Nobody Gives A F*ck About Your Mental Health

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  • @TheConsciousMan143
    @TheConsciousMan143  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

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  • @mestayno
    @mestayno 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    Dude. Perfect. I had extreemely horrible struggles for years and years. And I have arrived at the same conclusion after no therapist, no family members nor friends, nor prayer not anything helped me even one bit. It finally dawned on me.. "holy shit... nobody can save me... it's me or literally nobody. nobody ever ever". I have been working soo soo hard ever since that. I think I see some light after quite a few years of intense struggle with my life.

    • @therevolution500
      @therevolution500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      If it makes you feel any better, thats basically David Goggin's story of success as well.

    • @OceanDrive321
      @OceanDrive321 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I discovered the same. Glad you are doing better, mr. stranger I have sympathy for. Keep it up, man

    • @mestayno
      @mestayno 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@therevolution500 that's actually cool.

    • @mestayno
      @mestayno 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@OceanDrive321 thanks man

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      This is called the self-empowerment stage my friend. It is the opposite of the victimhood mentality.
      Amazingly during the this stage, if you keep an open heart, you might realize you were never alone. That there was some kind of divine force guiding you the whole time, just waiting for you to use the power that has always been within you.

  • @unknowngentt
    @unknowngentt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    Being a man is not about how many women you can sleep within your life time nor is about the muscles which wouldn't hurt either, or the number of people who adore you. Being a true masculine man is about getting back up when you think your life is over, that resilience to keep going amidst all the odds against you. A great man forges his way through the adversities of life. Always remember, there's no situation that you can't handle - we fight till we die gentleman. That's the masculine burden, learn now or learn the hard way. "Man has himself and that's enough" - Jerr
    PS- I am also going through the trench, maybe I wrote this for myself to myself. Keep well gentlemen. Thank you The Consious Man for the timely upload, I appreciate you.

    • @therevolution500
      @therevolution500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Brother spoke the truest words ever. You have my respect for real.

    • @abcdwxyz7604
      @abcdwxyz7604 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your words brother

    • @unknowngentt
      @unknowngentt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@therevolution500 Thank you so much my brother, Let's push harder, there's 55% of the year to make a different and pick yourself up. Take care, keep growing
      !

    • @unknowngentt
      @unknowngentt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@abcdwxyz7604 Thank you man, we all need each other to tell us you can actually do it. Similarly, a child learning to walk for the first time doesn't think they will be able to do so ,however, the parents guide, inspire the child to try until they are able to do so without any support. No man is an island.

    • @unknowngentt
      @unknowngentt 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@steelearmstrong9616 Being a male is what we are born with, being a man is earned through hard work, perseverence and leadership - everything is earned

  • @Dev-op7kn
    @Dev-op7kn 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    No ones coming to save you. Life is you and God. Being alone and grinding alone is a super power

    • @deathbunny3048
      @deathbunny3048 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Until you wake up in your 50's to a seizure that'll kill you and there's nobody around you cause you felt the need to isolate and grind and not make meaningful connections, there you lay, twitching, the shroud of death takes you, if only you spent some energy on building relationships instead of grinding alone... the end.

    • @Faze512
      @Faze512 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @deathbunny3048 so then call 911??

    • @Faze512
      @Faze512 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@deathbunny3048 I don't need relationships or anybody in my life all I need is myself and I enjoy being alone its peaceful

    • @deathbunny3048
      @deathbunny3048 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Faze512 I don't think ya know what a seizure is XD
      You can't control your body, can't move you SEIZE UP, the only way to get help at all is if somebody happens to be around you who notices you seizing up. XD

    • @Faze512
      @Faze512 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@deathbunny3048 etheir way were all gonna die regardless if I get a seizure or not it doesn't make a difference that's not an excuse to not grind alone😂😂

  • @michaels4868
    @michaels4868 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Never seek validation. People sense it a mile away. Be yourself. Create. Authentic. People will naturally gravitate to your energy. The right people.

  • @Skargar
    @Skargar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    We are not depressed, we ARE and the depression is on us. Under it is a wonderful human being that world needs!

  • @vd.s6158
    @vd.s6158 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    As someone who likes to keep my struggle to myself, these words resonate with me, entirely.

  • @finished421
    @finished421 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yup
    No one can make you happy,
    They can only help ,,
    No one can make you sad ,
    They can only help ,,
    Choose your helpers wisely

  • @felixoates
    @felixoates 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You are a king mate. Thanks for talking so clearly about what the mainstream will never be able to articulate. Please keep creating

  • @jessekelley9384
    @jessekelley9384 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    As a teenager, I had the honor of working for an excavating contractor owned by a ww2 veteran - US Army. When a teen starts digging with a mud shovel or swings a 16 pound hammer for long, their hands blister. Dirt gets in the wounds when the blisters pop, and exhaustion sets in.
    This Veteran pushed me forward like this.. " If the mind doesn't mind, the body doesn't matter! I am trying to teach you how to succeed in Public Works! I want better for you, so keep digging!"
    After 2 years with that company I was in peak physical condition, but the real gift was the increase in determination. I am in my late 40's and I have COPD, among other things, but that spirit still carries me forward. I can do many things still. I need breaks, I just can't quit.
    My point is, do what you can, push yourself, and let God handle the rest. He crumbled the walls of Jerecho, but the tribes of Israel still had to march on the city holding weapon and shield. We are called to sacrifice for our families, to provide, and protect. It can get painful, keep digging! If the mind doesn't mind, the body doesn't matter.

    • @jessekelley9384
      @jessekelley9384 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Brothers, I want better for you! I refuse to bow the knee to depression, hopelessness, or adversity. I only bow the knee to my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

  • @NekoPanku
    @NekoPanku 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Blud, I was literally talking to myself like a delusional fool about this specific topic yesterday. I have always seen the world as growing or dying. No one gives a fuck because we have been training our society to push down feelings, and suppress who we desire to be, we are expected to become mature human beings but we treat ourselves and others like animals. It's a circle of negative reinforcement!

  • @Pseudoending
    @Pseudoending 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Appreciate the tears of love & support invoked this morning brother 💙

  • @Bene-Ri
    @Bene-Ri 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ryan your words help me every time I hear you speak! Keep giving your gift my man!

  • @aerofrosty4316
    @aerofrosty4316 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I’m 34 never had a girlfriend I’m dying of incurable cancer I lost all my friends my family left when I was 17 they were drug addicts and alcoholics I work a miserable as job with shit pay I work 60 and sometimes more a week I’m in severe pain I’m a hopeless romantic and lonely and miserable no girl will talk to me I just want to die I can’t do this shit anymore 😢

    • @WhoWellOk
      @WhoWellOk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bro your life sounds like actual hell

    • @jaybee4288
      @jaybee4288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As a girl you have much bigger problems than not having a girlfriend. A girlfriend will not save you or fix you sorry but it’s true, they will likely give you more problems and heartbreak. Focus on things in life you can attain and enjoy, I wish you all the best.

    • @WhoWellOk
      @WhoWellOk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaybee4288 na no girls ever sounds like the plan girls have mental issues in this day and age

    • @ismailteleph1971
      @ismailteleph1971 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Read the Quran Bro, life is not about girls, God who created you know what is best for you, death is just a step in human life, there are an entire worlds after death, death is not the END, it's just the BEGINNING

    • @user-qy1qn4ni2x
      @user-qy1qn4ni2x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hey man, it's tough I know. But you know when you go to a gym and you see the guy who lifts the heaviest weight? What do you call it? That's right, the strongest. There's a lot of confusion about what it means to be a real man, but in the end it just comes down to this: How much can you take? I wish you all the best friend, stay strong 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

  • @MySimDied
    @MySimDied 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think most people do care about your mental health, but you have to remember that they have their own lives and you might not be their biggest priority. Mental health is a reason why some people behave certain ways but that doesn't always mean that behavior is okay. I find a lot of people say "I'm sorry i have depression" and expect full forgiveness for anything, but that isn't right as the person you're dealing with has their own emotions and feelings and can't just be your emotional punching bag. One of the biggest problems I found with people with low mental health is not having appropriate conversations. Unloading deep personal stuff on people who see you as a casual work colleague just isn't going to go well, most people don't have the emotional capacity to handle that. If it's really severe depression I do feel that's a job for a therapist not a friend or new partner.

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Many people around me, even my friends, have subtlety dropped “I’m not your therapist” or “I don’t get paid enough to deal with your problems” enough times for me to know, most people don’t care about your mental health beyond how it impacts them or makes them feel when they see you.

    • @anorganism8913
      @anorganism8913 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nickthompson1812Yes, I can relate, unfortunately.

  • @marcusdaniel8052
    @marcusdaniel8052 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This video came at a moment in time, that was really needed. Thank you for sharing with the world your time. Immensely grateful.

  • @Wahinies
    @Wahinies 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That sensation to get off your couch and do this video led to helping a lot of men. Thank you.

  • @heartlessdissa6079
    @heartlessdissa6079 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have been through so much and have been realizing that it doesn't matter. Making that decision in the very depths of the abyss. No matter how vast it is, don't succumb to your despair. The people that you lost, countless in number and form. Will never be truly gone and the people that hurt you cannot any longer. It'll be okay, keep walking through the desert without a drop to drink. " For death is what it takes to truly complete a human being"PEACE🎉🎉🎉

  • @CuttinInIdaho
    @CuttinInIdaho 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Everything you need is already in you...I promise. Sit with your pain...don't act...just sit with it, look at where it came from...no distractions...just sit. You will eventually shift to a more positive state with a solution to move forward. I think being a man is a beautiful thing. We realize no one cares about us...we are alone to become a rock on our own.

  • @Simili84
    @Simili84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Im about to be 40 soon and all of my life I`ve had the terrible habit of keeping most people at a distance and eventually pushing people out of my life. I never wanted to be that way but I've been aware of it for a long time, used to think "it is what it is" but in reality its been ruining my life. A little over 2 months ago I had a falling out with someone I care a lot about, someone very dear to me, because of a misunderstanding left unspoken and untreated. It was gnawing at me and making me miserable for those 2 months... yesterday I went up to her to talk, open a dialogue and mend things. Its a start... baby steps.... but after doing that I had to find a spot to sit down by myself and I cried, because I felt a immense weight being lifted

    • @jaybee4288
      @jaybee4288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      As a woman, please leave her alone. You have to fix your own issues first and foremost. Learn from your mistakes, make the changes you need. But you are not her responsibility and men like you cause us such heartache and pain. If you don’t feel you can behave normally and you really care about this woman, consider leaving her be and working to fix yourself, not for her but for you. I mean all the best x

    • @alanm6o9
      @alanm6o9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @jaybee4288 you just projected so hard and assumed you knew everything about this mans life. I feel bad for ya

  • @mutumakimathi
    @mutumakimathi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you, as always.
    Our burdens as men become more manageable when we share them with other men and remind ourselves of the powerful beings we could become.
    Down defines up.
    Thank you for what you do. Much love from Kenya!

    • @ma_junia
      @ma_junia หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, we die alone, but we live among men

    • @mutumakimathi
      @mutumakimathi หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ma_junia And they are useful, in our time of existence.

  • @JosesCamera
    @JosesCamera 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey man, just wanted to hop on here and say your videos inspired a lot of my motivation to do filmmaking on my own. this beautiful ambient shot inspired me so much and every once in a while I come back to your videos and rewatch them. I think about your words constantly and they have helped me achieve so much.

  • @18Sluggy
    @18Sluggy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so grateful that I’ve come across your channel man. Had a rough day yesterday and couldn’t sleep, my thoughts were spiralling - this video really helped me put things in perspective and put my mind at rest. Thank you ❤

  • @degonas1
    @degonas1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love you Bro

  • @JohnnyWalkerBlack142
    @JohnnyWalkerBlack142 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’ve had multiple times where I was on the edge. But that idea of God forging me into a better man through suffering is what kept me going

    • @Him01y
      @Him01y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you're right brother. keep pushing

  • @vinnyvoctpropi6494
    @vinnyvoctpropi6494 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm just going to say, i understand the pain we go through as men is a lot and at times feels like the world is ending and we're losing everything trust me i know, however i will say i've been going through things for a long time some worse than others but the only one who can change what i have from pain and suffering into love and happiness and peace is me, it's something i've known for a long time but i've let myself get into a spot with this girl because i gave her my trust where i'm now needing that comfort, love, support, she give but that's not right i'm just looking for a reason to allow myself to hurt instead of changing and making things better not just for me but for her too, and this video helped me re-analyze myself in and out of my situation to see what my issue is. thank you

  • @tariqkhan7696
    @tariqkhan7696 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are a real one, i can sense that. I am 34 years old. Have ocd for past 14 years. Depression, medications, suicidal ideations for months. Been through all that. Taperoff medications. Still i have social, job, marriage problems. But at the end its all about what i am gonna do. Yes there is power but you have to work for that. Thankyou for the message 👍

  • @gangganggamer9974
    @gangganggamer9974 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I saw a quote once I don’t remember where or who said it but it goes something like this. “You can’t trust or rely on anyone, not even your shadow, because even that leaves you when things get dark enough.”

  • @user-ix4wn1th5m
    @user-ix4wn1th5m 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thats correct ,nobody saves anybody. I have had to deal with my own issue's. Sure you might have a good counselor or a friend to confide in but they wont save you. It took me a long time to wake up and realize that im responsible for my own journey in life. Im responsible for my own happiness.

  • @0---RABB1T---0
    @0---RABB1T---0 หลายเดือนก่อน

    your timing is so perfect and you're right no one is here to save us. but thank you for being the hero and helping all of us. stay safe, love ya man.

  • @sagethorburn9821
    @sagethorburn9821 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This one hit me where it hurts ngl. Thanks buddy

  • @josemanuelsimons
    @josemanuelsimons 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you, Ryan.

  • @damianfinneran7968
    @damianfinneran7968 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks brother. I hate life and my experience. The moment creates so many uncomfortable sensations in my body, that make me not want to be here. I spend quite a lot of time wishing it be different, but hey this what I got.
    And all of a sudden the sensations can clear and I can have a beautiful experience.
    But anyways my biggest concern is to see others as myself. I often feel a desire to believe I am the only thing that exists. But I would truly love to grow enough to be able to understand and talk to any human being non judgementally. Unfortunately for me, incur so many intrusive thoughts of violence and dark sexual nature. But hey it is what it is.
    I do believe in the alchemical process of gold however. And it be my purpose to transform the muck myself. And as you say only I can do it for me.
    Thanks Conscious Man!

  • @warrenhaven2216
    @warrenhaven2216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love having good men to watch on TH-cam. I aspire to build a character as strong as yours. My dad never really got his act together and he’s struggled with drug addiction his whole life. I didn’t have him in my life during my adolescent years and I’ve struggled a lot. I feel like I’ve wasted a big portion of my life from 14 years old to now. I’m almost 24 now and I’m realizing nobody is coming to save me. This goes on as long as I let it.

  • @tylermuir9170
    @tylermuir9170 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You really spoke to me through this video. You have no idea how grateful I am that you are trying to reach people who desperately need some words of love and encouragement. I have recently started my journey of self love and acceptance and I've never been happier I pulled myself out of some of the darkest places in my life and thank God I didn't kill myself because I never would have realized just how amazing life can really be. The world needs more people like you, you have inspired me to try and help others to the best of my ability. Thank you so much. ❤

  • @RDDLEZZ
    @RDDLEZZ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love you bro you're a blessing

  • @DcKilla72
    @DcKilla72 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I hate how some people call you (not YOU brother) gay for talking like this sometimes…. It’s honestly sad/frustrating man…..

    • @BillyOnYouTube
      @BillyOnYouTube 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly have not seen any of those comments

    • @DcKilla72
      @DcKilla72 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@BillyOnTH-cam talking about in real life. If you try to talk to a friend or family member they almost shrug the topic.. and yea I know maybe those people aren’t the right fit.
      I’m just saying it’s frustrating when you think you can trust them with these topics and not make you feel like shit. You understand??

    • @user-uw7lu2sp5n
      @user-uw7lu2sp5n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I understand that why I bring it up jokingly and during doing other things it's weird hahahah

  • @stuart3808
    @stuart3808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It really is beautiful to watch an enlightened being such as yourself Ryan, thank you for sharing the love and light. ❤

  • @OSAndrew
    @OSAndrew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There are stages of enlightenment.
    First Stage: When we realize we are all one, there is no separation, an infinite kaleidoscopic mirror.
    Second Stage: The implication that you are both the creator and the created. Playing with that with a sense of bewilderment.
    Third Stage: Realizing if we are all one, and there are other's still suffering, then we aren't truly enlightened. Humbling.
    Fourth Stage: Claiming your part in the great unification effort (God's Plan, Dharma, The Great Work)
    Fifth Stage (and Beyond): The cosmic party 🥳 new adventures, etc

    • @nauka9292
      @nauka9292 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hidden stage. You realise that we are not all one because there are no others. You are the only conscious mind there is and other is just the creation of your own mind 🧠🤯

    • @OSAndrew
      @OSAndrew 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nauka9292 absolute vs. relative reality. That can be a trap and turn into a solipsistic bubble which can lead to despair. We're still human beings and we are wired for connection with other beings. It's why the Buddha preached the middle way. One foot in, one foot out. Beyond words or concepts.

    • @CFChristian
      @CFChristian 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nauka9292What the guy above said. Avoid the Solipsism trap. It's very sexy but ultimately turns out to be ego flipped back into itself times 10.
      And also, good luck living that way for an extended period of time.

    • @nauka9292
      @nauka9292 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CFChristian I know bro. It's just a concept I can't really accept because it's the ultimate loneliness. But it is very interesting concept

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We still have to "honor" the human. To participate fully in this experience, consciously. Thanks for sharing brother

  • @shawngoral3987
    @shawngoral3987 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Back, I didn't come up with this but it's a good one quote and summarized. "Show up for yourself. Fearlessly and shamelessly." Break down the limiting beliefs that form as patterns that feed the conditions you are in.

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Beautifully said

    • @Gaizaz
      @Gaizaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blah blah blah

  • @stephenmcquillan8815
    @stephenmcquillan8815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No novel here to put in the comments, just a simple thank you 🙏and act of appreciation and gratitude for making this video; in support of raising awareness with this very real thing so many of us struggle with on our own terms.. if it's to be, it's up to me..

  • @guygill7827
    @guygill7827 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In order for light theres has to be a dark time to come out strong.

  • @candlebright100
    @candlebright100 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks

  • @jerrycrisp3555
    @jerrycrisp3555 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gotta get in the car and take a drive with you man, I usually drive around to get my mind off things but I turn on your video see you driving so I did too

  • @lenau8616
    @lenau8616 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Power is when you can reveal your inner pain

  • @Ciskuss
    @Ciskuss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks brother

  • @GHOST-ec3nx
    @GHOST-ec3nx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Nobody will ever understand what I and so many are going through. Its good to know that there are men out there who found that peace of mind and heart. Men who found out who they are. I'm struggling to get to that point, I've been trying for years but I've been hitting dead ends on dead ends, rock bottom multiple times to the point I have no energy anymore. Sorry for being so negative, I feel like I need to give up completely to open the doors to the path of freedom you know, I feel like I need to not have any ambitions, goals and wants so I can use that energy to find me, to get lost in me so i can find something that will help. I hope to find the energy to try again, I am mentally exhausted but I am hopeful.
    I pray that everyone finds their path, find themselves its beautiful. Nothing hanging over your shoulders, peace of mind and heart. In that state life becomes more clear and more meaningful. To everyone struggling just hang in there, hold on to whatever you believe in, be it religion or yourself or some other thing. It takes a lot of strength to wake up everyday and act like you're okay to your family and friends. Believe in yourself, trust yourself and forgive yourself. As he said you are loved and you matter to someone, you do.

    • @stuart3808
      @stuart3808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Keep going brother, in many ways I feel the same way, so tired. I think you are right about lowering our goals/ambitions to whatever we can manage. We each have our unique challenges, and if surviving is all we can manage right now, that's OK. I feel I am making slow progress, so although extremely tempted to give up, I think I can carry on a little longer...

    • @GHOST-ec3nx
      @GHOST-ec3nx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stuart3808 Thanks for the kind words brother. I do hope that it gets better for you. Yea keep trying man, if that's all we can do now then its ok. Whatever it takes to survive this storm. Suffering changes someone because it takes a piece of you and the changes can be unpredictable, so I hope we can get to the other side as good men, calm men. With you till the end man.

  • @mensconnectionnetwork
    @mensconnectionnetwork 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New to this content and love it mate. You are doing gods work for the men of the world. Bless you bro 🙏

  • @jasoncolap
    @jasoncolap 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    youre the man

  • @mamasagbe
    @mamasagbe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For a while now I've been deep down in the hellfires and been fighting the demons and bit by bit letting the ego burn off, a katabasis of sorts. I can see the light while I am climbing up to the surface. That light is what you describe as infinite love, I see glimses of it, but Im not there yet. Im afraid though, that it will be overwhelming or consuming, but I wont let that prevent me to become a king one day

  • @jakekern4154
    @jakekern4154 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not that we shouldn't make an effort to be men involved in our community, but to stop outsourcing love to any external thing. This is what we must realize and it's a message I will try to spread till the end of time. Even Jesus claimed heaven is within us, peace and blessings to everybody out there

  • @BanginOnWax682
    @BanginOnWax682 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re right that having a sense of self-love is important but by no means should this discourage men to not seek help.
    Fighting this battle alone sucks, some make it while others don’t. It’s way better/healthier to fight this with a supportive community behind your back than the other way around.
    Generally speaking, saying “Nobody gives a f*** about your mental health” or “Nobody will save you” is further from the truth. There are people that do care and will save you if you’re in a life-threatening situation.
    The title was definitely clickbait but overall the video is great! 👍🏻

  • @StoicMiles
    @StoicMiles 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Okay we don’t need anyone to fix our problems. The problem is that men aren’t seen or heard. Sure we can look within and fix it ourselves but all of what you said in the video is something most men are doing. It’s what we have been doing. All of these “empowerment” movements have divided and suppressed everyone else’s struggles aside from the trending empowerment. So the women’s empowerment movement has made men hide away their struggles because it is already assumed that we have it easy in comparison when really we just suffer from different problems. The world seeks to divide not come to an understanding. We don’t need anyone to hold our hand or fix our problems. The world just needs to recognize with unsaid words that men struggle, we are struggling, but you don’t need to intervene. Just praise the good in men and we will mold and lean into our light.

  • @matamhasaynia
    @matamhasaynia 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Real conscious

  • @mikey002
    @mikey002 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sad thing is, it really be other men being judgmental. Really be your own people. But that's going to change, I truly believe that. Happy Mental Health Awareness Month my brothers. 💙🤝🏽

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe it's changing too. Humanity is evolving, slowly but surely. I can see it.

    • @nickthompson1812
      @nickthompson1812 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those men need help but don’t know how to ask for it. They’re playing a character.

  • @TalbsXnqqq
    @TalbsXnqqq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This needs more than 6k views. 10/10 car talk.

  • @theusixion4165
    @theusixion4165 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well, i do- but I'm just one guy and I can't help you all... hell, maybe I can't help anyone, but that ain't gonna stop me from trying in my admittedly weird way.

  • @karmatick4418
    @karmatick4418 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think people can help you realize but that is not ultimately saving... It is the fact that you accepted the ligth and pull yourself on the guys hand to save yourselt...... Being saved is accepting that those sufferings is a step towards a future you

  • @madhavyadav1808
    @madhavyadav1808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i cried brother

    • @TheConsciousMan143
      @TheConsciousMan143  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Huge part of the healing process that most men bypass.

  • @zentzu4003
    @zentzu4003 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the video refutes itself 😅

  • @westernstar9121
    @westernstar9121 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @ascension6699
    @ascension6699 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’ve had this pain my whole life and few months ago I noticed something was wrong with me. Hope it’s just my brain chemistry that’s all fucked up. Cause I’m tired of having two thought processes and the negative thoughts and decisions always winning. Seems being 30 is an eye opener. Help yourself by seeking direction. Even if they point you to the psychiatrist after going through childhood and other things and not really finding an answer.

    • @shanecorr1694
      @shanecorr1694 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My parents never loved me I was adopted by my aunt and her boyfriend as a child I have health issues I turn to God

    • @ascension6699
      @ascension6699 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shanecorr1694 God is a coping mechanism.

  • @shawngoral3987
    @shawngoral3987 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ok, The Matrix is broken for me. Someone just made a comment on a video that was uncalled for and they missed the point completely. The channel is much like yours and hit 5K subs. I think she is doing well and just wants to help people on her journy. So I looked at his channel and Tyler Durdin is in his title name!
    She responed with "You missed the point", he replied with more "**IT" talking.
    I added "Don't worry about Tyler Durden. He's just looking to pick a fight. But we don't talk about that here. Remember that character is just a figment of the Narrator's imagination. That persona speaks volumes."
    Than your video mentions Tyler Durden! What is going on!

  • @kkolor8037
    @kkolor8037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ♥ from Poland !

  • @xenshii9497
    @xenshii9497 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video man hypes me up

  • @DigitalJuggernaut
    @DigitalJuggernaut 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I responded to the comment he read out

  • @shutdown8947
    @shutdown8947 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Facts 💯

  • @bestofburden
    @bestofburden 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is that logo at the end an homage to Jonathan Livingston Seagull?

  • @ItsALLCAP
    @ItsALLCAP 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im stressed out… because I thought driving around with the light on could kill somebody😱

  • @RobotScrambler
    @RobotScrambler หลายเดือนก่อน

    Black Muscle Shirt - ✅
    Groomed beard and eyebrows - ✅
    Silver chain - ✅
    Driving in car with perfect lighting -✅
    Filming video in car while driving -✅ (What is with this trend?)
    Link to appointments for "mental health" in a video declaring no-one cares about your mental health -✅

  • @KingCharles3000
    @KingCharles3000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I tried telling my family about tge significance of psychedelics in my spirituality, and it just caused them to destroy it.
    I’m left thinking whats the point.
    The progress I made spiritually has been destroyed.
    Theres a belief in gnosticism and that is that knowledge gained from personal experience shouldn’t be shared flippintly because it will cause destruction. So if I could give advice to anyone reading this it would be this; don’t try to share your spritual knowledge with just anyone. You will know if they’re on your level and if theres no one on your level around you, then I’m sorry. You need to keep it to yourself in that case. Maybe reach out online and talk to the conscious man community.

  • @sk8orhate55
    @sk8orhate55 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    love you bro 🤙

  • @Big_Tough_Guy
    @Big_Tough_Guy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My worst hell was a joke to some people. I remember being filmed and laughed at during an unbelievably severe psychosis. I remember collapsing near a school in tears and snot and being callously told "nobody fuckin cares". I was so used to the inhumanity I didn't really care or register.
    Dude I've seen things I probably shouldn't be alive to share. I'm not necessarily proud of that, but I am proud of surviving. God damn... I don't think I'm "strong" really, but I can take a fucking beating lmao.

    • @user-sb3sf5td5f
      @user-sb3sf5td5f 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry. would like to hear your thoughts on ur prospect of the future of america and ur thoughts as well on sedevacantism

    • @Big_Tough_Guy
      @Big_Tough_Guy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-sb3sf5td5f Are you joking with me? Anyway, most of us die soon, then it becomes akin to mad max, then it becomes 1984 on m3th, and finally... Extinction. I am not sure what that last word means...

  • @MsCankersore
    @MsCankersore 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How does the engine noise not come up on the vid

  • @trentlegge4602
    @trentlegge4602 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    you look like a cool video game character in the thumbnail

  • @user-uw7lu2sp5n
    @user-uw7lu2sp5n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome video

  • @NooraFaizal-bo6me
    @NooraFaizal-bo6me 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i appreciate what you're saying but did anyone else click on this seeing like, a video game character? he didn't look real to me??

    • @BillyOnYouTube
      @BillyOnYouTube 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's just really cool looking lighting 😂

  • @Realisaiah4817
    @Realisaiah4817 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts

  • @edub4508
    @edub4508 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like what you’re trying to do but nobody saves you truly but god. I tried to save myself and kept failing. I see god is working on you and that makes me happy. Your on the right direction,god bless all

  • @avauntortiz2427
    @avauntortiz2427 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jesus does he set me free from addiction of myself ,depression ,lust ,anxiety,suicidal thoughts, anger ,murderous thoughts ,evil communication, etc I was torn down and I was gone keep being how I was God torn my acl I knew he did and I got into the Bible and it took my 6 months to trust in him completely but I eventually stopped sinning and fought the urges and didn’t pay them no mind the Holy Spirit was working Thur me and my wicked heart became soft again I eventually got baptized in the blood of Jesus and was set free I felt joy peace love and I forgave everyone from the ppl who murdered my friends , from the women that played me from ,lusting from living in evil and being happy about it I was made new Jesus saves and he loves you repent you are loved and your soul is worth more than gold you have to believe and trust and trust wat God say rather than watch you think in your heart or mind truth .❤

  • @drileydriley2814
    @drileydriley2814 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I SINCERELY WISH you and I lived next to each other. Of course, YOU may not wish that! 😂 I really wish I had a friend like you I could just go out with, shoot the breeze, etc. Regardless, I wish every man a REAL friend. I often feel INADEQUATE, but ...we ARE ALL inadequate in sime ways. That's why we need each other. No man is an island.
    (You can't save yourself, but Jesus already waved all of us! I know what you meant, though.)

  • @Jordo_TheBoi
    @Jordo_TheBoi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I care about u man

  • @creylacoste4981
    @creylacoste4981 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So that’s what people mean when they call me a beta simp snowflake, now I know what it means.

    • @stevenotero2627
      @stevenotero2627 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He was saying that being a snowflake is that you are unique and special in your own right. In a positive way. Not in the negative way you put it or how others have tried to make it demming towards you.

    • @stevenotero2627
      @stevenotero2627 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He meant it as a positive. As in you are unique like each and every snowflake is. Not in the negative way you put it or how others tried to make it seem.

  • @user-yg7kb1mt9z
    @user-yg7kb1mt9z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    America is so fucked.

  • @aberaaklilu160
    @aberaaklilu160 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Only if you didn't use the f* word. Otherwise you are on a helpful path...

  • @1234bcadlog
    @1234bcadlog 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yes no one cares and the world can care less about one less person

  • @abebber2008
    @abebber2008 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't understand why you would record yourself trying to give a thoughtful speech while you are driving? Why don't you focus 100% on the road or 100% on what you are trying to say? Looking into the camera as you are driving. I think anyone who does this consistently is not focused on the right things

  • @Sk1nNeufeldX
    @Sk1nNeufeldX 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts! No one cares and that's okay!

  • @Cranberry91
    @Cranberry91 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep your problems to yourself no matter what by all means never open your mouth about your problems ppl are happy you have them so keep your problems to yourself and just push through like a man

    • @Cranberry91
      @Cranberry91 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nobody cares what is going on trust me it’s attention seeking if you talk so be a man and keep quiet and just grind

  • @braedonmcknight154
    @braedonmcknight154 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here’s a man that talks a whole lot of truth about nothing

  • @Gaizaz
    @Gaizaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Whatever you or anyone says its all BS. Life is BS and theres no point in carrying on. Self improve, blah blah blah lmao. Its all BS. I'm checking tf out bye duuude it wasnt fun lmao

    • @jaybee4288
      @jaybee4288 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You didn’t accomplish much, just gen z internet language and a weak mindset. What a waste lmao.

    • @Gaizaz
      @Gaizaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jaybee4288 Heard all your BS before dude, don't care

    • @user-yg7kb1mt9z
      @user-yg7kb1mt9z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jaybee4288bot 🤖

    • @Phriffo
      @Phriffo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Okay Tyler Durden

  • @halfpipefreak
    @halfpipefreak 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    going to get myself some good quality mushrooms and set an intent to better myself and to try and let go of addictions and physical pain. I need plant medicine i think.

    • @shanecorr1694
      @shanecorr1694 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How about faith in Christ

    • @WhoWellOk
      @WhoWellOk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shanecorr1694they don’t believe in Christ