You have a nice size apartment for NYC standards. I also live in NYC in a one bedroom apartment, which is a spacious apartment for NYC standards. Just take it one day at a time, cleaning it, don't overwhelm yourself. Each day, clean each room throughly. Have the kids participate in helping you. Show your appreciation to God for having a roof over your head by keeping it clean & tidy. You got this!🙏 ❤
I commend you for showing your real life. I know it’s not easy but you got this! Try having children have chores helping out in little areas and straighten up room by room instead of everything all at once . You got this!
You have a wonderful spacious apartment. Thanks for sharing. Take your time and get it together. We’d love to see a follow up. Agreed ,absolutely respect your children’s space.
It may be what one calls “messy,” but it is NOT dirty! It looks homey, inviting, cozy, and comfortable. If we are real, we are all living in a messy house. Those that make it look like a showroom, are missing out!
Lol, my bf and my best friend have OCD. They are annoying to me with their show rooms. My bf doesn’t come to my place real often, because he finds it chaotic 😆
Thanks for sharing this video reminded me to be grateful for everything I already have and to never give up to stay accountable stay faithful, love and light
I suffer from severe depression and needed this video. They way you explained your shopping addiction, is exactly what I’m dealing with and then the instant buyer’s remorse. Thank you for having the strength to be so transparent 🫶🏼🫶🏼
Don't worry , It's a nice cosy home! Your are in winter, you just had Christmas/ New Years & school holidays and family visiting! It's a nice apartment! 😊
Girl! I'm also a single mom that won the housing lottery and my place is a mess 90% of the time. People don't understand how TIRING it is to do everything all by yourself all the time. I be so ashamed of how my space looks and we only have a one bedroom so my bed is in the living room. If you need any friends that understand, let me know :/
This will be a long-ish comment. Quick tip. Think of cleaning as individual organizing projects. For example, for beauty products i bought a very inexpensive bookshelf and put my products in super cute bins on it. That can be your first project. For laundry for example today i will wash dry and put away dark only clothing one day and whites the next😊 For the work from home desk, , you can say today i will plan my desk makeover. Its fun to declutter and give desk areas a new look. Also doing things overnight when you wake up and cant sleep...great time to clean! I do a movie and laundry folding on a Saturday night Lol....You are too hard on yourself ❤.things get messy and cluttered sometimes ...ookaay.....just clean, keep, throw away and organize little by little and ask God for the strength to do it. And you can't be beating yourself up like this my dear
I love that your just being you , and you see that you need to change and hey it’s will happen new sub here and I see you said work from home make a video on that I been looking for work from home jobs
These people need to stop pretending by saying take her time, no she needs to declutter that nasty junkie apartment. She's the one attracting the nice, take the garbage out and clean up
I love love love your apt ….take it one day at a time you got this..I’m also in NY living in a studio with 2 kids….i can’t wait to move and have space🤞🏾I’ve been so down lately
Please don’t allow these negative comments from miserable judge Judy’s to bring you down. Keep trying to do better. I have a shopping addiction too, but I have slowed down a lot… I think. ❤ no one is perfect and the fact that you were holding yourself accountable through the whole video makes me proud of YOU!!
Yes, I just came across this video and the thumbnail got me. Normally I'll keep it moving. But I agree I know young moms who work, pt. School and have kids and house look better than this. In reality it's laziness. Some women were raised in households like this because there's no excuse. Period. Im retired I worked two jobs with my 2 daughters and then one got pregnant so that was more work. But still to this day my house is immaculate. They say I'm OCD😂 No excuse
Respectfully, I hope that spirit can push you to declutter, clean and organize your space. You're living in chaos, there's no way you can function. You got all that space and don't know how to utilize it. This is what I mean when I say some low income ppl don't care or appreciate anything. Some live like the government owe them something. You need to get that cleaned up before they come inspect and take it away. There is not one room, closet or cabinet that's functional. I decluttered, cleaned and organized your apartment in my head. And yes I am that one to help clean a space like this. I know ppl that have lived like this and they were always overwhelmed in the mess they created. You need to start in your room and focus in there first. Stop holding out on laundry, especially if you have that connection in your home. We need a full cleaning declutter video no talking just clean. It will be so satisfying to watch. Clean your space like you appreciate that blessing. You will feel 100 time better and lighter when you get your space together.
@@duchesswilliams2584 yeah so do you mind your neck & log out if you have nothing optimistic to say about my mom. stop bombarding her with negativity she’s trying to be better with herself. if she was making up excuses she wouldn’t be doing all of this. you are really a badmind like what the hell. get a life & stop the nonsense like seriously. if you have nothing good to say keep it to yourself like i don’t know what’s the hold up here. only people who are trying to support my mother can comment & you can’t because your comments are just pessimistic. be obedient & have some respect.
You have a really big apartment for NYC. Now get started with the cleaning and get rid of all those unnecessary things. Manifest a nice and clean apartment.
You say there maybe mice that would come in if you keep all that stuff , you will have a lot of mice’s , you should do a cleaning vlog , it would be more content!
I believe you need to seek help in whatever way necessary. It's easy for things to get out of control. Obviously there's some issue or trauma behind this. The mess is in the mind and heart.
God will fix the mental issue and help you rebuild yourself and your home life! Put your bed back into your room! If you need a bed in the living room there are other ways like a daybed that looks like a couch, so that your home looks like a home and your mind becomes at ease. God will do it! Stay blessed forever and you got this!!! ♥️
You doing great make videos getting things out the house you don’t need and put things all off top of fridge and countertops it makes the place look more neat we should not save things we not using cause it just makes us feel uneasy am a house keeper go threw each room and down size all things you do t use or need it just makes the house look out off place and as women and moms we don’t feel so good when the home is full of stuff all over make videos it can help people show before after
This isn’t bad for NY! Not perfect but definitely not bad. I know ppl paying real NY rent & their places aren’t that big nor updated. Better appreciate what you have & keep it clean. I’d recommend decluttering & organizing
Don't try to tackle the entire space at once. It will overwhelm you and set you back! It's okay! Furthermore, it's not as bad as you are saying it is. We all become ashamed of ourselves at times. But I can tell your home is full of love, and the children are well taken care of! They have plenty of room to play, and you allow them to do art projects. My daughters both do not allow as much of that as they can, because it is “messy.” Just take one SMALL pile, or one SMALL project at a time! Before you know it, you will see progress and get your home to more of what you would like. Stop beating yourself up! Just making this video was a huge step. Again, you do not have a dirty home. It's just more possessions than you probably need. But don't throw out things just to save space. Use it up! You don't want to have to repurchase things. I think what you need to do more than anything (and I DO TOO!!!) is to find ways to organize. And lastly, don't feel bad about going to a family function because you've not cleaned your house! What is more important? Maybe keep a pile of things you no longer want or need, and take to each family function, or whenever you attend church. Things will slowly dissipate. Congratulate yourself, when you get rid of something (even the trash) because you will no longer have to deal with that item. Whether it be moving it, cleaning it, or whatever. I wish I would follow my own advice. I am “flawed” too. Not really, but I feel I am -- as many women do. I ran across your video randomly, because I like watching apartment tours of NYC. You have a new subscriber! Much love and peace to you! xo
Teach your kids how to clean their own stuff aswell. Are you sure you're low incom? You have so much.😮 you are using things as cruches. Get help, get a THERAPIST ASAP. Even if you win a billion dollars and you buy a mansion you will just have a bigger space to mess up and more money to buy more stuff you dont need. No matter where you go you take yourself with you. I wish you all the best😢
you have beauitful home and im sometime messy and im try to be oranized i have 3 kids i live in nycha in 1 bedroom im on waitlist to move to 3 bedroom im pray to jesuschrist amen
You have a nice size apartment for NYC standards. I also live in NYC in a one bedroom apartment, which is a spacious apartment for NYC standards. Just take it one day at a time, cleaning it, don't overwhelm yourself. Each day, clean each room throughly. Have the kids participate in helping you. Show your appreciation to God for having a roof over your head by keeping it clean & tidy. You got this!🙏 ❤
That’s what I been doing. Space by space.
I commend you for showing your real life. I know it’s not easy but you got this! Try having children have chores helping out in little areas and straighten up room by room instead of everything all at once . You got this!
You have a wonderful spacious apartment. Thanks for sharing. Take your time and get it together. We’d love to see a follow up. Agreed ,absolutely respect your children’s space.
Yes thank you. Coming soon.
It may be what one calls “messy,” but it is NOT dirty! It looks homey, inviting, cozy, and comfortable. If we are real, we are all living in a messy house. Those that make it look like a showroom, are missing out!
Lol, my bf and my best friend have OCD. They are annoying to me with their show rooms. My bf doesn’t come to my place real often, because he finds it chaotic 😆
I'm recently learning to not take anything for granted... Thank you for the video...
Thanks for sharing this video reminded me to be grateful for everything I already have and to never give up to stay accountable stay faithful, love and light
@@HoneyDippedLife So true. Remaining grateful and thankful is 🔑
I suffer from severe depression and needed this video. They way you explained your shopping addiction, is exactly what I’m dealing with and then the instant buyer’s remorse. Thank you for having the strength to be so transparent 🫶🏼🫶🏼
This was such a great video 😊thank you for sharing you are a sweetheart.
Don't worry , It's a nice cosy home! Your are in winter, you just had Christmas/ New Years & school holidays and family visiting! It's a nice apartment! 😊
Girl! I'm also a single mom that won the housing lottery and my place is a mess 90% of the time. People don't understand how TIRING it is to do everything all by yourself all the time. I be so ashamed of how my space looks and we only have a one bedroom so my bed is in the living room. If you need any friends that understand, let me know :/
This will be a long-ish comment. Quick tip. Think of cleaning as individual organizing projects. For example, for beauty products i bought a very inexpensive bookshelf and put my products in super cute bins on it. That can be your first project. For laundry for example today i will wash dry and put away dark only clothing one day and whites the next😊 For the work from home desk, , you can say today i will plan my desk makeover. Its fun to declutter and give desk areas a new look. Also doing things overnight when you wake up and cant sleep...great time to clean! I do a movie and laundry folding on a Saturday night Lol....You are too hard on yourself ❤.things get messy and cluttered sometimes ...ookaay.....just clean, keep, throw away and organize little by little and ask God for the strength to do it. And you can't be beating yourself up like this my dear
Thank you I’m def going to try all those tips. I have so many bins I haven’t use yet. I’ll use it to organize.
@@GracefullyMii ❤
I love that your just being you , and you see that you need to change and hey it’s will happen new sub here and I see you said work from home make a video on that I been looking for work from home jobs
Yes thanks ❤
Girl u do you. Ask God to help you. He is the only one that can help you. T0 God be the glory. Keep praying. ❤
These people need to stop pretending by saying take her time, no she needs to declutter that nasty junkie apartment. She's the one attracting the nice, take the garbage out and clean up
i’m saying they gotta have some respect for my mother
Yo the size of the apartment is crazy big for New York 😮. You’re blessed dear!
I love love love your apt ….take it one day at a time you got this..I’m also in NY living in a studio with 2 kids….i can’t wait to move and have space🤞🏾I’ve been so down lately
Thank you for putting this video out I feel inspired to do what I need to do.
Please don’t allow these negative comments from miserable judge Judy’s to bring you down. Keep trying to do better. I have a shopping addiction too, but I have slowed down a lot… I think. ❤ no one is perfect and the fact that you were holding yourself accountable through the whole video makes me proud of YOU!!
You don't have to explain anything to anybody...it is was it is.
Blessings
Slim, i live in a subsidized apartment. My place is clean and organized! I'm glad you said " some" subsidized ppl!
OMG. get moving and quit procrastinating you have a great apartment and it just needs cleaning. Major cleaning
Girl stop making excuses there are single mother's out there with 4.5.6 kids with clean home and apartments and very busy lives
Omg I totally agree! No more excuses!
Yes, I just came across this video and the thumbnail got me. Normally I'll keep it moving. But I agree I know young moms who work, pt. School and have kids and house look better than this. In reality it's laziness. Some women were raised in households like this because there's no excuse. Period. Im retired I worked two jobs with my 2 daughters and then one got pregnant so that was more work. But still to this day my house is immaculate. They say I'm OCD😂 No excuse
@@GracefullyMii Please 🙏🏼 clean up before you do another video you're right.... Very blessed you are but ma'am even you know that this is a mess
You will succeed. I agree. Clean up little by little.
God is so proud of you. You are doing fine. Try not to be hard on yourself.
Respectfully, I hope that spirit can push you to declutter, clean and organize your space. You're living in chaos, there's no way you can function. You got all that space and don't know how to utilize it. This is what I mean when I say some low income ppl don't care or appreciate anything. Some live like the government owe them something. You need to get that cleaned up before they come inspect and take it away. There is not one room, closet or cabinet that's functional. I decluttered, cleaned and organized your apartment in my head. And yes I am that one to help clean a space like this. I know ppl that have lived like this and they were always overwhelmed in the mess they created. You need to start in your room and focus in there first. Stop holding out on laundry, especially if you have that connection in your home. We need a full cleaning declutter video no talking just clean. It will be so satisfying to watch. Clean your space like you appreciate that blessing. You will feel 100 time better and lighter when you get your space together.
This is just rude. Some people are just disorganized. Stop making judgements about this persons morals.
this a new generation of single moms..they not cooking or cleaning lol
Thanks for watching ❤
That isn't true. I watch two single mothers, one has four kids, the other five. Their places are clean and they cook for their children.
What does low income have to do with a nasty messy house?
She has alot of excuses
Yes. Too many excuses. Not enough work being put in! Def changing that!
It's not nasty? Where do you see that?
@@duchesswilliams2584 yeah so do you mind your neck & log out if you have nothing optimistic to say about my mom. stop bombarding her with negativity she’s trying to be better with herself. if she was making up excuses she wouldn’t be doing all of this. you are really a badmind like what the hell. get a life & stop the nonsense like seriously. if you have nothing good to say keep it to yourself like i don’t know what’s the hold up here. only people who are trying to support my mother can comment & you can’t because your comments are just pessimistic. be obedient & have some respect.
Ya you have a very nice nice place 😊, a real good declutter and clean it would be nice.
You have a really big apartment for NYC. Now get started with the cleaning and get rid of all those unnecessary things. Manifest a nice and clean apartment.
You say there maybe mice that would come in if you keep all that stuff , you will have a lot of mice’s , you should do a cleaning vlog , it would be more content!
Good idea
You got this 👍 💪 little by little ..
I believe you need to seek help in whatever way necessary. It's easy for things to get out of control. Obviously there's some issue or trauma behind this. The mess is in the mind and heart.
Girl you have a roof..God will never upgrade you if you can't control what you've been given.
Organize girl
My mother use to say...broke and nasty ain't married.
God will fix the mental issue and help you rebuild yourself and your home life! Put your bed back into your room! If you need a bed in the living room there are other ways like a daybed that looks like a couch, so that your home looks like a home and your mind becomes at ease. God will do it! Stay blessed forever and you got this!!! ♥️
Wow. What a huge and beautiful low income apartment. I have never seen one that big. I am from NY. My apartment is two rooms. Take advantage of it.
You doing great make videos getting things out the house you don’t need and put things all off top of fridge and countertops it makes the place look more neat we should not save things we not using cause it just makes us feel uneasy am a house keeper go threw each room and down size all things you do t use or need it just makes the house look out off place and as women and moms we don’t feel so good when the home is full of stuff all over make videos it can help people show before after
Yes so true
This isn’t bad for NY! Not perfect but definitely not bad. I know ppl paying real NY rent & their places aren’t that big nor updated. Better appreciate what you have & keep it clean. I’d recommend decluttering & organizing
❤ thanks for sharing
Don't try to tackle the entire space at once. It will overwhelm you and set you back! It's okay! Furthermore, it's not as bad as you are saying it is. We all become ashamed of ourselves at times. But I can tell your home is full of love, and the children are well taken care of! They have plenty of room to play, and you allow them to do art projects. My daughters both do not allow as much of that as they can, because it is “messy.”
Just take one SMALL pile, or one SMALL project at a time! Before you know it, you will see progress and get your home to more of what you would like. Stop beating yourself up! Just making this video was a huge step.
Again, you do not have a dirty home. It's just more possessions than you probably need. But don't throw out things just to save space. Use it up! You don't want to have to repurchase things.
I think what you need to do more than anything (and I DO TOO!!!) is to find ways to organize.
And lastly, don't feel bad about going to a family function because you've not cleaned your house! What is more important? Maybe keep a pile of things you no longer want or need, and take to each family function, or whenever you attend church. Things will slowly dissipate. Congratulate yourself, when you get rid of something (even the trash) because you will no longer have to deal with that item. Whether it be moving it, cleaning it, or whatever.
I wish I would follow my own advice. I am “flawed” too. Not really, but I feel I am -- as many women do.
I ran across your video randomly, because I like watching apartment tours of NYC. You have a new subscriber!
Much love and peace to you! xo
Film your progress and post online. Soon, you will be able to monetize your channel and that could be your job. If that appeals to you. 😂 😂
It's depression
You need to declutter bad
Work with someone to help you declutter. Your apartment is spacious.
Just get some IKEA cabinets that have shelves. They are cheap
Teach your kids how to clean their own stuff aswell. Are you sure you're low incom? You have so much.😮 you are using things as cruches. Get help, get a THERAPIST ASAP. Even if you win a billion dollars and you buy a mansion you will just have a bigger space to mess up and more money to buy more stuff you dont need. No matter where you go you take yourself with you. I wish you all the best😢
I honestly cant believe that someone would make a video of their home showing the garbage that needs to be taken out.🙄🙄
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Get to cleaning young lady. I'm sure you can't function like this. Wishing you all the best.
you have beauitful home and im sometime messy and im try to be oranized i have 3 kids i live in nycha in 1 bedroom im on waitlist to move to 3 bedroom im pray to jesuschrist amen
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