Might Wake the Neighbors - Routines and Tough Days

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  • @gigglesandhugs5690
    @gigglesandhugs5690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am on the spectrum and it is great that you are sharing what truth is. Thank you Jess for being brave to share your vulnerable side.
    I can say from my view point the tough days are when emotions get so hard to handle. its a lot to process everyday and somedays are just harder

  • @joannhale6062
    @joannhale6062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Bless Jess' heart! I am 59 years old, and if I have a bad dream it stays with me for hours. I can't imagine Jess trying to deal with that. She is such a blessed young woman to have so many people in her life to love on her. I think God knew exactly what He was doing when He created Marlow. She was Heaven Sent just for Jessica. Much love to each of you and a special hug for Jess.

  • @julesingram7945
    @julesingram7945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Literally balling over here, while she quiver cries. Breaks my heart. Stupid dreams! Love you Jess ♥️♥️♥️

  • @cindythoreson3716
    @cindythoreson3716 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I always feel bad for Miss Jessica when she cries. It seems so real to her💔. Hannah and Marlow work so well her. I love seeing their interaction together. Thank you for sharing.

  • @lauralemus8674
    @lauralemus8674 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Marlowe, you’re such a GOOD one

  • @pattidailey6413
    @pattidailey6413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I think the agenda is a great idea! I like her reasoning for not unloading the dishwasher. Lol

  • @sashai.4067
    @sashai.4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nothing makes me happier then seeing how Hannah is with her. She is literally the best sister in the world and has the most amazing patience and heart. She’s gonna make a wonderful parent one day!

  • @CCBeanzzz
    @CCBeanzzz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You all do such a phenomenal job of treating Jessica like the adult she is while meeting her at her challenges to help. From the way Hannah talks to her gently to the way Marlowe guides her through the day, it’s just nice to see. Makes me feel good about the world.

  • @kathiepriest7656
    @kathiepriest7656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel so bad for Jess! I've had those dreams that are confusing you can't get them off your mind! Hope you day continues to improve!

  • @lesliesinclair7719
    @lesliesinclair7719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great job using the agenda and timer! This makes my EC teacher heart so happy. I wish more families would do this at home with their special needs family members.

  • @Toffee146
    @Toffee146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Poor, poor Jess. I can't even begin to imagine what it's like to be in Jess' mind. I have Hydrocephalus and other serious conditions, but I think Jess is amazingly brave. I hate to see her distressed and confused about dreams and reality. That must be so frightening, and exacerbated by the fact she can't see the world she has to navigate. 😢
    Tons of hugs send to Jess, and love to all of you, including very GOOD daddy 😉, from Sheffield, England. 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

  • @sashai.4067
    @sashai.4067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Also great on Hanna explaining that we control our dreams. I have nightmares and my therapist helped me learn re-scripting which has helped so much.

  • @biancasrelaxationasmroasis7031
    @biancasrelaxationasmroasis7031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I hate seeing Jess cry she's so sweet.❤ We've all had a dream that just feels way too real. It's ok to have a bad sometimes day we all do.❤❤❤

  • @insidemydreams5531
    @insidemydreams5531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mom and dad, y'all have an amazing daughter Hannah 🥰 I love how she helps and loves Jess🥰 now that's one good sister

  • @doreenkrajewski9775
    @doreenkrajewski9775 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Goodness sakes that made me cry when Jess cried about her dream.. love you Jess…hugs

  • @tammymurphy2499
    @tammymurphy2499 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bless her heart. She doesn’t know or how to explain why she’s so sad. Love you Jess we all have bad days.

  • @amberkrebs8443
    @amberkrebs8443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hannah and Marlowe you did such a great job at comforting Jess. The list is an excellent idea . I like list. Always have made them. My mom was a list maker too.
    Marlowe good kid on Jess's hair starting at bottom and working way up in sections. 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @heidiely3243
    @heidiely3243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jess, I woke up yesterday so early from a very disturbing dream. It really shook me. It took me a minute to get out of that feeling and I don't have the same struggles as you. Those dreams that seem so real happen to us all. Love you and your beautiful soul. ❤️

  • @Gree263
    @Gree263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww, sweet Jessica. I'm sorry you are having a rough day. Dreams sure can be upsetting sometimes. Thank goodness they aren't real life! I'm sending you big hugs. Marlow & Hannah...definition of empathy & love 💘

  • @cjjohnson2421
    @cjjohnson2421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hate to see Jess so sad- it breaks my heart. I love how you all validate her feelings and help her work through it and use redirecting!

  • @lisaalbrecht3182
    @lisaalbrecht3182 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love you Jessica amd may God bless your wonderfu family
    Thankyou for sharing it with us❤

  • @Prairie_winds
    @Prairie_winds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the support Jess has in both Marlowe and Hannah. I think Jess' agenda is a great idea!

  • @christylee_twistedlee
    @christylee_twistedlee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great job jess!! I have had them dreams myself and they have just ruined my day. So sorry sweetie. Marlowe your awesome girlie. We need more people like you.

  • @taratreider5491
    @taratreider5491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this even though my heart is breaking for her. Praying this time passes and there will be peace in her heart again. ❤

  • @Susanluc59
    @Susanluc59 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Seeing Jess with tears rolling down her face broke my heart. Totally broke my heart. Sending so much love to her and the family.

  • @nancychuba2823
    @nancychuba2823 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hannah and marlow are so good to Jessica ,she is so blessed to have a loving family and friend Marlow .❤

  • @lynnbeekheimer429
    @lynnbeekheimer429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Jess, you could try what I used to do for my grandkids, 3 M&MS right before bedtime to insure sweet dreams, works every time.I agree with you unloading that dishwasher could bother the neighbors. Good job this morning!

  • @sharoncox4271
    @sharoncox4271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hate seeing Jess upset but I love to watch Marlowe and Hannah interact with her. They are so patient!

  • @itsmecandi9951
    @itsmecandi9951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great job Jess! Thank you for showing us your routine. Look at all those beautiful clothes! Would it be easier for Jess if you put the shredder on a little corner table so Jess doesnt have to bend over as much

    • @Shaping_Serenity
      @Shaping_Serenity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sometimes we pull her a chair up so she doesn’t have to lean over like that. Sometimes she doesn’t want to sit. Our house is usually full and crowded so we are limited on space to put almost everything. 😄

  • @lavellepatton7419
    @lavellepatton7419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bless her soul she is so precious I love her!! Shout out from San Diego Ca!! Wonderful video Hannah and Marlo, way to calm her and show her the love!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @sandraenglandful
    @sandraenglandful 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jess broke my heart in this video. I hate that she gets upset ❤

  • @sportyfemme64
    @sportyfemme64 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Her crying is KILLING ME! That little puckery face and lip. 😥 Jess, the world could go away, and your wonderful, supportive, family will still be there!! That's a blessing, sweet Jessica! 😊❤❤

  • @nancyschaeffer569
    @nancyschaeffer569 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad that Marlow is her pastime caregiver. It is easier on Jess because she knows Marlow. So good also for Val because she can take a break three times a week. Love this channel

  • @maryannebarry9123
    @maryannebarry9123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The tenderness of how you are all with sweet Jess is so heartwarming. I wish those stupid dreams would not happen to Jess 💕💕. When she cries, my heart aches. Great job ladies!

  • @susanglasser6152
    @susanglasser6152 ปีที่แล้ว

    WOW! Valerie, U did such a good job cutting ✂️Jessica's hair! & We are so proud of her, for sitting still & allowing u to cut✂️ it.👍🤗❤️

  • @KattNJ0420
    @KattNJ0420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can see my 11 year old niece saying the dishwasher comment to get out of doing it! Good thinking Jess! 🤣🤣

  • @lindasansone3345
    @lindasansone3345 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    GATOR CLAUS 😂 Good Saturday Morning to Danielle and Dan ❤😂

  • @nancyalmonte6334
    @nancyalmonte6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing some of your daily struggles. I’m sorry you had a bad dream Jess, #dirtygarbagedreams 😥♥️ Great job doing your chores & I hope things are much better by now. We love you! Hannah & Marlow are such good ones! ♥️♥️

  • @budgirl1368
    @budgirl1368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww 🥲 felt so sad for Jess when she was upset
    But I Laughed Out Loud when she made the comment why she can’t unload the dishwasher 😂
    That was awesome ♥️♥️
    Jessica I hope your day got better

  • @ElliotAndGuideDogCaddy
    @ElliotAndGuideDogCaddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm sorry you had a bad day Jess. I get the same way with dreams. Sometimes bad ones can make me feel bad all day.

  • @daniellerowell8212
    @daniellerowell8212 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love that she knows hair washing day doesn’t fall on the same day at pit shaving day. Right when I think I couldn’t love her more I do!

  • @angelagibbs7167
    @angelagibbs7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oooh sweet Jess.. my heart cries with you too. I sometimes have dreams that feel real and it takes me a while to understand it wasn’t real. Sending you big hugs 💖💖💖💖💖💖🥰😊

  • @debbierogers8682
    @debbierogers8682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You girls are awesome with Jess!❤️

  • @Brave_Rachel
    @Brave_Rachel 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jess should have said the shredder was noisy for the neighbours as well 😅lol😊

  • @FFrattini11
    @FFrattini11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how Hanah encourages her Bessie? Marlow you are the best .❤ u 3 work wonderful.

  • @amberfalvey7476
    @amberfalvey7476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fun help here helping her with life skills is always good to learn life skills she's doing awesome

  • @theresaburns2873
    @theresaburns2873 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My bad dreams stay with me for a long time after. It breaks my heart to see Jess cry. God love her.

  • @keepitREALalways2181
    @keepitREALalways2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry you were having such a bad day and I hope Marlo and Hannah made you feel better.. God bless you all and lots of love and prayers!!!👑👍👍🦩🤗🦋💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜

  • @nataliet3315
    @nataliet3315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the bond the girls share 💞 and mom too 🥰

  • @CountryLady1752
    @CountryLady1752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You all are just wonderful people💜🦋💜🦋💜🦋💜🦋

  • @sydneyaustralia5682
    @sydneyaustralia5682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awww poor thing!! Maybe when she gets like that maybe help remind her of her current surroundings… like “here’s your dog, here’s your bed, we’re in the kitchen” etc. Hope that helps!

  • @dorotheakey2226
    @dorotheakey2226 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hannah sweetie you are a AWESOME sister ❤ Many blessings to you and you will make a wonderful mother one day....Hope yall hav a great day 💛 💗

  • @debmiller2146
    @debmiller2146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marlow. U are just the best aide ever you have so
    Much patience. Hannah. Your a
    Great sister. She is lucky to have you both. Love Deb ark

  • @gailgaub3586
    @gailgaub3586 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marlow is so good with Jess.

  • @cherylesorey1012
    @cherylesorey1012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good idea with the agenda. To help keep Jess in track. I wonder if I used the neighbor excuse to not do the dishwasher it would work. Lol. Hated seeing Jess so upset about her dream. Brought tears. Hope you day is going better & Good Daddy comes to see you.

  • @GingerbreaddGypsy
    @GingerbreaddGypsy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her hair near the shredder makes me nervous! Y’all are so sweet with her.

  • @WikkidVyxen
    @WikkidVyxen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg, the look on Jessica's face breaks my heart ❤

  • @kelliehale2174
    @kelliehale2174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And that poor guy that got your chicken biscuit LOL

  • @jackyjones8625
    @jackyjones8625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless your heart, Jessica. I love ya sweetie❣️

  • @vanessadaugherty4294
    @vanessadaugherty4294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bless her💖you can tell she has something on her mind🤯🧘🏻‍♀️💞

  • @pattievoltz4202
    @pattievoltz4202 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's Awesome that Jess has you both to help her out , Miss Jess smile 😊 Jess is a Good one 😁🌹💓

  • @tyreesetjjoyner1995
    @tyreesetjjoyner1995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great job, Jesse. Keep up the good work on getting the silver play button

  • @piamiddione3695
    @piamiddione3695 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hannah is truly the sweetest Lady! Her voice is so southing!

  • @ekc4759
    @ekc4759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweet Jess crying. So sad bless her heart x

  • @amyt6254
    @amyt6254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your day with us.

  • @1cemetarygirl
    @1cemetarygirl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i had a lot of shredding at work today and my first thought was dang i wish i had Jessica here to help me she would love it!

  • @moniqueputvain-dunn5239
    @moniqueputvain-dunn5239 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marlo is amazing, so is Jess! Has Jess ever threatened physical harm to Marlo ? They seem so close. ♥️

  • @lynnmarcum3799
    @lynnmarcum3799 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess you are a beautiful lady and so proud of all your accomplishments love watching your videos love you jess

  • @mamapenny7744
    @mamapenny7744 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless your heart sweet girl! You are doing great with your routine Jess! Independent girl 👧!!

  • @jkmotorcyclegloryroads532
    @jkmotorcyclegloryroads532 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely awesome!!!!!👍🩷

  • @alanlongman2952
    @alanlongman2952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good job jess very clean Whats wrong jess dont be sad my friend i give u hug from me cheer up love kristal regina Saskatchewan

  • @barabaradimick2378
    @barabaradimick2378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Jess ,, Marlow & Hannah are such a big help to you…. Everything will work out Jess, no worries!

  • @robinwandoff2014
    @robinwandoff2014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marlow you are a very special care assistant. You are so patient with Jess. The chart of expectations is a great thing for Jess. Routines are the greatest.

  • @trenarichardson690
    @trenarichardson690 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is one of the best videos thank you for sharing

  • @conniecompton9624
    @conniecompton9624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love Jess 💕 she’s so beautiful

  • @valeriehenderson2444
    @valeriehenderson2444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess you are so lucky to have Marlow the Good one.Bad Dreams no good.Only Good Dreams

  • @MariaElena-ch3td
    @MariaElena-ch3td 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s better to grab bunch of hair in a like a ponytail in your hands and brush from the bottom up as detangles, it will really help with the pain of detangling.

  • @alana8812
    @alana8812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love watching your vlogs you guys are soo awesome with Jess she is so adorable big hugs from New Zealand

  • @jenniferfutrell8221
    @jenniferfutrell8221 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh sweet Jess. Dreams can be tough.
    I am going to use that excuse about the dishwasher next time mine needs to be unloaded. 🤣❤️❤️

  • @autisticrebornmommy
    @autisticrebornmommy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allow is such a big help and that’s a good morning routine love ur videos hope someday to meet all of u

  • @smallfruit9135
    @smallfruit9135 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Jessie Pops sending you a cuddle from the U.K. 🥰

  • @mothermarie6057
    @mothermarie6057 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learning to be independent women together!!! 🙌🌈🦋♥️💋😍🥰

  • @MariaTeixeira-qm7om
    @MariaTeixeira-qm7om 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    HANNAH & MARLOW YOUR SO..PATEINT .WITH JESS YOU GUYS ARE AWSOME ❤☺

  • @amberfalvey7476
    @amberfalvey7476 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love always think of something fun and then you should have good dreams that's what they told me when I was little and it helped always think of something good and you will have good dreams

  • @lisaalbrecht3182
    @lisaalbrecht3182 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am worried about Jess hair getting sucked into the paper shredder as well as the dogs ears because inoticed the dog bowls right next to it

  • @Kaytea475
    @Kaytea475 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol, she didn't want to do the dishes. That's why she didn't. Not because the neighbors. Come on....

  • @patricialamont-s6t
    @patricialamont-s6t 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No tissues for poor Jess

  • @auntemmyd1604
    @auntemmyd1604 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We Love ❤️ you guys!

  • @beatrizduran6547
    @beatrizduran6547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tell your dreams to leave you alone so you can rest ☺️

  • @SassyKYgirl51
    @SassyKYgirl51 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bless her heart ❤💙

  • @deepupperthinkingfrisking4554
    @deepupperthinkingfrisking4554 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would have been totally bummed if I got chicken instead of BACON!!!! 🤣

  • @debrajohnson4919
    @debrajohnson4919 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That’s very patient..

  • @trenarichardson690
    @trenarichardson690 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the check list

  • @marimashburn7796
    @marimashburn7796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It hurts my heart to see her cry.

  • @joannedoerffer1835
    @joannedoerffer1835 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh bless her, big hugs Jess! xx

  • @brookiebrooke2091
    @brookiebrooke2091 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    New subscriber here, I just found u guys. & I have to say Jess is so sweet, I can hardly take it! ☺️☺️☺️

  • @karbear26
    @karbear26 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor Jessica dreams can be confusing!! I love her excuse the dishwasher might be wake up the neighbors because it’s so loud!! That’s awesome!! What is she going to do with her money? Is she saving for something?

    • @Shaping_Serenity
      @Shaping_Serenity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For her next dog in 12-15 years. 😊🙃

  • @peggymowery7633
    @peggymowery7633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I know how dreams can feel so real, but it's all just a dream , I have to sometimes remind myself those dream's that feel so real are just a figment of my imagination yes I have an Imagination Even at my rioe old age of 51 lol,🙏☮️💕😎

  • @ashleybarnard2538
    @ashleybarnard2538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh Jess I am sorry u had a bad dream and sometimes dreams can seem so really. But my granny always use to say tomorrow is a new day it will be better

  • @amandahopper3522
    @amandahopper3522 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh Hannah ❤❤❤❤❤