Hi Jaks, being a newbie to social media I only just discovered your videos/shorts - a very good experience for me. I enjoyed listening to your coming out story: so different from mine, and yet so many similarities as well. Inevitably hearing from you sent me down memory lane (my own coming out, such as it was, happened in 1976!) which was good but kept me up at night -- and heaven knows I need my beauty sleep, so thanks for that :--) I also watched a number of your shorts. One that particularly resonated with me was the one where you explain it is alright to be vanilla, or bland, or whatever. I like nothing better than staying at home with a good book. To ech his own. What would be really boring is if we were all exactly the same, liked the same thing, etc. Another interesting one is the one where you told you tend to get noticed by different types of men depending on whether you are clean-shaven or are sporting a beard. Very true indeed, as most men will agree. And yet... I am one of those who prefer to look at clean-shaven faces (I am always suspicious about what these beards might be hiding, it could be a a multiplicity of sins, or even a multiplicy of chins) but your particular type of beard/stubble (bristly rather than fluffy) is actually quite attractive. In fact it reminds me of the first guy I made love with (although ancient I can just about remember it!). Oh well. Just wanted to say hi, really. Keep up the good work. I hope to find the time to watch more of your videos (obviously I haven't even begun to scratch the surface so far). Oh, before I forget, the best thing about your videos is that you are so eloquent. Do you just talk off the cufff? Quite amazing. And much appreciated and enjoyed. Bart
So interesting because my Mom also struggled the most with my coming out more so than my Dad! You did an amazing job stepping through your coming out story! You definitely kept my attention through your entire video!
Thanks, Jaks, for sharing your story. Sexuality can be very fluid over time. I myself, am attracted to both men and women. I was married to a woman for 17 years and have two beautiful children. Now I have been with my husband for 28 years. I have felt deep love for both of them and consider both of them my soul mates. Circumstances change, life changes. You learn more about yourself as the years go by. I would love to have a man and a woman in my life at the same time, but that will never happen, so I appreciate what I do have.
Dude I'm bisexual myself and I was married for twenty eight years. And then I suddenly wasn't anymore. I'm now a sixty year old virgin as far as the relationship I would love to have with another guy. You were saying that you couldn't have both. But I've recently seen Lady boys. Looks like a beautiful woman with beautiful breasts but male where it counts. I think for a Bisexual man. A beautiful lady boy would be the perfect fit. So I'm still a little hopeful. But who knows.
It's the opposite for me. I used to like both, but as I grew older. I'm more and more set in stone in my attraction to the male body. My 20 was the turning point for me, that was when my attraction to girls started to go away. Now, I'm 32 and I can confidently say that I no longer feel any attraction to the opposite gender, like at all. Show me a beautiful lady in less clothing in my teen years and I would "get up", but now it doesn't do a thing to me. Show me a man however. It'll stand like it's saluting.
I stick with bisexual, but tend to prefer men. Married to my ex wife for 9 years, in a relationship with my partner for 8 years. (The two of them go to movies together, lol, they’ve bonded over marvel movies) I prefer men, but don’t close the door on women. Thanks for sharing your story, sir!
Thanks for sharing. You are so right in saying that you have to come out over and over. You deal with the really important people first off but then over time you come out to the new people that enter your life..
Jaks, Your story was refreshing to hear. My philosophy for sexual identity has always been: sex is not male or female, it’s human. I know for me there was a physical awakening before the psychological awakening. I was 12 years old and being fitted at a men’s store for a new suit. When the salesman ran his hands down my legs in order to get measurements I felt like I had been struck with lightning. This wasn’t pervy in any way. It was just when my body woke up to sensual feelings. There was no bodily response like an erection, just an awakening and a feeling I had never experienced. And yes, it was incredible. The psychological part has been a rough road at times given the times and home I lived in over the years. I share the above to let you know not to worry about coming out when or to whom. It’s your life, your body, (and I might add a very fine body) and your in control. Enjoy all the sensations and emotions that you will have coming your way. Never regret !!!!
Just found this. I loved hearing your story. And especially liked your attitude to your own unique variety of sexuality and orientation. It's great you can feel so free to claim all that you feel and all that you are.
The reason people try to categorize others is because everyone tries to label themselves. And in an attempt to stand out, they keep coming up with new names to make themselves stand out. A lot of these labels also originated in porn as a way to direct viewers to their preferred type of performer. People are now trying to fit into these categories mainly to advertise themselves to those who are attracted to their anesthetic. I honestly cannot say I would date a Trans woman, because for me that will always visually be a woman no matter what is between her legs. But that could change if i met the right one. The problem is nowadays we're not really taking the time to get to know PEOPLE. We make up this predetermined "type" where they have to check all the boxes before we even give them the time of day.
Very well spoken. Thank you for sharing. It sounds like friendships and deeper love in those frienships. Wonderful that you have family support and positivity around you. Best regards.
Hi mate, great video. Hope you have great experiences. So lucky your parents and family are so supportive. Your partner will certainly be a very lucky person to have you.
Wow, your video touched my heart. It takes incredible courage to share such a personal and significant moment like coming out for the first time. Your vulnerability and authenticity are truly inspiring. Thank you for opening up and sharing your story with the world. You are not alone, and your words will undoubtedly resonate with others who may be going through a similar experience. Keep shining your light and being true to yourself. Your bravery is making a positive impact and helping create a more inclusive and accepting world. Sending you love and support on your journey!"
It's nice to see that Dylan and you are so similar. And beautiful faces as well. This is a great topic for a conversation between you two! A video interview with you two would also be great!
You should be able to love whoever you want without fear and you don't need to label yourself either . Follow your spirit it will never lead you astray. Kudos to your mum and dad for being loving ! ❤
Completely agree, if someone doesn’t know what to label themselves, that’s ok, you don’t have to label yourself unless you want to, just be yourself and love who you love, labels are overrated anyway
Labels make things quick and easy to categorize but nothing about people is that simple. I hate labels and all the bs that comes from them in and out of the LGBTQ community. We don't have a label for people who like pizza or for those who don't like jazz, why do we still need labels for our sexuality? You do you man, find happiness with whoever makes you happy!
Wonderful story from beginning to end. It will help so many young people in a time where being a member of the LGBTQ+ community became more than ever in my long lifetime an ‘issue’ to put it mildly.
Hi Jaks, PS to reply (below) to your coming out story: I forgot to say, I appreciated you talked not just about your actual coming out (to parents, family and beyond) but also about how you dealt with what needs to take place before that: learning to understand what is going on and who you are -- in fact, coming out to yourself, as you migth say. How else can you explain that to other people? And to me that part of the story is perhaps even more important than the coming out part.
First of all - 🇧🇷 GREETINGS FROM BRAZIL! And, have you ever talked to a Brazilian to begin with?! 🤔 I've just come across your post and I found your story very inspiring! I'm older than you, from a very different cultural background and... God only knows HOW MUCH I would have loved to meet someone like you back in the day when I was going through my own share of new experiences in life! I was once an exchange student to the US which, most definitely, changed my life forever! Though improbable and hardly feasable, I would LOVE to share my own stories with you as well as listen to YOUR other tales that are not told here... Anyways: your courage and sincerity in sharing your life perceptions with us, your listeners, truly makes our days lighter and more joyous! Keep it up!... Love, from 🇧🇷💖🇧🇷
Hey Jaks, thanks for the video!😄 I resonated with what you said. Unlike you, however, I am exclusively attracted to men, both emotionally and physically. It’s great to see that there’s someone out there who’s had a very similar experience. Wishing you a great day. All the love from 🇬🇧
Thanks for sharing! I love how we all go through similar struggles but we have the help of others who came before us for help and guidance! Thank you so much for your Comment
@@Jaksattacks Don+t see anything only in the physical attraction and being male or female. Have eyes which can see more. GOD give it and GOD shall took it away. After rising from the dead, we are genderless. Mark 12:25 For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven. Life is not fornicating with one another. (wise soul FLEES FORNICATIONS). Life is: a test though which we chose life or death, getting right with GOD and becoming new creature, There`s only reasons to PRAISE GOD, cause HE give us; - our existence (life), - our health, - made us either male or female, Everything which is worthy to have, GOD GIVE. So, souls, what`s it is? You all gonna chose life and flee fornications? or You all gonna chose death and make your own lives only filled with fornications? Cause ALONE TIME stops your heart? Away from other HUMANS, take away your mind? What`s scars you all HAVING ALONE TIME? Deuteronomy 30:19 I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live: Joshua 24:15 And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD. Mankind has turned lives into 1 big fornications with everyone. No wonder, no soul has no longer any will to live. (Suicide rates are high). We should start advising humans to have ALONE TIME without any technological garbage: TVs Phones - computers - internet. It is healthy to feel: boredom WE ARE SPIRITS, after all. Genderless beings. Why to make this temporarily life filled with PRIDE AND SICK AND EVIL WAYS of living? What reflects in our lives that, we being HUMANS? - abusing one another daily in all evil and sick ways - is that what`s reflects it? We desire so badly the fate SODOM AND GOMORRAH had? Luke 5:32 I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance. John 3:7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. No soul is born any of the lgbitq+ All humans are born with sinful nature, making us deceivable beings. Tell a beautiful lie: - moon landing - living on a globe - 1000s of genders - evolution - climate change - governments shares real news - Schools give us education ……… we believe. Tell truth: - Humans are sinners, called to repentance - born again - obey BIBLE - flat earth covered with firmament, no moving, perfect creation from GOD - mankind under MK ULTRA mind control (deceived by lies) - THE RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT OF GOD - TV and schools BRAINWASH our minds - Only 2 genders (male and female) …….. we believe not.
Dude Thanks for sharing your story - The ripples of your story will bring about good positive energy world🌊. Continue to live in the Fullness of Humanity - good on you✅✅✅
@@Jaksattacks Hi, You are a wonderful young man! Very attractive. Hope you are happy through out your life. Where are you located now? I live in the country below Canada. Do you reply to the comments? Hope to hear from you if possible! I am not sure how responses work. Help me if you can. Thanks.
You're lucky to have such parents... I really admire that you were understanding of your mom's reaction and didn't see it as a let down reaction... You were an amateur at a very young age.... You're so open and real I can tell from this video you didn't try to exaggerate things and spice it up to increase the views and catch attention and things... No you just lay everything on the line ... I love the insights and advices at the end, I needed to hear those
Thank you for sharing! I like your point about how only you get to define you, whether you want to define yourself in the first place. I myself came out in my high school yearbook quote: "I started high school with straight A's...now I'm not even straight! I'm still me, though!" And now I'm a rising senior in college more confident than ever before, and I post pride month-themed piano covers :)
You are correct The people who feel it's necessary to have (1) one label over think everything. If I meet someone and the feel the need to tell me there sexual orientation "fine" and if they don't that's fine also people that I consider friends are select personalities with great humor strong emotions and awsome characters. The only time I consider there sexual orientation is when "go to bed" together.
Human sexuality is very fluid in nature. People are not simple, they are complex, so therefore their sexuality is as well. I would say you are bisexual with a tendency toward men. Bisexuals can be "leans men, fully neutral, leans women."
That was a very interesting story Jaks ,thanks for sharing …you mentioned you had a Twitter account ,what is the title ,I’d like to follow you there as well ..cheers
My opinion is I don’t have to come out to everyone I meet, it’s no one’s business what I am. If they ask then ya or if they wake up next to me of course 😊
Hi Andrew, I’ve seen your comment and am surprised that you’ve not yet had a reply. The first pointer would be for you to put your safety first. Take it slow and careful and build up a support group of like minded friends. How fast you get fully out would depend on this network and the general attitude in your area. Big hug from🇿🇦
If you live in a conservative country be safe !! if you live in a tolerant country where lgbt people have rights, then BE PROUD OF YOURSELF .. if people see you proud and confident, they will accept you more
Congratulations! I"m proud of you for being your own individual. That's how it should be. Just remember! Your not the problem! Others are who don't like your style are the real problem. Stay strong!
I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Thank you so much! I think if we can lead with love, the world will always become a better place. It is up to us to shape the future that we want to live in and to love the people who need it the most.
For some sexuality like yours is fluid. Others are set in stone and never change. Never let someone define your sexuality for you if they try to it's time to be rid of that person. When I was younger, I thought I was bisexual I even almost got married. Two weeks before the big day, she told me she had an abortion. I broke off the engagement and swore I would never be hurt like that again. From that day, I have only been with men.
It is a process, military brat, marine, disabled vet, served during don't ask don't tell and Christian southern babysit parents. It was rough deprogramming myself. But I'm in a way better place now.
I dont agree with the once you come out your always coming out. Unless I am asked point blank I don’t feel it is necessary to discuss my sexuality because that doesn’t define who I am as a person. Sometimes falling in love is about the person, their soul, their mind, not what is between their legs. I fell in love with a best friend one time not because I wanted to but because the chemistry was there. It didn’t happen quickly it took years but once it did it was intense. I remember he started smelling really good and I ask him what kind of cologne he was wearing , it was spicy, earthy, maybe a little citrus, whatever it was it smelled awesome. Well guess what, he said he wasn’t wearing any cologne and from that time forward just walking behind him got my hormones raging because that wonderful spicy smell drove me crazy. He was and is definitely straight so that didn’t end well and we are no longer friends. Sadly I have never been in a loving relationship where the chemistry was that intense so I guess you could say I am a firm believer in love potion number 9. Lol I dated women until I was 37 and had sex with several but never got emotionally attached to any which can be a good thing because you don’t get consumed with that person but it’s not fair to them either. I have never been the type that could just hook up with anyone but at the same time I can meet someone and know instantly if I can, if that makes sense and it doesn’t always matter about what they look like, it can be total chemistry. Funny, as I get older everything I just said matters less and less and I realize that is normal too.
Jaks, you seem like an intelligent, young man. So stop complicating your life. You don't need labels. I'm 71, and the greatest lesson I have ever learned is...love who you love. Any time someone starts asking me questions I get just as personal with them. I'm just as direct with them as I need to be to make them understand to keep their noses out of my personal business. I wish you all the best, young man.
I’m not crazy about labels. Why does it matter? I once read a quote that I really like, “There are no homosexuals or heterosexuals. There are only homosexual and heterosexual acts.” I like that. The quote may be by Norman Mailer or Author Miller. I cannot remember. Haha.
I believe that we all have been both genders (male and female) in many previous lifetimes and that we "soul contract" for the most part prior to incarnating in our present lifetime, choosing our current sexual orientation. In a past life we could have been female and in this lifetime male or vice versa. There are variables, of course - not everything is set in stone. We can also choose on a soul level to change our orientation as we go along in our present life. So, it can be fluid. We are basically born a certain way, but I believe (for the most part) it's our own choosing.
Between the years of 10 and 12, I was absolutely attracted to both man and women. Then I started to be supportive of all genders, and I can accept all queer sub-groups as a loyal member of the movement.
I came out in the early 70's and it was not easy. Not much out there for support then. Wish it was better now, but with the MAGA wanting to put us all back in the closet it will still be not so easy. We have to be strong and make sure those around us are aware of the issues
Hi Jaks, being a newbie to social media I only just discovered your videos/shorts - a very good experience for me. I enjoyed listening to your coming out story: so different from mine, and yet so many similarities as well. Inevitably hearing from you sent me down memory lane (my own coming out, such as it was, happened in 1976!) which was good but kept me up at night -- and heaven knows I need my beauty sleep, so thanks for that :--) I also watched a number of your shorts. One that particularly resonated with me was the one where you explain it is alright to be vanilla, or bland, or whatever. I like nothing better than staying at home with a good book. To ech his own. What would be really boring is if we were all exactly the same, liked the same thing, etc.
Another interesting one is the one where you told you tend to get noticed by different types of men depending on whether you are clean-shaven or are sporting a beard. Very true indeed, as most men will agree. And yet... I am one of those who prefer to look at clean-shaven faces (I am always suspicious about what these beards might be hiding, it could be a a multiplicity of sins, or even a multiplicy of chins) but your particular type of beard/stubble (bristly rather than fluffy) is actually quite attractive. In fact it reminds me of the first guy I made love with (although ancient I can just about remember it!).
Oh well. Just wanted to say hi, really. Keep up the good work. I hope to find the time to watch more of your videos (obviously I haven't even begun to scratch the surface so far). Oh, before I forget, the best thing about your videos is that you are so eloquent. Do you just talk off the cufff? Quite amazing. And much appreciated and enjoyed.
Bart
So interesting because my Mom also struggled the most with my coming out more so than my Dad! You did an amazing job stepping through your coming out story! You definitely kept my attention through your entire video!
All I know is.. absolutely everything about you is FIRE & GOLD. Have a fantastic, beautiful life!
Thanks, Jaks, for sharing your story. Sexuality can be very fluid over time. I myself, am attracted to both men and women. I was married to a woman for 17 years and have two beautiful children. Now I have been with my husband for 28 years. I have felt deep love for both of them and consider both of them my soul mates. Circumstances change, life changes. You learn more about yourself as the years go by. I would love to have a man and a woman in my life at the same time, but that will never happen, so I appreciate what I do have.
Or for some people.. it's set in STONE. I've never even so much as had a sexual dream about a woman. Not once in my entire life.
Dude I'm bisexual myself and I was married for twenty eight years. And then I suddenly wasn't anymore. I'm now a sixty year old virgin as far as the relationship I would love to have with another guy. You were saying that you couldn't have both. But I've recently seen Lady boys. Looks like a beautiful woman with beautiful breasts but male where it counts. I think for a Bisexual man. A beautiful lady boy would be the perfect fit. So I'm still a little hopeful. But who knows.
Advice from someone like you may have saved one hell of a headache with someone I have a kid with.
It's the opposite for me. I used to like both, but as I grew older. I'm more and more set in stone in my attraction to the male body. My 20 was the turning point for me, that was when my attraction to girls started to go away. Now, I'm 32 and I can confidently say that I no longer feel any attraction to the opposite gender, like at all. Show me a beautiful lady in less clothing in my teen years and I would "get up", but now it doesn't do a thing to me. Show me a man however. It'll stand like it's saluting.
I am 22 who identify as bisexual and haven't come out to anybody yet. Be yourself because everyone deserves happiness. 🏳️🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I stick with bisexual, but tend to prefer men. Married to my ex wife for 9 years, in a relationship with my partner for 8 years. (The two of them go to movies together, lol, they’ve bonded over marvel movies) I prefer men, but don’t close the door on women. Thanks for sharing your story, sir!
Thanks for sharing. You are so right in saying that you have to come out over and over. You deal with the really important people first off but then over time you come out to the new people that enter your life..
Jaks,
Your story was refreshing to hear. My philosophy for sexual identity has always been: sex is not male or female, it’s human. I know for me there was a physical awakening before the psychological awakening. I was 12 years old and being fitted at a men’s store for a new suit. When the salesman ran his hands down my legs in order to get measurements I felt like I had been struck with lightning. This wasn’t pervy in any way. It was just when my body woke up to sensual feelings.
There was no bodily response like an erection, just an awakening and a feeling I had never experienced. And yes, it was incredible. The psychological part has been a rough road at times given the times and home I lived in over the years.
I share the above to let you know not to worry about coming out when or to whom. It’s your life, your body,
(and I might add a very fine body) and your in control. Enjoy all the sensations and emotions that you will have coming your way. Never regret !!!!
Just found this. I loved hearing your story. And especially liked your attitude to your own unique variety of sexuality and orientation. It's great you can feel so free to claim all that you feel and all that you are.
You are you. be happy in your skin. You don't have to put a label on it. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thanks, Jak. Loved your presentation. You’re a beautiful human being! ❤
The reason people try to categorize others is because everyone tries to label themselves. And in an attempt to stand out, they keep coming up with new names to make themselves stand out. A lot of these labels also originated in porn as a way to direct viewers to their preferred type of performer. People are now trying to fit into these categories mainly to advertise themselves to those who are attracted to their anesthetic. I honestly cannot say I would date a Trans woman, because for me that will always visually be a woman no matter what is between her legs. But that could change if i met the right one. The problem is nowadays we're not really taking the time to get to know PEOPLE. We make up this predetermined "type" where they have to check all the boxes before we even give them the time of day.
Good work! You're a lucky dude. Go forth and have a great life!
Very well spoken. Thank you for sharing. It sounds like friendships and deeper love in those frienships. Wonderful that you have family support and positivity around you. Best regards.
Hi mate, great video. Hope you have great experiences. So lucky your parents and family are so supportive. Your partner will certainly be a very lucky person to have you.
Thank you so Much Mark!!
You are amazing 😍😍
Jaks, great video thank you for sharing. I love your voice and I think you're gorgeous!
Wow, your video touched my heart. It takes incredible courage to share such a personal and significant moment like coming out for the first time. Your vulnerability and authenticity are truly inspiring. Thank you for opening up and sharing your story with the world. You are not alone, and your words will undoubtedly resonate with others who may be going through a similar experience. Keep shining your light and being true to yourself. Your bravery is making a positive impact and helping create a more inclusive and accepting world. Sending you love and support on your journey!"
It's nice to see that Dylan and you are so similar. And beautiful faces as well. This is a great topic for a conversation between you two! A video interview with you two would also be great!
It’s crazy almost every coming out story I’ve listened to so far I always find things I relate to and experienced the same thing
same here with every coming out story i can relate to it
Thanks Jaks for sharing. I figured out I was bi when I was 56 yo. Accepting this I am so much happier and have met many new guy friends.
You should be able to love whoever you want without fear and you don't need to label yourself either . Follow your spirit it will never lead you astray. Kudos to your mum and dad for being loving ! ❤
Completely agree, if someone doesn’t know what to label themselves, that’s ok, you don’t have to label yourself unless you want to, just be yourself and love who you love, labels are overrated anyway
Awesome story, thank you for sharing! Looking forward to hearing more from you.
Labels make things quick and easy to categorize but nothing about people is that simple. I hate labels and all the bs that comes from them in and out of the LGBTQ community. We don't have a label for people who like pizza or for those who don't like jazz, why do we still need labels for our sexuality? You do you man, find happiness with whoever makes you happy!
Awesome introduction Jaks! Live your best life.
Great story. Sweet guy you are. Stay safe always
Wonderful story from beginning to end. It will help so many young people in a time where being a member of the LGBTQ+ community became more than ever in my long lifetime an ‘issue’ to put it mildly.
Like your show it would be great to meet someone like you it's very hard to find a friend to have fun with
Hi Jaks, PS to reply (below) to your coming out story: I forgot to say, I appreciated you talked not just about your actual coming out (to parents, family and beyond) but also about how you dealt with what needs to take place before that: learning to understand what is going on and who you are -- in fact, coming out to yourself, as you migth say. How else can you explain that to other people? And to me that part of the story is perhaps even more important than the coming out part.
Thanks for sharing your story, interesting and enlightening. You present as intelligent, well adjusted, poised, also eye-candy.
First of all - 🇧🇷 GREETINGS FROM BRAZIL! And, have you ever talked to a Brazilian to begin with?! 🤔
I've just come across your post and I found your story very inspiring! I'm older than you, from a very different cultural background and... God only knows HOW MUCH I would have loved to meet someone like you back in the day when I was going through my own share of new experiences in life! I was once an exchange student to the US which, most definitely, changed my life forever!
Though improbable and hardly feasable, I would LOVE to share my own stories with you as well as listen to YOUR other tales that are not told here... Anyways: your courage and sincerity in sharing your life perceptions with us, your listeners, truly makes our days lighter and more joyous! Keep it up!... Love, from 🇧🇷💖🇧🇷
It’s good to tell your story. It will be helpful to someone.
Hey Jaks, thanks for the video!😄
I resonated with what you said. Unlike you, however, I am exclusively attracted to men, both emotionally and physically.
It’s great to see that there’s someone out there who’s had a very similar experience. Wishing you a great day. All the love from 🇬🇧
Thanks for sharing! I love how we all go through similar struggles but we have the help of others who came before us for help and guidance! Thank you so much for your Comment
Thanks for sharing your story. I am also in a stage of self discovery and yeah I relate to the struggle/time it takes to figure everything out
Thank you so much, I think we all constantly work on ourselves and learn what works for us! ❤
@@Jaksattacks Don+t see anything only in the physical attraction and being male or female. Have eyes which can see more. GOD give it and GOD shall took it away. After rising from the dead, we are genderless.
Mark 12:25 For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven.
Life is not fornicating with one another. (wise soul FLEES FORNICATIONS). Life is: a test though which we chose life or death, getting right with GOD and becoming new creature, There`s only reasons to PRAISE GOD, cause HE give us; - our existence (life), - our health, - made us either male or female, Everything which is worthy to have, GOD GIVE. So, souls, what`s it is? You all gonna chose life and flee fornications? or You all gonna chose death and make your own lives only filled with fornications?
Cause ALONE TIME stops your heart?
Away from other HUMANS, take away your mind?
What`s scars you all HAVING ALONE TIME?
Deuteronomy 30:19 I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:
Joshua 24:15 And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.
Mankind has turned lives into 1 big fornications with everyone.
No wonder, no soul has no longer any will to live. (Suicide rates are high).
We should start advising humans to have ALONE TIME without any technological garbage:
TVs
Phones - computers - internet.
It is healthy to feel:
boredom
WE ARE SPIRITS, after all. Genderless beings. Why to make this temporarily life filled with PRIDE AND SICK AND EVIL WAYS of living?
What reflects in our lives that, we being HUMANS? - abusing one another daily in all evil and sick ways - is that what`s reflects it? We desire so badly the fate SODOM AND GOMORRAH had?
Luke 5:32
I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
John 3:7
Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.
No soul is born any of the lgbitq+
All humans are born with sinful nature, making us deceivable beings.
Tell a beautiful lie:
- moon landing
- living on a globe
- 1000s of genders
- evolution
- climate change
- governments shares real news
- Schools give us education
………
we believe.
Tell truth:
- Humans are sinners, called to repentance - born again - obey BIBLE
- flat earth covered with firmament, no moving, perfect creation from GOD
- mankind under MK ULTRA mind control (deceived by lies)
- THE RIGHTEOUS JUDGMENT OF GOD
- TV and schools BRAINWASH our minds
- Only 2 genders (male and female)
……..
we believe not.
Hy Jaks, this video is great and it makes fun to listen to you and your story. Greetings from Germany and I pressed the subscribe button 👍😘🌞🍀🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Dude Thanks for sharing your story - The ripples of your story will bring about good positive energy world🌊. Continue to live in the Fullness of Humanity - good on you✅✅✅
I appreciate that!
Thank you so much for sharing your story! Representation matters and every story is valid!🌈
Oh my, Mark & Ethan, they were the G.O.A.Ts!
Thank you! And Yes! Their relationship showed me that anyone can achieve what they desire! And having a happy relationship is possible! ❤
I like watching Mark and Ethan, too
@@Jaksattacks
Hi,
You are a wonderful young man! Very attractive. Hope you are happy through out your life. Where are you located now? I live in the country below Canada. Do you reply to the comments? Hope to hear from you if possible! I am not sure how responses work. Help me if you can. Thanks.
FANTASTIC video! Thanks for this.
You're lucky to have such parents... I really admire that you were understanding of your mom's reaction and didn't see it as a let down reaction... You were an amateur at a very young age.... You're so open and real I can tell from this video you didn't try to exaggerate things and spice it up to increase the views and catch attention and things... No you just lay everything on the line ... I love the insights and advices at the end, I needed to hear those
i'm so proud of you. I really am so proud of you for making this video.
U nix up your do not know what u are
Awesome story, thanks for sharing. 💐😘❤️
Bravo. You are perfect just the way you are and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are mentally very healthy.
Thanks so much for sharing your coming out story. It is inspiring and hopefully your example will help others. Best wishes always.
Great video! Thanks for sharing your story.
Jaks, you are so cool. I am a Virgo, also. September1. Definitely think the same.
Thanks Jaks! This video was very inspiring. Still not completely out myself but I will be soon!
Its a journey and I am on it with you too!
@@Jaksattacks thanks for your encouragement! Your awesome!
Same here... 24 years in the closet and still no couage to come out😢
@@erAjoE we’ll do so when the time is right, and I feel like for me it’ll be with someone very unexpected.
Love this! Thank you so much for sharing!!
Love you man.
You're the type of guy I would fall for. ❤
Your “label” is JAKS! That’s all you need to be!😊
Finally, someone who gets it.
You’re right. We do come out forever.
Thank you for sharing! I like your point about how only you get to define you, whether you want to define yourself in the first place. I myself came out in my high school yearbook quote: "I started high school with straight A's...now I'm not even straight! I'm still me, though!" And now I'm a rising senior in college more confident than ever before, and I post pride month-themed piano covers :)
You are correct
The people who feel it's necessary to have (1) one label over think everything. If I meet someone and the feel the need to tell me there sexual orientation "fine" and if they don't that's fine also people that I consider friends are select personalities with great humor strong emotions and awsome characters. The only time I consider there sexual orientation is when "go to bed" together.
Jaks,, Love you are Priceless, God Bless You.🦄 🦄 🦄
Thanks Jax’s, for sharing!
HI JAKS I LOVE YOU AND THANKS YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY LOVE DAVID
You are beautiful so be you and enjoy your life.
Human sexuality is very fluid in nature. People are not simple, they are complex, so therefore their sexuality is as well. I would say you are bisexual with a tendency toward men. Bisexuals can be "leans men, fully neutral, leans women."
Great story !!
That was a very interesting story Jaks ,thanks for sharing …you mentioned you had a Twitter account ,what is the title ,I’d like to follow you there as well ..cheers
My opinion is I don’t have to come out to everyone I meet, it’s no one’s business what I am. If they ask then ya or if they wake up next to me of course 😊
PREACH!!! Love this!
I recently came out (5 weeks ago). What advice would you give someone like myself ?
Hi Andrew, I’ve seen your comment and am surprised that you’ve not yet had a reply. The first pointer would be for you to put your safety first. Take it slow and careful and build up a support group of like minded friends. How fast you get fully out would depend on this network and the general attitude in your area. Big hug from🇿🇦
If you live in a conservative country be safe !!
if you live in a tolerant country where lgbt people have rights, then BE PROUD OF YOURSELF .. if people see you proud and confident, they will accept you more
🤘🤘🤘 right on!!
Thank-you for being so honest may God bless you amen
hey just saw your video.. me and other half for 39 together very informed and damn youare pretty
Congratulations! I"m proud of you for being your own individual. That's how it should be. Just remember! Your not the problem! Others are who don't like your style are the real problem. Stay strong!
Totally understand. Good job. Thanks
Thanks for your interesting story. I am 77 and I am still coming out. All the very best.
I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Thank you so much! I think if we can lead with love, the world will always become a better place. It is up to us to shape the future that we want to live in and to love the people who need it the most.
Just WOW
For some sexuality like yours is fluid. Others are set in stone and never change. Never let someone define your sexuality for you if they try to it's time to be rid of that person. When I was younger, I thought I was bisexual I even almost got married. Two weeks before the big day, she told me she had an abortion. I broke off the engagement and swore I would never be hurt like that again. From that day, I have only been with men.
Great story. Thank you
Oh my God, youare so cute, and have such a great energy around and about you.
It is a process, military brat, marine, disabled vet, served during don't ask don't tell and Christian southern babysit parents. It was rough deprogramming myself. But I'm in a way better place now.
I dont agree with the once you come out your always coming out. Unless I am asked point blank I don’t feel it is necessary to discuss my sexuality because that doesn’t define who I am as a person. Sometimes falling in love is about the person, their soul, their mind, not what is between their legs. I fell in love with a best friend one time not because I wanted to but because the chemistry was there. It didn’t happen quickly it took years but once it did it was intense. I remember he started smelling really good and I ask him what kind of cologne he was wearing , it was spicy, earthy, maybe a little citrus, whatever it was it smelled awesome. Well guess what, he said he wasn’t wearing any cologne and from that time forward just walking behind him got my hormones raging because that wonderful spicy smell drove me crazy. He was and is definitely straight so that didn’t end well and we are no longer friends. Sadly I have never been in a loving relationship where the chemistry was that intense so I guess you could say I am a firm believer in love potion number 9. Lol
I dated women until I was 37 and had sex with several but never got emotionally attached to any which can be a good thing because you don’t get consumed with that person but it’s not fair to them either. I have never been the type that could just hook up with anyone but at the same time I can meet someone and know instantly if I can, if that makes sense and it doesn’t always matter about what they look like, it can be total chemistry. Funny, as I get older everything I just said matters less and less and I realize that is normal too.
Thanks for sharing your story
i am bi. whatever the person i am on board!
Jaks, you seem like an intelligent, young man. So stop complicating your life. You don't need labels. I'm 71, and the greatest lesson I have ever learned is...love who you love. Any time someone starts asking me questions I get just as personal with them. I'm just as direct with them as I need to be to make them understand to keep their noses out of my personal business. I wish you all the best, young man.
Another great video. Thanks for sharing.
You are a good human being
I wish we lived closer, I really could use your advice. Your story is all too familiar with me. I'm so confused on so many levels. Wish we could talk.
lovely coming out
Gorgeous
Congratulations ❤🎉it takes courage to defy the poles.
Do not accept labels, all people are in a spectrum.
Yes i agree !!
Thank you for this!!?
Great Story.
I agree with you and identity very closely with your message.
I settled on the label gay+.
I’m not crazy about labels. Why does it matter? I once read a quote that I really like, “There are no homosexuals or heterosexuals. There are only homosexual and heterosexual acts.” I like that. The quote may be by Norman Mailer or Author Miller. I cannot remember. Haha.
The quote is from Gore Vidal.
Where in Canada. I’m in Toronto
Beautiful 🎉
Well done and enjoy ❤
it nice to see more acceptance,in media and in our dialy life, Unfortuatly.I was born in 1953 and at 70 yo now i was unable to express my true self..
I am so sorry you had to grow up in Canada 🥺 you are so strong!!
THANK YOU FOR COMIG OUT YOU ARE MY HERO
I believe that we all have been both genders (male and female) in many previous lifetimes and that we "soul contract" for the most part prior to incarnating in our present lifetime, choosing our current sexual orientation. In a past life we could have been female and in this lifetime male or vice versa. There are variables, of course - not everything is set in stone. We can also choose on a soul level to change our orientation as we go along in our present life. So, it can be fluid. We are basically born a certain way, but I believe (for the most part) it's our own choosing.
Between the years of 10 and 12, I was absolutely attracted to both man and women. Then I started to be supportive of all genders, and I can accept all queer sub-groups as a loyal member of the movement.
Your parents gave you an incredible gift. They allowed you to be a child. I was given that same gift.
Clever man ❤
BEAUTIFUL BEBE PEACE ✌️
Wow.That was great.
I came out in the early 70's and it was not easy. Not much out there for support then. Wish it was better now, but with the MAGA wanting to put us all back in the closet it will still be not so easy. We have to be strong and make sure those around us are aware of the issues