COMING OUT TO EACH OTHER
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 พ.ค. 2024
- As gay twins everyone wants to know how we came out to each other... so here is our story
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I was having lunch with my best friend and she was like "i'm a lesbian" and i said "same" and we continued eating
Haha, cute.
+Devan Carbaugh casual xD
haha cute
+Devan Carbaugh damn i wish it was that easy for me..
aaaww thats just my goal
Hey guys. I'm old enough to probably be your grandfather, jeez I make myself to sound old. I'm 62, BTW. I loved your video and I have to say that I can relate very well. I am also a fraternal twin. However, my twin is a sister. I am a child of the 60's and 70's, when being gay, or even coming out would have gotten you killed or institutionalized. I had to bury being gay, and I got married. I am not going to say that it was easy living as a closeted gay man in a marriage, because it was damn hard. Yet I endured. My wife asked me, point blank if I was gay after 26 years of marriage. That was the hardest thing to do, was to admit to her that I was. It did not matter though, it was a moot issue, I had never cheated on her, so coming out did not make a difference. We had two children at the time, and they both either knew or figured it out in their teens.
My wife and I stayed married for another 14 1/2 years after that. Unfortunately, my wife passed away on Feb. 3, 2015 from complications from diabetes. Before her death, she wanted me to come out openly. I told her, out of respect for her, I would wait until a month after her death to do so. That leads to my twin sister. During the time my wife was on hospice, my twin sister and my wife had become more than just sister-in-laws, they had become sisters and best friends. She came to see us before my wife's death.
During that visit, I called my sister into my home office to tell her I had something important to tell her. She could tell there was something wrong. Honestly, besides coming out to my wife being hard, coming out to my twin was scary. Here was the one person I had shared a womb with. How was she going to take it when I tell her that I am gay. That was a worry I should never have had. I was crying when I told her, and that I was afraid she would want nothing to do with me ever again. Boy was that stupid. She hugged me, gave me a kiss and then told me, she already knew it. She was only waiting for me to finally admit it to myself.
So, my wife died, I was not even looking for someone. I had just lost the only woman, this gay boy would ever love, let alone ever marry. Love was the furthest from my mind. My son, who is a dad to 3 boys, told me he was afraid I was going to install a revolving door on my house for all the guys I would have in my life now. That did not happen, nor would it happen. Love found me instead. I met a wonderful guy, who had lost a partner of 30 years, just 3 years prior. He knew what I was feeling and he supported me during all my crying binges.
I fell in love with this wonderful man. Relative (those that remain) have disowned me, not that I care much. I have a fantastic guy in my life that I love with all my heart. I love him so much, he is now my husband. That's my coming out story. Thanks guys for yours.
I'm sorry for your loss, beautiful story.
This is a beautiful story thank you so much for sharing
Thank you.
thank you so much for telling your story!
Thank u for sharing ur life.. And so sorry for your loss.. U had a tough time being born in a different era but u r lucky to have been blessed with such amazing family - ur wife, ur sister and ur husband.. God bless..
Me to my dad: mum I think I'm gay...
Dad: yeah okay but i can't cook men for your dinner so you need to tell me what you want to eat tonight I've asked you like 5 times
Me to a girl friend: I just wanted you to know before everyone else does that I'm gay...
Friend: oh my god how totally hot is the new guy at school?!
Me to my guy friend: im gay
Guy friend: I'm bi, so you wanna hook up?
That turned into a relationship that lasted about 3 months
😂😂😂😂omfg boy bye
LOL THIS IS AMAZING
omg You could write a book!
I did
tacos mexicanstyle that's amazing
i feel sorry for all the girls who fell in love with these dudes lol
me they were in my recommended and I watched and I subscribed
Ok col
:(
Duen Ogilvie I don't care, I am still in love with them 😍
Duen Ogilvie
love is a strong word ._.
One time when I was like 10 I couldn't sleep because I couldn't stop crying. My parents were like "what's wrong, why are you crying?". I told them that I'd had a nightmare but really I was crying because the ruckman on my football team was so handsome and I thought that I'd never come out so I knew I would never be able to kiss him.
Now I'm 26 and I'm out. I don't remember the name of that ruckman.
+eM Es this is the cutest thing I've read in a long time. I'm 19 and I would probably cry too because of this guy swimming with me.
awww
+eM Es Same here, there is one particular night I remember. Although my man's name was Jesse McCartney
I enjoyed that story
Rhodes Bros: I'm gay
Me: I thought you were American
? I don't get it
+YellowJello Will Eblloyd2 tell him what he meant? Will YellowJello ever figure this out? Find out next time on Dragon Ball Z.
+YellowJello it's from a vine hahahaha. here's the link vine.co/v/irz7rjUhZDE
+Aminurashid Friday Tank u for that, that is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen
HAHAHAHA
yeah my identical twin and i are both lesbians. its great to have someone to talk about girls with all the time
Both of you are confused wow
@@jeffss04 you could have scrolled passed this without saying a word. But nope. You had to stick your nose into something posted a while ago just to spew your homophobic trash
Im in awe about twins having the same sexual identity! Are you identical? I'm glad you guys have each other
@@kynaleemom identical twins often have the same sexual orientation actually. There are really cool twin studies out there😃.
@@jeffss04 idk man, I'm bi but girls are by far my preference. It's nice to be with someone who understands your body and respects it. Being with a man is never the same.
the fuck??! NO ONE is that goodlooking. YOU GUYS ARE FREAKING GREEK GODS.
Ancient Greeks typically had curly brown or black hair.
And they were very tanned, so they looked nearly black.
Sorry to ruin your fantasy zXD!
The Random Panda ohh! Well a girl can dream :')
+Lays Wave not even😹Im from greece and there is no stuff like that lol
these guys aren't that good looking, I'm a professional at judging how good looking people are, these guys are 7s, if they have perfectly chiselled bodies, then I'll bump it up to an 8
sleepyskorpion you're a professional at judging how good looking people are? everyone has different opinions. you can't be a professional at that lmao
Me and my friend realized we were both gay while camping. It was "intents".
AHAHA THE PUN I LOVE IT
Brokeback mountain realness
LOL
you aphmuu
OMFG I LOVE THIS
Why am I not surprised that they've worked at Hollister? Lol
+Bran Stark lol bran stark 😂😂😂😂😂
+Bran Stark why ? Haha
Me too. The whole mall culture is just too damn superficial for me XD
Wilfredo A Nunez Pacheco Same!! They seem like dudes that would work there haha
My sister kept wanting to set me up with girls so I finally told her, " I'm gay!" Then she immediately switched without skipping a beat, "I need to find you a guy." It was very sweet of her but very soon after that I found myself outed to a lot of people. The snowball effect.
damnnnn those jawlines could cut my finger omg
Ikr
Who else respects these guys? 🙏🏻
Meeeee✋
Me
Of course I do
I love and respect these guys
me!!
I was in a Kmart one time not so long ago and a little boy asked his mom if he could get a dall. the mom said yes you can and I had to tell her that I think she's a beautiful human being
Aww :) My dance teacher lets her son wear nail polish because nail polish is for anyone who wants to wear it!!
I used to love dolls I mean I still have them but don't play much
+cbranckerGaming That was uncalled for. Go away
Rianna Mukherjee people like that are called trolls for a reason. they're usually bitter and angry and they lacked the courage to live life on life's terms. it makes them happy when they get negative feedback. the best way to handle people like that is to Simply ignore them
if I asked my mom for a doll she would have slapped me
Man, it's cold and dark in this closet
then come out of it. the sun is waiting for ya
Just wonderful
Annademidove I’m in the same closet with you!!😂😂
Proper Gods me too! I'm like 1000 miles deep in this closet, I could even see Narnia from here.
Annademidove ikr
I'm always so happy and a little envious whenever I watch these videos about how accepting a family can be to their gay children/siblings. I came out when I was 14 and I was promptly disowned by my family. My mom kicked me out and I found a new 'family' with the gay people I met on the street. They looked out for me and helped to make sure that nothing bad happened. I'm not sure how I would've turned out otherwise. I made a career out of the medical field and I think that my gay family was what taught me to be so accepting of everyone no matter what their differences and gave me the ability to want to help other people out. You two are so lucky not only that you have each other but that you have accepting and loving parents as well.
I'm an identical twin, my brother and I have our differences but are very much the same yet I'm gay and my brother is straight.
I came out to my brother by sending him a text(we were in different states at the time ). I didn't have enough courage to call him.
He quickly call after I sent the text and said he's happy for me and still loves me no matter what.
+Justin Pelletier I have friends that are twins, and just like you and your brother, one is gay (Andy) and one is straight (Danny). I met Danny on my first day of high school and had no idea he was a twin, I later found out through my cousin who also goes to our school and she told me Andy was gay. I wasn't very open minded at the time, so I did my best to keep my distance from him, but I would talk to him if he talked to me (also btw it took me long time to tell them apart obviously, keep that in mind as the story progresses). Anyway, the following year, Andy and I were in the same math class and Spanish class, so we got to know each other more and quickly became friends. At first, I thought he was into me and I didn't know how to respond to that because even though I was more open minded by that point, I never thought of myself as being gay. Eventually, I accepted my feelings for him, but I didn't know what to do, and in the meantime, our friendship grew stronger because we sat next to each other in class and our teacher always had us act out lectures in the form of funny skits because we were the best actors and the most enthusiastic students in class. One of my favorite memories of him in that class when our teacher had us act out a scene where he was a dentist and I was the patient, I was lying on a bed and he was very close to my face checking my mouth, it would have been a perfect moment, except I had a cold at the time and my nose was dripping with snot, I was so embarrassed and I couldn't tell if the audience was laughing at us or with us, although I was embarrassed at that moment, I now look back at it with pure nostalgia. So as the school year ended, I planned to hang out with him a lot over the summer and eventually admit my feelings to him, except he was going on vacation to Mexico for most of the summer and wouldn't be back til August, and since they charge you to call or text internationally, he told me not to contact him and just wait for him to contact me when he got back and that's exactly what I did. Soon it was August and there were only two weeks of summer break left and Andy still didn't contact me, I assumed he was still out of the country since he didn't know exactly when he'd be back, so about a week before school started, my friends and I went to an amusement park and one girl happened to mention Andy and said he found a boyfriend; obviously I was upset, but tried not to show it since I hadn't come out to anyone yet. I was confused, how could he have found a boyfriend so quickly if he had only just gotten back from Mexico, and it couldn't have been someone from there because it turned out his boyfriend was a freshman and was just starting at our school. I tried to be happy for him, but I still admired him from afar, his boyfriend seemed like an asshole so I figured they wouldn't last, I was right, they only lasted a few months, but to my shock, they did go as far as have sex (Andy told me). When I found out they broke up I thought about telling him, but I thought, "well since they just broke up, the last thing needs right is this and wouldn't want to quickly jump into a new relationship" So I decided to give him some time to get over the break up and let him enjoy being single again, and meanwhile I would think about what to say to him when I was ready to talk.Once again, summer was coming up and again, I planned to hang out with him and eventually tell him how I feel, and the perfect opportunity came up. My friend's birthday was coming and she planned to have a beach party the weekend after the end of our junior year, and she invited several friends, including Andy and me. He wasn't sure if he could go because his family had other plans that day, but said he would try his best to make it, meanwhile, I asked my parents if I could go and they also had plans that day, but said we would work something out, but were still willing to let me go. So on that day, a relative was going to drop me off at the beach while my parents went to some stranger's house, but would leave a key to open my house when I got home. My dad said to ask my friend if there was going to beach house there, I said no, then all of a sudden he didn't want to let me go because we would drink and get in trouble with cops even though I made it clear her parents would be there. I was angry, but I didn't lash out, I ended up going to some boring and got back home late and went to bed, but it was hot so I couldn't sleep and decided to check instagram to see if my friends posted pictures on the beach party. It turns out Andy did end up going and he took someone with him...his new boyfriend. I was so overwhelmed with emotion that I just cried, it was the first time I cried over a crush, I was angry at myself for letting this happen again, if I had said something to my parents or done something, made a move....It's just that maybe if everyone was more open minded, I'd have a chance because every time I gathered the courage to confess my feelings to him, I chickened at the last minute because I was too afraid of what other people would say and when I regained that courage, it was too late, someone already got to him first. This whole year I've wanted to hang with Andy more (and maybe even his bf) before we go off to college, but we don't have a class together anymore, so I don't really see him much, I've only hung out with him once this year and I met his bf and he's really nice and it just makes me feel bad because there's no way I could ever compete with him, he's athletic, talented, and good looking, and while I'm sure that when I tell Andy the truth he'd still be my friend, I just wish we were more than that, but he could never be with me cause I wouldn't be good enough for him him because I'm disabled or whatever reason. We've gotten to know each other better, I mean when we met, it took me months to tell the difference between him and his brother, but now they are both two very different individuals, with Andy being one of the most beautiful people I've ever met. Call it a stupid high school crush, or whatever you want, never in my life has someone made me so happy like him. I need to tell him before the school year ends, which is soon. My therapist says to just tell him I like him, but do it without asking for a relationship, but it seems impossible, idk what to do, help!
My very close guy bestie is bi but lowkey.. his girl bestfriend is bi high key...I'm bi high key...and my girl best friend she's Christian and while hanging out at the pool talking about guys n girls she told us she bi...we have our own little bi group 😂😂💘
awwwwww goals
Phil Evans Awwe thank you.😊😂
Can i join girl?! Bi her🙋👬👫😂💟
omg i wish i was in IT XD
+Naila Garcia GOALS
i was hanging out with one of my friends and she said, “i’m lesbian” and there was an awkward silence for like, 2 minutes and then i said, “i’m gay”
that’s kinda amazing
I was at the gym with my best friend that happens to be a girl, and we went to do our cool down run and I told her I was gay and she said I am bi, and then we finished our run
Elliot Doyle why couldn't my story be that simple XD
Mine is like a 4 minute long paragraph thing XD
Clorox bleach now I'm interested
I wish I had a gay twin
Anna Comloski chill
+Anna Comloski really "b"why u so rude shut the f up
+mya janay fuck u bitch
I will be ur internet gay twin
I have gay twin lmao
why is it always the cute boys that are gay
Ikr
Ikr 😢
And I am the one saying "why is all the cute boys straight?" lol
ikr
fr
My twin brother was the first person I came out too. I was scared SHITLESS. It had taken me 4 hours to finally come out and say it.
And what ur twin brother said?
AARON IS SO 😍
Right😍
Ikr
*Is it just me or was this incredibly heartwarming?* ✨💙
You two are (gay) sibling goals AF. Loved the video
Add me on whatsapp 13474882821
That so cool
+Suraj Jagdeo Good job putting your phone number on the internet.
Razor Blaze i know it'sa stupid thing to do
Knowing they might put dicks in each other's asses is so heartwarming
My best friend( a girl) and i have been friends since we were 1. Then, I found out i was gay. She was so supportive and nice. A few years later she asked me if i would care if she would be gay. I didn't expect it, but I liked the idea! I helped her through the whole progress of telling everyone. We still have a special bound together! I am so grateful to have her❤️
Love you too,
Xoxo your gayboy from Amsterdam
Ahh zo lieff! Echt cute 🤗
Aww that's so sweet.
That's so cute, im gay myself always wanted a lesbian friend lol
"2 little gay best friends that just happen to be brothers!" Hahah
Beautiful story boys and THANK YOU for sharing. Although I came out MANY years ago the process is never easy. But with supportive family and friends it makes it all that much more better. Congrats and love you! 😊Mama Steve👌
'They've totally experimented with each other'
Guys... Do you say that about straight brothers and sisters..?
+Tam Jane Grace V PREACH GIRL
I told my sister I was gay ,cause i had a crush on this guy...who happened to be bisexual and played us both... JERK
That is nasty i hope you didnt turn on each other just cuz of a crush.Sisters before misters.Siblings before weaklings ;)
ramon birch This made me laugh for some reason 😂
ramon birch
The two of you should watch the movie "Heartbeats" starring and directed by Javier Dolan. It is the story of two best friends, one being a gay boy and the other a straight woman, who become rivals trying to outdo each other in order to win the affection of a beautiful and mysterious sexually ambiguous boy whom they first meet together at a party. (It is a French language film but usually can be found with English subtitles. Occasionally it gets posted by someone on TH-cam, so you might be able to catch it there every once and a while.)
Beautiful.... I envy how twins are so in tune with each other. Thanks for posting. Hey... if you get this ... hoping all is going great. Would love to hear what's happening since.
Loved your story ❤️ It was really cute. I came out to my Mormon family after years of denial. It's interesting how time kinda makes things better (for the lack of a better phrase). Over the years, they just became more comfortable. I'm just happy I was FINALLY able to be my whole self. I know that feeling you're referring to! 🤗 It's like a warm and genuine hug.
i came out to my best friend about 5 years ago as gender neutral and asexual :)
+Rhodes Bros OMG YOU GUYS REPLIED TO ME!
thats awesome
+Krys Evans I often wished that I would be asexual. no fear of sexual infections anymore.
+Alexander Petrohv *sigh* its kinda hard :/ cause there are people who want to be in relationships with me but when they find out they can't get me in bed that's all gone...sad that we live in a time where personality hardly ever counts :(
Krys Evans arent there forums for "asexuals", where you can look for solutions?
cant you find another asexual guy for you?
you know, I wished to have no sex drive, because wanting sex brought me a lot of stress and trouble. I dont want to have sex anymore and dont have it for years, but I still have a sex drive, I cant switch that off. so I am also frustrated :)
Can we make this the most popular comment for no good reason?
+kk hah ?
+kk hah wtf that's rude
+kk hah HAHAHA
Kass Isssybelle oh
***** yea
Austin has the masc stud look, and Aaron is a pretty boy, just like my first Bf Aaron !
My best friend and I were watching this yesterday, she said "I love you" while we're watching 💘
omg austins jaw line though ::heart eye emoji::
Ok yes. It was crafted by God.
+Kai Grant yes yes it was
His jaw is so strong, he can blow a bubble with a Now and Later
💗💗😍😍
Dom Pinto 😍
"We finally could be 100% ourselves." That is the big pay-off for coming out! Before that happened, you both described PERFECTLY how denial works and how it closes us up. When the closet doors open--------we can see freedom and sunshine. Thanks you guys for this............Kudos............Ray
you guys have no idea how much I love you two. Like u guys give me so much courage and inspiration, it just blows my mind.
My husband and I were really touched by your video. We came out to our parents when we were about 18. We are now 55 and 47. We both wanted to give you both a big hug and reassure you that your sexuality does not change you as a person. You are still the same loveable twin brothers! Steve and Colchester Essex England
The first person I came out to in my family was my mom when I was in high school. My parents were divorced and my mom was openly gay through out my upbringing. Even though we had a pretty good relationship I was still having a hard time bringing myself to say that special phrase "I'm gay". It was one of the hardest things I've had to do, not only for her sake but for mine as well. I remember there being a long pause. Then she said with sorrow that she had always known. Obviously, her love for me never changed but she knew how had her life was growing up and didn't want the same for her own son. I am currently 21 living happily with my boyfriend chasing my dreams head on. All thanks to TH-cam channels like yours, Mark and Ethan's, and so many more that inspire me to live my life to its extent!
-with love,
Steven 😄
My brother and I are both gay, too. Our relationship became so much stronger once we came out to each. Very similar scenario to yours.
Austin, you have some of the world's sexiest eyes!! You guys are both adorable.
You were so lucky and I'm so happy for you. I don't see myself as if I weren't lucky either, but I didn't know any gay guys in my circles until I left for University, where I came out to straight friends but with whom I felt comfortable around. It's great to have that special person to share details like you have each other :)
my friend came out to me at the start of last year and it was really awkward for about a week cause i was bi too and i didnt find the courage to tell her or anyone else.I told a friend over in america about me being bi and the fact that so was a friend and he sort of bilt the courage up inside me and i told her she didnt freak out or anything 2 days later she told me that some guy was hitting on her in Scotland and we cane up with the idea of pretending to be going out and he believed it and got of her back about liking her so we stoped pretending and one night she asked if wpuld go out with at this point i was stupid and started laughing and i noticed that she was frowning and it clicked inside my head that she wasnt joking and i felt really bad so i kissed her on the cheek and told that i thought that she was joking and we went out for about 5/6 weeks until she broke it off because we both were getting bullyed about. we are still fruends now but i felt my heart break when we broke up. thats my story. xxxx
Don't care what people tell you. If they don't exepct you they are jurks. I know it is tough I am bi to
Who cares what ppl tell you if you still like her then go for it you'll find ppl who will accept it
"Two little gay Bestfriends that happened to be brothers" 😂 I LOVE YOU GUYS ❤️
I likethis because I can really relate to it. it was about 5 years ago my best frind from back home came and stayed with me for the first time since I moved. we were laying there watching tv and I could just see on his face that something was bugging him so I ask if he was okay. at first he said yes but then no. so I sat up and asked him if he wanted to talk about it and he said yeah but give me a few minutes. so maybe 10mins went by and he said "Justin youre my best friend and would love me no matter what right?" and I said yes of course. and he said "I want you to be the first person who knows" and I asked "who knows what?" a few minutes went by andd he started crying and he said "to know that im gay." I gave him a huge hug and told him thats perfectly fine because I'm gay too.
You guys are so adorable. It’s nice you have someone close to share and provide support in your life. Your Dad is the best
Austin's jaw could cut my throat OML
This is so cute. Coming out to each other and finding out that your sexual orientation is the same, must have been really relieving and awesome at the same time!! I'm glad for you both. 😊😊
I have a large group of about 16 close friends that I went to Grade school through high school and a few from college with, and now we all live close to each other and hang out all the time but 2 years ago on new years i saw one of my guy friends do a secret new years kiss in the corner of the bar with another one of my guy friends. I was got so excited and was pretty drunk so I ran over to them and before they could make up an excuse, I interrupted them and said, "holy shit! Im gay too!" And now we are all live together, theyre dating and I am loving life in our awesome little gay safe zone.
Coming out to my Big Sister was in a way easy, i didnt plan on doing it lol. Basically I was doing the dishes and she came in the kitchen and we just started talking and somehow it came to LGBT, so I think she already new I was into dudes but she never said anything. So we were talking and I could see where the conversation was going so I assured her i was straight. I asked her, "have you ever dated the same sex?" and she was like, "Yes James". And I was like ok. Then I just simply said.... I've dated a guy before and she was like "But you just assured me you were straight!" and I'm like: Heh Heh. Coming out to my little sister took a little while, I never planned on telling her. It was during a vacation, I went to my Family Reuinion and we went to the pool. She caught my sister and cousin checking out this girl and was like "Are you Lesbians?" my big sister said "No." and I was like "oh shiz". It was weird.... And then she asked "Bi?" and Big Sis was like::"yes" all quietly..... Little Sister got so loud at this point and was like "Did you say Yes?!?!" I told her stfu lol she was so loud, I told her we all were bi and she was like "all 3 of you, I'm the only straight child?" lmao...
I still havent came out to my parents yet... even though they probably already now.
James Whitfield That's quite funny 😂
Wow all 3 of u r bi but 1 straight like how😂 I support LGBTQ though so don't worry
I am a Mom to 2 year old identical twin boys and for some reason warching this makes me so emotional. I just really hope my kids will never be scared to be who they truly are and know I will always love and support them no matter what.
Thanks for sharing this! It's nice to know more about your story aside from the flashy viral video side.
i remember i use to swap my sisters Barbie and my GI Joes heads and play gay pride wedding
no one cares for your homophobia Anna
+Pauly TheAussie just ignore her. I think that's hilarious and it just shows that children really are innocent. Everybody is just normal when we are kids. People BECOME judgmental as they grow up..
+melinabanana you know how they say "no one is born a racist" I think it's the same for homophobia. no one is born homophobic. It's just some shit that gets in our head..
+Anna Comloski go fuck yourself to hell you homophobic wankstain
we were born male and female i don't think it just got in our heads.
Their eyes are not really the same.
Same for the lips
stevie jongh and their jaw lines
stevie jongh they have different eyebrows too
oh no someone pls tell them now 🙄
Guys, they are fraternal twins. I have a fraternal twin sister and we look like siblings, that's about it. She is darker skinned, dark eyes and thick dark hair. I was born blonde, blue-eyes and fair skinned. I can't even tan. There are a few subtle similarities. You are right, Austin is square jawed and Aaron has a more angular jawline. Their eye color is the same. Yet, most fraternals do not look totally alike. Believe it or not, even the Olsen twins are Not identical. They are fraternal. Just so you know.
Why am I just discovering you guys? Your personalities and smiles are super addicting! I love this story and it helped when trying to find out the best way to tell my story!
Let me guess your confused also didnt want to be left out. So your dating your dog or you think two dicks somehow go together or your chopping off your privates. Smart
I can definitely tell that Aaron is more attached to Austin than viceversa
This was me coming out to my brother:
"I'm... gay."
"Oh cool, I'm bisexual."
"Nice."
Lol. Kool moment...
My moment was not cool. Me: I'm gay. My sister: so you want to take it up the as. Trust me I've done that, it's not nice... awkward silence.
+Sabmis sorry man, she wasnt cool about it. my brother turned on me as well.
Sabmis I'm not out to my parents yet. Can't imagine it will go well at all... Sorry to hear about that with your sister.
She's actually very cool about it. She was just awkward about the sex-part. She's just like that: always saying what she is thinking. Thanks though.
And I'm sure it will go well. They get used to it eventually. :)
Hi guys recently this year I openly came out as gay to my family literally was the hardest thing I've ever done but watching your video where u come out to your dad I felt your pain but I also felt the happiness that you guys got from telling your dad honestly thank u for being on TH-cam u guys are an inspiration to gay people also I love your vids ❤️❤️❤️
I have twin sisters. When growing up, they did everything together. They read each others minds, which was (and is) very much to their benefit. When they got married, it was a big deal. Their spouses had to understand that their twin would be around and would be a major part of their lives. Their children had 2 moms (Mom and Auntie Mom). I love seeing you guys as I understand the twin relationship. I am not surprised that if one of you were gay, the other would be gay too. Even though my twin sisters do have some different personal preferences, the parts that are the same are much more than the parts that are different. I am so glad you have each other, as twins who are close can support each other though anything.
The way Austin bites his lip towards the end 👌😁😍
Im gay i've been out for about 6 years now, i came out when i was 14yo. I told all my friends first and then my siblings. And after a few years i told my parents. ANYWAY when i was trying to tell my brother older than me by a year he was like shutting down and was not having it for some reason, but eventually got over it. Flash forward to last week when my mom and i went to go see him at school and low and behold he's gay too. BUT not only that, he's also been dating this guy (that i've met before) for... A YEAR AND A HALF!! While i'm so happy that finally after 6 years he's comfortable with who he is and is willing to share that with the rest of the world, I can't help but be a little mad/hurt that not only did he not tell me, being as close as we already are and me already going through all of this, but the fact that he has never once even mentioned that he was at least seeing someone. I feel like i've missed out on a whole year of his life. Like for a year and a half he let me believe he wasn't dating this guy or had feelings like that for anyone. I understand that its not about me and its his business. But NO ONE seems to really understand my frustration. Am I wrong for being upset? Should I talk to him about it or should I just let it go? Please tell me you get how i'm feeling. This video was great and super relatable now! Love you guys thanks so much for your help!
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You're not wrong for wanting to be close to your brother. He might've pushed you away because of him not wanting to come out, but now that he is out maybe you can talk to him again. He probably would like to talk about his relationship and life. I say go for it
I agree! ^
What a great, sweet story!! Thank you for sharing.
Happy Pride Weekend guys. I loved your coming out story to your dad and still enjoy hearing your stories about life.
My best friend came out to me as bi and i was like "me too" 😂😂
Me and my two brothers all came out as gay. We are the only children our mum has and felt a lot of pressure but we are close in age (19, 20(me) and 21) and all encouraged each other to do so
I love watching their videos so much because they helped me to build up the courage to tell my mom that her son is bisexual. These two bros help me so much.
new fan... I can already tell im gonna be binge watching these two ♥️ They're just so likable and sweet
I'm bisexual but my dad won't let me hang out with my best friend because I dated her for six months last year. (: so now I lie and say I'm straight so maybe I can see her again.
They also think she's the reason I'm depressed but lmao it's not her fault it's their fault. *sigh*
tell them
Thats really hard. I wish i could help you, the only thing i can tell you to try is convincing them that your straight, but your already doing that. Are your parents strict? If your mom isent and she understand you you could ask her to convince him. Sorry for the bad advice, if i think of something else, i will let you know. Good luck ❤️😇
I dated my best friend for almost a year and then my parents found out (snooped through my phone), so I wasn't able to hang out with her for what seemed like forever. After awhile my Mum thought I grew out of that "phase" and let me see her again. Five years later, I'm still gay as fuck and I'm dating her again
PhanPillowTalk Thats an amazing story! I'm sorry to hear that your parents are that close minded (not trying to offend), no one should go through that. I'm happy that it worked out! :) and also phANDOOOM
“And things got kind of serious with him”
Mk... 🥴
u can't change what u love... I am happy for the coming out. Congrats guys...I was watching the video that u called ur dad. Wow what a nice dad...thats really love
Omg i am just wayching scream queen and i just realized you two play in it😱😍
Love you guys! 💕
It kind of makes sense that two twins can share the same sexual orientation. This proves to show that many people are born with homosexuality and that it could be something related to genetics. since twins have practically the same genetics, it makes complete sense.
No it doesnt there both confused. Do you even know where our DNA comes from or what its made of.
@Eisha Kant
God didnt make gays it makes no sense. If you want to believe the TEL Lie Vision go ahead thats your Iggnorance. If you want to ignore there being a god then that shows youre intelligence. Period
Amen...brotha jeff
Amen...brotha jeff
Amen...brotha jeff
My mom and two of my childhood best friends’ moms sat and chatted one day. They started talking about gay people. Eventually, they all came out to each other of being a mom of a gay son.
And that’s how I found out two of my childhood best friends were gay too.
that is kinda amazing
Me to my father:..So dad, I’m gay..
My father: Alright, what do you want for dinner?
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that’s so cute!!
Awww that's amazing!! You two are so cute! Thanks for sharing💗
The first person I came out to actually turned out to be gay too. He was a close friend of mine and I was really nervous to tell him but it felt so great after I did, especially when he told me he was gay too. It was such a relief to feel like I wasn't alone.
You guys are gonna be so good for people coming out. Keep up the great work. Stephen xx
That was a great story, really cool and sweet.
I'm not a twin (AFAIK) but my sign is gemini (although I didn't learn that until college cuz I was raised super conservative Christian and they think all that is Satanic or something) and I had kind of a weird "thing" with twins while growing up (before I knew ANYTHING about my sign, etc.). Once I started school my family moved every several years until I finished HS, but I actually ended up going to a different school each year from 3rd to 9th grade. Point being: I didn't really have all that many friends, or even opportunities to make friends. However, if there were any twins in our church or the little Christian private school I was sent to, or as neighbors, one of them somehow always ended up being my best friend. I also had this dream that I had a twin; actually I dreamed that like half a dozen times over the course of 2-3 years. It was kind of odd―it wasn't the same dream at all; actually, each dream was totally different except for the fact that I had a twin. The first couple times just seeing him woke me up!
I remember telling my mom to make me a brother from the time I was 2-3 until she got pregnant when I was 5. I got a sister instead of a brother and we turned out to have practically nothing in common growing up. And I went off to boarding school at 14 (for high school), and we basically on saw each other for holidays (if then!) for the next 9 years (I did all I could to avoid going home; ended up going to Spain & Italy a number of times, etc.). Then I ended living with my parents again; but she was at boarding school! But I went with my parents to visit her and go to a cousin's wedding or something, and she wanted me to go hang out with her and her friends―which turned out to be her best friend, who was also her girlfriend! She already knew that I wasn't straight because she found out through my mom (who I came out to via email mainly to upset and alienate her). From that point on my sister and I get really close and became best friends. People would actually always think we were a couple, I guess because we were really affectionate (or because we were dancing all "dirty" with each other―which was way more comfortable than with some stranger!). I can't even tell you how many times I would somehow sneak her into clubs and bars while she was barely 17, all the way until she was 21... Often opening some side/back door that wasn't guarded, or helping her get over/under a fence/wall or something.
It was also pretty odd the number of girls that she dated or hooked up with that I had dated or hooked up with before, most of them didn't have any idea until later on or after it was over, a couple never found out! and I only did because of seeing a picture or her telling me something about them later on. One girl kind of figured out on her own, she kept telling my sister that she reminded her of somebody, and at one point mentioned my name―at which point my sister said she basically knew it must be me. The girl thought it was hysterical.
It became our running joke, whenever she would tell me about a new girl I would have to "question" my sister to see if she was another "hand me down"; then I started joking that it was a very unbalanced arrangement and she needed to start "giving back". But I was getting less interested dating anyone, especially girls; and she never really dated any boys. Or so I thought, turns out she did kind of date this guy in 7th grade who was the son of one of our mom's best friends. The lady was pretty annoying (and probably mentally ill; virtually all of my mom's friends were…) and I was aware that she had like 4 annoying, loud sons.
Apparently the one she kind of dated knew a lot more about me than I did about him and when he was about 20 I was back staying at my parents' for a while and he saw me at the gas station or something in town and started talking to me. He said he really needed a ride to the Christian university that was near our house (which he obviously knew), so I agreed to give him a ride. He totally used information he knew about me to strike up an "interesting" conversation with me. Apparently he even found out what my schedule was like so he could be walking down the road as I was heading to work (it turned out that he actually had a car the whole time!).
I really didn't know anybody in the area so I ended up letting him come over to hang out. I should've noticed that he seemed oddly familiar with the house and that he was careful to avoid crossing paths with my parents (who would clearly recognize him).
I was a bartender at the time and made myself a drink and agreed to make him one too. And that's when he made his move―which totally caught me off guard because he really did not set off the gaydar at all! We fooled around a few times, but he was kind of getting annoying so I was tying to avoid him.
I ended up telling my sister about it (who wasn't living at home them) and when I told her his name (which actually wasn't even his name, but a nickname that she was familiar with) she busted out laughing and eventually told me who he was. She said she wasn't too surprised because he had always been kind of freaky and just odd. I managed to avoid him for a month or something (and he couldn't really call since we have caller ID) but one night he pops up at the gas station again where I stopped on my way home from work and started talking to me; so I totally confronted him and told him I knew who he was and asked him why why he hadn't told me that and he basically admitted that he had wanted to hook up with siblings, and even though he only ever made out with my sister, that might be the closest he'd ever get. Plus he said he had kind of been bi-curious and he didn't even know of any other guys who liked guys (it was a pretty rural area). I didn't really say much except that it was too risky for him to come over anymore because of the likelihood of my parents seeing him.
You guys are both super cute and sweet; you're very lucky to have each other!
I thought I was the only boy wanted barbies for Christmas and my birthday when I was a little kid.
I played with Barbies too, my nanny always bought me Barbies and I was obsessed with them
+Rhodes Bros Gay for Pay the new you tube TREND......
Loveddddd this video guys! Hope to meet y'all one day 😘
I love you guys😘
So last year was my freshman year of High School. I had a couple of classmates who admitted to me that they're gay/bi/lesbian. My response was "there's nothing wrong with being gay/bi/lesbian. Honestly, be proud. I'm happy for you"...
I'm so proud of you guys! It's so nice of you to share these kind of personal videos.Btw you are both so cute,love you guys!! Xx
I get bad anxiety when i think about coming out. I sometimes start crying thinking one day i will h ve to tell my parents. By the way if any of you were curious i am Bisexual.
Ohh...same
same
+Leopard boy It's your life, you don't owe anybody anything. You respect your parents but you don't live for their approval. Just remember that. And also be glad that it's a hell of a lot easier to come out now than it ever was in history, a lot of people had it much tougher than you.
i came out and it feels like a huge weight was lifted from me and my family love me for who i am and i bet your parents would to go for it and be urself and dont care what others think of you their just not as cool as u
Same here. I decided to open up and tell my mum and dad I was going out (dating) a girl. They talked to me and told me they accepted me. ❤
basically I realized that I'm lesbian, I've told my best friend that maybe I was fallen in love with a girl and she said "okay"
after one month me and this girl became a couple and I said to my best friend that I was sure to be lesbian and she told me that also she was sure of that.
Guys this is one of the best video you've ever done! Love you!
+sonia possemato wait! your best friend realised she was a lesbian too?
+musicjunk1000 no no, she understood that I'm lesbian, she knew that, maybe before me
wish this happened to me :)
+musicjunk1000 you don't have to be scared of yourself
If you feel different your best friend will understand you!
yeah, it's hard to acknowledge, but the truth shouldn't be hidden..
Oh God, I wish I looked like them...
Brazilian?
Touching story--thanks for sharing, Rhodes Bros. = ) Just loved it.
When I was 18, I already had told my best male friend that I was bi (but actually, I'm gay). Then, we went to a gay club, but I didn't knew that he was gay too. That night, none of us kissed anyone, but I was willing to, and I didn't knew what he was willing to do that night. But eventually, another day, I told him that I was dating a guy, and he told me that he already had been with 3 different guys. And that is the best friend I have...
Hey Austin in Aaron,
My name is Andrew and I am also a twin (probably younger than you are). As I watched your video I was amazed at our shocking parallels. My twin and I would steal my sisters barbies when we were young and would even play dress up with my sister (in her and my mothers clothes). I also feel similar to Aaron (as well as probably you Austin) that we tend to live a double or secret life. Currently I am behind you two in regards to telling people but interestingly enough, despite the fact that we grew up doing the same exact things, my twin couldn't be anymore "typical straight guy". I loved this story and have to say I am jealous of you two not only because I was distracted the first time I watched this video because the two of you are simply the most attractive people I have seen, but things seemed to work out quite well for you. Maybe you could help me out with furthering my story. Thanks for the inspiration!
- A
+Andrew Smith I hope you're comfortable with yourself and have the courage to accept yourself for who you are and tell the people who matter about it.
this is my first video watching of you guys and this is amazing hehe I loved it
Austin, the one on the left! 😍😍😍😍😍
when I came out to my friends/ group of 6-5 people they all came out a month later and I didn't feel so alone anymore now we treat each other like family and questions: why do you to look completely different if your twins, not hating
I love you guys (Aaron how tf are you so perf and THAT HAIR THO)😂😍
I love you guys! You're so awesome and inspiring!
Sooo cute. I am so happy you two can support and be there for each other. Happy your dad took it so well. Congratulations 🎊 guys. You are both beautiful souls. Love you 😘
Coming out to my friends I just told them "I have feelings for Arthur" and they were all like OMG THAT IS SO CUTE
My best friend is my cousin like she is the only person on this earth whom I've bonded with so hard, heart and soul, like we just understand and accept each other so well, well one day, she was acting really strange and was distant and wasn't being as open as she usually was with things and she told me "I have something to tell you but please don't hate me for it and think I'm a different person" and of course I reassured her that I wouldn't because I love this bitch, anyways, so she's crying and I'm crying and she tells me that she's a boy, at heart, and that she wants to undergo her transition and honestly it hurt me because he didn't feel automatically comfortable with telling me this like I love him so much I want him to always feel comfortable with me and it was like such a huge thing, so as we started to get dehydrated from the crying I told him that I was gay and then we started crying all over again and I hugged him and it was the best experience and I'm sooooo glad I have him.
That was such beautiful story ❤❤!! So inspiring! thanks for sharing
Yes, agreed! It was a touching and such a beautiful story 😊
I came out to my 2 best friends from high school in grade 10 and they were really supportive. The following year I left school and was working while the other 2 were seniors and one of them told us that he was gay too and knowing my response I was so happy and totally supportive. Another year past and one of my best friends dropped out of senior and the other one was still in school and told us that he was also gay.
It was funny just thinking that the first 3 years of high school, we didn't know how we would react and kept it to yourselves.
I was 16 when I told them. I am 34 now and I miss them so much.
I actually came out to all of my friends when I was 19-20 (1990-1991).. All pretty much said, "And?? We know! We are just glad you FINALLY told us!" These people are still in my life today, and we have surpassed 30-years of friendship!