Her family fights all the time because of their angry tones[Hello Counselor ENG,THA/2018.10.15]
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Hello Counselor EP.383
Kim Minkyoung, Lee Kichan, Daedoseogwan, NATURE's Lu & Gaga
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The youngest is so damn hilarious 😂😂😂
I think she was great to point out that the family does not pay attention to each other even when they are in the same house because of watching television and playing games on their cellphones.
HAHHAH her hair keeps frightening me every single time and her resting b* face
The family that fights together stays forever😂 thats what they say...
ilove mochi ikr vary true
Fight together not with each other....
Happy now?
But they will fight forever
It aint really that healthy to fight often tho XD
I'm seeing the comments blaming the sisters but I feel like the root of the problem lies in the parents. Children to a great extend learn communication patterns from parents. They are probably used to seeing their parents talk to each other disrespectfully and caught on to that. You can see how the parents talk to each other from the examples cited
No. the parents are kinda close but the mom stressed out of financial problems including the two sisters. That elder sister is the core of the problem. Look how she react at the end. Instead of going in the flow she cringed and show displeasure on her face.
@@jksh9504 yes I agree that the elder sister is in the wrong too. I'm not saying the sisters are right. They obviously have to work on their issues. All of them need to work together if they want a change.
I'm just pointing out that children learn from their environment. What I mean is the way the parents talked to each other, interacted and the patterns in the family right from their childhood till their current adolescene is caught on by children. The way parents deal with problems and good situations are also the examples they have learned while growing up so I don't blame the elder sister completely. What you're talking about are majorly the current issues. I'm just saying the way these sisters deal with the current issues, a large part of it stems from learning it from inside the family
@@jksh9504 the parents doesn't know how to act like parents...yet they wanted their child to behave .here is the truth..your child r the mirror image of urself. If such way r the thing u always present to ur child.. surely they will just become like u in the future.
@@jksh9504 This is basic logic, you kids reflect who you are no matter how hard your try to hide it, verbal violence specially physical violence leave scars, and guess who's going to reproduce the same patterns? the kids, yes they have their faults, but the real problem the root of it all is their parents.
Lmao this whole family should have their own show, I would watch this mess honestly
Im dying of laughter here.its are kindda fun to hear their stories😃🤣🤣🤣😂😂
LOVE MYSELF LOVE YOURSELF but if u think again their problem is not even funny, i hate it when the host and audience are laughing over their problem it’s so annoying, I actually have that kind of family too and trust me it’s not and never will be funny, so plz don’t laugh at others problem when you don’t understand how hard it’s for em
Yeah same here 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Maybe it's just my mood, but it seems like two children in adult bodies got married, had some babies, and now those babies are acting just like them. Which is causing problems for the family. None of them are willing to change, but they're waiting for the others to change instead. That's a complete and utter waste of their time. Hopefully they get their lives in order.
My family is just like this, everyone’s tone of voice is filled with anger so it seems like we’re all mad and then we get stressed out and don’t want to speak to each other. This is a concern they avoid communication because of how everyone speaks.
hi hi Same
yup. some of the members in our family are hot-tempered (although they cool down very fast too. They get super irritated at little things and that negativity just spread like crazy. I am always on my toes and worrying if I have done something wrong. I just... hate it.
hi hi Mine used to be like this too. It’s either my parents sound angry or they’re completely silent which made me scared to talk growing up. It’s better now though.
Same, it came to the point where I'd rarely go home and just stay inside the dorm just so I'd have even a second of peace in my life
THAT YOUNGER SISTER USED THE REVERSE CARD
The youngest seem fun to be with
Ikr she was my fav
Those two sisters are exactly like me and my sister. But it's worse because we're twins and everyone expects us to be extremely close. Even my dad said all twins are close except me and my sister. So I can really relate...
Lol older sister is getting exposed. It seems like she's the problem and only blames her anger on the family
She's not...i know because my father is hot headed person..more than his father.
I agree 😂😂
The youngest is hilarious 😂😂
It's not Hello Counseler without a family member with bad drinking habits.
Says a lot about South Korea in general tbh
South Korea is all about drinking honestly,so it makes sense why there are many ppl with bad drinking habits
this is the only episode that has brought me to tears from laughing so hard😂
I thought my family was the only angry as hell one.............fortunately I can relate somewhere!
This is so funny. The family sounds really close. But it would be nice if they tone down the fighting a bit
LOL the girl at the back was like "not my problem, I'm sleepy" 16:38
bellethia lol was she the Kangnam fan?
😂😂😂😂😂
@@DiscoInfernal999 ya..that's her
she got exhausted after seeing kangnam!
This happens to me all the time. Because of the tone of my voice, people either think I’m angry or have an attitude so I tried changing it to a higher and nicer tone but I STILL GET YELLED AT!! I also get misunderstandings because of my face. I’ll be happy and think that I’m smiling but people always tell me to fix my face and not to have an attitude. It’s honestly exhausting 🙄😩
Just Passing Through Ahhh me too. And when I try to make jokes by being sarcastic, people think I’m being a bitch 😩
Ohkylala oh yesss, me too! And when I’m being sincere, people think I’m being sarcastic 😞
Omg me too I have a naturally have a voice on the deeper side that with my resting bitch face I get misunderstood all the time to the point I exaggerate and make my voice super high to seem friendly when I meet new people or at work
lmao relatable. got so fedup of it I stop talking.
Hahaha the younger sister was hilarious, exposing everyone 😂
The older sister is the main concern I think
Laughing so hard when part she didn't tell her parents when grades were down. That is so me😂😂😂😂
Okay yeah publicly they seem to be very close and funny but it must be frustrating and scary to always have a family that fights all the time. When you're in that kind of situation one can't help but to be selfish in order to survive mentally. I'm not condoning their actions, but I do see this as a major concern. It might've not been seen that way since it was played off.
They all have bad attitudes. And when the daughter told her mother to speak clearly, that's disrespect. You shouldn't speak to your parents that way. Just by that, I could tell that she's probably the most problematic. You can also tell that she probably has the worst anger issues just from the way she acted while her sister was speaking. But both sisters sound a bit spoiled and entitled.
I blame the parents for not teaching them discipline. The kids learn how to speak and what's appropriate to say by watching how their parents communicate with each other. How are they supposed to know how to act if their parents don't even know? Their parents are like little kids.
Khanh Huynh yeah and there’s also the possibility she said “speak clearly” to remind her mother to make sure her Korean was more clearer and dialect wasn’t as thick to people could understand better ? (Just an opinion)
Cats can Fly But the way she said it. That's a disrespectful tone that you should never take with your parents. Would you aggressively tell your parents what to do?
Iris Strings A respectable one. I was taught not to disrespect my parents, raise my voice at them, and be nice to my siblings. I definitely grew up stable because there were never huge fights in ny house. Why? You asked that question like it's weird to respect your family. What kind of house did you grow up in?
@@shiloh8734 it clearly means they weren't thought or shown how to respect each other when they always seeing their parents bickering and fighting every now and then
the youngest daughter should be down there instead smh, yeongju is the main problem 👀
No
.she is not the main problems.. the parents are at fault. Ur children r the mirror image of urself. U expect ur child tp behave when u urself Don't know how to act like an adult or a parent by that?. How can u expect them to mature be calm and compose while u urself aren't able to do that. Joke on u
the sister of her looks like the girl Samara from the movie Rings. I like her. She is so funny.
I sometimes binge watch and forget to like, so I go back and give every video a like.
I've only watched 6 minutes of this video when commenting so I might not understand the full story yet, but for the past 16 years of my life I've never seen my parents fight (like a big fight) except for one time. It wasn't even a huge fight, but it was at the point where they were so angry at each other that my older sister had to keep them in different rooms. Just from that one fight, I cried. I don't think I would be able to handle it either if my family fought every day T.T
I dont know what others think, but i think this family is really happy with each other 😂
They fight. Buti havent seen such a bright episode in a while. It was really fun watching them and all smiled :)
If this family tone not change soon, the child will slowly less respect to their parents
I think the family cares for each other deep down because if someone argues with you about certain things, that means they care enough to address the issue. Those that don't care would not argue and give up. This reminds me of my family where we are all sensitive in different ways and make jokes about each other but in the end we still care. I think the girls have to accept that's the way their parents are and to accept them.
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I think the problem is that they all have tempers and are a bit... tense LOL honestly I'm the same way.
I always try to calm myself down and relax but I get irritated over the smallest things. My sister is more like my dad so they're both pretty mild, but I'm pretty sure that me and my mom both have the same exact personality. Which is a problem since my parents are divorced and we live with mom, and I'm the oldest. This is just my side of the story but I CAN see that my mom has anger issues (and I do too lmao) but she's stubborn and isn't willing to admit it the way I am. Most of the time, she starts the arguments because when she gets mad, she voices her anger. I just keep it all in and try to push it away but once she pops, I do too. And then we both end up arguing with each other lmao. We also BOTH like to have the last word. I know that it's childish but I always try to get the last word in while thinking "I'm so stubborn, why can't I just shut up first?"
The thing is, English isn't her first language so sometimes she thinks that I'm being disrespectful or blaming her. I admit that sometimes in the heat of the moment, I'll say something offensive, but whenever I say "We both have problems and just need to calm down for the moment" she'd be like "No it's not me, it's YOU." And that gets us nowhere. One thing I always find amusing about her temper is that in certain situations (for example, if we're lost somewhere), she'd be like "Be calm, take a deep breath and don't get angry. Don't freak out" while raising her tone and yelling at me, and I'm just sitting there like "okay??? I'm very calm right now". I TRY not to add "You're the one that needs to calm down" but sometimes I can't help it because her telling me to calm down when I'm calm makes me upset 😂😂
Anyways that's my story lol
It must be stressful to always argue at home.
I love this family so muchh
18:49 😂 her sudden face change made me laugh.
Completely unrelated but where can I get blue-ish dark grey contacts like the big sister? They're really pretty
Baako Jernigan same omg
I'm wondering the same thing
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i totally resonated with yeongju the older sister. i read comments saying she was the problem but i totally disagree. her and my family dynamics and behaviors are the same; i'm the oldest and there are four people in the household. you can't assume everyone loves each other just because of the way they speak on national television, of course people will not try to make themselves look too bad, but it doesnt mean they hate each other per say. the way the older cringed at the affection is the same way i would act, it can get annoying and sometimes parents think that a little affection can compensate for a long period of disappointment. her father, like mine, seems like a narcissist, but mine is a lot worse.
i genuinely do not hate my family btw, we either argue, ignore each other, or talk. but mostly ignore
I agree with your words, I thought ppl mistook the older from the youngest at the first.
But its just seem like it's all the younger sis mistakes..
I happen to have a family who fights with the most silliest things ever so I can relate with the older sister.
Maybe u should stop tell fake story to make yourself good😂
I totally understand her though, i also have the same experience. I don't get why the others thought it was a laughing matter
This really my family we always use high tone so it's sound like angry but we are not, all neigbor think we always fight but we not
my family has the exact same problem... i live with my dad, mom, brother and sister and we quarrel everyday, more than once. Our tones are always angry and we quarrel over stupid little things that is not even worth quarreling about and get angry and frustrated. Not only our tones, our face pisses us off as well bc we frown but the problem mainly lies with my dad because he talks in a very angry and annoying tone and he frowns and stuff (which makes us do as well)... i don't rly know how to put it but i relate to this girl so well, everyday at home stresses me and my siblings out. When we come from the first thing we do is quarrel and that sucks tbh bc i just want to rest when I'm homed.
The girl looks like the actress Jung so min ❤
Ahahah I like this family!!! But the older daughter is the problem 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
My family used to be the typical family but something happenedd and we ended just like this family. All I can say based on experience, its not all bad. As you get older trust me, you will be grateful you have a family like that.
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I can relate to this, my mom got an angry tone when she ask things, so when she have a conversation with my father they always end up arguing, as for us we just listen to them cause we're used to it. but I wish they will talk calmly cause they are already old..
my parents always nag at me it’s stressful so i’ll stay in my room
Unrelated but like she's 14 and has an eyebrow pencil and I'm like 14 and have a colour pencil :)
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@@melissaa6293 yes
Same. Sometimes i play playdough also 😁
@@oishiibanana5650 same aha
???? so??
My family fights 3 times a day
lmfao this is my family for sure- they're extremely intense and short-tempered
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This also reminds me of me and my sister we argue a lot and also talk casually to our parents when annoyed but They are just spoilt lol. My parents used to beat us when we spoke banmal to them even by accident. The parents should really discipline them and change themselves . The daughters will only respect them less. The 14 year old is already speaking banmal to them like whatttttv
Omg this is how my family used to be.. we would have petty pointless fights for no reason. luckily as my sister and i got older and became more mature it all kind of stopped
This family is like mine I can relate so much😂
this used to be like my family
Well, SOMEBODY is in love with the youngest sister.
Lmao this is literally my family
Parenting is definitely not easy
The younger sister is too cool. Exposing them. The older sister is the problem but she requested the concern hahah. If only the younger daughter requested it
She is pretty
when they called out fishing dad i laughed XD 6:35
Ok that girl full on flinched right after talking about how the dad threw stuff and the MC made a gesture towards her, and then she burst into tears. As someone with PTSD because of domestic abuse, I do the same thing. There has to be waaaay more than that going on behind the scenes for her to react that way, and I don't think any of the hosts noticed (although I've paused the video so maybe they do later). I don't know who or what is at fault, but I can guarantee you it's worse than the way they say it is.
My thoughts EXACTLY! I’m seriously so disappointed in the comments and response from the audience. Literally like what the girl said - no one knows until they experience it. I’m worried for her psychological well-being considering everyone was laughing and as a result undermining her attempts to reach out. There is something clearly going on and that physical flinch most likely highly points to PTSD ..which I can also relate to as I’ve had a similar history to hers with CPTSD due to fucked up “angry tones”. It’s going to go downhill from here unless the parents change
yep... the parents just yell for no reason, throw shit at eachother, and yell at the kids because they're arent acting cute so that's disrespect .... I love when parents blame their kids for bad behaviour but they're literally their children's model
Wow I am kinda surprised of how they think its not a concern. I think its a concern because at how young they are and how they can get influenced. I wish they asked how they where outside their family...
They are just normal family. All families are not the same.
Lmao my family is like this too funny
They're daughter is very beautiful.
damn my insecurities ;/
Search for "Kris Bernal" in google. The one in the blue swinsuit. That kid and the actress looks so much alike.
There problem is similar to my family’s problem. We fight at least once a day. Not bc we hate each other, but it’s out of love. Usually it is where we should eat or bc someone did something. From experience, I think it’s just how they all are raised. They all get annoyed easily. The parents probably don’t realize it but bc they argue over little things the kids are influenced that every time someone does something. Idk if that makes sense, but that’s how I see it.
This is such a big concern I feel bad for her because at the end of the day nothing was achieved
The younger sister is so funny
I only watched 2 minutes and I feel like that's my family😂😂😂 (in a good way tho)
5:04 BTS Fire🔥🔥
Blairwrelos 18 I've noticed KBS likes to use it for anything revolving heat. I see it used a lot on Return of Superman when something is hot or when someone eats a hot chili pepper or anything else really spicy. I think they just want to use BTS for views to be honest because they use it so much, it's ridiculous. I like BTS but it's a little too much.
@@aznmochibunny I don't think so bcoz people don't know that their song is used in between. It's just they used some bit of songs in between to make it more enjoyable. Anyways people watch the show bcoz it is entertaining thats it.
Blairwrelos 18 For me, I watch Return of Superman because I'm interested in children and want to care for children. I don't watch the show because of BTS. However, they use the song way too much in the same situations that you expect it to play.
@@aznmochibunny They do that with a lot of songs in variety shows, not just with bts' songs. Like for example, I don't know what the title is but you can always hear it when there's a romantic moment between two guys. You can also hear it in a lot of paper kissing games between male idol. Then in running man, when there's a moment with Jihyo and Gary, there's also a specific song by leesang that is played. There are a lot of songs repetitively being played in a lot of variety shows when a specific scene comes on, it's normal and not for clouting purposes
This Korean version of my family except alcohol problem. We are always irritable and fight.
Tbh i think the problem stems from the mom and her hiking and drinking. The dad seems like he just wants a loving family and the girls are definitely spoiled
I know it's weird to talk about my story but I'll do it anyway, my parents had so much consequences when i was born..they worked hard just to give birth to me..as the day came..my dad went to look for the money they saved for my mother's hospital fees..he didn't find them..my dad begged everyone of my relatives to give us money to pay for the bills and he will return it as soon as possible..they gave him money..as they gave birth to me..dad told mom about the things that happened..she cried alot..after two weeks we found out that it was my grandmother (on father's side) who took the money..on that day we also found out that she sold our house and disappeared. my parents had no choice but to live in my other grandmother's house ( mom's side. ) she was so strict..she even called my dad stupid and lazy just because he didn't have a job at that time..since then he was always the one who cleaned the huge house ( my grandmother owns a mansion but never supported mom and dad's relationship so she never helped them ) my grandmother always blamed dad when something goes missing and finds out that it was my mom's adopted brother fault..as my parents couldn't take it anymore..we went back to my dad's mother and stayed..we always slept on the attic..with those dirty junks..later on we found out that my grandmother had an affair with someone else and used all the money she stole from us and gave it to her man..we didn't know how to live..and again we returned to my mom's mother but this time..my grandmother kept us ( mom and i ) and made my dad go away and told him to never see us ever again..dad found a job but it was too far from his house so he bought a very cheap and small motor and drived miles and miles..but never forgets to visit me secretly..it came to the point when i turned 3 years old..my dad visited me to find me crying..he asked why and i answered..no one was there for my birthday..my grandmother was at her sisters..my mother was working..no one remember my birthday expect for my dad...as the day came dad begged his friends to help him gets us from my grandmother..it wasn't easy.. dad bought a small house for us to live in before hand..and we still live here till now..but the problem is my parents always fight for money..it came to the point where they asked me to whom I'm going with if they divorced..I always cry..I always lie..when i was on grade four i started bullying my classmates..because of my parents i told someone they're ugly..I told someone they're stupid..I told someone they're lazy and even curse at them at a young age..ugh fuck my life.
Please don't be sad, i hope everything will get better for you. Discuss all of your problem to your parents, and ask them to not divorce and remind them how struggle all you've been through. Please don't bully other people because we don't know the psychological effect for the victims after you do that. Please release your stress In a positive ways. I believe if you do positive things, god will give you positive things too. I'm so proud of you, you're so strong to handle such a hard life. Have a nice day.
@@juannita1063 ah, thank you..i apologized to those whome i've bullied in elementary. and discussed a few things with my parents..but non of them changed their mind. guess i really have to choose.
@chaetae proud of you , because you brave enough to apologize to them. For your parents, i'm sorry to heard that, i hope everything goes well for you and your parents 🙏
They just need to communicate.
When my dad and mom fights like a little argument but they're flustered i will go up the stairs with tears on my face! Im on the middle of the stairs then i will hop on the handles on the stairs right? Then i will shout " heyy!! are you not planning to stop fighting? Alright, i will jump if you dont! *Sob*" then i will cry louder cause they will laugh at me and stop Fighting HAHAHA LOL (btw i translated the words i said it would have been expressed better and more dramatic in my language but yap!)
My parents also argue and when they have big fights dad triws rhibgs and mom screams a lot...there are a lot of bad things that i cant say here.
I dont understand why parents argue. Or why they at least argue in front of their kids. My sister was literally crying in front of my parents when they were arguing but they still wouldnt stop. I would rather have no parents than them to argue.
I'm laughing because I have the same outfit as the girl in the gray hoodie and also hairstyle
like we are seriously the same rn 😂😂 that's the biggest coincidence I had in my life omg
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Actually sounds like my family and me in particular lmao I'm not angry it's just voice 😂
Lol I love this family. They seems like a regular family who argue a bit more often. This can easily be fixed. They really seem to be close.
then why she comes....... it's really a concern why people said that it's not a concern you should leave with this parents and then you gonna feel it not just a concern but you must need a doctor plz be careful to what people feel and their concerns coz to leave with a family that are really irresponsible and they fight every day is really something that gonna hurt and you will grow up with such a fear and with a lower mind and personality I talk coz I live the same and I'm growing up now with an anxiety and depression and nobody knows all that due to how I was raised especially the hurting words that I accumulated since I was younger from my mom and now how can I live happily plzzz be careful to what people's concern
I am the same with my step father, we fight everyday xD
Lol there lucky to have a whole family and a dad, My family is divorce so I’m living with a single mom uwu be grateful
MY STORY IS THE SAME
they've never met vietnamese families. we're always talking as if the person right next to us was standing a mile away 😂
If this ain't me and my family!!
I think this is concern about her mother
Just like the father, I was also misunderstood because of my tone of speaking. But I can't help it, what can I do.
My fiance has this serious tone that makes me or others want to fight with him 😂😂😂
Lol 😂 that’s like my family😆
I pity the girl...she must've been so stressful
My family exactly
This is me and my mom xDDDD mostly my mom
ok their mom is pretty😂😍
At least they dont have a grandma who forces you to wake up from rare naps when you're rlly tired cuz she thinks you're dead or do drugs....😑
why there's no more English subtitles? I always watch your videos every week and most of the time i waited when it will be uploaded. am i just the one that cannot view the subtitles? i hope you can answer my question. thank you
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The problem is just that they have a tough way to talk and the daughters are going throuh puberty... They just need to wait a bit and to compromise and time will end things naturally....? I don't know, I used to fist fight with my sister (she is 4 years older so imagine the nightmare our family had to go through XD) but after the end of my puberty and her moving out, we have a good relationship
The look like the angry birds