I had a very disabled daughter. I was very surprised at my mother's funeral to be told by them how grateful I must be for all the help that my mother gave me. They were somewhat surprised when I pointed out she had not seen her granddaughter more than two or three times in about 15 years that my daughter and that my mother visited while my handicapped daughter was boarding at school. Is there going to be an update on this story.
Why am I not surprised that vile mil attempted to sabotage her grandson's education just to stop them from moving. Just shows that she'll go to ANY length to get her way.
OP was justified in canceling the party. Samuel needs to step up in calling out his mother. No more "She didn't mean it that way or she'll do better ". He needs to stand up for his wife and son.
And the STUPID VILE WEAK PATHETIC PARENTS ARE THE WORST FOR ALLOWING M N LAW AND FATHER N LAW TO TALK CRAZY TO THEIR SON WHICH MAKES THEM THE WORSE PARENTS EVER IN THIS STORY.
Take legal action against your mil. Bad mouthing you in front of her friends is one thing, but meddling in your family’s lives is quite another. She needs to be taught a lesson and this might be the only way for her to learn it.
Mad at the husband!! His son !!!! How can he not stand up for his son person with a disability I am so mad 😡 leave your husband and take you son and run
Are you serious? The son is weak but the daughter in law finally stood her ground when she paid for the party and shut it down. She wanted to get away from these toxic people, but she loved her husband enough to take it for a while. I believe he wanted to move as bad as she did. They should press charges and sue them for doing what they did. The grandparents mentally abused their grandson and then tried to keep them from moving away, thinking she could still control them after the daughter in law had had enough. The only thing those toxic people deserve is to go to jail and let somebody treat them the way they treated the daughter in law and the grandson. Evidently, the son has already been a doormat and became a mistake once he stood his ground.
@@reginafetty6374 the second she stayed with her husband and aloud her kids to be mistreated she became as bad. That’s the problem with how your thought process. When a dog with rabies comes near a child you don’t let the child near it and hope it won’t bite. The reason children become victims of this abuse is because of people like her and you. Weak people like this shouldn’t have children for the simple fact that they protect them.
OP..You and Your husband need to quit kissing your MIL's behind. Your husband needed to handle his parents..and if not go LC with them. This is not your issue to solve..its your husbands!! WHY do you keep going over the same crap with your IN-LAWS?!
I teach at a school for children with learning differences like dyslexia. I also have adopted 4 children with a variety of special needs. No adult should ever hurt children!! My mom would NEVER treat my kids differently than all other grandkids.
OP should take the job, grab her husband's phone, block any and all contact with the in-laws, restraining order their butts, and explain to them that if they want to get in contact with them, they will have to learn about dyslexia and how even people in their group of friends can be affected by it.
I had a grandmother like that. From my point of view, she treated my cousins better than my sister and me because their mother was her daughter and my mother was that woman who took her son from her.
Samuel was the AH for too much of the story. The last straw for him was convincing her that having the witch along for Cian's interview was somehow a good idea. HE needs some goddamn consequences.
Einstein was dyslexic, so why would the toxic MIL think it was a embarrassing disability? Most geniuses have some form of dyslexia. I think they really need to sue her so that she'll realize her behavior is destructive. Her actions could also have affected OP's promotion, because the school was a major thing to take the promotion! MIL's actions were meant to keep them from moving away, period.
Wow that was a great video. Had me tossing back and forth but op won in the end. Who in their right mind would deny a poor child much-needed education? If mil can go this far off of the normal track, what else will she try? Restrain this woman permanently. She needs something she's not getting. Meds? Therapy? Both?
Cancelling the party? Absolutely. You might hurt me and I'll accept it, but don't you ever do anything to any of my children. Move, go NC and file charges. Then never see it talk again. 😻😁😻
MIL was disrespectful, Please do not be a people pleaser to this woman. She will continue to be disrespectful. If she wants to continue with this behavior then it will be observed. You are not wrong. She is toxic...
This was infuriating! Why on earth did OP even allow them to go with them after everything MIL did??? It makes no sense. I would have gone NC with them ages ago. Some doormats just take forever to learn their lesson. And this has got to be one of the most vile MILs ever.
I think that for grandparents to deny their grandchilds conditions is vile beyond belief. They should have given them a timeout after the birthday party where Alicia acted so high and mighty when she stated no children allowed and her self inviting some just so OP couldn't have her son there because "he's an embarrassment to the family". If he doesn't have the issues that is claimed, then why would Alicia decide to sabotage her grandson's education for a school that can help him? What if the shoe was on the other foot, where Alicia's son was disabled like Cian? Would she blow it off, throw him into a mental institution, or just abandon him or have him adopted?
This couple are not much better because they engage with these toxic abusive people. I would go no contact. Engaging is something they are responsible for
What an awful mother-in-law/grandmother. That is your grandson. Dyslexia is not that serious of a disability. It does not mean the child is less intelligent. It just means they have trouble between the written word and your brain. My son is dyslexic and is going for his PhD, that grandmother is just toxic
Do you guys live with the inlaws? If you do, get your own place and stop having so much interaction. Let your husband visit his parents alone since they're embarrassed by your son.
I would of thrown any food on the floor over the edge whatever. Then I'd gone home got my son left and never gone back. Then divorced the MAMAS BOY!!!!!!
Can Not agree with OP. She allowed her son's mistreatment for TOO long. ALL contact should have ended with the 3rd insulting comment. It should have been zero contact with pregnant, or even before that. In fact I doubt if there ever would have been a Cian, for I may have left within a month of marriage.
8:15 ? YOU'RE to pay for the BD party? I have little patience for toxic people. I get PETTY. My anger on your behalf is going into overdrive. Can't think of any thing yet but with this post I hope you out her to everyone. And invade her social media ! I won't write it but I'm calling her bad words right now. PEACE
All that w/ the MIL never would've happened in the 1st place. I would've told my husband: "Me or your mother." If he refused to go no contact, I'd have packed HIS bags & left his things on the porch. Also, had the locks changed. I'm not putting up w/ being married to 3 ppl; husband, MIL & FIL my marriage wouldn't be a "committee." Oh, & I probably would've went to jail the very 1st time she said something about my kid NOT being Dyslexic. My MIL is lucky we just went no contact, cuz 1 particular occasion, I nearly gave her a free "nose job."
First time any of them made fun or were ashamed of my child I would have shown them the door! Besides, Dyslexia is more a learning "difference" than a disability. It is nothing to be ashamed of. Whoever wrote this nonsense hasn't a clue as to the definition of Dyslexia. As a Dyslexic, with 2 college degrees, and 30 years of teaching experience I am appalled by this story! I thought we were well past this 19800's thinning. This insults EVERY Dysexic ever!
@@pamelagabertIt is more of a spectum or a syndrome than a disability. The preferred term today is learning difference. The way this story read it made the child sound like he had problems so severe he needed constant supervision, couldn't be trusted on the furniture or was so challenged as not to be able to socially fit in with any group of people. In fact, most Dyslexics have a normal to above average IQs (a large number fall into the second group) and are perfectly capable of learning and intelligent conversation. If they have social difficulties it comes from somewhere else. Nelson Rockefeller and Whoopi Goldberg were/are Dylexic. Churchill may have also had a form of it as well. it is believed daVinci was Dyslexic as well as many wellknown and well respected leaders. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
I'm disappointed there was no real solution to this story. I don't want to give it a thumbs down, but it doesn't deserve a thumbs up. I always respond, but I'm not today.
So MIL is "old money" but can't pay for her own party/ meal and OP is loaded but and splashes on major party's and gifts but stays in budget hotels herself. These stories are so badly written. Stop pretending you got them off reddit
This MIL is not passive aggressive, she's just (aggressive)aggressive. Should have taught Cian to spell MIL's name..."Poop." If OP is working, how can MIL say OP's husband is doing all the work? If the in-laws are rich, why did they have their "guests" pay for their own dinner, especially without a heads up. Why would MIL worry whether OP and family moved or not...they obviously don't want them around? Not sure why MIL would ask the school whether they are Trump supporters if this story is in Northern Ireland? Is a year-long NC long enough since she is mentally abusive to their child?
What’s Trump got to do with it she said they were Irish none of this makes any sense. Also old money? She said her FIL had to retire late so she could buy a penthouse and car! Load of crap
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OP’s husband needs to grow a backbone and tell his mother off and go no contact for life.
He should and if he can't OP should dump him or her life will be a hell
I agree
You can't respect my children. You can't respect me.
Her destruction is the only party that MIL can have.
I had a very disabled daughter. I was very surprised at my mother's funeral to be told by them how grateful I must be for all the help that my mother gave me. They were somewhat surprised when I pointed out she had not seen her granddaughter more than two or three times in about 15 years that my daughter and that my mother visited while my handicapped daughter was boarding at school.
Is there going to be an update on this story.
If you gotta go to family therapy with your damned in-laws, and your spouse approves, its time to ditch the marriage.
OP didn't go far enough!
OP should go no contact with Hubby and inlaws! 😂
Sad, that the son will hate his father and the dad won't know what he did wrong. He didn't stand up for him and allowed those who abused him around.
Men will protect their wives without question, even if it means throwing their sons away.
Yes, OP went too far.. by NOT slapping that AH of an MIL
The mother-in-law is crazy just because your son is disabled does not mean you exclude them from events.❤
MIL and FIL need to be jailed. Why your husband didn't stand up more for his son is not good. Good thing you were there for your son.
23:34 I know right !!!! Right
Why am I not surprised that vile mil attempted to sabotage her grandson's education just to stop them from moving. Just shows that she'll go to ANY length to get her way.
OP was justified in canceling the party. Samuel needs to step up in calling out his mother. No more "She didn't mean it that way or she'll do better ". He needs to stand up for his wife and son.
@@jdavis7613 after everything that happened he finally did. He finally realized how vile his egg donor is.
@@onepieceisking5493 She's not just an egg donor like some deadbeat dads, she gave birth to him! You can't overlook that fact!
I can't believe that the school was more understanding in the fact that it was mil and not op
And the STUPID VILE WEAK PATHETIC PARENTS ARE THE WORST FOR ALLOWING M N LAW AND FATHER N LAW TO TALK CRAZY TO THEIR SON WHICH MAKES THEM THE WORSE PARENTS EVER IN THIS STORY.
Man op got a Samuel problem. This dude made it incredibly worse over and over. Ftp his family.
Take legal action against your mil. Bad mouthing you in front of her friends is one thing, but meddling in your family’s lives is quite another. She needs to be taught a lesson and this might be the only way for her to learn it.
Mad at the husband!! His son !!!! How can he not stand up for his son person with a disability I am so mad 😡 leave your husband and take you son and run
This MIL and FIL ought to be in PRISON for what they did. SUE them completely and they'll be wishing they never messed up so badly.
Why? The parents should be the ones at fault. They are weak parents. Y’all are blaming them when the parents are to weak to cut them out.
Are you serious? The son is weak but the daughter in law finally stood her ground when she paid for the party and shut it down. She wanted to get away from these toxic people, but she loved her husband enough to take it for a while. I believe he wanted to move as bad as she did. They should press charges and sue them for doing what they did. The grandparents mentally abused their grandson and then tried to keep them from moving away, thinking she could still control them after the daughter in law had had enough. The only thing those toxic people deserve is to go to jail and let somebody treat them the way they treated the daughter in law and the grandson. Evidently, the son has already been a doormat and became a mistake once he stood his ground.
@@reginafetty6374 the second she stayed with her husband and aloud her kids to be mistreated she became as bad. That’s the problem with how your thought process. When a dog with rabies comes near a child you don’t let the child near it and hope it won’t bite. The reason children become victims of this abuse is because of people like her and you. Weak people like this shouldn’t have children for the simple fact that they protect them.
OP..You and Your husband need to quit kissing your MIL's behind. Your husband needed to handle his parents..and if not go LC with them. This is not your issue to solve..its your husbands!! WHY do you keep going over the same crap with your IN-LAWS?!
Thank you!!
Op has a husband problem as he has no damn backbone and probably fears being cut out of the will 😒
Wish you and your son the best. Im sad that they abuse your son, but it's up to you to stop it.
She’s a horrible grandmother. It doesn’t matter if he disabled he’s a human being, who deserves love and respect.
It sounds like the in-laws deserve a serious wake-up call and public exposure.
Idk how she put up with the MIL as long as she did! The husband should have stood up for his family from the start!
I teach at a school for children with learning differences like dyslexia. I also have adopted 4 children with a variety of special needs. No adult should ever hurt children!! My mom would NEVER treat my kids differently than all other grandkids.
She spoiled her own day.
OP should take the job, grab her husband's phone, block any and all contact with the in-laws, restraining order their butts, and explain to them that if they want to get in contact with them, they will have to learn about dyslexia and how even people in their group of friends can be affected by it.
I had a grandmother like that. From my point of view, she treated my cousins better than my sister and me because their mother was her daughter and my mother was that woman who took her son from her.
Same my father's side are horrible and it started with his mother.
Samuel was the AH for too much of the story. The last straw for him was convincing her that having the witch along for Cian's interview was somehow a good idea. HE needs some goddamn consequences.
I agree that Samuel sucks. If my parents treated my kid that way, they'd never hear from me again.
Oh peace, husband needs to get through his head. His mother is not a nice person if you are not normal.
Dyslexia is a superpower many high achievers have it.
My grandma acted like this towards me. I support the daughter-in-law quite frankly I think she was too nice.
Einstein was dyslexic, so why would the toxic MIL think it was a embarrassing disability? Most geniuses have some form of dyslexia. I think they really need to sue her so that she'll realize her behavior is destructive. Her actions could also have affected OP's promotion, because the school was a major thing to take the promotion! MIL's actions were meant to keep them from moving away, period.
Wow that was a great video. Had me tossing back and forth but op won in the end. Who in their right mind would deny a poor child much-needed education? If mil can go this far off of the normal track, what else will she try? Restrain this woman permanently. She needs something she's not getting. Meds? Therapy? Both?
Is there a part 2 in this please we need more
The MIL and FIL should be charged with ( MIL with CRIMINAL IMPERSONATING OP and FIL for being an ACCOMPLISH to the crime).
Mother-in-law went way too far. There’s no going back after that or forgiven her.
Cancelling the party? Absolutely. You might hurt me and I'll accept it, but don't you ever do anything to any of my children. Move, go NC and file charges. Then never see it talk again. 😻😁😻
long story short, justice well served. Also, I I would Love an update though if one comes if this evil witch does get jail time.
OP should divorce her husband.
MIL was disrespectful, Please do not be a people pleaser to this woman. She will continue to be disrespectful. If she wants to continue with this behavior then it will be observed. You are not wrong. She is toxic...
This was infuriating! Why on earth did OP even allow them to go with them after everything MIL did??? It makes no sense. I would have gone NC with them ages ago. Some doormats just take forever to learn their lesson. And this has got to be one of the most vile MILs ever.
I wouldn't say doormats, I'm sure she was opposed, and her spineless husband fought her tooth and nail for them to go.
@@Code18P I'm sure he did pressure her, but I would have put my foot down. But then, I wouldn't marry a Mama's boy.
Samuel beeds yo get his head out of his behind and see his family for the trash they really are.
I don’t get why people allow toxic people around their children because their family. Needs to stop.
No, Cian does NOT need grandparents like that
Father-in-law is horrible too. It’s a real thing.
Do I think she went too far with the party? No, she didn't go far enough.
One thing I do like your storage however I think the name for the kid is Sean, pronunciation Shawn other than that you did a great job
The son needs to disown his parents. They are awful people.
I think that for grandparents to deny their grandchilds conditions is vile beyond belief. They should have given them a timeout after the birthday party where Alicia acted so high and mighty when she stated no children allowed and her self inviting some just so OP couldn't have her son there because "he's an embarrassment to the family". If he doesn't have the issues that is claimed, then why would Alicia decide to sabotage her grandson's education for a school that can help him?
What if the shoe was on the other foot, where Alicia's son was disabled like Cian? Would she blow it off, throw him into a mental institution, or just abandon him or have him adopted?
Nta. You didn't make the reservation. So you should not be expected to pay for it
This couple are not much better because they engage with these toxic abusive people. I would go no contact. Engaging is something they are responsible for
I would have cancelled MIL long before the party. She is vile!
Either he changes or divorce
The Irish name Cian is pronounced Kee-an as far as I know…
What an awful mother-in-law/grandmother. That is your grandson. Dyslexia is not that serious of a disability. It does not mean the child is less intelligent. It just means they have trouble between the written word and your brain. My son is dyslexic and is going for his PhD, that grandmother is just toxic
The kid is like me and I was not stupid .
I made it throw normal school with extra help
Do you guys live with the inlaws? If you do, get your own place and stop having so much interaction. Let your husband visit his parents alone since they're embarrassed by your son.
I would of thrown any food on the floor over the edge whatever. Then I'd gone home got my son left and never gone back. Then divorced the MAMAS BOY!!!!!!
I agree with everything op did. I myself have an autistic son. If this would have happened with my family. It probably would have been worse
Can Not agree with OP. She allowed her son's mistreatment for TOO long. ALL contact should have ended with the 3rd insulting comment. It should have been zero contact with pregnant, or even before that. In fact I doubt if there ever would have been a Cian, for I may have left within a month of marriage.
Samuel is a terrible husband and father.
Sad that OP keeps exposing her son to the abuse 🤔😡😓
Sean is pronounced the same as Shawn and can also be spelt as Shaun, Sion.
What kinda dad does what this man’s mother did as not bad get divorce fast
I would’ve been questioned marriage with my husband because it got to this point like f that
That mil needs a taste of prison and a restraining order. Also FIL. They are vile people.
Just FYI. Cian is pronounced Kee-an, not See-ann.
I think he’s mispronouncing Sean.
8:15 ? YOU'RE to pay for the BD party? I have little patience for toxic people. I get PETTY. My anger on your behalf is going into overdrive. Can't think of any thing yet but with this post I hope you out her to everyone. And invade her social media ! I won't write it but I'm calling her bad words right now. PEACE
How about you give back your husband to his mother since he was not always benefitting you.
All that w/ the MIL never would've happened in the 1st place. I would've told my husband: "Me or your mother." If he refused to go no contact, I'd have packed HIS bags & left his things on the porch. Also, had the locks changed. I'm not putting up w/ being married to 3 ppl; husband, MIL & FIL my marriage wouldn't be a "committee." Oh, & I probably would've went to jail the very 1st time she said something about my kid NOT being Dyslexic. My MIL is lucky we just went no contact, cuz 1 particular occasion, I nearly gave her a free "nose job."
Wow, what a horrible mother in law
Sean is just another spelling for Shawn and they are pronounced the same way :)
First time any of them made fun or were ashamed of my child I would have shown them the door! Besides, Dyslexia is more a learning "difference" than a disability. It is nothing to be ashamed of. Whoever wrote this nonsense hasn't a clue as to the definition of Dyslexia. As a Dyslexic, with 2 college degrees, and 30 years of teaching experience I am appalled by this story! I thought we were well past this 19800's thinning. This insults EVERY Dysexic ever!
But isn't dyslexia generally considered a learning disability?
@@pamelagabertIt is more of a spectum or a syndrome than a disability. The preferred term today is learning difference. The way this story read it made the child sound like he had problems so severe he needed constant supervision, couldn't be trusted on the furniture or was so challenged as not to be able to socially fit in with any group of people. In fact, most Dyslexics have a normal to above average IQs (a large number fall into the second group) and are perfectly capable of learning and intelligent conversation. If they have social difficulties it comes from somewhere else. Nelson Rockefeller and Whoopi Goldberg were/are Dylexic. Churchill may have also had a form of it as well. it is believed daVinci was Dyslexic as well as many wellknown and well respected leaders. It's nothing to be ashamed of.
So he shouldn't be in the middle he cant stand up for his son pathetic
First Samuel had two sisters, at the end of the story he had a brother, LOL
Missed that one. Lol
If this started out in Northern Ireland (as part of the UK, they use pounds sterling), why did it switch to Euros and then mention Trump?
It's not seeyan, it's Shawn just spelled differently
“Sean” is pronounced “Shawn.”
Samuel the husband is doormat
I'm disappointed there was no real solution to this story. I don't want to give it a thumbs down, but it doesn't deserve a thumbs up. I always respond, but I'm not today.
What does op mean
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Why was she still married to that mamas boys. First time she was a b to her baby she would have been ditched
It's pronounced shawn.
No,
What is an inventation?
There is NO common sense in the parents of Cian!!! This story REALLY sucks!
So MIL is "old money" but can't pay for her own party/ meal and OP is loaded but and splashes on major party's and gifts but stays in budget hotels herself. These stories are so badly written. Stop pretending you got them off reddit
She’s got a seven year old? And was going to cancel her wedding last year it makes no sense she never mentioned living togethe
This MIL is not passive aggressive, she's just (aggressive)aggressive.
Should have taught Cian to spell MIL's name..."Poop."
If OP is working, how can MIL say OP's husband is doing all the work?
If the in-laws are rich, why did they have their "guests" pay for their own dinner, especially without a heads up.
Why would MIL worry whether OP and family moved or not...they obviously don't want them around?
Not sure why MIL would ask the school whether they are Trump supporters if this story is in Northern Ireland?
Is a year-long NC long enough since she is mentally abusive to their child?
She was crazy for paying for the party. Why would you let them come with you. This story does not make any sense whatsoever.
What’s Trump got to do with it she said they were Irish none of this makes any sense. Also old money? She said her FIL had to retire late so she could buy a penthouse and car! Load of crap
This was so lame