Could please explain your thought process behind this statement “Congratulations you’re ahead of the curve, you haven’t been caught yet , you haven’t destroyed your life. You haven’t risk your financial future. You haven’t risk maybe your career even.” Why do you feel because they haven’t been caught they haven’t destroyed their life or haven’t risked their financial future or even their career? I appreciate your insights I look forward to hearing more about your thought process.
While I didn't mention it specifically, I do talk about ending the affair with the spouse present, so of course disclosure should definitely happen. We have a whole DVD about the disclosure process that helps with that. www.drdougweiss.com/product/disclosure-dvd/
If you are the other woman, a widow, and the affair is brief, and you have to go to Bible Study with your person, should you quit going, which might alert the others in class that something was going on?
You don’t have to go to Bible study with them. You would do well to come up with a reason to go to another Bible study group in which you will not be preyed upon instead of prayed for. I would also get counseling to see what made you vulnerable to this situation so you have boundaries and accountability. If you're interested, you can contact our office at 719-278-3708 to get scheduled with one of our counselors/coaches.
Could please explain your thought process behind this statement “Congratulations you’re ahead of the curve, you haven’t been caught yet , you haven’t destroyed your life. You haven’t risk your financial future. You haven’t risk maybe your career even.” Why do you feel because they haven’t been caught they haven’t destroyed their life or haven’t risked their financial future or even their career? I appreciate your insights I look forward to hearing more about your thought process.
This is in the context of the affair not becoming public yet, not that they haven't hurt themselves, the other person, and of course, their marriage.
Thank you.
You didn’t mention disclosure even after you’ve ended an affair.
While I didn't mention it specifically, I do talk about ending the affair with the spouse present, so of course disclosure should definitely happen. We have a whole DVD about the disclosure process that helps with that.
www.drdougweiss.com/product/disclosure-dvd/
If you are the other woman, a widow, and the affair is brief, and you have to go to Bible Study with your person, should you quit going, which might alert the others in class that something was going on?
You don’t have to go to Bible study with them. You would do well to come up with a reason to go to another Bible study group in which you will not be preyed upon instead of prayed for. I would also get counseling to see what made you vulnerable to this situation so you have boundaries and accountability. If you're interested, you can contact our office at 719-278-3708 to get scheduled with one of our counselors/coaches.
Are you seriously suggesting people who masturbate or watch pornography are sex addicts?