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I agree about the lives. You’ve got to be able to mesh. I left a good good guy because our lifestyles were way off!! He had other issues that greatly upset me, but we truly loved each other . When you’re older (senior citizens for us ); you are very used to your life and in a pattern…it’s difficult to completely change your lifestyle for someone. I am willing to adjust somewhat; but this guy had his extended family in constant contact . Daily interruptions, demands , neighbors, etc He’d disappear for hours , have super close female friends and cousins , had a past of cheating . Jonathan is so so right!!!! Listen to him ladies. Love doesn’t fix it all!!
Sharing Emotionally issues and support understanding each other accepted that each other have different views how they feel about things! 💯 % respect each other at all time's! Building trust first and always! Be adult Don't play games! Be up front Don't lie ! The truth will set you free! Always make date night or even lunch dates! Actions speaks volumes, show that you care, and if it's worth it ,fight for each other, if you both know and feel that you both belong together! I guess I could on but I'll stop here! ❤❤❤ much love and hugs, to all!
I’ll pay for dates when we are married. Until then, I will buy special gifts and tickets for special nights out, but he can pick up the tab for dinner! Exception being his bday. Let him prove himself.
This is for Sue(hot seat woman). Both of you should be vulnerable and able to express the fears & doubts BEFORE you are having oral sex. That’s what creates deeper levels of trust between a man & woman. That’s my 3 month rule. I think she wouldn’t waste as much time finding out if he can have deep conversations if that was the goal when the 2 of you are starting to kiss. It’s interesting that oral sex isn’t a deep level of physical intimacy for her. ( for me, that’s reserved for when we have had a month or more of emotional conversations). Ladies, the men who are willing to wait 2-3 months before any type of sex, are open to sharing their fears, triggers, doubts & dreams because I’m leading by example. If they don’t share after I’ve shared 2-3 times, then NEXT please.
I tell ya, my So and I are both in our later 40's. Currently we are both 😷 together at home(first time 😷 together). Caring for each other is the best. We know this is what we need and the actions say so much but throwing in a "I love you" makes us smile too😉
I think I been, through it all! Only thing I fear ! Is where this world is headed and where I'm going after I'm dead ! But while I'm living I going to enjoy my life and that if it's traveling, my journey alone or with my soul mate!
Thank you Jonathan. It is such a crock of sh*t. I am laughing and crying at the same time. You are onto something here. Love just isn't enough, no especially when it comes to people with baggage.
Agree with the economic situation for most ppl. Also, those after 40 have been burned financially by significant others. Eating out can be very impersonal and too light. Good sometimes but home is a better setting to get to know a person.
I wish my friend could talk to you. He’s so beaten down in toxicity he can’t even see it. You’re incredibly insightful. He literally is married to a bully. It’s incredibly sad to see. Economic abuse is real.
A man doesn't have to provide for me however, he needs to be able to stand on his own two feet financially and provide for himself. I have my own bills to pay.
Even if a man isn’t trained in combat, I still feel safer walking next to a man who undoubtedly is stronger than my 105 pound frame and would be more intimidating to anyone seeking to provoke or cause harm.
Excellent video answers my questions. I thought entertainment was important. Ahhhh If the guy is wrapped up in making money he’ll be emotionally unavailable.
My goodness… What ridiculous prices for … Sad Just terrible. … You are doing a great job. You tell it like it is. That’s important 💯 I like to go fishing. Take a picnic. A blanket n talk n have some fun 🤩 The Museum… Think outside of the Box…. Ride to the Beach n walk along the Beach. Cooking together Once you established that you would like to spend Time together.. 🌹✌️
Hi Jonathon I have 2 comments, on your date who couldn't look you in the eye, it's my feeling that she was intimidated by you and to the comment that the woman touching you was probably horny, OMG I was a massage therapist for 30 years, and this is one mistaken preconceived idea of too many ignorant folks I enjoy your liestreams Thank you 🌺
If he's sitting on a gold mine then he'll be the provider with no problem. . Many women prefer older men for that reason & the older men prefer the younger woman. Wonder why. Jk
I agree. There are many places where the price is crazy high. It is almost best to just get an appetizer plate and share. Where I live, if I do senior movie it is $6.50. If I bring a purse large enough the snacks go in there. If not, a drink and small popcorn is $7.50, So $14.00 for just me for a movie. The other day, different town, AMC charged $26.00 for movie, drink and a small popcorn. I will never go back there.
@@cyn5962 I already do the home DVDs on a regular basis, as it is just me. I like to treat myself one day a week. I just need to look for places less expensive. Free is best, like a walk on the local Ghost Town Trail nearing sunset.
@@kathyverrelli5170check your theater to see if they do the $6 movie nights. It includes popcorn. This is what I do especially when going with a group of us.
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I agree about the lives. You’ve got to be able to mesh. I left a good good guy because our lifestyles were way off!! He had other issues that greatly upset me, but we truly loved each other . When you’re older (senior citizens for us ); you are very used to your life and in a pattern…it’s difficult to completely change your lifestyle for someone. I am willing to adjust somewhat; but this guy had his extended family in constant contact . Daily interruptions, demands , neighbors, etc He’d disappear for hours , have super close female friends and cousins , had a past of cheating . Jonathan is so so right!!!! Listen to him ladies. Love doesn’t fix it all!!
Sharing Emotionally issues and support understanding each other accepted that each other have different views how they feel about things! 💯 % respect each other at all time's! Building trust first and always! Be adult Don't play games! Be up front Don't lie ! The truth will set you free! Always make date night or even lunch dates! Actions speaks volumes, show that you care, and if it's worth it ,fight for each other, if you both know and feel that you both belong together! I guess I could on but I'll stop here! ❤❤❤ much love and hugs, to all!
I’ve always been the provider and protector 🙌🏽 I’m sick of it
Not all women expect men to pay for their meals and dates etc, theres many of us who like to contribute equally too
Happy to hear that... 👍🏼
That's right but I don't send a single cent to somebody I have never met personally for the first time.
I always offer to pick up the tab some of the time after I have established that the guy is worth it and we may be a couple!
I’ll pay for dates when we are married. Until then, I will buy special gifts and tickets for special nights out, but he can pick up the tab for dinner! Exception being his bday. Let him prove himself.
But they are so rare. So sick of always paying. Going out is ridiculously expensive nowadays.
Thanks for your knowledge and thoughts. It is well recieve. ❤
You are so welcome
This is for Sue(hot seat woman). Both of you should be vulnerable and able to express the fears & doubts BEFORE you are having oral sex. That’s what creates deeper levels of trust between a man & woman. That’s my 3 month rule. I think she wouldn’t waste as much time finding out if he can have deep conversations if that was the goal when the 2 of you are starting to kiss. It’s interesting that oral sex isn’t a deep level of physical intimacy for her. ( for me, that’s reserved for when we have had a month or more of emotional conversations). Ladies, the men who are willing to wait 2-3 months before any type of sex, are open to sharing their fears, triggers, doubts & dreams because I’m leading by example. If they don’t share after I’ve shared 2-3 times, then NEXT please.
I tell ya, my So and I are both in our later 40's. Currently we are both 😷 together at home(first time 😷 together). Caring for each other is the best. We know this is what we need and the actions say so much but throwing in a "I love you" makes us smile too😉
I think I been, through it all! Only thing I fear ! Is where this world is headed and where I'm going after I'm dead ! But while I'm living I going to enjoy my life and that if it's traveling, my journey alone or with my soul mate!
I'm with you on that 💯.
@@cyn5962
ME 2 …..🤗
I love that they aren’t paying our bills anyway lol
Thank you Jonathan. It is such a crock of sh*t. I am laughing and crying at the same time. You are onto something here. Love just isn't enough, no especially when it comes to people with baggage.
Exactly
I don't expect to contribute equally, never have...never will.
Most married people pool resources to get by...
@@JonathonAslay Married people has a different perspective than just being bf/gf
Agree with the economic situation for most ppl. Also, those after 40 have been burned financially by significant others. Eating out can be very impersonal and too light. Good sometimes but home is a better setting to get to know a person.
Ty for the questions
Jonathan do you have a template of good questions to ask a man? (Do u sell this? )
Thanks
Yes I do! Www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Please! I just started dating after five years. This online dating thing is horrible.
I agree Jonathon there are men being abused and it’s not noticed
Exactly
I wish my friend could talk to you. He’s so beaten down in toxicity he can’t even see it. You’re incredibly insightful. He literally is married to a bully. It’s incredibly sad to see. Economic abuse is real.
A man doesn't have to provide for me however, he needs to be able to stand on his own two feet financially and provide for himself. I have my own bills to pay.
I agree
Just as I watched video and you took out phone I was doin same thing lol main form of communication with the guy
Even if a man isn’t trained in combat, I still feel safer walking next to a man who undoubtedly is stronger than my 105 pound frame and would be more intimidating to anyone seeking to provoke or cause harm.
Most men weigh over 150 lbs...
Excellent video answers my questions. I thought entertainment was important. Ahhhh If the guy is wrapped up in making money he’ll be emotionally unavailable.
Buy the guy the most appropriate book, wrap it in plain brown paper and leave it in his mailbox, no return address. Hope he reads it.
Maybe?
My goodness…
What ridiculous prices for … Sad
Just terrible. …
You are doing a great job.
You tell it like it is.
That’s important 💯
I like to go fishing.
Take a picnic.
A blanket n talk n have some fun 🤩
The Museum…
Think outside of the
Box…. Ride to the
Beach n walk along the Beach.
Cooking together
Once you established that you would like to spend
Time together.. 🌹✌️
Great point!
Yes too much text communication no phone call
Any dating advice for widows after 50?
Yes, pray... 🙏
Hi Jonathon I have 2 comments, on your date who couldn't look you in the eye, it's my feeling that she was intimidated by you and to the comment that the woman touching you was probably horny, OMG I was a massage therapist for 30 years, and this is one mistaken preconceived idea of too many ignorant folks
I enjoy your liestreams Thank you 🌺
I gave way to much
❤
What's your zodiac sign, Jonathon?
If I remember correctly he’s a Leo
Leo ♌️
@@JonathonAslay And it fits!
If I remember correctly he’s a Leo
Who is?
You, Jonathan
If he's sitting on a gold mine then he'll be the provider with no problem. . Many women prefer older men for that reason & the older men prefer the younger woman. Wonder why. Jk
It’s unfortunate that most men aren’t like you. Avoidance, hurtful people. It’s almost not worth it when you get over 50 or 60.
The cost of living has increased so much that 2 retirees dating cannot afford the price of a meal out.
I agree. There are many places where the price is crazy high. It is almost best to just get an appetizer plate and share.
Where I live, if I do senior movie it is $6.50. If I bring a purse large enough the snacks go in there. If not, a drink and small popcorn is $7.50, So $14.00 for just me for a movie.
The other day, different town, AMC charged $26.00 for movie, drink and a small popcorn. I will never go back there.
Exactly
Going to the movies has gotten so expensive. It's just a suggestion...you may want to make it a Blockbuster night and watch a dvd at home.
@@cyn5962 I already do the home DVDs on a regular basis, as it is just me. I like to treat myself one day a week. I just need to look for places less expensive. Free is best, like a walk on the local Ghost Town Trail nearing sunset.
@@kathyverrelli5170check your theater to see if they do the $6 movie nights. It includes popcorn. This is what I do especially when going with a group of us.