How To Be CONFIDENT & HAPPY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ม.ค. 2015
- Hello everyone!
So we’ve approached the New Year. Some of you are waiting for this year to be THE year. New year or not, we should always strive to be our best self everyday. We are the ones who are responsible for our happiness.
Today, I share the 3 degrees to being truly CONFIDENT and HAPPY. Believe it or not, these two are linked together. You cannot fully be one without the other. Confidence is like a foundation of a building. If the foundation is weak, no matter how good it looks on the outside- the building is doomed to collapse sooner or later. Without confidence, we are unstable. If you start living by these 3 degrees, you will be happier and beaming with confidence.
My ABC degrees of confidence/happiness:
A for Appreciate,
B for Be Kind &
C for Care no more
Remember, we will have some good days and some not-so-good days. What’s most important is we remember to pick ourselves up. The worse thing we can do for ourselves is to seek for self pity. Instead, we should seek for self empowerment and empowering others. Confidence is something that takes time to build. Be patient. The more you give, the more you will receive. I promise. You learn the most when you teach it so keep inspiring others and staying inspired.
I actually made this video a month ago and only had a chance to edit this. To be honest, I’ve been feeling very guilty because it’s been so long I made this kind of video. It’s not that I’m “unbothered”, it’s just time just doesn’t seem to be on my side these days. I hope you guys will forgive me for being slack on videos lately. Truth is, self empowerment has always been what my channel has been about. No wonder I’ve been uninspired with video ideas. Somewhere along the way, I got lost with everything that’s been going on. I hope to keep doing these type of videos more often. I know you guys understand but I just want to thank you all again for being patient with me.
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I'm at uni at the moment and struggling to get through because everyone sees me as 'quiet' and therefore I am seen as weak. I lack confidence because people see me this way and can't see that I am actually a strong person, I just don't feel the need to be the centre of attention which appears to be the craze for uni students. Your video is inspirational. It keeps me on track of being who I want to be, confident but not attention seeking because at the end of the day, I want to be me and no one else. I love you Bubz
"Sometimes the quietest people have the loudest mind".
Natalies Outlet Thank you Natalie! Your words are very true. I think that in a world of extroverts and loud people, it's unique to have a strong inner voice and a lesser outer voice :) Hope you have a wonderful day
Wishing you the best
I can really relate to your comment!
quiet persons usually “scary” the other people, because the other people don’t know how to approach them. This is what someone told me once and I believe it’s accurate. I was shy for a very long time, and this changed when I worked for a while in a job that involved talking everyday with people. This experience helped me a a lot to change. I am not a completely different person, but I like that I’ m not as I used to be.
I have very low self confidence and low self worth. I've been dealing with this since I was a teenager. I'm now in my 30's. I also deal with anxiety and depression and it has had a huge impact on my happiness and lack of success in my life.
Im sorry to hear that. The good thing is, today is a new begining to be happy and feel more confident. Have you tried reading good books? Reading can really help change your perspective, and sometimes our inner world is all about perspective. I recommend "think and grow rich". The title is very misleading, but it helped me a lot in terms of the way I see the world. Wish you the best
It's all in your mindset! Instead of saying I'm not succeeding I have no confidence and so on, tell yourself all the time how successful you are, how beautiful you are and how much greatness you have, I promise it helps :)
My suggestion would be, perhaps try some form of volunteering? Seeing that you can make a difference in the suffering of another person/animal/the world can really build you up and open your eyes to your own potential and value. :) Depression and anxiety is something I'm personally familiar with and for that, I'd really recommend seeking out a specialist on brain chemistry and pharmacology that can evaluate you, preferably both physically and psychologically, and treat you in a holistic manner.
This might all seem like too much work or beyond your abilities, but I hope you give it a chance. You are worthy of a life _you_ find worth living. Good luck to you.
Same here. I was diagnosed with anxiety and depression as well. I'm almost 20 and was diagnosed 2 years ago
I've had terrible anxiety since I was 9 years old. I ended up with depression later on. I'm 21 so I've dealt with it for 12 years...I'm only recently learning to not let it control my life. Baby steps. Just know you are never alone.
I have the worst confidence in school!! Mostly when I am giving a presentation!! I'm so scared I will say something wrong! I when I'm up in front of my class I forget what I am even going to say! I have terrible stage fright and I don't know how to get rid of it! My face turns completely red and very warm. Hopefully someday I will overcome my fear and do great without breaking a sweat.
Practise presenting in front of a small group of friends
The more nervous you get, the harder it is to do well. Focus on conquering your nerves and centering yourself. Breathe and just go. c: honestly, if you mess up, own it. It feels a lot better to just correct yourself and move on than to build more nerves. c:
I believe that you will overcome your fear! :)
I used to be like this too, however, one day I 'magically' could give a presentation infront of the class without getting totally nervous, red, etc.
and I can't really tell you how I was able to do this suddenly xD
But if I can do it, you will, too!! :))
Aww thank you so much much for your nice comments!! And I hope that it gets better for me also! And I'm glad that you overcame your fear of presenting! Thanks for the nice and supporting comments:)
I can speak to a group of people but as soon as I hear speech or presentation, its like I freeze
My mom told me NEVER let anything let you down or take your happiness away because you decide what makes you happy and those bad things shouldn't decide or control you! ❤️
Being small is awesome :) Screw going to a therapist or a doctor for medication on depression - just watch Bubz ^_^ She has so much to offer as a TH-camr. Not just Beauty and Vlogs. But heartfelt videos like this. I honestly don't know of any other TH-camr quite like Bubz. She has the whole package. Humor, intelligence, silliness and seriousness.
You've come so far already and i know you'll go even further :) Best of luck with your little family. It may be hard at the moment but things we only get better with time!
Love you!
I'm very self critical and I'm overthinking a lot about situations in life - ALL THE TIME. This makes my confidence, going up and down. I dwell on things, that might not mean anything to others. For example I can overthink a lot when I'm meeting new people, thinking I'm talking too much or saying the wrong things. While the people I'm with doesn't care or even think anything negativitly about me, it keeps occupy my mind all the time and also effects my self-esteem. It's good to think and reflect, which also means I really care about others and their well being. But it's both a gift and a curse, mostly a curse for me...
Thank you for the tips Bubz! Always very wise and good tips. Hope I can manage to work on myself to not overthink and gain the confidence I would want to have.
Thankyou for sharing Bubz! This really helped! I really struggle with confidence (especially in school) and i can't seem to gain more confidence. I get pressured to be confident by teachers and that just makes the situation even worse. I try my best to be confident and my confidence has grown (with certain people) The teachers at school get mad with me because i don't talk much with the people in my year, but that's just because i've been laughed at and pointed at by a lot of people in my year and that's just knocked my confidence completely. I am really not a shy person (it's just with those that i don't know well or those who point and stare and judge me, i get all nervous and anxious. I really want to gain confidence but it's just not that easy! I admire you for filming this video because it has inpired me (but really all of your videos inspire me so yeah!) i hope you have a great year. Love you xxx
Don't think about those teachers who wants you to get more confidence by pushing you, as long as you do it for you and you take your time to do it then that's what matter the most ~ I feel like you really put big pressure on you to be confident because people ask you to be but I definitly think you should concentrate on your own will to build up your confidence ! Good luck girl ♥
I had the same problem when i was in school/sixth. My teachers pulled me up for being quiet, not speaking up. It can be a blow when you try to talk more, and they don't realise.
But you be you. Go at a pace that suits you, so you don't regret it. Challenge yourself little by little or talk to the teachers (I don't think my teachers had any idea why i was quiet. They think it's a purpose thing. (I had low esteem) so it may lay off their pressure.
At the end of the day, you won't see the people in year, remember that. Hope this helps.
Thankyou everyone for such lovely replies!! It's so nice to know that i'm not alone! I think confidence is something that i will always struggle to gain (in school anyway) i'm starting to suffer from really bad anxiety and that doesn't help. But yeah thankyou all very much you are all so sweet
you are the light of youtube! and i seriously gravitate to your videos and your comment section. nowadays a lot of youtube channels are bombarded by keyboard warriors who are so mean-spirited. it makes me sad and fills me with a toxic feeling. i have a sympathy for the commenter and the youtuber. but here, it's so uplifting. you always remind me to change a negative and to embrace it to transform it into a positive outlook.
This video is just what I needed. I'm in music school on an instrument I haven't played for very long. People have told me that I will never make anything out of myself in the music world, that I have no place in it. The same people have called me out for being overweight, and not the correct "look" for a musician. My own teacher told me she didn't want me to come back because she hated me as a person. My confidence has been shoved down the toilet recently, as has my happiness.
Thank you for doing this, I really needed it.
I understand you. I also had people who didn't encourage my dreams and hopes and some told me that I should care more about my weight in the past.. (By the height of 158 cm I was 48 kg -> Looking back, it was really rude of them to call me fat!!)
So like Bubz said, don't care about any fucking shit these people are trying to tell you!!! Don't let these people convince you that you won't make it! Prove them wrong!! I believe in you :)
I am musician myself dont worry haters are ppl with no life. Recently I had an audition on August and I felt nervous and little unconfident to go for it and when I told my teacher she was so mean to me she said "Don't worry you wont get it anyways just dont even try" Even tho I am like really really good at what I do then something happend it was like after she said that God made me suddenly feel more confident and go for the auditions and even tho I didnt get in, I had a great time and learnt so much so what I want to say to you is Haters gonna hate and sometimes it can even be someone you look up to like your teacher (I looked up to mine very much she was like a mentor for me) well she isnt anymore after that I lost my respect for her but thank God my institution changed a new teacher for me and fired her and I dont know why they did that but I still have to learn theory from her and I dont mind it since I will not let her get to me :) so dont let the haters made you unconfident or lose your passion :) pls dont give up on ur dreams just like I am not giving up and we can make it thru someday and when we reach our goal, ppl who were haters to us will be stunned and you can by your works show them that their words wont let you get down :) and you will show em whatcha got :) *a big huge from a fellow musican to you :) YOU CAN DO IT I believe you and am sure you have great talent :) sorry for the long comment hehehe. P.S the song Shake it off by taylor swift tells exactly what we are going thru lol xD IDK why I wanted to say that to u but yeah :D lol
That teacher seriously needs to be fired cause that's incredibly ridiculous. Hang in there, and prove them wrong =) as long as you want to and still hold the passion, you can do it. God bless!
MissPQI 48kg? Firstly thats very wrong to call someone fat then second That aint even fat OMG whats wrong with this world
Hey, you will totally get there, well done for believing in yourself :). I wish there were some videos of you playing on your channel, I would totally go over there and say nice things if you posted some :)
Dear bubz can you motivate us for school, I'm just the laziest person on planet earth ! I mean I don't do my homework I don't take notes I don't pay attention, and I think it has something to do with me being in the top 5 all the time, i mean all i have to do is cram the night before a test and I will do fine ! I just hate waking for school and it's just so stressful cuz school is my futur and I don't want to mess it up just because I was a lazy fatass during high school.
Omg this is exactly my problem
Same prob here! :'''')
Omg this is so me! Like I do everything in one night and score fine marks but that is bad! I only work under pressure and I think i have an ability to figure it out
Me too! I feel exactly the same as you ! we need motivation or something because i try everything .
She made a video about procrastination go check it out ^_^
Hi bubz! I just want to write this comment to let you know that you are probably the most positive person in the world. I'm so glad that i found both of your channels. It just seriously makes me so happy when i watch your vlogs and your videos in general. It just encourage me to be more happy and to be more appreciative of what life has given to me. I've had some crappy days and watching your videos just makes me smile. So i just wanted to say a HUGE THANK YOU to you bubz! You really makes me happier by just watching your video. Love from Indonesia xx
That makes me so happy to hear. I'm glad you choose to walk in love and happiness. Please, no need to thank me at all. I need to thank YOU for keeping me doing what I do. Sending love to you too!
About one year ago, I was being bullied by someone everyday, calling me names, calling me short etc. I remember feeling absolutely miserable when that was happening to me. That problem was solved over a few months because I just stood up for myself and I DIDN'T CARE WHAT SHE SAID! I really regretted becoming friends with that person, but I thought about it carefully, without that terrible stage of my life, I may not be experiencing the happiness and joy that I own at this stage of my life. I see that person everyday, and I just smile and talk to her like a normal person. Because that was the past, and there is way more joy in what the future holds.
Love you Lindy
bubz, i battle with my confidence and finding happiness. right now, im trying to figure out what the future will hold for me and if ill be able to succeed in medical school. it's honestly scaring the crap out of me >_
The truth is, you will never know what the future holds. Nobody knows and that is the beauty in it. All you can do is put your heart in your dreams no matter how far/long it is. Every step is an accomplishment ^^
***** thanks bubz, i know med school will definitely be a grueling journey but ill just have to work my way through :)
You can do it~!! 💕💖✨
snow flower
Yess! Go for it! :)
aaah thanks guys for the motivation! med school is no joke, and i still have time to develop confidence in myself and guarantee success and happiness for my future. bubz is such an inspiration and she actually cleanse the mind so it was nice watching a video about confidence and happiness :)
I started to just not care about everything and everyone a while ago and I feel so much better now :) When you can't change something, there is no need to complain about it! It's as simple as this ;)
I honestly think that you are one of the most positive people I know and I love you for talking about those topics and encouraging people (including me) to change their life for the better :)
xx
My friends have said that I'm short. I'm 5'2" and I found out that being short its perks!
Thank you bubz! You're always so optimistic and that's what we love about you. I had "best friends" who would preach to me about being happy when they themselves couldn't do the same. They were also so negative and yet they would turn around and tell me to stop being so negative. These people taught me that even best friends can leave you and even though they care about you, sometimes they may just be faking it. And they you can't have preachy friends you never practice what they preach. I'm blessed that I found better friends because honestly, if I hadn't, I would still feel resentment and negativity. These new friends taught me to just live my life without worrying about anyone else but yourself. It sounds kind of selfish, but think about it. You can help others without helping yourself first.
*****
Okay if you say so. I'm petite compared to my friends.
wow this video really means a lot to me, i have a lot of insecurities (im 148cm too and im turning 17 this year) im a very sensitive person so i mind every little thing people say or think about me. but for 2015, as a resolution, i'll try not to care for things and those that dont matter (that ABC thing is genius) thanks bubz, so much :) love you 💕
Omg I'm turning 17 this year too and I'm also around 150 cm!! It hurts so much when people comment on how tiny I am. But short people rock so 😸. Cool resolution!
Well, In 3 weeks I'll turn 21 and I'm 146 cm. My hight is one of my biggest insecurities. I can't be confident when everyone are taller and bigger than you, especially my boyfriend who is 186 cm tall. I'm embarrassed when we're going out together to that point that we always sit at home and only go out to buy food. And when we go out I don't even hold his hand. I feel like a child when we do that.
Not only because of that I'm not confident, but I won't write about it.
But anyway, it was nice to watch this. Hope I'll use it someday in far future.
+AngelInDisguise194
My height is not an issue for me so I hope I'm not offending you as I just want to share my perspective. My weight is an issue, I'm naturally skinny and sometimes it gets on my nerves about how my bigger friends are more beautiful than me. But I've realised that in life there are some things you can't control, so all you can do is embrace it. You said you have a boyfriend, so obviously there is something about you that is attractive that stretches from beyond your height. Maybe you have an amazing personality! I have a shorter friend (possibly shorter than you) who walks with so much confidence and energy that her height isn't an issue, her presence is what people focus on. I'm not saying you can develop confidence immediately, but I'm hoping that this post will help you see that sometimes you are more than your height, or weight and that if you believe in yourself enough people will focus on you rather than your height. And happy birthday in advance :)
AngelInDisguise194 I'm eighteen, am about your height and my boyfriend is about six feet tall! People give us such strange looks on the street when we walk hand in hand, but we've just come to laugh it off! It made me feel uncomfortable too for a while, and my height does still get me down, but what makes me feel better in that situation is the reason I'm in the relationship and how special it is to me! Suddenly, no one on the outside matters. I'm not sure how much help this will be to you or anyone else who may be reading, but I really hope you keep your chin up and show off your smile, because then people will look at you for a whole other reason! xxx
ITS KAI FROM EXO 8D
Bubz, you are so inspirational. I have watched you on youtube since I was in year 7/8, and now I'm in year 12 I can honestly say there has not been one moment that I have thought that you are any less than a wonderful, inspiring and a beautiful person - you are such a great person.
You're a great mother as it is but when it comes to the time that Isaac gets a bit older and needs your wise words to help him through, I have no doubt that you will help him every time as you help us ^.^ Thank you for being so awesome! ♥
i don't really care when people talk behind my back..but it really pisses me when they talk to my face in front of other people..
***** i don't hate them..just their behavior but thanks for your advise though :)
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Me too, but I love your display picture lol off topic harajuku Hana
Nicasmitten ϟ i love it too >,< lol
A comment with Kai as the profile pic is above this one.. Kaisoo
I get so emotional when people are sweet! Confidence is sooo important and I actually didn't truly get it til late last year when I stopped caring about little things like my appearance and how I said things. I realized I can't get into other peoples heads to know what everyone thinks of me, but I can live life through my perspective. since then I have been genuinely happy, even in harder times. :)
I'm always saying negative things about myself. How big I am, how short I am and how ugly i am. I try my best to have confidence but once I remind myself that I'm ugly and stupid, all the confidence drops down.. Thanks to you, Bubz, my confidence has raised. I hope I can have more confidence in the future.
Ahhh, I'm so happy the comments are happy and positive, because there's always that one person that writes something mean xD love you Bubz 💕 and everyone else have a great day :-)
I was just thinking that! =)
Some people in the comments of AprilJustinTV videos need to watch this. Very well said, Bubz! You're wise well beyond your years :)
For the past 5 years of my life you have been the big sister that I never had. And you were the one who told me that real beauty comes from the inside :) And you are the one who always finds the right words :) I feel like I can laugh with you and I can cry with you. You made me feel prettier and happier than I could have ever imagined. And today you made me strong :)
Thank you so much for everything you do and for everything you are :)
I really hope that I can meet you one day to tell you all of the things I want to tell you while looking in your eyes :)
Bubz, you have no idea how much you changed me for the better :*
Much love from Austria
Whenever I have a bad experience with someone, I always like to remember that in the end, we are all still human.
I dont gossip because im not confidant, i gossip because its fun 😬
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That's not very nice...
Just out of curiosity: does saying that not make you feel guilty? The reality is, gossip hurts people.
But you could hurt someone....
when you said it's fun, it would also mean that you don't have other better things to think of that is fun.
Whenever I walk in town with my boyfriend, I just have eyes for him but it happens that my eyes land on some people that stare at him, like, literally intensely stare at him... and then they look down on me and their facial expression changes immediately. I understand that he's being stared at so much, cause he's freaking 1,96 m tall and has the looks of a gorgeous model.. and then there's me, the little 1,58 m girl that's nothing special and just fades in his appearance. My confidence gets pretty damn pulled down by that, but my boyfriend just gives me every single bit of confidence that I loose back. I got bullied for my looks when I was younger, so I'm really skeptical when it comes to that, but thanks to him, I don't care about what others say. He also helps me up when I'm down, especially the last few weeks when I had a winter depression, he never gave up on me, he gives me strengh and confidence like no one else does and I'm so incredibly thankful to have him.
Everyone deserves a person by their side who can give you confidence and make you happy, but one thing is even more important: Loving yourself. Because how do you expect others to love you if you don't even do it yourself? That's what I had to learn the hard way, but it's the truth, so don't ever listen to what others say.
You are beautiful and if you show it the right way, more people will get to cherish your beauty, too, inside and out.
You're definitely perfect to be a mother, Bubz. You're a lovely person, thanks for being so supportive and caring.
Watching this video made me think back to my high school years when I always tried to please everyone around me and fulfill their expectations. It didn't really start until my sophomore year and until senior year I remember I was just so unhappy and any negative comment thrown at me regarding failure would just break me at the instant and make my self-esteem drop even lower. I always thought I had to be the perfect student because I was first in my class. Freshman year was definitely my best year because none of that mattered to me and I was just working hard for myself. Now that I'm in uni I really regret letting everyone's expectations get to me because I know I would've been so much happier in high school if I didn't care and just worked to please myself. I was in a bad mood most of the time and very irritable. I really hate myself for being like that! But now all I want to do is work to improve myself and my confidence so I can make myself and those I care about happy! So thank you so much Bubz for this inspiring video. It definitely helped a lot! :)
Thank You for this film, you're inspiration for me. I'm happy that in this world there are people like you
Being mean is hard....... Being kind is actually easy..... :)
Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
- Albus Dumbledore 💕
This is why I love animals so much, and decry their position in our "civilized" world today. "I have been studying the traits and dispositions of the 'lower animals' (so called) and contrasting them with the traits and dispositions of man. I find the result humiliating to me." -- Mark Twain
I have to speak in front of my class tomorrow and I was freaking out until I saw this video, haha. I'm still nervous but I think it's going to be okay. Even if I rarely five presentation. I'll just try to imagine everyone naked, as they always do in movies. XD
O.O erm, i don't think that'll work xD just keep on thinking that these people won't matter to you in a few years, and that their opinions don't and shouldn't have any type of negative impact on you. Plus, everyone else is probably dreading their turn so much they won't even notice~! remember your friends are rooting for you C:
Oh man if someone told me I looked fat I definitely wouldn't feel sorry for him, I'd probably slap him into the next dimension
I LAUGHED WAY TOO HARD AT THAT xD
I love when you said "being mean is hard." It is true, being nice comes so much more natural to me so I don't understand how people can be so harsh and rude.
This made me cry :( i just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and i just recently knew that some of our friends are happy bcoz of our breakup. it made me cry and mad, i was hurt. so much hurt. knowing that even my friends whom i thought was real are not true to me. they are celebrating while i'm dying :( thank you ***** for giving me another reason to smile and be confident again. i still have true friends and those backstabbers are negative which i will not allow to bring me down, i just have to ignore them. thank you for always making me inspired specially in hard times like this. ur always in time. love you bubz.
Bubz, as some people have already requested, can you make a stay motivated for school video? I'm a pretty good student, but I find that I lack the motivation to give it my all. I make good grades, but I just generally don't want to deal with school and the stress that goes with it. On top of that, I'm to head off to college in a year or two and that is a worry all to itself. I'm worried about what I want to be and the possibility that it's not the job for me. I'm also worried about finances like tuition and scholarships. I'm worried about living there and the overall direction my life is going. I know you don't have the most conventional of jobs, but I think the upcoming "scholars" need a little bit of first-hand-experienced advice. Thanks and I loved the video, as always! 😘
This is an amazing video! Thank you for spreading so much positivity, Bubz
I need a vid like this today this is perfect thank you
This video is so accurate right now, seriously. My new year's resolution is that I will try to be more confident and a bit braver because I struggle with it so much. I feel so many people telling their stories here in the comments. To myself and to everyone here, we can get more confidence, WE CAN DO IT!!
hi bubz, i was just struggling yesterday about my confidence issues. i was chilling with this guy that calls me 'beautiful' almost always, but i suddenly went into a panic attack after taking off my make up.. i was stuck thinking that i am ugly, because my skin is going through a really bad phase (as compared to what it used to be). this video really lifted me up.. thank you so much! and, i love all 148cm of you too! love from singapore, always x
I really love this kind of videos thanks bubz💚💜💛
You are warmly welcome. I'm glad you like this type of video. To be honest, it's my favourite type of video to make too hehe
Just saying, you look really pretty in that outfit ☺️
Aww bless, thank you so much!!
Thankyou so much for replying to my comment Bubz! :)
I've been battling with confidence my whole life. I knew what I needed to do to be confident and I tried so hard and I worked on it for the longest time, no matter what I changed about myself on the surface, I never liked how I looked or acted. I had some friends who weren't very supportive of me. They were always so mean and had no compassion so I cried for awhile everyday because of that. Finally, I put my foot down and stopped talking to them. After that, my life transformed, I have many sweet people who are my friends and I have confidence to dress how I want to and have my hair as it is and people seem to enjoy that about me. I went through a lot of pain to get where I am and I'm so glad I did!!
Gosh you're like the most honest and kind girl on youtube ever . You're not talking like if u were superior I can feel a lot of humanity and kindness in your words. God bless you !
You are truly a great person Bubz, something this world is grateful to have
Ever since I've been watching your videos over the years, I've changed so much, I think like you, my friends gossip, when I hear them I just listen and think, no ones perfect don't talk about it. I feel so much more confident and awake, I'm more aware of what's happening. 💗lindy you are truly a wonderful beautiful inspiring nice smart person. Live a good life, I wish u good health and happiness😊💗💜
Bubz, thank you for the light that you shine. Thank you for your honesty, your vulnerability and your valuable tips! You are a beautiful person with such a caring heart and a gentle spirit, though you're also crazy in the best way and super fun to watch. You radiate Bubz, you radiate God's love and that is so beautiful. Thank you.
You are such a beautiful person Bubz, inside and out. When I got near the end of this video I could feel myself tearing up! You are such an inspiration and you inspire me to complain less, work harder, gossip less and become a better person. I hope you have a lovely day, every day, and I hope everyone else does too! Never stop smiling!
Thank you so much Bubz! I've always tried to take after some good traits that you have been showing to us consistently throughout the years from what I saw as a subscriber to my friends. Today however I was told by somebody that they feel I wasn't genuine and that really hurt me because I'm sometimes worried that people might take advantage of me and not be genuine to me. But this video really cheered me up and helped reaffirm what I should really believe in. Thank you so so much!
thanks bubz, this is exactly what I needed, I have a relative who keeps trying to put me down and she's mistreating me. She laughs at me, she looks down on me and it was beginning to get to me but this reminded me that what she thinks do not matter and at the end of the day this is my life and I love my life and the way I am. So thank you so much bubz, you always make my day brighter!
Bubz, I'm so so thankful ) you are such an amazing person with a big big heart and full of wisdom. I really wish I could knew you personally and I always dreamed about a friend like you. But I've realised that maybe I should take that role and help people around me, share my inner light with them, believe in them... Cause you never know how much it could mean for someone. Our insecurities are so small in the universe
This video brought me to tears. Exactly what I needed to hear. Bubz you're the best role model a person can have.
Thanks for the sweet words of yours. You made my day better. :)
I always had low self confidence which got me depression and anxiety but i have been watching you since you're really begging (which is awesome, see you grow and get to be a better and happier person), so thanks to you i tried my best and know i go to the psychologist but I take NO pills right now for depression and soon I will start voluntary with cats 'cause they need some help too. What I really want to say to you is thanks for being here without being, thanks for the support without even knowing me, thanks for everything you did than you may not know you did. :D
Love you bubz
Omg how could any one be rude to you! Even if I had never seen you're videos before and met you, you would make my day with you're confidence and kindness
I think everyone should watch this video. Because your message is so true. Ever since I am nice and stopped caring so much about what people say and things that are none of my business I became so much happier. It definitely is a long process but I think as long as we are working on ourselves to become the best version of us we can possibly be we are on the right way.
Dear lovely Bubz,
I'm so thankful for every word you said in this video. It's amazing how you spread the light in this world! Your heart is really huge!!!!
This video came at the perfect time, I've been going through so much lately and this is just the reminder I needed to let me know that I can't let others opinions bother me and that I shouldn't allow myself to be an ugly person towards other. Thank you so much for sharing this video.
I'm glad she mentioned that you have to accept that not everyone is going to like you. I have struggled with this all of my life. Acceptance is such an important thing and you really have to figure out what you should or shouldn't accept. I had to battle this the hard way this past year. There are things you can change but then there are things you cannot do anything about! Thanks Bubz. :)
This is what i love the most about Bubz.
A beauty guru for inner( and outer beauty). It truly makes us beautiful :)
Thank you bubbi! :)
Dear Lindy,
Every time you upload video's like this, I know I'm going to cry- whenever it's from happiness or being sad. You really make me think about myself and how I can be a better me. I admire how you can give everyone advise and support. Maybe you don't think that way, but you're like a role model and a mentor to me. I've been a subscriber of you since 2007-'08 and I get so happy every time you upload a video. I remember us chatting a few times via TH-cam messages and reactions on your video's. Not only you're a role model and a mentor, but to me you're also a friend. I feel so privileged to follow your journey in life in your video's and I look forward to what the future may bring.
May you, Tim, Isaac, the doggies and your family be blessed, healthy, wealthy, lucky and most important: Happy ♡
I do agree with you and I found this video quite helpful. You've always been an inspiration and I learned so much from your videos. I am insecure person but I think I've gone a long way compared to the person I am years ago. I am still working on it. The hardest thing for me right now is trying to not care about the negative things my family says to me. It's a whole lot easier to tell yourself to not care about what random people say about you, but it is a thousand times harder to not care about the negative things your own family say to you.
I struggle with eczema, skin discoloration from eczema, issues with being underweight, and acne. As much as I dislike these things, I've learnt so much from them and I have grown as a person. I have friends who like me for ME, and an amazing family. I am so grateful for what I am blessed with. I feel like acne and eczema are meaningful life lessons that without, I would be a totally different person. I still struggle with these things, but I've finally realized that self-pitying will do me no good, and that being optimistic and having a better outlook on life changes everything. Thank you so much for this video Bubz. So inspiring ^^ I admire you so much. You're an amazing person :)
Thanks, Bubz, for reminding me that there is happiness in life, even if it's not being felt at this moment right now. I really needed it.
Bubz you're literally the sweetest person ever I just want to hug you ❤️
I just want to say, thank you soooo much Bubz! I was feeling horrible today and this video made me smile and cry at the same time because your words are truly inspirational. Love you Bubz!
This is why you are my role model. You have the wisest words and advice. I honestly love you so much Lindy! You are like my long lost sister. ❤
I think your videos really come out when I need to hear those words... I really have to thank you for this because sometimes life can be hard but when you hear someone who have the same way of thinking it makes me feel way better ♥
You're so sweet for making videos like these! I really appreciate you taking the time to help us out!
A HUGE Thank you ! 💖 Really, i was going bad because i lost my confidence on people that just matter. As a teen, it is difficult and we don't always want to talk but hearing you was really comforting ! Thank you for your sweet kindness and your help ! 🙆
Dear Bubz, i am just so happy to see your positive attitude towards all of your followers. i know sometimes negative comments can make people down, but you always show that happy vide on the internet which makes us so happy. Focusing on negative comments and responding to those people who want attention is not fair to the people who truely love you and comment on your video. you understand that so well and i just feel that you make the world so beautiful and bubbly. We will always love you no matter what. :3
Bubz you've been like the sister and mother I never had. You have no idea how much your videos and advice helps me and you inspire me to be a better person every day. Please don't ever stop what you're doing, because what you do is such a blessing to me :-) xo, sending love from Singapore!
Thankyou bubz I can relate so much of what you mentioned in the video. Today was my first day of being year9 and was the first day of school after a long holiday. I always had terrible eye sights and always needed to wear glasses. During the holidays, I took an opportunities to try contact lenses instead, and I instantly became more confident about myself. A few of my friends complimented me and said I look better and prettier without glasses, but this guy that I talked a little bit last year just came up to me and said "you look weird" and before he use to talk to me all the time when ever he sees me but today he just went passed me like I was someone that he doesn't know. I felt terrible and sad after that happened. I was scared of other people seeing me in that way and I covered up my face. I never knew just three words could take away confidence so easily, and make you burst into tears. I was planning not to go to school next week because I feel so miserable but I realised about this video and decided to watch it. Everything you said made me feel better. This wasn't the first time watching it, but now that I've experienced something so terrible I know exactly what you mean. You are the best person in the world !! Once again thankyou! :-) I can't thankyou enough! Love you♡
Hi Bubz, I just wanted to say thank you for this video. Struggling with Depression and Anxiety I find it is hard to keep my confidence up and this really did help me to feel a bit better about myself.
You are my inspiration and watching your videos always make my bad days just that little bit better.
Eternally grateful and always supporting you,
Kira.
Confidence, I really struggle with this. Specially when you feel lonely and have no true friend to talk to . constantly getting judged and by everyone, having no friends, feeling lonely, are all the things that are taking away my happiness :( I feel so down right now. watching your videos always somehow lightens my day , you inspire me so much, Bubz, ILY so much for this.
Bubz thank you for making this video. This is something I needed to hear and be reminded of. It's so easy to lose confidence and self esteem and can be hard to get it back. Ever since I moved to a new place and going to grad school, I've lost some confidence. This video really brightened up my day, and made me remember that I am beautiful, strong, and confident, and that I can do anything. I've decided to make a list of small goals to accomplish everyday, and so far it helps me feel more confident, and makes me feel like a better person than the day before.
Bubz i just wanna say thanks for making this video. It's beautiful, i love the advices that you gave, it makes me want to be a better person. I have flaws inside and outside and i'm not afraid to show/tell it to everyone because i know it's impossible for me to change that flaws. It's the matter whether people will or will not accept who i am. But one thing i want to change is to not be so judgmental about things around me. And start to minimize my cursing. Your video motivates me to do even better. So im really thankful.
I hope someday i can meet you in person and thank you with all my heart bubz.
Love you!
Bubz, I really have to thank you for all your videos because every single time when I feel like I'm at a dead end and things could not be seen clearly, you manage to show me the light in the darkness. I guess you are right, I'll follow the steps you have taught and I guess it wouldn't be that hard. I think I'm going to be feeling better and if I do feel upset again, I'll just watch your videos! :) Thanks so much! You have helped me (and I'm sure many others) in so many ways. Saying thanks may not be enough but thats the only thing I can do. Thank you. :)
Bubz!!!! This comment is really late, but you are such an inspiration! You always make me strive to be strong as a kind person, not just a competent one. You're an inspiration for me to stay kind, and show my strength through staying true to myself even if the circumstances are pressuring. You are so sweet, pretty, and wise! I will continue to look to your videos, please continue to make more of these!!!!!!!!!!! You're an AMAZING Mom!
People in the world need to think more like u do!
World needs more people like u
Hello Bubz! Thank you so much for your video, I really needed to hear this! You are such a strong and kind person, and your way of living inspires me! I have been struggling with insecurity for the past few years, and specially now that I'm building an online store but am SO scared of showing my work out there. I'm scared of people jugment, which is, like you said, one of the main things that makes us feel insecure. The world need more people like you! :3
Bubz,
Thanks for making me realise that I've been quite mean to a few of the girls in my school lately. Me and my two main friends don't particularly like a girl in my class and we talk mean about her behind her back. I want to stop and be a good person. Saying the stuff I said wont make anyone happy. Thank you so much. Your so inspirational I love you!
Your loyal fan and follower,
Shona Xxx 💟
Dear Bubz,
I am a growing entreprenur and i battle with constant struggle with confidence and all sorts of humiliation. I often self-doubt because I am not producing the results I wanted. But your video really reminded me that it didnt matter how bad the humiliation is, it doesnt matter at all how those people look at me. What matters is why I am an entreprenur (to help many people), and that I must hold myself in high standards- never to let anyone put me down/walk all over me. Thanks bubz, your video really helped me battle this self doubt, and I feel great now! :D
Dear Bubz, I hope you get a chance to read this but I'm sooo grateful to have found your channel! I've been through some personal struggles and sadness for the last few months and watching all your videos have been soo helpful! From skincare, love, confidence and more! You are a beautiful person 100% inside and out. I wish the world had the same outlook that you have on life. I want to live a Bubzbeauty type lifestyle! Stay Pure and Lovely! ❤️
I look up to you and I think you are an inspiration for many. I love that you talk about how being kind to everyone is important, because it really is so so important thing in this world where are so much hatred! I think you are a wonderful mother for you baby, and will raise him into a amazing human being :)
Love this video. ❤
This kind of opened my eyes a little to what I have already been seeing. I feel that I need to care less about people who are judgemental, who don't care about me....but to also show some more care to my family....since I don't think I do it enough.
You're words made me cry, thank you I needed this
A few years ago I was a very shy and insecure person. I worried about what people thought of me, cared about the comments made about me and became a mean person as a defence mechanism. Since that time i have had a complete turn around. I changed schools and told myself that this time i will make an effort to be a better person, i changed my appearance, i became more open and faked confidence. over the span of two years i managed to gain a large group of friends, prove to the everyone that i am better than they think and actually gained the confidence to be myself around anyone. Of course every now and then I'm shy (depends who I'm talking too). also, forcing myself into uncomfortable situations has also helped me a lot. for months iv been helping people who feel insecure and lack confidence and they have slowly become happier people.
Thank you for posting this bubz, I really needed something like this. I've always struggled with my confidence because I got bullied alot because of how I looked when I was 13th and that hunted me for many years about how I looked back than and people kept calling me names, so it's always been hard for me to believe my friends or others when they compliment me on how I look. I've been losing weight for the past few years but it's still hard for me to look at myself and say I'm pretty because of all the bad things people have said to me. But last week I actually made a deal with a friend to find our own happiness together and help each other reach that happiness. It mostely happend because my boyfriend in Korea has been ignoring me for more than a week now and that is breaking my heart. So watching this video and listening to your words I'm now even more determined to become more confident and find my happiness this year. Thank you so much bubz! ♥
Thank you so much for this video, Bubz! I'm only about 146-147 cm tall at eighteen and watching this video and reading the comments has given me something to think about when I'm feeling down. You're the best! x
BUBZ! You are truly such a beautiful woman inside and out!! You are an inspiration to many many people and its people like you we need more of! LOVE YOU BUBZ
Bubz, you are so wise for such a young woman and your advice never ceases to inspire me to become a better person and help me throughout life's difficulties. Isaac is so lucky to have such a wonderful mother. Never change! xox
Thank you for taking the time to talk about that! You can put words on feelings so easily. It's simple and clear. I don't know how you do that but you've got a certain talent Bubz. It's always nice to hear you and watch your videos. I wish you only the best for 2015, may this year brings you less trouble, a lot more awesome memories, joy and happiness! Oh and I love your hair style, it suits you very well.
I really needed this today, I recently just moved a couple states away from home to attend my first year of college and the past week has been extremely hard. Bubz always seems to make my day a little easier
My goal in 2015 is to care a whole lot less what people think. I'm always thinking about what people think when I do something out of my comfort zone, but you and Troye Sivan's video called Becoming You have inspired me heaps.
I'm going to wear those tshirts three sizes too big, dark red, red and bright lipstick and not care, about whether the clothes 'drown my figure' or the lipstick 'make my teeth look yellow' or 'emphasise my braces'.
Wow Bubz... Yesterday night I was telling my friend that I need some "confidence building program" before I go back to school, then I woke up this morning and saw you're Instagram post and I was like this can't be a coincidence. thank you lord and thank you bubz x
Thank you for taking the time to make this. I just recently graduated from college, but I'm still not quite sure what I want to do. And you're right about the bad relationships. Although they're hard to go through, you do learn a lot about yourself from them. Thanks for helping me feel better. Hugz, Bubz.
Thank you, Bubz! I really needed this right now, my confidence hasn't been good in such a long time. I'm very sensitive and if someone insults me it latches on for ages! I'm going to try and follow your ABC! Thank youuu!
Thank you bubz this helped so much, and it reminded me of our prophet in our religion, he was gone through many enimies and when they have done many many bad things to him he repay them with forgiveness and kindness.
your videos bring me joy every day. I have been depressed for a long time and your videos make every day just so much better. Thanks for making my day every day. 😊