I finally saw Pedro remorse to hurting Chantel. Unfortunately, what's done is done . It's a shame that the show has been canceled it was one a good show.
I used to feel bad for Chantel but at this point i think that they are all crazy! You have to learn to separate yourself from toxicity whether it’s your family or not.
@@djishinelivehis family is definitely crazy but they live 1000s of mile away. Her family had the worst impact because they were right next door. She needed to set boundaries with them and keep her affairs private. Also, to continously go out with your girlfriends traveling, why wasn't she taking trips with her husband? Doing stuff by themselves? Her family litterally killed her relationship, and they will do it again.
She was too dependent on her family and their opinions. Especially her mom. Her mom had an ideal guy for her and it wasn’t Pedro. She started everything off on a lie and even tried to ruin her older brothers marriage by plotting against his fiancé because her family didn’t accept her and Pedro’s marriage (which again was her fault). No one got Pedro help after his father denied wanting to see him. My opinion is he didn’t want to see him because of Lydia. Lydia saw an opportunity to manipulate Pedro at his worst and the family Chantel saw the opportunity to go back to believe he was using her for the green card. Chantel is mirroring her mother and Pedro didn’t like that. Karen basically treat Thomas like an accessory and not a companion and Chantel was fslling in that trap. She would go on vacations a lot with her friends, be with her family during the day and just work. She would only associate with Pedro when convenient. She basically was mirroring what her mom does. And it didn’t help that when things got bad she would run to the hills to her family and her mom would come down with the authority to Pedro about Chantel (ie the cooking and cleaning more….her mom said to Pedro that she’s an independent woman and doesn’t need to do that)…. They were doomed from the start
@@abbysmith-eo9ggKaren is the whole show. I love her idc. She knew she had to protect her kids. Just like she did when he found out Jaw had another child and Winter had no idea.
Pedro mother was waiting on something to go left. She warned Karen about the fight they had with Nicole and Pedro. You heard Pedro say wear something comfortable just in case something pops off. Pedro said come on mama because his mom can throw down believe that. Chantel going to the dr could have gotten her mess up. Those people don’t play.She’s on their sow. That why Karen big mouth didn’t go because Lydia warned her about putting hands on her kids. I would put money on Lydia‼️🤛🏽👌💪
Sometimes is better to leave family out of relationships. This goes for both parties. Chantel and Pedro don’t have a mind of their own and it’s sad to see the end result. You can tell Pedro still loves her and def she loves him too.
@@kimmyb504 I think just in general. I think Pedro was really messed up to her. However; what I’ve learned as I get older is to keep my relationship bt two. Relationship issues should stay between them two. I’ve seen the show. Both of them would go and run to their families for every single thing. That’s not healthy.
@@kimmyb504 💯💯. Nicole is nasty 🗑. Just so evil. Pedro should have been man enough to quiet her down. Hate her. What's the mask for? Botched nose or lip job?
I can’t tell if he really loved her or if he’s acting for the cameras so he can’t be accused of fraud in case she/her family try to get him deported. He’s not a citizen yet.
Chantel had work done on her body. She’s looking puffy. She’s never keep no man because she’s fake. Her mother is crazy and controlling everything and everyone. No man will put up with Karen. Run Pedro run.
I feel so heartbroken for Chantel. You will survive this girl. You are young, ambitious, and STRONG! Lean on your faith and your family. You are more resilient than you know
The fact that lidya admitted her goal is to marry an American in her part on the spin-off the other way says a lot about the family . Their main goal is for all of them as a unit to eventually live in the USA . Chantal was Pedro’s way in no doubt .
I exactly think the same. Dominicans men only look for a way out to leave their country, they aren't really in love with the foreign girls because they use them as a visa to the usa.
Pedro loved her, ms karen and miss lydia and nicole would never let it happen, chantel n pedro are too codependant on their families.. No mind of their own.. Chantels sponsering pedro made her feel like she owned him and pedros mother has positioned pedro as her provider like a husband ..hes been been emaculated and doesnt know how to b his own man
Yes that’s true. Lydia doesn’t even like her own kids and called them mistakes. She doesn’t like their father but she’s an opportunist so she’s conditioned them to take care of her
I give it 3 years....the thing is they have to BOTH be off TV and then 3-4 years later they will get back together and ideally distance themselves from their families...move to Idaho or something LOL
This two are love each other but they need to leave their family out of their marriage I think Pedro feeling regret right now as for Chantel she always loves Pedro just their family too much drama
@@ashleyjones5396 it doesn't matter, they can still reconcile in the future especially when both of them are off camera. Reality tv show is a short term thing anyways....they spent too much of their time as a couple and especially married on camera...how they really feel will come truth when the cameras go off
yeah exactly. It's more regret of listening to his mom and sister. the problems started when he brought his mom back into the picture after they bought the house and from never healing from his dad not wanting anything to do with him due to lydia@@edmondkelly8067
Sorry to play devil’s advocate but i commend Pedro for admitting he was a terrible husband. Regardless if he was as bad as they say it’s time to move on. She can’t keep chasing him for answered she’s never gonna get. “Closure” is a myth, it doesn’t exist. Moving on & doing better is the closure!
So something interesting about narcissistic personality. They are completely comfortable with confrontation. They are completely comfortable with making someone’s life chaotic. However, when that person no longer wants to be a part of their life, which is what she’s basically saying, it puts them into a panic mode because the parental partner, which in this case would be her is telling him he’s on his own from this point forward she is moving forward and she’s not expecting anything different. You can definitely see a shift in energy in his eyes as she’s walking away he’s telling her I only wish the best for you. Sadly, he really does mean this in this moment, but the narcissist always reverts back to their comfortable normality. Once the victim comes back into their lives. I hope she doesn’t fall for it, and goes back to him because he will change temporally, but he will go back to his old ways, with whom ever he chooses to be with next.
Pedro may have spoken the truth about not being a good husband - but Chantel f*cked up majorly by choosing to involve her family into so much of their relationship, from the very beginning. Waaaay before Lydia and Nicole stepped on scene it was Pedro having to defend himself , by himself , against Chantels whole family, because she ran to them for every little disagreement like a back alley snitch. That would get old and build resentment REAL quick.
@audreyjackson2926 Aww, thank you 😊 And it just so happens I am American, Midwestern at that . I'm curious - do my thoughts on this not parallel other Americans in your experience? I seldom comment, something has to really strike me, such as this video where if I had rolled my eyes any harder they would've been across the floor, rolled out the door. Chantel's victim act is so contrived with zero self awareness or accountability that she caused a lion's share of the damage. Her dramatics and constant inability to work through things without hosting a family party to discuss and call him out would push any partner away. It's disappointing to say but I think she has gotten pass after pass because of her looks.
At least someone sees what I see too. I have never seen any accountability on the side of Chantel. She presents herself as a saint whose only goal is to blame Pedro for everything.
It's not just being American .... it's all about human behavior 101. Chantel's family is so entitled and obnoxious... it's hard to watch. Chantel wanted Pedro to be in a position eternal servitude just because she brought him to the US. That's not love, that's control, and unfortunately, that's how many relationships with a foreigner are. Nobody put a gun in her head to bring Pedro to the US. If she didn't want to be "used," then she should've stayed in US and find a husband there. When I see all the comments in favor of Chantel and her lack of accountability, it makes me really scared of the world we live in.
She finally turned into her mother. Chantel was this man's first every thing. Of course he wasn't the best husband. Just as she wasn't the best wife. I understand she's trying to convince herself that he was a cheater and a user. To make herself feel better about the divorce.
So are you saying she deserve for this man to use her for citizen ship just because she was his first . I hope everyone who come her for papers be sent back
Honestly Chantel, all this is uneccssary! I cant believe you travelled ALL THE WAY to the Dominican Republic just to confront a bunch of people you cant even stand because they sent you a lousy "voodoo care package". I think a part of her badly wanted/needed to see Pedro again...but to what end?! Pedro has gotten what he's always wanted and has since moved on. Its not easy i know, but i advise you do same for your sanity, Chantel! Please!!!
same here!! going to the D.R just to have a pointless conversation (plus free insults from ugly nicole) and embarrass yourself in public was s.tu.pid....I feel as if she still has some hopes for their marriage to be fixed and she can't handle rejection....
I think they would still be together if they would of not been on 90 day fiancé, and if Chantel would of been honest with her parents from the beginning of hers and Pedro’s relationship. It would of also helped if they both would of left their families out of their marital issues. I think they both truly loved one another.
Chantel you command Pedro and his family to meet with you?? 😂😂😂seriously girl.. stop. I love you but you cannot command any one, to do anything unless it’s a dog or a robot.. 😀
I actually believe that Pedro loved and still loves Chantel. The constant doubts and accusations are bound to break even the strongest ties. He wasn’t a perfect man, but with Karen on board, he didn’t stand a chance to prove himself.
@@Lizbeth7799 Right, how do you think he felt because she lied why we first came there like something was wrong with him? Then they attacked the sons wife and family at the party they think everyone is out to get them!
This marriage goes to show that you need more than physical LOOKS to keep a man! Pedro didn’t even cheat on her. He genuinely got tired of her. Was he supposed to be forced to stay in the marriage? No! He did the right thing. But to her family he will never be good enough. I’m glad he walked away from that family. Chantal is immature and not ready to be a wife.
I think Pedro is over Chantal! Shes too toxic! He has grown! You can tell Chantal still loves Pedro, she knows deep down, that he really did love her and was good to her.
For me watching Pedro talk from his heart really touch me. And I honestly feel like he was truthful. And love her. It takes two to make it work. And the family of both had a lot to do in their separation.
And did you noticed she (Nicole) didn't have much of a comeback when Chantel mentioned that she had botched work done to her mouth afer having the braces all that time.
Pedro was all in. He called on his wife to support him when he needed her most and she turned it into a girl trip with her mom and sister. The time she spent with him was used to trash talk his mom and not give him the support he needed. When he got back to America that last time he was checked out. It wasn't a scam, she just wasn't a good wife.
This was hard for Chantel… she has so many emotions running thru her…. Deep love, anger, hate, sadness, confusion, disappointment…. And with the amount of love she had for him I know it was super hard for her to tell him what she told him and stand her ground even after he apologized and looked her in the eye… ughhhh that shit is hard
I'm sorry, but Chanel needs to move on and leave this man and his family ALONE!!! It's like she keeps hurting herself by trying to make him feel more regret over their divorce. Clearly, he is not lingering over losing her.
She paid for his real estate school. She brought him to the states, Chantel did so much for Pedro. For him to say she never helped him grow is horrible. She’s beautiful. I hope she heals in a healthy way.
@@bocawilliams9200Pedro should have gotten individual therapy to deal with his crazy ass family and the situation with his father. Chantel can't help him heal from his childhood traumas. The more you know 🌈
Chantel, you are beautifully made in God's eyes, he knows your heart, there will be a turn around in your life and he will bless you with the best, let the past slip away and move on with God's graceful love and mercy..🙏
Chantel attitude is nasty in real life. Ask her coworkers. They always felt like Pedro was beneath them. That show can’t stand a chance because her family are boring. Pedro family brings the drama. She’s on singer show now. She will always be singer because of her attitude. Chantel and her mother are both fakes and love fame.
I never liked Chantel family, they were prejudiced and bullies, Pedro had to fight his wife and her family all the time on his own, that’s exhausting. His family were crazy too but how many times can your brother call you saddened before your claws come out ?! If families minded their business, Chantel & Pedro would still be together.
He keeps saying Chantel never helped him to grow. Something happened after his dad issue and maybe he expected something from his wife to help him heal and wasn’t getting it. Cos he changed after that trip it seems.
She even said to him that he was "just like his father" repeatedily (who had two families) because she thought he was cheating, knowing well what a sensitive topic that was for him, and he didn't even had a reaction, which tells me she had said far off worse things off camera
Pedro loved chantel. But how long could he stay with her and her family always telling him how horrible he was? Literally 7 years of her bullshit and now they wanna say he was scamming the whole time. When is she going to take responsibility for her Actions? I feel soooo bad for Pedro
She feels like she owns him. No way smh. Even when things weren’t going well with me and my husband, I never went back to how I was doing better than him when we first met. Why would I ever do that? She feels he is beneath her and he could NEVER pay her back from bringing him to the US … ol high Saditty elitist a$$!
Both of those families are so toxic. They stay in each other's business. Chantel's mother is the worse. She always rubs salt in Chantel's wounds instead of consoling her. The issue with Corima is nothing like they think. The girl is getting married to someone else, she has moved on.
Pedro’s PSYCHO family are the ones that sent her the voodoo package. As if Chantel isn’t hurting enough, they gotta play more games w her and break her down? That’s creepy and psychotic asf! That family is made of parasites, sociopaths, and psychopaths. They’re still trying to torment this poor woman. Leave her alone
These two were doomed from the start & it was due to their families if they moved away & never saw their families then maybe that marriage could have survived
You know, I might not be popular with most of people, Pedro was in a hospital room next me during COVID. Our phone calls keep getting crossed and he was very nice and respectful to everyone, doctors nurses, and patient alike. I think he seems to be getting short end of the stick. But drama sells....
He is. Karen, Chantal's mother is evil. Thomas, the father is a lapdog for his wife. Chantal is too self obsessed to see that he really loves her. She always let her family dish him dirt from the very beginning. She allowed them to blame him for her deception when she lied to them about why he was really in America. That was a crucial event in their relationship. He was always having to swim upstream because in that event, she let the steamroller crush him
I’m sure he’s nice/respectful to the general public. Doesn’t mean he can’t be a crappy lying cheating spouse. People do it all the time. Not saying Chantel is perfect.
Chantel is fine….but she ain’t that damn fine to be dealing with her and her family. Pedro family crazy too but I couldn’t take Karen as a mother in law
Pedro’s PSYCHO family are the ones that sent her the voodoo package. As if Chantel isn’t hurting enough, they gotta play more games w her and break her down? That’s creepy and psychotic asf! Pedro’s family is a pétri dish of sociopaths, parasites, and psychopaths. They’re just cruel. What they’re doing is sick. They’re trying to torment her
No.. they didn’t look unhinged. Pedro’s family knew what they were doing when they sent the box!! And they got the reaction they were looking for! Chantel needed this closure she never got from Pedro before!!! If you remember he ignored her and then abandoned her!! Now she can move on with her life!! He knows he cheated he just will never admit it!!
I concur with Pedro, Chantell never help Pedro to grow as a man. Pedro got his confidence back as a man when he got a job like any man should and this did not sat well with her, she wanted Pedro to be her puppy running after her. Chantell is so obsessed with the idea of controlling Pedro
First part of his growth was that green card....any further development was blocked by his family who hated Chantel and wanted Pedro to leave her.... which he did.
Honestly I was confused as to why and don't even go over there but I see that the family wanted to provoke her. I still feel like she shouldn't have let them win by traveling all the way there you should have just told Pedro that if he for his family reaches out again she will get a restraining order. What does upset me how Pedro keeps saying that she's obsessed with them when he knew that his family literally provoked her and he knew what that would do to her. It's weird too bc Chantel is not evil, Pedro made her like this but him and his family are the cruel one's acting evil.
I think Pedro's family knew how to get to Karen and don't believe in it themselves, just like they did with serving them chicken feet. His sister is also very mean. I think they would have done better on their own without either of their families. It is ver sad, because I think Pedro did love her.
Sorry but chicken feet is a delicacy in the Caribbean. Don't blame it on that. I also never knew that Americans see being fed chicken feet as disrespectful. I found out by watching this show.
Chantel is mental. She treated him like crap and acted like he was her servant. And he supported her financially when she was in school. She’s still in love with Pedro.
Pedro told Chantel "you have a little dementia right now 😂😂. Pedro and his family are having a hell of fun watching Chantel's madness. Just because Pedro didnt want her doesn't mean cheated. Move on Chantel!
Once he got his greencard he stayed out all hours ignored her treated her like crap. His family are scammers. Chantel your mom is right that box only has as much power as you give it. She can return 10 fold to sender.. Don't fall for his crap.
I feel so bad for Chantel I can tell she's on antidepressants this season for her broken heart she's a little zoned out and mono toned they should have given her more time before filming💔
I finally saw Pedro remorse to hurting Chantel. Unfortunately, what's done is done . It's a shame that the show has been canceled it was one a good show.
Yes it was a good show. They made a good looking couple but they both messed up by telling their families about what's going on in their relationship.
@@michaelhardie8533 exactly
He just wanted to look good to the viewers he's not sry
I love KAREN 😂😂😂😂
Both of their families ruined their marriage with meddling and negativity😢
I definitely agree with you about that. They both should have left their families out of their relationship and marriage.
This is a crap show!
Amen
I used to feel bad for Chantel but at this point i think that they are all crazy! You have to learn to separate yourself from toxicity whether it’s your family or not.
both their families got them acting crazy
@@djishinelivehis family is definitely crazy but they live 1000s of mile away. Her family had the worst impact because they were right next door. She needed to set boundaries with them and keep her affairs private. Also, to continously go out with your girlfriends traveling, why wasn't she taking trips with her husband? Doing stuff by themselves?
Her family litterally killed her relationship, and they will do it again.
She was too dependent on her family and their opinions. Especially her mom. Her mom had an ideal guy for her and it wasn’t Pedro. She started everything off on a lie and even tried to ruin her older brothers marriage by plotting against his fiancé because her family didn’t accept her and Pedro’s marriage (which again was her fault).
No one got Pedro help after his father denied wanting to see him. My opinion is he didn’t want to see him because of Lydia. Lydia saw an opportunity to manipulate Pedro at his worst and the family Chantel saw the opportunity to go back to believe he was using her for the green card.
Chantel is mirroring her mother and Pedro didn’t like that. Karen basically treat Thomas like an accessory and not a companion and Chantel was fslling in that trap. She would go on vacations a lot with her friends, be with her family during the day and just work. She would only associate with Pedro when convenient. She basically was mirroring what her mom does. And it didn’t help that when things got bad she would run to the hills to her family and her mom would come down with the authority to Pedro about Chantel (ie the cooking and cleaning more….her mom said to Pedro that she’s an independent woman and doesn’t need to do that)….
They were doomed from the start
Karen needs a psychiatrist ASAP!!!! Karen is crazy!!!
@@abbysmith-eo9ggKaren is the whole show. I love her idc. She knew she had to protect her kids. Just like she did when he found out Jaw had another child and Winter had no idea.
I'm surprised that the mother of Pedro was quiet for once
Pedro mother was waiting on something to go left. She warned Karen about the fight they had with Nicole and Pedro. You heard Pedro say wear something comfortable just in case something pops off. Pedro said come on mama because his mom can throw down believe that. Chantel going to the dr could have gotten her mess up. Those people don’t play.She’s on their sow. That why Karen big mouth didn’t go because Lydia warned her about putting hands on her kids. I would put money on Lydia‼️🤛🏽👌💪
She got what she wanted : money, a green card for her son, and Chantel gone.
I was, too. Perhaps at the end of it she realized how sad it was.
She was too busy watching Chantel make a fool outta herself.
Sometimes is better to leave family out of relationships. This goes for both parties. Chantel and Pedro don’t have a mind of their own and it’s sad to see the end result. You can tell Pedro still loves her and def she loves him too.
Right, b/c he should’ve told his sister to shut tf up. And, they should’ve sat off somewhere by themselves.
@@kimmyb504 I think just in general. I think Pedro was really messed up to her. However; what I’ve learned as I get older is to keep my relationship bt two. Relationship issues should stay between them two. I’ve seen the show. Both of them would go and run to their families for every single thing. That’s not healthy.
He didn't have a father to show him how to work through hard times. He almost made me cry you can tell he still loves her 😢..
@@kimmyb504 💯💯. Nicole is nasty 🗑. Just so evil. Pedro should have been man enough to quiet her down. Hate her. What's the mask for? Botched nose or lip job?
I can’t tell if he really loved her or if he’s acting for the cameras so he can’t be accused of fraud in case she/her family try to get him deported. He’s not a citizen yet.
Pedro sister is crazy and Chantel is right how long has she had braces for ?!
Chantel had work done on her body. She’s looking puffy. She’s never keep no man because she’s fake. Her mother is crazy and controlling everything and everyone. No man will put up with Karen. Run Pedro run.
She’s prob getting a jaw surgery or chin implant to fix that face
4 seasons?
Braces are expensive to remove?
No their not if you get them then u should be able to have them removed.
They are both crazy. Chantelle 80% and Nicole 20%
I feel so heartbroken for Chantel. You will survive this girl. You are young, ambitious, and STRONG! Lean on your faith and your family. You are more resilient than you know
They still love each other. It shows.
I guess you your with a man that doesn't want you and it shows the only person in love is Chantel person don't care for he
Pedro does not love Chantel
He loves her, but he knows she is not good for him. She will self-destruct smh.
Chantel still loves him because she is still emotional about everything but he is not in love with her anymore. Dude is cold as ice.
He was cheating with co workers
The fact that lidya admitted her goal is to marry an American in her part on the spin-off the other way says a lot about the family . Their main goal is for all of them as a unit to eventually live in the USA . Chantal was Pedro’s way in no doubt .
I exactly think the same. Dominicans men only look for a way out to leave their country, they aren't really in love with the foreign girls because they use them as a visa to the usa.
So freakin what !!!! Everyone is looking for love on 90 day fiance. Heaven help the next guy she and her crazy family het their hooks into
Chantel you and your family are absolutely nuts!
Pedro loved her, ms karen and miss lydia and nicole would never let it happen, chantel n pedro are too codependant on their families.. No mind of their own.. Chantels sponsering pedro made her feel like she owned him and pedros mother has positioned pedro as her provider like a husband ..hes been been emaculated and doesnt know how to b his own man
I totally agree with this!
Say it again for the people in the back without their own brains!!!
Yes that’s true. Lydia doesn’t even like her own kids and called them mistakes. She doesn’t like their father but she’s an opportunist so she’s conditioned them to take care of her
@@djishinelive Taking care of your parents is a cultural thing in the DR. Is it conditioned but normal to them.
everything you said i agree with except the last sentence, infact opposite of that was what was the last straw in the marriage
Pedro finally sounded and looked remorseful. You can tell at the end that they both still loved it other. So sad to watch.
I give it 3 years....the thing is they have to BOTH be off TV and then 3-4 years later they will get back together and ideally distance themselves from their families...move to Idaho or something LOL
@@djishinelive but Chantel is going on Single Life! 😂
This two are love each other but they need to leave their family out of their marriage I think Pedro feeling regret right now as for Chantel she always loves Pedro just their family too much drama
@@ashleyjones5396 it doesn't matter, they can still reconcile in the future especially when both of them are off camera. Reality tv show is a short term thing anyways....they spent too much of their time as a couple and especially married on camera...how they really feel will come truth when the cameras go off
yeah exactly. It's more regret of listening to his mom and sister. the problems started when he brought his mom back into the picture after they bought the house and from never healing from his dad not wanting anything to do with him due to lydia@@edmondkelly8067
Sorry to play devil’s advocate but i commend Pedro for admitting he was a terrible husband. Regardless if he was as bad as they say it’s time to move on. She can’t keep chasing him for answered she’s never gonna get. “Closure” is a myth, it doesn’t exist. Moving on & doing better is the closure!
Chantel was an awful wife
@@tinotendamandizvidza1903😅 you are a joke... Don't get married.
Pedro admitting about he was the worst was the best part to watch looked like serious talk
He didn’t say that, he said: I wasn’t the best, but I wasn’t tge worst!… it takes humility to admit faults!… Chantel can not accept her own mistakes
Chantel thinks her looks will always keep a man. She’s not all that attractive most is fake.
We both know he wants something about of this apology! Some of the money she took perhaps?
@@mohammadal-drees3106 ammm she followed him and begged him to meet her. The only person who wants something is her
So something interesting about narcissistic personality. They are completely comfortable with confrontation. They are completely comfortable with making someone’s life chaotic. However, when that person no longer wants to be a part of their life, which is what she’s basically saying, it puts them into a panic mode because the parental partner, which in this case would be her is telling him he’s on his own from this point forward she is moving forward and she’s not expecting anything different. You can definitely see a shift in energy in his eyes as she’s walking away he’s telling her I only wish the best for you. Sadly, he really does mean this in this moment, but the narcissist always reverts back to their comfortable normality. Once the victim comes back into their lives. I hope she doesn’t fall for it, and goes back to him because he will change temporally, but he will go back to his old ways, with whom ever he chooses to be with next.
Pedro may have spoken the truth about not being a good husband - but Chantel f*cked up majorly by choosing to involve her family into so much of their relationship, from the very beginning. Waaaay before Lydia and Nicole stepped on scene it was Pedro having to defend himself , by himself , against Chantels whole family, because she ran to them for every little disagreement like a back alley snitch. That would get old and build resentment REAL quick.
If you're an American, it's refreshing to read your honest unbiased comment. You are spot on. God bless you
I absolutely agree
@audreyjackson2926 Aww, thank you 😊 And it just so happens I am American, Midwestern at that . I'm curious - do my thoughts on this not parallel other Americans in your experience?
I seldom comment, something has to really strike me, such as this video where if I had rolled my eyes any harder they would've been across the floor, rolled out the door. Chantel's victim act is so contrived with zero self awareness or accountability that she caused a lion's share of the damage. Her dramatics and constant inability to work through things without hosting a family party to discuss and call him out would push any partner away.
It's disappointing to say but I think she has gotten pass after pass because of her looks.
At least someone sees what I see too. I have never seen any accountability on the side of Chantel. She presents herself as a saint whose only goal is to blame Pedro for everything.
It's not just being American .... it's all about human behavior 101. Chantel's family is so entitled and obnoxious... it's hard to watch. Chantel wanted Pedro to be in a position eternal servitude just because she brought him to the US. That's not love, that's control, and unfortunately, that's how many relationships with a foreigner are. Nobody put a gun in her head to bring Pedro to the US. If she didn't want to be "used," then she should've stayed in US and find a husband there. When I see all the comments in favor of Chantel and her lack of accountability, it makes me really scared of the world we live in.
Pedro and his family are insane
Oh hell, they all are
Thank you they are ‼️ Don’t just blame Pedro.
Now I see why Pedro got fed up with Chantel! They’re all crazy at d end!!😅
She finally turned into her mother. Chantel was this man's first every thing. Of course he wasn't the best husband. Just as she wasn't the best wife. I understand she's trying to convince herself that he was a cheater and a user. To make herself feel better about the divorce.
So are you saying she deserve for this man to use her for citizen ship just because she was his first . I hope everyone who come her for papers be sent back
Obed said he had fun with Corraima. 😂
Pedro sounded sincere and vulnerable. I still think he feels something for Chantel
I saw the same thing
Chantel: I command to LEAVE ME AND MY FAMILY ALONE but also come later to meet me and said family.
They still love each other. Too much family inteference.
Honestly Chantel, all this is uneccssary! I cant believe you travelled ALL THE WAY to the Dominican Republic just to confront a bunch of people you cant even stand because they sent you a lousy "voodoo care package". I think a part of her badly wanted/needed to see Pedro again...but to what end?! Pedro has gotten what he's always wanted and has since moved on. Its not easy i know, but i advise you do same for your sanity, Chantel! Please!!!
same here!! going to the D.R just to have a pointless conversation (plus free insults from ugly nicole) and embarrass yourself in public was s.tu.pid....I feel as if she still has some hopes for their marriage to be fixed and she can't handle rejection....
@@Madison.Mermaid absolutely. I pray she heals, gets over him and moves on.
It’s a 2 hour flight. Not that far.
Lol command!!! Chantel is on another planet.😂😂😂
She turning into her mom. Too much proximity
And with the cross and holy water to take their demon out. 😂😂😂
I LOL'D
1000% yes
She needs to stop smoking cheap pot!
Chantel get a life. Find you a new man. Move on. This is crazy as hell!
This actually made me cry
😢 chantel is doing it all wrong. She needs to forget Pedro, his family, the d.r, all of it. She is too good for this
I'm with Pedro on this.
I think they would still be together if they would of not been on 90 day fiancé, and if Chantel would of been honest with her parents from the beginning of hers and Pedro’s relationship. It would of also helped if they both would of left their families out of their marital issues. I think they both truly loved one another.
Idk, sometimes i feel that way but it looks like he really scammed her. The sister and mother never denied it and toldbher to just move on
*would HAVE
You kno how crazy you look waving a cross around lmao 🤣 im glad pedro got up outta there lmao 🤣
Chantel you command Pedro and his family to meet with you?? 😂😂😂seriously girl.. stop. I love you but you cannot command any one, to do anything unless it’s a dog or a robot.. 😀
These people are funny as hell 😂🤣😂😁
I actually believe that Pedro loved and still loves Chantel. The constant doubts and accusations are bound to break even the strongest ties. He wasn’t a perfect man, but with Karen on board, he didn’t stand a chance to prove himself.
She started the lies! They attacked the oldest sons wife too!!
Exactly!… Chantel is very racist!..
@@Lizbeth7799 Right, how do you think he felt because she lied why we first came there like something was wrong with him? Then they attacked the sons wife and family at the party they think everyone is out to get them!
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This is correct. Most of the ppl that watch this show don’t know the whole story so they are just going off on what is said on twitter and TikTok
This marriage goes to show that you need more than physical LOOKS to keep a man! Pedro didn’t even cheat on her. He genuinely got tired of her. Was he supposed to be forced to stay in the marriage? No! He did the right thing. But to her family he will never be good enough. I’m glad he walked away from that family. Chantal is immature and not ready to be a wife.
BULLSEYE
Chantelle looks like crazy person. It doesn't matter if she is hurt, she is on the street and she acts crazy.
I command you I command you demons she definitely looked crazy
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she's echoing her momma @samanthajo201
The mother is not evil. She knows people married for over 27 years and only had 1 man that is a great woman.....
She was right. idk why people can't see that.
You really believe all that. She gave it up pretty quickly to Scott. She got a complete make over. Her face, body, all.. so she can get a man.
She is evil
Karen is evil 👿
Both families are crazy a s f
Pedro wanted to finish this situation so bad
That he put his ego down just so chantel can leave him alone he already got everything he wanted
STOP CHANTEL....JUST STOP!
Agreed just walk away he s not worth it
Chantel ain't worth what pattie shoot at
3:45 Chantel at that restraunt causing a scene and being loud and obnoxious to the others there trying to enjoy their meal.
I honestly believe you aren't ever be happy with anyone
I think Pedro is over Chantal! Shes too toxic! He has grown! You can tell Chantal still loves Pedro, she knows deep down, that he really did love her and was good to her.
For me watching Pedro talk from his heart really touch me. And I honestly feel like he was truthful. And love her. It takes two to make it work. And the family of both had a lot to do in their separation.
I’m so proud of Pedro being a man and just admitting what he was not so perfect at, but Chantel it’s over let’s just move on.
I think Pedro's sister messed up her lips with fillers. Why else would she have that mask on?
Good guess
And did you noticed she (Nicole) didn't have much of a comeback when Chantel mentioned that she had botched work done to her mouth afer having the braces all that time.
Fillers,nope! An ass whooping,yup. Look at her busted eye
Pedro was all in. He called on his wife to support him when he needed her most and she turned it into a girl trip with her mom and sister. The time she spent with him was used to trash talk his mom and not give him the support he needed. When he got back to America that last time he was checked out. It wasn't a scam, she just wasn't a good wife.
Sorry but if anyone says “ I command you” to me … they would be eating their words and throwing it back up lol . I’m not a pet lol 😂
This was hard for Chantel… she has so many emotions running thru her…. Deep love, anger, hate, sadness, confusion, disappointment…. And with the amount of love she had for him I know it was super hard for her to tell him what she told him and stand her ground even after he apologized and looked her in the eye… ughhhh that shit is hard
6:16 let's take a pause there it's true pedro supported her in her nursing
They all are crazy. Can't they leave each other in peace.
I think Chantel you need to just forget about Pedro,his family alone already
She has no proof that he slept with anyone... Chantel is just as desperate as they are
Why would Chantel go to Dominican Republic girl leave that shit alone
Can’t stand Chantel. She got such an obsession with Pedro. 🙄🙄
I'm sorry, but Chanel needs to move on and leave this man and his family ALONE!!! It's like she keeps hurting herself by trying to make him feel more regret over their divorce. Clearly, he is not lingering over losing her.
She paid for his real estate school. She brought him to the states, Chantel did so much for Pedro. For him to say she never helped him grow is horrible.
She’s beautiful. I hope she heals in a healthy way.
People need help that isn't in the form of monetary assistance.
@@bocawilliams9200Pedro should have gotten individual therapy to deal with his crazy ass family and the situation with his father. Chantel can't help him heal from his childhood traumas.
The more you know 🌈
Chantel, you are beautifully made in God's eyes, he knows your heart, there will be a turn around in your life and he will bless you with the best, let the past slip away and move on with God's graceful love and mercy..🙏
Chantel attitude is nasty in real life. Ask her coworkers. They always felt like Pedro was beneath them. That show can’t stand a chance because her family are boring. Pedro family brings the drama. She’s on singer show now. She will always be singer because of her attitude. Chantel and her mother are both fakes and love fame.
This is equally stupid on both sides
Agreed
Wtf...smh this is sad and embarrassing for these people.
It's the cultural differences that got them blindsided. Neither knows how to understand or respect each other differences.
Chanel needs to move on. Forget about Pedro and stop carrying that with her.
I never liked Chantel family, they were prejudiced and bullies, Pedro had to fight his wife and her family all the time on his own, that’s exhausting. His family were crazy too but how many times can your brother call you saddened before your claws come out ?! If families minded their business, Chantel & Pedro would still be together.
Both families need to have stayed away from that marriage
Facts
He keeps saying Chantel never helped him to grow. Something happened after his dad issue and maybe he expected something from his wife to help him heal and wasn’t getting it. Cos he changed after that trip it seems.
I noticed that was the turning point for him too
Yes people fail to look at this part. He never healed from it and since both families didn’t want them together it was a carpe diem opportunity
She even said to him that he was "just like his father" repeatedily (who had two families) because she thought he was cheating, knowing well what a sensitive topic that was for him, and he didn't even had a reaction, which tells me she had said far off worse things off camera
@@poetaenlaluna Those are 4 words you should never say to a man when he's down. This is a very correct comment!
Both families are crazy...now im starting to think Chantel is starting to loose her mind.
What are the chances that the PRODUCERS SENT THE VOODOO box?
LMAO!😂 Maybe they encouraged the idea
They are ALL out of their minds!!!!
She didn't need to go to Dominican Republic 😂 this is madness. They don't like her.
Pedro loved chantel. But how long could he stay with her and her family always telling him how horrible he was? Literally 7 years of her bullshit and now they wanna say he was scamming the whole time. When is she going to take responsibility for her Actions? I feel soooo bad for Pedro
Pedro doesn’t love her anymore
A proper conversation?… she got there to fight! Yelling, accusing not listening to her ex!… commanding people!… that’s not a proper conversation
Upper class entitlement
@@djishineliveexactly!..
Chantel really put it all out there in that dress lmao 💀 I can’t
I wish Pedro would come to his senses and get Chantel back. Do whatever it takes and put his sister in her place.
Me too. I said the same thing because I feel like they still love each other 😢
She feels like she owns him. No way smh. Even when things weren’t going well with me and my husband, I never went back to how I was doing better than him when we first met. Why would I ever do that? She feels he is beneath her and he could NEVER pay her back from bringing him to the US … ol high Saditty elitist a$$!
Yes literally that’s all he gotta do
He said the Chantel he fell in love with doesn't exist anymore. I can't fault him, she definitely became her mother.
Yup
You feel embarrassed ,cause u embarrassed yourself,girl,move on
Both of those families are so toxic. They stay in each other's business. Chantel's mother is the worse. She always rubs salt in Chantel's wounds instead of consoling her. The issue with Corima is nothing like they think. The girl is getting married to someone else, she has moved on.
Pedro’s PSYCHO family are the ones that sent her the voodoo package. As if Chantel isn’t hurting enough, they gotta play more games w her and break her down? That’s creepy and psychotic asf! That family is made of parasites, sociopaths, and psychopaths. They’re still trying to torment this poor woman. Leave her alone
These two were doomed from the start & it was due to their families if they moved away & never saw their families then maybe that marriage could have survived
'Leave us alone, but I command you to meet with me'....
Chantel one crazy 🐈
She looks a whole different colour when she’s doing the interview parts
You know, I might not be popular with most of people, Pedro was in a hospital room next me during COVID. Our phone calls keep getting crossed and he was very nice and respectful to everyone, doctors nurses, and patient alike. I think he seems to be getting short end of the stick. But drama sells....
Everyone can be nice at face value. She was with him for many years. I’m sure he was nice at the start for her too
He is. Karen, Chantal's mother is evil. Thomas, the father is a lapdog for his wife. Chantal is too self obsessed to see that he really loves her. She always let her family dish him dirt from the very beginning. She allowed them to blame him for her deception when she lied to them about why he was really in America. That was a crucial event in their relationship. He was always having to swim upstream because in that event, she let the steamroller crush him
He is, I can see that in the earlier seasons
I’m sure he’s nice/respectful to the general public. Doesn’t mean he can’t be a crappy lying cheating spouse. People do it all the time. Not saying Chantel is perfect.
If she had to lie then the family is toxic which they were. She should’ve just went ahead and got married
Chantel is fine….but she ain’t that damn fine to be dealing with her and her family. Pedro family crazy too but I couldn’t take Karen as a mother in law
Chantel’s family is clearly unhinged and extremely vengeful.
Pedro’s PSYCHO family are the ones that sent her the voodoo package. As if Chantel isn’t hurting enough, they gotta play more games w her and break her down? That’s creepy and psychotic asf! Pedro’s family is a pétri dish of sociopaths, parasites, and psychopaths. They’re just cruel. What they’re doing is sick. They’re trying to torment her
Yeah... they made Pedro's family look good 😂
No.. they didn’t look unhinged. Pedro’s family knew what they were doing when they sent the box!! And they got the reaction they were looking for! Chantel needed this closure she never got from Pedro before!!! If you remember he ignored her and then abandoned her!! Now she can move on with her life!! He knows he cheated he just will never admit it!!
Yes Karen was the forerunner that ruined their marriage.
Chantel doesn’t know her self worth why can’t she move on ? She wanted a dig at Pedro again
These people are crazy
I concur with Pedro, Chantell never help Pedro to grow as a man. Pedro got his confidence back as a man when he got a job like any man should and this did not sat well with her, she wanted Pedro to be her puppy running after her. Chantell is so obsessed with the idea of controlling Pedro
First part of his growth was that green card....any further development was blocked by his family who hated Chantel and wanted Pedro to leave her.... which he did.
Pedro lost this girl because of his toxic family. Deep down he still loves her.
Her behavior is toxic.
She lost him due to her family too
I command you to meet me? Wtf!!!
This is ridiculous, Chantel is divorced why is she following Pedro around? She has no pride!
Maybe I am crazy too but Chantal was a badass standing up to that bullying voodoo move
Badass? More like mental, she looked ridiculous
@@poetaenlaluna So what? She didn't sit in her house scared like they wanted her to. They couldn't believe it.
@@regemerator7829 like sending the vodoo back and saging with the cross didn't make her seem scared at all 😆
@@poetaenlaluna It wasn't what the mum and sister were going for. At all. You should always confront bullies.
Honestly I was confused as to why and don't even go over there but I see that the family wanted to provoke her. I still feel like she shouldn't have let them win by traveling all the way there you should have just told Pedro that if he for his family reaches out again she will get a restraining order. What does upset me how Pedro keeps saying that she's obsessed with them when he knew that his family literally provoked her and he knew what that would do to her. It's weird too bc Chantel is not evil, Pedro made her like this but him and his family are the cruel one's acting evil.
The family ruined this marriage but Pedro and Chantel allowed it.
I was wondering why she said I command you but I understand now. You are right gurl 👏
When someone invest in you,financially they think they own you,I bought you,I paid so much,blah blah,Chantel needs to move on for Godsake.
Best comment 💯 she wanted Pedro in a place of eternal servitude. That's a shame
Are they blaming it on solely infidelity or because of her lack of desire to have children
Both of em are Christian families but and read Bible but it is often taken for granted the power of forgiveness
I think Pedro's family knew how to get to Karen and don't believe in it themselves, just like they did with serving them chicken feet. His sister is also very mean. I think they would have done better on their own without either of their families. It is ver sad, because I think Pedro did love her.
Sorry but chicken feet is a delicacy in the Caribbean. Don't blame it on that. I also never knew that Americans see being fed chicken feet as disrespectful. I found out by watching this show.
@@lemongirl4307ur right;my mom loves chicken feet.I guess its a cultural thing
Chantel is mental. She treated him like crap and acted like he was her servant. And he supported her financially when she was in school. She’s still in love with Pedro.
So not true! Hé and his sick familly are crap!
God is mighty.
Btw if I see someone on the street, acting like this, I'm calling the police. It depends on how professional the operator looks.
Exactly
Pedro told Chantel "you have a little dementia right now 😂😂. Pedro and his family are having a hell of fun watching Chantel's madness. Just because Pedro didnt want her doesn't mean cheated. Move on Chantel!
Yes, agree fully
Once he got his greencard he stayed out all hours ignored her treated her like crap. His family are scammers. Chantel your mom is right that box only has as much power as you give it. She can return 10 fold to sender.. Don't fall for his crap.
Wrong!!! Pedro had his green card about 6 months into their marriage! He had it for 7 years smh
Not quite….
The mother believes in the spirit world because the demons in her head are not game. That lady needs serious help!
I feel so bad for Chantel I can tell she's on antidepressants this season for her broken heart she's a little zoned out and mono toned they should have given her more time before filming💔
This is how she always is. Broken, no tone speech.