Is hating people worth it?
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- The return of the Q217 series! I mislaid the book, but now I have found it again (actually, I mislaid it at least twice). I ramble about the nature of hatred.
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Looking forward to the final episode of the series in 2199.
Right after In Search for Hannibal drops
Ah, but what about the French?
That's fair
The who?
They just hate Anglos, which is more than understandable. 😊
There's exceptions to every rule
But we are talking about hating people
"To die hating them, that was freedom." - Winston Smith, 1984
Read Isaac Asimov’s review of 1984
In an age where emotion is surpressed, hate maybe all you have left. And, it was actively promoted.
Daily two minutes hate for party members.
I much prefer Terry Gilliam's Brazil. It has much more nuance. And Tory relevance.
Google Minister Helpman's interview.
Sunak must have used it for inspiration.
@@Pangloss6413 Wow was that bad. Thanks for the pointer.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
😅 he knows...
It has an evolved purpose.
Anger is a social counterbalance to some temporary wrong, hate is a social counterbalance to someone who will continually wrong you.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
There are plenty of people who hate people simply because they are ‘other’.
Right
The evolved purpose may be primitive though. I can imagine a less intelligent animal would forget an indiscretion if he didn't hate because of it.
@@yorkshire_tea_innit8097 I imagine the capacity to hate is common among mammals at least. If we imagine its manifestation as continuous targeted aggression for no apparent purpose, this can often be observed in mammals of many kinds.
On the other hand, can a spider hate something? Almost certainly not. Can a crocodile? I don't know. I think anger is a reptilian emotion. Is hate as primitive as anger? Who knows.
"You have enemies? Good. That means you've stood up for something, sometime in your life."
Winston Churchill
Standing up for something doesn’t imply making enemies. It’s usually others making enemies out of you.
@@klawiehrThat's why the question is "you have enemies", not "you made enemies".
It might also mean you stood for the wrong thing though, which would not be good
@@klawiehr No it absolutely does.
You cant make everyone happy, every decision you make will always cross somebody.
I stood for quite a few things in my life I'd like to think, yet I'm not aware of any enemies. An enemy is quite something different than disagreement. Although I guess when you are the prime minister that's a bit different than a fairly average citizen.
"Hate is like drinking poison while hoping the other one dies." I learned the hard way there's truth in this. Anger can keep you alive, but never let it become hate !!
I'm blind in my eye after a childhood accident and when I was about 15 a kid at my school decided to throw a stick 'near' the blokes I was standing beside.
He hit me, literslly mm from my only seeing eye, I went into such tremendous shock I've never forgotten it. I truly hated that kid who had always been a right nob, and while I don't think of him anymore I would still bet money he's just as dim and useless as he ever was in school.
We draw to ourselves what we are ourselves. Chances are, he’s ’ surrounded by knobs and arsewipes and lives in the misery he brings wherever he goes. Damned near the same thing happened to my wife when she was very, very young. Ruined her childhood to say the least. Very happy now, living her best life.
Two little children were playing together. The story goes that one sent an arrow to hit tree above the other's head.
Instead it hit an eye. Sight was permanently lost in that eye.
This must have been in the early 1900s.
But they both lived into the 1980s. The only time I saw them together they were a pair of sisters happy to be with each other again.
@@myparceltape1169 Interesting story, thanks for sharing!
Not according to Hannibal Barca.
I've been missing this side of Lloyd for some time. Welcome back! And yes, hate is a waste of time. Disgust, contempt, on the other hand... I guess that is similar but less demanding on you. As evil, less demanding, still to be avoided. Hate light!
1:10 reminded me of M.Bison from the Street Fighter film: "For you, the day Bison graced your village was the most important day of your life. But for me, it was Tuesday. "
Reminds me of Scarlet Witch to Thanos in Avengers End Game. "You took everything from me", "I don't even know who you are", "You will..."
@@dorkangel1076 PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Speaking from personal experience, there absolutely are people who it's okay to hate, those who have ruined my life and that of those I love. I don't really put any energy into harming them, but whenever they come up in conversation or pop into my mind I mutter a silent curse upon them.
Properly utilized, hatred can be a valuable survival instinct that can help you avoid being abused by people who have harmed you in the past.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Never really hated anyone but my life improved drastically for the better when I managed to let go of bitterness (ex wife). Bitterness only harms the person who is bitter to be honest. Let it go.
The book returns
i just strongly dislike people
Especially black.
"Hate's as good a thing as any to keep a person going. Better than most." - The Hound
Does hating someone really always come with constantly thinking about them? Can it not just be the "Ah, don't remind me that we are living above that person!" kind of relationship? Or just the "I can't wait until I don't have to see these people ever again."
The thing you describe is more of a hateful obsession.
Question 30: Will I ever receive "In Search Of Hannibal" the graphic novel?
Lloyd's chair is classy AF.
Thank you for the video Lloyd, really appreciate it
Thank you for this one , Mr. Beige. I've been deeply in hate with someone for over a year now... it's waning slowly, but this video helps me. No one can argue the wisdom herein.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Literally yesterday I remembered some of your earlier Q videos and I wondered when or if you'll post another!
I truly hate precognition. Takes all the surprise out of life.
could not have had a better notification for myself considering life circumstances lol
thanks for the vid
You can always despise instead of hate. It's sooo much better to despise! One might say it's a quality time!
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Good to see you back, Llindy
Hate only poisons the people that keep it…
Mandela: Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
Tell that to the 100 billion humans buried below us who were mostly exploited by a TINY fraction of a fraction of a fraction. Worked to death for nothing. I'm sure they would agree with you.
Human doormat mantra
@@TuriGamer Or a refusal to let people live in your head rent free?
@@TuriGamer you obviously don’t have as many years as me yet… don’t keep sipping the poison
Interesting that this kind of argument comes up at a time where there are many people doing actions which they should be rightfully criticized for, and do not wish to be criticized for or called attention to. What a fascinating and completely random coincidence.
Also, personally I prefer "well-reasoned threat identification and actionable response" but that doesn't quite roll off the tongue.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
LORD willing, criticism doesn't automatically equal hatred of someone all by itself.
I always knew Lindybeige was a psychopath.
I never hated him for it.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Subbed when i saw your great videos over weapons, found your great videos about crossfire that brought great joy to me and now this... Thank you so much! I can't put into words how helpful and entertaining you are for me. I just want to say thank you!... From the bottom of my heart!
Stay safe and healthy.
Greetings from germany.
P.S.:
Yes, i have hated and probably will in the future but thanks to "grewing up" and people like you it gets manageable and doesn't take up as much energy as it did in the past. And hopefully some day it won't bother me at all ;)
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
The closest I've come to really hating someone was the third party while my marriage was being torn apart. That was a long time ago now. Hate isn't my thing.
Yes! It's back!
*and to answer the question:
I was never heavily bullied nor did I bully anyone, grew up in a community where there was no tolerance for hate, and I took that nindset into adult life as well as the internet. Maybe that's why social media never really hooked me...
If you grew up in "a community where there was no tolerance for hate", then you grew up in a cult. It's just that simple. Because the reality of the situation is that "no tolerance" is, in fact, the DEFINITION of hate. Therefore, you are living a delusion.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
As someone who grew up in environments where anger and violence was something I experienced many times, God has been the Only One to guide me away from that and bless me with His perfect Holy Spirit in patience, non violence, forgiveness, humility and love and His peace which surpasses all understanding. I thank and praise God for that!
Hatred feels warm and exciting, and it can really bring people together. It can make existence feel explicable and meaningful rather than empty and bewildering. It can drive action and fuel creativity.
But unfortunately it tends to result in bad decision making.
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Like Germany in the 30s?
@@NapoleonGelignite Exactly!
@@NapoleonGelignite like ruzzia today
I've been waiting for this series to continue for quite a while.
Hatred is something I can be drawn to. The use of hatred can give power on earth, but its damage to the soul is what makes it totally worthless.
My anger tends to turn to sadness and my hate into pity and pain
but even tho its not for me I see usefulness in hating something to hurts someone you love
I'm glad to see the book of questions back
As Schopenhauer said “hatred is from the heart and contempt from the head”. Going about in seething contempt of those who’ve earned is actually quite nice and you can take it or leave it as you wish
A wise person once said "to hate someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die".
Was it The Ancient Greeks?
"You have no enemies, no-one does, no-one in this world deserves to get hurt" a line from vinland saga-
I like how annoyed Lindy made himself by saying the phrase "the ancient greeks"
The sweetest revenge is living well.
AMEN!!! My little girls asked me once after my divorce "Why does Mommy Hate" you so much? I said, "I don't know?" Mommy got "everything she wanted"! I gained a wounder full Immigrant wife and two! more! little girls.
I do not believe in divorce, but "I Thank" GOD Daily she did!
Naw, that's just a cope for people to cowardly to take revenge.
@@shanephillips4011 Or? to lage a Queaff to be a MAN!
How about if your rapist lives well?
@@davefellhoelter1343 PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
A long time ago I was in a band, or more accurately a duo, with this guy. For years he was my best friend, I saw him literally every day for at least 2 or 3 years, and probably didn’t go longer than a week without seeing him for 6 or 7. He became close family, his parents were awful to him, and he pretty much lived with me and mine, when we were in our late teens. In our early twenties we moved to the city together. I was there for him through heartbreaks, failures, being kicked out of his childhood home, a lot of shit.
Then he (allegedly, it’s complicated) fell in love with my girlfriend at the time. It made things awkward, I appreciated his being open about it, I understood, we all spent a lot of time together, and she was a great person, but it made things difficult. It didn’t stop being a problem for a couple of years. We reached the point where the band was breaking up for other reasons, and he decided to insinuate that she had cheated on me with him, which I knew wasn’t true. I wracked my brain for reasons he could be doing it, but there was nothing, the band was dead, getting her out of the picture with me wasn’t going to do anything. It was just self destructive. He just wanted to hurt me, to destroy her reputation. He made it so that she didn’t feel comfortable with our friends anymore.
I hated him after that. I was consumed with hatred, for at least two or three years. I couldn’t go a day without thinking about how much I hated him. I took tremendous joy from his suffering.
I have forgiven him, since. We are even friends again. I recognise that what he did is the behaviour of a deeply broken person, and I feel bad for him, if anything. But I could never, ever trust him again. Not like I did.
LB bringing back the book. Mighty!
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
I once read that hate is not the flipside of love since love is the utmost care for someone or something and opposite to that is total indifference. That said, I don't think I could feel anything but hate for someone who would ever hurt my loved ones.
I thought it was over! I thought, for sure hell have lost or forgotten this series by now! By golly, Lloyd is the best!
Thanks for sharing your perspective. The only person I ever truly hated was my old english-teacher from class 5 and onwards. In every other instance I've found explanations over time, grew to understand that perhaps I myself wasn't the easiest person to deal with, and thus I managed to gradually let go and think favourably of nearly every peer I ever had. This one woman was a psychopath though and undoubtedly a bit of a sadist. Without a trace of doubt she manipulated my surroundings in order to isolate me, deprive me of friends and make life as hard for me as she possibly could. I think the key difference is the age-gap. I was a boy of 10 and she was probably approaching 50. In such situations, growing older only enhances your understanding of what was going on, how it could and quite possibly why (psychopathy and sadism). You also develop an increasingly better understanding of how unjust it truly was and while I rarely ever think about this person, I know, without a trace of doubt, that I would not lend a hand, no matter what kind of peril I find her in. It's the kind of feeling that "in the air tonight" is all about - the song expresses it far better than I ever could. If you've had such a thing happen to you, I wish to say that it doesn't need to dictate your life forever. It is like loss and certain forms of abuse. It may never truly disappear but you will learn to deal with it and live a fulfilling life regardless of it. You' may even find it easier to forgive other (lesser) offenses, when there's this one thing in your past that overshadows anything that anyone could ever throw at you. You become hardened, in a way, but not necessarily unkind or aggressive.
Happy to see you return to this series, this is one of my favourite video series that I've seen you do!
Always found the “they are controlling you” silly. If you kick a beehive do you think “I am controlling them” as you run for half a hour? If you try to take a bear cub do you think “I’m really controlling the mother bear now” as you hide on the top of a tree? They have a reaction yes, but giving someone a reaction and controlling them are two separate things.
"Divide and conquer doesn't work so good when your tomfoolery does nothing but unify your enemy against you"
Also if the kid I bullied in school comes and is chopping my limbs off and leaving me to die in the middle of the woods. Did I really control him or am I winning?
you can argue these things aren't motivated by hate. moreso they are motivated by instinct to remove a threat to their existence and perpetuation. and removing threats is a natural fixture of society, that's why laws exist, but you don't need to have hate to remove a threat, or even to kill.
According to your definition of "hate" (constantly thinking about the hated person), I don't hate anybody. But, IF I think about certain people, I am engulfed by negative emotions. Luckily that happens not too often. And it does not apply to too many people I have encountered in my life.
Huzzah for more Lindy philosophy!
Hatred on my part involves wanting people who literally want me dead to be far far away from me an never able to get anywhere near me either personally or by proxy , and permanently depriving them of weapons since they are clearly dangerous and I don't want them for be a threat to whatever place they get exiled to.
This is the question I never know I always wanted to ask but never came up into my consciousness, thank you Lindy for this video.
I rarely hate someone, but when I do, I just don't want to see them ever again.
I hated someone for 25 years. I didn’t think about him very often, but when I did he took over my mind. Then I ran into him at a professional gathering. He had no idea that the way he had treated me in college had hurt me so much. He apologized. You got it, we feel in love. That was nearly 20 years ago.
I love the comparison of "in hatred" to "in love".
Man this came to me right at the time I needed it. I've been sitting in a stew of hatred for basically all my in-laws (save one). Long story. But yeah. You're right. There's just no point in holding onto these emotions. Cheers Lloyd!
Its a wonderful fuel for getting restitution.
Funny thing, just yesterday I was watching a "Lindybeige out of context" compilation and thinking how, as cool as the thoughtful and insightful documentaries and interviews of recent years have been, I miss the old content that was just Lloyd faffing about in front of a camera trying things. This is like more of that.
Very sadly, I do hate some people. They wronged me deeply, abandoned & hurt me. I’ve spent years thinking ill of them, wondering if they understand or care how deeply they hurt me. They were my friends. The amount of time i’ve spent thinking about how much I hate them & ways I could try to make them suffer, that wasted time & mental space makes me more upset with them. It keeps me up at night. I have no way to contact them to offer a facetious forgiveness that flaunts their sins in their faces even. It’s so hard. If I could choose to not be this way I would. I became a father recently & yet part of my mind is still stuck on this betrayal. They turned a whole group of people against me. I’m not that bad, i’m just annoying & a bit obsessive & hardheaded, i have ASD. It’s made me doubt myself so deeply. What kind of person am I that my friends would abandon me? What kind of person am I that I would harbor such ill will & dark thoughts? At the least, I understand revenge now, & what motivates people to it.
They say the best revenge is living well, & I do not live well, which is all the worse
PLEASE, you, and EVERYONE, if you haven't already, embrace the One True Only God YHWH Jehovah, Only One Jesus Christ His Only Begotten Son and Lord and Savior of our souls and the Only One Holy Spirit. God is good. God is love. Jesus is Lord. Jesus IS coming. Your soul depends on it!
As someone whose been wronged by people as well, God has guided me to seek to put that negative aspects away in His perfect Holy Spirit of patience, non violence, forgiveness, humility and love and His peace which surpasses all understanding. I thank and praise God for that!
I have seen God act in my life. He saved my soul, changed my heart, changed my mind, helped people through me, took care of people in my life, people I hurt before I found God. God is the only reason I was able to reconcile with my dad before he died.
God worked through Jesus Christ to save our souls. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. Believe in your heart and confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and that God raised Him from the dead and you will be saved. Be baptized in The Holy Spirit, and if He wills, water as well. Repent of your sins, accept God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit into your heart, that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ, that all who believe on Him should not perish but have everlasting life. Jesus Christ is The Way, The Truth and The Life. No one comes to the Father Jehovah God but through Him.
Not long after I got saved I prayed to God for help understanding the Holy Bible, and that same day someone knocked on my door asking me if I wanted to understand the Bible.
The Holy Bible says, "love thy enemy", "turn the other cheek", "If your enemy is hungry, feed him", "if he is thirsty, give him a drink", "pray for those who persecute you", "do not repay evil for evil".
LORD willing, all humans may commit sin of almost every kind (gay, straight), and that's wrong, and all humans sin, as God tells us through the The Holy Bible, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." The Holy Bible also says, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
@@Dagenspear aight
Hating people is definitely not worth it. Avoiding people most definitely is.
You only have so much energy to give to your life. Whatever you give in the negative, there’s just that much less available for the positive.
When someone gets you hating them, they’ve got you jammed up in a box.
Hanging on strings, dancing to the puppet master. If you must, leave them, learn from them, be thankful that you’re wiser for the wear.
As Bilbo Baggins once said, “An ill wind blows no good.”
"Hating people is definitely not worth it. Avoiding people most definitely is." This is the test. Fight or flight.
Some of us simply refuse to give any more ground to those who consistently prove they are beneath us.
@@malcontender6319 Or continue to abuse.
It's a very fine line between love and hate, & of course many variations on this theme.
There are those that just love hating & vice versa, those that hate loving.
I don't think you can use the 'wants children' card due to the many different relationships we see nowadays & a loss of ones legs doesn't automatically mean the loss of ones vagina, a necessary piece of anatomy essential to the child making process. 😀
Distain, hatred's intelligent sibling, provides a socially acceptable venue for investment of creativity in exchange for increased status within one's preferred group. Hatred empowers leaders via unity. Distain profits users in proportion to their effective, creative input. Both are walls of delineation. Hatred's walls are like barbed wire while distain creates lovely hedges with prickly bits hidden in the foliage.
I like those similes, and I may borrow them.
I think it's worth acknowledging and processing your hate. It's bad when you let it consume you, but once you get to the point where you can function in your own life again and get your own goals done, it's pretty much not a problem. I can say that there are some people I still hate, but it's not like I lose any sleep or any value in my waking life because my disdain for them exists.
As someone who is easily given to over to hatred and has hated a lot of people... it's not worth it. I can't think of a single time it was worth it.
Wow I watched this video and instantaneously ceased to hate myself, thanks!
I'm glad I didn't die before this was complete!
Hate is awesome, i believe this fully. Being a hater can randomly bring you joy when you see your enemies fail, i stand by this, never surrender, never give up!
My Dad hated his Dad so he killed him. Well, it was technically manslaughter but either way he got away with it. My Dad told me this on Christmas Eve 1987 and described what a bastard his Dad was but he ended his confession by saying "He was a canny kisser though."
We never spoke of it again.
Damn
*Respectfully disagree.*
Hate is natural instinct and reaction to keep us safe from that which we may rightly or wrongly dislike, detest or have previously caused us real or imagined harm.
Having hate become one's raison d'etre OR thinking hate can ONLY be all consuming is infantile.
I find it interesting to note; throughout history, tyranny was never defeated with 'love' - just saying.
@@Coconut-219 Agreed.
Powerful take, thank you
I once worked with a bloke who had too many abhorrent qualities to list out, however, after about a year of strongly disliking him it turned out that he had a keen interest in private Japanese shipyards of the early Showa era. And in an instant that revolting humanoid waste of organic matter became my best mate. Though he was a bit weird (the swine prefered Mitsubishi to Kawasaki, if you can imagine such a thing), it all became irrelevant.
You're such a decent person Lloyd, it's so nice to see 😊
Even if you are on the opposite side of the world, it's nice to know you exist ❤
He stole €150,000 from his fans
I must admit, I hated a few people in my life. The most recent was a back stabbing colleague prone to Dunning Kruger effect that I had a couple of years ago. He resigned out of pride after making a massive blunder that cost me then employer money. I will confess, watching his career takinga nosedive afterwards made me feel good. But if I hated him, I know he hated me and others in the company more.
Since we live in a day and age where "hate speech" is actually a crime... i personality took it upon myself as an amateur writer, to compose a "litany of hate" with a placeholder made into it so anyone can just insert whoever they hate into, plug and play, and make a clear unapologetic hateful speech about them. Just to make it easier to break that law...
Based solely off the title as i haven't watched yet im gonna say yes because there are people that actively go out of their way to profit at GREAT detriment to their fellow human be it politicians ,corporations or distributors of child porn these people deserve more than your hate
In addition to the war talk about hatred...it helps to unalive your enemies, in more than 1 way.
This reminds me of one of my favorite sayings.
"Bitterness is like swallowing poison and hoping it kills the other person."
Something I read many years ago stuck with me; "Hate is too strong an emotion to waste on someone you don't like."
There's no one or nothing that I truly hate, but there are people and things that either anger me or make me miserable. I try to not engage with that either whenever it's not possible to channel those feelings into something useful, which is usually the case. Even the people who anger me aren't really *people*, since they're public figures or politicians who I don't know personally, so they're more ideas that represent some values than actual living people in my mind.
Great session as always. I would say most people use the word hate when they actually mean they dislike something or someone. True hatred, valid or not, is all consuming and difficult to control. So my two penneth on this is that most people rarely get to the point of all consuming hatred but most people will have very brief flashes of rage (often impotent rage)when experiencing a situation or situations that they really really dislike being forced into. IMO most people use the word hate the same way as they say “I had the Flu” when they’ve had a cold or that “the tv blew up “when it emitted a tiny phut sound and died.
I was wondering what happened to the questions , another question answered
I've hated a few people
The common element to the people I've hated is that they hurt me without remorse and never stopped trying to hurt me
My hate gave me the strength to keep them out of my life, and it was good for me
I still hate all of these people. But I don't dwell on it, it only exists quietly in forgotten corners keeping me safe from their return
The opposite of love is not hate, it is ignorance perhaps indifference. Hate is built on a core of love.
Hate is good for you. Makes you strong if you know how to over come it. Too bad today people don't know how to deal with hate or anger, but it is so good when you know how to over come it and be it's master. Makes you so strong and and happy. I mastered mine and i never trusted myself and felt satisfaction like that before. Your emotions are you, control them and you achieve control over self like you never knew you could. It is first step to happiness imo.
Can you please explain how to do it?
My empathy powers are too strong to hate. Except myself of course.
There've been a few people I have hated, but not for very long. If I think about them now, I don't hate them anymore. I just don't care to think about them at all. I have better things to fill my head and life with than spend energy hating!
"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference" -- Elie Wiesel, Holocaust Survivor
I'd suggest just because you hate someone doesn't mean they are on your mind all the time. I hated my ex for a couple of years but that doesn't mean it came to mind a lot. Still, It occurred to mean that this was only affecting me, and not hating doesn't mean I have to trust or be friends again so I just stopped hating in a poof of apathy.
Sooo excited, new lindibeige!
"I grew out of it" here is some words from our Lindychad
"Hatred is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die."
Probably Socrates' final thought. ;)
love seeing this series back!
I'm very much looking forward for the end of this book I've been waiting for years
Hi! Someone seems to have taken over your channel and uploaded some AI-generated garbage a few weeks back. Glad to see you back, but the videos are still up, not sure if you can see them.
It is, if you let it simmer awaiting a rainy day you have to get yourself out of mortal peril.
Your definition of hatred changed so suit the point you were making.
Yes, so many people redefine hatred to make themselves seem holier than thou.
It's obnoxious. obsessive hatred or seething animosity is closer to what he was describing.
Sometimes bullying can be caused by them being bullied by someone else. Essentially being pressured to bully others.
for Aristotle the issue would never be in favor of a long life, but of achievements (eudaimonia is better translated as self-fulfillment than full of joy)...
I thought of Einstein's five years of extreme productivity, for example. It's funny how he was completely convinced that he would win the Nobel Prize and put him in the divorce negotiations...
Now that I think about it, I've never hated anyone. Disliked or disgusted by yes, but hated, no. I've only ever hated situations.
Yes. Next question.
I really wonder about all these people who think otherwise. They really must be doing it wrong.
my favorite series!! glad it's back
I remember many situations where me and someone else agreed on or made a deal - something involving just us - but someone overheard or found out what we were talking about, and they stepped in and "busted" the deal, for whatever reason (usually using non-nonsensical or ridiculous or circular logic). The real reason was that the 3rd person felt they were being disadvantaged somehow. And if they did bust the deal, it always turned out for the worse for me.
if for some reason somebody is unable to experience the best of you its a good indication that they should not experience you at all,
Some people do everything to be hated.
Because they want attention.
Any kind of attention. And when you're hated and get lots of that kind of attention you like because you're a narcissistic egocentrist, then you can also make yourself into a victim. Which then makes you an underdog and gives you an excuse to spiral into endless self-pity/superiority complexes.
It's not pretty and happens far too often, these days.