I'm Divorced - The Story I Don't Talk About.

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  • @JoshuaFluke1
    @JoshuaFluke1  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was almost 5 years ago now. I didn't make this video to start a witch hunt, or anything like that. I am passed it. It's just me, sharing my experience. Every story has 2 sides. Maybe in her view, I'm nuts. I don't know. You have to understand that when you're in the thick of it; you can't see what everyone else is saying. You're just 'blinded' with feelings and 'hope'. Finland is dope, my second home. A serious contribution to my overall being that you see now. One bad experience with a person from that country doesn't ruin the entire country. Plenty of generous people there. Once friends with a Finn, you're friends for life. They'll give you the shirt off their back, a place to stay, and all you need do is ask.

  • @gman9090
    @gman9090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Repeat after me boys..finance before romance.

  • @TechLead
    @TechLead 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    why can't people just be happy..? after the honeymoon phase, it's harder than it looks. well anyways... you wanna trade ex's? I'm just looking for a way to also monetize your ex-wife.

  • @junkaccount2535
    @junkaccount2535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +928

    Man the first red flag is at the beginning of your relationship. She told you not to come, and you helped her cheat on her boyfriend. If a woman is unfaithful to her last partner, she will eventually dump you as well. "She never was your woman; it was just your turn."

  • @kennarnett8220
    @kennarnett8220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    Regarding your ex-wife: "You can’t be friends with those who broke your heart, ruin your life, took advantage of your love, kindness, forgiveness, or show contempt. They don’t deserve access to your life. There is no friendship there."

  • @shreyaindia4024
    @shreyaindia4024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    your first red flag was that she broke up with u and told you not to come and told u she found someone else. If ANYONE, breaks your heart EVEN ONCE, you are supposed to run in the opposite direction.

  • @nguyenngocduc1993
    @nguyenngocduc1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    "i will not be friendzone by my wife " ,well that is the highest form of friendzone

  • @MegaTriumph1
    @MegaTriumph1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    They say love is blind, but marriage is sure an eye opener.

  • @jeffhiggins4478
    @jeffhiggins4478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Bud, your experience sounds so much like mine (apart from living abroad). You’re not alone, dude. I’ve been there too. Stay strong, brother.

  • @siliconiusantogramaphantis2122
    @siliconiusantogramaphantis2122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I clicked on this expecting to hear a bitter man talk about his past experience with a failed marriage. What I got instead is a story of how a man was kicked down by circumstance, and still managed to pick himself up against all odds. Dude you're a hero. I'm subscribing to your channel now.

  • @thereason1010
    @thereason1010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    Took a lot of balls to share this story. Really appreciate it man! We're all human

  • @christingunning293
    @christingunning293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It takes a strong man to speak up about emotional abuse.

  • @InstructorMike
    @InstructorMike 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Dude I am so glad that I listen to the entire of your story. If you don’t mind, I would love to continue to share it. It could save so many people who may be open to it

  • @suraya1224
    @suraya1224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    It sounds like your ex was a narcissist. We all make mistakes, but don't let her make you eternally bitter. Just don't ignore the warning signs. Trust your gut, take your time, & look beyond the initial emotional romantic feelings. Proceed with caution. Good luck 🙂

  • @erowal1
    @erowal1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video shouldn’t be called “I’m Divorced...”, it should be called “I Dodged A Bullet...”

  • @jordanpremo
    @jordanpremo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I've never wanted to give someone a hug more than I did after hearing this. It takes a strong man to talk about stuff like this. So glad it worked out for you in the end.

  • @99994139
    @99994139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm 28 right now, never married, I had two engagements both did not work out well. I know Divorce is not the same as ending engagement but I feel you and what you have gone through becasue it feels sucks to be lonely and don't have someone in your life to support you in times of need in this tough life.

  • @dumbr457
    @dumbr457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +562

    "My parents were sued and lost their house. They were basically homeless...." That couped with the divorce, rough times.

  • @lightgiver7311
    @lightgiver7311 3 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    I guess I was lucky. I married a divorced man and I was a young widow. Marriage is hard. It had some challenges. We made a pact. We gave each other one thousand I loves you every day. One touch to the face, 1 hug, 1 kiss, a daily reminder of our love. We were together 37 years. I lost him to death.

  • @aimeenunez2904
    @aimeenunez2904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You have a heart of gold and I'm really sorry you been through these messed up relationships... Sometimes people are so caught up in their own issues they lash out at the people closest to them