This video was so comforting! And the way you’ve handled the situation seems really mature - you’re not airing everything online but are showing the reality of how you feel at different stages and I think that’s really helpful. Sending you lots of love ❤❤
Thank you, that really means a lot! Airing things out was the last thing I wanted the video to be, I've got a journal for a reason, ya know? hehehe sending lots of love to you tooooo!
Hello and thank you! I just needed this. Had to break up with my partner after trying it again together, when I tried for both over 6 months and just was tired of being constantly tired. I am finding my spark again and It´s nice to see, I am not alone in this. Thank you, sending love!
I am going through the very very exact same thing right now. We have amicably ended our 8 year relationship and I am feeling the same way about it being so hard because we didn’t fight or he did something wrong, and I will have to live in the same flat with him as well while looking at our things all scattered. I don’t have many friends near me, everyone lives so far away which is why this video is such a comfort to me right now. I am not alone in this and you survived this so I will too, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Thank you so much, and I’m so excited to see what the future holds for you xx
Oh my darling I'm so sorry to hear that you can relate! For what it's worth, I'm 6 months out of the fog and am still getting those little moments where I have to pinch myself over how different my life is- how much happier, healthier and stable I am now. Time and space help to heal, I know that sounds bleak now but I promise you that the only way through this is *through this*. It's the start of a new season in the sitcom that is your life!! change is exciting!!! sending so so much love xxxxx
This was a very therapeutic video, had some massive and devastating events so far this year so totally feel the whole life being uprooted and trying to find parts of you you've not seen in a while
Love I am so so proud of you ❤️ thank you for being brave enough to share this (even tho you don’t ever have to) and thank you for showing how normal it is to feel everything at once and feel that anxiety for it. Keep on going, you have already come so far and you are so strong for being here ❤
don't I'll cry!! that's such a sweet thing to say and definitely makes me feel a little less nuts for having done it! thank you so much lovely, I really appreciate it xxxx
this was so refreshing to watch you talk with such honesty but also kindness for yourself, reminding yourself that the pain and hurt is all part of healing! also when you said 'i will love someone until they tell me stop' i thought was just so beautiful and raw and i've written it down in my lyric ideas on my notes app!! i hope some day soon you move from your 'i want you back' era into 'there it goes' - you are doing so well & congratulations on your new house
Felt like I was just being the older sibling listen to you go through the motions of it all in a weird way. Break ups are rough, each one is different and having shared housing is strings that aren't easily cut off, I'm excited for your new house move though 🎉 do things that please you, I think you get wrapped up in emotions of others but please yourself ♥️ the smile and laugh at the end is good that it's returning!
Oh that's such a lovely thing to say! the move has been great so far and I feel like i'm learning something new everyday which is nice! that's really great advice, I do do that and it's time to focus on me a bit more!
Oh girl, thanks so much for posting this, we're very much in the same boat at the moment. I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years (fuck lol) 2 months ago. Also had to move out of our flat and move in with my parents. It's really the best step, and moments like these where instead of lingering in pain, I've chosen to focus on the intense gratitude I feel for my family and friends around me. None of us would be where we are without these wonderful relationships in our lives, the ones that are sustained over time. We're gonna be okay and get back on our feet, and there's so much light around the corner. We break down the tower and build up a new one. Sending so many hugs
8 years!!!!! bloody hell I can't imagine the adjustments you're having to deal with!! totally agree with you on the gratitude front. Life's nothing without contrast and feeling lost and low and sad has been totally levelled out by those who really do care. Big picture, we both seem to be in a v lucky position! we got this sweetpea xxxx
You are amazing!!! I literally can’t wait to see new house new you!!!! Want to jump in and say don’t let the pressure of people saying you’re handling this well make you spiral if you have a moment where you’re not! Like you and miley say, life’s a climb but the views are great. P.s. more baking vids pls xx that banana bread section made me feel a certain kinda way
Oh Beany gal I love you so much! definitely needed that, it's not a straight line and that's okay! it's all about the climb bby heheheh (i'd love to do more baking stuff but the banana bread was heavily supervised by my mum, not a baking bone in my body) xxxxx
I went through a break up in January. I’m back at my parents now after we owned our home together, but he dumped me and told me he didn’t love me. I’m doing okay, slowly, very slowly but I’m getting there. You’ve got this 🫶
This video was so comforting! And the way you’ve handled the situation seems really mature - you’re not airing everything online but are showing the reality of how you feel at different stages and I think that’s really helpful. Sending you lots of love ❤❤
Thank you, that really means a lot! Airing things out was the last thing I wanted the video to be, I've got a journal for a reason, ya know? hehehe sending lots of love to you tooooo!
Hello and thank you! I just needed this. Had to break up with my partner after trying it again together, when I tried for both over 6 months and just was tired of being constantly tired. I am finding my spark again and It´s nice to see, I am not alone in this. Thank you, sending love!
tired of constantly tired is no way to live! so glad to hear you're finding your spark, you've got this
I am going through the very very exact same thing right now. We have amicably ended our 8 year relationship and I am feeling the same way about it being so hard because we didn’t fight or he did something wrong, and I will have to live in the same flat with him as well while looking at our things all scattered. I don’t have many friends near me, everyone lives so far away which is why this video is such a comfort to me right now. I am not alone in this and you survived this so I will too, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Thank you so much, and I’m so excited to see what the future holds for you xx
Oh my darling I'm so sorry to hear that you can relate! For what it's worth, I'm 6 months out of the fog and am still getting those little moments where I have to pinch myself over how different my life is- how much happier, healthier and stable I am now. Time and space help to heal, I know that sounds bleak now but I promise you that the only way through this is *through this*. It's the start of a new season in the sitcom that is your life!! change is exciting!!! sending so so much love xxxxx
This was a very therapeutic video, had some massive and devastating events so far this year so totally feel the whole life being uprooted and trying to find parts of you you've not seen in a while
Sorry to hear things haven't been easy my love! Hope you're still finding those parts of yourself and life's treating you nicely xxx
Love I am so so proud of you ❤️ thank you for being brave enough to share this (even tho you don’t ever have to) and thank you for showing how normal it is to feel everything at once and feel that anxiety for it. Keep on going, you have already come so far and you are so strong for being here ❤
don't I'll cry!! that's such a sweet thing to say and definitely makes me feel a little less nuts for having done it! thank you so much lovely, I really appreciate it xxxx
this was so refreshing to watch you talk with such honesty but also kindness for yourself, reminding yourself that the pain and hurt is all part of healing! also when you said 'i will love someone until they tell me stop' i thought was just so beautiful and raw and i've written it down in my lyric ideas on my notes app!! i hope some day soon you move from your 'i want you back' era into 'there it goes' - you are doing so well & congratulations on your new house
Sweet babe, that's such a gorgeous thing to read- thank you so much! There it goes era is starting to bloom, but no sunflowers in the kitchen just yet
Beautiful to watch you process and explore life go the fullest! ❤️
Wouldn't be able to do it without you holding my hand kiddo
Felt like I was just being the older sibling listen to you go through the motions of it all in a weird way. Break ups are rough, each one is different and having shared housing is strings that aren't easily cut off, I'm excited for your new house move though 🎉 do things that please you, I think you get wrapped up in emotions of others but please yourself ♥️ the smile and laugh at the end is good that it's returning!
Oh that's such a lovely thing to say! the move has been great so far and I feel like i'm learning something new everyday which is nice! that's really great advice, I do do that and it's time to focus on me a bit more!
Thank you for sharing this with us L, I really appreciate your candidness - sending love and hope that the house move is helping
no thank you for watching!! so so kind to say, thank you angel
Oh girl, thanks so much for posting this, we're very much in the same boat at the moment. I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 years (fuck lol) 2 months ago. Also had to move out of our flat and move in with my parents. It's really the best step, and moments like these where instead of lingering in pain, I've chosen to focus on the intense gratitude I feel for my family and friends around me. None of us would be where we are without these wonderful relationships in our lives, the ones that are sustained over time. We're gonna be okay and get back on our feet, and there's so much light around the corner. We break down the tower and build up a new one. Sending so many hugs
8 years!!!!! bloody hell I can't imagine the adjustments you're having to deal with!! totally agree with you on the gratitude front. Life's nothing without contrast and feeling lost and low and sad has been totally levelled out by those who really do care. Big picture, we both seem to be in a v lucky position! we got this sweetpea xxxx
it’s a pausing half way to listen to my break up playlist kinda video
Honestly, 99% of why it took me this long to get the video done was because I was doing the same
You are amazing!!! I literally can’t wait to see new house new you!!!! Want to jump in and say don’t let the pressure of people saying you’re handling this well make you spiral if you have a moment where you’re not! Like you and miley say, life’s a climb but the views are great. P.s. more baking vids pls xx that banana bread section made me feel a certain kinda way
Oh Beany gal I love you so much! definitely needed that, it's not a straight line and that's okay! it's all about the climb bby heheheh (i'd love to do more baking stuff but the banana bread was heavily supervised by my mum, not a baking bone in my body) xxxxx
It'll take time but once you're fully out of the other side you will flourish x
Sam-E!! thank you so much, it's a journey for sure, excited to be on the other side of it!
Would you consider getting an onlyfans to help with the money situ? I know there would be a BUNCH of people wanting to support you on there!
I don't really think this is the time or place to be asking for titty pics
I went through a break up in January. I’m back at my parents now after we owned our home together, but he dumped me and told me he didn’t love me. I’m doing okay, slowly, very slowly but I’m getting there. You’ve got this 🫶
oof! gonna be a funny year for us both, my love. I hope you're doing as well as possible, all things considered. Time will make everything easier
@@LunaLeigh definitely is! But we both got this 🫶