Here's a video I'd watch if you're interested in some dating strategies. th-cam.com/video/i4uJrrqPorQ/w-d-xo.html Love the Philippines and want to do a 45 min video call? Have questions about living here and want a one on one conversation? Book a consultation here: calendly.com/carefreechris/45min If you watch my videos more than Netflix, consider buying me a cup of coffee:) www.buymeacoffee.com/carefreechris The camera I use in my videos is an Insta360 and here's a link www.insta360.com/sal/x4?INR4QVG Some of my gear that I recommend for the Philippines. • Cool underwear. Keep your boys cool and dry. amzn.to/46rOrsj • Nice casual shirt. UV, vented, lightweight. Ideal for the Philippines amzn.to/3yuyiWi • Quick dry & lightweight shorts amzn.to/3YkHB5X • Bolle Anaconda Sunglasses amzn.to/4c04q21 • Reef flipflops. Super comphy and great grip amzn.to/3WnOXDa • Creatine amzn.to/3StQVR9 • Men's multivitamin amzn.to/46neHnD • Probiotics with Ashwagandha amzn.to/3Sv8ZKF • Dig this little air pump amzn.to/4fqf8So Link to Carefree Chris Community Group: facebook.com/groups/991088585337385
I'm 61 and my gorgeous Thai wife is 31. I met her online and we now live in southern California. Couldn't be happier. Dating in the US had become completely untenable. When I finally took the step to date in SE Asia my life turned around completely. If you want to catch fish, guys, go to a lake that actually has hungry fish. The US is not that place.
Going from scarcity to abundance can teach you a lot about yourself and what you really want. For me, personally, casual dating is okay, but it can get old real quick. I like have a meaningful, fulfilling relationship.
After arriving in Cebu, I have seen so many foreigners on the streets who were in their 70s with very beautiful young girls in their early 20s and sometimes as young as 18 or 19. Initially, I was almost having a hard time believing what I am seeing. Eventually, I started accepting that big age gap relationships is the norm here between foreigners and filipinas. Now I also have a girlfriend who is much younger than me. As the old saying goes ... in Rome do as the Romans do. I must admit though that if you are in a big age gap relationship, it is kind of expected that you fully support her and also a bit her family too.
Fantastic reality honest based content. I’m like you. I have nothing to prove, I’m not needy and I have healthy self esteem. Only two speeds to my dating, slow and stop, especially in foreign countries. There are landmines that aren’t apparent at first. I learn from others mistakes. Some mistakes have consequences for life. Thank you Chris 🙏🏼
Even if on a small pension or savings, your a golden nugget there. Remember no 18-20 year old girl is interested or dreams of being with someone 30-40 years there senior. Its only ever transactional, Fact.. If you want to get your rocks off go right ahead, just keep your cards and cash very close to you!. And dont be buying Land or building a property for them.. 😅
@@CarefreeChris That's what our YT-PH-experts do not know, since they have never been exposed to daily life on the island. It is so different to come here as a tourist versus living a life here. YT is by no means a substitute for that. But they seem to insist that YT is the real reality.... gosh
There is nothing "only ever". That's a fact too. There are bad apples in the basket. But this does not mean, that all apples are evenly bad. I know many examples, where the expat went through very hard times and had nothing to offer in terms of "transaction", but was not abandoned by his wife/GF. How do you rate that?
Chris...I love the way you handled the "How many Filipina chicks have you smashed yet" comment. You truly are a gentleman and the way you handled it shows.
So do you go out with someone knowing that it’s just temporary or do you look for long-term relationships? Being that the culture is so different, does that mean that dating is more of a temporary thing?
I’m not really into short-term dating. I see some people dating 3+ people a week, and honestly, that’s just not for me. To each their own, but I prefer taking the time to really get to know someone.
For sure. There's great dating all over the Philippines. I'd say though if you're looking to date around stick to Manila & Cebu. If you're looking for a wife anywhere and for sure in the provinces. Check out this video... th-cam.com/video/i4uJrrqPorQ/w-d-xo.html
So funny Chris when you said 5 or 6 a week. I have a friend that does that OMG. Then he sleeps for 2 days. Very entertaining video. Thank you for sharing 👌🏾!
Here's a video I'd watch if you're interested in some dating strategies.
th-cam.com/video/i4uJrrqPorQ/w-d-xo.html
Love the Philippines and want to do a 45 min video call? Have questions about living here and want a one on one conversation? Book a consultation here: calendly.com/carefreechris/45min
If you watch my videos more than Netflix, consider buying me a cup of coffee:) www.buymeacoffee.com/carefreechris
The camera I use in my videos is an Insta360 and here's a link www.insta360.com/sal/x4?INR4QVG
Some of my gear that I recommend for the Philippines.
• Cool underwear. Keep your boys cool and dry. amzn.to/46rOrsj
• Nice casual shirt. UV, vented, lightweight. Ideal for the Philippines amzn.to/3yuyiWi
• Quick dry & lightweight shorts amzn.to/3YkHB5X
• Bolle Anaconda Sunglasses amzn.to/4c04q21
• Reef flipflops. Super comphy and great grip amzn.to/3WnOXDa
• Creatine amzn.to/3StQVR9
• Men's multivitamin amzn.to/46neHnD
• Probiotics with Ashwagandha amzn.to/3Sv8ZKF
• Dig this little air pump amzn.to/4fqf8So
Link to Carefree Chris Community Group: facebook.com/groups/991088585337385
yeah I see why you do not allow comments ...
I'm 61 and my gorgeous Thai wife is 31. I met her online and we now live in southern California. Couldn't be happier. Dating in the US had become completely untenable. When I finally took the step to date in SE Asia my life turned around completely. If you want to catch fish, guys, go to a lake that actually has hungry fish. The US is not that place.
Love it. Thanks for your comment. Hope you’re great here brother
Going from scarcity to abundance can teach you a lot about yourself and what you really want. For me, personally, casual dating is okay, but it can get old real quick. I like have a meaningful, fulfilling relationship.
I’m with ya Craig
After arriving in Cebu, I have seen so many foreigners on the streets who were in their 70s with very beautiful young girls in their early 20s and sometimes as young as 18 or 19. Initially, I was almost having a hard time believing what I am seeing. Eventually, I started accepting that big age gap relationships is the norm here between foreigners and filipinas. Now I also have a girlfriend who is much younger than me. As the old saying goes ... in Rome do as the Romans do. I must admit though that if you are in a big age gap relationship, it is kind of expected that you fully support her and also a bit her family too.
Yes, true
Fantastic reality honest based content. I’m like you. I have nothing to prove, I’m not needy and I have healthy self esteem. Only two speeds to my dating, slow and stop, especially in foreign countries. There are landmines that aren’t apparent at first. I learn from others mistakes. Some mistakes have consequences for life. Thank you Chris 🙏🏼
So true brother
Even if on a small pension or savings, your a golden nugget there. Remember no 18-20 year old girl is interested or dreams of being with someone 30-40 years there senior. Its only ever transactional, Fact.. If you want to get your rocks off go right ahead, just keep your cards and cash very close to you!. And dont be buying Land or building a property for them.. 😅
It’s different here in the Philippines.
@@CarefreeChris That's what our YT-PH-experts do not know, since they have never been exposed to daily life on the island. It is so different to come here as a tourist versus living a life here. YT is by no means a substitute for that. But they seem to insist that YT is the real reality.... gosh
There is nothing "only ever". That's a fact too. There are bad apples in the basket. But this does not mean, that all apples are evenly bad. I know many examples, where the expat went through very hard times and had nothing to offer in terms of "transaction", but was not abandoned by his wife/GF. How do you rate that?
Chris...I love the way you handled the "How many Filipina chicks have you smashed yet" comment. You truly are a gentleman and the way you handled it shows.
Thank you:)
So do you go out with someone knowing that it’s just temporary or do you look for long-term relationships? Being that the culture is so different, does that mean that dating is more of a temporary thing?
I’m not really into short-term dating. I see some people dating 3+ people a week, and honestly, that’s just not for me. To each their own, but I prefer taking the time to really get to know someone.
How can a brother date in Cebu city when Bond and carefree Chris have already ran thru them all!
lol
On a serious not Chris have you ever had any luck in Cebu city or is Leyte that much better for dating ?
For sure. There's great dating all over the Philippines. I'd say though if you're looking to date around stick to Manila & Cebu. If you're looking for a wife anywhere and for sure in the provinces. Check out this video... th-cam.com/video/i4uJrrqPorQ/w-d-xo.html
Thank you Chris
53 dating a college student, what’s next high school like the regular guy
The first part is accurate. Doubt I’ll ever date a teenager though. I have been approached by several but not something I’m interested in
No more next @kevink3975🤪
@@Madameaying well you are sweet and beautiful! I’m sure there won’t be
So funny Chris when you said 5 or 6 a week. I have a friend that does that OMG. Then he sleeps for 2 days. Very entertaining video. Thank you for sharing 👌🏾!
It's crazy isn't it. To exhausting but hey, to each their own.
HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases in the Philippines ,especially in metropolitan areas are on the rise.. You may end up with rotten balls😂
Should be about the quality not quantity..stick to the big cities for the Uber hot girls.
I like the provinces
@@CarefreeChris Easy pickings lol 😂
proud of yourself ... LOL doing consultations huh
People have a lot of questions about my experiences here in the Philippines. I'm more than happy to talk about those on a one on one basis.
@@CarefreeChris with the way utubers are going after each other hope you have a working visa here
smashed ?
I don't ask the questions. I just answer them
lets just say its an urban term for having sex.
Yeah, seriously...how old is this guy?