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Michelle saying "Everything will be okay" really calmed me :)
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ily Saphira!!
Same here! I look up to her so much it feels like she's an older sister. (:
she sure does have a very soothing relaxing way of saying things
Me too
Am I the only one that just finds her voice soooo soothing and relaxing?
Same.
yesss!!!!! me too!!!!
Yesssde I just called and distressed by just listening to her voice it's just so relaxing
Totally 😂😂
Her voice calms me down
Who else having Michelle Phan marathon here?
Meeee
me toooo
Mimi Simon lolllll
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I love the fact that she tries to help her subscribers
I know right she is so caring 😄
i love how the comment section is used to give and share advice. It really reminds me of the good old youtube days when it was more about being a community verses the crazy fan culture/ idolizing culture it is now. It's nice to know Michelle's community is still strong on here.
I'd like this if I were on my computer lol but I'll leave this instead 👍💗
HappyTofu I know, right? :D Share your experiences & advice, everyone! You can help others this way.. obviously. :)
8 years later…and community vs fan idolizing culture so accurate. I miss these days
Watching this video was relaxing! I usually go to the scripture, I am a Christian and spending time alone with God is relaxing! He will send you a peace that surpasses all understanding, and can heal places the doctor can't get to, it really does help me.
There is no peace like peace that Jesus gives us :)
❤️❤️ god is love ❤️❤️
Amen! That is soooo true!
Jesus is sweet!!
Agreed! God can only determine our future for us.
To be honest I actually de stressed by watching your video....
so did I
+jasmayana themayana me too, haha
probably because it's relaxing haha *****
Me too omg🙈
+jasmayana themayana Me too omg :o
That video left me peaceful, happy and ready for the world.
Until I had almost fell off the bed and had mini-heart attack.
hahahaha hope you're okay :)
I almost fell off my bed too. Not fun.
Haha Omg are you ok?
sinead corian lol like when your in the middle of falling asleep and you jump for no off reason and it felt like your falling or a mini heart attack
Thanks you made me smile :')
My de-Stress is: God.
I just pray, talk to him, read the Bible, even if I need I cry in front of him and suddenly I feel more happy, I mean, I know the problems still there but I know that If I'm with God I will be able to overcome any problem.
I'm with you guys:)
Amen!
Yes,♥
Yes 💜
Amen!!!!!!!!! My number 1 de-stresser is God
Your voice is very soothing. I don't care if I am weird.
Believe me, there's lots of people that agree with you
Smol Llama Gaming Good:)
***** YASSSS
You aren't, I feel it too
Her voice is so relaxing to me, too!
How to de-stress: Watch Michelle's videos.
It works. At least for me. ♡♡♡
leezza chan Yes!! She has such a calming and soothing voice..plus her amazing personality.. Best combo! 😊
She'd be a great life coach
ukoanim
For Muslims, meditation is the prayer. The five daily prayers, our regular recharge. But the stress doesnt let us focus sometimes. I woke up today feeling stressed and i remembered the dream i had which was really a subconcious manifestation of the stress im going through. This video was the first thing i saw today and it really reminded me to make maximum usage of these daily rechargers.
like this video too " muslim "
I'm a Muslim too ❤️ حمدلله
just take wudhu' and you'll feel alot calmer :) ♡
JazakAllah khair sister ^^
Yes that is true
The last months I had a lot of stress . Work and print life.. I didn't get take care of myself, moved on even harder when I felt tired. Now I got my payback: I got sick. My immune system is down. My lungs feel like filled with water and I'm coughing all the time. My doctor told me I probably won't go back to work this year.
Everone told me "slow down!" but I didn't want to listen. Now I know what happens if you don't listen to your body.
A lot has happened in school and out of school and I kept working at myself to try and balance everything. It was all really stressful, the same thing happened to me. I hardly got any sleep and I felt tired all the time. I usually have a good immune system but in the end I got sick - I have a chestly cough and have horrid coughing fits. I thought it was just because it was cold and everyone else was sick too. Turns out...it was that and because of stress building up and not taking care of myself.
MaeMakeup sometimes we have to learn the hard way. I made the huge mistake to go back to work after one week and now I can't even go outside to get groceries.
But this made me realize that you can buy anything but you can't buy health...
Wishing you all the best! (even though this is a month later from your comment)
I always go back to this. Literally cried that one time when I watched this because of how overwhelmed I was, mentally and it makes me feel like someone care about me when she said it'll be okay.
This is the video every single K-Pop idol should watch
very true
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Asian PrincesS_Amy
Because they are forced to over-work. They need to stop and relax sometimes : )
Ugh, how dumb I am? When Michelle said "Don't stress out, everything will be okay." I immediately started crying, ;-; thank you for the tips, it's very very hard for me to relax, I just can't, I can't control it :c
I feel you.
hey girl!!! we are in the same situation I swear, talk me if u want to ... I dont know lol just talk??? maybe it de-stress us
I'm right there with you.
Same here! Thought I was the only one
Same here!!!!!!!!!!
This really helped me! I'm only thirteen, and I suffer from anxiety constantly. The smallest thing can stressed me out, such as dropping a pen under my desk. Like I said, I'm thirteen, but I always worry about what I will do with my life. I'm incredibly young, and while my friends have found out that they want to become lawyers, doctors, firefighters, and many other career options, I'm here thinking about becoming a TH-camr. The career that I dream of pursuing is dangerous... dangerous in the sense that I feel like this is the only career that I think will make me happy, and a hard career to get into.. Just this video alone calmed me down, and I cannot wait to do all of the things you mentioned here. Thank you SO much, Michelle. This is a flawless video, and to anyone out there who suffers from anxiety, as I do, know that you are not alone, and I wish you eternal happiness.
I went trough that a lot! And I also have that kind of 'weird' dream job. It's hard, especially when it comes to convincing your parents about your dreams. But run for it anyway if it makes you happy. Nothing beats the feel of joy evertime you go to work. Good luck!
this is exactly how i feel
AnastasiaSilvi Thank you so much!
dude literally same like I'm 13 and suffer from all the same shit and and the career anxiety and blah blah blah. good to know i aint the only one bruh
Being a TH-camr is not a "career" LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.
I listen to quraan everytime i feel stressed,it relaxes me soo much✨
Holy !😁 same✌ it works wonders once you open your mind to it not only eyes😊❤
mash a allah thts something really good :D
same!!
SOOOO TRUE!!!!
Me too 😍😍😍
Everytime I meditate, my dog comes over and lays in my lap or on my stomach. I meditate everyday.
That's so cute! My cat does the same^_^
+Rosie Brown same, it's so cute ☺️
aww :< i wish i have a cat
Hocus Pocus these are the only moments he is calm. His name is Salem but we calm him Psycho.
Every time I meditate my dog barks at me and chews on my hair...
Who's watching this when they're supposed to study?😂
Hehe.. 😅
😅
Unicorn Im late but i thought i was the only one lmao
Me! Please kill me
Aine Dobson-Routledge ugh and me ;-;
I highly recommend taking a walk outside. Sometimes we just need to reconnect with nature.
***** You can do something that doesn't require a lot of thought (I colour mandelas), meditate (there are apps for that), or simply just take time out of your day to do some gentle reading :)
***** Haha, I feel like that'll be me in 2 years
Thanks for those tips, gonna take some meditation and taking time off of electronics :D
Unless you live in the hood.
I just started crying because I can just see that she genuinely cares for us so much. I greatly appreciate her sincerity. Michelle you are a wonderful person, thank you for everything.
My ultimate de-stress is God
He's always there when I need him and when I need to cry, I cry Infront of him
Some people may say he's not real but I feel him there
I know when he's there
How do I know?
I feel it in my heart and I instantly feel nothing
No pain, no stress, no crying, I only feel him.
The stress and problems are still there
But so is he, I always feel so much more calmer and relaxed and happy when I pray to him,
Wether it's good or bad
God is good, God is my savior, God is my healer
God is my God
That’s beautiful 💜
Amen!
Do you also know Gods name? Your friendship will increase much more if you know and call him by his name.
psalm 83:18
There are many Gods... but if you call the one true God... it would be better to call on his personal name... Psalm 83:18
I always write To-Do-Lists with things like: take a bath, do university stuff, tidy up my room, play videogames, contact XXX...... so I won't forget things, but at the end of the day I only finished all the business stuff, "take a bath" or "play videogames" is something I never have any time for. Even when I have time to relax, it's like all my thoughts are about "what do I have to do 'til tomorrow???" :/
Thanks for this video Michelle! I'll try some of your tips in the future :)
Annelise Hayden in Germany you can buy toys called "Sorgenfresser" (→ Problem/Worry-eater) and I'm also thinking about getting 1 :D you can write down your problems on a little piece of paper and than put it inside of its zipper-mouth... I think this is a really cute idea to get rid of your worries :)
Oh Goodjess that sounds like a really good idea because you could put all the worries out of your head and onto paper (in the cute little mouth
I get easely stressed. What I always do after school is to go by the bus home. Somehow I find it relaxing just starring out the window.
Same here! After a hard day at uni or at work I like to take the bus or train home, put my headphones in, stare out the window and just zone out...it's so relaxing! :)
Right! I never like to talk on the bus.
Same! :)
reading my bible or listening to worship music always instantly distresses me. Also warm tea and opening the windows :)
how to de-stress? listening to Michelle's voice :">
Yes💓
Look up ASMR. people make videos for people to relax. They have soft relaxing voices.
+Pets101 Where to find it? ASMR?
search asmr in youtube
I think I'm stressed out all of the time without even really knowing it...
Same..
Me too!!!!
yup same
Same me.
Me too. I guess that’s why I get really emotional all of a sudden sometimes.
(>_
You made me de- Stress before going to sleep. You talking in this Video made me relax so much.. Just more than you think. I guess I should try to watch this everytime before I go to sleep.. This really gave me kind of a GREAT and a RELAXING feeling at the same time. Thank you for sharing these tips with us ❤
gotta say, this video, your voice, and the soft music in the background.. made me relax so much! Thanks for the tips.
where you can buy a cup, tell me please !?
Thanku Michelle, ur the best
my chill out song are korean songs or slow songs
her voice is just enough to de stress , she is sooo perfect oh my god , her voice is so relaxing , just by listenning to her , you automatically relax hahaha perfect youtuber , love you
Soooo agreeee with this. Exactly what I was going to say!!!
im the sort of person that wouldnt like to keep my mind calm. i like to think about the worst that could happen in all my problems and think about solutions to the problems. if i have a really complicated problem i will literally draw a mindmap and a list of things that is ever ever going to happen. sometimes, it soothes me, but sometimes , it kills me.
Same here, I always think of problems that can happen during the school year, for the exams, my future.... My parents always tell that I have to calm down, but I can't, even during the summer or school vacations I stress, and when I de-stress I feel that I'm doing something bad that will push me towards failure, I don't know when this will stop, maybe after I graduate for High School, University..... Who knows?
I finally found two people I can relate to on the Internet.
I do the same thing tbh.
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me in a nutshell.
I just have to say this because it's been on my mind for a while. Bethany and Michelle have the same amount of subscribers and both are doing big big things in life. however, Michelle still finds the time to put out videos, and quality videos at that. and bath any has kinda left everyone in the dust. I've been big fans of both woman since 2009 however, I feel like Michelle cares more for her viewers
That's so true. Like I like how Michelle appreciates her viewers but Beth is distracted by her real life. Like if ur gonna have a Popular TH-cam channel, actually make time to put up videos
This is so true! I feel like beth isn't even dedicated anymore...
Exactly! Like she doesn't even post anymore unless it's a holiday video. She did a New Years video, the day before New Years. And after that she posted a Valentine's Day video. Like if she's THAT busy to not have time to make video she needs to tell people " woah, this is too much. If I do this I won't have time to make videos. And my subscribers are the reason I'm here." It's like she doesn't even care anymore
I agree, and Michelle's video are more warm and welcoming and caring. Bethany's are just like " HEY GUYS! " and the people in the comments always argue.
Animals, and pets are really relaxing. I love cuddling them to relief stress too 💕
Dogs are walking balls of love. They instantly raise my spirits. I love animals!
***** yes animals csn be really helpful. pity that I am not allowed to take my cats inside the house. they've got one big room for them and they can go out in the garden whenever they want. we have a big garden and of course they can go out of tbe garden too. in summer when it's warm in their room, I just lie on the ground and cuddle my cats. sometimes, when they sleep on the floor, I can use them as a pillow. they don't mind. animals can be so helpful in stress
Glori Snow aww sweet :)
Would it work with a lizzard?
I love this video so much. I find myself coming back to watch it from time to time, when I just need to relax for a moment. I feel like I de-stress just by watching this video or just listening to your calming voice. It really is amazing, so thank you so much.
The bath bomb. She didn't even use it.
That's making me stressed. Wtf
+Jude Yb XD`
+Jude Yb LOL that's what I thought
Yeah me to ugh that's the only thing that stressed me out only at that part
same
+Jude Yb She probably doesn't have a bathtub, so the sink was the next best thing. You didn't pay for that bath bomb so just chill.
Don't use essenzial oils alone! Always diluite them in some other oil, such as jojoba, or almond. Using them directly on the skin can cause irritations an other bad stuff!
For the rest of it, I agree with the tips you mentioned and I'd add also pillows and soft materials in general: a big fluffy blanket can be awsome!
Too bad pet terapy is definetly not for me: I am afraid of animals, all of them, and I really don't like them! I'd most likely need a stress reliever after having touched an animal!
You can buy certain essential oils that are made just for you skin. They usually have the ball rollers in them for application.
LotusQueen5 oh! I didn't know! Maybe they are alredy diluited
Some aren't. I buy cheap peppermint oil and put it directly on my skin, which the bottle says not to do, but my mom buys this more expensive kind which is made for skin so depends on the kind.
That's only if you buy them from the grocery store! Wholesome, therapeutic grade oils like young living essential oils can be used neat!
Angie Damien what?
Your voice is so calm and it makes me calm
You're like an angel i swear!!
That's so true!! I love her voice!!
I agree! :)
yes, so true
exactly
So soothing lol
This is my all time favourite video on TH-cam. No other video can beat this. I come back to this video whenever I feel stressed or depressed about things...
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HEY.ITS.CIARA yaaaas
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Me tooo
I have anxiety but I take medication for it so I can't guarantee that these tricks will help. One thing that can work is definitely eating right. I know it's such a buzzkill but it's true: eating your greens and drinking plenty of water can be a good mood stabilizer ( or at least a nice placebo effect. ) Another thing you can do is stretch. Stretching is a good thing to do if you are someone who wants to physically hurt in order to focus on small pains. Of course you have to make sure not to overstretch. The hardest thing but most relieving thing you can do in my experience is accept the fear. This is such a difficult thing because we automatically try to think of something else or something soothing and sometimes the best thing to do is just realize that what you're going through is something you can't really change at this moment and that's okay. It's an uncomfortable feeling and you don't like the way your heart starts to race and your body gets itchy and like your skin is stretched too tight over your bones and that's okay. You are allowed to have these feelings. They're negative feelings and you don't like them, but that doesn't mean you're not allowed to have them. Just breathe and accept what's going on. It's really not as easy as it may seem. It could take you days or weeks or months before you get a firm grasp on forgiving yourself for feeling stressed out. But you can.
thank you for this :)
Thank you for reading it haha xD
I'm really happy it helped :D Like, sincerely happy
i have anxiety too. its hard to stop panic attack.
that did help and im proud of you that you got to this conclusion.. not everyone does and its like an extreme waking up when you do..
I watch this video after losing all my lives on Candy Crush
This is a great comment.
I'm surprised people still play that game.
XDDDD BEST COMMENT EVER
LMAOOOOO
... my life..
To de-stress I like drinking a cup of tea and reading magazines :)
Same here girl! Love your videos by the way:3
Marisa Corey :} Thank you Marisa!
Hi eladish.!(:
Michelle, i love you .
Would you make a ASMR video because your voice is so lovely to listen to💓
I was thinking the same thing!
Watching TH-cam videos and scrolling through Tumblr relaxes me! But sometimes I have to be careful because it can turn into procrastination... Like right now! My graduate thesis is due in a week and a half, and I have yet to write one word that is worth while. I also have a job interview this week! If I don't get a job soon after I finish school this month, I'll have to move back home. I am going to school in NYC now. It has been so hard for me to see one thing at a time. It has jumbled up into this huge monster of stress that wants to eat me alive. I sometimes don't even know if all of this stress is worth it. I'd like just to run into the woods and be a nomad. :/
I feel like doing that too. I like to read to escape reality, it takes longer than a movie and I can go and be places that are far far away, and sense I'm currently single those books usually involve romance, it's nice to see, or read about a guy or a girl loving who ever they live in the book so much and it makes me happy when others are happy, and gives me hope that all the shity stuff will some how all be worth it.
I know that feeling of wanting to run into the woods..... :( yes
I'm terrible with stress, there will be days where there is seriously nothing for me to stress out about, but I will stress myself out, like self inflicted! I don't understand why I do this.But what I do I guess, I never notice, I usually take a nap. Write out a schedule, talk to my boy friend and run around with my dogs, they are my number one stress relief. Nothing to crazy. I've been wanting to try doing yoga and meditate but for meditating, I don't know how to do it
You can find some guided meditations and beginner yoga routine right here on youtube! If you're struggling with meditation even with the guides, look up how to do it too. It's so worth it!
Try this out
www.headspace.com/how-it-works
I'm the SAME way. I stress about nothing and get anxiety when nothing is wrong,. It's so frustrating!!
I'm the samee way! My go to is yoga and just ten to fifteen minutes of it makes me feel a lot better.
Claire Nicholson
I agree. 10 minutes can change more than you'd think!
When i saw this video five years ago, i didn't really had experience with stress or anxiety (bless my heart). I wish i rewatched this video a year ago, when i burned out of stress and anxiety. I'm feeling better, but i'm still recovering and to this day having a hard time making time for myself and letting go of stressfull situations.
Thank you Michelle, you knew i needed this video before i did ♥️
her voice is so relaxing.
If I'm stressed at home, I like to grab my trusty Warm Vanilla Sugar lotion and massage it in all over. Sometimes I do a load of laundry make the house smell good and put on pajamas fresh from the dryer. I tend to snuggle with my favorite stuffed hippo for a nap too.
If I have the money, I'll go out and treat myself to an Asian body knead. Those are phenomenal for destress! They work out all the knots abd pressure points. You'll feel like human pudding!
My favorite instrumentals to listen to are Quiet Slumber by Shadow6Nothing9 and one my dad made called Victoria. They're soothing and calm me no matter the mood. :)
Well thank you. :)
"Bathtime"=wasting a lush bathbomb for a unicorn in the sink.
Haha
I think she just didn't want to take a bath and didn't want to waste water
Ya...
It was Artemis in the sink! :)
I think water is more important than bathbombs? Btw it's not a unicorn its Artenis from sailor moon.
The Little Renee Water is important but water is also recycled (practically) and reused. So I know this is gross but that water you're drinking sort of may been mixed with someone's urine at one point. Not anymore though obviously lol. ^^
7 years and I still come back to this video to destress!
That unicorn cup tho💙 I want one
Dang this helped me a lot 🙈
i love you chelsea!
I love your videos!!
I know right?!
OMG YOU DID NOT JUST THROW THAT WHOLE FIZZ BALL IN YOUR SINK! WHAT A WASTE! NOW I'M STRESSED!
I guess you can waste like this when you're rich xD lol
Youre getting stressed over someone else's doings? What? lol
Oh well. She can afford it
I started crying as soon as she tried to guess why I clicked on the video
this video used to be my favourite video ever... i was only 10, 6 years later and im still following these steps
April Shally same
Walking my dog is really relaxing, hearing some calm music, or just hearing my surroundings can help you relax
***** love this :D
I don't know why but when Michelle said "Don't stress out, everything's gonna be okay." At the end of her video, I just busted out crying because nobody has ever told me that before. Whenever I am feeling stressed, everybody is always telling me to get stuff done, nobody has ever told me that everything is going to be okay. Everybody thinks that just because I am in Junior High that my life is so easy. Thank You Michelle for telling me this.
Man it’s been years. We finally get to see these videos again.😭😭😭😭 I remembered I would always get excited whenever Michelle posted a video. I was only in 8 grade when I started watching Michelle, now I’m already working. I miss how TH-cam used to be back then.
rewatching this while dealing with the loss of my senior year bc of COVID. thx for always being there Mish. subscriber for 11 years strong!
Hello me from 3 years ago
What if you had former best friends that made you feel stressed out for 8 years? Leaving them was a relief. No more constantly feeling guilty or ashamed. But was it the right thing to do.....?
I went through the same thing! Cutting them off and moving on with my life was the best thing I've ever done! Trust me! It might be hard the first few weeks but you will realize how much better off you are. Do what makes you happy love and enjoy life! Make new friends ☺️
There was a time when I didn't have any friends too but that will never last! Just give yourself the chance to make friends ☺️ and I'm East African
Someone else commented earlier about not having friends but I guess they deleted their comment. But you're right quality is always better! I really hope things work out for you Hun and stay happy
AllTypesofNajma ^_^ I have made new friends and reconnected with old ones. Friends come and go. People change. Who you were friends with 2 years ago may not be your friends now. You just have to be careful who you make friends with.
I'm actually going through that right now and it's the reason why I'm stressed out! This isn't the first time and I'm ready to let go of them! I'm not a person to live a dramatic life with dramatic people . I'm sweet and calm, I don't want energy like that! But I've decided I should do yoga, and just relax ! Thanks to Michelle, I can finally find away to escape ! And find myself ! Be strong! Don't let your frenemies take you down
commentary in Spanish , if you can understand me, thanks.
este vídeo por algún motivo me ayudo un montón,mi escuela, mis notas, mis relaciones con mis amigos,alguien especial en mi vida y sobre todo mi familia,me traen una carga de estrés,no tengo una edad muy avanzada pero tengo mucha ansiedad,nervios,y un montón de cosas en la cabeza, la verdad es que si quizás he encontrado una manera de que quizás el estrés pueda disminuir, es pensar que todo se va a mejorar,en que cosas eres bueno, y recuerda que algún día este mundo te lo agradecerá.
gracias por tus consejos Michelle. eres la mejor.
desde Colombia
si :)
sufro de stress y la verdad es que necesito un abrazo
awww que lindo :)
Hola, yo también soy de colombia y sí el estrés aveces puede ser una putada haha. Yo en lo personal sigo el consejo de michele de hacer lo que amas, aveces cuando toda mi familia se va de casa voy a mi cuarto, apago todos los focos y enciendo una vela y pongo musica relejante como adele o lana del rey y empiezo a bailar o simplemente cerrar los ojos y mover mi cuerpo y en serio que me ayuda mucho
Magnetic Hug exacto sigue a si!!!
translation for people who do not know spanish: This video for some reason helped me a lot, my school, my notes, my relationships with my friends, someone special in my life and especially my family, bring me a load of stress, I'm not very old but I'm very anxious , Nerves, and a lot of things in the head, the truth is that if I have perhaps found a way that perhaps stress can decrease, is to think that everything is going to improve, in which things you are good, and remember that someday This world will thank you.
Thanks for your tips Michelle. you're the best :-)
I've watched this video for a million times. Whenever I feel stressed out, watching this, listening to her voice, doing anything make me comfortable. It's really peacefully . Thank you Michelle 😊
Saw this video on my senior year of high school, a very hard time for me, still love rewatching it! That's how much this content impacted my life! These are the type of videos that should stay trending, because younger viewers truly need it.
Do you think that just her sounds can also help you relieve your stress?
Yes! She sounds so calm n makes me relax 😌
I have 5 tests next week and I'm just so worried and stressed out about them.. I feel like I'm not studying enough and I wanna do extremely well so I can prepare for midterms. Any tips?
thanks :)
omg im subscribed to you and i just was looking through the comments and i found you! haha ily
study for about 10-20 every 2 hours so you can take breaks that way you can cram your head for the tests but still be able to have fun without pressuring your self:) i hope that helped
omg same
i like to use cards with the answer on the back and make sure to take ur text book home (duh!?) and as Hope Carr said do 10-20 minutes every 2 hours :)
I lost this video for a while, Michelle thank you for this, your voice is helping me more than you know. Life is tough and your video really really helps me. I could listen to you say everythings gonna be okay like every day of my life. Your amazing!
watching this video and reading the comments of this video makes me really happy because they're all so positive. michelle is so wonderful, it's like she has this weird spell on her where everyone is always so peaceful and happy around her or maybe when they're commenting something on one of her videos. she brings out the light in everyone! thank you michelle for keeping us calm and happy♡
A way to help me unwind is just to see the people I love and listening to their music. (in this case, 5sos) They helped me so much, they help me unwind, their voices are so soothing and beautiful. When I see them do stupid or dorky things, I laugh, and it really pulls me away from reality. It's amazing. I nv thought they wld help me so much, and I am truly so happy to have stumbled across them. Luke's voice cracks, Calum's fall, Michael's change of lyrics and Ashton's craziness. I noe I am being a fangirl here, but trust me. Listen to music, and find and artist that makes you happy. Idc if it's miley cyrus or whuddever, cause if it makes you happy, than ur miley is my 5sos. Also, I have a hobby. It keeps me occupied all day, and I got thro all these days bc of my hobby and listening to my fav artist. I play the violin, and I spend hours composing, finding out how to play songs on it. I sing when I am stressed as well. I sing it out loud so that my brain can only think about the lyrics. and when i mean singing out loud, I mean to the extent of shouting out the song. Taking pics and editing them also occupies up my time. Videos as well. I love vlogging privately the amazing parts of my life, and when sad, I look at it, and tell myself that these days will cm again if I work hard, thus making me move on. The above things help me not end my life. Goin thro depression and bullyin is not the best thing at all. To all victims out there, stand up for ur rights and do what u luv. Block them out by doing things that pleases u. Or even hw. We all dread hw, but wut we dont know is that while doing difficult math sums, our brain blocks out evrything, and it makes us focus on what is more important. God bless all of you, bye
Literally me with the Janoskians. They make me so happy. They are 99.9% of my heart. If it weren't for them, I'd probably not exist.
I love you
I love you back
I love you so much because you've described my love for these boys so easily
Trust me, what I said isn't even half of how I feel about them.
Really surprised no one has mentioned smoking marijuana to relax haha
Being high Asf doesn't make the stress go away.
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Vichetcaa Exactly! It just makes you forget for a short period of time... then it all comes back...
Lol nice. And ohmygod. I really want a pet husky.
Vichetcaa Ivana Irwin really!? makes me feel so much better about things.
Goodness, just going through her videos again brings you such a relief. Even after all these years every video has it's own way of soothing and reminds us to just relax, practice self love and keep pushing 💞 Thanks so much, Michelle 💁😘
I keep coming back to this video. Her voice, the music, everything is so soothing, I like to put in my headphones, close my eyes, and listen like it's a guided meditation. ☺
Michelle's videos have helped me so much. I've been watching them since I was in highschool, and now I'm in college. Michelle is one of the youtubers that defined my highschool years. I love to revisit videos I used to watch years ago. I like to remember the feeling 15-year-old me had like, "These people are so cool! Will I ever be like that!" And I'm glad Michelle is one of the people that influenced and inspired me when I was younger.
Just when I was taking. Break from stressful studying for my finals week. 💕💕💕 thanks for always being there for me Mish!
Wow that's nice :) Thank you for sharing i'm passing my baccalaureat exams this year and i'm soo stressful and scared
The only thing that's a shame for me is that I have quite severe eczema and am allergic or sensitive to a lot of things mentioned in this video (animals, scented things, hot water on my skin). But this video was still helpful to me as an inspiration to allow myself to relax more :) My eczema is very stress-related too, so I shouldn't forget about that. It's kind of a vicious cycle because the itching and pain from eczema itself is stressfull too, but a lot of it is really in my head. Thanks Michelle, you're always an inspiration :)
Same here. You're not alone :)
I have eczema too! I'm so glad to find people go through this as well! In the summer my cheeks would go bright red and they were so itchy and inflamed, it really took a blow to my self-esteem. I agree with you it does have to with mentality as well. The itchiness made me so angry and annoyed, I'd scratch it harder. Reading your comment made me smile because eczema isn't brought up and most people think it's gross.
I have eczema strangely goats milk soap really helps moisturize without making me break out
Robin my friend.
You are a strong person.
Don't you dare stress no more.
Stay happy,
For me :)
I would Like you to smile.
No mather What.
I don't know you in real Life,
But i just know that you can controle Youre thoughts, mind and feelings.
Use this gift.
:)
Tho I do not have Eczema, I read a lot about it and have friends who have it and done holistic research that diet can completely eliminate Eczema. I know for a fact dairy is one of the most popular causes for eczema. Or cutting out certain things such as glutton. I read many successful stories and have friends who are on strict diets and no longer need to be on medication. Also when your on your own personalized diet that directs your specific health needs, some of your allergy/sensitivity can correct itself . I encourage to do your own research
and or go see a holistic doctor, hope this helps!!
How do I destress?
I watch this video.
You know someone makes an impact when you see this video many years old, I've seen it a hundred times and whenever I feel not okay I still come back to it. And it helps every time. Every single time. Thank you Mish xxx
i was okay, just putting on my night routine, while playing this vid, in the middle of writing my final college thesis calmly, and i cried when you said everythings gonna be okay. i dont even know why i broke down, thanks Mish, i think this is my wake up call to de-stress
My chill out song is" I see fire" by Ed Sheeran any one else?
Sam smith also has a few nice songs :D
Vivian Li definitely
You guys should listen to "maybe" by the isbells. It's so soothing and it really gives me time to reflect 😊😊
Ily
the kygo remix of i see fire is amazing you should check it out
I absolutely admire how you take such good care of yourself, Michelle. It's really quite inspiring! In the midst of all our daily chaos, it's important to take a step back and reconnect with our deeper sense of self. Burnout is never fun! >.
Thank you Michelle. Being between jobs and struggling to find something I enjoy for a living, as well as recently having left my family and friends behind, means I really needed this.
I keep coming back for this video. Just watching this makes me feel better, her voice is so calm. My all time favourite video on youtube! ❤
I love to read my bible, and memorize bible verses, and pray and listen to God. I also LOVE to exercise and go for a walk, that always makes me feel better. Listening to music always puts me in a good mood too! playing a musical instrument is always nice, piano, guitar and drums and my favs. thanks for sharing! i wish i had a bathtub!
I can actually relate to your de- stressing regimen. What kind of music do you listen to? Any favorites?
Dzi Dzif "Intro" by The XX is definitely a good song to de-stress. It's really soothing :)
I listen to a lot of different things! J-pop and K-pop are usually the norm. I also listen to a lot of worship music. Sometimes just having positive types of music really lifts your spirits and can change the mood!
I'm 13 and I've been through a lot. My anxiety has been so bad and this video has really helped. I don't want to go into to much detail but I wish I could talk to u Mish. Love you ❤️❤️
I really hope you find the happiness you deserve, lovely! Sometimes we find it where we least expect it. May I suggest a site that has helped me lots? jw (dot) org :) For me, that has been a source for great advice and comfort. I hope it helps! Lots of hugs for when you need it most
you may not talk to her, but if you want you can send me a message, you can tell me your story
i know how hard is to be a girl now, i'm at your age and i'm soo stressed
i don't ask you to be my friend if you don't want, but at least you can tell me your story, idc, if you want
You're not alone... I'm 11 and have anxiety. It sucks I just try to occupy myself.
Thank you everyone so much! To know that people I don't know are nicer than many of my 'friends' really shows what people are like. This has really helped me to know that there are people out there who care about other people, and that makes me happy :)) thank you
i cried when i watch this video
thank u for the advices u gave us, it's really useful and makes difference. u're so tender and sweet, u're an inspiration for many ppl.. god bless u 💜💜
Every time when I'm upset , stressful , feel like no one to talk to I'll click in this video . You're like my friend , heal me , helps me to seek my long lost inner peace . I had been watching this more than 20 times . Thanks Michelle .
I don't know why but this made me tear up! I sometimes forget to be human and relax! My mind and body stay at a constant race for its life that I forgot the little things that matter the most! Thank you for reminding me!!! Hugs from Chicago!
A very effective thing i do when i am stressed out or having a lot of anxiety is to simply think in the now. where am i right now? what am i surrounded by right now? i can feel my clothes against my skin. i can feel my bottom touching my chair. i smell my candle. things like that can be very soothing just because they simply take your mind away from the future or whatever it is that is stressing you out and it puts you into the now so you are better able to thinkand realize everything is gunna be okay :)
Wow thanks for the advice!! :D
You're not No1 for no reason...you got that soothing voice, face, aura...you re so motivational aswell..ADORABLE
Michelle, sometimes I wish you were my friend in real life so I could tell you all of my thoughts and receive all of your amazing advice. Sometimes I wish I could just cry on your shoulder and tell you everything I'm too afraid to say. I love you and your videos so much thank you for everything. ❤️
1. I click on all of your videos
2. I read this as "How to dress"
3. I was confused for a moment.
Lol! :)
Omg same i saw the title was how to dress and when i read the comments i was confuse because its not even related about how to dress and then i read the title and i just realize that its not how to dress
oh that's funny!
exams are freaking me outttt dont have time for this
Me too !!!!
This is by far my fav video from you. Reminds me of a time in my life when I was living in New York. I had a hard time in the city and wasn't sure what would happen. I remember watching this video over and over again... somehow it made it feel a little better. Thank you for making this video when you did :))
I totally admit that im a workaholic i even think of my job when im at home which easily bring out that stress in me,this video made me realize how simple things can makes me happy and remove stress,thanks michelle for creating this video!!i appreciate it a lot .I used to travel anywhere in my country when im stressed out it made me forget about my problems and the nature made me smile all the time !!!!xoxo
Dear Michelle Phan,
I need some tips on how to de-stress when it comes to School. I've tried a few things but I still feel that horrible feeling inside of me that I'm not going to get it done in time or when I forget something that isn't in the book but I have to know it. The reason I ask this is because I just started learning Physics of motion in my high school science book. All of the equations and number make me overwhelmed to the point of crying. I hope you can help me.
*****
Thank you so much!! I will definitely take your advice! I have been really stressed lately with what I mentioned and other things in life as well. Thank you sooo much for your ideas.
and the same to you
+HOEJABS It helped me a lot too, thanks!
Perfect video and great timing as well Michelle. Thank you. I've always struggled with destressing and in this chapter of my life right now, I'm still finding myself and what I want to do with my life here on Earth. I'm still a fulltime student and I've recently changed my major and it's scary and risky because all my life, I was shooting for one dream and that one dream is no longer achievable, at least not at this moment. I've been focused on one thing for so long that walking out of it and having to try something new, to be something new is nerve racking, frustrating, and stressful. Maybe I can acquire this dream again in the future, or maybe this is God's way of saying it was not really meant for me, or that there is another place that needs me more. I'm still praying that He helps me and leads me to the path He already created for me, but as of now, I am lost and confused on what that path is exactly. So it's been really stressful lately. My mom always tells me I need to find ways to not stress and your video tips have been what I needed. Thank you so much Michelle. :]
I'm just commenting to let you know that you're not alone. I'm seriously going through the exact same thing with my major. I'm even taking a break from school to work and figure it out because I've been so lost. You're definitely not alone!! But I'm sure you'll find the path that was destined for you! Good luck!! :)
Aww. :] Thank you. You're so sweet and kind. I also hope everything turns out well for you as well. That you also find that path that suits you and that we no longer stress in a bad way, but in a good way. Haha. Best of luck to you as well!
I went through something similar back in my college years. It is very stressful, yes. But don't worry, you will figure it out. Whatever you decide (or maybe life decides for you, that happens too), try to make the best of it. There is not just ONE career in life that can make you happy. There are tons of career paths and it's up to you to make the best of it :) You can do it, I know you can! Something that has helped me a lot over the years are the advices and comfort given on a site called jw (dot) org :) I hope it helps you too! Stay beautiful, lovely
Aww thank you so much! Your words are relieving because I do strongly believe that. However it is hard sometimes to figure what that is or what step to take so that life will take me there. I will definitely check that site out! Thank you again. :]
I love the end of this video! It’s SO SO SO true that animals bring joy and relaxation. My cats are my ultimate stress relief as well. The moment I come home they all run to the front door to greet me. And in that instant my entire work day stress is gone. Sort of a bad thing when I see a customer I saw the next day and they ask if I remember them lol
I keep coming back to this video. Kind of going through a hard time right now but this video calms me down so much. You are amazing Michelle. Thank you so much.
Listening to songs like Yellow Flicker Beat by Lorde, Never Be by 5 Seconds of Summer, or Off My Mind by Allison Grey or Awakening by Aurora Aknes are my chill out songs.
Hearing you say "everything's gonna be ok" really helped me out. I almost broke into tears because i have so much going on and i love you Mish
Try any Ed sheeran songs they are really calming (like photograph or I see fire)
Joe Hisaishi- Howl's Moving Castle makes me feel utter tranquility...I feel as if I am dancing on clouds in the sunlight wearing a white dress ....that was serious imagery but that's honestly how I feel lol
wow thanks guys! xx
I like to listen to asmr videos as I nap or go to sleep... I'm a student so I don't get much sleep because school... and I also listen to the bowl too. I like to raise it up high so that's the only thing I hear because headphones while going to sleep isn't really safe
Uni stuff totally ruin my sleeping hours and yes I listen to ASMR too!
This is actually super helpful. This year was a horrible year for me.
I was hanging out with he wrong crowd, and making horrible decisions. And now I understand that I need to focus on my own well-being first. I want to re-start and do things in my life that I was born to do. Now I’m starting a podcast and start a book. I just need to relax ♥️
I am rewatching your vids at 2019. I had watched them all when I was in college but I just missed you and here I am. 😍 you really are inspiration then and now. Mwaaah