8 Things People With Hidden Depression Do
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8 Things People With Hidden Depression Do
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1) They might not look depressed
2) They may often seem exhausted or complain about always being tired
3) They can be unusually irritable
4) They could have a tough time responding to affection and concern
5) They might frequently turn down activities they used to love or would otherwise enjoy
6) They can developer abnormal eating habits
7) They may start needing more from you
8) They can have bad days. And better days
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Omfg. Tysm. I'm subscribing to you.
Bless your soul
I have all of those problems
I read slow so it took the same time as the video took
I'm literally crying. This is so relatable.
9. Constantly jokes about being depressed and wanting to commit suicide because asking for help has gotten them nowhere.
Anna King
*Hey, I think I talked too much about myself dying or just having fun of it. I don’t know if I’m "depressed" but I just do the eight things with that one too. Whenever I talked about how much pain I‘m having... it seems like people around me dont care...*
O h l o o k. A relatable meme *cries*
How accurate that is scares me
Aki Wa hey... I'm here if you need to talk to someone.
Yup I often do that. Nobody takes it seriously. They just laugh it out while it kills me inside
The writing is so slow, it’s stressing me out
Shawn’s smol bean you can change the playback speed so it goes quicker, that’s what I do. You just click the vertical elipses in the top right corner of the video and click playback speed and change it to the speed you want.
tabasco THANK YOU
SHAWN IM CRYING
Shawn’s smol bean same tho.
same.
I thought the thumbnail says:
*C R E E P Y T F*
i'm yugyumber SAME
Same dude 😂😂
Same here
LMAOO
I do all these things because I physically cannot open up to people and tell them about my depression
I'm on the same boat. I told my decade long friend about my depression and suicidal thoughts, she brushed me off as if I didn't say anything.
+Chempaka Potato same
Phandom?
_Galaxy Whiskers_ do you want to talk?
Chempaka Potato do you want to talk?
*8 facts about me*
Cj Vlogs ugh
Ariel Anant What?
Ariel Anant yeah whats ur problem
mood
Me rn
I’ve tried telling a very close friend how I felt and all she said was “how can you be depressed , you’re always happy and you have everything” and then she continued to turn the conversation back on her .i wish people understood that depression isn’t a look you can’t just assume “hey that person is rich, pretty and does everything she wants , there’s no way she’s depressed” cause that’s not at all how it works .
Well she is not a good friend then. Some one who turn the conversation into their own problem is usually a sign of a bad friend. It happened to my quite a lot of times with people that I hang out with and that and don't know me pretty well, that I say that I'm dealing with depression and they are like how you always funny making everyone laugh you got everything in life that you could have at your age. Well often the ones that have everything and seems funny can be the most depressed. I'm wishing you good fortune on dealing with depression it gets better overtime :)
I did this to my best friend, but i didnt realise. Sometimes they friend doesnt know how to handle the situation when you bring that up. I tried to change the topic because i was uncomfortable talking about sad stuff, and i dient kniw what to say. So possibly your friene couldve felt like me too.
Or their just fake
She's right! No jk .. Its just something you cant help I think.. Since its "hidden" :(
Oh nah nah nah, my advice would be to drop that friend cuz she ain’t a real one
10. Might feel a *deep* sense of guilt and shame about their depression, so -I try- they try to hide it from everyone.
Denny II I get you, last year I had depression.
I am supposed to be the strong one, the one who is there for my mates, the one who can give advice. The one who has it together.
I youst to have anxiety attacks every term. I couldnt tell anyone about it because I was supposed to be the one supporting everyone else. And with all the attention seekers, I felt like I would just become another one of them.
Ive always loved music, sport and video games. I broke my ankle so all I could do was watch people take my spots in my sports. I was feeling like crap so no new awesome sounds were being thought of. Video games became stale.
Then, I started listening to a guy called logic, his 1-800 song. Made me realise that what I was going through was a stage in life. A stage that would eventually go away. I waited, and waited......then I woke up one morning and thought to myself. The fuck am I achieving by being depressed, what am I doing, I’m literally sitting here, bored shitless, not getting anything done and feeling crap.
So I said fuck it, today is the day im going back to normal. My ankle was better. I started playing sport again. I started to feel a bit better. I went on my piano, I was starting to create again. I starting playing video games again, they were still stale so I just dumped them entirely.
It took me around 6-8 months to feel back to my old self.
I started looking out for myself. Sometimes you need to look after yourself. Take some time for you.
If you need to let some steam off, talk to me. Im just a random guy on the internet, that went through the same thing as your going through right now. Sometimes people prefer to keep it to themselves, thats all good, its what I did. But I reckon I can speed up your process of getting back to normal.
I've been dealing with depression and intense grief since the unexpected death of my Mother 3 years ago. I went to Grief Support for over 2 years, it did a lot for me, but only so much. But I ended up feeling like I had to pretend to be better than I was for the benefit of others, like wearing a happy mask....but it wasn't real. Grief is a HUGE mountain to climb, but I am struggling to climb it everyday.
Denny II dam, you have had it much harder then I have only loss I have had were before my birth, my twin brother and my older brother, and my grandfather. I get what you mean by putting on a happy mask though. People don’t like seeing other people in pain. So you feel like you have to pretend that your all fine and good just so people dont treat you differently. Its also hard to find people to relate to because everyone else is doing the same thing your doing. Putting on that fake happy face.
I don’t know what grief is really like, as I said I wasn’t old enough to know I lost anyone.
Glad you could tell me your story, shows me I should be more grateful for my mum.
I don’t wanna tell anyone how I feel cuz I don’t want to hurt people around me, I don’t want my family to blame themselves
Emmaaa Emmuuu If your family cares enough about you they would want you to talk. Remember, sometimes it does have to be about you.
I got over my depression by myself but it was quite hard and would of been a lot easier if I just talked to at least one person. Im not trying to be that random on the internet giving you advice you wont even want to follow. If you have someone who is trustworthy enough or close enough please just talk to them. Even if it just means you tell them “ive been feeling a bit down”.
The people around you want you to be happy, you won’t be just helping yourself🙂
Did you just begin to describe me?
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Larry :-)
rosemeetsdagger, This video probably described Atleast 70% of us.
Other 30% probably is looking for friend sthat act like us
rosemeetsdagger liar
Same
I may need help with my depression...but I can't do it. I can't open up to people like that
Edit:Thanks for all the support guys. I guess I can talk to someone about my depression. I really appreciate it..
You just did. Keep trying. Believe me life without depression or being in recovery is much less painful than opening up. If you don't, how are you going to get better? Would a cancer patient feel better if he/she never sought help? It's no different. th-cam.com/video/9ZeGIB6IlLQ/w-d-xo.html
CuptainCapcake People Are Here For You ♥️ Everything Is Ok
CuptainCapcake, I didn't for the longest time and ended up in the hospital a month ago. I was surprised how supportive most people were once they knew. Even though it seems scary to tell people, it is one of the best things you can do. You don't want to end up in the hospital with everyone shocked like I did.
Same
Step by step, dear. I wish you all luck.
I have all of these...
aw, muffin
Same...
me too
Best Of The Musers me too, I thought it was normal..
Me too
Yes, you can hide depression but when anxiety joins the party, thats when things start to get out of control.. After years, you tell yourself that you should open up and tell someone, so you tell them but they only tells you its ok, listen to your feelings for moment and next day act like it just disappear magicly.. You change friends, you change eating habbits, you change your look, you change your carreer, you change everything in your life hoping you jump of the loop... And about relationships.. You fall in love and for brief time, you will feel like your partner is solution for that, get stucked on them and after while it comes back and you just feel like you cant cope without them and be happy for yourself, you blame yourself, blame others, blame things, blame weather, blame lack of sleep cause you dont even can sleep right, so youre tired and go sleep in middle of day next day.. and then theyare some dipshits that tells you they are depressed after one bad day..
I hate it when people have one bad day and are like " OH MY GOD, I , like, totally don't think anyone can feel worse than me rn, like, Jesus I might just have depression." No you don't. You don't have depression. You are a baby who can't handle the real world. Btw, have a good day! Hope you feel better sorry for the depression and shit.
I feel the same way as you E..
Yep I know exactly how you feel
This is me right now.
@@theverysmallfrog Some people are so engrossed in being judgmental that they forget to notice how rude they can sound. They are my least favorite kind of people. Of course they would say that I am anti social. Am I not? Or am I?
I'm afraid to ask my mom if I can see a professional. She might ask me why amd start interrogating me.
Jungkook's Pillow I’m afraid of the same thing
Jungkook's Pillow Then do it yourself
Jungkook's Pillow AND ARMY AYEEEEE
Jungkook's Pillow same
Me too though
I can’t begin to tell you how incredibly accurate this is
Lolamae we should love life anyways
Especially you.
BTW ur pretty
krystal Franklyn Andrews what you lying for??? She's a fucking bumbaclot. Talk about being clapped.
+Gordon Gecko tf is a bumbaclot?
Same.
Ikr
I've never understood why most people love telling others their unhappy or "depressed". I'm never open to anyone because I know no one cares. The only time I talk about being depressed is online where no one knows who I am. Kinda helps me get it off my chest a little. I'm really good at hiding how I feel. I always pretend to be EXTREMELY happy b/c no one likes a complainer. I listen to other people's problems all the time and help them out with their issues. I learned the hard way that no one cares about me back in middle school. I use to be one of those annoying peeps who always broke down and complained about life. Now that I'm in high school and learned how to fake my emotions I have "friends". I'd rather want to be surrounded by people who don't care about me than alone. I'm constantly needing to be around people all the time. I legit cry myself to sleep almost every night and wake up an hour early just so that I'm able to convince myself to get out of bed and get ready for school. I absolutely hate opening up to people and it's obvious others like that about me. "I love how you're always happy!" "it's so refreshing how you never complain- you're the best therapist ever" I plan on committing suicide once high school is over unless I'm somehow able to feel better. I've been depressed since 4th grade and am now a junior in high school. That's 8 fucking years of feeling like shit. Dear Whoever bothers to read this and thinks I'm lying! I've already seen multiple doctors who prescribed me with depression. Pills can't even help me!
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I'm the same, tho I'm in middle school. Why are people so happy to say "GUYS! LOOK AT ME! IM DEPRESSED!"??? I hurt everyday and I say nothing. Everyone leeches on to me for their problems and worries, but never ask how I'm doing or feel. I always wear a fake smile, it's what do best, been doing it ever since 2nd grade. I'm not open to it, other than saying bad things about myself and making everyone think it was just a joke. Like, how is "Ya, I hate being so skinny." A joke??? Uh... Sorry, I'm ranting.
I feel the same im open about my depression online where no one knows who I am or anything about me. You shouldn't kill your self I have been through that and I know it is not fun but it can get better.
Don't do it, don't throw away your life. Please, there are things to live for. You can be happy, try to connect with others, even if they're just people online. I know I'm just a stranger, but please listen.
Please do not throw your life away. Your life is valuable to this society. It's okay to open up to the internet if that's what makes you comfortable. Try having talks to yourself about why you're depressed and try to come up with resolutions. Be your own therapist. Sometimes you, yourself, is better than any other pill or any type of therapist. I really do hope you get better and I'm sorry you have been struggling for so long.
To be honest, I'm just a 14 year old, and I wanted to talk to my dad to see a therapist because I know I have anxiety, but I don't know if I have depression. It could be phases, but I don't think this is what a normal phase feels like. I want help, but I can't find it. Anxiety has been engulfing my life since I was just 7. I don't know how a personal bully came into my life at such a young age, but it some how cane to me at a young stage and is still with me.
Just know that you're not alone. You have people out there. Today, you just found a person who cared about you. Because I care. Sending my wishes and prayers to you.
Dirty Dan don’t bother the bully. either they’re just being a jerk, or they’re going through the same thing as you. go talk to them, befriend them. give it a shot, humanity’s not entirely nefarious.
Some guy: Hey, freak, why u so quiet all the time?
Me: Well you don't plan a murder out loud do you?
*Guy leaves freaked the fuck out*
Me: _Heh, fool, I was talking about myself, oh well_
that's a suicide not a murder. technically different. also please dont respond to this because im not gonna bother to read it or argue back.
Me boiiiii
but its got a name. its called suicide
Still a murder in its essence first and foremost.
Lmao they wouldn't leave they'd just continue to take the puss out of you for being a weirdo what do you mean
when a person tells you about depression "I FEEL THE SAME" is the LAMEST phase that you would ever say. Just don't bother tell anything. LISTEN, JUST LISTEN. THAT WOULD BE THE BEST THING TO DO.
Colourful Mistakes. You tell them you also have depression and you know what they're going through, or at least have some idea what they're going through. Saying "I feel the same" really means nothing.
Julia Abbott tbh it depends how u say it rlly
lmao I had one friend did the same thing to me and then she proceeded to tell me about her own problem, completely forgetting mine so I never really get to tell the reason... I never wanted to open up to her again.
i was diangnosed by my therapost i couldnt tell my mom becasue she thinks shes a awful mother and a failure she has it to and im to afraid of her menal state if i told her this.
Luciana Aguilar I am literally in the same position, except I haven't been medically diagnosed. I hope you and your mother are well and happy ♡
Yeah, I'm in the same boat. I don't want to see my family change because they feel like their the reason I'm sad. Things are too fragil rn...
You are a great daughter
Luciana Aguilar i haven't been diagnosed with anything so I won't say I have any mental illnesses (However I may have anxiety) but I am in your position. My mother thinks she was a terrible mother because my older sister has severe anxiety and depression and she is a recovering bulimic.
Dan why are you here? 😂😂✌
it creeped me out because im literally all of these..
Wait wait.... do I have hidden depression?
oh wait... I've had depression for 2 years. NEVER MIND
*shane dawson tongue pop*
SuperStarGaming
😂
Queen
as someone who is depressed, I can say that this list is very accurate.
Christina Schaefer I can't tell if that was nice or a joke...uhh...
PTB 123 i wasn’t joking sorry i meant that the list is accurate
Christina Schaefer oh....ok
Christina Schaefer that's not depressed that's clear cut emo attentionseeker.
Ariel Anant I have diagnosed depression
I tried to tell my best friend that I had several suicidal thoughts and that I had a failed suicide attempt. All she said was "Yeah, same" and she pretended to frown. I started to think that no one would be there for me. I would think "-no one loves me. I'm just an introvert who can't share her feelings. No one will ever care for me. I'm just a nobody and I shouldn't try telling others or they will say I'm just seeking attention.-" I personally wish I didn't have to wish like this. The sad truth is that the pain will never go away unless you try to let everything you've seen, heard, and felt go away. This pain won't end until you end. But you have to stay strong and fight through this, even if it feels like it will never end.
This Kookie Infires Me I'm sure your friend cares for you.... just think about it, if she's had similar thought and maybe she was kinda shocked and didn't know what to say at the time. It is pretty scary to be confronted with something like that. My friend told me she had cut herself once was over text though I didn't know what to say and was scared of making matters worse so i ignored it, she is fine but i wish i had been there for her!
Talia Ronan
Thank you. My friend had said she only said same because she didn't want to hurt me. I understand that it is scary to be confronted with someone saying they were depressed. I tried to tell someone else that I thought was close to me but they said that I was an attention seeking b*tch. Now I'm only stuck with the friend that said same and my aunt. Thank you, you are a great human.
I know how that feels... I wish someone would just UNDERSTAND and would bother to listen to you, no matter how long you go on and on for 😩
Oh wow same here. My friend told me that one girl doesn’t like me because I seem like ”perfectly fine student that is a little childish and always happy and never has to worry about anything :))” and yeah at school I pretend to be all happy with no worries but in reality I’m never truly happy. And that is true I’m always sad but I don’t wanna show it. Even tho I’m slowly turning into emo. I mean I’ve heard from many people that ”why you wearing that you’re so emo” and I’m like okay fiiine I’m emo yaay if you want but don’t come to me and say that i just wanna pretend I’m sad when irl I’m dying inside in a hell you would never image.
Katriya
I was clean for about 6 months aka half a year but 2 days ago I lost it all.
I have depression, but it's not a secret. I've had doctors prescribe medication that never worked, and friends that always wanted to talk... Overtime it just got worse and worse, nothing was helping. And-
Wait, why the hell am I writing my story on a lousy TH-cam comment?
Nobody cares.
What's the point?
I don't know anymore... Go have fun with your lives, do something that matters. And, if you're still reading this, good luck with life. I don't have one to live anymore, so speaking from experience, don't waste it.
TheBurr-ito I really wish more people were like you. Thank you for your support, not even my closest friends would have said something like that. I'm very sorry for what *you* had to go through, too.
Thank you for the help, and for teaching me that life really does matter. And that everyone here has a purpose, even if we feel meaningless.
That's good advice, I'll try that sometime.
And, I'm sorry that you've resorted to cutting...
Keyless you know...you sound a lot like me. Im not gonna go into great detail, but just know, there might be people who 'around' you that dont care, but there are people around everyone who dont even know how much of a help they really are. Try telling someone one of your problems one time. ^^ it might help a lot more then you think.
Heh, just a thought/my feelings towards what you said. I meant it in a friendly way. Sorry if it doesn't seem like that heh ^^'
Keyless I'm also in the same state. And do you know one thing..people who have experienced/experiencing the same phase can only understand your condition...it's waste of time explaining to your other friends. The pain,the helplessness, and state of loosing control does happen to me as well. There is no one who can understand me..but I still live each day with the hope that things will change and that I won't surrender to my fate instead I will fight. I want you to also keep that hope, live and fight everyday.
Depression is a trend and it really sucks
Kim Marie being sad and (often) suicidal is a trend?....wow..........kids these days
+Cian Griffin lookon instagram everyone is Like "i have Depression..." its so annoyingf
If they really have it They aren’t gonna Say it Out On TH-cam....
Silver Moon Official WELL WHO TF IM GONNA TALK TO?? Ppl with depression rather talk abt it anonymously with no one knowing who they are bc they FUCKING CANT TALK ABT SHIT WITH NO ONE!!!! BECAUSE TF PPL WONT BELIEVE THEM!!!! HATE MY FUCKING WORTHLESS 11 YEAR OLD LIFE!!! Srry if i offended u, but u fucking offended me
SSSniper Wolf Ur not worthless and it's okay to feel like that. I'm always here to listen
All the signs are there but people chose to either ignore these signs or assume that person is okay or will not attempt to take their life. We don't care or show enough care until its too late. #RIPJonghyun
ExoGotInfiniteBts and some people even kill themselves because of the simple fact that there isn’t this care
ExoGotInfiniteBts ... ffs I totaly concidered resurection after I found out ... he must have felt so horible , and lonely and so much more than that , it must have hurt
Freaking hell not again 😭😭 don't remind me 😢
ExoGotInfiniteBts it just goes to show how well ppl can hide things even from millions of ppl. He did well and we should remember him for being a prince of music.
ExoGotInfiniteBts I was just starting to kinda get over it
Imagine having all of these but every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, and year,
Hallie Jay i already do
Me since 3 years...last year it got worser cause I dropped my 'mask' at the new school and yeah....wasn't a good idea I think...
I don’t have to imagine
Hallie Jay 4 years now....
It’s been 6 years since I have been diagnosed with crippling depression and damn that shits wild lmao
I experienced all of these since i was in middle school to now but my family always tells me im just being an annoying cry baby yet they dont really understand what im feeling.... honestly i always feel like my family doesnt even know who the real me is
1)Yes
2)yes
3)yes
4)mabey
5)yes
6)yes
7)mabey
8)yes
Oh JongHyun
The lollipop that Namjoon Eat On Love Yourself you did well, jonghyun ~~
😭😭
The lollipop that Namjoon Eat On Love Yourself shit 😓
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😢😭😰😢
These are all slightly broad examples, and doesn't necessarily mean you have depression.
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8/8
Huh
Guess that’s what’s going on
Don’t think that you have depression if you show some or most of these signs, look at reliable sources and if you still think that there is something wrong then consult a professional. If you don’t think you have depression but you feel sad or depressed then speak with a therapist
I heard Laurel. Share with your friends and family and see what they hear.. Yanny or Laurel
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no 5 hit me hard i used to love going out shopping etc but now I'm afraid. I'm afraid being in a crowded place. Meeting new people. People scares me.
min yoongi same
AAARRRMMMYYY
well i think it could be social anxiety
Ikr, i never like crowded place, bcs there are lots of people that'll judge by how you look/talk/etc
dizzyppear yeah I'm agree with you because i do think about others opinions a lot that actually ending up making me more self conscious about my appearance etc
When you realize all of it is you....
Exactly the same. But I don't understand. I'm not depressed or something like this. And I don't try to seem "to0 d4rk", this is just the truth.
IKR but i don’t think I’m depressed. I think I’m just like this
Same
De'zyre Harris yup...
De'zyre Harris
You all are liars
I have recently been trying to convince myself I don’t have depression. I feel like I do and there are so many signs that I do, but I just can’t except it. Mostly because of my OCD. I also have no one to talk to. My parents wouldn’t care, they would just tell me that I’m just exaggerating. My “friends” are very good friends either and one of the main reasons I feel this way so I’m stuck holding it all in.
same tbh
-never realised how many of these i have-
It sucks when you just can’t talk face to face and you’re like ”may I please tell about everything through text” but no. People want me to talk. Also I’m introvert so that help a lot :) and everytime I start talking I also start crying so you can’t understand a thing. Thanks world :)
Kiddy same wow that's so accurate for me
This is so me 😂😭
I can feel you
Kiddy I feel your pain, everyone wants to talk and say you can't solve your problems through text, but I don't feel comfortable talking. It makes me really nervous. I only talk through text most of the time.
We are the same
I do these things and i keep telling myself that i don't have depression because I'm scared that if i do then ill be sent somewhere to speak and tell them why I'm feeling this way and i will feel uncomfortable.
jams for jimin
Same here......honestly telling people how you feel is the hardest thing ever and what happens when you don't know what you even feel? I feel like they're gonna try and forcefully open me up in order to know what is happening to me and I do not want that.....
jams for jimin I know exactly what you mean
Rafa chan I've been going to a phsycologist, and I'm still really scared of opening up to people. Including them. I don't want to hear the truth, unless it will help me. But ugghhh, it's been such a long road
The Key of Ember
I don't really want to go to a psychologist.... and I tried opening up to my "bff" and told her everything. But from that day on she just ignore me. I don't know her side of the story and she's going through stuff too but... I dunno I thought she trusted me and would tell me if anything is wrong but I guess not. And she was my bff for YEARS. (Around 6 years...)
Rafa chan i want to tell someone how i feel but not a stranger that I've just met for like a few minutes and is asking me these questions.
And if they ask me what's wrong I'm not gonna be able to tell them because i don't open up that easily.
I do not look depressed.
I laugh just like normal people.
But I just do that so I don't lose my friends..
Take a moment to realise that 1.8 million people clicked on a video called: “8 Things People With Hidden Depression Do”
*Me, eating on the ground at **3:24** am, with tears down my face*
lmao wild
Wilting Rose lmfaoooo
Trisha paytas is that you?
me too
Wilting Rose Me right now except it’s only 1:03 am
Wilting Rose its almost 5 am and I just ate pizza while crying I feel you
more like 8 things 99% of the population does what even
Bobby McBob true
great news everyone is a little depressed inside.
Not everyone and if you had it, it’s different than just complaining or stuff like you have to have some of this to understand
Ishiro Paweenaporn well... Depression is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain. So by saying that, you're basically saying everyone has an imbalance. Depression just isn't being sad, there's a much deeper cause for it.
that comment is so disrespectful to anyone who is truly mentally ill, who's depression etc. literally effects their lives on all levels
Great video thank you very much for the video keep up your great work brother
These hit extremely close to home. I knew I was depressed, but now that I know that other people show certain things like I do, I don’t feel so alone in this.
New title: *8 Things 99% of the population does on occasion*
*1.25Speed on everything The only difference is that people with hidden depression experience this for long periods of time without breaks. It lasts (atleast 2) years with no more than a 2 month period of no symptoms to be considered "dysmythia", aka "hidden" depression.
Pheonix Fly Well if youre secretly depressed try something new...for example i started lifting weights, im far less anxious and in better mood throughtout day...Whatever makes you feel good....do that!
*1.25Speed on everything it's not that simple. Depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and can be treated but not cured. It's tougher for some people and easier for others to cope with it. Not everyone can just "try something new" and just magically feel better
Melanie Baez When you hear the same thing over and over it gets exhausting...4 years ago my doctor said depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain and a malfunction in the neurons firing...my sister, mom, best friend, grandma all talking about dopamine as if its this one all cure all chemical...Human beings are complicated ass creatures, so i agree with you in a way...i think that people know what cheers them up and everyday will be harder or easier than the next. Only you can truly know yourself...chemicals in your brain play a role but they do not dictate your mood for certainty and if you disagree then ask yourself if you proportioned a certain set of chemicals in your brain would it make you feel a certain way with 100%accuracy? And if it does please recommend such chemicals lmao
Melanie Baez Bit of a rant lol, im not attacking you...I just hear the exact same thing about depression all the time mann
Jonghyun tried his best, r.i.p...He did well, he will be always incredible even more, now that he is one of the stars...😪💛💛
FUCK
you means his the moon
Sisdnkd.dkdndkns
damn
Maybe ya should... go with him, nobody would give a shit anyway
I was recently professionally diagnosed with depression,and all of this is so true
I did ALL of these things when i was depressed. Wow. Thank you for this video❤️
People with hidden depression hide their depression??? How did I not realize?!
Corbin Davis I have a lot of these symptoms and have had therapy but i don't think i'm depressed. I hate talking about how I feel to anyone trying to help for some reason
21_crybábies x same. And I hate affection too
Chloe yeah... even when i'm touched lightly but at least we have something in common
If i talk about how i feel people will start to give stupid advices and that's really annoying, like if you notice something get close to me and try to make me feel better, dont ask how i feel.
I recognised several of these things as stuff I've dealt with for years but it was less than a year ago I was officially diagnosed with depression and started receiving medication.
Hidden can mean that the person themselves can't recognise their condition as depression.
Oh, it's like you're talking about me..
Kenza Hafsy i see suga i see kumamon.
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Wth? What if they might be actually going through that...
Kenza Hafsy Me too. But I don't understand, i'm not depressed at all...
Thank you for this beautiful video.I can relate to this 💝
Just recently I was diagnosed with severe depression. Once I told my mom all the things that i was thinking and such she took me to the therapist the next day. I can tell you that ALL of these are actual signs and I had all of these.
dang that's some good handwriting
LMAO
Sabine Voskamp i'm pretty sure it was meant to be sarcasm
Jana Saree well now you can like it 'cause it's been ruined.
Sabine Voskamp yah we know he/she was being sarcastic
Oka Chan55 is that really all you can say
Tbh, I think I have high functioning depression but I hide everything. All of these relate to me and I hate those people who just burst out saying they have it. It’s most likely that you don’t have depression if you constantly admit it and “show off” to people. I’m always smiling at school but my smile hides everything..😪
Never give up, it’ll get better
Strik3 same there is always that one person at school who is like I'M DEPRESSED LOOK AT ME!!!! BLAH BLAH BLAH and other lies
Majestic Midget Right, it’s annoying.
same i smile really easily but i don’t feel anything
I kind of ... “show off” my depression. at this point its the most efficient way of getting genuinely nice people to show concern for me while not seeming weak
This is such an important video. Depression isn’t a visible illness, so it’s important to know that although it isn’t visible there are signs that show if someone may have depression. If you think someone may have it, take the time to ask them if they are doing okay, you don’t always even have to ask them if they have it. Even just offering your help, comfort or advice can help them.
I just came up to my mom about my feelings after having a mental breakdown. The other day i complained to her that i did not know why i was always tired, yesterday i snaped and she said that i was always irritable (i actually broke down because she said she hated the face i make when feeling like that) so after a lot of crying, confessing my feelings of inferiority, low self steem and lots of "I don't know what to do, please help me" she hugged me and told me she loved me, she started making me remember things we used to do when i was little while cried my heart out (just the other day she stared at me, stroke my cheek and told me that she loved me and I cried because that felt too beautiful. I cant love myself. She didn't know why I did it at the time) but yesterday, after i told her everything she just held me and said she was gonna help me, she was going to support me getting help. And it felt amazing because I have been afraid for almost 10 years of her answer to these stupid thoughts of wanting to die and my emotions, but her answer could not be more far from that. My sister kissed my cheeks and held me too, i dont know what i have done to deserve them. They are my angles haha.
I hardly after 4 years of depression, I opened up to my father and told him a lot of things I went through he never knew about,, He said he’ll help me, in the next morning he completely forgot about it, Months went, My depression did really become worse, And He still... doing nothing.
Ady Whys i hope you find a way to be happy again :)
Ady Whys oh yeah same here... kinda gave up making them understand me...
I know how it feels like. I told my mom in a letter that I felt depressed. I told her I felt scared and anxious and so bitter and that I cried every myself to sleep at night. She said she would help me. The Day after, she told me to stay calm and think happy thoughts. But the day after that my dad found my brother crying in his room saying that he was going to kill himself because non of us cared for him. When my mom heard this I guess she forgot everything that I told her and just focused on him and never spoke to me about my depression. My brother is diagnosed with depression and anxiety because he told my parents while he was at the point were he felt he couldn't do anything. They treat him like he can't take heavy things and treat him like a kid. They are always in constant worry that he might do something. I never spoke to her about it again and act like I'm just fine while I'm actually breaking inside but I don't want to worry them. I've been doing fine for 3 years and I'm sure I can take more of it but at least I know I'm not alone.
Bro Im a kid I also suffer from depression no one understands me
omg I thought the thumbnail was "creepy tf" like "creepy the fuck"
Danny Falkman same lmao
Danny Falkman omg same
SAmE
SAME
This is like a huge punch in the core since it's all true.
I'm from Asia and in a country that most people have less acknowledgment of mental health. But, I could always ask for help. Then again, I have no strength to convince myself to say it to others. I always feel all through these and it's making myself empty. Recently, I come to realize that being depressed is a state where you're gone with your senses and everything within doesn't make importance to me anymore. It's difficult to try backing up in my route on my own since I'll have to stand up in foot before I'll overrun this.
I'm doing my best to cope with this myself since it's what makes me be. I'm stressed just about the fact that people around me couldn't genuinely understand as I always am to them. It's like I'm giving up on them without their knowledge. I always cry on most nights. I was always in pain and no one was there giving me company. I just diverse to any questions pertaining to their concerns or anything about me. I was like a deceiver who pretends I was okay since I keep smiling and laugh as if I'm always happy. Well, it's true if I say I am since it's what people say about me and what I would say describing what people think of me.
Everyone, my friends, and my family doesn't genuinely know the true _me_ . I was skeptic to introduce _me_ to anyone. I always adverted everything making myself lonely. Simply, I have a lot of issues with interactions among people and like every reason of why I am depressed. But, I choose to be this way. I wasn't used to having changes constructing in my life. So, I easily diffused and breakdown - like I quite at a level where next is the finale. It bruised my pride and ego in some things of guilty making these decisions.
I lost my way and I'll do anything to have my wings back to take me up to the sky (BTS plugged reference lol) again.
having anxiety and depression sucks, it's like anxiety alarms me to do something but depression pulls me back from being able to so my mind is a constant war of bad thoughts and fears.
I feel like this explained me a lot. My doctor had me do a test and it said that I had depression, but she didn’t want to jump to conclusions based on the test, so she left it alone. I wish she hadn’t. I just started changing and I have a hard time expressing myself, I start thinking I’m not good enough and I just have a hard time talking to people about it. I feel like it’s just taking over and I really don’t know what to do. I’m only thirteen.
Your not alone in 13 as well And What Ive learned is that you shouldnt guve up there is always a sun ray ready to peek out and give you a hand 💖
I feel you :(
basic kween it can start at as young as ten, clinically. Not just feeling depressed. A feeling and a mental condition are two very different things. I can relate to your hardships and congratulate you for making it this far. You are so strong and if you forget it I’m afraid I’ll have to break into your house and hug you until you love yourself as much as I love you.
basic kween I feel you but don’t give up I feel the same
basic kween I'm 10 and I started feeling depresed when I was 7.
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Does anyone know how I can get help for depression? I don't wanna seem like someone that self-diagnoses, but I really do feel like I have it. I've read many articles and such, and I have the symptoms. I also have symptoms to other mental disorders, but I want to talk to a professional about it. Because lately for a while now, I've stopped caring about a lot of things and think about how it would be better if i stopped existing, and it scares me. I don't want to tell my family because they are not the understanding type. They don't care. So how can i get help? Thanks in advance!
quiche lorraine i hope some of these can help you mashable.com/2014/05/01/get-help-anonymously/#mShdTRThomq2 💗
You could try talking to a school counselor
You probably don't have it, online symptoms are a load of bullshit they are nothing what depression actually feels like, you might of just had a bad day
quiche lorraine symptoms online are almost always wrong, try going to a counselor , because counselors and doctors are the only people who can really diagnose you
becca gentil ok that might be partially true but the perso You are saying this to sounds like they may have had a bit more than just *one* day. There are nicer ways to say things. I sorta self diagnosed myself but it probably clued me in when I started self harming. Anyways my point is never say "maybe it was just a bas day" to a person, with or without depression.
I have had 7 out of 8 of these happening to me. I'm talking with my mom about seeing someone. Some of my friends noticed and they helped me with it. If by any chance they see this comment, you know who you are and I love you guys for that. Thank you❤😊. to anyone who is having trouble with this stuff, know you aren't alone. There may be some people you can talk to and if not, just jot it down in a notebook or something. You don't know how much better you will feel if you just get it of your chest. Hope everyone has a great day and if you have anxiety of depression, I wish that best for you.😉🙏 take care👍
8 things that describe me
Jonghyun, you must be have felt like this :''(((
:(
Florida D.Hyuga ...fuk..
Florida D.Hyuga :'(
😭😭
Please don't bring it up ....it hurts to think about it
I tried to open up to my best friends about how I feel about life, even though I was never diagnosed with depression i am consistently tired and upset and i feel like a waste and that nobody wants me to be alive all the time, and all they said was, “Stop it Lynette (my name), the depressed act isn’t gonna work on you. We aren’t stupid.” I almost cried because of what they said. They take stuff like that as if they want attention or if they want people to feel bad. It really hurts and it sucks.
lynettethepuppy aww, i dont know how to comfort you but if you can find at least one person who can take you serious, then tell them everything and hope that relieves some of the burden. Ive been feeling so down lately im not looking forward to anything in life i used to, like getting married and having kids, etc. Id rather just die in a forest alone... mostly because i cant really confide in anyone, have no friends at all, but im sure you do. Good luck dear
Arab Rosesss Maybe you may need to call a suicide hotline or look up online alternatives for people struggling like you.
lynettethepuppy You could try talking to trusted school counselor, trusted teacher who does care, an online organization for teens or adults who don't have anyone to talk to.
awkwardnchey theres no point to.it, but thanks anyway
Arab Rosesss There is since u commented u wanted to die in a forest so I'm a lil worried. I think even if u find it stupid to try it at least once.
Thanks for telling me that I have a hidden depression, its not like I didnt know it, but I was hiding it, even from myself
As a person who has both anxiety and depression, I laugh too much to keep myself from breaking down when people are around, bc its a side I cant let anyone see
Funny how everyone who watched this video mysteriously has depression without an actual diagnosis
LeeLee Cee I’ll probably be one of the rare people in the comment section to say I don’t have depression and I know it and won’t fake having it :)
Fireflightt. I like those type of people we need more of you :)
Ikr... it’s like people want others to feel bad for them when they aren’t even diagnosed
THIS AIN'T A SCEEENE IT'S A GAH DAH AH RAH ikr it's not cool at all! I hate people who glamourise it! It's not fair on people who really have it!
THIS AIN'T A SCEEENE IT'S A GAH DAH AH RAH seriously that's so messed up she doesn't have depression but she definitely has another problem if she's going to cut for attention :/
little reminder to anyone who is watching this, even if you go through all of these at some point or another ,, it does NOT mean you have depression. a video online CANNOT diagnose you ! the only people that can actually diagnose you are doctors and or counselors ! PLEASE stop self diagnosing yourself :)
whataboutsher I know that this doesnt mean i have depression. But i do know that something is not going the right way. And i have no idea how i can get help. I dont want to tell anyone of my family. One time my brother said that depressions arent real. So ... why am i even telling you this. I dont know.
i go to therapy n stuff but i can’t tell them that i’m depressed or anything (i was forced to go anyway). i gotta make up shit and tell them “oh yeah things are going better”
Kaori Chan It is very real, and I know people say you shouldn't diagnose yourself but the dsm5 is what doctors use and it has a list of symptoms. A real doctor is better but that's not an option for all of us. If you know something is wrong though I don't think a label matters, I'd try to watch videos abt dealing w/ depression and see if it helps.
glass unicorn thank you. Maybe i should try this^^
I'd rather trust myself, than anyone who says that I'm lying.
It might be an online video but it tells the truth I get what you mean and people shouldn't be diagnosing themselves but it's pretty accurate to say that most people that have depression do these things ❤
The most ignored of these, in my opinion, is the one about being easily irritable. Sometimes I get really angry about the smallest things, and no matter how many times I explain, people tend to forget that it's a depression symptom and start arguing. And I don't blame them, really. People mostly just associate it to sadness, and it's hard to change that stigma. Anyway, the bad part is: because people don't get that, we have to suppress the anger without actually managing it better, and believe me, it's not pretty when it blows up...
I've been watching all these videos about how to determine if you're going through depression and man, I confirm that I have all symptoms of depression.
You did well and you worked so hard, Jonghyun 💙💪
Matilde Tata omg💙💙R.I.P Jonghyun
Rip oppa
Matilde Tata R.I.P
Rayann Greger PREACH SISTER
Skyward_Falcon 376 their* and if you’re trying to make an insult then at least be grammatically correct, honey
I do all of this thing's and I'm getting scared cuz I really don't wanna be depressed
Alex Cvetkov same
The sooner you seek treatment the better and more effective it will be. Believe me what you don't want to be is more depressed or wait until its so late you have to be on meds and in therapy for the rest of your life. It's not as scary to reach out and get help. What's scary is too wait to long that it gets worse and it normally will. Just like if cancer was left untreated. th-cam.com/video/9ZeGIB6IlLQ/w-d-xo.html
These "symptoms" don't mean you're depressed. They're just signs that someone COULD be depressed.
It's okay just try up open up and seek help plus this video is just thing that you could have depression.
Alex Cvetkov aw its fine... 💜
He literally described every single student in 8 sentences
Thanks for encouraging people that they have depression many people dont have depression and don't understand but they think they do half of these r crap we r humans and we have our moments in life.
I do all these things because I'm just afraid to tell anyone about my problem. I need someone to talk to but there is no one and even if there is, I wouldn't be able to do it. I'm scared and alone and I feel like completely giving up. I have no one that understands what I'm going through and i don't there ever will be someone who understands. The only thing that calms me down and gives me just a tiny ray of hope is music. Listening to BTS and Kpop to be exact. But that's it and I guess it's just gonna stay like that....
It’s ok, I have (SAD) disorder and to cope, you just have to do things that can help you feel positive, if watching Kpop helps than watch it, or just tell yourself things that can encourage and motivate you, don’t be afraid to open up to a loved one.
ARMY will always be here to support you x
I feel the same way. I just feel so trapped in a dark place that I can't seem to find my way out of. The only thing keeping me from ending it all is (the same situation) music, mostly BTS, Kpop, and piano covers/songs. Those things just sometimes calm me down. We'll get through it somehow, it'll just take some more time. *cry's in Korean* Fighting!
Ever since I started highschool I felt like I have gotten depression, except I'm not the one who's irritable other people are by me, and it makes me feel horrible. I can't change myself, people make fun of my laugh, call me ugly, and say I'm annoying. It's really hard, I feel like in just sad but it's come to the point I get sad Everytime at school and I've cried multiple times bc I couldn't hold it in. Sorry if I seem cringy
I was able to sorta get out of depression recently and have lost a lot of weight and make friends, started to write poetry and music as a way to cope with it
I used to want to die sometimes when I didn’t write my feelings and then I found one person that understands me and I love that person now
Wow this hit home my depression isn't hidden to my family, but to others it is damn
I can't tell you how accurate this is to my life..
Be Strong2005 hopefully your not depressed.
Some of the things are accurate here for me to.
I don't think I'm depressed though.
Can't let a video decide if your depressed it has to be you.
(Sorry if you didn't need this it's for people who read the reply too!)
I have depression since 14yo but at that time it didn't really show much..but when teacbers and friends ans family started treating u bad,or underestimating me,i felt annoyed and useless all the time thinking "maybe they're right" and in my country we don't have a psychologist or therapist so i'm stuck with depression forever,and i'm getting skinnier now bcs i don't have the appetite to eat anything,i always sleep wake up watch youtube then sleep again.. i live with my dad and he doesn't even care a bit of me.. he's always out of home,and comes back at 3am in the morning don't know doing what probably cheating from my mom..yes i knew that since i was 13yo and got really mad and never liked my dad ever.since.. but i just have to be stuck with him now..and with all my entire family hating on me... Wow that's long. I just can't do this anymore!!!!!
thank you very much.. i really appreciate your humble comment. God Bless u!
I understand. Felt in similar ways. You can get help though. Here's some examples: th-cam.com/video/9ZeGIB6IlLQ/w-d-xo.html
Talk to yourself out loud say how u feel to get it off your chest and pray to god he never will turn his back on you
Auxiliadora Maria Indira I know things get really hard sometimes. I haven't gone through the same things as you, and even if I had, everyone is different. We feel and cope differently in the same situations. But I've been abused pretty much my whole life by my grandmother. Mostly emotionally and mentally but occasionally physically, and I know a lot about wanting to end it all. But things do get better. Please don't give up!
Auxiliadora Maria Indira I'm so sorry for u I hope u get through these tough years and I believe ur parants and family. Should care about u and not underestimate u. I think like maybe u should talk to them On how u feel I know it's gonna be hard but express ur feelings to someone who cares about u 😯😯😯🖤🖤😙😙
I am an avid #MentalHealthAwareness advocate and performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my TH-cam channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates. 💙❤
Recently, my friend noticed the cuts on my arm. Now I am basically under surveillance by her. She makes sure I eat lunch and she doesn’t let me go to the bathroom alone because I’ll harm myself.
Take notes mom
Luna Vail You want your mom to know that you're depressed?
It's Andrew boi i wish she understood. She blames it on me being over sensitive or antisocial
Why is TH-cam recommending this to me after Jonghyuns death 🙁
Haneul Kim did he commit suicide or something
little_miss_lolo yes, hes a kpop star who recently commited suicide and the whole kpop community has been affected but we're getting throught it, rip Jonghyun
I MISS MY LITTLE K POP BABYYYY
Haneul Kim ikr this is literally how I felt for a few days after the news
Haneul Kim it's already been over a month wow:((
This video can see right the me I'm always depressed😑,but now, I have someone who understands me like they are a part of me and I Love him for that😋
This is more relatable than I'd like it to be. 😞 But I am glad it's out there for people (like me) to know they're not alone.
who else is watching this after the news about jonghyun? watching this so we could prevent this from ever happening again
me
sammy tunes me
it's a tragedy but it's disrespectful for people to talk about jonghyun's death here as if this is a comment section under a fan video or a video relating to him. this is a video about depression, so let's keep it that way ://
sam m. I agree with you. I was also sad about him but there are people who commit suicide because of mental health issues every now and then. A friend of a friend of mine committed suicide a couple weeks back. I didn't know her or the circumstances that led to her death but I still felt bad.
yes, i do understand that many suicides are linked to poor mental health, (hopefully jonghyun's death will be a wakeup call to everyone.) but this video isn't about him. as a matter of respect to his family who has to deal with this, don't spam everything with something to do with jonghyun's death. i know it may seem ridiculous, but when someone is grieving, it doesn't help them if people are always telling them "i'm sorry for your loss." it's a constant reminder about what happened and frankly it can be quite upsetting.
8 things people with hidden depression do:
Breath.
George Mastro lol
The one about irritability is so true, because to today i completely lost it on my brother because he asked if i closed a door and i just got super pissed for whatever reason
1) They might not look depressed
2) They may often seem exhausted or complain about always being tired
3) They can be unusually irritable
4) They could have a tough time responding to affection and concern
5) They might frequently turn down activities they used to love or would otherwise enjoy
6) They can developer abnormal eating habits
7) They may start needing more from you
8) They can have bad days. And better days
It's like I'm happy around family and stuff what when I'm alone I'm just depressed like if ur the same❤️
I normally loose my shit around my family even though I don't mean the crap I do or say. I'm just stressed, lonely and depressed
BonespoDoll Same :(
Kawaii Billy same
This is so fucking annoying instead of saying "same" and "i think i have depression" go get diagnosed. Its annoying af because people who actually have mental illnesses do struggle with it and when people say they feel the same when they haven't even been diagnosed is really fucked up because they don't actually know what depression, anxiety, and other mental illnesses feel like. Go get help or fuck off.
salem blue fucKING THANK YOU
Don’t expose me like that
I hide my depression in comedy and it really helps. My friends even tell me that when im depressed im funnier. Hopefully that helps someone become happier.
My parents ask me sometimes why i'm sad and i don't know what to say. On someday i'm happy, the other day not. and it's always like that. 2-3 weeks ago everything changed and now i'm happy again
The weirdest thing for me is that I don't know if I have depression. I know that I am different from others. People at my school joke about depression and I laugh with them. I told my best friend that I think i have depression but she didn't believe me. So i played it off as a prank. I don't get over things easily on the inside. I act different around others. It's horrible to say this but sometimes I wish I had a disease so people would care for me.
FuFi FuFa they do care for you. But they may not understand yet
Came here. RIP Jonghyun.
I do all of this. I watched this just to see if what I do could actually be signs to others... SOMETHING TO STOP DOING NOW...
Woah, I guess I was hiding depression from myself? Thanks for this video dude. owo