Social media need to stop promoting this craziness. They're not even old enough to go on a field trip by themselves but they are old enough to say what gender they supposed to be. And these parents are letting them decide at two three four years old. This is total lunacy
CHOICE? Did you choose your personality? Did you choose to be like your body? This isn't about choice. It's about acceptance! Isn't it abusive to force a child to be something they are not? You expect everyone to conform to their skin. I knew I was a girl trapped in a boy's body over 30 years ago. Thanks to RELIGIOUS PEOPLE thinking they know better than God, I had no help and no support. And that scarred me for life many times over. It destroyed me in ways you will never experience. And yet you think you're qualified to judge people like me?
@@r-platt Awesome! Good for you. Will this kid for sure have the same feelings in a year? 5 years? 20 years? Who knows. But I do know that parents should not pressure their children to make decisions like this at the first sign of them realizing they're different. There is no God by the way.
@@HashPhantom I agree. Pressuring children on something so critical is wrong. Do you honestly believe this little boy was pressured? If so, what's your evidence?
I too agree with you.. this child should have transitioned both socially and medically at least at the age of sixteen... this child is too young to have taken estrogen blockers and transitioned socially...
@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh You strike me as someone who doesn't read anything that isn't written by people you agree with. If you haven't researched the contrary (which I don't believe you have) this would be like a lion arguing with a sheep.
@@mikeycurtin5017 actually I do research. I research by lessening too actually trans people. Because transgender people know the most about transgender people.
This brings me to tears because 1) Jacob is awesome 2) his family is supportive 3) I grieve my lost childhood and the support I never had. I too realized I was different when I was 5 years old, but there wasn't any understanding and I had to endure/survive a lot of nonsense. As a 35 year old social worker who medically transitioned over 14 years ago, I share my story to help kids like Jacob know they are not alone. Jacob is the next generation advocate and, though I don't personally know him, I am so proud of him!
I had always thought about what it would be like if I was born a boy, and came out when I was 10. I may have been young and got to start transition, but I still felt like I lost the core part of my childhood.
This child s parents are stupid to have helped it transitioned both socially and medically...these parents should have taken this child to a phyciatrist to help it come to terms with its female genital organs...
-Mom, can I have a tatoo? -No. -Can I stay with friends late at night? -No. -Can I drink beer? -No. -Can I change my gender? -Of course! Let's start a medical procedure right now!
Why does everyone think that being trans means kids automatically having medical procedures??? Many, many parents aren't even supportive of their trans children, let alone allowing them to undergo surgery, not to mention how long and involved the process is. And that's only if you are 18, typically.... Plus how is it your business what this family does with their kids? Lots of [platonic] love to you, Jacob ❤️
hormone blockers aren't permanent! if he changes his mind at any point he can stop them and he would develop as a female, and the hormones that do cause permanent change can only be taken at an older age! so its alright, he's all good
@tannya how does taking hormone blockers give someone pocd? a hormone blocker stops the wrong puberty happening. also, how is having underdeveloped ovaries going to affect someone who is supposed to be a man? if they realise that they're actually a woman, the blockers can be stopped at any point, and normal female development will recommence.
More cruel to allow a child to go through the wrong puberty. Gender dysphoria is very distressing (look it up). Puberty blockers are only given around age 10 - 12.
Adults can do whatever they want their life but why would you allow a child to make such a life altering decision? Kids don't understand they have a whole life ahead of them. I feel so bad for this child, the parents have failed this kid.
@@Wildemere1 You cannot tell me every single one did not regret it because I know that is not true. Like I said when you are a "know nothing about life child" you should not be allowed to make such a life changing decision.
@@whyusojelly7989 Since when does ANYONE decide their gender identity? Did you wait until you were an adult to decide not to be transgender? Beyond that the ONLY thing that changes before puberty is clothing, name and maybe toys.
@Taylor Brown When did you realize you were a woman? Certainly you knew this in your head long before puberty, yes? That certainty exists for us, but in reverse. Nobody can explain how or why it happens, only that it does happen.
Kids are smarter than you give them credit for. It's not like you wise up all of a sudden when you turn 18. Adults often have similar beliefs to the ones they had as children. If a child is willing to go through the rigorous process of a gender change they are probably are serious about it. Kids aren't dumb about everything.
Kids are still kids who should not be given the power to make life-altering decisions. it's not like the "choose your character" that they're used to. I hope you come to terms with this comment when you see the influx of detransitioners.
No, kids are not smarter than we think they are; people say that because it's easier than tough love. Children have little real world experiences and to let them make life-altering decisions before they have reached puberty, is madness.
This makes me really sad seeing all these hate comments Jacob is a sweet boy and he deserves to be happy and you should never judge someone for being born in the wrong body shame on all of you haters.
Unbelievable that someone can watch this video and not sympathize for their cause. Personally I have a lot of trans bigotry ingrained in me but I know its wrong and everyone should be loved and accepted for who they are
The real problem is gender stereotypes. Stop abusing this girl, let her be herself instead of telling her she is actually a boy because of her behaviors, hobbies, favorite colors, etc.
You transitioned a four yr old wth is wrong with you and everybody here children shouldn’t have to have their identity changed because of your influence
@@curyyxz If kids that age are mature enough to make the decision to chemically castrate themselves, then they're mature enough to drink or get a tattoo. Cause the latter are easily reversible.
I’m so glad you were supportive of him and let him be himself. He seems so happy. The suicide rate is too high amongst trans people. it’s heartbreaking. glad to see some parents still care about their children. ❤
this not caring this confusing, it only west that is ok to seterilize kids because they feel something, kids don't like their face, weight or gender, you teach them to love them selfe not confuse them, how can a kid made his mind what he want at such young age, this agenda , those kids will pay the price later on life when they come to their sense
Check your facts: the ACTUAL suicides happen AFTER medical transition. You know, the thing parents are sold as: "essential life saving care" to prevent suicide.. This list is very long.
Disabled people learn to live with their disability...so should do trans children.. they should learn to live with their biologically body.only Adults should transition both socially and medically
She said, " Its ok to go through a period of confusion, you child will be ok as long as you support them." At age 5 i think the support should be shown through guidance. I agree with her it's ok to be confused, for a short period of time. Wont this bring a long life of confusion? when the body begins to go through the natural evolution Jacob will have to go through intense means to achieve what they desire. Very complicated matter I hope they find joy and happiness in abundance.
You can change the body to match the brain. You can’t change the brain to match the body or at least doctors haven’t found a way to yet. Just to have him try to be a girl will never change any neurological wiring.
@Icman7 no. HE is a BOY and HE will be a very strong MAN. HE could change HIS mind but right now HE is happy and comfortable with HIMSELF and that’s all that matters
The transphobia in these comments are glaring and say a LOT more about the commentators than this boy and this amazing family. I too have a young transgender daughter who just turned 8 (transitioned at 6) and these children know EXACTLY who they are in this world! We didn't have to tell them anything, they figured out all on their own. Being trans is best described by how we "Choose" which hand to write with.... We don't actually "choose". We write with the hand that feels most comfortable and easiest for us. If you are left handed and are forced to write with your right hand, you CAN and with practice, be VERY good at it - but it will never FEEL natural, easy or "right". THAT is what it is like to be trans.
@Derek Fisher I mean, scientists and doctors support transgender people so that's all the truth I need instead of some bigoted opinion from some stranger online with no medical/science degree. Educate yourself.
@Derek Fisher you literally don't even know what you're talking about. The dysphoria is treated by transitioning. Literally stop spreading misinformation.
Be thankful for each child. They are gifted to us with love. Respect everything about them. Do not allow anyone to suggest that they were born Less than perfect, Less than good, Less than.
This child is too young to have transitioned both socially and medically... this child could have transitioned both socially and medically at least at the age of sixteen
it’s 2020 and i’m disappointed in most of these people’s response. he has obviously been consistent and either way he’s not your kid i hope that you become open to the idea and accept the idea that trans people exist. and being trans is a real thing. this kid did it before it was “ok”, so as you can see not all of us are confused or do it for attention. he’s always been very much sure. leave him alone.
Sufyan consent?? they havent done anything permanent. let the kid b. the kid brought it up. the parents didnt say oh ur trans now. theres nothing to consent to, the kid is obviously happy and hes not 5 anymore and has been nothing but consistent.
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
@@hendrixjinxy1794 No human should support a child wanting to indulge in lgbt. This is a sign that the child was turned away from God and is told that cross dressing and lgbt is natural.
These kids aren't getting the help they need.. this is very disturbing to encourage children to do these kinds of things. Sexuality isn't a thing kids should worry about at all.
This isn't sexual and the kid has been in therapy longer than most adults. He's fine. You on the other hand may need to speak to someone if your mind immediately goes sexual where kids are involved.
I'm so proud of Jacob. Absolutely heart warming seeing his parents supporting him like this. Seriously touching. I didn't find myself until I was in my twenties so I'm extremely happy to see the world taking these massive steps forward. Thanks for sharing their story
this is wrong these parents are horrible. this kid at these ages should not even know what this is. they should let the kid be a kid instead of brainwashing her yes she is a her wake up.
Theres a difference between letting your child take a medication to make then happier in their body which by the way doesn’t harm them at all vs a alcoholic drink which can severely harm a child.
@@curyyxz Alcoholic drinks such as wine could make you happier, not healthy but happy despite it causing harms in their body. Point is gender dysphoria does not cause fractures or infect someone's anatomy.
My home owner's insurance company wanted to drop my coverage because my policy did not include a rider for having a pitbull. I simply stated that Patton (as seen in pic) is actually trans-Labrador. Problem solved.
She looks like a boy for now. When puberty hits. Its going to get bad. Also dating life is very difficult for trans people. These parents are definitely going to regret not changing this behavior. A child can't make decisions like this. This is stupid.
Puberty Blockers = halted puberty You can''t change someone's identity. This isn't a moral or instructional issue. A child can't make these decisions. A child CAN bring this to 4 adults who DO make this decision. Just keep in mind none of these decisions are made lightly or quickly. There are FAR more issues discussed than you've suggested.
@tannya As with every such suggestion from a child, start with gentle correction. If they persist do what any good parent does: get help. Besides, what gender is "dog"?
His parents won't allow him to go through the wrong puberty. He will be treated with HRT. That's how it works. Let him be who he is. It is not easy being trans but it is even harder living in denial and trying to be something you are not.
@@MathewRainTranslife101 As someone who lived in denial, I can attest to just how much living with gender dysphoria destroys a person. I suffered a 4 massive breakdowns each preceded by months of wave after wave of dysphoria washing over me every waking moment. The longer we wait the harder it is. Think of it this way: if giving a non-trans child the wrong hormones damages them, how much worse is it for the trans child forced to endure their "natural" and very wrong hormones.
@James A That is a myth. Any child can learn to accept himself. I would send my child to a therapist and never let People change his body at such a young age. You are insane if you would allow a 4 year old to undergo a trans operation.
@@selcukdilek4656 Yeah it’s a fact that she’s still biological female but the reality doesn’t matter this day, I guess. So we just gonna be delusional and everybody have to be delusional too for our own fantasy’s sake.
I just wanted to ask in a respectfully way tho.As an elder trans man would you encourage other under age kids to partake in such a huge decision at a young age?
@@pikachudemsy9751 I mean at 9 years old all he's doing is changing his name and pronouns. Nothing irreversible there. If you're asking me if I'd encourage kids to go on hormones (something that never happens, but the media likes to pretend does) then absolutely not. He's a child. If you're asking me about hormone blockers, it's a harder one because there ARE adverse effects, but at the same time, there are adverse effects of birth control, and a ridiculous amount of teenage girls are given that at 11/12/13. Ultimately, the only thing I'd encourage is that a parent take their child to a psychiatrist who can help their child explore their feelings, and also rule out any other underlying causes of their dysphoria before even considering next steps.
@@nb8205 ohh wow .Thank you so much. I was genuinely scared to ask because I thought you would feel attacked but I really appreciate you taking your time to write me an informative answer.I hope you have a nice day💖
Proud of this boy for being a voice for the voiceless Transgender teens, kids and even adults in the real world. Putting on a brave face and speaking out publicly isn't as easy as it seems. Thank you, Jacob.
Actually, trans kids who aren't supported by their family are more likely to commit suicide. Transitioning and being supported by loved ones brings the statistic down to the average.
My worry is not for kids like Jacob that expressed their trans identity from very early childhood. My worry is for the teens (mostly female) that express rapid onset gender dysphoria in mid adolescence. Many of these teens will have body dysphoria and mental health issues that are not being treated. That is my worry about current TRA.
I'm that trans guy lol,here's my story.I'm 14 and I was born female but since I was as young as jakob around 4 years old is when I knew that I was a boy and I knew that's who I am so I just grew up dressing and acting like a boy and people did call me a boy and I was super happy and my parents are Christian so I don't wanna tell them,I'm scared that they may think something is wrong with me and I also like girls and dated a few but my parents know nothing they just think I'm a tomboy but since I started puberty at 11 my dysphoria became so bad and at 12 during quarantine I almost ended it because I was getting called a girl all the time,hated my body,started self harm,suffered from depression,did bad at school,was an outcast at school,gained over 100 pounds and now I'm 14 and I lost some of the weight that i gained in 2020 but I'm at my worst mental state right now but I'm fighting and lucky to be alive and no kid is supposed to be going through this but I'm trying to heal and I just want to lose some weight and build muscle to look more masculine to decrease my dysphoria and look like my true self it's a struggle and I don't know if I'll ever tell my family but I will transition as soon as I turn 18,if you want to see what I look like you can go to my instagram it's @jace.szn__ Little update,I'm 15 and a half now,16 in 5 months and I'm doing better,lost 10kg/22lbs since January,looking better,healthier than ever,made some friends,love my life
ROGD doesn’t exist. it was literally made up by facebook (based on a n@zi conspiracy theory that homosexuality is a “disease”) and then debunked my actual medical experts.
Why are the comments so negative? Just let Jacob be happy, he knows who is and he's living a happy life being able to be himself. Leave him alone. If you don't like this then why watch the video? Go do something useful.
True, but the issue is with children making decisions about their life when they are 5 years old.....not every child will be a 'Jacob' when they transition at his age, then grow up to maybe reconsider. It is well known that a child's brain does not fully develop until they are much older than 5
Because occasionally real men get into fist fight that's just what we do! I can honestly say 99% of me and my guy friend of all got into a fist fight with somebody in our lifetime!
@@coreystill7197 if you are insinuating that trans men are weak, you don't know the power of testosterone. Some of these guys have really big muscles. But I hope he will have the sense to avoid needless violence when he is older.
To everyone saying "Jesus doesn't approve" - get educated. Jesus was a Jew. And the Jewish Tradition recognizes 6 (SIX) genders. Jesus was raised to love and accept trans and non binary people, it was a part of his faith. So quit trying to use him only to go against him. You are the ones claiming to know more than the son of your God. As I recall from actually reading the bible - that's a big don't.
Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, [10] Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. ... Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. 1Cor.6 - Bible, King James Versionquod
I just can’t help but think what it would be like when Jacob enters teen hood and eventually adulthood. I’m sure dating would be extremely difficult for her. Her parents are utter monsters.
@@curyyxz The coronavirus could damage your lungs and stop you from breathing, but I don't see how an imaginary virus like gender dysphoria could infect or fracture anybody?
to all the people being bigots in the comments, literally no medical intervention can be made until he's at least 16 years old. and even then he would be on a very long waiting list he still has years and years to decide if this is what he wants and these parents clearly care since they made sure to ask until he told them to stop. he would clearly be aware that if he realised this isn't who he is he can tell them.
This is exactly what I was thinking. All the changes he has made are totally reversible. Right now it's name, hair ,clothes and gender pronoun. I wish Jacob the happiest years of life just being himself and loving himself ❤️ and loved and accepted by his family. Show those naysayers that they don't know what they are talking about! One love ❤️ We are all human ❣️
It is not being a bigot when clearly this child is a girl. She was meant to be a girl because that is the way she was made. I mean I could identify as being a billionaire but that does not make me one.
Great job Jacob! I’m glad you’re happy living life as a boy! :D And to everyone who’s complaining about the way his parents are letting him express himself, entirely shut up. This is JACOB’s life not yours.
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal illegal
When I was 9 I wanted to be a dolphin so my parents took me to the beach and pointed me to the ocean. After about 15 minutes heading out to sea, I decided i wanted to just be a human and returned home to live a normal life. If I had this kids parents they would have dressed me up like a dolphin and tolerated me making dolphin sounds and let me stay at the aquarium watching my dolphin "family." sometimes the worse thing in a child's life is their stupid parents.
I felt somewhat that way even though I was always very girly I felt too like I was made wrong now I have legally changed my first name my middle name and gender and I get my hair cut shorter I however even though I have always known that something wasn’t right as a toddler; I didn’t exactly have the words to describe that back then to my parents etc. Until now...
@@margolemgamer4933 trust me,just let her have all that so she can know that you love and support her and if s tells you she's trans,support her 100% and you will not regret it,if you don't she won't be happy
My parents are catholic and my family is really strict about rules and how we do things how we dress, and because of that I was put into a Private school where this and that wasn’t allowed. In third grade I switched to public that’s when I really started feeling that I was not in the right body. My mom wanted to dress me all nice and cute and I hated it. The days I would get to dress my self it was tee shirts sweatpants and sweatshirts but I felt comfortable. Then in 4th grade, during summer vacation I left my mom a note in my parents room and left to grandparents house hopefully think somebody would read it . My mom read and immediately came to pick me up, I asked her why she came to pick me up she was silent the whole car ride home we got home and she told me god choose for you to be a girl re you saying he doesn’t now what your doing. In my mind I was like he could have accidentally made a mistake. My mom immediately said no you are a girl you will stay a girl and will never ever ask me this question again. My mom moved on thinking it was a phase but I always had that thought in my head that one day she would change her mind. I am now in 7 grade and still am thinking that way and my mom still thought I was a phase but this year me had to move houses because of covid and my mom told me to give away anything I know I am not going to wear. I basically gave away everything I had very little clothes form my old house and my mom said what about all this clothes and I told her I am not going to wear this and she said but I thought you like this clothes and I said no you liked this clothes not me. She later than said okay you know what I thought this was a phase and you apparently still haven’t got over this thing. My parents than began to judge about everything and I continue to dress this way but them my family began to judge why are you dressing like this why are you wearing this or why aren’t you wearing this. And it made me buy depressed were I am currently am right now and I makes me happy to see these kids that there parents accept them for who they are and they are not judged for who they are.
i wanted to be a boy when i was a kid. and i never liked (still don't) wearing dresses, make-up, combing my hair etc etc. i used to ask my mom why oh why i was a boy. i still wear androgynous clothes. i never wear make-up (or hardly). i still don't care about looking like a pretty woman. i don't have breasts (so tiny you can't notice them). i fancy guys, but guys don't fancy my style. i don't mind. i'm a woman. but most and foremost, i am ME. your parents love you. they don't show it the right way. they lack understanding. it's okay. they're not perfect. you're not perfect. show them the empathy you feel they're lacking. write them a letter. just write what you feel, what you need from them, what you've learnt from them. tell them that you don't want to grow as a confused teenager/adult. you don't have to give the letter to them. you may want to keep it. it may help you get your thoughts in 'order', so as to be able to put the right words to express your feelings. best-est of luck and much strength to you
rastaewabeach Absolutely. Nobody questions why a young child is considering sexuality/anatomy at that age. Well, nobody in the propaganda videos, at least...
He's not, he's being who he is and he's happy being who he is. The fact that you would assume that just because you don't understand being trans is just disgusting. Also there are only some cases of that being a cause but not many. Most trans people who transition are happy with themselves.
Total and absolute insanity. The idea that parents become childeren who follow their kids fanatasies is not progression but a steep decent towards an cultural end state. forgive them God for they don't know what they're doing.
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
Usually the non-trans-kids are told what they can expect in the future with puberty, mates/partners and the possibilities of offsprings making etcetera. What are the trans-kid told? The truth? Or something else?
@@MathewRainTranslife101 Everybody comes to terms with their sexual and gender identity differently. It's very bold to just state that people who are trans have been trans their whole lives. Maybe they have just developed into who they are for a variety of factors. Of course, I don't know and I haven't seen any compelling evidence to make a bold declaration about gender identity as you have. For now, I will just treat every person as an individual.
This is trans enableism child abuse from the parents. I hope this kid sues the crap out of her horrible parents and doctors someday when she's flooded with regret and despair.
But what if u were a boy and u did NOT WANT TO BE. or a girl WHO DID NOT WANT TO BE! See u would be in the same position IM A PROUD TRANS FURRY! 🏳️⚧️🐾🐸
Isiah 5:20 “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!”
Early childhood everything is marketed and so pushed to pink and blue, no wonder some kids feel it is urgent to change. If we allowed more of a spectrum it would be easier. This sounds like a hard problem so I can't criticize these parents. They don't want their child to be miserable.
Kids don’t even know what cereal they want to eat, this is insane. Let’s kids be kids
theolove I’m on the same page and the long term negative consequences of his metal health. As parents, they are suppose to guide their children.
Social media need to stop promoting this craziness. They're not even old enough to go on a field trip by themselves but they are old enough to say what gender they supposed to be. And these parents are letting them decide at two three four years old. This is total lunacy
CHOICE? Did you choose your personality? Did you choose to be like your body? This isn't about choice. It's about acceptance!
Isn't it abusive to force a child to be something they are not? You expect everyone to conform to their skin.
I knew I was a girl trapped in a boy's body over 30 years ago. Thanks to RELIGIOUS PEOPLE thinking they know better than God, I had no help and no support. And that scarred me for life many times over. It destroyed me in ways you will never experience. And yet you think you're qualified to judge people like me?
@@r-platt Awesome! Good for you. Will this kid for sure have the same feelings in a year? 5 years? 20 years? Who knows. But I do know that parents should not pressure their children to make decisions like this at the first sign of them realizing they're different. There is no God by the way.
@@HashPhantom I agree. Pressuring children on something so critical is wrong.
Do you honestly believe this little boy was pressured? If so, what's your evidence?
9 years old being given puberty blockers by the medical community? Whoever prescribed them should be in prison
Ya pretty mutch bro
I too agree with you.. this child should have transitioned both socially and medically at least at the age of sixteen... this child is too young to have taken estrogen blockers and transitioned socially...
Puberty blockers are not harmful at all.
@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh You strike me as someone who doesn't read anything that isn't written by people you agree with. If you haven't researched the contrary (which I don't believe you have) this would be like a lion arguing with a sheep.
@@mikeycurtin5017 actually I do research. I research by lessening too actually trans people. Because transgender people know the most about transgender people.
The child is not in the "wrong body", but in the wrong society.
"I was born in the wrong body" mantra. No kid has this idea out of nowhere.
Well said
i was born in the wrong body is a saying to help cis people understand us
@@triciaivers2572 Not working. Find some other way to indoctrinate kids
Lorvina stop it, get some help.
Trans people are valid
Oh, yes. The totally organic, definitely not moderated comment section.
Go back to TYT or MSNBC if your eyes can’t bare a dissenting opinion
This brings me to tears because 1) Jacob is awesome 2) his family is supportive 3) I grieve my lost childhood and the support I never had. I too realized I was different when I was 5 years old, but there wasn't any understanding and I had to endure/survive a lot of nonsense. As a 35 year old social worker who medically transitioned over 14 years ago, I share my story to help kids like Jacob know they are not alone. Jacob is the next generation advocate and, though I don't personally know him, I am so proud of him!
Thank you for your work, honestly, I wish I would have been comfortable enough talking to my school counselor when I was a kid >_
I had always thought about what it would be like if I was born a boy, and came out when I was 10. I may have been young and got to start transition, but I still felt like I lost the core part of my childhood.
@A A you need help. you are a transphobe. nobody likes transphobes.
This child s parents are stupid to have helped it transitioned both socially and medically...these parents should have taken this child to a phyciatrist to help it come to terms with its female genital organs...
Beyond his years. I wish him well.
Nah!
-Mom, can I have a tatoo?
-No.
-Can I stay with friends late at night?
-No.
-Can I drink beer?
-No.
-Can I change my gender?
-Of course! Let's start a medical procedure right now!
It’s Jacob and I haven’t had any medical procedures, and there’s nothing wrong with being trans
Why does everyone think that being trans means kids automatically having medical procedures??? Many, many parents aren't even supportive of their trans children, let alone allowing them to undergo surgery, not to mention how long and involved the process is. And that's only if you are 18, typically....
Plus how is it your business what this family does with their kids?
Lots of [platonic] love to you, Jacob ❤️
I guess she couldn’t understand “you get what you get and you don’t get upset” 😭
It is cruel to give a child hormone blockers, he isnt mature enough to make huge decisions like this. Really he isnt.
hormone blockers aren't permanent! if he changes his mind at any point he can stop them and he would develop as a female, and the hormones that do cause permanent change can only be taken at an older age! so its alright, he's all good
@tannya how does taking hormone blockers give someone pocd? a hormone blocker stops the wrong puberty happening. also, how is having underdeveloped ovaries going to affect someone who is supposed to be a man? if they realise that they're actually a woman, the blockers can be stopped at any point, and normal female development will recommence.
More cruel to allow a child to go through the wrong puberty. Gender dysphoria is very distressing (look it up). Puberty blockers are only given around age 10 - 12.
@@jay1711 You don't want children in the future?
Adults can do whatever they want their life but why would you allow a child to make such a life altering decision? Kids don't understand they have a whole life ahead of them. I feel so bad for this child, the parents have failed this kid.
Every LBGTQ person I know KNEW they were that way from a very young age. Forcing them to be something they are not is cruel.
I just hit my tooth on my guitar while I was playing, and now there’s a random tooth mark in it.
@@Wildemere1 You cannot tell me every single one did not regret it because I know that is not true. Like I said when you are a "know nothing about life child" you should not be allowed to make such a life changing decision.
@@whyusojelly7989 Since when does ANYONE decide their gender identity? Did you wait until you were an adult to decide not to be transgender?
Beyond that the ONLY thing that changes before puberty is clothing, name and maybe toys.
@Taylor Brown When did you realize you were a woman? Certainly you knew this in your head long before puberty, yes?
That certainty exists for us, but in reverse. Nobody can explain how or why it happens, only that it does happen.
I hope that Jacob is doing well today. He is such a bright, lively, and loving little boy.
Girl*
@@Jesusisking1198 NO
@@dAt._GAY._furRy YES
This is ridiculous.
I can be whatever I want? Ok so I want to be an ant. Wait... no no no I want to be a couch. 😅
@@markito8763 You can be what you want , but you cannot force me to call you what you want.
Kids are smarter than you give them credit for. It's not like you wise up all of a sudden when you turn 18. Adults often have similar beliefs to the ones they had as children. If a child is willing to go through the rigorous process of a gender change they are probably are serious about it. Kids aren't dumb about everything.
I think I've realized violence really is the answer...
@@pumpkinkill2937 seems like a you probably. Most kids are smarter than we give them credit for.😊
Kids are still kids who should not be given the power to make life-altering decisions. it's not like the "choose your character" that they're used to. I hope you come to terms with this comment when you see the influx of detransitioners.
@@douglasmiyagawa he has not made any life-altering decisions. And the detransion rate is less than one percent.
No, kids are not smarter than we think they are; people say that because it's easier than tough love. Children have little real world experiences and to let them make life-altering decisions before they have reached puberty, is madness.
This place gone mad
Parents ought to be locked up.
why?
@@charliedoll3124 they thought thier kid poking at thier body mean they wanted to be a man.
@@parappa910 he was saying he was not a girl
This makes me really sad seeing all these hate comments Jacob is a sweet boy and he deserves to be happy and you should never judge someone for being born in the wrong body shame on all of you haters.
Unbelievable that someone can watch this video and not sympathize for their cause. Personally I have a lot of trans bigotry ingrained in me but I know its wrong and everyone should be loved and accepted for who they are
joeybboy you’re absolutely right! Let’s all show some support!
Girl* not boy
@@sebastianjeznach7887 I wonder how you'd feel if this was someone you loved or you for that matter.
joeybboy I agree it’s not cool to discriminate and everyone should be accepted for who they are meant to be
9 let the child be what they want. I wanted to fly like superman
The real problem is gender stereotypes. Stop abusing this girl, let her be herself instead of telling her she is actually a boy because of her behaviors, hobbies, favorite colors, etc.
@@palioks3280 this kid is 9 years old. And you think she’s ready to make decisions for herself.
@@The_art_of_trolling STOP CALLING HIM A SHE
@@hendrixjinxy1794 Delusional.
Hes male
@@hendrixjinxy1794 Thank you...
Stop calling HIM a she, it's not that hard and it's not your business 😔
You transitioned a four yr old wth is wrong with you and everybody here children shouldn’t have to have their identity changed because of your influence
I love you and your opinion
First of all this dude is 9, now 10-11. And this was HIS choice, he was one that told his parents that he was a boy.
the kid cut his hair wears different clothes thats it hormone blockers are completely reversible
@@curyyxz If kids that age are mature enough to make the decision to chemically castrate themselves, then they're mature enough to drink or get a tattoo. Cause the latter are easily reversible.
What's wrong with it? Kid asked for it.
I’m so glad you were supportive of him and let him be himself. He seems so happy. The suicide rate is too high amongst trans people. it’s heartbreaking. glad to see some parents still care about their children. ❤
this not caring this confusing, it only west that is ok to seterilize kids because they feel something, kids don't like their face, weight or gender, you teach them to love them selfe not confuse them, how can a kid made his mind what he want at such young age, this agenda , those kids will pay the price later on life when they come to their sense
Check your facts: the ACTUAL suicides happen AFTER medical transition. You know, the thing parents are sold as: "essential life saving care" to prevent suicide.. This list is very long.
Disabled people learn to live with their disability...so should do trans children.. they should learn to live with their biologically body.only
Adults should transition both socially and medically
@@ΜαρίαΚοκόση-ε8δ that makes far too much sense. You must be an alt-'right transphobe
@@samuelhailai4285 he was the one who said he was not a girl
I see the parents grooming the child instead of letting the child be a child.
What?
the kids a kid he said he wants to be a boy and said thats who he is
How is it grooming to cut their kids hair 💀
Not gonna try and convince y'all to see what is happening here. Good luck tho.
She said, " Its ok to go through a period of confusion, you child will be ok as long as you support them." At age 5 i think the support should be shown through guidance. I agree with her it's ok to be confused, for a short period of time. Wont this bring a long life of confusion? when the body begins to go through the natural evolution Jacob will have to go through intense means to achieve what they desire. Very complicated matter I hope they find joy and happiness in abundance.
You can change the body to match the brain. You can’t change the brain to match the body or at least doctors haven’t found a way to yet. Just to have him try to be a girl will never change any neurological wiring.
He can start hormone blockers before puberty hits, which would make it easier.
@@Squiiiddy That's called abuse.
@@MrAllen-fv9cj How is it abuse?
@@Squiiiddysilly parents.. only adults should transition both socially and medically... not children or young teenagers
If this doesn’t make you angry, you’re too far gone.
If this makes you angry you haven't learned what it means to be transgender.
It also means you aren't the parent of a child with special needs.
Ignorant, arrogant people who disrespect others makes me angry.
Shut up Rachel HES 5
@@ghostxproplayz0456 Who are you and what makes you qualified to know what's best for complete strangers?
Yeah, these ppl need jesus
Where will this kid be twenty years from now.
@Icman7 no. HE is a BOY and HE will be a very strong MAN. HE could change HIS mind but right now HE is happy and comfortable with HIMSELF and that’s all that matters
@@YaBoii-in6tm ya that’s awesome to say I’m actually transgender female to male and my name is Jacob too!!
@@YaBoii-in6tm the rate of suicide is about twenty times higher than average
@ndpuddlesforever im so embarrassed to share a similar name to this loser
happy that he got this
The transphobia in these comments are glaring and say a LOT more about the commentators than this boy and this amazing family.
I too have a young transgender daughter who just turned 8 (transitioned at 6) and these children know EXACTLY who they are in this world! We didn't have to tell them anything, they figured out all on their own.
Being trans is best described by how we "Choose" which hand to write with....
We don't actually "choose". We write with the hand that feels most comfortable and easiest for us. If you are left handed and are forced to write with your right hand, you CAN and with practice, be VERY good at it - but it will never FEEL natural, easy or "right".
THAT is what it is like to be trans.
That's not our concern
Crystal Kells you’re a great parent for letting your child be trans and I wish you both the best! :D
@@patriot8242 you have ZERO idea wtf you're even talking about lol.
Sit down before you hurt yourself.
@@koalagamingyt9978 Thank you so much my dear.
You are a horrible parent. You still have a son, NOT A DAUGHTER
It's awesome to see parents so supportive of their trans kid. I'm so happy for him.
@Derek Fisher we're talking gender, not a different species. Transgender is scientifically supported and back by scientists and doctors.
I identify as an attack helicopter, WHY DON'T THE DOCTORS MAKE ME LOOK LIKE WHO I REALLY AM IN THE INSIDE? I AM AN ATTACK HELICOPTER, I FEEL HATED!!!
@@luxurydevilcr9944 come back with new material [ yawn ]
@Derek Fisher I mean, scientists and doctors support transgender people so that's all the truth I need instead of some bigoted opinion from some stranger online with no medical/science degree. Educate yourself.
@Derek Fisher you literally don't even know what you're talking about. The dysphoria is treated by transitioning. Literally stop spreading misinformation.
Be thankful for each child.
They are gifted to us with love.
Respect everything about them.
Do not allow anyone to suggest that they were
born Less than perfect, Less than good, Less than.
and let them change because change can be good
Shout out to the parents who listened to their child and put his mental and emotional needs first.
i agree!
Quite the opposite
This child is too young to have transitioned both socially and medically... this child could have transitioned both socially and medically at least at the age of sixteen
@@ΜαρίαΚοκόση-ε8δ kids know who they are
@@Kane.JimLahey.I agree … because she didn’t fit the stereotype she got groomed… this is EVIL in all ways!
The head of pediatrics considers this child abuse
For letting a child be happy as who he is and not grow up depressed or suicidal in some cases?
it’s 2020 and i’m disappointed in most of these people’s response. he has obviously been consistent and either way he’s not your kid i hope that you become open to the idea and accept the idea that trans people exist. and being trans is a real thing. this kid did it before it was “ok”, so as you can see not all of us are confused or do it for attention. he’s always been very much sure. leave him alone.
How does he consent at 5
Sufyan consent?? they havent done anything permanent. let the kid b. the kid brought it up. the parents didnt say oh ur trans now. theres nothing to consent to, the kid is obviously happy and hes not 5 anymore and has been nothing but consistent.
how can you let a kid change their gender. kids don't even know what type of cereal to pick out.
Being trans is a choice.
@August Khayat I don’t care how you feel on the inside.
Bruh y did u force him he was 5
They didn't focus him
" Jacob Lemay when he was 5 years "
No , Jacob Lemay when *she* was 5 years
@Brian Vachon TDS SYNDROME SUFFERERS
@Brian Vachon what's Anti lgbtqrstuv....You all are Anti-Creation!
*He
@@spencerwood6583 she
@@kixxci6708 he
"I want people to feel more comfortable in schools, everyone to be accepted" Wow! more wisdom from this 9 year old kid than many adults!
Everyone but a kid wearing a MAGA cap.
@@joecole4208 schools don't enforce that.
put him to be your president, duh
Jesus, so much stupidity! Wisdom in a child! Well, in a way, I agree, compared with the lack of wisdom of some adults...
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
When I was eight I wanted to be a pirate. I'm still upset my parents didn't let me cut my leg off and pop out one of my eyes.
Not the same thing
The parents should be arrested
Based
100%
10000%
No they should not.
Thank you for showing a positive trans youth video. It's important for others to understand it starts young for most.
This shouldn’t be inspiring but rather a sign that things are getting worse.
@@repentofyoursinsandbelieve629 transphobes are getting worse
@@hendrixjinxy1794
No human should support a child wanting to indulge in lgbt. This is a sign that the child was turned away from God and is told that cross dressing and lgbt is natural.
These kids aren't getting the help they need.. this is very disturbing to encourage children to do these kinds of things. Sexuality isn't a thing kids should worry about at all.
What about how kids present themselves and how they're most comfortable is sexual? This has nothing to do with sexuality.
This isn't sexual and the kid has been in therapy longer than most adults. He's fine. You on the other hand may need to speak to someone if your mind immediately goes sexual where kids are involved.
its funny how yall dont know the difference between gender and sexuality
I'm so proud of Jacob. Absolutely heart warming seeing his parents supporting him like this. Seriously touching. I didn't find myself until I was in my twenties so I'm extremely happy to see the world taking these massive steps forward. Thanks for sharing their story
her
@Fenna her
@Fenna
It’s a her. Take a DNA sample.
This is regressive. A haircut and clothes don't make a child a boy.
@@repentofyoursinsandbelieve629 him
NBC really just said Transgender rights
Unlike BBC
@@jaxon3365 they gave jk Rowling an award for her transphobia
@@jaxon3365 @jammidodger has a video on it called ‘JK Rowling’s award for transphobia’
I hope his parents are in jail.
Edit : *her* parents
@Brian Vachon CHILD ABUSE YOU WEED MATTHEW 7:17&18 & 13:30 WOE TO YOU WEEDS CLEANSING COMES FOR YOU!
@Brian Vachon Weeds CANNOT Understand it is for us Wheat! By their FRUITS we recognize them Lord!
@Brian Vachon no YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO UNDERSTAND MY WORDS ! GOODBYE
I agree
He says his name is Jacob. Let's trust him.
this is wrong these parents are horrible. this kid at these ages should not even know what this is. they should let the kid be a kid instead of brainwashing her yes she is a her wake up.
He knows who HE is.
He is who he is.
Wake up
Kids can do this but can't drink a beer at all. Make it make sense
Theres a difference between letting your child take a medication to make then happier in their body which by the way doesn’t harm them at all vs a alcoholic drink which can severely harm a child.
@@curyyxz nah, this can be just as harmful if not worse. There's times where kids want to be sea turtles
@@curyyxz Alcoholic drinks such as wine could make you happier, not healthy but happy despite it causing harms in their body. Point is gender dysphoria does not cause fractures or infect someone's anatomy.
Sad statement on society that allows minor children to make decisions they don't have a complete understanding about.
Being trans is not a decision
Jacob seems so much more confident now. Good for him!!
Kid is a legend
We need more kids like this!! Parenting done right.
Madness.
No..?
What’s funny is that this child can sue the parents when’s she’s of age.
@@The_art_of_trolling it’s Jacob and I’m wondering why would I sue my parents? Also my prounouns are he/they
@@jay1711 k sure
My home owner's insurance company wanted to drop my coverage because my policy did not include a rider for having a pitbull. I simply stated that Patton (as seen in pic) is actually trans-Labrador. Problem solved.
She looks like a boy for now. When puberty hits. Its going to get bad. Also dating life is very difficult for trans people. These parents are definitely going to regret not changing this behavior. A child can't make decisions like this. This is stupid.
Puberty Blockers = halted puberty
You can''t change someone's identity. This isn't a moral or instructional issue.
A child can't make these decisions. A child CAN bring this to 4 adults who DO make this decision. Just keep in mind none of these decisions are made lightly or quickly. There are FAR more issues discussed than you've suggested.
i hat you!
@tannya As with every such suggestion from a child, start with gentle correction. If they persist do what any good parent does: get help.
Besides, what gender is "dog"?
His parents won't allow him to go through the wrong puberty. He will be treated with HRT. That's how it works. Let him be who he is. It is not easy being trans but it is even harder living in denial and trying to be something you are not.
@@MathewRainTranslife101 As someone who lived in denial, I can attest to just how much living with gender dysphoria destroys a person.
I suffered a 4 massive breakdowns each preceded by months of wave after wave of dysphoria washing over me every waking moment.
The longer we wait the harder it is.
Think of it this way: if giving a non-trans child the wrong hormones damages them, how much worse is it for the trans child forced to endure their "natural" and very wrong hormones.
Jacob is awesome and an inspiration to trans youth globally!!
How can you justify this , she is just 9 ! 9 !!!
You are a bad an evil parent if you think this is okay
BTW , take a DNA sample , her gender isn't changed
@@selcukdilek4656 ong fax
@James A That is a myth. Any child can learn to accept himself. I would send my child to a therapist and never let People change his body at such a young age. You are insane if you would allow a 4 year old to undergo a trans operation.
@@selcukdilek4656 Yeah it’s a fact that she’s still biological female but the reality doesn’t matter this day, I guess. So we just gonna be delusional and everybody have to be delusional too for our own fantasy’s sake.
As an older trans guy, this kid puts into words everything I couldn't at that age. What an intelligent kid.
I just wanted to ask in a respectfully way tho.As an elder trans man would you encourage other under age kids to partake in such a huge decision at a young age?
@@pikachudemsy9751 I mean at 9 years old all he's doing is changing his name and pronouns. Nothing irreversible there.
If you're asking me if I'd encourage kids to go on hormones (something that never happens, but the media likes to pretend does) then absolutely not. He's a child.
If you're asking me about hormone blockers, it's a harder one because there ARE adverse effects, but at the same time, there are adverse effects of birth control, and a ridiculous amount of teenage girls are given that at 11/12/13.
Ultimately, the only thing I'd encourage is that a parent take their child to a psychiatrist who can help their child explore their feelings, and also rule out any other underlying causes of their dysphoria before even considering next steps.
@@nb8205 ohh wow .Thank you so much. I was genuinely scared to ask because I thought you would feel attacked but I really appreciate you taking your time to write me an informative answer.I hope you have a nice day💖
@@pikachudemsy9751 You're welcome, hope you have a great day too!
@@nb8205 kids shouldn’t decide what gender they want to be 🤦♂️
So the parents just wanted a boy because they had 2 girls? That's cruel.
And Mommy and daddy called the news to make sure they get their 15 minutes of fame.
No Jacob is transgender. You don't choose to have a transgender kid.
Proud of this boy for being a voice for the voiceless Transgender teens, kids and even adults in the real world. Putting on a brave face and speaking out publicly isn't as easy as it seems. Thank you, Jacob.
*girl
A 9 year old child
He's not a teenager. Give the kid A chance to grow up and be a child first.
Jacob is a boy
@@hendrixjinxy1794 it’s a child.
What a sweet boy ❤ I'm so happy he has such supportive, accepting parents!
Nicole you are a sweet boy aswell.
B-Rai87 lmao 😂 girl what
girl
That ain’t no boy
@@kixxci6708 boy he’s a boy now stop
Children of his age should not even know what any of this stuff is. This is wrong and you can't convince me otherwise.
Transitioning and gender affirming care saves lives. What you're advocating for is not treating a child who is suffering, which is abuse.
@@buttermepancake3613 Ask me if I care
So will this kid be one of the 44.5% trans people who has a tendency towards suicide? Well done parents
Actually, trans kids who aren't supported by their family are more likely to commit suicide. Transitioning and being supported by loved ones brings the statistic down to the average.
Puberty blocker lowers the risk of suicide to almost normal teen levels actually. They are life saving medicine.
Christmas Martin well not for my kids they won’t be given the choice to take those drugs.
@@hyperbabe2009 dont have kids if you cant handle them being different than you
Wicked parents
Stop it.
@@dakotachristopher5532 what??
@@abolitionistsofalabama261 Stop calling his parents wicked because they are letting their son be who he is.
@@dakotachristopher5532 who “he” is?? “He” was born a female and will always be a female. What kind of monsters indulge a small child in this??
@@abolitionistsofalabama261 Just to let you know that I'm a transgender male myself, and you are embarrassing my community.
This is so unfair
why
I used to know him, and he was always really happy and really sweet
My worry is not for kids like Jacob that expressed their trans identity from very early childhood. My worry is for the teens (mostly female) that express rapid onset gender dysphoria in mid adolescence. Many of these teens will have body dysphoria and mental health issues that are not being treated. That is my worry about current TRA.
I'm that trans guy lol,here's my story.I'm 14 and I was born female but since I was as young as jakob around 4 years old is when I knew that I was a boy and I knew that's who I am so I just grew up dressing and acting like a boy and people did call me a boy and I was super happy and my parents are Christian so I don't wanna tell them,I'm scared that they may think something is wrong with me and I also like girls and dated a few but my parents know nothing they just think I'm a tomboy but since I started puberty at 11 my dysphoria became so bad and at 12 during quarantine I almost ended it because I was getting called a girl all the time,hated my body,started self harm,suffered from depression,did bad at school,was an outcast at school,gained over 100 pounds and now I'm 14 and I lost some of the weight that i gained in 2020 but I'm at my worst mental state right now but I'm fighting and lucky to be alive and no kid is supposed to be going through this but I'm trying to heal and I just want to lose some weight and build muscle to look more masculine to decrease my dysphoria and look like my true self it's a struggle and I don't know if I'll ever tell my family but I will transition as soon as I turn 18,if you want to see what I look like you can go to my instagram it's @jace.szn__
Little update,I'm 15 and a half now,16 in 5 months and I'm doing better,lost 10kg/22lbs since January,looking better,healthier than ever,made some friends,love my life
Rapid onset gender dysphoria isn't something the medical commuity recognises. Research indicates against it.
Yeah I'm one of those teens :,,) my mental health is horrible lmao
ROGD doesn’t exist. it was literally made up by facebook (based on a n@zi conspiracy theory that homosexuality is a “disease”) and then debunked my actual medical experts.
@@Arlo-y1qyoure a GIRL
Why are the comments so negative? Just let Jacob be happy, he knows who is and he's living a happy life being able to be himself. Leave him alone. If you don't like this then why watch the video? Go do something useful.
True, but the issue is with children making decisions about their life when they are 5 years old.....not every child will be a 'Jacob' when they transition at his age, then grow up to maybe reconsider. It is well known that a child's brain does not fully develop until they are much older than 5
@User 123 was that fact ascertained by asking a 3 year old? If so then I'm surprised but thank you for pointing it out and educating me
@User 123 and it's 'their' not 'there'....easy mistake to make that is not going to affect the rest of your life
The parents need to help this child.
@@repentofyoursinsandbelieve629 they are helping him by letting him be who he is.
If the child is happy, it's fine. I hope he stays happy with himself ❤
Its not about being happy. What about the future that awaits her
herself
This child needs help. The parents don’t care.
@@africaisacontinent2149 *him
@@kixxci6708 *himself
Child abuse
Jacob, you are My Role Model, and one of the biggest reasons I chose to live an open and authentic life as an FTM Transgender Man!
Ya same
An "authentic life" by denying your biological reality. Yeah..........
@@mec8351 leave this video if u don’t have something nice to say
Same
My only question is what happens when he grows up and he gets in a real fist fight with a dude then what?
Why would he...
Because occasionally real men get into fist fight that's just what we do! I can honestly say 99% of me and my guy friend of all got into a fist fight with somebody in our lifetime!
Well I don't know any man who ever got into a fist fight. And most of them are born male and straight....
@@coreystill7197 if you are insinuating that trans men are weak, you don't know the power of testosterone. Some of these guys have really big muscles. But I hope he will have the sense to avoid needless violence when he is older.
@@coreystill7197 Google Buck Angel and see if you wanna get in a fight with a trans man.
To everyone saying "Jesus doesn't approve" - get educated. Jesus was a Jew. And the Jewish Tradition recognizes 6 (SIX) genders. Jesus was raised to love and accept trans and non binary people, it was a part of his faith. So quit trying to use him only to go against him. You are the ones claiming to know more than the son of your God. As I recall from actually reading the bible - that's a big don't.
Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, [10] Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. ... Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body.
1Cor.6 - Bible, King James Versionquod
@Tewdy Quew Jesus was a brown skinned socialist Jew. Get over your bias.
@@xmasyesreally you people are insane 😂😂😂😂
It’s sad the adults misleading the children
I mean, it seems like this kid led his parents this time right?
I just can’t help but think what it would be like when Jacob enters teen hood and eventually adulthood. I’m sure dating would be extremely difficult for her. Her parents are utter monsters.
Makes me sick
What,? :/
This comment makes me sick 😂
@@curyyxz The coronavirus could damage your lungs and stop you from breathing, but I don't see how an imaginary virus like gender dysphoria could infect or fracture anybody?
Transphobia makes me sick
Wooooow, a lot of people in this comment section are very narrow minded
What do you mean
you mean not delusional
this kid thinks santas real meanwhile shes tellin adults shes a guy
HE is a BOY.
@Matthew Bobby-Brown *she.
@@nogreatreset8506he
This should be illegal...
to all the people being bigots in the comments, literally no medical intervention can be made until he's at least 16 years old. and even then he would be on a very long waiting list he still has years and years to decide if this is what he wants and these parents clearly care since they made sure to ask until he told them to stop. he would clearly be aware that if he realised this isn't who he is he can tell them.
You know his parents?
You were raised by them?
To me a bigot is someone who tries to deny other people freedom of speech by calling them bigots.
This is exactly what I was thinking. All the changes he has made are totally reversible. Right now it's name, hair ,clothes and gender pronoun.
I wish Jacob the happiest years of life just being himself and loving himself ❤️ and loved and accepted by his family. Show those naysayers that they don't know what they are talking about! One love ❤️ We are all human ❣️
It is not being a bigot when clearly this child is a girl. She was meant to be a girl because that is the way she was made. I mean I could identify as being a billionaire but that does not make me one.
@@Palmettogirl he and boy
Great job Jacob! I’m glad you’re happy living life as a boy! :D
And to everyone who’s complaining about the way his parents are letting him express himself, entirely shut up. This is JACOB’s life not yours.
People fear what they don't understand
@@robothands2166 ye but they should try to understand and respect
We all know who made this choice
he child who is discovering who they are and how they fit into the world
@Boe Jiden neither did i but I knew I was a boy and was terrified to say anything because I thought I was the only one who was like this.
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal illegal
Jacob
Jacob
When I was 9 I wanted to be a dolphin so my parents took me to the beach and pointed me to the ocean. After about 15 minutes heading out to sea, I decided i wanted to just be a human and returned home to live a normal life.
If I had this kids parents they would have dressed me up like a dolphin and tolerated me making dolphin sounds and let me stay at the aquarium watching my dolphin "family." sometimes the worse thing in a child's life is their stupid parents.
(claps like the incredibly supportive cis ally lady that I am)
This is sad
its not
No it is not
This is a lack of education and putting a label on your kids to get fame for being “open”
I felt somewhat that way even though I was always very girly I felt too like I was made wrong now I have legally changed my first name my middle name and gender and I get my hair cut shorter I however even though I have always known that something wasn’t right as a toddler; I didn’t exactly have the words to describe that back then to my parents etc. Until now...
Awww! Good luck 🤞 I hope your parents are accepting and support you
My daughter only where. boys close shoe play boy toys . Now she told me wont boys hair cut
Wtf
@@margolemgamer4933 trust me,just let her have all that so she can know that you love and support her and if s tells you she's trans,support her 100% and you will not regret it,if you don't she won't be happy
You can't fight reality. There will be horrible consequences for all this. We wont seen it all till 20 years down the road.
The child represents God's trust in us.
The child represents God's love for us.
Be honored you received a CHILD.
Too bad not everyone believes in the magical sky fairy
@@Broadwaybutterfly21 to bad their still right regardless weather you believe be grateful for kids
What happens to him during puberty? Blockers? Yikes.
Puberty blockers just slow down puberty so trans kids have time to make decisions about what they want to do medically
@@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh are they reversible? do they have any irreversible side effects?
@@deagle2yadome696 they are completely reversible. And all medication have side effects but that doesn't mean that they don't work
@@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh ok, good to know i’m talking to a propagandist
puberty blockers are NOT reversible.
@@kalindamcnulty-uw4yh puberty blockers cause sterility,mental health issues,brittle bones and many other issues.
Imagine forcing your kids to do something without giving them a choice.
You mean like all of the parents forcing thier kids to be cis when they aren't?
he is a good kid
He most certainly is.
My parents are catholic and my family is really strict about rules and how we do things how we dress, and because of that I was put into a Private school where this and that wasn’t allowed. In third grade I switched to public that’s when I really started feeling that I was not in the right body. My mom wanted to dress me all nice and cute and I hated it. The days I would get to dress my self it was tee shirts sweatpants and sweatshirts but I felt comfortable. Then in 4th grade, during summer vacation I left my mom a note in my parents room and left to grandparents house hopefully think somebody would read it . My mom read and immediately came to pick me up, I asked her why she came to pick me up she was silent the whole car ride home we got home and she told me god choose for you to be a girl re you saying he doesn’t now what your doing. In my mind I was like he could have accidentally made a mistake. My mom immediately said no you are a girl you will stay a girl and will never ever ask me this question again. My mom moved on thinking it was a phase but I always had that thought in my head that one day she would change her mind. I am now in 7 grade and still am thinking that way and my mom still thought I was a phase but this year me had to move houses because of covid and my mom told me to give away anything I know I am not going to wear. I basically gave away everything I had very little clothes form my old house and my mom said what about all this clothes and I told her I am not going to wear this and she said but I thought you like this clothes and I said no you liked this clothes not me. She later than said okay you know what I thought this was a phase and you apparently still haven’t got over this thing. My parents than began to judge about everything and I continue to dress this way but them my family began to judge why are you dressing like this why are you wearing this or why aren’t you wearing this. And it made me buy depressed were I am currently am right now and I makes me happy to see these kids that there parents accept them for who they are and they are not judged for who they are.
I really sorry for you and hope you can push pass this situation and be the person you want to be
i wanted to be a boy when i was a kid. and i never liked (still don't) wearing dresses, make-up, combing my hair etc etc. i used to ask my mom why oh why i was a boy.
i still wear androgynous clothes.
i never wear make-up (or hardly).
i still don't care about looking like a pretty woman.
i don't have breasts (so tiny you can't notice them).
i fancy guys, but guys don't fancy my style.
i don't mind.
i'm a woman.
but most and foremost, i am ME.
your parents love you. they don't show it the right way. they lack understanding. it's okay. they're not perfect. you're not perfect.
show them the empathy you feel they're lacking.
write them a letter. just write what you feel, what you need from them, what you've learnt from them. tell them that you don't want to grow as a confused teenager/adult.
you don't have to give the letter to them. you may want to keep it. it may help you get your thoughts in 'order', so as to be able to put the right words to express your feelings.
best-est of luck and much strength to you
So glad he is able to express himself. It reminds me of my sister. She is 8 and is a transgender girl. :)
That is wrong
Um, that's isn't right
@@Cameron.001 shut up
@@pineapplebun552 no one asked
Poor child, he is being subjected to child abuse
I wonder if the child has been abused. Most cases I’ve heard usually has a history of some type of abuse.
rastaewabeach Absolutely. Nobody questions why a young child is considering sexuality/anatomy at that age. Well, nobody in the propaganda videos, at least...
He's not, he's being who he is and he's happy being who he is. The fact that you would assume that just because you don't understand being trans is just disgusting. Also there are only some cases of that being a cause but not many. Most trans people who transition are happy with themselves.
Her parents are crazy
Landon Fonke his
@@jayrose9079 no her. That's a girl
Wrong but okay
@@jayrose9079 how?
Landon Fonke
Because I don’t get why it has anything to do with you hun
Total and absolute insanity. The idea that parents become childeren who follow their kids fanatasies is not progression but a steep decent towards an cultural end state. forgive them God for they don't know what they're doing.
God have mercy on us. This is frightening
Forgive you for being an ignoramus
A loving family and a beautiful child. I wish all five of them the best.
They need to help the child.
@Pickle Planet what do you mena
Worst kind of child abuse......... parents using and castrating their children to beg before those leftist NGOs for money........These children are just doing and saying what their parents have forced them to learn........This should be illegal
@@DolandtrommI too agree with you.. these parents are stupid... only adults should transition both socially and medically
@@repentofyoursinsandbelieve629 they are helping him
Usually the non-trans-kids are told what they can expect in the future with puberty, mates/partners and the possibilities of offsprings making etcetera. What are the trans-kid told? The truth? Or something else?
the same thing we're just not as happy about it
The planet is out of sync
The planet's fine... the people however, have gone completely insane.
@@dbdevkc I concur
Mom is delusional
Virtually no 9 year old can be a trans at that age. Geez.
did you watch the video?
Lol. If you are trans you have been trans your entire life.
@@MathewRainTranslife101 Everybody comes to terms with their sexual and gender identity differently. It's very bold to just state that people who are trans have been trans their whole lives. Maybe they have just developed into who they are for a variety of factors. Of course, I don't know and I haven't seen any compelling evidence to make a bold declaration about gender identity as you have. For now, I will just treat every person as an individual.
Then how can a 9 year old know they're not be trans a that age?
@@joeybboy3433 if you young enough to know you’re cis then your young enough to know you’re trans
This is trans enableism child abuse from the parents. I hope this kid sues the crap out of her horrible parents and doctors someday when she's flooded with regret and despair.
What will you tell yourself when that doesn't happen?
@@robothands2166 I'll be surprised and quite thankful. This is child abuse.
But what if u were a boy and u did NOT WANT TO BE.
or a girl WHO DID NOT WANT TO BE!
See u would be in the same position
IM A PROUD TRANS FURRY! 🏳️⚧️🐾🐸
This is amazing, great for both the boy and the parents. Love this story!
For the girl you mean. This story shouldn’t be inspiring but rather a sign that we need to take action.
@@repentofyoursinsandbelieve629 No leave children alone and let be themselves
@@repentofyoursinsandbelieve629 *boy
@@legoshicherryton9146
What if what they are is bad?
@@hendrixjinxy1794
It’s a girl. She can never become a boy. God made her a girl for a reason.
Isiah 5:20 “Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!”
Ah yes some words from my favorite fictional book.
Ah yes, some favorite words from a book totally irrelevant and idiotic.
I agree. Those who hate us for our beliefs in right and wrong condem us because we disagree.
when I was a young child I wanted to transform into Bambi. And now it seems like that would have been a good idea.
Jacob is a girl, not a boy.
I wish i had the strength to come out as trans.
Why you have trouble hitting notes?
I hope u live ur life the way u want! I think you will do great!
It is pretty hard coming out
Trans lives matter that included trans youth! ❤🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Early childhood everything is marketed and so pushed to pink and blue, no wonder some kids feel it is urgent to change. If we allowed more of a spectrum it would be easier. This sounds like a hard problem so I can't criticize these parents. They don't want their child to be miserable.
Ooooooo Learn how to sew. Make yellow clothes for the child. : )
Believe me the child just wants to eat sleep play and poop
God don't make mistakes
No he doesn't. God made him transgender