Everything my mom touches disappears. She isn't organized enough[Hello Counselor/ENG,THA/2018.11.05]
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Hello Counselor EP.386
Byeon Gisu, Jeong Eunji, Daniel Lindemann,
IZ*ONE's Wonyoung & Yena
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Kinda addicted to this show 😂😂😂
LMAO Same here HAHAHA even though i'm very very triggered because of the concerns LOL
Join the club
@@mae-mx1rt Club? What do you mean? HAHA
Taruli Christovina You're not alone 🙋😸
Start watching one problem and end up watching the whole episode 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Everyone who's telling him to move out. Uhm excuse me but this is an Asian thing/culture wherein sons/daughters don't need to move out unless they want to and the parents not asking them to. Usually you just move out when you get married or sometimes the son stay together with his family.
Please respect it as it is not your culture, we know the fact that SOME western parents ask their kids to move out once they reach 18 or what, and we know that's your culture.
Shey Garcia totally agree. Finding a job and decent housing at 18 is easier said than done. There are many young adults in the US that are struggling because they're parents kick them out while they're not prepared both financially and mentally.
I agree since I'm Japanese. But my family never really cared about me. I moved away on my own. I was always alone. I live in America for now, but I plan on going either to France or Brazil.
even in saudi arabia we have the same ritual or umm cultural habit?
i'm 21 years old and have 4 more months to go before graduating, I always worry about whether they would allow me to move out or not of course after getting a job. but i think i can handle responsibilities by my own.
Shey Garcia I agree. It’s an African thing too. He however needs to help his mom more and he should have been brought up to be someone’s husband.
Us culture seems too hard to me
I can't imagine myself kicking my sons and daughters out on age 18
They're my responsibility why kick them?
She is definitely a hoarder. But she needs to stop making excuses, she should have just tell her husband and sons to help out around the house. She must have been nagging too much and being too perfectionist and end up being tired while not doing most chores. Most moms are like that, please don't do that, delegate the chores, if they are not being done as you like, it's ok if it's not perfect. That is most likely the reason a house got that messy, when chores are piled up and getting difficult to be completed.
I wish they would find everyone’s feelings valid instead of just the mother’s.
She is kind of blaming her family for her being a hoarder but it’s not their fault. She has absolutely no issue getting rid of her son’s things but when it comes to her stuff she finds every reason. I have no choice but to side with her son since my mother resembles his. And who cares that he’s thirty. His age is no justification for how she behaves. “He needs to move out anyway” or “Why does he still live with his mom at thirty” most of y’all probably haven’t experienced the difficulty of moving out so don’t judge him because of his age. I don’t like the fact that they made it seem like him not being in the mood to talk to his mother is something that’s childish. Everyone has bad days just give people space no matter how old they are. Plus thirty isn’t even that old lol.
Did you even watch the last part of the episode? She buys things to fill the loneliness she has. Her family telling her to clean up stuff only makes her feel worse and makes her hoard even more. She should have told her family of her depression, but telling someone your depressed isn’t that easy.
You see what you want not what they show. They never invalidate other feelings. When she was lying and blaming her son for everything they were all laughing cuz they knew she was at fault. They never said he can't be in a mood not wanting to talk to his mom, they only blame him for telling her she doesn't do shit since she's a stay at home mom! Besides they only point out the main reason she piles up things and refuses to let her things go is an emotional/psychological issue. You sound sour they don't jump to only shame her and victimize her son...how immature! How old are you?
I hope this lady got real help. Sounds like she suffered a trauma when she lost her shop and became a hoarder. She needs mental help. She is definitely a hoarder and possibly depressed. Another thing could be Alzheimers or dementia.
Or amnesia. She keeps saying she forgets. 😓
Akira Alexis Soyra true 😔
I am seriously addicted to this show,the way they sort the things in a humorous way that hits different!
Cant spend my day without watching this 💜😂😂😂
The is Korea most Men and women still live with there parents till they find a partner and get married. A lot people are not that independent in Korea unlike most people are in other countries, So it's not "oh all he has to do is move out" type of thing.
The cost of housing is high too, I believe.
@@yujinkim4070 yes that is very true!
Yes. 😟
that applies to most Asian countries too not just Korea
Mom is the exact opposit of her she throws everything out even
Necessary things she might even throw me out if i don't move for 24h 😂
OMMGGG your comment totally made my day 😂😂😭😭
@@sgarden6064 glad to 😊
My mom did the same thing 😂
Same 😂
My mum threw away my cleanser saying its finished....its more than half full...$15 ✈
2nd time round, she said my new cleanser expired and smells bad....its way further from the truth...
Bought honey for my bloody eczema scalp and said she never touched it....found it in her cupboard and it turned black...$100✈
Scored well to take up Japanese in school....Mother asked to decline, I assumed she would send me to a class and assumed it costs alot like $100..ended up $10,000 ✈
I think she have a hoarding problem. She couldn't throw away things as ahe felt attached to them. She might even be depressed as she felt like not doing anything at all instead of trying to clean up.
It would be a great if they bring her to see a psychologist.
Hello counselor actually sought the opinion of a certified professional. I'm impressed. They should make it a stable part of the show
+1
The ending is lovely. I'm glad this show can help the family.
I'm back again binge-watching 😭😭
She's really cute! She must have been very lonely.... I hope they're doing well
no matter what episode this show always leaves me in tears, joy, and laughter
This is story of every household. My mom takes stuff and keeps it in their "right place" and for the life of me I won't be able to find it.
The mom may have a hoarding problem.
Dad's laugh is really cute lol 😂😂😂
I didnt have all the same problems as him but it was hard owning anything around the house. I got myself a lock and things are better, its hard that I have to go back to my room forthings that should be in the bathroom etc but thats how it is. If I leave anything outside it dissapears, trashed or someone takes it. I get very stressed.
He should get a lock and take care of his own things, he is capable, he can wash his nice clothes himself so she doesnt lose them and put away the more important things in his room.
Oh wow, I didn't cry until I saw the update at the end! Thanks so much for including that!
Eunji should play on drama i think she would be good to be one when i watch the other episode of hello counselor
He is 30 years old already, why did he want his mom to organize everything for him.. He is not a baby anymore.. And they should help their mom, maybe she needs doctor's help..
The is Korea most Men and women still live with there parents till they find a partner and get married. some people are not that independent in Korea like most people are in other countries, So it's not "oh all he has to do is move out" type of thing.
You can't help someone who doesn't want it. Of course they have tried to help! That's why they brought her to the show. She wouldn't listen to them. This is what they had to resort to. You can lead a horse to water but you want make it drink.
I was first thinking "Do they really need to come because of the problem". But when they discovered the reason of all this, glad they came
She's definately a hoarder.
depression is one dangerous thing
Eunji's mad make my day she is so funny lol and cute for me
Same with me when I feel uneasy,depressed, shopping makes me feel comfort. And became habit now
Jung eunjiyaaaaa😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
Poor guy!! Its so tiring to search for stuff. You have to live with such a maniac to understand! We have 50pairs of socks and they are almost all missing one of the two. As a student I can only put my textbooks etc on the floor as my mum took the all 22 shelves for herself. I have to shelve out 100dollars when i started working to buy expensive Toyogo boxes to be put on the floor as she refuses to let me buy a cupboard to place in my room. She throws away my things saying its used up when its not!!!! and threatened to throw my washing foam away saying theres a foul smell and it has expired. When i confronted her with the expiry date and made her smell it, she became confused. Its terrible. When i buy stuff for the family, she doesnt use them. Always saying she doesnt know what it is. I probably told her every 6 months but she always says she doesnt know. If it says black pepper on the bottle, why would she not know????
She doesnt work and household chores could be done in one day.
Some moms are like friends, but most are difficult to deal with. You don't want to hurt their feeling, but at the same time, they make you upset. For your cheaper storage option, maybe you can use regular cardboard boxes, if you wrapped it with gift paper or wallpaper, they look really nice. Put them on top of your dresser, below your bed, or even stack them over each other. Just label them with category. What I did is I separate my personal belonging with my parents, if they put useless things in my room to be stored, I will clear them out once they forget (of course, think about the importance of the things first).
@@imsunshine20 Your cheap cardboard option is brilliant! I agree that we as children do not want to hurt their feelings...but bad people grow into bad parents too.. Before handling it, you are driven insane by the amount of work and time to put in.
I dont have a dresser; impossible to put anything under the bed. I only have space for a bed and 2 small cupboards/or wardrobes (50cm across each)
When I first saw the picture I was like.....
Oh......that looks like my Filipino grandma house....
First thing first which even I should do too is that keep our own things ourselves rather than being dependent on mother to keep our things. This is the main cause of trouble
The mother reminds me of my mother, in term of unorganized and always forgot her stuff and can never found it. I've been trained being a detective since young age by finding her stuff.
이유가 어쨌던 제자리에 있어야할게 거기없으면 정말빡침!!!!
치운사람(?) 이 누구인걸막론하고 난 세상에서 들어본적도없는 갖은 나쁜 욕을 막 지어내서함!!!!
he's 30 years old, why can't he just organize his stuff himself
Please watch it again
@@rowrowry3799 why
Even if he organizes his own stuff, his mother will eventually find it and then it'll be lost again
@@rowrowry3799 if, from the start, he helped his mom with the chores then she wouldn't have depression. so her mom wouldn't be doing this.
Yah mistakes were made
That guy really handsome HAHAHAHHHHHAA
I hate when my mom touch my room, she rearranged it once, took me two full days to find where everything was.
You guys are talking about the problem, but am I the only one who notices how pretty so young and yena are?? 😂😂😘😘💖💖🌸🌸😍😍🙏🙏🍀🍀🌺🌺😊😊😝😝😏😏☺️☺️🤟🤟😁😁😳😳😌😌🤪🤪especially wonyoung😂😂
I think the problem isn't about the guy's independence or the mother's neatness anymore. Seeing how the whole family is concerned about the mother like that, I can only think that his mother is a hoarder and has psychological problems. Certainly the closure of the clothing store had some bad effects on her, hoping that she would get psychological counseling soon.
Everything started ten years ago 😂😂🤣😂I watched so many episodes before this
The last time i called my brother was 5 monthes ago and i straight up asked him if he was alive 💀 the call lasted less then 10 mins.
I dont know but i just hate that mom.. She's lying and its kind of annoying
어머니 말은 이해가 가지만 옷을 저렇게 집에다가 낳두면 얼마나 답답하겠어요ㆍ어머님도 정신 차리고 깨끗이 치우시길ㆍ아드님도 어머니한테 말을 이쁘게 해 주길ㆍ
Omg, our mom does that too, just randomly putting things elsewhere, I don't know how many times she 'reorganized' my clothes although I had organized them myself. It's super frustrating and sometimes makes me question myself because my mom always blames me then when I can't find something although she put it somewhere else.
Good auor payar se rista banaye rakhana chahe kitani bhi dikat ho donosath milker samasya door kare ok
She's a liar, she is a hoarder! 3 refrigerators and expired food! Tell me she isn't a hoarder and doesn't have psychological problems! She can't even look her family in the eyes!
Agreed and she's manipulative. Once she felt cornered and doesn't want to take responsibility she takes the feel-sorry-for-me route, "I'm an old lady and no one likes me". once again...blaming others.
She. Has. Depression. People who are depressed are lonely and have the need to express their loneliness in ways that will give them attention. She isn’t manipulative, you just don’t know how depression works.
@@meltskee3867 please. You don't even know what is depression based on your comment. Don't play a depression card whenever people do unpleasing things
Muhd Amirul Lmao I very well know what depression is because I have it. I didn’t sum up depression for every single person. I summed it up for her and a lot of others.
@@meltskee3867 depression is different for everyone. Depending on their situation they act out or suffer in different ways.
why does this sound like my mom?? the only thing is, she is organized but we can never find our stuff...
아이고 이층집 살림에 가족들이 하나도 안도와주면 힘들죠 청소 설거지 빨래 요리 다 혼자 하려면 많이 힘드셨겠어요 그렇다고 좋은 소리도 못듣고 하는일 없다는 말만 듣고
She's manipulated the cast into feeling sorry for her by pulling the ole "i'm an old lady and nobody likes me". sorry but her hoarding behavior and disrespect for others has pushed people away.
Why so serious? Still respect her please
The point is to respect your elders no matter what the situation.
@@rowrowry3799 she took everyone on her side by giving the im old quote and i think she isn't a good mother like she was lying and when she got caught she just started smiling i honestly think she said she was depressed just for people to feel bad for her but it's your own opinion
I love eating 🍽 on the ground
I’m surprised there’s somebody who’s older than me but less organized than me
To Me,It Sounds Like The Husband Is Rapping xD
The mom is a hoarder
Omg if my mom like that's i'm going be crazy😑😑
Dude, you need to find your own place.
P.s.: Gordon shouted this: STOP BLAMING YOUR FAMILY OVER YOUR MISTAKES!
In my country children don't move out tho 😂
Living in Korea is very expensive.
Zed H yea, same here. Its real expensive to get a house.
And parents dont even want their kids to move out tbvh
The thief was like
:"aight,im outta here"
엄마가 아픈가요 ㆍ병원에 가셔요 ㆍ나도 그랬어요
The foreign guy read my mind. Can I have some clothes too? A foreign girl going on holiday to a freezing korea
Reminds me of the hoarder show that used to be on tv.
PFF even the burgular gave up on the house... Imagine taht you are a burgular and you walks in a master bedroom piled with frying pans, knives, forks, toothbrushes,...etc. XD
1.37 eunji ah you look scary sister 🤣
She needs a treatement in krder to correct the way she sees things
If we are going to die and lose our own bodies why bother over saving things that are bought originally to be used?
my papa and mom took my cloths for wash secretly when i was sleeping bkz i didn’t let them wash my cloths. but they did wash cloths every friday by themself. sometimes my Money got wet too.😁😀😀😀😀
She needs Marie Kondo
Anyone knows where the family's accent came from? Have heard the similar one in k-drama
Its serious i think hes mom getting older and hes has now showing sign of memory loss and hoarding issue its a getting in to a problem now as hes mom is getting older
Poor mom
I'm glad I am a perfectionist and a clean freak. 😂 Also helps that I live alone in America.
Even though I am from Japan, I always felt alone in with my family since they never cared about me. But at here I am free.
In 18: 48 is only me hearing he's saying '' wifi '' instead ''wife''?
Even the burglar gave up and only took the wallet😂😂😂
Omonim...
is it just me or does it keep stopping at 0:19
FROM BELGIUM
hahaha, that makes me laugh ...
I find myself there, my mother has a tendency to touch and move my things, and when I ask her where she has put her, she tells me she is not your case tidy up your stuff .....
it's really annoying, because I have to waste my time looking for my things, that my mom has to put away I do not know or ????? !!!!!! :(
my mom always forgets everything, by force I always ask her questions before she gets out of the house, of the kind, you took your bank card, (when she makes the races) I do not remember the number of times she or she is find at the checkout and had forgotten his bank card: (((, the worst is, it's bezel, she has at least 3, but never found at home ....
hahaha, ça ma bien fais rire...
je m'y suis retrouver, ma mère a tendance a toucher et déplacer mes affaires, et quand je lui demande ou elle l'ai a misse, elle me dit elle c'est pas ta cas ranger tes affaires.....
c'est vraiament énervant, parce que je dois perdre mon temps a chercher mes affaires, que ma maman a ranger je ne sais ou?????!!!!!! :(
I feel bad for the burglar....couldn't find anything to steal after putting so much just to get into the house 😂😂😂....
sa shopee pipipipipipi and dami mimimimimimimi bumili lililililili sa shoppee😂
may i know where's the one host that usually there? i mean not that the new one, but the one who also do a radio broadcast?????
She keep tell lie .
I have so many clothes but I think I haven’t seen these much of clothes .
my head hurts 😂
He looks like donggu
Ak bat mapa ko kabhi akela na chodna maka karz koi nahi utar sakta are payar to dena esme bhi paresani aajki sach bataye akbete bahu ne ma ko nikal diya ghar se wo ak aasram me hai jiska jima ak aachary ne jiwan bhar ka liya ok
I feel like the mum has some kind of alzheimers. She needs to get that checked
Hoarder.. Needs help
Saying this for the 100th time. This show needs a psychiatrist or a psychologist
결국 남자들 나쁘게만들고 엔딩ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
And I’m over here losing my shoes and clothes and jewelry then finding them in my sisters room.
And my mom keeps losing her keys every single morning. Smh🙄😂
Dekho sab ok hai bas sow ke liye har tarah ke gana suna raha hoomereyang ko pawer milega daresh ka kiya samjhenam kiya loo samjh jawwaisa nahi jab sidhi se gee nikal rahi hai to tedi kiyo kare juth ka ok
I can't 😆😅
at first I thought he was cute then I heard the way he treated his mom and the way he talk to his mom he aint that cute to me no more
Don't disrespect him because of that its honestly clear that the mother is full of bull shit like honestly she blamed the other family members just to get out of the situation and she lied about being depressed because she wanted the people to go on her side
Move out son!
That's a egocentric statement. Asian family culture is different to western family culture. Also, yeah just leave your mother to drown in her own garbage...that's great...
In Asian, at least one son usually dont move out so he with his wife(the daughter is the one that move out to follow his husband) can take care their parents when they are old. We Asian always put important in respecting our elder, we rarely let our elder live alone :) please dont mix asian culture with westerner or wherever you come from.
😂😂😂😂😂😂OMG...
Alzheimer bitsh 😀