got remarried and moved back home, I wasn’t willing to live in the Philippines away from home, she was and still beautiful and most important HAPPY. And I’m HAPPY as well, I still love the Philippines
Times flyes, it was 5-6 months ago when I first discored this channel and it has reaaally grown and in 4 days I'll flight to the Philippines to meet my Filipina, we have been communicating almost every day for the last 4 months :) Thanks Pea I was really depressed with women here cause those last 3 years I haven't been able to find at least an average one, this is crazy. So yeah, lets surf, buy a motorcycle, buy good food, meet her family and maybe getting married
Haha! Finally. After beeing together with my girl for 10 years I get the instruction manual. Thank you so much. We were both laughing hard at your tips. You nailed it all 100% !
The "insecurities" explain why my wife says "you know I love you, right?" a million times a day! There is nothing she should be insecure about! I'd be crazy to leave her by the side of the road and get a new model. She's the best ride I've ever had!
You are truly an "old soul" with a magnetic personality. Your teaching abilities far outweigh most vloggers and I'm highly anticipating your new book. 3 Thumbs Up!!
Truly amazing video. I'm visually impaired. Would be nice if you did a talk on attitude of Filipino women on Xpats with disabilities. Thanks Filipino pea.
I'm 34 and looking for marraige and family of my own and always find Filipina women very attractive. Congrats on your ten years of marriage and happy new year to everyone.
I'm married to a Filipina (from Cebu), and I can say that everything in this video is absolutely true. You'll never find a better woman than a Filipina
I’m really trying to understand my wife better. We’ve been fighting but this video makes me want to learn more and treat her like the queen she is! Thank you
This video just made me fall further in love with my Filipino. I had no idea about most of this. Thank you for making this video this really helped me a lot to understand what my fiancé said to me in the beginning of our relationship.
I married a Filipina 4 years older than me, the differences in culture was a blast, so many things to learn and discover. After 30 years and one child together I would do it all over again. Our relationship has been based on respect for each others, great communication and sex being great but not the apogee of our love. I have seen her grow from a shy girl to an incredible business woman successfully operating 5 businesses over the years. Today most people believe I am with a younger girl by 20 years at least and are shocked with disbelief when she reveals her age. My observation about filipino women is that they are extremely family oriented, strong, hard working, to the point and loving. I dont envy my Canadian friends relationship one bit. Oh yes, almost forgot, I still dont eat adidas, helmets and ballout but the rest of the cuisine is awesome. My love for her has no bound.
Hi sweetie! I enjoy your channel. I’ve been married now for 34 years to my lovely province girl. She is the love of my life!! A blessing from above! My lovely bride is sweet kind hard working, funny, a great wife, wonderful friend, and an awesome mom! Even after all these years she is still a lil insecure about her looks and English. I tell her she is more beautiful now than the day I met her! She is a nurse here in California with almost 30 years on the job. No one asks her to repeat herself so almost everyone understands, she is just insecure about her English. Any way I feel very blessed. Y’all have a great day
The best thing that ever happened to me with women was to marry my beautiful Pinay... She's by far the best wife in the world, and yes, she didn't realize how beautiful she is!
Having lived in San Francisco for a lot of my life I dated Filipina ladies almost exclusively…I absolutely loved them! Some of the most beautiful and genuine ladies out there!! 😍❤️😍
I have been binge watching your videos over the last few days and they are FANTASTIC! I spent some time in Vincenzo A Sagun, attending a traditional Subanen wedding for my Western "brother from another mother". I'm so glad that I found your channel as I was considering singing a rendition of "My Way" on my next trip to the Province!!! You may have saved my life Pea - thanks!!! By the way, you are hilarious! I almost spat coffee all over my laptop when you broke from "happily ever after" and into paranoia about crow's feet etc. :) Keep the videos coming please!!
As a Western man, this video just broke my heart. I had no idea that Pinays thought those horrible things about themselves. We like you exactly as you are. There are many shallow and insincere people on both sides that make it difficult for those of us who are looking for love and a real romance. Sex is important but, in the long term, it's much more important to find your best friend.
I need to go to the Philippines ASAP. The women their seems so nice, sooo pretty, and have traditional values, unlike their western counterparts who don't know how to make a man feel like a man. To the filipinas- We thank you so much for rescuing our sanity from these western women. Thank you my beautiful filipinas❣️
There are downsides. As she said in the video, a lot of filipina women cheat, are very jealous of your female friends and how you spend your time when she's not there, culture clashes are very real thing, and it's very hard at first to find things to talk about so be prepared for some very awkward dates. Most importantly, if you marry a filipina, you marry her whole family, which often means being the pension plan for her unemployed mother and alcoholic father [that's quite common in poor families here], and the main source of income for her five unemployed siblings, their partners and their children. That really is a thing. Unless you're wealthy [by Western standards] and can afford to be her whole family's breadbasket and medical insurance, your best bet is to date a Filipina who is cosmopolitan, relatively well-travelled and middle class who doesn't need your money, but if you're 50 and want to date a twenty-something, a girl like that won't be very interested in you. Filipinas are very committed to the family, which means the needs of her parents, grandparents and siblings and nephews/nieces are likely to come before yours even if she genuinely loves you. It's common for the Filipinas relatives to take advantage and try and exploit as much as possible from her Western bf/husband and become increasingly greedy, and the Filipina is in a very difficult situation, under pressure to give her family what they demand, and under pressure from her partner to stop giving their money away to relatives, especially if they're lazy or have alcohol or gambling addictions.
the one thing I realize some of us Western men have in common with Filipinas. Many of us have been used, taken advantage of, and then discarded by women in the West that makes us apprehensive to make a commitment to a Filipina. In our mind, "why would someone so beautiful want to stay with me?" using American standards, we have little money, we have flaws that cannot be hidden, we are basically discarded goods. So when quite possibly the most beautiful girl you have ever dated (not judged by blindness of love, look at photos LOL) says they want a forever relationship with you, a Western man can get scared. "is it happening again, how long before as Pea put it, a shiny new model is on the lot?" Leaving you lighter in the wallet and emptier in the heart. As an amputee it is my greatest fear. That one morning, a younger, wealthier, healthier stallion will entice that love and she will walk away. But it's a fear I must overcome, because the only way to never have your heart broken is to never risk it in the first place. That's creates an even emptier life.
My friend. Being disabled myself i understand you. When i was very young and somewhat socially inept. Rejection was 1 of my biggest fears until my dad taught me that im the only 1 of me in the entire world and im the best at being me so if someone else cant see that then wish them well and move on because life is to short to be worried about what MIGHT happen instead of going out and SEEING what WILL happen. That loved and lost thing is a load of crap in my opinion. Instead id rather say to myself i tried instead pf looking back later and saying i wish i had. Holy Fathers blessings for peace, love and happiness😁
I agree LC, Also if you bring a Pinay to US it can be a mistake, unless she REALLY loves you. That's what happened to me. After being here a while and connected with Pinay friends, a job, etc. it was over. We had are difficulties and hoped we could get better, but I am permanently just a friend because I can't compete with the younger richer men here: I'm 61, she's 41 and dating a 50ish guy. I trusted she loved me but I'm not so sure. I think of going to PH and try again but I'm like you. I'm not sure, I have some money and stability but a younger expat come along and she may be gone. Unless she REALLY loves me...but is it me or what I can do for her. I understand the security and money are part of why a woman would want me but is it ME at all? That's what haunts me and I fear always will.
I ended up breaking up with the Filipina that I went to PH to meet. I did not give her a son, she had one already. She was not 30, she was 26. I did not compare her to other models and I do not think she did that to me. What brought us to the end was the fact that she became too comfortable. She thought she could manipulate me and get her way in everything. She used tampo as a weapon. I warned her many times and gave her more chances than I should have, because the immigration process was more complex than I imagined. So I fell short and I thought maybe that was aggravating her. She pushed me too far and I was like: Bye. I must disagree about true love. It is not something that you find. It is something that two people build together when they have a dedication to the relationship they are trying to build together. One day I will find the right one. It is just a question of if I will find her online while I still live in the USA or if I will be living in PH when I find her. The pandemic has made things harder than normal. A lot more scammers than I remember, plus people that are truly in need (I am sure).
I hear Filipina girls are scared a different Filipina will steal their man. Ladies let me tell you if a man truly loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Just take your time getting to know him to make sure he’s real and serious and not just fooling around or playing games
I am so beyond happy with my Filipina I encourage her to communicate with her family back home and abroad I look forward to when I am around the same group of people that have made her the success she is I pray for a woman like this the lord gave me far beyond what I asked and she likewise.
Know that in America, the Women freak when they see an American Man look to Asia for a Woman and Wife. The competition shows up their own inadequacies. I was fired when my white female boss found out that I was dating a Filipina from a neighboring department. I was a Supervisor in an Insurance company and a week earlier was told how important I was to the department. I also body guarded that lady to and from her car after having to terminate some guy. Losing that job was a real hardship but that Filipina from Pangasinan kept me going; we married.- she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Her family was already here when we met and they have been great too.
You should have checked your companies policy on dating. You may not have been fired for dating a Filipino, but that you were dating someone in company, and if you were in a position superior to the woman... even worse for you.
I find it funny how women send 'dirty' jobs and production facilities to other countries. It is okay yo outsource everything THEY don't like. Yet when guys outsource their dating choices western women get upset.
Filipinas are the best and not just on the outside in looks but with a heart of Gold. I'm coming back next year to marry a beautiful filipina. Love your culture and country. The best place on earth.
Actually, girls from your country are mostly caring,devoted and have general "good treatment" for their men. :) Many of them sweet and good looking,too.. Unfortunately,I dont meet much of them here,mostly Chinese woman - its not the same. I should go to the Phillipines...:)
... The bar and discos are not the place to look for a decent partner.. You get trash when you rummage through the garbage bin. Find a working Filipina..it means she is Family oriented..
Especially those in the provinces are very humble, loving, and devoted. I married a wonderful woman from leyte. Neither her or her family ask anything from me other than to love her.
Ate tama ka. Sa English language naman it is a mindset and practice. So many say “nosebleed”, that is why they don’t learn. Sarado na ang Isip nila para matuto. You are very good in English. Maganda Sana if makahanap sila ng gaya mo na, they can practice with. Then, Perhaps, everything they read from now on should be in English, whether it is the traditional newspaper and magazines or Google, watch English movies or vlogs. Another idea is to at least try to Think in English everyday, in whatevever they do. May God Bless You especially as you teach and help a lot of us in your vlogs.
My dear pea you nailed it yet again. Soooo so true. I have lived in the Phillipines and dated a few before I found the right one. Your comments are so true to the point. I’m still working on building her confidence after 7 years. We will get there
I love Filipinas! I love them so much that I married one! We have been happily married for 36 years. We have two beautiful children. I can relate to everything you said in the video. Even though I am a western man, I consider myself a Pilipino. I have visited the Philippines and love the people there. Having traveled the world and met many people, the people there are some of the warmest and welcoming on earth. A man with only a handful of rice would share half with you. If you are here considering a Pilipino wife, I think you can find one that will make you happy. Just return the devotion she will give you and understand and respect the differences in the culture. Peace!
I met my first generation Filipino wife at the age of 20 and married her in I think less than 6 months and I'm still married to her 25 years later and she is still the beautiful exotic great woman I met 25 years ago and she is a great woman, wife, mother and friend I've ever known and I don't regret 1 second of my time with her and love her more every day
I just started dating a Filipina who’s from Batangas and she lives here in the Usa. I have never met a women like her before and she amazing so far! Thank god she’s very religious and still holds onto her traditions even after living and working away from home. She loves to cook and treats me like a king. I’m trying to take it slow with her and not fall in love with her too quickly but god she’s is irresistible. She’s very into me just as much as I am which I haven’t experienced from a western girl since the high school days. I feel very blessed!
I wish I could find a filipina who speaks like you. I don't know how you can speak so good like this !! Anyway thanks a lot for this video that says a lot about filipinas and what's behind the scene ...
I am a Native American and spent some time in the Philippines back in 1979-81. I absolutely loved the Philippines. I felt safe and at home there. I was mostly in Olongapo and Manila.
Outstanding English language fluency. Pity a lot of the people in England or the USA don't speak English this well. How did you manage to get it this polished ? Well done anyway.
Agreed, I've been to England and British English is so much different from American English. You can understand what each other is saying but sometimes there are differences in actual meanings of the exact same words. In England to knock someone up is to call them or knock on their door, in America it means to get them pregnant so imagine the embarrassment an American coworker of mine had when her British boyfriend asked her what time to knock her up the next morning.😁😉👍
I have been contemplating traveling to the Philippines to look for a wife for years. Your channel has made me decide to do so. Thank you very much Pea. God bless you.
Must be from the oz. I haven't heard someone say "good on you " except that we have friends in Australia and picked it up here in America from talking to them. I love a good ozzy accent. And Irish and Scottish work well for me too. I find cultures to be something very worth studying. I do like the filipina accent also. I am so tired of western women and their petty jealousy. It's killed my relationships in the past. I'm loyal to a fault. It's like western women use me and dump me and make me pay child support. I'm really ready for a good woman in my life. Maybe this is the way. Anyway, I'm just guessing that maybe you were from Australia. Got a bit carried away with the rant and ramble there. I'm from Missouri in the middle of the USA.
Filipinas also fear being rejected for having dark brown skin, which ironically most foreign men find more attractive than the white(r) skin of western women.
Absolutely True! I married to a beautiful Filipina and she is so pretty to me, I think I've met my angel! Pea, I met her when she was 61. So much love in my heart for her O.M.G. alot you say is so true but there is still Love for our cultures when we work on the perfect marriage that is yet to be. Some men don't care if you are a Divorcee with a child or two. There other things more important to love other than being left behind. Loyalty and kindness eclipse a lot of unimportant things.!!
Most guys I know don't really care about skin color. While that which they do care about differs depending on the guy, I can't remember the last time I've heard a guy speak about skin color. Now, the softness and suppleness of a lady's skin to the touch... oh, yes!!! We like well cared for skin!
Dearest Pea, thank you for another amazing video post. I have spent some time while in the Navy at Subic in your amazing country. While at the time we were "under orders" not to marry or even say "I love you" to a Filipina (constituted a verbal contract), i did meet and spend virtually all of my off time with an amazing Filipina and her family. I was very respectful to her and to her family and when i got back on the boat and headed back to the US, im sure i broke her heart as much as mine was broke. I went back to Olongapo to find her some time before the mountain erupted, but was told she had married a service man from Clark and went home with him. Not marrying her has been my biggest regret. As you can see, some thirty years later, I still think of her. I am certain i would have had an amazing life with her. To use an analagy from your post, now i am the Ford Pinto and the Filipina is the Lexus...what i wouldnt give for a small breasted, chicken skin underarmed, committed, loyal, traditional Christian Filipina now.
I'm sure there is still time, but it'll take me close to a year before I can arrive again in the PI. Once there, it would take nearly a year for that "one" Filipina to "present" herself...it's like looking for a lost key, search and search all you want, but when you've actually given up the search - poof! There it (or she) is. The right woman is not a series of boxes one must check off to find. The right one, regardless of age, background, or even location is the one who already naturally "is the right one". I am a Christ believing Christian who takes every word of God's word seriously. So right off, I'm not the usual American, at 60, I have a body count you can number on one hand have not been with a woman in 13 years, I take fidelity, loyalty and commitment extremely seriously. That woman would hold to the same beliefs as I do, have a body count as low or lower than mine, shift her loyalty to me over all others (as I would her). Finding THAT Filipina would be difficult, and I'm not certain achievable. If the global economy does not collapse between now and May of next year, I'll bring a substantial foreign investment to the Philippines and establish a Mariner High School, a Maritime Academy, a Shipping Company and a Shipbuilding yard. Filipinos are 32.6% of the world's mariners and are the lowest paid. I intend to change that through education and experience providing the means for true value and advancement on the high seas that is rewarded with proper pay, services and recognition for abilities. While I am implementing my vision for the Filipino Mariner, I'll travel the provences in search of the Philippines next generation of Merchant Marine, should I also find my Filipina at the same time, so be it. But if it happens, it will be organically and not in a desperate attempt to squelch the loneliness I feel without that necessary partner and wife....so, a nice long answer for your question about time.
The fear thing is interesting. At my old job i was in charge of compliance to reporting to a corporate environmental standard. I needed to interact with offices all over the world and each office needed to interpret the same set of rules. It was the Philippine office that had the harshest interpretation of the rules, themselves imposing rules that tried to prevent any and all stepping outside the lines outlined by original rules. It always made for a difficult 2 days, because of the time difference between Eastern time and Philippines and the Philippine office asking for at least 2 revisions to the submission. I get catholic guilt, but that was just ridiculous, because every other office was just fine with what we submitted. The fear of future trouble was ridiculous.
My lady just last night sent me a picture of her pits saying they're dark and ugly, I didn't even understand what the fuck she was talking about so I sent a gif of excessive licking. 😂
When a western man comes to find a wife there in phillipines we don’t want that of western women most been burned by that kinda woman ! We love Filipina way they are !
Omg I just started dating a Filipina working in HK. This explains so much. I know more now how to alleviate some of her fears. Thank you. You have no idea what you’ve done for me. I’m
Pea, I love your commentaries and perspective on so many subjects! As a man I must also confess that I find you very attractive…just being honest! Keep up the good work! Salamat!
Thank you for the video. it was an eye opener. I knew about a couple of the issues but was not aware of the true extent of what you call normal Filipina insecurities. I wish more Philippines dating commentators discussed this in their videos. Keep it up. well done and funny too! :)
Im State side USA. I've been intoxicated by this Filipina from the gate. She has FAMS here. I come from a successful FAM here as well. So I have to walk backward to go Forward. Im learning Tagolic and working on being a Better Human. Any Advice.. How do I win her and daughters heart???
I just recently found your channel through TH-cam recommendations and I love it! The feminist Tik Tok reactions are awesome. I'm 44 and my Filipina is 47. She's three and a half years older than me but I fell in love with her because she's such a sweet wonderful person. Next Friday is our six year anniversary and I'm going to Manila in three weeks to finally marry her. I'm so excited and can't wait to be with her and have her in my arms. ❤You got my sub
Hi... who cares about the state of armpits! All i want is someone to love and vise versa. What a lovely presentation Pea. I am moving to the Philippines once the corona havoc and travel issues are over.
The Filipina Pea, I have watched way too many videos about how the Filipina’s present themselves to a Foreigner. Putting on makeup to be as light skinned as possible. And wearing long sleeve shirts so that they don’t tan or get dark skin. Personally, I prefer a Filipina with dark skin, that’s part of the attraction to the Filipina Ladies. With that said, Foreigner men have some kind of a past, from their western worlds. Weather it be divorced with children. Or just divorced. And some unfortunately are just out for themselves. But not all are out for themselves believe it or not. I don’t know the percentages. But, looking at the videos in some of the cities, I can see why some of the Filipina ladies would have a bad opinion about most foreigners in general. Just note, that not all foreigners go to the Philippines to take advantage of the Filipina Ladies. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and videos, I’ve learned quite a lot from listening to you and from experience as well. Please continue to share your videos. You actually teach some of us some great information.
I've been talking to a Filipina for the past few weeks and I wouldn't judge her on appearance all I ask is that we love one another and accept each other's flaws.
Kaden, if you catch her in even ONE lie, end all contact. Theres zero reason for a quality Filipina to lie to you. Don't fall for that "it's their culture" bullshit. Set your expectation early. If you met her online, shes already a suspect.
It is not only Filipinas that Pea speaks of. My wonderful Chamorritta partner was the exact same insecurities. Her past and saving face was a hurdle we faced (no pun intended) together. I was the first man of any culture or country to see who she was in her eyes. Her physical insecurities came from what men told her to degrade her or bypass their own flaws. She used to believe the dark armpits, the long neck, the "masculine back" from her years of farming and hard labor, the small breasts, and all that other stuff. I learned that it's not nonsense to her mind and well-being. It took her a long time to truly believe that even a foreigner, let alone a man, can be true to our emotions and words when we say we are in love. Pea, please keep up with your videos. Your words and inspiration, and forthright candid talk brings our world closer. Any partner that hasn't already "taken you off the market" is a fool in my opinion. =D
Like your attitude. Real straightforward and informative. But here's a thought for you; "Quality can most times win over quantity ". Alot of times all the looks, and other material assets, doesn't stand up against nice attitude , good heart, and nice disposition.
In China and Korea and Thailand women over 28 are also considered to be leftovers. I m a leftover in the West. Still won't consider marriage again after divorce. I have too much to lose. I d rather keep my luxury apartment and comfortable lifestyle, even though I have to be alone. One thing I don't like about Philippines women is there are many single mothers who expect Western men to provide security for them and their kids. Not my responsibility to take care of other men's children. I m not a cuckold. Same could be said for single mothers in the West.
You are producing some exceptionally valuable content, Pea. I wish I had known about you when I started going to the Philippines back in 2017. You could have saved me a fortune lost to scammers and made my trips more successful and productive. With your valuable information, I am planning my next trip. Thanks.
Pea, an outstanding presentation, and valuable insight into the minds of our Filipina's! I love your Bell Curves graphic really hilarious! Keep up your great work! It's very much appreciated ! 😊😊😊
I am sorry that you have had those experiences and they have caused you insecurities. Western women are not all they are cracked up to be. I have been used and abandoned by them. Most have cheated on me and a couple have been physically abusive. I honestly don't know if my love has ever been reciprocated. Some men are shallow and might worry about trivial things but I believe there are men like me who just want someone to love them.
I love your content! When I retire from the Navy, in less than a year, my plan is to move to the Philippines and live off of my pension. I have been attracted to Filipina women for as long as I can remember; the hair, the skin tone, the eyes, the lips, and overall FEMININITY that they generally seem to possess. Honestly, I quite like everything about Filipinas, to include their average bust size. When it comes to the "bell curves," in my opinion, bigger is necessarily NOT better. Keep making content, Filipina Pea, I certainly enjoy it.
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Hello Filipina pea.
How are you doing today?
I have two quick curious questions about the cost of food in the Philippines. ( Specifically in the Bulacan provinces)
Is it true that food is cheap to buy by USD? (Getting more quantity over quality)
And is there a website online that gives you the latest update or better picture on prices on food over there?
hey I have a question can you post a video of the most hottest spicy peppers in the Philippines I am curious to know about it thank you
American men want to find better than, what they already have.
I'll consider that soon, dear.
Thank for asking Brandon! Typically, food in the grocery store is equal to (and sometimes a little higher) than in the west, but food at the local public markets can often be purchased WAY less than anywhere else, but with very limited selections. As far as I know, there’s no database of food prices, though 😔
I'm American who married a Filipina. She is the nicest most kind hearted person I have ever known. She is also very pretty too though she doesn't think so. We have been together for 12 years now and hope to stay together for the rest of our lives.
Do you live in the United States or in the Philippines ?
Did you go to her country?
Very good video miss.
Nice 🎉
Such a beautiful thing
Filipina women are not inferior in any way at all. To me, they are the epitome of grace and beauty.
More like a subjective view.
Faithful...they spoil you..all while working from home in covid... I'm not allowed in kitchen...she even wakes up to see if im hungry... she was from caloocan... now san jose ca.... last year grossed 145k...usd... last year 179k.... smart as a whip...doesnt want a dime from my millions... makes her own...damn priceless... but get agrivated I am retired and make more then she does goofing off..... but it's all mine...is your wife like that???
I don’t care if she has had 10 ex-boyfriends or 2 children who she raised as her “younger siblings”. The women overthere are still 1,000,000 times better than those pale whale feminists who demand to marry men with the wealth of Elon Musk.
They are literally the most beautiful women on the planet
Amen
I married my filipina at age 52 and now three years married, i am one truly blessed man! I will just point one thing out I believe filipinas have over western women, that is filipinas seem to have the two ingredients for lasting love, that being commitment and dedication, characteristics I share as well. I know there are snakes in all cultures, but if you are blessed to find a good filipina you are blessed indeed. I won't even get into the beauty of a filipina. I am a permanent resident in the Philippines and don't plan to ever reside anywhere else. Great videos Pea I enjoy them :-)
Same here. Cheers to you.
What’s it like in the Philippines? I’m hearing there’s significant poverty there? Do you work? Just wondering, let me know please. Thanks!🎯
@@brianjohnson9456 I once stayed at a native's home in Batangas that's $25 USD a month for rent. I paid $50 for the hospitality and no one in the house wanted the money at first and started crying. I gave $100 just because I thought it'll help and they stretched it to 6 months. Poverty is crazy but people are happy there. Just protect your pockets!
I'll be 52 this year. I plan to finalize my divorce and fly over there ;)
It is always good until she has a kid and has been in the U.S for 10 years. Once that happens most of them leave their husband for another man that have secretly been seeing for years.
I was dating a Filipina and this clears everything up. Thank you for the insight Pea. Dope content 💜💜💜
Thanks Quinn! 👍❤️
My son married a Filipina and she is kind and thoughtful and a real sweetheart. She is a wonderful mother that is a good teacher to my granddaughter and I love her dearly for the joy she brings to my family!
I reject all Filipinas. 10 years experience. Run Guys.
I've been married to a Filipina lady for over 12 years and over the years I've been patient and understanding with her insecurities knowing she was in a different culture and country! And have always treated her with respect and kindness!! I could care less what her bra size is or if there's some junk in the trunk, I measure her how she treats me and what's in her heart NOT how fancy she looks!! I'm proud of her and her achievements adapting to our culture and I wouldn't think of measuring her up to an American woman!!! There's NO comparison in my book!! After being married to two different American woman for a total of 40 years, SHE WINS HANDS DOWN!! I'm in my "Golden years" now and she takes care of me like a king!! I want for nothing and couldn't have found a more loving woman!! God truly blessed me!! My last step in life will be moving over to her country which I've been to twice, and set her up in her own home which she owns and where I can draw my last breath smiling, quietly, with her loving family there to watch over her after I'm gone!! And by the way I'm Not "diluted" In my thinking!! She deserves this as she's the ONLY woman that has ever treated me with love and respect ever in my life!! (Hands Down) American woman just don't get it!! sorry, but from day one they've always been demanding, selfish, immature and self centered!! Even though I busted my ass to provide all their needs, I always came in last!! The Lord has truly blessed me and my prayers to him always reflect that!!..........
Ti bad reality doesn't match your prayers
think you meant to say couldn't care less
❤️
Hook me up with her friend!
Sounds great
I'm Aussie, married to a Filipina who is a native Higaonon tribeswoman in Mindanao, and living in Cagayan de Oro with her. She is a fluent speaker of English and five Filipino languages. She is 56 years old, and I am 64. She had 7 daughters with her first husband, a Filipino, who died n 1999 aged only 34. She was pregnant just after she turned 17. After my first wife died in Australia in 2015, I met her sister in my hometown, and she introduced us. Her second husband, an American 22 years older than her, had suffered a stroke in 2010, was bedridden, and she nursed him until he died in late 2016. When we first chatted she told me her story, and I told her mine, and our relationship blossomed quickly, communicators. We met online in March 2017, she came to me in Australia in late April 2017, and we married there in June 2017. I realized she wanted to work but could not do so in Australia, and she had trouble with the cold winters where I lived. So I decided to retire and move to the Philippines with her. We have a small house and she runs a family business producing made-to-order furniture. Her five surviving daughters have one son and five daughters of their own between them. My wife looks more like 40 than 56. She is 5 feet 2 inches and actually her breast size is in the Caucasian range (somewhere close to D). She has beautiful "small eyes", a round face and a small nose. Yes, she has dark armpits and some hair on the upper lip, and all her teeth are false. So what? It's the heart that really matters in the end! She is loyal to a tee, hard working, and always helps those worse off than her when she can. We are too old for more children, and our relationship is not based on sex. I have copped the occasional flak online from Aussie guys who say "Why are you in the Philippines? Couldn't get an Aussie hey?". I love my wife, she loves me, and we both changed our lives to be together. QED!
Kudos to you for not choosing a teenager, but rather someone who's closer to you age! I believe you are happier now you have your filipina!
Who wants an Aussie, or an American, or a Brit woman? Sounds like punishment to me.
You have that totally correct, it doesn't matter how many children, husbands, boyfriends or whatever, who cares! What matters is happiness and I will be back in the Philippines 31st March to join my lady.
Love it bro
Filipina women are too hard on themselves when in reality they’re they most beautiful amazing women on earth ! Thank u for sharing!
I agree
I agree. so lovely they are
Biology doesn' t discriminate.
But, they' re at least feminine and not infected with feminazi bs, like in the west.
We( the men) are simple beings and therefore- we' re not hard, to please.
That' s the art, which our( delusional) women have forgotten.
"Be a woman and we' ll be your men".
Okey okey,
Let's not pedistalize them either.
Before you start giving them ideas too.
@@enverkudic8504 not all women in the west
I have a Filipina fiance who is 41 and looks like she is in her 20's. She is so beautiful, though she doesn't think so. She has even thought she was ugly because of the cultural stigmas you talked about. I remind her how beautiful she is daily even when I showed her pictures to my American coworkers they thought she was beautiful as well and I told her that. She is not only beautiful she is so kind, caring and smart. She knows I love her inside and out and we are looking forward to be married soon. Thanks for your videos and the insight that helps me love her even more.
My wife is in her early seventies and is still wrinkle-free. Though I still feel attracted to her, her real beauty is on the inside.
Dear Pea, I am awestruck and swept away by your candor, maturity, and insight. You are a very rare and shining gem. I hope that your man knows and appreciates what a treasure you are. Incredible sense of humor too.
I must've REALLY been blessed when I met my asawa then; the night we met she was upfront with me about her past -- her ENTIRE past. That she had a child out of wedlock to a Filipino, based on the typical false promises. That she'd had her share of boyfriends -- three steadies altogether, I was the fourth. And one thing she and I both had in common -- being so tired of having our hearts broken we weren't looking for anyone at all. Such an irony that only four months later we were married -- with a LOT to learn about each other, but it wasn't for lack of knowledge about each other's past. I guess her honesty -- or perhaps OUR honesty -- set the stage for a successful marriage of 42 years. May God rest her soul.
I don't recommend dating any women who had. Previous partners but you do hit the nail on the head
Honesty and communication... Key to any strong bond
Getting married4 months after meeting, you hardly knew each other. Luckily you did well with the lucky dip. It could easily have gone the other way.
1. Our past 3:27
2. The physical fears 4:39
3. The imaginary fear 7:06
4. Relationship fears 8:24
5. Breast size 12:28
Listening to Pea describe all those fears, it hit me that she must be going through that as well!
Makes me wish I could give her a friendly bear hug, tell her everything will be okay, she will meet someone and have her happily ever after!
Thank you for posting what must be a very personal video for you Pea.
Oh, one more thing Pea. As far as I'm concerned, you don't need to worry about your body/looks.
You are a very beautiful woman!
I'm not just referring to your arm pits!
@@mdredheadguy1979 oo mate she is very gwapa.
She can pick and choose as she like on a very big table of opportunities. 868K views on this video alone as we speak, good looking, perfect english. I think her situation is exactly as she likes it to be and totally by choice.
You cut straight to truth with no bias. You’re more wise than your years.
You think so?
A different perspective: my wife and her filipina friends went on a road trip to Dallas to go shopping,about a 300 mile total trip. All the other husbands kept calling their wives to see when they would be home. At 9:30 I laid down on the couch and fell asleep.Next morning Gerda told me about the calls and asked why I didn't call. Honey, I trust you and knew you'd be home when you got home. If something happened you would have called me.Why stress over something that shouldn't be stressed over? I'm almost 60 and Honey is 48. Not kids anymore and trust has been earned.
You get fussed at for NOT checking up on her? Now that’s love ❤️ (or dysfunctional insecurity?)
Hahahahaha
Women also like it when you check in to see if she was okay. The way most fillipinas i know would think is the other husbands called, why not mine. Is he cheating😁😂🤣
If she was 22 and you were 60 I guarantee things would be different ;)
"Trust" is a word that can be spelled out in so many different ways.
You are not alone. All I can say is don’t let your wife join a Philippina organization or you may loose her. I had to put my foot down and told her to choose. Sometimes I think all philippina’s are gay as they show it all to each other.
Wow, Thank you so much for the insight.. I have finally met "the one" , she has shared some of these fears with me. She is past the "expiration date" as you said, has a child, but she is honest, beautiful on the inside and out. I watch all of your videos to get a better insight in your culture. You are an inspiration. Keep up the good work.
You found the ‘one’? Lucky man! I wish you both the best 😊
@@TheFilipinaPea Salamat
Pea, this was a great episode. It really hurts to know that Filipina women have such feelings of being expendable, even at the top of their beauty. You are beautiful people both inside and out. Thanks for being so honest and transparent. I love your content.
What makes me really happy My 3 kids in the US calls my wife mom
The first time they called her mom my wife had tears of Joy
Okay, my wife and I enjoyed this like we enjoy so many of your videos. That said, we found your examples a bit weird. The armpit thing especially. My Filipina looked at me and said, WHAT? Now, admittedly my wife and I are not your typical Filipina / Western man relationship. That we will both readily admit.
We met at the UCSD. She an Accounting and Finance student and me, an EE student. But, she is a Filipina born and raised in the Philippines.
Not just that, she was a girl raised in The Province. She's from Negros Oriental. The very first College Graduate in her family. The entire family sacrificed for her. Recognizing her potential and all pitching in to support it. When she applied for and was granted a full scholarship to UCSD based on her academics her family was in shock. But, she was still a young Filipina from The Province.
And, getting that young, intelligent girl to let down her guard took quite a bit of persistence. She was so shy it was something I had never encountered before. I thought, how can a girl with so much intelligence be so shy and demure? I discovered it was my uniform. I was an ROTC student. Specifically, Marine ROTC. She was fascinated AND totally intimidated.
Long story short, my Filipina became an incredibly accomplished professional. A Corporate CFO here in the USA. And, the wife of a career military man and mother of 4 children. And, she will tell anyone who listens that as a child growing up in The Province she never ever imagined such a thing was ever possible.
I am one very Proud and Lucky man to have been so fortunate to have met and married this incredible Filipina from The Province.
The armpit thing is real lol trust me on that one.
I don’t know. You post almost comes across as an excuse to brag. If I didn’t know any better.
@@Jwebb-zh9gj well, if you got it, flaunt it!
Semper Fi Devil Dog, ooh rah!💯😉👍
I really enjoy your channel. After almost 10 years of marriage, I still reassure my magandang asawa na babae that I will always love her and have no plans to trade her off. A good Filipina is a treasure to be kept and show off to your friends and family.
Thanks for making this video. It helped me understand what happened to break off a serious relationship I had. It wasn't with a Filipina, but I think your perspectives, or at least some, apply far more broadly than just Fiipinas. It's almost like you were saying the exact words my ex said, in terms of fearing I'd leave her. I wanted to offer a counter perspective addressing what you said about "fear nothing much prevents [a guy] leaving for another new option." There are many reasons a guy wouldn't leave. The biggest is (some) guys can recognize and respect loyalty plus sacrifice. Guys and girls have inverse power when it comes to age. Girls have the most power when they're young, and this decreases as they age. With guys it's the opposite, since the older a guy is (before being too old) the more wisdom, resources, and ability he likely has. So when a female 'gives herself' to a guy the guy often values that especially if he isn't yet well established. Quality and caring guys would continue valuing and respecting that even as both people aged. Second, nobody can turn back the clock on life experiences. So a guy knows he can never have the same experience with someone else because he will age and change all his circumstances (and abilities) as time goes on. That means that regardless of his female partner aging, she remains in his mind for experiences at key times of his life. No new replacement could do that. Not all guys are the same, though. I'm sure there is some good reason to have that "replacement fear" for females. That's why it's important females choose wisely. Some personality types are less likely to hop around than others.
I’ve been with my Philippines girlfriend for three years. She is the most wonderfully delightful woman I’ve ever met. Her friends and family are such friendly welcoming people you could ever meet. Life has been great since meeting her, I’m so lucky.
You are very very lucky .
A few years back I went into a coffee shop . The server was a Filipina who had limited English , obviously very recently in canada , it was -30 degree's that day and I asked how long she had been in this country. She replied ,10 days , quite a temp shock . Being old enough to be her grandfather I didn't feel that she would feel I was to forward if I engaged in conversation I chatted with her about her coming to this country , and she told me she came to get married . I remarked on her having a fiance , and she said she had not met anyone yet , so I told her I thought it might take a bit longer than the 6 months before her visa ran out to meet,fall in love and marry. She replied that she was going to meet someone and marry , and he would never have reason to regret it , that she would learn to love him , but it was not necessary beforehand . Couple years later I ran into her in a grocery store , with a big , bearded Caucasian guy he was pushing a baby carriage and she was expecting another . The guy looked very content and paternal and I thought she was making him the happiest man on earth. On a side note in the same store that day I saw 2 other Filipina women , with Canadian husband's , all looked like it was love . My stepson has had some poor relationships , and my wife keeps saying that she wishes he and our daughter would just meet some nice partner from the Philippines . She thinks that a spouse from there is the best chance of happiness
I have been to the Philippines twice and enjoy being there each time, my last visit I met the love of my life, she is beautiful and has a heart of gold!
My brother moved to the phillipines to be with his fiancé that’s why I watch your videos to get to know your culture better for when I visit them! And I love your humor! You are knowledgeable about the cultures you talk and compare about! Lots of love from Canada❤
Amazing video! Makes me want a Filipina woman in my life more just so I can prove to her that perception of herself to be not wrong and not something to worry about. I don’t think any Filipina is unattractive at all! I guess I’m smitten. It’s nice to know these things though. It will help me understand Filipinas better.
I want to show them not only respect, but also compassion. There is ABSOLUTELY
NOTHING wrong with them. That’s why I’m on a Christian Fililipina dating website. They are,as a whole, just as good if not a woman that is best suited for me.
Very well said
Filipinos are some of the most beautiful women in the world and any man who finds himself with one should be very proud.
Well said, Rick! 😊
I found mine 3 years ago, she's pretty as a butterfly and I'm never giving her up.
Could not agree more Rick I constantly say the same thing. My Filipina girl friend is the BEST.
Some of nothing but pretty little charming con artists with partners and kids at home while fleecing gullible love struck foreigners.
Good ones are worth it, but online most are out for money.
I definitely am! We’ve been together over 4 months now (:
Was married to a Filipina ( Imelda Baysa) from Samar for 7+ years, I met her in Subic Bay.....long story short we divorced and she’s happier, she got remarried and moved back home, I wasn’t willing to live in the Philippines away from home, she was and still beautiful and most important HAPPY. And I’m HAPPY as well, I still love the Philippines
Times flyes, it was 5-6 months ago when I first discored this channel and it has reaaally grown and in 4 days I'll flight to the Philippines to meet my Filipina, we have been communicating almost every day for the last 4 months :)
Thanks Pea I was really depressed with women here cause those last 3 years I haven't been able to find at least an average one, this is crazy. So yeah, lets surf, buy a motorcycle, buy good food, meet her family and maybe getting married
Haha! Finally. After beeing together with my girl for 10 years I get the instruction manual. Thank you so much. We were both laughing hard at your tips. You nailed it all 100% !
Hahahahaha
Better late than never, I suppose 😂
The "insecurities" explain why my wife says "you know I love you, right?" a million times a day! There is nothing she should be insecure about! I'd be crazy to leave her by the side of the road and get a new model. She's the best ride I've ever had!
If only she knew that. She SHOULD know it, but she still needs constant reassurance. It’s irritating but sweet at the same time, right? 😊
Maybe her love language is "words of affirmation". Pea is on target; does she know? Tell her multiple times daily.
How sweet of u😊 how lucky to both of u for having each other.
@@jonadalosa2276 hi thr
Dating American women I can not even relate never had such a situation before.
You are truly an "old soul" with a magnetic personality. Your teaching abilities far outweigh most vloggers and I'm highly anticipating your new book. 3 Thumbs Up!!
I’d love to write a book - someday! But not with this many comments to respond to - at this rate, maybe ....... 2035? 😊
Truly amazing video. I'm visually impaired. Would be nice if you did a talk on attitude of Filipino women on Xpats with disabilities. Thanks Filipino pea.
@@TheFilipinaPea Forget our comments write that book and get your money!
One of the funniest, most entertaining and honest youtube-channels out there. Filipina-Pea! You make my day!
I have been married to a filipina for ten years. The best ten years of my life.
I'm 34 and looking for marraige and family of my own and always find Filipina women very attractive. Congrats on your ten years of marriage and happy new year to everyone.
Lucky
@@bernardsherry5642 I second that.
Becarfull guy's mostly vicious so I'm warning you!!!!
I wish you many more.
I'm married to a Filipina (from Cebu), and I can say that everything in this video is absolutely true. You'll never find a better woman than a Filipina
Thanks Devin! A lot of people deny these things, but you know they’re true 😊
Devin, you're absolutely correct.
You know Pea ... it is so refreshing to me to embrace a date who has a concern about little stuff. Thumbs ups 👍👍
Then you’re looking in the right part of the world - we care about the smallest of things (like our boobs) hahahahaha
Haha so funny, but men have a similar issue of their own , err or so I’m told.
I’m really trying to understand my wife better. We’ve been fighting but this video makes me want to learn more and treat her like the queen she is! Thank you
This video just made me fall further in love with my Filipino. I had no idea about most of this. Thank you for making this video this really helped me a lot to understand what my fiancé said to me in the beginning of our relationship.
For myself i am proud of my wife and the things we have accomplished
My wife is in missouri USA right now waiting for the mess to clear up
I married a Filipina 4 years older than me, the differences in culture was a blast, so many things to learn and discover. After 30 years and one child together I would do it all over again.
Our relationship has been based on respect for each others, great communication and sex being great but not the apogee of our love. I have seen her grow from a shy girl to an incredible business woman successfully operating 5 businesses over the years. Today most people believe I am with a younger girl by 20 years at least and are shocked with disbelief when she reveals her age. My observation about filipino women is that they are extremely family oriented, strong, hard working, to the point and loving. I dont envy my Canadian friends relationship one bit. Oh yes, almost forgot, I still dont eat adidas, helmets and ballout but the rest of the cuisine is awesome. My love for her has no bound.
Hi sweetie! I enjoy your channel. I’ve been married now for 34 years to my lovely province girl. She is the love of my life!! A blessing from above! My lovely bride is sweet kind hard working, funny, a great wife, wonderful friend, and an awesome mom! Even after all these years she is still a lil insecure about her looks and English. I tell her she is more beautiful now than the day I met her! She is a nurse here in California with almost 30 years on the job. No one asks her to repeat herself so almost everyone understands, she is just insecure about her English. Any way I feel very blessed. Y’all have a great day
The best thing that ever happened to me with women was to marry my beautiful Pinay... She's by far the best wife in the world, and yes, she didn't realize how beautiful she is!
And beautiful inside out
Are you me? Mine is the same. She thinks she's ugly, I look at her like she's crazy.
Having lived in San Francisco for a lot of my life I dated Filipina ladies almost exclusively…I absolutely loved them! Some of the most beautiful and genuine ladies out there!! 😍❤️😍
She got a great sense of humor, great content!
I have been binge watching your videos over the last few days and they are FANTASTIC! I spent some time in Vincenzo A Sagun, attending a traditional Subanen wedding for my Western "brother from another mother". I'm so glad that I found your channel as I was considering singing a rendition of "My Way" on my next trip to the Province!!! You may have saved my life Pea - thanks!!!
By the way, you are hilarious! I almost spat coffee all over my laptop when you broke from "happily ever after" and into paranoia about crow's feet etc. :)
Keep the videos coming please!!
Thanks so much for that, Justin!
Binge-watchers are my favorite people 😆❤️
If you want a Filipina, get one who is raised modestly in the Philippines. Majority of Westernized Filipina behaves just like non-Filipina, so beware.
All Beautiful Black Filipinia's can call me! 😍
mostly truth here
True dat, Gino. That's the result of living in America for a lengthy period. Their mindset changes over time.
@John Joe your right @Michael Tamares still has some learning to do about femal nature
@Michael Tamares I don't mind that just don't mind when the turning into demanding screaming harpies
As a Western man, this video just broke my heart. I had no idea that Pinays thought those horrible things about themselves. We like you exactly as you are. There are many shallow and insincere people on both sides that make it difficult for those of us who are looking for love and a real romance. Sex is important but, in the long term, it's much more important to find your best friend.
well maybe not the upper lip hair . . .
@@poorasslawstudent My wife didn't have any of those problems including the small breasts or lip hair, damn, she was perfect!😉👍
Unfortunately; for every person like you and I, there are also those who will use others until they tire of them. A sad reality.
Whole heartedly agree 💯
I have been to the Philippines 6 times I loved it there and the people are the best!
They are.. even though one security guard asked me if I had another pair of Jordans to give away. umm.. what? That was a real shock.
I need to go to the Philippines ASAP. The women their seems so nice, sooo pretty, and have traditional values, unlike their western counterparts who don't know how to make a man feel like a man. To the filipinas- We thank you so much for rescuing our sanity from these western women. Thank you my beautiful filipinas❣️
Yes foren girl s are grate just don't bring her home keep her their! And you'll be ok
There are downsides. As she said in the video, a lot of filipina women cheat, are very jealous of your female friends and how you spend your time when she's not there, culture clashes are very real thing, and it's very hard at first to find things to talk about so be prepared for some very awkward dates. Most importantly, if you marry a filipina, you marry her whole family, which often means being the pension plan for her unemployed mother and alcoholic father [that's quite common in poor families here], and the main source of income for her five unemployed siblings, their partners and their children. That really is a thing. Unless you're wealthy [by Western standards] and can afford to be her whole family's breadbasket and medical insurance, your best bet is to date a Filipina who is cosmopolitan, relatively well-travelled and middle class who doesn't need your money, but if you're 50 and want to date a twenty-something, a girl like that won't be very interested in you. Filipinas are very committed to the family, which means the needs of her parents, grandparents and siblings and nephews/nieces are likely to come before yours even if she genuinely loves you. It's common for the Filipinas relatives to take advantage and try and exploit as much as possible from her Western bf/husband and become increasingly greedy, and the Filipina is in a very difficult situation, under pressure to give her family what they demand, and under pressure from her partner to stop giving their money away to relatives, especially if they're lazy or have alcohol or gambling addictions.
@@edgarcorrea6242 Your grammar is terrible
the one thing I realize some of us Western men have in common with Filipinas. Many of us have been used, taken advantage of, and then discarded by women in the West that makes us apprehensive to make a commitment to a Filipina. In our mind, "why would someone so beautiful want to stay with me?" using American standards, we have little money, we have flaws that cannot be hidden, we are basically discarded goods. So when quite possibly the most beautiful girl you have ever dated (not judged by blindness of love, look at photos LOL) says they want a forever relationship with you, a Western man can get scared. "is it happening again, how long before as Pea put it, a shiny new model is on the lot?" Leaving you lighter in the wallet and emptier in the heart. As an amputee it is my greatest fear. That one morning, a younger, wealthier, healthier stallion will entice that love and she will walk away. But it's a fear I must overcome, because the only way to never have your heart broken is to never risk it in the first place. That's creates an even emptier life.
You hit the hammer on the nail
Yup, absolutely! And that’s why you might like the men’s version of this video, coming soon 😊
My friend. Being disabled myself i understand you. When i was very young and somewhat socially inept. Rejection was 1 of my biggest fears until my dad taught me that im the only 1 of me in the entire world and im the best at being me so if someone else cant see that then wish them well and move on because life is to short to be worried about what MIGHT happen instead of going out and SEEING what WILL happen. That loved and lost thing is a load of crap in my opinion. Instead id rather say to myself i tried instead pf looking back later and saying i wish i had. Holy Fathers blessings for peace, love and happiness😁
Amen brother
I agree LC, Also if you bring a Pinay to US it can be a mistake, unless she REALLY loves you. That's what happened to me. After being here a while and connected with Pinay friends, a job, etc. it was over. We had are difficulties and hoped we could get better, but I am permanently just a friend because I can't compete with the younger richer men here: I'm 61, she's 41 and dating a 50ish guy. I trusted she loved me but I'm not so sure. I think of going to PH and try again but I'm like you. I'm not sure, I have some money and stability but a younger expat come along and she may be gone. Unless she REALLY loves me...but is it me or what I can do for her. I understand the security and money are part of why a woman would want me but is it ME at all? That's what haunts me and I fear always will.
I ended up breaking up with the Filipina that I went to PH to meet.
I did not give her a son, she had one already. She was not 30, she was 26. I did not compare her to other models and I do not think she did that to me.
What brought us to the end was the fact that she became too comfortable. She thought she could manipulate me and get her way in everything. She used tampo as a weapon.
I warned her many times and gave her more chances than I should have, because the immigration process was more complex than I imagined.
So I fell short and I thought maybe that was aggravating her. She pushed me too far and I was like: Bye.
I must disagree about true love. It is not something that you find. It is something that two people build together when they have a dedication to the relationship they are trying to build together.
One day I will find the right one. It is just a question of if I will find her online while I still live in the USA or if I will be living in PH when I find her.
The pandemic has made things harder than normal. A lot more scammers than I remember, plus people that are truly in need (I am sure).
I agree with you
I hear Filipina girls are scared a different Filipina will steal their man. Ladies let me tell you if a man truly loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Just take your time getting to know him to make sure he’s real and serious and not just fooling around or playing games
Absolutely true
Exactly
Not trying to throw shade on your post but the guy could be playing the field as well...
Thanks! Always so clever!
This presentation has "60Minutes" quality... Congratulations!
15 years now married to a pinay. We live in Hong Kong and Philippines. Wouldn't trade her for anything.
I am so beyond happy with my Filipina I encourage her to communicate with her family back home and abroad I look forward to when I am around the same group of people that have made her the success she is I pray for a woman like this the lord gave me far beyond what I asked and she likewise.
Know that in America, the Women freak when they see an American Man look to Asia for a Woman and Wife. The competition shows up their own inadequacies. I was fired when my white female boss found out that I was dating a Filipina from a neighboring department. I was a Supervisor in an Insurance company and a week earlier was told how important I was to the department. I also body guarded that lady to and from her car after having to terminate some guy. Losing that job was a real hardship but that Filipina from Pangasinan kept me going; we married.- she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Her family was already here when we met and they have been great too.
What a story! But it sounds like you got the last laugh 👍😂
sue the company
That's some BS
You should have checked your companies policy on dating. You may not have been fired for dating a Filipino, but that you were dating someone in company, and if you were in a position superior to the woman... even worse for you.
I find it funny how women send 'dirty' jobs and production facilities to other countries. It is okay yo outsource everything THEY don't like. Yet when guys outsource their dating choices western women get upset.
Filipinas are the best and not just on the outside in looks but with a heart of Gold. I'm coming back next year to marry a beautiful filipina. Love your culture and country. The best place on earth.
Actually, girls from your country are mostly caring,devoted and have general "good treatment" for their men. :) Many of them sweet and good looking,too..
Unfortunately,I dont meet much of them here,mostly Chinese woman - its not the same.
I should go to the Phillipines...:)
... The bar and discos are not the place to look for a decent partner..
You get trash when you rummage through the garbage bin.
Find a working Filipina..it means she is Family oriented..
Facebook has many sites
Especially those in the provinces are very humble, loving, and devoted. I married a wonderful woman from leyte. Neither her or her family ask anything from me other than to love her.
Come to Vancouver, BC. Lots of Filipina’s.
Ate tama ka. Sa English language naman it is a mindset and practice. So many say “nosebleed”, that is why they don’t learn. Sarado na ang Isip nila para matuto. You are very good in English. Maganda Sana if makahanap sila ng gaya mo na, they can practice with. Then, Perhaps, everything they read from now on should be in English, whether it is the traditional newspaper and magazines or Google, watch English movies or vlogs. Another idea is to at least try to Think in English everyday, in whatevever they do. May God Bless You especially as you teach and help a lot of us in your vlogs.
My dear pea you nailed it yet again. Soooo so true. I have lived in the Phillipines and dated a few before I found the right one. Your comments are so true to the point. I’m still working on building her confidence after 7 years. We will get there
I love Filipinas! I love them so much that I married one! We have been happily married for 36 years. We have two beautiful children. I can relate to everything you said in the video. Even though I am a western man, I consider myself a Pilipino. I have visited the Philippines and love the people there. Having traveled the world and met many people, the people there are some of the warmest and welcoming on earth. A man with only a handful of rice would share half with you. If you are here considering a Pilipino wife, I think you can find one that will make you happy. Just return the devotion she will give you and understand and respect the differences in the culture. Peace!
I met my first generation Filipino wife at the age of 20 and married her in I think less than 6 months and I'm still married to her 25 years later and she is still the beautiful exotic great woman I met 25 years ago and she is a great woman, wife, mother and friend I've ever known and I don't regret 1 second of my time with her and love her more every day
I just started dating a Filipina who’s from Batangas and she lives here in the Usa. I have never met a women like her before and she amazing so far! Thank god she’s very religious and still holds onto her traditions even after living and working away from home. She loves to cook and treats me like a king. I’m trying to take it slow with her and not fall in love with her too quickly but god she’s is irresistible. She’s very into me just as much as I am which I haven’t experienced from a western girl since the high school days. I feel very blessed!
I wish I could find a filipina who speaks like you. I don't know how you can speak so good like this !! Anyway thanks a lot for this video that says a lot about filipinas and what's behind the scene ...
Plenty of them there mate just be very carefull .
Well. One speaks well.
I am a Native American and spent some time in the Philippines back in 1979-81. I absolutely loved the Philippines. I felt safe and at home there. I was mostly in Olongapo and Manila.
Outstanding English language fluency. Pity a lot of the people in England or the USA don't speak English this well. How did you manage to get it this polished ? Well done anyway.
Yeah, guess where that American accent comes from 🤭
Agreed, I've been to England and British English is so much different from American English. You can understand what each other is saying but sometimes there are differences in actual meanings of the exact same words. In England to knock someone up is to call them or knock on their door, in America it means to get them pregnant so imagine the embarrassment an American coworker of mine had when her British boyfriend asked her what time to knock her up the next morning.😁😉👍
.... cause most of the people in England are not English anymore.
@@JohnFourtyTwo try to listen scottish accent pe ireland :)) thts great Like shit
Hi can anyone help me have beautiful girl friend there from uk how much I need to live on there do retire next year
I have been contemplating traveling to the Philippines to look for a wife for years. Your channel has made me decide to do so. Thank you very much Pea. God bless you.
Damn girl where were you 30 years ago? Beautiful, intelligent,funny
the whole package.
Thirty years ago she might have been my wife's daughter.😉👍
Man...this straight...REAL...and Raw. Takes a mountain of courage to spell all this out. Good on you! 👍🏼☺
Must be from the oz.
I haven't heard someone say "good on you " except that we have friends in Australia and picked it up here in America from talking to them.
I love a good ozzy accent. And Irish and Scottish work well for me too. I find cultures to be something very worth studying.
I do like the filipina accent also.
I am so tired of western women and their petty jealousy.
It's killed my relationships in the past.
I'm loyal to a fault.
It's like western women use me and dump me and make me pay child support.
I'm really ready for a good woman in my life.
Maybe this is the way.
Anyway, I'm just guessing that maybe you were from Australia.
Got a bit carried away with the rant and ramble there.
I'm from Missouri in the middle of the USA.
Filipinas also fear being rejected for having dark brown skin, which ironically most foreign men find more attractive than the white(r) skin of western women.
Absolutely True! I married to a beautiful Filipina and she is so pretty to me, I think I've met my angel! Pea, I met her when she was 61. So much love in my heart for her O.M.G. alot you say is so true but there is still Love for our cultures when we work on the perfect marriage that is yet to be. Some men don't care if you are a Divorcee with a child or two. There other things more important to love other than being left behind. Loyalty and kindness eclipse a lot of unimportant things.!!
Most guys I know don't really care about skin color. While that which they do care about differs depending on the guy, I can't remember the last time I've heard a guy speak about skin color. Now, the softness and suppleness of a lady's skin to the touch... oh, yes!!! We like well cared for skin!
Totally agree brown skin is beautiful, white skin... Nah
AND, some of us prefer smaller sized breasts, so there is another fear that is unfounded.
Filipina skin is so smooth and soft.
Dearest Pea, thank you for another amazing video post. I have spent some time while in the Navy at Subic in your amazing country. While at the time we were "under orders" not to marry or even say "I love you" to a Filipina (constituted a verbal contract), i did meet and spend virtually all of my off time with an amazing Filipina and her family. I was very respectful to her and to her family and when i got back on the boat and headed back to the US, im sure i broke her heart as much as mine was broke. I went back to Olongapo to find her some time before the mountain erupted, but was told she had married a service man from Clark and went home with him. Not marrying her has been my biggest regret. As you can see, some thirty years later, I still think of her. I am certain i would have had an amazing life with her. To use an analagy from your post, now i am the Ford Pinto and the Filipina is the Lexus...what i wouldnt give for a small breasted, chicken skin underarmed, committed, loyal, traditional Christian Filipina now.
😢😢😢
Isn’t there still time for you to find one?
I'm sure there is still time, but it'll take me close to a year before I can arrive again in the PI. Once there, it would take nearly a year for that "one" Filipina to "present" herself...it's like looking for a lost key, search and search all you want, but when you've actually given up the search - poof! There it (or she) is. The right woman is not a series of boxes one must check off to find. The right one, regardless of age, background, or even location is the one who already naturally "is the right one".
I am a Christ believing Christian who takes every word of God's word seriously. So right off, I'm not the usual American, at 60, I have a body count you can number on one hand have not been with a woman in 13 years, I take fidelity, loyalty and commitment extremely seriously. That woman would hold to the same beliefs as I do, have a body count as low or lower than mine, shift her loyalty to me over all others (as I would her). Finding THAT Filipina would be difficult, and I'm not certain achievable.
If the global economy does not collapse between now and May of next year, I'll bring a substantial foreign investment to the Philippines and establish a Mariner High School, a Maritime Academy, a Shipping Company and a Shipbuilding yard. Filipinos are 32.6% of the world's mariners and are the lowest paid. I intend to change that through education and experience providing the means for true value and advancement on the high seas that is rewarded with proper pay, services and recognition for abilities. While I am implementing my vision for the Filipino Mariner, I'll travel the provences in search of the Philippines next generation of Merchant Marine, should I also find my Filipina at the same time, so be it. But if it happens, it will be organically and not in a desperate attempt to squelch the loneliness I feel without that necessary partner and wife....so, a nice long answer for your question about time.
The fear thing is interesting. At my old job i was in charge of compliance to reporting to a corporate environmental standard. I needed to interact with offices all over the world and each office needed to interpret the same set of rules. It was the Philippine office that had the harshest interpretation of the rules, themselves imposing rules that tried to prevent any and all stepping outside the lines outlined by original rules. It always made for a difficult 2 days, because of the time difference between Eastern time and Philippines and the Philippine office asking for at least 2 revisions to the submission. I get catholic guilt, but that was just ridiculous, because every other office was just fine with what we submitted. The fear of future trouble was ridiculous.
I love these girls. Its their perception of their 'imperfections' that makes them perfectly adorable.
My lady just last night sent me a picture of her pits saying they're dark and ugly, I didn't even understand what the fuck she was talking about so I sent a gif of excessive licking. 😂
Ha! You must be What? 50-60yrs old reaching out to 16-20yr olds.
When a western man comes to find a wife there in phillipines we don’t want that of western women most been burned by that kinda woman ! We love Filipina way they are !
Omg I just started dating a Filipina working in HK. This explains so much. I know more now how to alleviate some of her fears. Thank you. You have no idea what you’ve done for me. I’m
I’m so happy to be able to help, CC! ❤️👍
I love your humor and intelligence. You seem to have a fighting spirit, too. Greetings from Switzerland.
What Ex-Pat's fear with good reason is being a "Bank" for Filipina women and their entire family sometimes several generations...
You are going to a 3rd world country. What are you expecting....? Think of all the suffering there. You never experienced it
@@m.g.6394 you're right.
So, does that mean that they only marry a western guy for money?
In this case, may we talk about kind of prostitution?
I’m very impressed. Thank you. I’ve always had great friendships with Filipino people ever since the Marine Corps.
Pea, I love your commentaries and perspective on so many subjects! As a man I must also confess that I find you very attractive…just being honest! Keep up the good work! Salamat!
Thank you for the video. it was an eye opener. I knew about a couple of the issues but was not aware of the true extent of what you call normal Filipina insecurities. I wish more Philippines dating commentators discussed this in their videos. Keep it up. well done and funny too! :)
Im State side USA. I've been intoxicated by this Filipina from the gate. She has FAMS here. I come from a successful FAM here as well. So I have to walk backward to go Forward. Im learning Tagolic and working on being a Better Human. Any Advice.. How do I win her and daughters heart???
your honesty and straight up frankness is something that I am sure many appreciate
I had a Filipina gf once, this explains a lot. She didn't like to talk about her past either, didn't even mention her fiancé...
She said shaft your bartender
Or her current husband
D'ho!
yeah, sometimes you have to watch out for the Pinoy 3rd Party.
Then Tulfo happens and the boyfriends, husband and fiance complains, and you're the woman's kabit.
I just recently found your channel through TH-cam recommendations and I love it! The feminist Tik Tok reactions are awesome. I'm 44 and my Filipina is 47. She's three and a half years older than me but I fell in love with her because she's such a sweet wonderful person. Next Friday is our six year anniversary and I'm going to Manila in three weeks to finally marry her. I'm so excited and can't wait to be with her and have her in my arms. ❤You got my sub
Hi... who cares about the state of armpits! All i want is someone to love and vise versa. What a lovely presentation Pea. I am moving to the Philippines once the corona havoc and travel issues are over.
It’s kinda weird, yes, but we get all paranoid about the pits! 😆
The Filipina Pea, I have watched way too many videos about how the Filipina’s present themselves to a Foreigner. Putting on makeup to be as light skinned as possible. And wearing long sleeve shirts so that they don’t tan or get dark skin. Personally, I prefer a Filipina with dark skin, that’s part of the attraction to the Filipina Ladies. With that said, Foreigner men have some kind of a past, from their western worlds. Weather it be divorced with children. Or just divorced. And some unfortunately are just out for themselves. But not all are out for themselves believe it or not. I don’t know the percentages. But, looking at the videos in some of the cities, I can see why some of the Filipina ladies would have a bad opinion about most foreigners in general. Just note, that not all foreigners go to the Philippines to take advantage of the Filipina Ladies. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and videos, I’ve learned quite a lot from listening to you and from experience as well. Please continue to share your videos. You actually teach some of us some great information.
Thanks, TA - I sure will! 😊
I've been talking to a Filipina for the past few weeks and I wouldn't judge her on appearance all I ask is that we love one another and accept each other's flaws.
Good Kaden - acceptance will get you a lot of respect with us! 😊
I judge them on their looks. If I wanted a Filipina that looks like an American woman I’d marry a Caribou! ;-)
Kaden, if you catch her in even ONE lie, end all contact. Theres zero reason for a quality Filipina to lie to you. Don't fall for that "it's their culture" bullshit. Set your expectation early. If you met her online, shes already a suspect.
It is not only Filipinas that Pea speaks of. My wonderful Chamorritta partner was the exact same insecurities. Her past and saving face was a hurdle we faced (no pun intended) together. I was the first man of any culture or country to see who she was in her eyes. Her physical insecurities came from what men told her to degrade her or bypass their own flaws. She used to believe the dark armpits, the long neck, the "masculine back" from her years of farming and hard labor, the small breasts, and all that other stuff. I learned that it's not nonsense to her mind and well-being. It took her a long time to truly believe that even a foreigner, let alone a man, can be true to our emotions and words when we say we are in love. Pea, please keep up with your videos. Your words and inspiration, and forthright candid talk brings our world closer. Any partner that hasn't already "taken you off the market" is a fool in my opinion. =D
Is it just me or does this sound like its paced like the nightly news?
Loved it and thumbs'd up
I’m so glad you liked it! And yes, there are videos where I try to make it ‘newsworthy’ 😊
Like your attitude. Real straightforward and informative. But here's a thought for you; "Quality can most times win over quantity ". Alot of times all the looks, and other material assets, doesn't stand up against nice attitude , good heart, and nice disposition.
In China and Korea and Thailand women over 28 are also considered to be leftovers. I m a leftover in the West.
Still won't consider marriage again after divorce. I have too much to lose. I d rather keep my luxury apartment and comfortable lifestyle, even though I have to be alone.
One thing I don't like about Philippines women is there are many single mothers who expect Western men to provide security for them and their kids. Not my responsibility to take care of other men's children. I m not a cuckold. Same could be said for single mothers in the West.
You could find that helping some one like that could be the best, give you the best years of your life.
all women are the same....
You are producing some exceptionally valuable content, Pea. I wish I had known about you when I started going to the Philippines back in 2017. You could have saved me a fortune lost to scammers and made my trips more successful and productive. With your valuable information, I am planning my next trip. Thanks.
Thank you again FP for another deliciously written video, delivered with panache, sparkled with humour, and still seriously challenging 👋
Thanks, Guy! I hope others enjoy it half as much, and I’ll be happy 😊
I agree Guy, this video was “delicious” and really enjoyed the sprinkles at the end. 🧁🧁
Thanks Samuel 😃
Pea, an outstanding presentation, and valuable insight into the minds of our Filipina's! I love your Bell Curves graphic really hilarious! Keep up your great work! It's very much appreciated ! 😊😊😊
Just wait till I do the men’s version! 😆
@@TheFilipinaPea yeah I was a bit worried about that. Bananas without whipped cream on top, I hope ;)
It would be better if the peaks on the bell curve had more pronounced peaks.
Joe Finn Ohhhhhhh Joe! 😆
@@TheFilipinaPea you (and I) have now proven we have dirty dirty minds ;)
I am sorry that you have had those experiences and they have caused you insecurities.
Western women are not all they are cracked up to be. I have been used and abandoned by them. Most have cheated on me and a couple have been physically abusive. I honestly don't know if my love has ever been reciprocated.
Some men are shallow and might worry about trivial things but I believe there are men like me who just want someone to love them.
I'm currently in the beginning stages of dating a Filipino woman this video is so helpful to me
Back in the 80’s when my Filipina wife and I were dating she said to me “I’m not sure you want me. I’m just a simple girl”. The rest is history.
Congrats to you both! ❤️
Proud simple girl here,..
Nice
I love your content! When I retire from the Navy, in less than a year, my plan is to move to the Philippines and live off of my pension. I have been attracted to Filipina women for as long as I can remember; the hair, the skin tone, the eyes, the lips, and overall FEMININITY that they generally seem to possess. Honestly, I quite like everything about Filipinas, to include their average bust size. When it comes to the "bell curves," in my opinion, bigger is necessarily NOT better. Keep making content, Filipina Pea, I certainly enjoy it.
Thanks Keyser - I’m glad you appreciate us Filipinas more than we appreciate ourselves 😊
Good move keyser take your time finding the right filipina and live with here in the philippines your lives will be much happier 🇨🇿 💏
Y u didnt our NOSE? 😂
"...whipped cream and swinging from the chandelier."
*clears browser history*
Hahahahaha
Hahahahaha
Hmm. This still qualifies as vanilla in my world. 😓
Thank you so very much. I learned so much and what I learned will stay with me forever and with the Filapina lady that I truly love