Do I Ever Take A Vacation With My Husband? Answering Questions About How I Am Doing
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I recently asked for Questions and was sincerely touched by how many people asked how I was doing:
- How are YOU doing?
- When Marlow is at your home, are you able to have some time to yourself?
- Are you able to get out alone for down time or dating?
- When you have alone time and are not working, what do you do? Or would you like to do?
- Are you ever able to get out for a day or evening with friends?
and my favorite...
- I was wondering if you ever take a vacation with your husband at all?
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Jess is 33-years-old, autistic, and blind. Her favorite topics of conversation include getting a new dog, her friend Keely, her Aunt Sue, and cousin Donna. Jess collects CD’s of children’s music, cards, coloring books, and has a small collection of used up disposable cameras that she refuses to get developed. Favorite health foods include chicken and rice, chicken tenders, chicken nuggets, chicken biscuits, pepperoni pizza, and hash brown potatoes. Jess has naturally curly hair that she would rather not ever comb, brush, or cut.
Jessica’s multiple disabilities stem from brain damage that occurred in-utero, and from hydrocephalus. In addition to autism and blindness, Jess also has minor fine motor and gross motor deficits. Hannah is Jessica's sister, and Marlow is Jessica's paid support staff (and Hannah's best friend.)
I’ll be your friend, Val. I’m a homebody too. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Watching Jess brings me a lot of joy.
Your love and dedication for Jess is heart warming
Your videos are inspiring and I think it's because of your authenticity. After watching you, Jessica, Hannah, and Marlow for several months, I feel like I know you. You have a gift, Val, and your family is touching the lives of others. Thanks for your transparency and your willingness to share.
Thanks for being vulnerable and answering questions! Truly admire you!
Let’s normalize recharging with alone time at home! I love watching your videos. You are a wonderful family.
hi val believe it or not you are very similar to me in so many ways , i find myself at peace watching the water walking at the beach , watching the changes in the ocean , i also every december go camping in a national park here its got a nountain a river and the ocean all in one , i dont have many friends any more life gets too hard alot of the time , my life can be busy with my son who lives with me and my eldest son who had an accident last year and cant walk now , i think when the dianamics changed i wasnt needed as much by people or what were friends , covid totally changed my life and the way i handle things now , i think when life is simpler im happier , ive lived alone for over 31 years and been with noone i dont have room for a complicated relationship , for over 20 years , live life , laugh and be happy , you have a beautiful family , i really apreciate all your videos , i never had family and never had much support over my lifetime , i also find it very difficult to ask for help , i love how good a relationship you have with cambell thanks for sharing ❤
This is one of my favorite videos...the whispering answer..."I don't have a husband ". Cracks me up..
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Your a beautiful lady inside and out be honest you look like sister than mom make God truly bless you!!!
I saw the thumbnail and was like...oh my gosh...she has a husband!???..your precious.
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I was hoping you were still married. When I saw you together when Jess got her covid vaccine I was so happy you weren't doing this on your own. Now I know. Thanks for sharing you!! I love you and how you are a mommy to Jess!
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You are so beautiful inside an out!! YOUR soul IS like a bouquet of colors kind ,hardworking ,strong a,caregiver ( nurse )mom ,its never-ending ,you are a very special lady in this world ,you are blessed with BEAUTIFUL children an they are blessed with a BEAUTIFUL MAMA!!!!
The beach is my fave to get a break too. It’s right down the street from me and I love it ❤️🌞🌊
Your not boring Val very interesting I’ve learnt a lot you are my friend so is Jess Marlow and Hannah
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I wouldn’t want to leave Jess either... she’s the best! Light of your eye for sure. Blessed!
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So glad to hear you say that about friends, Val-I retired from teaching 5 1/2 years ago and I too have only online friends and family members. I am delighted to now have you and all the "good ones" as well♥
You know, I don’t have your challenges but I also don’t have any friends. My family is my focus. If I were near you, I think we could be friends. God bless you as you care for Jess.
I feel blessed to call you a friend, val!!!
I love your whisper...."i dont have a husband!"
I have the same relationship with my ex!
Me too.
Do you still love your ex? It’s sad to see you’re not together when it seems like you belong to each other.
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@@hannahsutherland8170 it’s not sad. If anything it’s wonderful to see they can be friends and co parent as well as they do.
I didn't know this, I immediately thought what amazing parents you are that still work together even when they chose not to be married anymore, this just shows what amazing people you are to put all of your children first in both your lives. Bloody love you lady! Your brilliant 🥰🥰 xxxxxxxxxxxxx shout out to badaddy too, well done to you too sir 🙏 xxxxxxxxxxxxx
It's great that you and Good Daddy have a good friendship. Makes life easier for everyone.
I think you are an amazing woman and momma. I wish I could swoop in and help you out with house work or whatever. In all the videos that I have seen which is probably about all of them, your home looks very nice and clean. We all have a little dirt and dust lurking around so don't worry about that. You are just awesome. I hope you have an awesome week ❤
We're so much alike, I enjoy the beach and mountains the same, no reading, I just soak everything up, the sounds, smells, the peace that I feel from that.
Hugs and I like to sit and think too
Hello . Just started watching your videos. I find you very attractive. Wishing you all the best . Keep up all the good work
I don’t think you are boring at all. You are lovely and it is such a pleasure to see you and Jessica. You are an inspiration.
Thank you!
More power to you “supermom”💛
Thank you!
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You are a wonderful mom and I joy to listen to. I live in Oklahoma and I love listening to your accent. Lol.
U r not boring... I’m a homebody, also! Even though we have never met , I would be so honored & grateful to call u my friend... 💗😊
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I love your channel you and Jess seem to have a special relationship it’s lovely to see. We have autism in our family and can relate to some of the things I see within Jess. Keep doing what your doing ❤️
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❤️❤️❤️Your so open and honest… I don’t have any friends either 🤷🏻♀️😆but that’s my own doing, to much of an introvert.. I know this was made a few months ago, hoping you’ve had the house to yourself since then😄❤️
You are definitely not boring!!!! You are super mom and you are a very giving person!!!! Don’t ever forget that you are enough!! 😘😘😘Love you Val!!!!
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Val, you may get this a lot, so I hope I don't sound redundant, but I've binge watched MANY of your videos and I'm taken aback by your patience and dedication towards Jessica. You're an outstanding mom! Hands down! I admire you and respect you, and absolutely looooove your Jessica. You've done a phenomenal job. 👏
Wow, thank you so much!
I hear you so much! I am glad that you do get some time away. I like to sit down in my recliner, curl up and watch a Turkish rom com. I’m the same, little time away, few friends that really understand, love gong to the beach. I’m glad that you have the support of your Ex husband too. You rock!
Thank you!!
Val, you are the best! Thanks for letting us love Jess through the videos.
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Love!!! I was a nurse as well many years ago! I also gave it up to raise my oldest who was quite sick when born (27 years ago). She is fine now, and now a Nurse Practioner! My youngest daughter was a well baby, but still decided to stay home and raise my girls! Never regretted it! Go Val!
Thank you! Being able to stay home with mine when they were growing up was such a blessing too!
I have taken care of folks all my life but I had to stop working about 17 years ago because my oldest, who is ADHD, was becoming very hard to handle so I've stayed home and focused on my girlies!
This is such a valuable video. It’s good to hear about you and how you’re doing Val. Your strength reminds me a lot of my mother and also this video made me realise that I never, never, ask her how she’s doing. Take care of yourself 🤍
Well that makes me feel better, my kids never ask me how I'm doing either!
Susan here, I used to work with autistic children and I have to say I do miss it. Have 3 autistic grown men now in my family, all on different levels on the spectrum. I really enjoy your videos because it's so positive and Jess is so beautiful. May God bless you all. 💙 oh and your beautiful too.❤
Thank you! 💙
Did you ever think your life was intriguing to so many? Jess is the highlight of the day for many people. Happy Happy Happy to be a part of the "Good Ones" family.
Hi Val! It’s so nice to see that face of yours! I hope you all are doing well. The cartoon version of Jess at the beginning of the video is awesome! 😊
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Thank you for your years of service as a RN!
I completely understand your frame of mind! My sweet grandson Maxwell is autistic. He will be eight years old tomorrow, February 9th. I have babysat him since he was born. HE IS MY WORLD!! Since starting school, I keep him on the weekends. I CHOOSE to be with him on the weekends vs.socializing with my women friends. He too, is FUN! In saying this...Val, I'd like for us to be friends. Even if it's online. Much Love, Sonya 💚🧩💚
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Hun you’ve got over 9 thousand friends! I’ve been following you and your sweet Jess for a couple of years on Instagram and you both make my heart smile. 😄
You are amazing and I will be ur friend if u ever just need some one to talk to I am always here for you hugs love u doll
You’re freaking awesome Val! That’s all!☺️☺️
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Thank you for opening up about your life to us. You are loved. You're AWESOME mama.
Thank you sooo much! ❤️
I think a lot of us are getting to the point where we are staying home more and traveling less. If you’re a parent or have a disability it’s so hard to schedule one and it’s so expensive. It’s amazing so many of the things you said I feel I would have answered them the same way!
Sometimes our future doesn’t turn out to be what we thought it would be but it’s just about going with the flow and loving those around us. I would probably worry how things were going the whole time I was away if I could go somewhere. I really enjoy your videos! I can’t wait to find something good and fitting to send to Jess in her fan mail. She just gets so excited and I love that for her. Even if you have to end up donating her items she gets to other places or rehab homes it’s the initial mail opening I love.
It is definitely hard to relax and not worry when I go places without her.
Love this. You’re a Super mom
Your channel has quickly become my favorite you tube channel!
Thank you! ❤️
Ohmygawd, you are such an awesome lady!!!!! I was welling just watching this, what a super woman you are! Love you dear Val. I wish we live close by! I live in Australia, Winny is the name and there we go, we are friends already, like it or not! teehee....
Your an amazing mom and person!! 💜
Beautiful woman! Thanks for sharing a little bit of you with us❤️
I'm thrilled that I have found u guys!
I'm in Athens Tennessee
Thank you. I enjoy your sense of humor and candor . You have a special place in my heart. You’re a lovely beautiful lady inside and out. And you’re an amazing momma
I feel the same way when I go places. Just sit and look and think. Love it. Take care Val. You are wonderful.❤❤
Thank you!❤️
Perfectly said!
There was a moment "I need to be home by myself...that helps me...recenter myself" I felt that in my heart. It nearly brought me to tears. Sometimes what seems to be the simplest of things to some, means a great deal to others. Recerntering is a hurdle at times, and requires what some take for granted. You're an outstanding woman. ❤️ I hope you have some time soon, to recenter.
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This might be one of my favorites! Just because you're so cute when you whisper, " I don't have a husband."!!
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We are so alike with things we like to do and minimal friends. I love watching y’all! Your such a inspiration and Jess is blessed to have you.
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So nice to learn more about you xx
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I must be your long lost sister, because I relate to everything you said here. My oldest adult daughter has special needs and so much of you is me. Thank you Val! I don't have many friends either, and my job is taking a toll on me being able to be with my daughter as much as I need to be. You are such an inspiration.
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Thank you for being so honest about everything. I wish there were more friends around for you to enable you to chill and laugh. 🤗
Val,you have a friend in me.I don’t have many friends either.I just lost my best friend of 38 years last week.You are an amazing momma and person.I’m so glad I came upon your video’s of Jess.All of you ladies make me smile and brighten my day.I love Tuesday night lives.Have a great day and thanks for allowing me to be a very small part of your lives.
Valeria, I sent my first 25 years beachin it and had more friends than any one person should have. The next 25 years I spent having and raising My Three Sons. I was married at 19 to the love of my life who drug this South Florida Blonde haired, dark coppertoned tanned to a town called White River Jct, VT. Yep. I had never seen snow. I had never experienced weather any colder than 50° and he thrusts me into, as far as I'm concerned, the middle of Alaska. Lol. No he did move me to Vermont January 16, 1987. One of the coldest winters they had had in 50 years. Ohhh Great!!! I started working for Dartmouth Hitchcock Memorial Hospital which had everything to do with the Dartmouth College in Hannover NH. 1st week of my new job at the hospital I woke up at 4:30 am. said my see ya laters and proceeded out to the of the driveway. Only to find my little front wheel drive Volkswagen Rabbit was missing. Yep, I thought for sure someone stole my Lil ugly red box. I thought too myself, WHY???? lmbo. I made my way back into the house and woke my husband up. He was snuggled up in a heating blanket and looked so cozy, I thought to myself again, why did I want this particular job. Did I mention that we had gotten 5 foot of snow through the night and my eyes must've been playing tricks on me because I had never, ever seen anything so Breathtakingly Beautiful in my entire life. It was Definitely cold as hell but unbelievable at the same time. I'm, first day on the job, my car had been stolen not sure what to do now. So, my husband started looking around in the snowballs with the opposite end of the snow shovel and I couldn't help but wonder, what the heck is this dumb ass doing!!! I had to keep reminding myself that he was a 28 year old man who had never really lived anywhere else but here, so just allow him to poke the snow. After about 10 minutes we hear this "clank" and he starts scraping the snow and he finds my Rabbit in a Deep hole of snow. I will tell you, I was a little late for work but after telling my story to those little Vermont women with my total Southern drawl, they laughed so hard and fell inlove with me at that moment and I them.... so as we close our the first 50 years of my life I'm fixing to close out my first 10 years of my 3rd, 1/4 of my life. I'm now single and what I refer to as also widowed because we divorced after 23 years of marriage however we stayed the best of friends. He was and still is my soul mate. However, he became extremely ill and I moved him in with myself and our 3rd born who was born with so many disabilities that I felt this was best for all of us. So I will be celebrating my 59th birthday on the 28th of this month. Yeeehaw!! Lol, now that I only have a couple best friends and a much quieter lifestyle, my youngest took a job in Wisconsin, Milwaukee of all places, I find myself with so much quiet time that I have managed to make a couple friends on TH-cam/ Facebook. I'm so very thankful for those friendships. But, I'm sure I'm driving them nuts as well, "right Val" . Thank you for your videos and allowing people like me to dive into ya'lls world a little deeper. God Bless ya this evening and will chat soon. Goodnight ladies...
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Glad to hear about you! Peaceful time alone sounds perfect! Beach a wonderful bonus! Good for you 💜
Luv this vid...appreciate your openess... 🎀
You truly inspire me! Not sure where you live but if close you would have a friend! Came up on your videos and have been glued to your journey. You are a special woman.
How did Jess handle your divorce? I was thinking that would be very hard, for you to reassure her & for her to adjust to a big change.
Girl you’re AWESOME 🤩!!!
I love watching yalls videos y’all are my top people I watch on TH-cam!Keep it up!Love yall!
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You are terrific, a great mom and woman. God Bless you.
I'm like you when it comes to people. I don't have friends [ my choiçe ] my husband of 35yrs & kids [ ages; 37-51 ] are all I need [ in small doses] I have 10 grandsons, 2 granddaughters & 1 Great-Grandson [ Connor who just turned 4 ] his Grandma, my oldest is raising him. He is the light of my life!! I have multiple health issues & can't walk, so Connor & I have races up & down the driveway. My PowerChair can go pretty fast & I let him win sometimes. My husband cooks for me & does my errands. But he's gone most days unless I have a Drs. appt. He takes me. He has lotz of friends. What do they call people like him [ a Social Butterfly! Lol*** He's careful & sanitizes everything to keep me safe. At least @ 75yrs old he's not a Couch Potato*** He's always busy. Well, I guess I'll say GOODNIGHT & tell Jess Sweet-dreams !!
Oh, my daughter used to be my caregiver, but since she's raising Connor she went back to work. So, my husband took over because it's hard to find someone since Covid. We hired someone who stole all my medication, money, Jewelry etc.
All of these people are right! You are amazing 🤗. A beautiful woman, a beautiful spirit 💕.
Thank you! 💗
Val you give us all strength. I love watching you all. Many prayers and blessings to you and the family
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I just recently found you and now I have spent a great deal of my day catching up and watching your videos! I live about 85 miles from you and I think we could be BFFs lol - you are an amazing mom and so very patient with Jessica - she is lucky to have you just as you are lucky to have her! I would love to spend time with y’all - I think it would be fun! Keep up the amazing job and I love y’all’s videos!
Love watching you and your Bessie!
You guys doing great job for TH-cam channel Jess doing great job
You are a wonderful and giving mother. God bless you all.
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Thank you for sharing how you're doing! :) I hope covid clears up so you and Jess can have a nice beach day.
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I wanna be your friend. 😁 Val, you are amazing.
I love watching your videos and I have a 9 year daughter who is diagnosed with cri-du-chat she is nonverbal and I stay at home with her and when you mentioned about instead of getting away and staying home by yourself to catch up on things that is exactly how I am!! I don’t have no one currently helping me with my daughter besides my 16 year old son who is pretty good with helping if I ask and I also have a 3 year daughter who loves to help feed her sister lol. Thank you for your videos
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Me time is so important! I’m a umbrella girl at the beach too. I do love it though. 🙂
The heat without direct sun is fantastic!! So soothing!
I think Jess is amazing very very smart
Btw... I'm one of the Good Ones...not a bad one..grins
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You supermum Val.Hi to Jess love you❤️
Thank you for taking the time to answer questions and let us into your life as well as Jessica's. I know as a mom to special needs children ( I have a 22 year old and a 17 year old) it is hard to get through some days and some days are better than others. I was in the medical field and gave up my career to stay at home with my oldest when there was no child care to meet his needs. I can understand some of what your going through with services as well. We live in Maine. I don't have many friends either just 1 or 2 people I consider friends that I don't see too often due to our lives. Your a great mom and I would be happy to be your friend even though I'm many miles away 🙂
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You have us as friends, Im 67 and take care of grandson with autism. I take him to ABA therapy in mornings, pick him up at 1 and kept him till my daughter gets off work. It is exhausting, I have no social life either.
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Marlo should take Jessica to a movie, out to eat, to the library, walking at a park.
Marlow does take Jess places.
I love watching your videos, and you are a great mother.
Great video. You are such a sweet person.
Your nursing background explains your patience and understanding Jess when she ask the same question multiple times or needs your attention most of the time. You are an awesome Mom
Val you are an awesome mum, it’s great that you have a nice friendship with bad-daddy as Jess says. Understand about having friends I personally don’t have many either, lots of people don’t understand special needs.
Your videos have helped me loads.
Sending love to you all xxx
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Love you and your family.
I burn too wish I didn’t! I would love to just be out in the sun and not have to worry about sunscreen and covering up!
My favorite Instagram and TH-cam family!!
I love this and yalls relationship 💕💕 always my fav mom and daughter to watch. I too like the beach or a mountain stream to just sit and think ❤️
Somehow I can relate to how much or if any time you have for yourself during the day..... had to look after my sister, after my parents had got their departure tickets from this world (God bless their souls❤).... I didn't realised at the time that it was going to change my life completely around....couldn't get a opening spot for her at places that can look after her during the day while I'm working, all those epileptic places was fully booked, couldn't go to work at times... was phoned while at work by unknown people to come pick her up... tried to take her with me to work... didn't work.... I get home and will find her all bruised up and huge cuts in her mouth.... we decided send her to a epilepsy clinic/institution, some 1800 km from me 😢, after one day I came home and find her in a state...her front teeth has cut right through her lips, leaving her with a 2cm cut outside and on the inside with a 4 cm cut, and had a huge blue knop on her forehead.... off to the hospital were I couldn't take it anymore, seeing her like that everyday. My heart goes out to you in admiration.... you are really a super mom and a amazing person...... thx for sharing your incredible journey/moments with Jess...... 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Hi! I sincerely PRAY that one day you and your sister can live closer to each other even if she can't stay with you....it must be hard to not be able to just go and visit or just spend quality time with each other. Just keep waiting on GOD!! I'M glad you got her some help
You are the true definition of what a mother is supposed to be.🤗
You are such an amazing woman, mother and I am sure an even more amazing friend! I hope you can get some “me” time once in awhile bc you deserve it! ❤️
First, let me say, I LOVE watching your videos and seeing your heartwarming interactions with Jess. I found you soon after my mom passed and it added some joy to my life💕! I can imagine the difficulty finding time for YOU even with Marlow being there. When my mom no longer qualified for caregivers and I could no longer afford it out of pocket, I was on my own. Made arrangements with an inlaw to come once a week. With my Lyme disease, I didn't always feel well enough to go leave and would stay back in my room. But mom preferred ME so I didn't get a break. Started going over to my sister's and getting in her bed but mom would call and wondered when I was coming home 🤣. It's SO important to find time for YOU or you'll burn out/break down. I sure miss my mama though. Val, you're a pretty exceptional woman and I admire you! Love your relationship with Jessica and your family!
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I find when the therapists are here I end up catching up with everything else. I minimized my living room and dining room and it keeps things cleaner and that gives me peace.
You have all of us
VAL...Hit me up girl!! I'm a homebody and have no friends! BAAAHAHAHA