How To Stop Chronic People Pleasing

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 พ.ย. 2024

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  • @exphurtfan
    @exphurtfan ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I kept trying to be more assertive and set boundaries and while I did improve, it never really stuck. Your video really shows 'how' to do those in the most effective way. Thank you so much for your videos! 😁💖

  • @hanaamr3685
    @hanaamr3685 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, thank you so much for your great support ❤

  • @natka2159
    @natka2159 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Every single social situation is there for me to get validation and I'm aware of it. I don't want it to be that way, but I'm so scared of being rejected that I mould myself into the person I think the other person will like. That's why I end up hating the person I am in social situations.

  • @nicolesavioz6601
    @nicolesavioz6601 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best video I came across on the topic. Really helpfull, thank you.

  • @charliecicchetti8139
    @charliecicchetti8139 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you Barbara 👌

  • @kenitanicoulin3911
    @kenitanicoulin3911 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am soooo thankful that my friend introduced me to your channel. You are amazing ❤

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  ปีที่แล้ว

      why, thank you! 😊 I truly hope it is helpful!

  • @lesleygarvs4640
    @lesleygarvs4640 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    omg, Barbara...I am the very first viewer commenting...I totally made it! I love your channel...your ahh mini series has helped me sooo much... Thank you sooo much...😁🤗

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are so welcome! Love that you were the first to comment 💝

  • @meganengland3252
    @meganengland3252 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was incredibly helpful! Thank you!

  • @cocogabandfamily2490
    @cocogabandfamily2490 ปีที่แล้ว

    you are such a blessing Doc.. new subs here❤️😊

  • @bmehrkish
    @bmehrkish ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How can people displeasing lol, work when it’s a boss or landlord? Whom if you don’t do backflips, you’re fired or homeless?

    • @dorisallen100
      @dorisallen100 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate what my former manager did to my health. If we didn't flinch when she walked by she felt disrespected and would make my and my families life miserable. Got to be careful with the job. Oh by the way I work in HR for 20 years and they are not your friend and the most corrupt department in any org.

  • @hanaamr3685
    @hanaamr3685 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    N u pls share things about:1_recovering from Narcissistic family_& conflict resolution
    ,

  • @Zaory6734
    @Zaory6734 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can the underlying emotion be shame? What would be the difference?

    • @BarbaraHeffernan
      @BarbaraHeffernan  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, certainly. The difference could be in how it manifests. Being aware of that underlying emotion is very important. And taking steps to heal

  • @Allen_ajp
    @Allen_ajp ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍👍👍

  • @monishakhatun1027
    @monishakhatun1027 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know is it right or not ,but I'm not gonna comment on this video instead, I really want to solve my problems from you Barbara. plz I want you to have a look on my comment.
    2 yrs ago I was sexually abused by two men,n I got depressed n all bt it all gets solved. Bt later I fall in love with a guy n sometimes inevitably that incident pop up in my mind.I really love this guy...but this things jst irritate me
    What should I do?

  • @MrJfortheElohim
    @MrJfortheElohim ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you a feminist?

    • @skylarsaysstuff
      @skylarsaysstuff ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is a therapeutic space not one for political discourse

    • @MrJfortheElohim
      @MrJfortheElohim ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@skylarsaysstuff thank you for your input.