My 42 yo narc hid his new supply because she was 17 years old AND the police chiefs daughter!!! Making a phone call to her daddy was one of the most satisfying things I experienced during that nightmare.
He always told me he was a private person and he doesn’t post his girls on social media he’s not married to. He got smart because his 2nd wife had girls exposing him left and right on social media. Now he doesn’t post anyone like he’s single when reality is he probably has multiple relationships. Never accept a man who hides you. I learned my lesson.
Yep!! My ex did this to everyone, including me!! All the back and forth that we did, he moved on silently, but still gave me false hope and we would still sleep together. In the end all of his lies finally came out because he told on himself and called himself coming clean LOL! SMH like I would really wanna deal with him after hearing all that bs. I'm so glad to be out of that toxic mess. Now his man parts no longer work and he really thought he was gonna be out there whoring around and come back to me all old and male parts messed up. NO THANK YOU!!! I can see clearly now, the NARC IS GONE!!! Pew.
I really appreciate the levels of transparency and honesty you share in these posts. Everything you've shared has been so spot on. Thank you for helping people understand and heal from these toxic entanglements.
They also do this and allow hints that they *might* be seeing someone else to triangulate- increase the interest/supply from you. The new supply will often struggle for acknowledgement= more supply.
Thank you! You are the first one to answer this question... and get it right. I was with a very evil narcissist for 14 years. Within one week of me leaving, he had already replaced me... well, judging from the marks on his body, I had been replaced for 3 or 4 months before I left. He did hide her from everyone including his family. When I found out about her, he said they were "just friends". They went camping together; but "separate tents." They did this and that, everything he and I had done together, but only as friends. He would also trash talk her to me, I hadn't gone no contact yet at that time. I knew him well enough to know that he was lying. 14 years of having to be 100% focused on him so I didn't get "in trouble" meant I knew him pretty well, or as well as anyone can know a narcissist. He made it seem like he was going alone when he posted on social media so no one knew she was with him where ever he went. I knew, though. I told him that he was single and could see whoever he wanted so he would stop lying to me. But he still kept her a complete secret from even his family. I couldn't figure out why... Until then they ended up accidentally camping at the same place that I was and I figured it out real quick! I saw one tent with one bed in it (the tent door was open), and an extremely hard to look at woman next to him. He was mortified and more than enraged. This was my replacement, the one who he was having sex with while he and I were still living together and wow what a down grade! Oh how the mighty had fallen. Of course he hid her! He tried to do damage control after that to continue the lie, "We're not having sex", "just friends; but she's afraid to be in a tent alone" blah blah blah. She did end up quitting her long time job, moving to a whole other state and refusing to tell him where she went so he wouldn't be able to find her after being with him for only 10 months. But she was replaced by one of the other women that he was hiding from her and everyone else... except me. I am 100% no contact with him now.
Kept on the hook, denied there was a new supply. Once I pulled it out from her, it was "none of my business" who the new supply was. "OK goodbye." Now being hoover'd relentlessly.
Mine admitted to cheating but won't tell me who the person is so I can at least trust him again.He only admitted it because I found out I have hep c and I'm not a drug user.Says I don't need to know who it is and we should just move on lol These people are so fucking sick, I'm saving up to leave I've been with him since I was 20 I'm now 33.
THE SAME HAS BEEN HAPPENING TO ME WITH MY BBY DAD. !! Hid it from me, I found out, he got mad af and now it’s “none of my business” lmfao and yes also hoovering non stop. While he has a gf and all. I’m DONE & OVER IT ✅‼️💯💯
This happened to me with 2 narcissists I’ve dealt with. Each time I ended and left. Years later both still try to connect with me but denied every time.
Sadly this was the case. Can’t believe I believed his bs. Said he was “working on” himself after I found out abo ut lies in the past and new female friends I questioned him about. Well No, he was working on the new supply. I believed his bs until I went to his house and found him with new supply. He told me- “it’s none of your business.” That’s all I needed and since have connected all the dots - mr private, working late, only wanted to stay at my house suddenly after 3yrs. I was such a sucker. No more!
truth!! I was married to a Narc for 15 years and when I questioned them...they lied.. " They are just a friend". One I dated hid me from their family. The new supply was paraded around to the family. Now he's broken up with her and calling her "psycho", which he also said about me.
Also your so close to their family and friends. They don’t want to be exposed as a cheater! Because they told their family something different …they don’t want anyone judging them at all. Specially family.
One of the earliest red flags (that I ignored) was him telling me about his breakup and saying "luckily she doesn't know where I'm hiding my new friend' referring to me. He's bounced back and forth between us for four years and lied about it the whole time. His father actually helped me and her compare notes.
My ex narc Hid her from everyone until he was sure I wanted him to leave and since I didn’t waiver this time, he then was going to see her for weekend while still at my house, denied, denied, denied, finally told him he had to get out. As you said didn’t need to show my evidence. He also didn’t want his family or son to judge him.
Your so appreciated mr hammock. Your absolutely right about everything you mentioned. I have had my experiences with narcissists in the past. Thank you for all that you do . love and blessings to you.😃😃😃😃😃🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
U are absolutely right Lee, he hide them for awhile and the women got in contact with me and told me, and I be damn if he didn’t lie about it, and I got it from the women he thought was on the down low. Great video Lee, keep them coming u are greatly appreciated…🙏❤️🙏❤️
I kicked him out bc I found inappropriate texts between them two. I then find his car in the driveway of her house. His excuse “ I just needed somewhere to crash bc my brother was up all night coked up” . He really thought I fell for that
I am so glad that the new supply contacted me. She was super anxious and when he found out because I did not want to be friends with him and went no contact. He screamed at her and the acused me for creating these issues. I had to block him for a month and then he still tried to contact me. I simply said I wish you the best after he denied that we ever had something. I don't care at this point! I already can see that she looks unhappy in the mew pictures she posted.
Exactly what the ex narc donor did. But my intuition was stronger. I left without having proof. Then almost a year later I found out my intuition was Right. The new supply also Bm conceived while I was Still with contacted me about his behavior. She Still living in misery with him. Kept her & the new baby a secret. Didn't know my kid had another sibling until the baby was 10 months. Definitely Still believing him even with Everything she learnt. Intentionally call me again randomly to tell me I was right & Everything I told her was true. However she's still with him. Her problem now. Trauma bonding is Real. A recent situation happened & he got her out here looking like a fool. I used to feel sorry for her but not so much now. I call her his minion now. Sad!!!
This video = Super Facts. Truth to the 10th degree. Sad. Horrible. But complete facts when dealing with the inbetween with a narc. That time Inbetween time, you know what I mean lol...smh... Knowledge is power though💯
@@tracyross9543 if hes a relationship narc .watching the videos with you wont help you. It will help him to see how weak you are for him. Because you're still there after knowing what you know and he will deny being a narc
My ex said to “ you may can be my side dude now, now that I have a new friend!” So she came back after seven months of no contact to bomb me with that mess. I blocked her after this.
Mine did not hide his. He brought her to our Place while I was Working (With our 10 Year Old Daughter there) and he also started taking our Daughter to her Place. Very sick. They don't care about the damage they cause their Kids either. It's scary.
I hoped mine had new supply. But hell undoubtedly they wasn't sticking around that long. 5 years u would think his pie hole would get tired n give up. Sheesh
Iv seen several YT channel thumbnails with people who discuss narcissism and this one is the only TH-camr that after just seeing his image on his thumb nails I go "funny how this dude talks about narcs and just looking at him I can tell that he is one.that narc energy. " finally watched a video and boom he's proud to admit that he actually is one .hilarious.
Yes, he hid her but the supply kept stalking me. She was in a red pickup driving by my house. So when he got on steroids and raged at me. I called the cops. Opp followed. He lied when I confronted him. When he came back to get his clothes with the cops her truck was in front of the cops. Idiot, what a way to start off with my soon to be ex husband!
Hello Lee. Great video as usual. My question is: Do narcissists start relationships with primary supply hoping that it will last, or do they know from the get-go that it won't last?🍀
Yes he recently got secretly married. But he has not declared married in the social media. That foolish girl is fallen in his trap. And even she hasn't questioned as to why he's hiding her from World. She's been shown his good part. So she will not believe anyone now
Is this the same as when a person who is narcissistic compartmentalizes and keeps their work very separate from their home and personal life? For example they don't take you to the Christmas dinner at the office because they say they like to keep things separate. What do you think?
They also seem to have a hard time understanding why other people find you likable and don’t want to hear/seeing others enjoying your company or you happy and having a good time.
My lady narc after we broke up is with another guy about 2 months afterwards. Keeping it secret. I saw his car in her driveway over night. And she drives to his place sometimes out of town area. She is down at her work to be off for vacation in a few weeks. Im upset!!!!!!
Yeah I think that what I just caught my now ex doing. She was definitely sneaking around someone so they wouldn’t find out she was trying to come over to my house. That’s when I finally just cut it all off and went no contact. Fuck that , I’m not being played and I don’t want anyone else being played as well. I know how that shit feels. Nah not gonna have it.
It wasn´t important to me at that time but it did raise a few questions, as to why my ex never posted pics about us on IG , personally I could´ve cared less since I´m not into social media and there would be times when she would block me from it and unblock me from it, that´s the part that raised questions (I met her friends & her family , sister, bother, mom several times and were out in public together as well)...So I told her to put up a pic of us on IG (to see her reaction) and she said she never posts pics up with the person she´s with out of protection, my response , are you with the cartel or something...and she looked dead at me with sarcasm and I´m very good at being sarcastic , yes I am, that´s why...hmm It still didn´t matter to me weather or not she did as said before, but her response was questionable and not only that but when she went to her companies christmas party she posted up two pics with 2 diff guys closely and that´s when I asked other females what that could mean, they said not much and pointed out body language stuff to me, when she came back to her place where I was at (she knew) she jumped all over me at around 3am wanting to F (side note: she never said no to me either) and I was already asleep, so I pushed her off and went back to sleep, why because she showed up 3h later then she said she would and blamed it on the uber...hmm long story short
Lee - what about a narc hiding your belongings? I know my ex used to. I'd search high and low for something, even buy a replacement...then the original would turn up and he'd deny all knowledge. When I asked where it had been, he'd just say 'dunno'. I think he was trying to make me nuts by gaslighting.
Do you know anything about women with this disorder?? Whenever I’m trying to communicate with her about something really important to shut down is that because she’s lying or hiding something I don’t know why she does that she pretends that she doesn’t wanna fight but I’m not fighting I’m communicating please let me know what you think
Just RUN... It will never end with a Narc periodt! It was so draining and when I finally realized that I was being dangled by a string so that I would never be happy with someone else I CUT HIS ASS OFFFFFFFF. I told him to GTFOH with the shits.
I think it's called "Time Blocking". My question, "hypothetically" speaking here. Let's say you came through for the narcissist. Boom ya helped em out. So you pretty much help them out with what they need. Like clock work. No "phsycial" abuse, happens, but eventually devalue happens and the narcissist splits again. So you have an empeckable record of making things happen for the narcissist. What goes on in the narcissist mind after the split? Even when the narcissist is out with someone else.
@@fishstickbio594 this is a way for the narcissist to assert control over the victim. Either the name came up, someone mentioned them, they had to bad mouth them to get an agreement from the friends that yes the victim IS bad etc. That validated the narcissist, gained fuel, and asserted control all with one single bad word about the victim.
lol he had me hidden from his ex and a few grls from his kakaotalk and social media.. i confronted him and he told me he didnt want to show his ex how he was living lol... and his family religion wants him to get married to their choice he was afraid what they would say ...
Lol... im still trying to get over you... I've heard it all... Have you heard the saying... if you let them go & they come back its because someone else let them go too... let them go again.
Just friends but he is living a double life , on dating sites , hides phone , doesn’t want to be judged because of the women he talks to. He uses everyone he comes in contact with. He can’t be alone so that’s the reason he fluctuates between at least two at all times . He has married 3 times , of course divorced , women won’t put up with the deception if they have any sense. So why do I stay friends? He is a building superintendent and can fix things , so that’s the payoff.
@@lizi.2503 He rents from me .I have rentals , there is always something needing fixed and I’m no slumlord . He has knowledge of why something broke and how to fix because he has been doing this stuff all his life. I know he’s not honest and he knows he’s not honest and if I was involved with him beyond friends it would be a problem but like I said the payoff of putting up with him is he will fix things.
@@barbarahering1310 he still has a hold on you. It is evident that you are not free from him. Usually people with children may have to put up with them. No one else has for any reason. What he can do someone else can. You are still connected to him wether you want to believe it or not.
@@SL-hq9mg so Are you out of your relationship? Im getting paid for rental and he does things I’m not capable of,. It’s different if you are not involved with a man / woman emotionally. I will never be with him but if I have to listen to his nonsense then I’m getting something out of it. I just needed verification that this is what I’m dealing with. What are you here for?
Feeling bad for them is how they can easily manipulate you. They cannot be saved or fixed. They are dangerous .all of them. They are all about self. Feel bad for knowing them dont feel bad for them. Feel bad for yourself.
@@SL-hq9mg I'm trying to understand the cutoff... I see Lee and he is a human being. Like we are. There has to be some way to reach people. It's like seeing a homeless person who's hungry while you're walking by eating a sandwich. It's hard not to help in some way
@@JusttRaquel a homeless person is experiencing poverty. A narc wants to hurt you and use you to push themselves ahead. It is a poor comparison. Even if you want to have compassion for them, do so at a distance because they are very manipulative. They are going to act broken but they will eventually try to break you. If you are not a certified therapist, I would suggest staying away from them once they have been identified. Your love cannot cure them. Therapy and divine intervention may bring them this far.
@@SL-hq9mg thank you. Trying hard to understand. It may seem easy from the outside to some .. it's a lot harder when you love the person and your every instinct is to love protect, and help them. It's hard to fight the urge to help in some way.... Added to that I am a nurse and it really feels like I am abandoning someone who is sick ... Just hard:(
What are you talking about 😂 . There is NO SECRET that the other side is not trustworthy !😂 I am waiting to tell us more on money schemes , online cheating ….. you know …..all of that 😂 ….
I know the Ex Narc has a New Supply and know who it is and kept asking Him to come clean and be honest and that's how I know cause he refuses to tell he was one when together love to brag and show off now he can't tell about his new crib and new supply smh think I'm hang around to be used if that doesn't work out NOT
My 42 yo narc hid his new supply because she was 17 years old AND the police chiefs daughter!!! Making a phone call to her daddy was one of the most satisfying things I experienced during that nightmare.
Lol OMG I bet 😂
Waow that is crazy and so damn satisfying at the same time. 👍😆
He always told me he was a private person and he doesn’t post his girls on social media he’s not married to. He got smart because his 2nd wife had girls exposing him left and right on social media. Now he doesn’t post anyone like he’s single when reality is he probably has multiple relationships. Never accept a man who hides you. I learned my lesson.
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Same goes for both genders ...
Thank you for this comment 🙏
Bc they've been cheating on you and need to wait a bit after break up, so it appears they weren't.
They always have a backup. another good one!
i appreciate it
This is the best narcacist channel.
Thank you
Absolutely ❤
Yep!! My ex did this to everyone, including me!! All the back and forth that we did, he moved on silently, but still gave me false hope and we would still sleep together. In the end all of his lies finally came out because he told on himself and called himself coming clean LOL! SMH like I would really wanna deal with him after hearing all that bs. I'm so glad to be out of that toxic mess. Now his man parts no longer work and he really thought he was gonna be out there whoring around and come back to me all old and male parts messed up. NO THANK YOU!!! I can see clearly now, the NARC IS GONE!!! Pew.
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I really appreciate the levels of transparency and honesty you share in these posts. Everything you've shared has been so spot on. Thank you for helping people understand and heal from these toxic entanglements.
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They also do this and allow hints that they *might* be seeing someone else to triangulate- increase the interest/supply from you. The new supply will often struggle for acknowledgement= more supply.
She knew about me but I didn’t know about her. I think I was used as motivation to escalate their relationship quickly.
@@maubyalya4611 so sorry you experienced this.
@@eponymoususer8923 it’s good! I’m destined for greatness 😉 my ex best friend and ex Narc have no business being in my new life.
Thank you! You are the first one to answer this question... and get it right. I was with a very evil narcissist for 14 years. Within one week of me leaving, he had already replaced me... well, judging from the marks on his body, I had been replaced for 3 or 4 months before I left. He did hide her from everyone including his family. When I found out about her, he said they were "just friends". They went camping together; but "separate tents." They did this and that, everything he and I had done together, but only as friends. He would also trash talk her to me, I hadn't gone no contact yet at that time. I knew him well enough to know that he was lying. 14 years of having to be 100% focused on him so I didn't get "in trouble" meant I knew him pretty well, or as well as anyone can know a narcissist. He made it seem like he was going alone when he posted on social media so no one knew she was with him where ever he went. I knew, though. I told him that he was single and could see whoever he wanted so he would stop lying to me. But he still kept her a complete secret from even his family. I couldn't figure out why... Until then they ended up accidentally camping at the same place that I was and I figured it out real quick! I saw one tent with one bed in it (the tent door was open), and an extremely hard to look at woman next to him. He was mortified and more than enraged. This was my replacement, the one who he was having sex with while he and I were still living together and wow what a down grade! Oh how the mighty had fallen. Of course he hid her! He tried to do damage control after that to continue the lie, "We're not having sex", "just friends; but she's afraid to be in a tent alone" blah blah blah. She did end up quitting her long time job, moving to a whole other state and refusing to tell him where she went so he wouldn't be able to find her after being with him for only 10 months. But she was replaced by one of the other women that he was hiding from her and everyone else... except me. I am 100% no contact with him now.
Kept on the hook, denied there was a new supply. Once I pulled it out from her, it was "none of my business" who the new supply was. "OK goodbye."
Now being hoover'd relentlessly.
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@@MentalHealness Haha that bad?
@@CFChristian don't be your own enabler... you deserve better my friend 💪🏽
Mine admitted to cheating but won't tell me who the person is so I can at least trust him again.He only admitted it because I found out I have hep c and I'm not a drug user.Says I don't need to know who it is and we should just move on lol
These people are so fucking sick, I'm saving up to leave I've been with him since I was 20 I'm now 33.
THE SAME HAS BEEN HAPPENING TO ME WITH MY BBY DAD. !! Hid it from me, I found out, he got mad af and now it’s “none of my business” lmfao and yes also hoovering non stop. While he has a gf and all. I’m DONE & OVER IT ✅‼️💯💯
This happened to me with 2 narcissists I’ve dealt with. Each time I ended and left. Years later both still try to connect with me but denied every time.
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Of course ….you should not expect anything good coming from them! Stay awake .
in my case she was hiding both sides she was hiding the new supply from me and my friends and and hiding me from the new supply and her friends...
Sadly this was the case. Can’t believe I believed his bs. Said he was “working on” himself after I found out abo ut lies in the past and new female friends I questioned him about. Well No, he was working on the new supply. I believed his bs until I went to his house and found him with new supply. He told me- “it’s none of your business.” That’s all I needed and since have connected all the dots - mr private, working late, only wanted to stay at my house suddenly after 3yrs. I was such a sucker. No more!
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That was my narcs favorite line too “it’s none of your business”…I’m sorry you had to go thru such an ordeal, mine has new supply too and is hiding it
True and normal
Mine disappears everyday at 5pm to around 5:40 and I think he’s picking up his new chick from work everyday but I can’t prove it
@@faceofglam on time like clockwork. Is he on-time for you?
truth!! I was married to a Narc for 15 years and when I questioned them...they lied.. " They are just a friend".
One I dated hid me from their family. The new supply was paraded around to the family. Now he's broken up with her and calling her "psycho", which he also said about me.
Also your so close to their family and friends. They don’t want to be exposed as a cheater! Because they told their family something different …they don’t want anyone judging them at all. Specially family.
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One of the earliest red flags (that I ignored) was him telling me about his breakup and saying "luckily she doesn't know where I'm hiding my new friend' referring to me. He's bounced back and forth between us for four years and lied about it the whole time. His father actually helped me and her compare notes.
My ex narc Hid her from everyone until he was sure I wanted him to leave and since I didn’t waiver this time, he then was going to see her for weekend while still at my house, denied, denied, denied, finally told him he had to get out. As you said didn’t need to show my evidence. He also didn’t want his family or son to judge him.
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Your so appreciated mr hammock. Your absolutely right about everything you mentioned. I have had my experiences with narcissists in the past. Thank you for all that you do . love and blessings to you.😃😃😃😃😃🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
You are very welcome
Thanks for all of your information. This is helping me understand what I went through and thank you for validating that I’m not crazy. Keep healing!
You are awesome. Thank you for your honesty and insight!!! ❣️
You are so welcome
Exactly.. no there’s no one! I’m only focused on you! I’m totally not interested in others!
Lies all lies
Thank you very much for all what you're teaching us. Your videos are really valuable and helpful
Sometimes???? How about for the duration of our entire marriage- there was always “new” supply. Keeping all options open.
U are absolutely right Lee, he hide them for awhile and the women got in contact with me and told me, and I be damn if he didn’t lie about it, and I got it from the women he thought was on the down low. Great video Lee, keep them coming u are greatly appreciated…🙏❤️🙏❤️
This is so on point.
This is very true...and that's crazy!!
I kicked him out bc I found inappropriate texts between them two. I then find his car in the driveway of her house. His excuse “ I just needed somewhere to crash bc my brother was up all night coked up” . He really thought I fell for that
OMG! He actually got a dummy phone and said it was my fault he had his new phone for "space"! He's about to get Big space!
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I am so glad that the new supply contacted me. She was super anxious and when he found out because I did not want to be friends with him and went no contact. He screamed at her and the acused me for creating these issues. I had to block him for a month and then he still tried to contact me. I simply said I wish you the best after he denied that we ever had something. I don't care at this point! I already can see that she looks unhappy in the mew pictures she posted.
Yes! I got hidden and he told me not to mix with people who knew him!
Can you do a video about when the Narc meet the Jezebel spirit person?
Omg this!!!
Or what happens when a narcissist interacts with a psychopath …..that would be fun ….
@@fishstickbio594 Would love to see how that would play out.
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I went through this last month. Every time I asked she changed the subject but she told everyone else.
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Lee i AM so proud of you....doing vidéos To help ppl like myself thank you💚💚💚💚💚
When you said "you wouldn't do that " I kinda went ahhh someone out hea will 🤣🤣🤣
Or they will hint loads about another supply
My abs fav Narc I love your RANTS
Exactly what the ex narc donor did. But my intuition was stronger. I left without having proof. Then almost a year later I found out my intuition was Right. The new supply also Bm conceived while I was Still with contacted me about his behavior. She Still living in misery with him. Kept her & the new baby a secret. Didn't know my kid had another sibling until the baby was 10 months. Definitely Still believing him even with Everything she learnt. Intentionally call me again randomly to tell me I was right & Everything I told her was true. However she's still with him. Her problem now. Trauma bonding is Real. A recent situation happened & he got her out here looking like a fool. I used to feel sorry for her but not so much now. I call her his minion now. Sad!!!
This video = Super Facts. Truth to the 10th degree. Sad. Horrible. But complete facts when dealing with the inbetween with a narc. That time Inbetween time, you know what I mean lol...smh...
Knowledge is power though💯
Omg word for word about social media
Yea my daughter always referred herself as his “mistress” 🤦🏾♀️, never number one. So sad, glad she wised up! 🧠
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Someone from my circle.
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I think the same with mine
He had taken all my options away and uses my baby as bait to keep me around. But it's just physical I feel like for him
I even tried to get him to watch ur videos cuz it's a rep of our lives
@@tracyross9543 if hes a relationship narc .watching the videos with you wont help you. It will help him to see how weak you are for him. Because you're still there after knowing what you know and he will deny being a narc
My ex said to “ you may can be my side dude now, now that I have a new friend!” So she came back after seven months of no contact to bomb me with that mess. I blocked her after this.
Mine did not hide his. He brought her to our Place while I was Working (With our 10 Year Old Daughter there) and he also started taking our Daughter to her Place. Very sick. They don't care about the damage they cause their Kids either. It's scary.
I hoped mine had new supply. But hell undoubtedly they wasn't sticking around that long. 5 years u would think his pie hole would get tired n give up. Sheesh
Iv seen several YT channel thumbnails with people who discuss narcissism and this one is the only TH-camr that after just seeing his image on his thumb nails I go "funny how this dude talks about narcs and just looking at him I can tell that he is one.that narc energy. " finally watched a video and boom he's proud to admit that he actually is one .hilarious.
He isn’t proud to be one, but he’s using what he has to bring awareness and he’s helping 1000s of people.
Yes, he hid her but the supply kept stalking me. She was in a red pickup driving by my house. So when he got on steroids and raged at me. I called the cops. Opp followed. He lied when I confronted him.
When he came back to get his clothes with the cops her truck was in front of the cops. Idiot, what a way to start off with my soon to be ex husband!
Gotta get some dirt on them first!
Hello Lee. Great video as usual. My question is: Do narcissists start relationships with primary supply hoping that it will last, or do they know from the get-go that it won't last?🍀
They definitely know
Of ….they know from the beginning they will be nasty ….🤫 …. They just wait to see how much they get out from you .
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Yes he will cause I will go straight to JAIL😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Hide hide hide😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️
Yes he recently got secretly married. But he has not declared married in the social media. That foolish girl is fallen in his trap. And even she hasn't questioned as to why he's hiding her from World. She's been shown his good part. So she will not believe anyone now
Is this the same as when a person who is narcissistic compartmentalizes and keeps their work very separate from their home and personal life? For example they don't take you to the Christmas dinner at the office because they say they like to keep things separate. What do you think?
BS they’re probably messing with someone on the job
They also seem to have a hard time understanding why other people find you likable and don’t want to hear/seeing others enjoying your company or you happy and having a good time.
My ex narc never posted pictures of he and I but posted pictures of everyone else he has dated.
My lady narc after we broke up is with another guy about 2 months afterwards. Keeping it secret. I saw his car in her driveway over night. And she drives to his place sometimes out of town area. She is down at her work to be off for vacation in a few weeks. Im upset!!!!!!
Yeah I think that what I just caught my now ex doing. She was definitely sneaking around someone so they wouldn’t find out she was trying to come over to my house. That’s when I finally just cut it all off and went no contact. Fuck that , I’m not being played and I don’t want anyone else being played as well. I know how that shit feels. Nah not gonna have it.
This is awful. I feel like I can’t trust anyone 😣
You should not . We are living in terrible times .
What's the difference between a narcissist and a regular jerk?
The regular jerk will do things that make sense. E.g. let you leave. The narcissist will do things you think are strange.
the other person answered it
It wasn´t important to me at that time but it did raise a few questions, as to why my ex never posted pics about us on IG , personally I could´ve cared less since I´m not into social media and there would be times when she would block me from it and unblock me from it, that´s the part that raised questions (I met her friends & her family , sister, bother, mom several times and were out in public together as well)...So I told her to put up a pic of us on IG (to see her reaction) and she said she never posts pics up with the person she´s with out of protection, my response , are you with the cartel or something...and she looked dead at me with sarcasm and I´m very good at being sarcastic , yes I am, that´s why...hmm It still didn´t matter to me weather or not she did as said before, but her response was questionable and not only that but when she went to her companies christmas party she posted up two pics with 2 diff guys closely and that´s when I asked other females what that could mean, they said not much and pointed out body language stuff to me, when she came back to her place where I was at (she knew) she jumped all over me at around 3am wanting to F (side note: she never said no to me either) and I was already asleep, so I pushed her off and went back to sleep, why because she showed up 3h later then she said she would and blamed it on the uber...hmm long story short
Thank you 🙏
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U stay keeping me laughing *
Love NC law to sue!!
In PA 50/50 no fault, really stinks!
What are the laws
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@@keshiagreene8938 Each state is different, But I love the law in NC to sue them both, the mistress & whoever is cheating in the marriage….
Lee - what about a narc hiding your belongings? I know my ex used to. I'd search high and low for something, even buy a replacement...then the original would turn up and he'd deny all knowledge. When I asked where it had been, he'd just say 'dunno'. I think he was trying to make me nuts by gaslighting.
i can do a vid on it
Yes please do a vid Lee,my ex Narc use to hide my belongings in a locked door and wouldn't give me the key.
Do you know anything about women with this disorder?? Whenever I’m trying to communicate with her about something really important to shut down is that because she’s lying or hiding something I don’t know why she does that she pretends that she doesn’t wanna fight but I’m not fighting I’m communicating please let me know what you think
women have it as well. They are a little more covert and use s*x as a weapon a little more
Just RUN... It will never end with a Narc periodt! It was so draining and when I finally realized that I was being dangled by a string so that I would never be happy with someone else I CUT HIS ASS OFFFFFFFF. I told him to GTFOH with the shits.
Why do they they keep the new supply they’ve set up even tho they discarded you like a time pass.
What if the NS is attractive but still hidden?
Lee, “Downgrading”, that’s a very narsisistic point of view 😅
I think it's called "Time Blocking".
My question, "hypothetically" speaking here. Let's say you came through for the narcissist. Boom ya helped em out. So you pretty much help them out with what they need. Like clock work.
No "phsycial" abuse, happens, but eventually devalue happens and the narcissist splits again.
So you have an empeckable record of making things happen for the narcissist. What goes on in the narcissist mind after the split? Even when the narcissist is out with someone else.
@Didi Lie i got all 15 of his books and binged his videos. 😂
They spread bad rumors about you for sure .
@@fishstickbio594 this is a way for the narcissist to assert control over the victim. Either the name came up, someone mentioned them, they had to bad mouth them to get an agreement from the friends that yes the victim IS bad etc. That validated the narcissist, gained fuel, and asserted control all with one single bad word about the victim.
Will the Narc tell the new supply there in a relationship or do they hide that too from the new?
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lol he had me hidden from his ex and a few grls from his kakaotalk and social media.. i confronted him and he told me he didnt want to show his ex how he was living lol... and his family religion wants him to get married to their choice he was afraid what they would say ...
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Also he is not posted his marriage pics
Lol... im still trying to get over you... I've heard it all... Have you heard the saying... if you let them go & they come back its because someone else let them go too... let them go again.
Even with a new supply. Does the narcissist still love?
I am sure he has moved on to a new supply. I don't have proof, but I am sure he does have someone else.
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How would a person contact you for a one on one?
Do they typically pretend they dont have a child ,? Ieft my ex in December he knew I was pregnant and he went back to his ex ain't heard from him
@@lizi.2503 thank you hes perfect and I love him with all my heart hes my world
Just friends but he is living a double life , on dating sites , hides phone , doesn’t want to be judged because of the women he talks to. He uses everyone he comes in contact with. He can’t be alone so that’s the reason he fluctuates between at least two at all times . He has married 3 times , of course divorced , women won’t put up with the deception if they have any sense. So why do I stay friends? He is a building superintendent and can fix things , so that’s the payoff.
You can pay someone to do that.
@@lizi.2503 He rents from me .I have rentals , there is always something needing fixed and I’m no slumlord . He has knowledge of why something broke and how to fix because he has been doing this stuff all his life. I know he’s not honest and he knows he’s not honest and if I was involved with him beyond friends it would be a problem but like I said the payoff of putting up with him is he will fix things.
@@barbarahering1310 he still has a hold on you. It is evident that you are not free from him. Usually people with children may have to put up with them. No one else has for any reason. What he can do someone else can. You are still connected to him wether you want to believe it or not.
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Are you out of your relationship? Im getting paid for rental and he does things I’m not capable of,. It’s different if you are not involved with a man / woman emotionally. I will never be with him but if I have to listen to his nonsense then I’m getting something out of it. I just needed verification that this is what I’m dealing with. What are you here for?
Is it wrong to feel bad about a narcissist who is the way he is because he didn't get love and had trauma? Everyone deserves love or no?
Good question!
Feeling bad for them is how they can easily manipulate you. They cannot be saved or fixed. They are dangerous .all of them. They are all about self. Feel bad for knowing them dont feel bad for them. Feel bad for yourself.
@@SL-hq9mg I'm trying to understand the cutoff... I see Lee and he is a human being. Like we are. There has to be some way to reach people. It's like seeing a homeless person who's hungry while you're walking by eating a sandwich. It's hard not to help in some way
@@JusttRaquel a homeless person is experiencing poverty. A narc wants to hurt you and use you to push themselves ahead. It is a poor comparison. Even if you want to have compassion for them, do so at a distance because they are very manipulative. They are going to act broken but they will eventually try to break you. If you are not a certified therapist, I would suggest staying away from them once they have been identified. Your love cannot cure them. Therapy and divine intervention may bring them this far.
@@SL-hq9mg thank you. Trying hard to understand. It may seem easy from the outside to some .. it's a lot harder when you love the person and your every instinct is to love protect, and help them. It's hard to fight the urge to help in some way.... Added to that I am a nurse and it really feels like I am abandoning someone who is sick ... Just hard:(
So, you still do sneaky sneak stuff, too, and still married? 🤔🤨🧐
What are you talking about 😂 . There is NO SECRET that the other side is not trustworthy !😂 I am waiting to tell us more on money schemes , online cheating ….. you know …..all of that 😂 ….
Big down grade hahahaha
Yep most likely
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I caught him with another woman and he denied 😄😄just a friend who needs my friendship 😄😄😄
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I know the Ex Narc has a New Supply and know who it is and kept asking Him to come clean and be honest and that's how I know cause he refuses to tell he was one when together love to brag and show off now he can't tell about his new crib and new supply smh think I'm hang around to be used if that doesn't work out NOT