A few days ago I read a comment from a woman saying that she was happy with her singlehood, and one of the idiots replied that she was just not scared. Hahaha, you are no longer a target.
@@workitladypodcastHe said that men are choosing to stay single, but why are they in women's spaces then? I just wish men would stay single, away from women and women's spaces.
I am glad you mentioned the Young People Ask book. It is very helpful and informative for younger ones to make wise decisions. These times are critical and rushing into relationships can cause unnecessary heartache. Making space for singleness allows you to focus on your spirituality and personal growth, which gives you inner peace. Some people that are too focused on searching for a relationship forget to focus on their inner peace.
I think in general, the traditional idea of "marriage and raising family" is just not appearing anymore. Mostly because everyone is valuing their own individual happiness, mental health, and peace instead of raising a family that they can't afford. Putting effort in a relationship is also very draining too lol
@@JCB671 I agree it’s hard work but if done right it can be rewarding. I think it is still appealing to most people but a lot of men and some women aren’t willing to put in the work. Nothing in life worth having is easy. We are also more self absorbed as a society due to social media. Women also make their own money and don’t have to stay if men are cheating and acting a fool. Some don’t want to be married which is also fine. Many reasons but marriage when done right can be very good for us and for society if we want that life.
I was cheated on and the person was supposed to be "good". I apparently vetted them, but clearly not enough. Being single brings me peace, which allows me to remember what matters which includes God. (Edit: there's a rude comment down in the replies. Don't think that because I'm peaceful that I can't turn it around. You're also wrong. Know your place.)
If he cheated on you it's because he was out of your league and you didn't deserve commitment from him in the first place. It says nothing about him and everything about you. Stop blaming other people for your own inadequacy and just accept the fact that you aren't good enough.
@@peopleofearth6250 please do not speak on her personal experience like that. Your words are really not kind. You don’t know the situation you were not there! Women are sharing and healing here if it does not resonate with you go to another channel!
It’s a shame how so many have this story. I wish the men would just act right and treat their mates the way they should. I am very sorry that happened and thank you for leaving your comment. It helps other women. 💜
@@workitladypodcast Men have zero reason to "act right" when women keep chasing the men who aren't. Women reward the very behavior they criticize, and that's why it keeps happening.
You are not your grandmothers, and you are not living in the world that they did. “To buy freedom from the past, things can only get worse…” --Sting “History Will Teach Us Nothing.”
@@workitladypodcast I think men do, as they always have the option to go overseas. This is only a Western/Chinese phenomenon, the West due to Pheminism, and China due to aggressive communist social policies and economics. Western women have got the future they asked for, and the fact that they refuse to take accountability for it is what has really given most men the final ick.
I am so glad women don't need men we are free from responsibility of having a family. Thank you women society is yours now you go and lead. Men are now free to live in peace and experience real freedom .
@@butros5137 WOMEN ARE TIRED OF BEING TREATED BAD by men after trying and trying for years many are giving up because they have had so many bad experiences with men. you are missing the point of the video and what women in the comments are saying. They are tired of being cheated on, mentally abused, and more. Marriage and relationships with men can be niece and needed for society when the men commit to the marriage and act right. Also if you don’t have your life together most women want somone who can follow the traditional role of a man has morals and a good job and has goals of living right and supporting his family. Many man are able to do this but women are sick of the toxic men who want to be users.
@@workitladypodcast please do you really believe that 4 billion woman all around the world will find their perfect partner and have a relationship.that goes for men also.we can be lucky if one 1 billion makes kids. The situation is grim whether you want to accept it or not. Birthrates are falling all around the world.I get it woman don't want to settle for anything less.But the governments all around the world needs new taxpayers and if there is no marriage no kids this system will crash and burn fast.
@@butros5137 again your missing the point women want relationships and love but men are making it too difficult. Yes, some of what you say is true. Staying single solves the personal problems with relationships for sure but have negative effects on society. I’m sure the negative stereotypes about men don’t apply to you so if your so good go search for one of the many very good women who are sick of being mistreated by men and show them what a loving man and good relationship can be Instead of fighting with women in comment section. Women are tired of bad treatment.
@@butros5137 also THEY ARE NOT LOOKING FOR PERFECT. Just looking for love, fair treatment, respect and no abuse. Many complete strangers have enough in common to have a successful marriage but the bad treatment is a deal breaker for women now. Just because birth rates are falling does not mean women will settle for bad treatment. Also there are still plenty of people having kids worldwide. The birth rates are only falling amoung groups that are wealthy or established enough to choose singleness.
@@workitladypodcast And men aren't mistreated by women. So we men are the bad guys.Or maybe it is a small minority of men that all the women want that take advantage of them for their pleasure and toss them to the side. There are tons of good men out there but they are invisible to women.But it doesn't matter no matter what I say I know that women won't change.Because you can never take accountability for your bad choices in picking men.That don't apply to the women that did the right thing and picked up a good man.Ladies your stubborn behavior will leave you single and childless.
@@wtzan no one cares. The women are going over seas also and it’s drama over seas also. It’s no better. Many overseas only want green cards. This is a space for women. You will be better served on another TH-cam channel.
This comment is funny. Why do men think women need them to be happy? And why can't women just be happy on their own? I'm always at my happiest and peace when I'm single.
@@workitladypodcast but why? Is the man supposed to be the perfect husband sacrifice and grind his whole life so that they can get a partner whos emotions are already wild and unpredictable. Who will use horomones as an excuse to treat you badly. Girls typically want men for money...men have money and peace and are already bilogically conditioned to provide. Whos more peaceful at the end?
Wow you're married....i wonder how your husband feels about this... Lets talk about what you're saying: 1. Ladies in the us are more free and the least oppressed in the world. Even ladies in other countrues say their struggle is significantly worse than people in the us. 2. You seem to imply with your words the only value guy provides is a wallet....if you dont know the benefits to marrying a dude other than money, you shouldnt be married. 3. Whats your advice about happily married couples? Or ladies who are bad people? Do you think you're turning bad women away from finding a mate or good ones? If you're goal is to be evil and take from a man, why would I take your advice? 4. Your partner is less responsible for your happiness than you are. 5. If you're not willing to be 100% equal, and you're not willing to follow the guy, dont get married
@@hyronharrison8127 he’s a great support and feels the same way. None of what you’re saying is at all what I said in the video. If your a good man then the content does not apply to you and your probably already happily married or have a nice woman in mind whom you will settle down with. It is not about the money. This is not a gold digger woman’s channel. We are a group built on morals, love and respect here. This channel isn’t for men either. You might be better suited watching a man’s woman hate channel. 😊✅😑
@@workitladypodcast i promise its not women hate....if I hate someone, Id let them spiral into unhappiness and watch them burn knowing the obvious solution...i want to see women less depressed, and with more fulfilling lives. Its crazy that we talk about past women being trapped and miserable, but we dont dare address the insurmountable amount of them on antidepressants today. This is a result of em trying to be men, and not liking the result. We as a spciety need to take a step back and acknowledge and respect the inherent differences between eachother and use that to compliment eachother, as we have for 1000s of uears
@@hyronharrison8127 thanks for your comment, continue to be a good person and great husband and man in society, continue to be an example and treat women with respect, women want good men and good healthy marriages.
@@workitladypodcast you too, thanks for having a willing conversation, and I will say that just like guys are calling out bad behavior from women, we want you to call out bad behavior from men!
Yeah, we men are choosing to stay single too. It's not just not you ladies. Blessings and Thank you
@@Coffee_n_Fitness you as well and thanks for your comment.
Why can't ya'll just go away.
@@MMAStriking what is the point of your comment?
A few days ago I read a comment from a woman saying that she was happy with her singlehood, and one of the idiots replied that she was just not scared. Hahaha, you are no longer a target.
@@workitladypodcastHe said that men are choosing to stay single, but why are they in women's spaces then? I just wish men would stay single, away from women and women's spaces.
If only Kevin Samuels were still alive. Y'all would give the audience a good show
@@christianibarra3961 lol thanks for your comment
I am glad you mentioned the Young People Ask book. It is very helpful and informative for younger ones to make wise decisions. These times are critical and rushing into relationships can cause unnecessary heartache. Making space for singleness allows you to focus on your spirituality and personal growth, which gives you inner peace. Some people that are too focused on searching for a relationship forget to focus on their inner peace.
@@laydeejoy2 thank you for your comment 💜
It’s because not only are they making less as men but men are such a pain in the ass at baseline until worldwide women are saying 4B!
@@mistywol2383 I don’t understand all of your comment but I appreciate you taking the time to listen to the video and sharing your thoughts.
I think in general, the traditional idea of "marriage and raising family" is just not appearing anymore. Mostly because everyone is valuing their own individual happiness, mental health, and peace instead of raising a family that they can't afford. Putting effort in a relationship is also very draining too lol
@@JCB671 I agree it’s hard work but if done right it can be rewarding. I think it is still appealing to most people but a lot of men and some women aren’t willing to put in the work. Nothing in life worth having is easy. We are also more self absorbed as a society due to social media. Women also make their own money and don’t have to stay if men are cheating and acting a fool. Some don’t want to be married which is also fine. Many reasons but marriage when done right can be very good for us and for society if we want that life.
I was cheated on and the person was supposed to be "good". I apparently vetted them, but clearly not enough. Being single brings me peace, which allows me to remember what matters which includes God. (Edit: there's a rude comment down in the replies. Don't think that because I'm peaceful that I can't turn it around. You're also wrong. Know your place.)
If he cheated on you it's because he was out of your league and you didn't deserve commitment from him in the first place. It says nothing about him and everything about you. Stop blaming other people for your own inadequacy and just accept the fact that you aren't good enough.
that's messed up, cheating is wrong and should not happen. How did you vet the guy ?
@@peopleofearth6250 please do not speak on her personal experience like that. Your words are really not kind. You don’t know the situation you were not there! Women are sharing and healing here if it does not resonate with you go to another channel!
It’s a shame how so many have this story. I wish the men would just act right and treat their mates the way they should. I am very sorry that happened and thank you for leaving your comment. It helps other women. 💜
@@workitladypodcast Men have zero reason to "act right" when women keep chasing the men who aren't. Women reward the very behavior they criticize, and that's why it keeps happening.
Great points, especially thinking about what my grandmothers had to deal with. No thanks :)
@@macjunk4734 thank you for the comment and glad you appreciated the video!
@@workitladypodcast You're welcome
You are not your grandmothers, and you are not living in the world that they did.
“To buy freedom from the past, things can only get worse…”
--Sting “History Will Teach Us Nothing.”
@@kellygreenii thank you for your comment
Because men don't want relationships anymore. Simple.
@@corvusglaive4804 what a shame-many women feel the same-no one gets anywhere that way tho 🤷🏽♀️
@@workitladypodcast I think men do, as they always have the option to go overseas. This is only a Western/Chinese phenomenon, the West due to Pheminism, and China due to aggressive communist social policies and economics. Western women have got the future they asked for, and the fact that they refuse to take accountability for it is what has really given most men the final ick.
I am so glad women don't need men we are free from responsibility of having a family. Thank you women society is yours now you go and lead. Men are now free to live in peace and experience real freedom .
@@butros5137 WOMEN ARE TIRED OF BEING TREATED BAD by men after trying and trying for years many are giving up because they have had so many bad experiences with men. you are missing the point of the video and what women in the comments are saying. They are tired of being cheated on, mentally abused, and more. Marriage and relationships with men can be niece and needed for society when the men commit to the marriage and act right. Also if you don’t have your life together most women want somone who can follow the traditional role of a man has morals and a good job and has goals of living right and supporting his family. Many man are able to do this but women are sick of the toxic men who want to be users.
@@workitladypodcast please do you really believe that 4 billion woman all around the world will find their perfect partner and have a relationship.that goes for men also.we can be lucky if one 1 billion makes kids. The situation is grim whether you want to accept it or not. Birthrates are falling all around the world.I get it woman don't want to settle for anything less.But the governments all around the world needs new taxpayers and if there is no marriage no kids this system will crash and burn fast.
@@butros5137 again your missing the point women want relationships and love but men are making it too difficult. Yes, some of what you say is true. Staying single solves the personal problems with relationships for sure but have negative effects on society. I’m sure the negative stereotypes about men don’t apply to you so if your so good go search for one of the many very good women who are sick of being mistreated by men and show them what a loving man and good relationship can be Instead of fighting with women in comment section. Women are tired of bad treatment.
@@butros5137 also THEY ARE NOT LOOKING FOR PERFECT. Just looking for love, fair treatment, respect and no abuse. Many complete strangers have enough in common to have a successful marriage but the bad treatment is a deal breaker for women now. Just because birth rates are falling does not mean women will settle for bad treatment. Also there are still plenty of people having kids worldwide. The birth rates are only falling amoung groups that are wealthy or established enough to choose singleness.
@@workitladypodcast And men aren't mistreated by women. So we men are the bad guys.Or maybe it is a small minority of men that all the women want that take advantage of them for their pleasure and toss them to the side. There are tons of good men out there but they are invisible to women.But it doesn't matter no matter what I say I know that women won't change.Because you can never take accountability for your bad choices in picking men.That don't apply to the women that did the right thing and picked up a good man.Ladies your stubborn behavior will leave you single and childless.
For all those women who want to stay single just wait until you get 30 and hit the wall.
Good looking women have decent options until they are at least 50. Keep coping loser
@@albashjaweesh we don’t care this channel isn’t for you.
western men are going over seas, western women will cry themselves too sleep in old age LOL
@@wtzan no one cares. The women are going over seas also and it’s drama over seas also. It’s no better. Many overseas only want green cards. This is a space for women. You will be better served on another TH-cam channel.
@@wtzan They will eventually turn lesbians due to the fact that no man want to deal with them
Women "choose" to stay single when no one wants them, all used up and ran thru.
@@rw5069 this is not true most of the time! Most are sick and tired of being treated badly by half of the crap men out there!
This comment is funny. Why do men think women need them to be happy? And why can't women just be happy on their own? I'm always at my happiest and peace when I'm single.
@@JCB671 the men in this comment section are something. They should listen to the comments and try to improve.
@@workitladypodcast but why? Is the man supposed to be the perfect husband sacrifice and grind his whole life so that they can get a partner whos emotions are already wild and unpredictable. Who will use horomones as an excuse to treat you badly. Girls typically want men for money...men have money and peace and are already bilogically conditioned to provide. Whos more peaceful at the end?
Wow you're married....i wonder how your husband feels about this...
Lets talk about what you're saying:
1. Ladies in the us are more free and the least oppressed in the world. Even ladies in other countrues say their struggle is significantly worse than people in the us.
2. You seem to imply with your words the only value guy provides is a wallet....if you dont know the benefits to marrying a dude other than money, you shouldnt be married.
3. Whats your advice about happily married couples? Or ladies who are bad people? Do you think you're turning bad women away from finding a mate or good ones? If you're goal is to be evil and take from a man, why would I take your advice?
4. Your partner is less responsible for your happiness than you are.
5. If you're not willing to be 100% equal, and you're not willing to follow the guy, dont get married
@@hyronharrison8127 he’s a great support and feels the same way. None of what you’re saying is at all what I said in the video. If your a good man then the content does not apply to you and your probably already happily married or have a nice woman in mind whom you will settle down with. It is not about the money. This is not a gold digger woman’s channel. We are a group built on morals, love and respect here. This channel isn’t for men either. You might be better suited watching a man’s woman hate channel. 😊✅😑
@@workitladypodcast i promise its not women hate....if I hate someone, Id let them spiral into unhappiness and watch them burn knowing the obvious solution...i want to see women less depressed, and with more fulfilling lives.
Its crazy that we talk about past women being trapped and miserable, but we dont dare address the insurmountable amount of them on antidepressants today. This is a result of em trying to be men, and not liking the result. We as a spciety need to take a step back and acknowledge and respect the inherent differences between eachother and use that to compliment eachother, as we have for 1000s of uears
@@hyronharrison8127 thanks for your comment, continue to be a good person and great husband and man in society, continue to be an example and treat women with respect, women want good men and good healthy marriages.
@@workitladypodcast you too, thanks for having a willing conversation, and I will say that just like guys are calling out bad behavior from women, we want you to call out bad behavior from men!
@@hyronharrison8127 yes there are women who are not good also. Thanks and have a great day.