How to ACTUALLY Date in 2024 (No Dating Apps)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
- So many of us seem to get caught in the frustrations of dating apps (myself included). It's one thing to recognize that dating apps suck & another to actually figure out how to solve the problem. Here are a few guidelines and ways to meet & date people in REAL life.
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It’s always confusing how people will say that you should be single and others saying that love is the greatest thing. I think love is really comes down to luck and isn’t something you can really force
Only common sense thing I've seen here. Thank you. Can't force love.
I agree with everything you said. All of this stuff is ruining the aspect of long-term relationships:
- Sex right away
- Dating Apps
- Lack of social skills
We’ve been family oriented creatures for thousands of years and now we depend on technology to make everything happen for us. A smart phone will never replace human connection
I wish I could like this a million times 💯
WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT MEAN?! What does “social skills” mean? People say that all the time but I don’t know WHAT THE FUCK THAT MEANS SO I CAN WORK ON IT. I’m 31 and have no friends because nobody wants to talk to me.
It's the illusion of having to many options.
1000%
**delusion
We live in maia the grand illusion. All life is just a frequency generated holographic projection.
It's also bullshit for people who have never dated
Dudes replying be like u single???? 🤣 in all seriousness datings hard especially through apps where the only interactions can be dry and boring and it can really impact people, guys u have friends and family's if ur burned out don't be afraid to take a break u might find that special person while doing this that u really Click with.
33 here and single! I appreciate the wholesome content. For me, my best relationships have been with people I have met by chance. The apps are very fake and superficial. The issue so many people have a horrible mindset when it comes to love and companionship. Very few respect marriage and many don’t respect relationships, it’s incredibly sad. We live in a society of depressed lonely people who can’t seem to find happiness
We’re a depressed society with low morals
Absolutely agree! Natural organic connections are real and not forced or coerced. Dating apps and speed dates and matchmakers all put people in boxes and try to organize and categorize them like products in a Walmart. People are too complex for that. It gives the illusion that a Hollywood soulmate is out there if you're willing to sift through enough "wrong" people but a real relationship is more about compromise and finding beauty in idiosyncracies and differences between you and your partner.
Only women have the luxury of meeting someone "by chance".
Must be nice 😂
I’ve never been on a dating app. My friends that use them say they’re just full of F-boys. Sometimes they really do want to meet someone but end up getting pushed into sex they don’t even want and feel like crap afterwards. Everyone just swiping looking for something better. Seems like an epic waste of time. Glad I’ve not gotten into them.
They suck tbh
Not all of us that we are fake but it is bad chances even me i have meet many scammers here even though am still having jope
I get your point but someone like me who's socially awkward and can't just initiate a conversation irl and online I don't have to worry about having to think on my feet and think more carefully about what I want to say before I say it. Even though I have yet to meet anyone online but feel like it's all I got unfortunately 😕
Well if you're in the pnw hit me up
Refreshing to hear a man talk about wanting a serious relationship. Guys get a bad rap for only wanting sex. The hook up scene hasn’t helped. I spent a couple COVID induced years on dating apps. There is a small % of men seeking long term. Once I got off apps my perspective shifted. Like I remembered that I could meet people everywhere I go. Going to the grocery store, get dressed up! Always look your best. Never know who will cross paths with us at Aldi’s.
Hookup culture is destroying the idea of actual relationships. I appreciate the comment & definitely agree! Best of luck
We need to be careful to not 'negatize' any guy looking for that. There's nothing wrong with wanting only that as long as one is totally honest about it. Some of these dudes were in terrible relationships with dead bedroom situations. They deserve all the cookie and we should help them get that cookie.
Well i always wanted serious relationship since from my childhood i already knew i wanted a family i stated that on dating app and got only one like actually i think both men and women on that plataform just want sex, wich is not what i want if there isnt some love involved whats the diference with masturbation? Really i dont want sex for itself i want wife & kids since i was a kid myself i knew that
True :) Always put your best foot forward
@@charlespancamo9771 i dont care about the bedroom i want women to love them not to "use" them lust is a sin
Lately on dating apps I’ve been meeting narcissists or men who just want to have sex. It’s gotten so bad I just can’t even try to meet men this way any more. They’re turning into sex monsters and they’re losing them selves in addiction. I’m happy to hear that there’s still men out there who don’t want that. Just deleted all my dating apps and will be looking to meet men in real life now. Thanks for the encouragement!
I would add that a lot of people believe thats how they have to be to succeed. Like in life if u wanna “win” you have to be the best which most people dont believe so they act le they are and instead of it being true confidence its just toxic and fake and gross/rude. Anyways, gl meeting real people. Im sure someone is out there for you!
Yea they’re worse than Dahmer
Thank you. I'm still surprised real people exist. Men or women. I'm bi and refuse to use dating apps. Mainly to be honest because I never got a match. That's why. Even bi I was never good enough. Too ugly for both men and women. 😞
These apps make 95% of of us feel sub-human and like we don't exist. This culture needs to stop. It ruined all dating.
I'm a human I have passions and hobbies and enjoy company, face to face. I wish I lived before dating apps. 🥺
Agreed the apps are full of addicts and dismissive avoidant types
It goes both ways, from the men's side we can say that women are just ATM monsters and only want us based on how much we earn.
My problem is it either never gets past talking online or they are interested but live across the country.
I've had at least four girls talk about "waiting for marriage to have sex" and every single time I agree to that I instantly get ghosted.
I'm only 19 and turning 20 this year, never dated or been in a relationship before and I am the last guy you'd find wanting hookups or caring only about sex.. I just want to find a normal girl my age who shares the same fundamental beliefs and some interests.. but no, over the end of 2022 up until early this year it's just been a miserable experience talking to girls and then shit not going well or trying to speak to girls but they randomly ghost you or take forever to reply for literally no reason, EVERY time they reply.. its just constant games that I have no emotional energy left for. It sucks.. I'm trying my best to be the best I can be, I work out at the gym, I practice good self care, I go for walks and I spend my time trying to grow a TH-cam channel but because my social anxiety is awful and I lack friends, I haven't had much of a support system to help get me into a working job so I can earn enough money or a group of people to go out with and spend time with.. basically I'm undesirable to most women nowadays.. they all care about money and status from what I've seen. That or they just have so many options and don't treat men like actual people.
Agree with all you said 1000%.
It’s hard, I’m 28 and have two kids from an abusive marriage… so I’m back out in the dating world. But people just want hookups. I’m just not that girl.
I am holding out for someone who is LIKE minded 💖
Good things come to those who wait!
I'm 28 and I've never been married. No kids. Nothing. I've given up on love. Nobody likes cis bisexual white males... not even cis white males....
Very good video. I’ve given up on dating apps. I’ve start going out on solo dates to upscale restaurants in hopes to meet someone organically. I will look into community events when it gets warmer outside
I appreciate it! Good luck
Unless you're planning on approaching men first , good luck
Deleting all my dating apps was hard. I used to be successful on apps 5+ years ago, now it seems impossible to even get 1 match a month. So now it's basically relying on chance encounters in the real world. I live in a smallish city area where there is really no good hangout spots or night life. I am a regular at a coffee shop and all I really see are married women or women with headphones in or their head stuck in a book. Just makes approaching or organic encounters difficult without coming off as a creep or forced.
I feel you man. Sometimes when you stop searching for it, it falls into your lap. Enjoy your life & keep self improving
Good tip for me, i am shy person. But always on headphone when going out. I will put away headphone so it can be easier for someone to talk to me 😊
I 100% agree and would add one thing that bugs me in dating apps. Using dating apps destroys the opportunity to notice the hidden gems. Usually the most valuable and lasting relationships (romantic or friends) don't start by both being totally nuts about each other right from the start. It takes longer than that and by that it usually also lasts longer than the initial explode of interest. There's been so many times in my life that someone who I didn't even notice at first (at school or social circles etc.) slowly starts to get my attention and after awhile I'm totally engaged to that person. This literally cannot happen (at least for me) when using these apps because of course you will swipe right the MOST interesting looking people and neglect those who would propably eventually get your interest if you two would have a chance to interact in the real world.
For example the first time I met one of my dearest friends (through other friend) I got totally angry to him because he seemed a total jerk. But after while we started to hang a bit through that other friend and I noticed that this new friend is actually a pretty nice and thoughtful guy. Now few years later he's one of my closest and most reliable friends I have. A total hidden gem of a friend who I would have totally ignored If we would have been meeting through some app.
Yeah I can’t really tell anything about someone from a dating profile. You can’t tell what they are like, pictures don’t capture a personality, anyone who I’ve met online has seemed totally different (sometimes better sometimes not) than what it seemed from a profile. So I have no idea how to figure out who would be remotely compatible based on a profile. I’ve given up honestly.
I so agree ... I always found apps to be "forceful" and not organic....everyone has expectations and they have to be immediate. Abundance of choice too which ends up all being superficial. I have joined a Tennis club and cycling club as I do like sports, and look forward to widening my circle there. No expectations but good surprises are welcome :))))
i am currently in the process of developing an online dating system that will fix most of the existing problems of online dating, although this might be 2-3 years
I'm so curious what it looks like.
Please allow for multiple filters! That should sort out a lot of unnecessary messages and possible heartache. Yes, I know people will still lie on these sites! Ethnicity and religion is kind of a big deal. One of my girlfriends got "matched" with multiple South Asian and Middle Eastern men whilst she was a caucasian, Christian girl.
@@KayNovember26 thank you for your input, to address your concern, i think everybody deserves a chance to be met, obviously on a romantic level, if your friend is concerned with religious affiliation, communicating that with the partner is probably the healthiest solution
@@KayNovember26 i had this experience and we liked eachother alot until we found out one of us has to give up our religion for the other person if we are to get married in my country. We called it a quit after invested so much emotionally into eachother. It was so heartbreaking, and i would be super careful on the person i look for next time.
hows it going?
I can attest to this. I used to use the dating apps for at least eight or nine years. And I can count on one hand the amount of actual decent women that I actually met on there. I'm actually good friends with one of them. But for the majority of people my age, I'm 30s, it does seem like many people are just looking for hookups are always looking for something better.. the dating sites used to actually be pretty good back in the day. But it's completely different now. I'm just tired of it. I miss the days when people just met up in person. So I deleted all the apps, as hard as it was, because I genuinely wanted to get better at my social skills and meet people in real life. Is it hard? Yes. But I believe it's worth it in the end. Plus, now you have to worry about people complaining about you and getting you "banned". I don't remember that being a thing.
I’ve met a few really nice men on dating apps, but it is very draining. I’m now taking a break and have been regularly going to the gym hoping to meet someone more organically that is compatible with me. We cross paths with people for a reason and to learn something. I’m 32. You have some good points. Definitely wait to have sex because it truly clouds your vision of who the person is (actions vs words and compatibility).
girls at gyms are extremely unapproachable
I’ve been looking for solid solutions and this is one. I don’t have any excuses anymore.
Thanks this is helpful! I'm trying to meet more guys offline, but whether it's going to the gym or sitting at a coffee shop, I've never had guys approach me, I think it's because people constantly only mind their own business and nobody ever notices me lol
I think a lot of guys are afraid to approach
Why don't you approach them instead? The genuine shy guy (usually a hidden gem) will appreciate you making the first move. But you have to "read" the situation correct. When I was single, I would approach guys by cracking a joke or giving a real compliment. Accidentally touching his back whilst grabbing your drink in a bar... Don't be obnoxious or too obvious. Good luck!
@@freemindkev stop being so afraid.
Kathy Mee are you interested in interracial relationship . Because am also here seriously searching for my future partner
Kathy, I’ll be honest with you. I would love to start a conversation with someone at a café as I’m an avid café goer. But as a man in today’s society we get timid about approaching women due to the whole Me Too movement and being afraid that a simple rejection can turn into more trouble for us. I know it sounds ridiculous but that’s kind of where we’re at right now. However, good news is that all it takes is a smile and a simple “hello” to break through that barrier
This is a great video. I'm about to be 26 and I've gotten off of the dating apps since April and I've been celibate since then. I'm ready to start dating again, but I do not want to use the apps. I'm really into fitness and I used to go to a yoga studio when I lived in a city and I loved it a lot. You're right it's hard to talk to people at a regular gym. I'm definitely going to try and use these tips. I don't want to contribute to my generation having these problems, thank you sir!
Much appreciated! Organic is the way
I'm 30 & single, and really see eye to eye on the things you stated in this video...i think you are cute, have a great personality, and would definitely go out with you! You probably don't live in Chicago though :-/
that made my day! I appreciate it haha. You are right though, I don’t live in Chicago
Wow
I agree with you so much on the waiting thing. I was really disappointed I met a man in person a few days ago and his first text message to me was late at night asking to come to my house for a drink.
I felt very insulted that was his first instinct without trying to get to know me in a public place at a decent hour.
Unfortunately I think that’s a common experience for a lot of women today. Everything is getting so sexualized in modern society & when you pair that with the ability to text, snapchat, DM, etc. at any time of the day, it leads to men saying things they wouldn’t normally say in person
Well said similar interest and Routine is key, I just want someone that likes going to target with me 😂
Can’t beat a good Target run
It does. I signed up on dating app then delete in a week. Different dating apps. Idk what’s going on honestly. I feel like its me who is okay now being single.
I'd argue most men genuinely want a relationship and to find a woman they can love, but most of those men simply don't make the cut in what women want now due to having so many options.
Women literally look for reasons to reject you and if they find the slightest critique like maybe you're a Libra, don't like the color of your shirt, or you did a weird pose in one of your photos, they immediately reject you. If you approach them and are nervous, they'll just think you're a creep or weird.
If you're not a jacked 6 foot 6 figure dude, you're in for a VERY rough time in the dating scene.
I think you’re spot on. Expectations are becoming unrealistic
It’s nice to hear that coming from a guy that you should go for the emotional connection before sex. So many men are sex first people.
Get a second master's degree, preferably where women are the majority. i.e. languages, psychology, pedagogy. Get to salsa/bachata club and languages club. All in all, socialize as much as possible. Women in real life are 10 times better than women on the dating apps.
That is genius 😂
Good luck with that one.
It's only genius if you have £50k to spend on course fees. How many people on that course? And a bit too old to be hanging around the NUS bar.
Besides, after a hard day at work to pay your mortgage and bills, you will only have time to be studying, no time for dating.
In dance clubs you are limited to the members in that club, who also may not necessarily be single. Most female orientated clubs and activities are female only.
My gf goes to two such classes and there's only 3 single women in one group of 30 and they're approaching 60 🤣.
The other group again has around 30 members and there was one young single girl who just got engaged.
You want single women. Dating app!
You want quality single women. High end, paid subsciption dating app.
This vid was on point 💯. It’s almost SCARY how much ppl rely on electronics & technology.
Dating apps & social media are VIRTUAL REALITIES. It’s better to meet folks in the real world.
You can meet a guy or girl ANYWHERE. Men/women are literally everywhere.
•They’re at the Gas Station
•They’re at Walmart & Target
•They’re at the Mall
•They’re at the Gym
•They’re at Church
•They’re on college campuses
•They’re at coffee shops ☕️
Of course, they’re at bars and clubs (not recommended, if you’re looking for a mature relationship).
Bars and clubs are only good if you’re looking for a one-night stand. 💯
Unless you’re at a sports bar of course. Nice men/women are usually there. 🏀 🏈 😉
100%! Appreciate the comment 🙌
You're saying the truth, to me bringing up sex topic, when we have not meet one on one, to know if we are really ready for it, I don't know how to expose myself on camera, it's awkward for me.
Very wholesome content. So hard to find..
I appreciate it!
The best advice for dating in 2022, stop dating and start living..
Absolutely 🙌
I wish i could meet someone with the same personality as yours
They’re out there. Just probably not on the dating apps 😂
@@freemindkevShe is saying that she would like for you to take her on a coffee date.
i joined yoga and nobody talks to each other lol
I’m not familiar with the culture of yoga classes but I’m sure people would talk if you made an effort first
I like this! ❤
I agree with all of these, and the major thing to avoid is being friendzoned if the guy is trying to get in a relationship with a girl.
True true. At some point you need to make your intentions known. If they’re not into it, then move on
@@freemindkev that's true. The key is to be yourself when you're with a girl, doing it this way makes her wanting you. Insetad of asking her questions, just like at job interviews with interviewers.
I mean, if you're in a big enough city that there's enough people in similar interest groups, for you to date one, you're in a big enough center for street pickup. I am in a small town, and 2 years of isolation have made me disinterested in most humans.
Definitely true. Small town is a totally different ball game
Oh man...why do I find interesting people like you only on youtube???????
Very nicely put. I agree and like the way you think. It's hard out here to find quality experiences with quality folk. Thanks for sharing!
Appreciate the comment!
How do i date in the Texas suburbs? Everything is super spread out, traffic is horrible from sea to shining sea. Theres very few breeding-aged girls living in the Texas suburbs, its mostly boomers or families with young kids.
Thank you for sharing this information with me. It's good to know there is still good and reliable guys out there, who actually want to put the time and effort in. Developing a frienship for long-term patner. 😊 ❤
Appreciate it!
Dating apps are bulshit … They are made for rich people and 10/10 good looks 6 packs and nice cars sad reality… I am average looking guy may be 7/10 I downloaded tinder and bumble with my best shots I know how to dress and good fashion sense … but no matches in 2 days it’s really frustrating
Yep dating apps are trash. Standards become unrealistic and most people are on them for entertainment or for an ego boost (whether they’re consciously aware of that or not)
I am very good looking.. and not poor. I still find it very hard to even get a date with decent looking women. So it sucks
I'm 30 we should all go old school do yall rember the days of going to the mall and just walking up to random girls and talking
The apartment complex is a good one if you live in a city
i am 22 autistic depressed and want a girlfriend but i have no job i have no license or car i still live with my parents hopefully i can find someone
I can't even believe people use those apps. They are so disgusting and soul sucking. Really ruined dating
I used to get a good number of matches. Now I don't get any, seems the apps don't work as effectively for guys anymore 😮
Everyone on Reddit thinks I'm a horrible person because I didn't do good on Tinder
Ditch the apps. They’re not good for your self esteem either if you’re not getting matches
@@freemindkev I did but people keep telling me to go back onto apps cause I live deep in the Texas suburbs where everything is extremely isolating
Wait how was this video made 2 years ago if it’s 2024 right now…
I agree with you 💯. I think social media and dating apps are garbage. All bs, in my honest opinion. They are just "hook up sites." Nothing serious can happen off that shit.
Dude spot on! You got yourself a new subscriber. How old are you man? Because at 34 I find myself exploring more organic ways too and it's been like this for the last 3-4 years. Might be an age thing? I need to get out there and put myself out there more.
Yeah man, I think putting yourself out there & meeting organically is just more enjoyable. Dating apps can feel very forced & draining. I’m 28 by the way. Good luck out there.
So where do you find someone if you’re not in dating sites? Don’t say grocery store
- gym
- rec sports
- mutual friends
- bars
- some other form of shared interest group
I think a good approach here would be to do something like a brainstorm/mind mapping. Take a big sheet of paper and write a question, "where can you find people?" And just write down all kinds of places. Then think, if it is a place where you can strike up a conversation, where it could be more or less appropriate. Then think what places are interesting/seem interesting to you. if it is an unusual place that you normally wouldn't go to, maybe it is worth going? Then think what kind of person you want to meet. Will they likely to be there? Man, I like this idea. I will save it for future 😅
@@kseniakosheleva5111 omg gonna do this and will let you know
I met my EX in a grocery store...lmao...he was the manager 😂😂😂
How do I actually get to know a female? It's always platonic conversations that I have with them that never go anywhere romantically.
Sounds like you’re getting caught in the friend zone. What do guys that don’t get caught in the friend zone have that you don’t?
@@freemindkevgrapeboi is a bot/troll.
Why does it say 2024 when it was posted in 2022
I changed the title for the algorithm. What was said in 2022 is still just as relevant today
Me personally I don't go on dateing apps because there are all scammers I'm disabled it's hard me to find woman of I'm dreams because I hate dateing apps because it's all a lie.
I know! I got scammer burnout on truenudists & tinder.
They wasted my time & took a toll on my mental health
Yeah i feel like dating apps now are just more flings. So im like yeah im done cuz i am looking for serious relationship that will understand that im a single mom and works a lot.
I liked your video, very good advice given, thanks.
I can t go physical before intellectual and emotional
Tell me about the sex part. I'm in early 40's now and that is the last thing on my mind anymore. I want a man to treat me like a human being and apparently that is to hard to ask for these days. I had a guy on a dating app. who sent me pictures of money and begging me to sleep with him! I couldn't believe it and so guess what I blocked that fool. I was like wow. I hate all dating apps. Can't stand them at all. I wish they would just go away and we go back to meeting people in real life.
Spent 5 mins then deleted it ,the rats have ruined it for everyone
Wow...ive never been on a dating app. I know many men who are married who actually go on it and say they are single or separated. You seem very wise and humble.
Joke’snon you mate. My sec life was never once fiery.
😂
Hi🍓, I do appreciate you for sharing this. Actually searching also . I did follow you on your IG too..
Have a great day and be safe!!!
True 💯
A female friend of mine had almost 1500 matches in her bumble profile and she isn't even that good looking. Let that sink in. I'm a fairly good looking guy and I can't manage more than say 10-20 matches at any given time. Where is 1500 and where is 20? And those 20 ghost you if you say anything remotely that they don't like or don't share their opinion or don't feed their egos. Bottomline - Dating apps are useless for ordinary guys.
You, unfortunately, are right
Vry true. It's a waste of time and money... though on the other hand it's working for some...but for me seems am not Lucky
I haven’t had much luck with them either. Meeting organically would definitely be preferred imo
Love this .
Most men are still too afraid to meet IRL. Some are married, saying they're separated.
its a classic case of too much of anything is bad. As the saying goes, everything in moderation
Thank you ! This is the honest truth
Try coming out of a 23 year marriage. That's hard.
If your are not married and really knows in your heart that you need someone that the holy scripture said a man and woman would leave their parents house to come together and be one then am there let's get started
Sounds like you belive in the permanence of marriage (no divorce) I feel bad for the young girls that can't find responsible, committed men to marry and spend a life with. My niece is in the same position as you. Do you have a brother or cousin that is looking? she is 29?
Maybe AI will eventually help. I can't do dating it's too annoying. It makes you more disappointed.
Opposite use to attract
I agree with you. So hard to date in my fifties.
If you prioritize your health and it shows then you are going to shine.
What would you think about asking a woman out that is a home owner like you or buying, is on the same block katty-corner from my house, I am disabled and a bit older than her and she works full time and we both are dog people with 1 dog each, would it be to awkward if it didn't work out? I have been single for along time and her ex boyfriend moved out about 2 years ago almost. Let me know? She is the only one I know that has things in common and we kinda know each other as neighbors, but not much!
Only way to find out is to ask! I would keep it pretty low pressure/low commitment for the first date though. As long as it doesn’t feel forced I don’t think it would be too awkward, even if it doesn’t work out.
@@freemindkev Well okay, I know she has heard me getting into it with bad neighbors behind me, since she is on the other side of the street all she has behind her is a small field and a business, so she might not know what's up with that, but she does wave and say hi back in passing?
@@robertc.6441 maybe try getting to know her more organically as a neighbor before immediately asking her out on a date. You should be able to get a feel for interest levels just through conversation and body language
What’s your faith perspective?
I’m Christian
@@freemindkev you should make some videos on your faith and how it informs your outlook on these topics. It would be really interesting :)
I’ve definitely thought about doing some videos like that. Appreciate the feedback!
Dating apps may not be solution
But they are just step in process
Shunning apps may reduce chances of finding your person for life !
I found your video very very refreshing and attractive. Many men on apps and online are addicted to sex and hookup culture. I find when i go out men look at me but dont have the confidence to ask me out. They shoot themselves in the foot by overthinking. Even so, sometimes people in person are just wanting sex or their next polyamourous partner...
I also live in a city where drug and alcohol addiction is high. For women, we also have to dodge a lot of misogyny.
I agree that people need to be meeting in person more :) thanks for making this im sure it will help a lot of people who seem to be very lost
I appreciate the comment! In person connection is way more authentic
I enjoyed this
Yesss. Dating apps don't work for most of us. Wasted years.
Does it make me a bad person that I didn't get any matches on tinder?
Great tips! As i apply into practice😇
Sex doesn't fizzle. You get better than you were in your 20s and 30s. You don't know what you don't know.
I think sex can be the only factor but it needs to be really really good sex and that is almost never the case if you 'aren't that into the person'
Where have you been all my life?
Translation: She wants you to ask her out.
Everything today is instantaneous and reactive. Some much attention seeking and desperation to be picked . It reduces many people to be hook ups and those aren’t dates! They are one offs,
Absolutely! So many people are just looking for instant gratification
@@freemindkev I subscribed. So you will probably see more reactions. I wanted to share that as an older woman you come across as sincere and authentic. I am a licensed Social Worker in NYC. It’s been interesting observing the younger generation and my generation and the differences in dating . I was engaged to every boyfriend I had and met my husband engaged to someone else. I am not proud of that. My point is men locked it down when they wanted to keep you. We didn’t t have cell phones or social media. Men had to approach you and have some game. There was a lot of face to face time and long telephone conversations. Not so today. I guess it’s I why gravitate toward programmers who can actually express themselves. With some vulnerability and mystery.
Dating app are crap
Your right I wish we could go back to 2001
Stop right where you are I’ll give a quick answer instead of watching this, don’t do it.
Owg still single
your right on , i would love to have you as a guest on my soulmate channel? what do you say?
Lets do it. Shoot me an email…krenner95 at yahoo
U look handsome
Is there an american that wants to marry for a green card? I have lots of money
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But if I got out in with same dressing in public girls notice me
tl;dw? Lots of words but I'm not getting anytrhing from it.
TLDW: Stop using dating apps. Meet people in real life. Where do you meet people in real life? Mutual friends, bars, gym, or some other form of shared interest activity/community (think rec sports league, church group, networking event, etc.)
@@freemindkev I dont belong to any of such groups and am too depressed to go out even, let alone "do things". I don't even have friends at this point in my life. It's either online dating for me or nothing.
Can you make blogging TH-cam about get Date in our world 2022?
18 minutes
In next 2 week
When in mood.
Like this video.
What feel comfortable to say on camera for you?
I may do that!
Did you find someone yet lmao 🤣?
I actually did, yes. However we just recently broke up after dating for about 10 months
@@freemindkev awe. I’m sorry to hear. Hopefully you got something out of it, lessons or otherwise.
You need to do the video version of this for people simply looking to have sex and not empty their wallet. Given how many women I've had sex with in my parents basement it's VERY doable. I also have no money at all, am skinny af, don't work out. I do not look like a model either. But yea, let the guys fresh out of dead bedroom relationships know how to jump back in the sex game!
😂😂😂 That would be a good one
You can't force love.
I'll probably die alone. Long story short and sweet.
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