@@simsrock9982 yeah I know but at least they clearly love each other and this kind of concern isn't the one that makes you wanna slap them or something
@@secondtime885 I don't think "clearly loving" someone involves use of degrading curse words, saying they should be fried in dung, throwing stuff at them, and breaking their ribs. He's abusive one way or another. If that is truly the way that he loves them than he needs help because he is unwilling to see that it hurts his wife and daughter.Just because he is laughing doesn't make the situation any better.
Marie G from what she said about him doing it to her mother and throwing her around as a baby... I don’t think he stopped when the mother was pregnant and I don’t think he’ll stop when she is either.
His behavior is a bit disturbing imho. Even if he is expressing his "love" for his family, he could do that without swearing at them or being overly aggressive toward them. All things in moderation. He almost broke his child's back. That's friggin dangerous.
This is why I think that there needs to be a psychologist on the show. This is extremely abnormal behavior and he has no regard for their feelings or safety, he even looks like he takes pleasure in it.
Eh idk this guy seems quite off. This type of behavior is abusive. He's cursing at his daughter and wife which is breaking down their confidence. He also giving them nose bleeds and cracking their ribs when he tackles them and yet he finds enjoyment out of this?! Something isn't right. This is one of the worst concerns I've seen cuz he thinks his agressive behavior is "affectionate" and "comical" and it's anything but. The panel and audience don't seem to think it's that huge of an issue but it really is because he's literally putting his loved ones health at risk.
I seriously hope he seems out some medical help. He even throws fruit at his daughter to get her to eat them. These excuses he has for using violence make absolutely no sense.
I agree! He's abusive and something is wrong with him mentally. My thing is, if the daughter has an issue with his behavior, why live with him? I would move out in a heartbeat, I would not keep living with someone who is abusive and isn't going to change anytime soon. Especially because he sees no problem with it.
Trust me, she would move out if she actually could. In Korea, everything is too expensive. It's extremely difficult to earn enough money for an apartment. I doubt she has enough to buy/rent a place and take care of herself.
@@baakojernigan7095That's true in Korea it's expensive for even a quaint little apartment. And Korean parents love to help for as long as they can so if they know there daughter doesn't have enough money to go out on her own they will convince her to stay in the house. Korean parents feel it is filial duty to always love and support their kids in all ways possible. Ironically the men tend to be quite problematic sometimes as seen numerous times on this show.
not sure wat exactly but the dad seems a bit off, like, disturbingly, theres similarities in his behavior with the prolific John Wayne Gacy e.g. regressing to childhood behaviors, admitting his preference in having sons, and the fact he came from a stern family upbringing.. dunno, but...things just clicked. Just a hunch tho. If anything, this cud be like a heads up for them if things took a sudden turn into a twisted ending somewhere along the way.
I get that he loves his family but he needs to chill with those pranks and wrestling tricks. What happens if he actually hurts someone and injured them permanantly?
i don’t get how the people on the show thought it was funny. i was actually mad the whole time. the father is abusive and people are laughing it off- even TELLING HIM TO DEMONSTRATE what he does on the show- that was a big no from me. honestly disappointed in this episode. Hello Counselor could’ve done so much better
Until the half minutes i kinda like... this father is strange. But later i kinda understand him. Yes, he is abusive and he "speak" his love in a wrong way. But... i get the loneliness he feel. To grow up in a strict family, i think he has this "when i have my own family, i don't want to treat them like my parents treat me" mindset. And about his wife and daughters being so busy kinda make him more lonely... So... a proper communication between family member is needed.
Ok I get he takes his pranking to another level but a sadist I don't think so, my dad is the same he punches and hits us when he's playing we even play fight and he doesn't back his strength, he does like how a stranger hitting us would, he even headlocks us from behind just so that we'd learn how to escape and headlock if someone was to do that with us. I get that the dad takes it too far bcuz I have never had a nose or broken bones becuz my father was playing too rough and the dad definitely needs to tone it down but people show their love differently and we should respect that and not be going around calling them sadist cuz she never said she didn't like the playing she only said it was too rough.
If he stops these pranks and attacks, then maybe he won't be so lonely. His wife and other daughter would then like to spend more time with him. When father's rough house with his kids, it's when they are young. Once the kids reach a certain age, he stops because it's inappropriate. Plus, even rough housing is light compared to what he does. There's something wrong with him when doesn't stop once he injures his daughter.
I think its wrong to joke until such intense extent where it can be harmful to others. She's an adult she should be treated as one. Also calling your daugther with cuss word can really hurtful . Its not the right way to be close to your child >< A daughter should be treated like a daughter .
His way of expressing love is too violent but a fathers affection is priceless. My dad passed away 10 years ago and I miss him so much, he was harsh and yelled at me a lot but I still loved him no matter what. She will regret losing his "love" one day
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Honestly one of the most creepiest episodes ever. the way he smiles and laughs when he hurts his daughter is weird as fuck. Im Korean and if this was happening to me I would literally send him to get help from a therapist. Its not normal...maybe its because I live in America and there's cultural difference, but...Idk something seems off. However, I feel NO ONE is worth putting my mom and sister in a health risk.
That is harassment you should be able to do your own dishes in your own home without being pantsed by your husband. I think the girl started crying in relief that he plans on traveling once she’s married she prolly like takin care of kids is hard enough without her dad trying to wrestle her
umm this father is teaching his daughter that abuse is love this could really mess her up if she is in a relationship, god forbid if she gets in a abusive relationship she’ll think it’s love and stay with that person. they really need a therapist on this show
I don't know how they're all laughing and making excuses for him when people are getting beat up, have stuff thrown at them, and getting insulted and getting bruised. It's straight up abuse The tone of this show is so fucked up that is NOT love
I never heard the father cuss his daughter...😱, which it is shocking me. The prank he did to his daughter, it’s way overdoing and of what he did is very wrong. However, I think I can see that he loves his daughter very much as well as she love her father. Hoping in the future to reduce those type of aggressive and get some fun event to enjoy somewhere. Also, the husband need to apologize to wife and younger daughter and other family.
This show always seems to end with an "I love you" when that's not even the problem. In the letter, she wrote that he loves her too much (at least that's what he calls it, so she just calls it that too), so obviously he says indirectly that he loves her. He probably tells her "I only hit you because I love you", but it sounds more like an "I only hit you because I love hitting you". He can't even tell her that he loves her without the implication of a slap without some major (!!!!!!) prompting! This is so messed up and everyone keeps laughing about it! I hope they sent them to a psychologist after the show and didn't just leave it at that!
EXACTLY! HE manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. AND TO THE PEOPLE WHO SAID THAT ITS HIS WAY OF EXPRESSING HIS AFFECTION NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
My dad is kind the same as him he loves to prank my family, but he never cusses us, sometimes we do get mad because of the pranks but we understand that that's how he is so we stand it, I hope they all can get along well in the future
This is quite concerning. No parent in their right mind would hurt their child like this? He said he wanted to be “friendly” with her, but not even friends do this to each other. There’s something off with the guy and this is clearly abusive behaviour. The lady needs to go see someone about this
OK he does take it too far with the nose bleeds, broken bones and pulling down his wifes' pants, not to mention throwing the water on his daughters face but he's not purposely abusing his daughter, my dad plays with us exactly like this and I for one don't see it as abuse, she never said she was being abused becuz if she thought she was she wouldn't have been on hello councilor she would have gone to the police, she just wants him to tone it down a little bcuz he is definitely taking too far with the nose bleeds and everything, like my dad gives us headlocks too just so we can practice escaping from one and trust me he does it exactly like a stranger would do it cuz how am I supposed to practice how to get out of it the real way if it isn't real and daughter knows how to defend her self she just doesn't want to hit back unlike her I do and my dad is quit find with that we even play fight and you can't speak for everyone cuz I play fight with my friends and we do hit each other really hard
@@haylzz_myfaceu9980 So about abuse and going to the police, they dont really help unless it is EXTREME and especially not in Korea. CPS is also shit so forget about that. This defenitely is abuse. Your father is just playing with you, but her father is litteraly almost breaking her bones and acting like it is fun. This issue should have been taken way more serieus
@@Cyhcg5uhgb I think nose bleeds and broken bones are extreme enough to go to the police I mean does she have to end up dead first, look I for one know a lot about South Korea so I know what I'm talking about so I don't get why your saying that her nose bleeds and broken bones aren't enough to go to the police bcuz to me it is and trust me I'm from Jamaica where you are allowed to hit your kids and trust me I've gotten some real woop ass but I have never yet and none of of the kids down there have been never ever gotten broken bones or nose bleeds. Oh and when I say woop ass I don't mean they hit you with their hands a few times I mean they hit you with whatever they catch and it's just for discipline.
@@Cyhcg5uhgb I get it you wouldn't understand bcuz I bet your either in the US or Canada which I'm at at the moment, where you aren't allowed to hit your kids cuz that would be considered abuse but the places where it's pretty common to hit your kids just like in Korea and Jamaica we'd know what actual abuse is, bcuz being abused is different from when being disciplined, so I think her nose bleeds and broken bones are enough to go to the police if she saw it as abuse.
The daughter is calling out on his verbal and physical abuse on his excuse of "loving" them. This the police ought to take over this case and not the panel.
What's that clap for when the father's pushing down the daughter until her head banging on the floor? Omg I can't even finish watching this. Makes me goosebumps how the father laughing when seeing her daughter in pain
The people on this comment section are all so close minded, yes its true that he's a bit abusive but even the daughter knows that he's not serious, he has no ill intention, he just never received love and he probably wanted to have many good memories with his family unlike how he had his, this man is just lost, there's no need for you to insult him, you don't even think about how he feels you only see the problem with your own eyes as people outside of this, you don't take the time to actually feel their story, you are just coldly analyzing everything, yes it's not great to cuss at your daughter, yes all of this isn't superb but I think you all are just jealous about their relationship, he might be a little too hard but he's not doing it on purpose he's just clumsy, he doesn't know how to express his love cause he never get to experience it in the first place, he just wanna be the best dad, husband and friend to his family, he wants them all to be happy and laugh, all of this is just innocent, its like a baby, would you be mad if a baby hits you ? Would say that he need to seek therapy ?! No, you wouldn't because its only normal for a kid not to know how to act, they are still learning and so are adults, he just didn't learn these "basic" things WE learned, he is still in the path of becoming better and I find this TV show magnificent because they truly care about their guests and are connected emotionally to them and they genuinely wanna help them, this is humanity as its finest, unlike you people who only see others as problems to solve, get a heart you dummies, these are people with feelings not dolls, stop acting as a psychologist when you're far from one, they are better than this and they don't treat patients as marionette's ! Anyway, try finding your heart and thinking outside your little world where you think that you're right in everything you arrogant lil brat.
sakura heartfilia you seem to ignore obvious clues. He’s not a child. He’s a grandfather’s age. If someone broke your ribs and said “it’s because I love you.” Instead of being horrified they hurt you, would you be ok with them? His wife is NOT SPEAKING TO HIM, his daughter is NOT SPEAKING TO HIM. Instead of changing, he wants to run away, not fix the issue. He’s lonely? The simple answer is to stop abusing and bullying those around you. But he can’t. He does so many things because he “loves them”. Yet his 30 year old daughter has never even heard him say he loves her. He’s not an evil demon but there is obviously something psychologically off. We all have issues. But it’s not ok to bully other to make yourself feel better.
Imo, he tries to be the type of dad to act like a "friend" towards his daughter. A friend usually pinches or calls their friends name sometimes, but this dad goes too overboard with it and doesn't know when to draw a line and doesn't know what a boundary is. When I first saw him talk on the show, he seemed sad after listening to what the daughter said. I get that he's trying to love her but he's too aggressive with her. He has a black belt in hapkido as well - which I of course believe that it involves strong moves and rough housing etc. The dad tries too hard to be like a friend and he should really just stop the violent actions and profanity calling.
This is 100% abuse. If both parties were actually enjoying this, it wouldn’t be that much of an issue. But he doesn’t stop, he laughs at her pain, and never stops when she says to.
Honestly my father also teases me like this but he never curs and he never forget to express his love toward me at the end but this man...I really got mad at him his behavior is abusive😧
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
i don't get why he is getting so much hate. he just sees them as male friends and he has too much power. he is a nice, funny guy. i get how it can get annoying if the pranks hurt you. i'm sure he doesn't intend to hurt them. it's like i said he thinks he is not hurting them. he doesn't have his power under control. he would've been fine if he had added a son to the family. i see were she is coming from. however i do not get why everyone is calling him abusive. i feel like none of you have actually seen a real abusive person. being abusive is hurting someone on purpose. a lot of americans in the comment section i can see that based on the comments.
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Throughout this whole video I was wondering about the fact that Daniel was an actor in moorim school..... 😮I just realised that I sound so unconcerned about her dads aggressiveness
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At first it didn't seem like a concern, but as he was showing what he did I started to get more and more worried. My brothers and I are very rough with each other and often break out in play 'fights' we usually get bruised and knocked up but it seems like he's actually sparring with her and using his full force... Ouch
I'm sorry but I disagree I think it was the way the father was rasied and he wants to experience what he couldn't and people show affection different ways everyone dose
EXACTLY! HE manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. AND TO THE PEOPLE WHO SAID THAT ITS HIS WAY OF EXPRESSING HIS AFFECTION NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Not justifying the father I just kind of related to him. When you grow up with little to no affection you don’t know truly kno how to love and express that feeling and being vulnerable is highly uncomfortable. Along the way he figure rough housing probably what he did with his friends was the closest thing to love he knew and truly FELT and so that became his ONLY way to truly feel like he’s expressing his love. He’s obviously not trying to be malicious just can’t determine where the line is and another way to express himself. I believe he needs an intervention where the whole family sets the boundary and he should talk to a therapist that will help him learn a new way to love and feel love.
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
he's harassing her. they shouldn't be laughing with them. it's fun to him. it sounds like a sadist to me. she wouldn't complain if she didn't feel differently. it concerned her to the point that she's telling almost everyone about it.
My dad and brother both are generally out till midnight, so it's just me at home, so I understand loneliness alot. When everyone gave such a grave reactions when he said he wants to travel like a hippie, I was confused...
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
...this is straight up physical abuse, i honestly hope people around him who see this start treating him like shit. And honestly, I'm disappointed with how the regular hosts didn't seem to take this that seriously. When they found out she was an instructor, they turned on her but why the fuck would she defend herself against her father, she's already said she wouldn't hit him back because of who he is to her. The fact they made him DEMONSTRATE shows how little they take this seriously. Why would you encourage a parent hitting their kid when they obviously hate it and get nervous? A parent should never be "teasing" their kid so much that they regularly get bruises or fucking NOSEBLEEDS.
Honestly, my dad pulls pranks but this man takes it too far. I don't think he's off or sick or anything like that. I think he sees his family as his friends and the way he treats them is probably the way he treats his friends as well. All his friends probably do hapkido and joke around excessively as well. But he needs to understand that he's surrounded by women who don't communicate in the same way he does. His oldest might be the closest thing to his friends (hapkido, makes jokes) but she's not his friend; she's his daughter. Make jokes, that's fine, but cussing at her and attacking with the full force of your power and strength is too much. She would be okay with occasional duels because she also does hapkido but not the constant annoyance and the childlike behavior is cute once in a while but again, don't be excessive. Overall, he's a cute dad with no boundaries. Now that she's seriously set them, he'll be okay.
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
The way he show his love is totally off but if we look at other side he is just too lonely and need love from his wife and daughter. His wife ignores him even on weekends , that must be disappointing for the him .if the whole family talked about his behaviour and loneliness he feels for once with each other that would be great. And i think the mother should have come to the show .
I think he just want to be close with his daughter i do not like that he call her the b word tho but the rest i think is a parent that wants to pay w her kid even thi she is an adult but she said he does that since she was a kid then thats pretty normal for him. He just want to have fun w hes daughter, he has a kid spirit lol 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂he would do great at my family lmaoo all the boy at my family are like that sometimes is a bit annoying lol
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO. I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Finally an episode without drinking and fishing addiction concerns!!!
nadhira agna this is gold lmao
This concern isn't much better though the dad is clearly abusive and finds joy in their pain
@@simsrock9982 yeah I know but at least they clearly love each other and this kind of concern isn't the one that makes you wanna slap them or something
@@secondtime885 I don't think "clearly loving" someone involves use of degrading curse words, saying they should be fried in dung, throwing stuff at them, and breaking their ribs. He's abusive one way or another. If that is truly the way that he loves them than he needs help because he is unwilling to see that it hurts his wife and daughter.Just because he is laughing doesn't make the situation any better.
@@secondtime885 tbh I wanna give this guy a piece of my mind and tell him he needs counseling
He is abusive. He has no respect for their boundaries or comfort.
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There are so many red flags 🚩!!!! I’m scared what happens if he keeps going on like this.
Marie G from what she said about him doing it to her mother and throwing her around as a baby... I don’t think he stopped when the mother was pregnant and I don’t think he’ll stop when she is either.
His behavior is a bit disturbing imho. Even if he is expressing his "love" for his family, he could do that without swearing at them or being overly aggressive toward them. All things in moderation. He almost broke his child's back. That's friggin dangerous.
he needs alot of mental help. He isn't the abusive type but his actions is abusive even though he didn't realize it
This is why I think that there needs to be a psychologist on the show. This is extremely abnormal behavior and he has no regard for their feelings or safety, he even looks like he takes pleasure in it.
CaribbeanStreak I am not sure but I think there are ones involved in the show... I could be wrong though.
志瑜杨 I believe a few psychologists have been on the show as guests but there are none on the permanent panel.
@@CaribbeanStreak After the show they get counseling.
Eh idk this guy seems quite off. This type of behavior is abusive. He's cursing at his daughter and wife which is breaking down their confidence. He also giving them nose bleeds and cracking their ribs when he tackles them and yet he finds enjoyment out of this?! Something isn't right. This is one of the worst concerns I've seen cuz he thinks his agressive behavior is "affectionate" and "comical" and it's anything but. The panel and audience don't seem to think it's that huge of an issue but it really is because he's literally putting his loved ones health at risk.
I seriously hope he seems out some medical help. He even throws fruit at his daughter to get her to eat them. These excuses he has for using violence make absolutely no sense.
I agree! He's abusive and something is wrong with him mentally. My thing is, if the daughter has an issue with his behavior, why live with him? I would move out in a heartbeat, I would not keep living with someone who is abusive and isn't going to change anytime soon. Especially because he sees no problem with it.
Trust me, she would move out if she actually could. In Korea, everything is too expensive. It's extremely difficult to earn enough money for an apartment. I doubt she has enough to buy/rent a place and take care of herself.
Baako Jernigan I totally forgot about that. Thanks
@@baakojernigan7095That's true in Korea it's expensive for even a quaint little apartment. And Korean parents love to help for as long as they can so if they know there daughter doesn't have enough money to go out on her own they will convince her to stay in the house. Korean parents feel it is filial duty to always love and support their kids in all ways possible. Ironically the men tend to be quite problematic sometimes as seen numerous times on this show.
not sure wat exactly but the dad seems a bit off, like, disturbingly, theres similarities in his behavior with the prolific John Wayne Gacy e.g. regressing to childhood behaviors, admitting his preference in having sons, and the fact he came from a stern family upbringing.. dunno, but...things just clicked. Just a hunch tho. If anything, this cud be like a heads up for them if things took a sudden turn into a twisted ending somewhere along the way.
“When would you get to strangle a German” 😂😂
I would like this, but 167 likes triggers my OCD.. so I'll give you a thumbs up 👍 lol
@@berrybloom2000 same here
I get that he loves his family but he needs to chill with those pranks and wrestling tricks. What happens if he actually hurts someone and injured them permanantly?
Wonyoung is too innocent to be exposed to shitty people like this dad but her reactions are priceless. 😄
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I like playing pranks and teasing but not to that extent.
i don’t get how the people on the show thought it was funny. i was actually mad the whole time. the father is abusive and people are laughing it off- even TELLING HIM TO DEMONSTRATE what he does on the show- that was a big no from me. honestly disappointed in this episode. Hello Counselor could’ve done so much better
They wanted the demonstration to really know how serious the issue is. The concern did get many votes.
Until the half minutes i kinda like... this father is strange. But later i kinda understand him. Yes, he is abusive and he "speak" his love in a wrong way. But... i get the loneliness he feel. To grow up in a strict family, i think he has this "when i have my own family, i don't want to treat them like my parents treat me" mindset. And about his wife and daughters being so busy kinda make him more lonely...
So... a proper communication between family member is needed.
He sounds like a sadist-- the dad is weird af
Ok I get he takes his pranking to another level but a sadist I don't think so, my dad is the same he punches and hits us when he's playing we even play fight and he doesn't back his strength, he does like how a stranger hitting us would, he even headlocks us from behind just so that we'd learn how to escape and headlock if someone was to do that with us. I get that the dad takes it too far bcuz I have never had a nose or broken bones becuz my father was playing too rough and the dad definitely needs to tone it down but people show their love differently and we should respect that and not be going around calling them sadist cuz she never said she didn't like the playing she only said it was too rough.
No ur making it sound wired
@@بلااسم-ل3و *It IS weird.🙄*
@@haylzz_myfaceu9980 She broke her back and crushed her ribs cause of this behavior-
@@nurr...1100 That's why I said the dad be taking it too far with how rough he's behaving that definitely needs to change
If he stops these pranks and attacks, then maybe he won't be so lonely. His wife and other daughter would then like to spend more time with him. When father's rough house with his kids, it's when they are young. Once the kids reach a certain age, he stops because it's inappropriate. Plus, even rough housing is light compared to what he does. There's something wrong with him when doesn't stop once he injures his daughter.
*the father behaviour doesnt match with his appearance*
Goosebumps~~~ 😷😱
I think its wrong to joke until such intense extent where it can be harmful to others. She's an adult she should be treated as one.
Also calling your daugther with cuss word can really hurtful . Its not the right way to be close to your child >< A daughter should be treated like a daughter .
No it's not funny at all :(
My dad loves to pranks me too, but never this abusive
That was just too painfull and uncomfortable
His way of expressing love is too violent but a fathers affection is priceless. My dad passed away 10 years ago and I miss him so much, he was harsh and yelled at me a lot but I still loved him no matter what. She will regret losing his "love" one day
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Honestly one of the most creepiest episodes ever. the way he smiles and laughs when he hurts his daughter is weird as fuck. Im Korean and if this was happening to me I would literally send him to get help from a therapist. Its not normal...maybe its because I live in America and there's cultural difference, but...Idk something seems off. However, I feel NO ONE is worth putting my mom and sister in a health risk.
EXACTLY!
Damn! A Sadist Father to the core
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That is harassment you should be able to do your own dishes in your own home without being pantsed by your husband. I think the girl started crying in relief that he plans on traveling once she’s married she prolly like takin care of kids is hard enough without her dad trying to wrestle her
It's like how a kid acts with their siblings
He's just like a child. Exactly like a child
umm this father is teaching his daughter that abuse is love this could really mess her up if she is in a relationship, god forbid if she gets in a abusive relationship she’ll think it’s love and stay with that person. they really need a therapist on this show
does anyone feel like Wonyoung would be scarred for life... her reactions give me the vibes that she is horrified
That's why I was shocked that she said it wasn't a concern.
I don't know how they're all laughing and making excuses for him when people are getting beat up, have stuff thrown at them, and getting insulted and getting bruised. It's straight up abuse The tone of this show is so fucked up that is NOT love
I never heard the father cuss his daughter...😱, which it is shocking me. The prank he did to his daughter, it’s way overdoing and of what he did is very wrong. However, I think I can see that he loves his daughter very much as well as she love her father. Hoping in the future to reduce those type of aggressive and get some fun event to enjoy somewhere. Also, the husband need to apologize to wife and younger daughter and other family.
This show always seems to end with an "I love you" when that's not even the problem. In the letter, she wrote that he loves her too much (at least that's what he calls it, so she just calls it that too), so obviously he says indirectly that he loves her. He probably tells her "I only hit you because I love you", but it sounds more like an "I only hit you because I love hitting you". He can't even tell her that he loves her without the implication of a slap without some major (!!!!!!) prompting! This is so messed up and everyone keeps laughing about it! I hope they sent them to a psychologist after the show and didn't just leave it at that!
EXACTLY!
HE manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
AND TO THE PEOPLE WHO SAID THAT ITS HIS WAY OF EXPRESSING HIS AFFECTION NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
we wish for your happiness girl. happy marriage
This concern pissed me off so much
Once I heard the concern I automatically thought of Bleach.
My dad is kind the same as him he loves to prank my family, but he never cusses us, sometimes we do get mad because of the pranks but we understand that that's how he is so we stand it, I hope they all can get along well in the future
This is quite concerning. No parent in their right mind would hurt their child like this? He said he wanted to be “friendly” with her, but not even friends do this to each other. There’s something off with the guy and this is clearly abusive behaviour. The lady needs to go see someone about this
OK he does take it too far with the nose bleeds, broken bones and pulling down his wifes' pants, not to mention throwing the water on his daughters face but he's not purposely abusing his daughter, my dad plays with us exactly like this and I for one don't see it as abuse, she never said she was being abused becuz if she thought she was she wouldn't have been on hello councilor she would have gone to the police, she just wants him to tone it down a little bcuz he is definitely taking too far with the nose bleeds and everything, like my dad gives us headlocks too just so we can practice escaping from one and trust me he does it exactly like a stranger would do it cuz how am I supposed to practice how to get out of it the real way if it isn't real and daughter knows how to defend her self she just doesn't want to hit back unlike her I do and my dad is quit find with that we even play fight and you can't speak for everyone cuz I play fight with my friends and we do hit each other really hard
Sorry about that whole ass paragraph
@@haylzz_myfaceu9980 So about abuse and going to the police, they dont really help unless it is EXTREME and especially not in Korea.
CPS is also shit so forget about that.
This defenitely is abuse. Your father is just playing with you, but her father is litteraly almost breaking her bones and acting like it is fun. This issue should have been taken way more serieus
@@Cyhcg5uhgb I think nose bleeds and broken bones are extreme enough to go to the police I mean does she have to end up dead first, look I for one know a lot about South Korea so I know what I'm talking about so I don't get why your saying that her nose bleeds and broken bones aren't enough to go to the police bcuz to me it is and trust me I'm from Jamaica where you are allowed to hit your kids and trust me I've gotten some real woop ass but I have never yet and none of of the kids down there have been never ever gotten broken bones or nose bleeds. Oh and when I say woop ass I don't mean they hit you with their hands a few times I mean they hit you with whatever they catch and it's just for discipline.
@@Cyhcg5uhgb I get it you wouldn't understand bcuz I bet your either in the US or Canada which I'm at at the moment, where you aren't allowed to hit your kids cuz that would be considered abuse but the places where it's pretty common to hit your kids just like in Korea and Jamaica we'd know what actual abuse is, bcuz being abused is different from when being disciplined, so I think her nose bleeds and broken bones are enough to go to the police if she saw it as abuse.
The daughter is calling out on his verbal and physical abuse on his excuse of "loving" them. This the police ought to take over this case and not the panel.
What's that clap for when the father's pushing down the daughter until her head banging on the floor? Omg I can't even finish watching this. Makes me goosebumps how the father laughing when seeing her daughter in pain
The people on this comment section are all so close minded, yes its true that he's a bit abusive but even the daughter knows that he's not serious, he has no ill intention, he just never received love and he probably wanted to have many good memories with his family unlike how he had his, this man is just lost, there's no need for you to insult him, you don't even think about how he feels you only see the problem with your own eyes as people outside of this, you don't take the time to actually feel their story, you are just coldly analyzing everything, yes it's not great to cuss at your daughter, yes all of this isn't superb but I think you all are just jealous about their relationship, he might be a little too hard but he's not doing it on purpose he's just clumsy, he doesn't know how to express his love cause he never get to experience it in the first place, he just wanna be the best dad, husband and friend to his family, he wants them all to be happy and laugh, all of this is just innocent, its like a baby, would you be mad if a baby hits you ? Would say that he need to seek therapy ?! No, you wouldn't because its only normal for a kid not to know how to act, they are still learning and so are adults, he just didn't learn these "basic" things WE learned, he is still in the path of becoming better and I find this TV show magnificent because they truly care about their guests and are connected emotionally to them and they genuinely wanna help them, this is humanity as its finest, unlike you people who only see others as problems to solve, get a heart you dummies, these are people with feelings not dolls, stop acting as a psychologist when you're far from one, they are better than this and they don't treat patients as marionette's !
Anyway, try finding your heart and thinking outside your little world where you think that you're right in everything you arrogant lil brat.
sakura heartfilia you seem to ignore obvious clues. He’s not a child. He’s a grandfather’s age. If someone broke your ribs and said “it’s because I love you.” Instead of being horrified they hurt you, would you be ok with them? His wife is NOT SPEAKING TO HIM, his daughter is NOT SPEAKING TO HIM. Instead of changing, he wants to run away, not fix the issue. He’s lonely? The simple answer is to stop abusing and bullying those around you. But he can’t. He does so many things because he “loves them”. Yet his 30 year old daughter has never even heard him say he loves her. He’s not an evil demon but there is obviously something psychologically off. We all have issues. But it’s not ok to bully other to make yourself feel better.
Ugh this was so hard to watch, if he were my father I would hate him
Imo, he tries to be the type of dad to act like a "friend" towards his daughter. A friend usually pinches or calls their friends name sometimes, but this dad goes too overboard with it and doesn't know when to draw a line and doesn't know what a boundary is. When I first saw him talk on the show, he seemed sad after listening to what the daughter said. I get that he's trying to love her but he's too aggressive with her. He has a black belt in hapkido as well - which I of course believe that it involves strong moves and rough housing etc. The dad tries too hard to be like a friend and he should really just stop the violent actions and profanity calling.
He’s so funny lol but somethings he definitely took too far. They’ll work it out. I can tell they both want to.
Aishh- wonyoung and yena is so cutee
IS THIS WHAT YOU CALL A TSUNDERE?
That's serious abuse whether or not he says he does it out of love. I can't believe this.
This is 100% abuse. If both parties were actually enjoying this, it wouldn’t be that much of an issue. But he doesn’t stop, he laughs at her pain, and never stops when she says to.
Get the dad a dog or someone to play with so he's not alone anymore... Also a talk with a psychologist.
That germany guy looks like hugh jackman
He is so hot, the way he talked just so....
One reason I hate this show like they want for entertainment but not to solve it and seriously Korean netizens doesn’t know what’s good or bad!
Yena so cuteee
if she died will he still laugh and say that it’s how he expresses his love?
Sounds like he's a sadist. He seems to get pleasure from hurting people.
This is incredibly disturbing. I feel so bad for his family.
I hope that their relationship would improve fr the better
My mom hits me with the chancleta when she gets mad at me one time I made her run for 4 minutes straight with a chancleta 😂😂
This dad would get along with DaddyOfFive
WONYOUNG YENAAAAA
Don’t mind me
Honestly my father also teases me like this but he never curs and he never forget to express his love toward me at the end but this man...I really got mad at him his behavior is abusive😧
Simply he has always seen a son in his daughters that's why he treats her like that too
The father is lonely, the family must talk and adjust their time to each other for the father to become a friend but not like this.
cute daughter and cute s
dad. dad just need to know he is strong enough to give her pain while making fun by playing. good luck
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Honestly I Would Be Okay Having A Dad Like That
Uhm
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i don't get why he is getting so much hate. he just sees them as male friends and he has too much power. he is a nice, funny guy. i get how it can get annoying if the pranks hurt you. i'm sure he doesn't intend to hurt them. it's like i said he thinks he is not hurting them. he doesn't have his power under control. he would've been fine if he had added a son to the family. i see were she is coming from. however i do not get why everyone is calling him abusive. i feel like none of you have actually seen a real abusive person. being abusive is hurting someone on purpose. a lot of americans in the comment section i can see that based on the comments.
*Always a devil’s advocate 😴😴*
It's not a concern ,its actually so cute 🤣
I miss my dad. 😭
RIP daddy
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
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at 15:50 He wanted to beat his ass lmao
Her father love more like a physical and mental abuse rather than love.
Throughout this whole video I was wondering about the fact that Daniel was an actor in moorim school..... 😮I just realised that I sound so unconcerned about her dads aggressiveness
This is a matter of police court not counseling
Other than his prank,, he is a lovely daddy towards her daughter,,he is just lonely
The headlock and shit was a bit much, but the pranks are just hilarious. He's a funny dad who likes to goof around, maybe a bit too much
omg the 2 girls on the right are so beautiful and cute
Izone yena and wonyoung!
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At first it didn't seem like a concern, but as he was showing what he did I started to get more and more worried. My brothers and I are very rough with each other and often break out in play 'fights' we usually get bruised and knocked up but it seems like he's actually sparring with her and using his full force... Ouch
papa need something funny and enjoyble life. maybe he bored. he tried to do some fun but he is strong enough for his 30 years old kid
so this made me lose brain cells and gave me migranes oof
It is crazy that they made him show him how hr chocked his daughter for example and everyone found it funny.
This litteraly is abuse.
I'm sorry but I disagree I think it was the way the father was rasied and he wants to experience what he couldn't and people show affection different ways everyone dose
EXACTLY!
HE manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
AND TO THE PEOPLE WHO SAID THAT ITS HIS WAY OF EXPRESSING HIS AFFECTION NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Not justifying the father I just kind of related to him. When you grow up with little to no affection you don’t know truly kno how to love and express that feeling and being vulnerable is highly uncomfortable. Along the way he figure rough housing probably what he did with his friends was the closest thing to love he knew and truly FELT and so that became his ONLY way to truly feel like he’s expressing his love. He’s obviously not trying to be malicious just can’t determine where the line is and another way to express himself. I believe he needs an intervention where the whole family sets the boundary and he should talk to a therapist that will help him learn a new way to love and feel love.
I genuinely see a concern but I do see were he wants to be friends with her in a way
Danieeeelll....
He is a lovely n cheerful dad . If he stops that prank after that u will miss that so much. Respect ur father n his loneliness
on every one of these videos I just sit here and go " if only these people lived in the Caribbean" or "let them try that down here"
Why I'm jealous even though some of his prank are quite excessive and why i am crying?...
Atleast his father is really reaching out to her..
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
Daniel is so cute
he's harassing her. they shouldn't be laughing with them. it's fun to him. it sounds like a sadist to me. she wouldn't complain if she didn't feel differently. it concerned her to the point that she's telling almost everyone about it.
My dad and brother both are generally out till midnight, so it's just me at home, so I understand loneliness alot. When everyone gave such a grave reactions when he said he wants to travel like a hippie, I was confused...
hey baby wonyoung needs to be protected 😙😙
thats what i call my friends..
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
she looks kinda like solar from mamamoo 🤷🏻♀️
...this is straight up physical abuse, i honestly hope people around him who see this start treating him like shit.
And honestly, I'm disappointed with how the regular hosts didn't seem to take this that seriously. When they found out she was an instructor, they turned on her but why the fuck would she defend herself against her father, she's already said she wouldn't hit him back because of who he is to her. The fact they made him DEMONSTRATE shows how little they take this seriously. Why would you encourage a parent hitting their kid when they obviously hate it and get nervous?
A parent should never be "teasing" their kid so much that they regularly get bruises or fucking NOSEBLEEDS.
This is the grossest video I have ever watched in a long time!
sO WHY DID I KNEW THAT THIS GUY IS GERMAN? GREAT.
My dad doesnt do this type of thing to me..my dad is not that abusive
Why does Daniel look like hugh jackman aND HOW CAN HE SPEAK KOREAN
can i just die watch abnormal summit. Ya might faint. Lol
These aren't pranks...........He's fkn abusive. Why people are laughing........... Just pissing me off.
Yena ya😭🤣
Me encanto este capítulo
he reminds me of the dad in reply1988🤣
Honestly, my dad pulls pranks but this man takes it too far. I don't think he's off or sick or anything like that. I think he sees his family as his friends and the way he treats them is probably the way he treats his friends as well. All his friends probably do hapkido and joke around excessively as well. But he needs to understand that he's surrounded by women who don't communicate in the same way he does. His oldest might be the closest thing to his friends (hapkido, makes jokes) but she's not his friend; she's his daughter. Make jokes, that's fine, but cussing at her and attacking with the full force of your power and strength is too much. She would be okay with occasional duels because she also does hapkido but not the constant annoyance and the childlike behavior is cute once in a while but again, don't be excessive. Overall, he's a cute dad with no boundaries. Now that she's seriously set them, he'll be okay.
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
The way he show his love is totally off but if we look at other side he is just too lonely and need love from his wife and daughter. His wife ignores him even on weekends , that must be disappointing for the him .if the whole family talked about his behaviour and loneliness he feels for once with each other that would be great. And i think the mother should have come to the show .
anyone knows whats the program called where ziont and dindin became the father’s “sons”
I think he just want to be close with his daughter i do not like that he call her the b word tho but the rest i think is a parent that wants to pay w her kid even thi she is an adult but she said he does that since she was a kid then thats pretty normal for him. He just want to have fun w hes daughter, he has a kid spirit lol 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂he would do great at my family lmaoo all the boy at my family are like that sometimes is a bit annoying lol
Thats manipulative and abusive lol there's no such thing as "abusing people just because you love them" lol NO.
I understand that he doesn't know how to express things well but pls dont be oblivious of the fact that he's very abusive he should get treatment
*Threw her around as a baby too? Nah he’s not right in the head idc*