Pretty much Stoicism 101. "You can't control any part of the Universe. The only part of the Universe you can control is yourself and how you perceived certain dynamics and interactions. You can't control other people. You can't control what they think of you. You can't control how they feel for you. You can't control if they love you . . . but what you can control is your own thoughts and your own life and where you're going to go."
I never ask women questions about how they feel about me or anything. It's pointless #1 you'll never get the truth, and #2 what she feels or thinks at that moment changes so often it's like hitting a moving Target.
It means they want to “chase” and you are chasing them-as much as a woman “says” she wants to be chased- she doesn’t… women for the most part have no idea what they want- 12:46 of your life saved
My ex decided she was going to spend more time in her dad's town 4 hours away because he has dementia. I go down there and meet that side of the family, they were having a get together. Her cousin and brother were both rude to me and I didn't appreciate it. After about the 3rd time of her cousin making rude comments to me I took my gf inside and told her I am leaving and she is welcome to come with me. I go to a dinner down the street with her and tell her I didn't appreciate the way I was treated and her cousin wasn't raised right to act like that to me. Instead of standing up for me or agreeing with me she gets mad at me and says I'm talking bad about her aunt and uncle now and it's not my place to say how he was raised. I drop her back off and head home. She is distant the next few days. I know her family got in her ear and are saying bad things about me because of the situation. I got her on the phone and she says she needs space and time to figure things out. Things end soon after. I don't feel like I did anything wrong and she should have stood up for me.
You need to stand up for your self. That is right in the moment. Girls are never going to enforce your boundarys. Learn to stay firm and calm, when around assholes/toxic people. Your " girl" is, no longer your girl. That is it was just your turn to bang her. Now some other dude is fucking her. Move on and forget about her. Delete her from all of your social media, and block her from your phone. If you see her by chanse, then be nice/calm/ and act as if nothing ever happend. You owe her nothing, if she acted like this.
@Manish Mims Exactly this. If her family or friends and rude to you for seemingly no reason you can assume the girl vents to them about every single issue you have in the relationship lol.
All women seek men with money. That will never change. Women today have the same rights as men in the workplace.Yet, few women take advantage of that and become engineers, for example. That's because they want men to pay all the bills. Any hustler knows this, and every woman is a hustler.
When she says, "I need some space," I say "Sure. Take as much as you need! Call me when you want some company, but don't be surprised if another woman answers."
If she says that to you, you then ask immediately, "What do you mean by that?". Failing to ask that immediately, makes you look like a wimp. You don't want to mind-read, either. Ask the question. How she responds will tell a lot.
Im not gonna lie, Having recently-isch swallowed the redpill. Or actually, having it forced down my throat by my daughters mother. It is a hard swallow, because the comforting lie of the bluepill is just so much more appealing.... but still, 12 years gone.... Now she is an unemployed, social welfare, mental illness, thyroid/hypoglycemia unfit, living in the ghetto, abusive ex (already), no car having loser. And Im 20 pounds lighter, got promoted at work, love my job, have the daughter 13 outta 14 days, and am eyeing this very kind, my own league, interesting lab-tech thinking of asking her out. it was a rough ride. But her "I need space" turned waaaaay into my favor. because i was kinda purplepill by already having watched Joker, Cooper, Rollo etc... But I gave her, her space and i are say that I frikkin won!.... Just let them go, let them burn on their own and watch from afar in the safety of your crimson red tower.
Guys!! Im a 40 yr old female i talk to girls as I have guy friends, I know some stuff i pay a lot of attention cuz I love to study Human behaviour. If ur relationship is less than 3 months and out of no where ir told this by a girl could be many things, she's wondering if she should invest more time cuz something she doesn't like, u guys too needy, or looking at other option. Depends in many factors, how long have been with this girl, what kind of relationship u have, the most important thing learn abt the girl, independent but she likes you, maybe u are being too overwhelming to her liking, living together and que says this, is usually because she has mentioned something and u guys haven't paid the attention to compromise on fixing it, also if the woman is independant over 30 or younger than 30 this behaviour is por different reasons. Independent over 30, usually most times is literally means i need space for some time, nothing to do with someone else actually de do take some time to do work properly and think over the relationship what can we offer and what de expect, is actually to move on to a next level, or u guys took too long taking it to a next level, but it is just that space meaning we're still in a relationship with u just no communication for a some time, a brake could be with other intention, we think that we're broken up for that time being sometimes we use it to try u guys or some gurls may rhink they cam explore cuz they are not cheating in their mind, pay attention to the words guys, this típic is a 3 hrs podcast.
Pretty much Stoicism 101. "You can't control any part of the Universe. The only part of the Universe you can control is yourself and how you perceived certain dynamics and interactions. You can't control other people. You can't control what they think of you. You can't control how they feel for you. You can't control if they love you . . . but what you can control is your own thoughts and your own life and where you're going to go."
Golden!
I never ask women questions about how they feel about me or anything. It's pointless #1 you'll never get the truth, and #2 what she feels or thinks at that moment changes so often it's like hitting a moving Target.
It's a harsh truth. You can never really connect with someone who isn't truthful.
Last lady I dated told me she needed some space. I just thought "What would she do if I said I needed some space?". Then it becomes easy.
Her saying "I need space" means i will no longer initiate any contact. If i ever see her again its because she called me.
I need space means I need a Chad.
Very simply: I need my space “away from you permanently“
If she says she wants space…. give her all the space > block, delete
“Space” to go F around..
If she says I need space, say ok. Go the other way and block her number.
No woman has ever said that to me. It's always me saying give me some space. I'd pack my bags if she says that.
She wants to break up, gather public opinion on her side ,wants a soft landing but most of all needs time to find another nest.😎
It means they want to “chase” and you are chasing them-as much as a woman “says” she wants to be chased- she doesn’t… women for the most part have no idea what they want-
12:46 of your life saved
Oh and if you live by ONE and ONLY one thing regarding a woman… they are NEVER-meant to be “trusted” 💯
This resonates
It means they need an aggressive alpha but they can't say that without telling on themselves.
Totally true... however, why should I care what woman want. Playing the modern relationship game is like taking your daily run through a minefield.
You don't need any information from her. It's ghost time
My ex decided she was going to spend more time in her dad's town 4 hours away because he has dementia. I go down there and meet that side of the family, they were having a get together. Her cousin and brother were both rude to me and I didn't appreciate it. After about the 3rd time of her cousin making rude comments to me I took my gf inside and told her I am leaving and she is welcome to come with me. I go to a dinner down the street with her and tell her I didn't appreciate the way I was treated and her cousin wasn't raised right to act like that to me.
Instead of standing up for me or agreeing with me she gets mad at me and says I'm talking bad about her aunt and uncle now and it's not my place to say how he was raised.
I drop her back off and head home. She is distant the next few days. I know her family got in her ear and are saying bad things about me because of the situation.
I got her on the phone and she says she needs space and time to figure things out. Things end soon after.
I don't feel like I did anything wrong and she should have stood up for me.
You need to stand up for your self. That is right in the moment. Girls are never going to enforce your boundarys. Learn to stay firm and calm, when around assholes/toxic people. Your " girl" is, no longer your girl. That is it was just your turn to bang her. Now some other dude is fucking her. Move on and forget about her. Delete her from all of your social media, and block her from your phone. If you see her by chanse, then be nice/calm/ and act as if nothing ever happend. You owe her nothing, if she acted like this.
@Manish Mims Exactly this. If her family or friends and rude to you for seemingly no reason you can assume the girl vents to them about every single issue you have in the relationship lol.
I need space translates to don't take me seriously
All women seek men with money. That will never change. Women today have the same rights as men in the workplace.Yet, few women take advantage of that and become engineers, for example. That's because they want men to pay all the bills. Any hustler knows this, and every woman is a hustler.
Man, thought you were Triple H as I was scrolling by.
agree 100 %
If she says she needs space, tell her to fly to the moon. She’s checked out at that point anyway.
In the military we called them Jody.
I seen the video title and instinctively added “from you”.
It means I don’t like you anymore more but still want you around if the bad boys or the back up’s don’t work out I still have you
I usually agree with him, sometimes I do not. To me this is about as on point as it gets.
When she says, "I need some space," I say "Sure. Take as much as you need! Call me when you want some company, but don't be surprised if another woman answers."
Video games make men weak!!!! Get rid of it and use your time more wisely.
It means more D.
In my experience pound town works best
If she says that to you, you then ask immediately, "What do you mean by that?". Failing to ask that immediately, makes you look like a wimp. You don't want to mind-read, either. Ask the question. How she responds will tell a lot.
Im not gonna lie, Having recently-isch swallowed the redpill. Or actually, having it forced down my throat by my daughters mother. It is a hard swallow, because the comforting lie of the bluepill is just so much more appealing.... but still, 12 years gone....
Now she is an unemployed, social welfare, mental illness, thyroid/hypoglycemia unfit, living in the ghetto, abusive ex (already), no car having loser.
And Im 20 pounds lighter, got promoted at work, love my job, have the daughter 13 outta 14 days, and am eyeing this very kind, my own league, interesting lab-tech thinking of asking her out.
it was a rough ride. But her "I need space" turned waaaaay into my favor. because i was kinda purplepill by already having watched Joker, Cooper, Rollo etc... But I gave her, her space and i are say that I frikkin won!.... Just let them go, let them burn on their own and watch from afar in the safety of your crimson red tower.
I need a break. I want more D.
Guys!! Im a 40 yr old female i talk to girls as I have guy friends, I know some stuff i pay a lot of attention cuz I love to study Human behaviour.
If ur relationship is less than 3 months and out of no where ir told this by a girl could be many things, she's wondering if she should invest more time cuz something she doesn't like, u guys too needy, or looking at other option.
Depends in many factors, how long have been with this girl, what kind of relationship u have, the most important thing learn abt the girl, independent but she likes you, maybe u are being too overwhelming to her liking, living together and que says this, is usually because she has mentioned something and u guys haven't paid the attention to compromise on fixing it, also if the woman is independant over 30 or younger than 30 this behaviour is por different reasons. Independent over 30, usually most times is literally means i need space for some time, nothing to do with someone else actually de do take some time to do work properly and think over the relationship what can we offer and what de expect, is actually to move on to a next level, or u guys took too long taking it to a next level, but it is just that space meaning we're still in a relationship with u just no communication for a some time, a brake could be with other intention, we think that we're broken up for that time being sometimes we use it to try u guys or some gurls may rhink they cam explore cuz they are not cheating in their mind, pay attention to the words guys, this típic is a 3 hrs podcast.
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In my experience pound town works best
pound town then ghost her for good