Coming Out Gay (ft. Calum mcswiggan)

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  • @CalumMcSwiggan
    @CalumMcSwiggan 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Thanks for inviting me onto your channel, it was a pleasure :) Can't wait to see you again soon! x

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Calum McSwiggan defiantly more video must be made with everyone one haha ive found my youtube family now

  • @MCP2012
    @MCP2012 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah, I just came over from Calum's channel and your other video with him (your coming out as bisexual). I'm a 58 yr old Texan who was self-aware shortly after puberty (around 13 or so) as bisexual/pansexual. The 1970s and 1980s (and even the 90s, for that matter) were difficult times for both gays and bisexuals. I'm now engaged to a young man. I'm childless, but would be proud to have you as a son, Courtney. You're very cute-&-handsome, obviously bright/intelligent, and adorable. Just sub'd your channel. Keep on keepin' on! Best wishes always...

    • @NickWillbebacksoon
      @NickWillbebacksoon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He is amazing :) congrats on being engaged :)

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      well thank you that means a lot I hope your wedding is amazing and you live happily ever after and adopt SOE amazing kids

    • @MCP2012
      @MCP2012 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nick Perrin Vlogs Courtney-Jai Thank you both. My fiance is not in America right now. We hope to bring him over here by this coming Autumn. And marry soon thereafter. No frills; just a civil procedure.
      It almost flatout amazes me that many people don't understand the concept of civil marriage. I'd've been satisfied, mind you, with something that was nominally separate ('civil partnership' or 'civil union'), as long as it actually would have the _same bundle of rights_ that goes with standard/conventional marriage. But the uptight wanks & wonks get their panties in a wad over the 'm' word for some silly reason(s).
      Anyway, thanks again to you both for you kind replies. And Courtney, you're adorable. Keep on keepin' on! ;-)

  • @TigerPrawn_
    @TigerPrawn_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just came over from Calum's channel! Hi :)

    • @joeharrison4285
      @joeharrison4285 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi I hope you like my channel just as much as his guys

  • @icckky6
    @icckky6 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Calum's story of the bullies that assaulted him, Made me want to cry and reminded me of the harsh reality that the real world isn't as progressive as tumblr. Also I'm a new sub :D

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah the world can be a brutal place

  • @kylesaxman1
    @kylesaxman1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video from the both of you. I hope in 10 years time, coming out will no longer be a big deal and we see same sex couples as no different then heterosexual couples. The world is getting there, but there is still a ways to go. You two should do videos with each other more often.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all do that would be an amazing place which we could all know we helped create

  • @briandice2187
    @briandice2187 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just started coming out, in my 30's, last week and it has been incredible whirlwind of emotion. Everyone I have told have been wonderful and excepting. I know I still have the more difficult people left. Figured it was good to have a core base to rely on if it goes bad with someone.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Brian Dice well at least your doing it and its not something you have to rush if it takes years it takes year and st least you can say you have no regrets

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Courtney:
    Good to see you vlogging with other You Tubers. It helps you connect and expand in your experiences. Thank you for letting Calum share his experiences and I hope it will be a help to someone. I think you benefited from talking with him too. You keep doing these types of things and please take care. Are you working out Courtney? You arms are getting big.

  • @katiaeconomou5812
    @katiaeconomou5812 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    just so much loveliness in this video xx

  • @kennethbullard4225
    @kennethbullard4225 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg!!!!!! I am so excited you two are doing a video together!!!!! I love yall!!!!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha this video actually pretty old lol

  • @drkipper
    @drkipper 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2 of my fave you tubers!!!!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you like the video

  • @TheReelCorner
    @TheReelCorner 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A great video that I'm sure a lot of your audience will find helpful and reassuring 😊

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +TheReelCorner well we hope so a lot of people have liked it so that's a really good sign so far

  • @ragincajun2100
    @ragincajun2100 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost it at that black and white scene. Nice video

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I thought it gave it a funny end

  • @GlitchComputer
    @GlitchComputer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These conversations man. Always really appreciate them! :)

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you enjoyed man

  • @PSrecording
    @PSrecording 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video guys :D! Super informative and helpful to any questioning or advice seeking LGBT individual.
    Great job!
    -Philip & Shawn

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks guy oh and congrats on hitting 1k very proud

    • @PSrecording
      @PSrecording 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Courtney-Jai
      haha thanks buddy, we really appreciate it :D!!!!!
      -Philip & Shawn

  • @glenclever8523
    @glenclever8523 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finaly! This was the video i was waiting for ,....took so long to get it uploaded tho! But still it was worth waiting! :D

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I hope it's everything you expected and more

  • @jcancer2011
    @jcancer2011 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw your video on callum channel and i watched a few videos now im def subscribing you seem very cool u have a new subbie,hello Courtney

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +jcancer2011 well hello and thank you really awesome that you like me I hope I can just match the standard of the videos you watch on callums channel

  • @tylerbrocato3700
    @tylerbrocato3700 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a great guy Courtney-Jay and that's from one bi guy to another. I love watching your videos and feel I can relate

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I'm happy you can relate maybe it can help a lot of other people too

  • @funneltv2912
    @funneltv2912 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey ..i am a new subscriber..i like the way you talk 😘

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      shambhavi sharma well thank you I like the way you comment

  • @ineshaider5368
    @ineshaider5368 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    it's great to see you guys together in one video :))

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah only a six month build up but we got there in the end

  • @ristin59
    @ristin59 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic video, I love to see how things are much easier today about coming out.
    There are still idiots out there, but we've come a long way....

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      We certainly have but I guess it's those idiots that show us what we are fighting for

  • @draxquirnon6809
    @draxquirnon6809 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video!!! 💜💜💜
    I came from Calum's channel and subscribed!!!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      thanks I hope you enjoy my content

  • @1battery415
    @1battery415 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Courtney I'm from Callum's channel!!!
    Just suscribed ^_^!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awesome well I hope I can match Calum on his quality and content

  • @marcusshaw1234
    @marcusshaw1234 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly inspirational... Thanks guys. hope I can come out soon:) I will loose lots of people close to me.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sure u will but do it in your own time there's no need to rush only do it when you know your ready

  • @rothvinbosley1335
    @rothvinbosley1335 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The right age is not waiting until you are 65 as I did. You are alone and what mom and dad thought is not important now and for years past too. But, you have not had the love of another or a family. I would say the feelings one has at age 10 to 12, for the same sex will not disappear with age! It does not work that way. Of course, one can always live as a straight person and lie to one's partner/s or family and the society. It still will not change the fact that there is same sex attraction that is part of our DNA.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You make a very valid point I couldn't imagine how hard it has been for you

    • @boogie0807
      @boogie0807 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I came out as bi last year at the age of 40. Been so emotional as I'd hidden my feelings for about 25 years. Living a lie is hard.

  • @morgannyhan6875
    @morgannyhan6875 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg how did I never find you before??? I'm in love😍😍

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well thanks man your far to kind I just wanted to say thanks to Calum because he really gave me an amazing opportunity collabing with him

  • @CamSlaysAllDay
    @CamSlaysAllDay 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I came out when I was 12 years old. (in 6th grade) and this video would have really helped me to come out so I can really appreciate the fact that this can help others feel comfortable to come out.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me and Callum hope it really helps people.

    • @CamSlaysAllDay
      @CamSlaysAllDay 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Courtney-Jai omg you actually replied!! ahhh!😂😂 Im freaking out!!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Olivia Somerville I try reply to everyone who watched me I just see it as a sign of respect you take the time to comment so you should no your efforts are not wasted and that I notice everyone

    • @CamSlaysAllDay
      @CamSlaysAllDay 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Courtney-Jai awe your so sweet omg

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      be carful you might get a cavity cheesy yet effective in my defence

  • @JoasRadiomann
    @JoasRadiomann 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video guys! Very inspirational!
    Nobody knows I'm a lesbian but one day will be my day!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And on that day u can celebrate and be 100% you

  • @josephmillraney361
    @josephmillraney361 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Courtney, if you don't mind, I'm interested in what your girlfriend thought about your bisexuality. It must be frightening to come out to someone, anyone, you love.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      well its actually one of the first things I said to her I wanted it to be out in the open I knew if she didn't like the idea then we weren't meant to be together but she said she wasn't bothered

    • @josephmillraney361
      @josephmillraney361 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fantastic! & I wish you and her all the very best!

  • @TheNalsB
    @TheNalsB 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cal is such a cutiepie :3 very informative video boys well done.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well we tried our best to help

  • @Super_Mario128
    @Super_Mario128 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cal that was really sad and upsetting when you said that you were jumped and had your teeth broken by bullies from your ex-high-school.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah it was awful to hear about

  • @ghostrider101
    @ghostrider101 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Veteran!! pfft try 1980 in less enlightened times LOL Nice video, I never knew about Cal being beaten up like that, that's just horrible! I've always been lucky never had trouble like that but I know many do. I don't understand "coming out" and never have. We're people and unless it comes up in conversation I don't make a point of it. It's not relevant to most days and it's also nobody else's business.
    Obviously if you do You Tube it's a good thing, but that's different, if you're out with a group & feel uncomfortable with girl chat then that's a good time to tell them you're not interested. One great thing that is happening now is that the younger generation don't even see it as a "thing" anymore and kissing someone of the same sex is not considered something bad. Times have moved on, we're lucky in this part of the world :)
    Subscribed and will catch up - good luck from an older viewer - they say my generation don't know anything about You Tube etc - I was using the net before most had even heard of it LOL

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's amazing that you've been out that long I suppose it amazing for you to see the change in social viewing of the subject but I completely agree it's no ones business but your own 😊

  • @discogareth
    @discogareth 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have a new subscriber my friend! 😃

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well I'm happy to have you here

  • @traviskohr8083
    @traviskohr8083 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well I actually came out about a few months ago at age 14

  • @TnDon
    @TnDon 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You two guys are among the most handsome dudes on the tube....just sayin', not creepin'. Did you coordinate your identical black T's, or was it just a coincidance?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      My t shirt is actually purple they just look similar cuz of the lighting haha

  • @abrahamh.m.7339
    @abrahamh.m.7339 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! I’m new on your cannel, but I’ve already watched several of your videos. The thing is that I’ve never before meat a bisex, and I think I’m. As you know it has often come to my mind since many years ago. About six months ago I was about to tell it to two of my friends (a boy and a girl) because we were talking about LGBT, but almost by the time I was about to the them they start saying that they don’t believe in bisexuality, and that may be only in girl’s bisexuality, but not in boy’s. That kind of frustrated me, so that’s the reason why I haven’t tell anyone. Have you deal with something like that?
    Greeting from Mexico!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah it weird how people can think that way

  • @BetancourtAlexander
    @BetancourtAlexander 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny thing I learned something about David Levitz... On Courtney-Jai's channel... From Callum McSwiggan.

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me to I was really surprised by that

  • @Name-dn5gr
    @Name-dn5gr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    New subscriber.. ❤

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Milica Vajagic thanks man hope you enjoy the video

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Milica Vajagic thanks man hope you enjoy the video

  • @israelalcaraz1
    @israelalcaraz1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Was a cool video :) I'm gay I'm proud :)

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We'll be proud of who ever you and what ever you do not just your sexuality because it doesn't define you, you define yourself

  • @madeleine6930
    @madeleine6930 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    When are you going to do a 'girlfriend does my makeup' tag, or any tag that means you have makeup all over your face? Please?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Madeleine I was thinking about it but my girlfriend doesn't really like being on my channel she camera shy and when we did the girlfriend tag she got aload of hate which really pissed me because I thought my subscribers where there for me and not just my sexuality

  • @megabithero
    @megabithero 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You should do it when you want to and you know you're in a safe space

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Couldn't have said it better myself

  • @colelolicato5574
    @colelolicato5574 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both have nice eyebrows :3

    • @camtothemax
      @camtothemax 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I noticed that too!

    • @colelolicato5574
      @colelolicato5574 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** I'm glad I'm not the only one Hahahah

  • @Jonathan.mp4
    @Jonathan.mp4 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    what's the outro music its really cute

    • @Lucas-wr7kg
      @Lucas-wr7kg 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think the original song is called "new soul" but I'm not sure

    • @Jonathan.mp4
      @Jonathan.mp4 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks 💪

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Jonathan Moyetones yeah it's a remix of new soul

  • @samclarke7233
    @samclarke7233 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i totally get callums whole thing of comming out as bi first. However that was because i was only really friends with girls and i didnt think there would be a guy i wanted a relationship with but i knew i wanted to have sex with guys. Anyway love you both keep up the good work

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Tina Coladas yeah I can see how it would be used as a stepping stone

    • @samclarke7233
      @samclarke7233 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really it comes down to we need to get rid of labels and get rid of the need to come out at all

  • @LhizJordn
    @LhizJordn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    New bi sub

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awesome well I hope you like my future videos

  • @Courtney-Jai
    @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heres the link to the video on callums channel th-cam.com/video/zWHPHWfDrFg/w-d-xo.html
    We talk about my coming out experience , how it is to be bisexual , how my parents reacted and how it different to come out bisexual vs being gay

  • @GlitchComputer
    @GlitchComputer 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys were too cute at the end!? haha

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha yeah we had a lot of fun filming this video

  • @azamkhaled7357
    @azamkhaled7357 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am Gay From Saudi Arabia i have no hope to come out to anybody

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe one day you will be able to move from your country and find somewhere a lot more accepting

  • @dubon9999
    @dubon9999 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I send all my love and support to all the LGBT people of the world ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all are important and very valuable even though we live in a world that makes you all believe otherwise. Remember always be proud of who you are 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 You all make from this world a better place ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 LGBT people are a rainbow of love in a world full of hate, but with difference of our straight partners, we all are united over a same flag 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 The flag of LGBT love ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 And we all must be united against hate, violence, discrimination and intolerance ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 We all are like a great family and we must fight to destroy hate ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Remember, LGBT people is love and love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 I don't care about your race, nationality, biological gender, health condition, religion or any other condition ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 If you are an LGBT person you have all my love and my support ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You guys are not alone in this fight and all the LGBT people of all over the world needs to understand this messagge, cause just united we will win against hate and we don't have to allow that nothing divide us. Never feel bad of who you are and never allow that this cruel world change who you really are or turn off your light and your shine ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 You all born that way and remember LGBT people of all the world, at the end, love always wins ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Mumzel
    @Mumzel 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being gay should be so normal that there shouldn't be a need to come out, in my opinion.

    • @TigerPrawn_
      @TigerPrawn_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally agree!

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah it's strange because if you look at Roman culture they weren't into all these label people just did what they wanted it's manly the introduction of religion which changed society

    • @TigerPrawn_
      @TigerPrawn_ 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Courtney-Jai Yeah and in Ancient Greek culture too, thanks Christianity, thanks a lot...

    • @Mumzel
      @Mumzel 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Courtney-Jai You are only labeled today because you don't want to end up with the wrong "gender".

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว

      there no ending up with the wrong gender for me as long as I'm happy I don't mind

  • @buzzbarnes8691
    @buzzbarnes8691 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    It seems like everyone coming out now is calling themselves bisexual. Is this a fad?

    • @Courtney-Jai
      @Courtney-Jai  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well I came out over two years ago so it's not recent but no I guess more people are more open to accepting it