HOW TO GET OVER A BREAKUP: Girl Talk
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ส.ค. 2023
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Hi queens! Today we discuss how to get over a breakup, crush, or situationship. Let's talk more in the comments 💞
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I went through a break up even tho ik they treated me horribly I still feel hurt. It’s hard to get over it even tho I was cheated on. And that completely shattered my self confidence.
Baaaaabe .. I got cheated on after 10 years, just when we started talking marriage! So I know exactly how that feels. Feeling really lost .. But i’m trusting God.🥺🌹
@@MymaLekuIm so sorry for you but God has the best plan for you God bless❤
I want to share something with you women. I'm almost 50, have not been in many relationships but this is what I've learnt. If someone you loves leave, try to fix it, the first and second time. Unless they cheat on you. Them cheating on you is them choosing someone over you, let them keep their choice. If they keep leaving, let them go. Don't try to manifest them back, don't try to make them jealous, don't go where you know they are. I don't block them either, don't view their stories. Let them be. If they want you, they know where you are. Whether they are shy, avoidance, they will come get you. If they don't, give yourself time to heal. Don't care if you were the best thing that happened to them, you don't win points for that. If you choose to work on yourself, do it for you. Because after a break up, you feel like shit. It is normal. Pick yourself up, don't wallow too long, see what else life has for you, not another person but what else. Life goes on. Make your bed, drink water, eat healthy, let life be.
4:30 i agree, no-contact is so empowering. Out of sight, out of mind. Your body needs to also detox the love drug chemicals, which also helps restore clarity. They also dont deserve access to you especially if he dumped you. You deserve better. If he does come back crawling which most men do, be ready to stand by your standards and expectations before giving them another chance.
I recently went through a break up, and even though I’m better now, this was such a refreshing reminder to choose self compassion. Let everything pass, it’ll be ok ❤
Literally such perfect timing Taty thank you 🤍🤍
Lol all the summer flings ending
@@basicinfo2022RIGHTT 😂
NO WAY I manifested this I was thinking about ur how to get over breakup videos and I needed this just broke up with my no good boyfriend.
can you make a “how to get over a friendship breakup” 😜😜
I feel like you can also apply some of what she said to friendships as well.
Having my first heartbreak it’s horrible what makes it hurt more is that he’s a good guy and treated me with respect and care and I did the same for him I honestly feel like I fucked up something and that’s why he broke up with me. Thank you for the help
Girl, same. Went through the same thing 2 days ago. And it’s so hard. I know I fucked some things up, but so did he. Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes that doesn’t make you a bad person.
What I try remind myself is that there is nothing I can do about it now and so I’ll take this is an opportunity for growth, learn from my mistakes and be a better human. Maybe in the future there is a possibility to rekindle and have a better relationship.
@@luza552well everyone commit mistakes but as long as we're realising them & working on ourselves it doesn't makes us a bad person, I went through the same but we both fucked up in some way but at the end I was the one being blocked abandoned when i tend to overlook his mistakes often
got broken up with yesterday with a guy who I really loved with my whole heart, he saved my life (literally), now after watching this I'm omw to have a big fat personal glowup xoxo he's litch js a side character, he's adding to thr plot
« He’s adding to the plot » Looove🌹
how are you feeling now?
aww @@eliana-mp6dl .. I haven't been asked this in a minute! I'm feeling a lot more present & centered love! How are you feeling today?
Love your girl advice Taty. You made me learn so much about taking care of yourself and how you can be happy being single and I appreciate that. Love you gurl 💖.
She’s back 😍 Perfect timing. Thanks Taty
I remember your first video talking about this . Watching this updated one , you’re still speaking facts and uplifting us. Thank you Taty ❤❤❤
your timing, it’s like you know what i’m going through 😭
You are so well spoken and the energy of this video was so peaceful. I'm in love with your return girl. Thank you for coming back with this content
“Broke up with this person so you could fall in love with yourself” is SOO real 🫨
I recently broke up with my “crush “ and this video really broke down everything I feel and I just wanna thank you Taty for always showing up when a girl needs you !😭💕this video is literally free therapy !! Love you loads sis !!
Such perfect timing 🫢 thank you Taty❤❤❤🥰
Queen, your timing is impeccable! Tysm for your content. Love u loads🥰🤗💜💙
i saw this when it came out not thinking i’d look at this for a while, but it came sooner than i thought 🤷🏾♀️ it’s true, there’s a difference between the potential you see in them vs who they are
TAty is the Greatest Bro!! xoxo
it’s the growth for meeee❤️
I’m not a female but this advice really really did help I just ended a situation ship not too long ago with this guy and I’m so glad you made this video
So my boyfriend of around two years, left this relationship a week after he entered into his new college because we had to do long distance . He left me crying so much saying that you are the right person for me but the timing is wrong and that he has to focus on his career. He also said if destiny would want we will meet again after some years. He hurt me so much because his actions told me he loved me but then he left me out of nowhere. I cannot be with him because I do not want to be with the person who runs away from me when things get hard but I cannot stop, loving him and the fact that he made me believe every day that we would have a beautiful future together and he wanted to stay every single second with me. I cannot stop thinking about him and the fact that if he did not love me, why did he do all those efforts in our relationship and why did he run away the moment things got hard. I don’t think I can ever trust a man again.
in the same situation
Same. Most men are like this. Not all but most. No wonder some women choose to be single the older we get. Love is out there, tho. Who knows what the future holds. I remember my 28 yr niece saying, "I'm content alone, I'm done" and now Ik
A word❤👏🏽 thank you for your transparency friend! Much needed
Go Taty❤! Great advice & the video length is my fav number 17!! 🎉. Keep going Tat!
This got me outta bed today! Thank you 🫶
My favorite TH-camr aww the amount of things you got me through with these men aka boys I couldn’t thank you enough 🥰💕💕
Heyyyy Tatyyy omg I needed this video
Thank you so much. This helped me realize that I am enough for myself and that I'm going into relationships with not my full self so he fills that whole but it's not just him who can fill it it's myself also.
Always hitting the spottt, thank you tattyyy🥰
September is my birth month. This video being the first motivation for the first day of the month is amazing.
She’s backkkk😍😍😍
completely unrelated but OBSESSED w the hair, soo cute :’)))
I have been watching your videos since 2020❤ you have really helped me
I JUST had a dream (or should I say nightmare) about my ex... yea no. THANK U TATY
Just broke up with my crush and I was lowkey devastated, but I've been watching Taty for so long I was prepped mentally to be okay afterwards, and this video is really solidifying that I'll be okay. I love this girl's content baddd
Yess she is bacckkk
Thank you tatyyyy 🫶
I missed these❤❤
OMG Taty it's been a while I've missed u💚💚💚
Tips on Point luv Taty 🖤👑✨💯💜
Needed this one as always ❤️
can you PLEAAAASEEE do a how to be funny/witty keep him entertained video please? I know IM SO BORING and have no energy and i need that little bit of help of knowing how to become more BETTER because i dont wanna loose him. love your videos
As an old oĺd follower ...Gurrl you glowing ❤ love u babes
Thank you Taty, thank you so much.
11:57 Wise words taty. Thank you!
Currently going through a break up. The relationship lasted 14yrs and the friendship lasted 17yrs. He left. Because he was cheating...for yrs. I never once cheated.. I gave all that I could and loved him hard. He always told me he loved me but his actions never matched. In the beginning maybe first 4-5yrs not the rest.
perfect timing ily
Thankyhu taty ❤ opened my eyes totally I appreciate u love !!
perfect timing. Going through this right now 💔💕
Tatttyyyy!
OMG! I literally need this soooo much 🥹 Love you so much for this Taty.
Omg I missed you gurl
Happy Friyay 🥳
fell for who they told me they were and pretended they were i was hoping they would turn out that way and keep the promises and to their word. sis was blinded and played. but it’s all good because I am just okay. they taught me something. i’m glad it happened even though it sucked. and detaching myself from them took a lot ngl. i’m glad it did not work out. i am much better now.
Same situation
can we take a moment to appreciate how pretty taty is?
I love you Taty thank you
I had a breakup in January and it still affects me and I still have thoughts about him and we even reconnected at some point but I when I was going through my mental health challenges he couldn’t handle that so it didn’t work out but I’m just learning to accept the single life and focusing on myself and my future
almost at 1 mill!!!
I was finna say I was using the old one for reference, I was doing this raw dog for 10 months without you taty 🥴
thx girl i love you so much
been over it but had to listen to my girl just to confirm it lmfaoooo
Fav girl 💗
Love u btw
Love YOU!!
we missed you🥹🥹🥹💗
I missed y’all 🥹
Sis drops gems for a living 🤌🏾
Thank you perfect timing I found out he ain’t ever wanted me so I got played
Heyyy can you make a updated version of how to shot ur shot and how to be happy sigal
Hey beautiful 🖤
Okay I'm listening
Thank you
Can you do a video on hints he likes you because I can’t tell if he’s just really friendly or likes me
Ty l have been with a breakup rn and I’m trying not to cry:(
its not that im not ove it its that i hate when things pop up of him or his surroundings i was doing fine for 5 months now and something triggered me to be depressed
I’m about to break up with my bf when we been dating for 10 months because we have different plans for future, and I don’t like intimacy with him anymore :(
i mean we are still freinds but we dont talk everyday its only once in a while and its only like hi
does anyone know what her neon sign in the back sayyy?
how long does it take to get over some one because ive been crying for 3 months
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So I've been hanging with this guy I have a crush on,we've been known each other since 2021 it's now 2023 and he still hasn't asked me out or said he even liked me back but he wants to see me whenever he wants to should I continue this😢?
Depends if he knows that you like him and depends on what you do when you guys meet.
If your relationship/ friendship already looks like a real relationship, that means you are doing relationship things (dates etc), but he still doesn’t want to commit he just playing.
You should talk to him about it (because communication is key) and set boundaries. When he says: "im not ready for a relationship" but he still wants to do relationship stuff, LEAVE.
am i hallucinating or is this real?!
Lol REAL!!! 💗
ok but how does one get over a friendship breakup
This
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Can't hear u
first first first
HIII❤
@@TatyCokley heloo🥹❤️
You can barely hear this video
i love you sm so that’s why ima say….pls… pls… blend your makeup better. you’re so pretty n i started following you bc of your makeup but it honestly looks crazy here.
I think that’s the vibe, if u’re talking about the blush (it’s supposed to be extra)
About time Taty girl🙄😂🥰..
I hate him
Promo-SM
The timing is impeccable 😩🤍
thank you for this! do you think sometime in the future you could do a video about friendship break ups? 🫶🏽
Just in time!!!, newly single two days ago🥲
The timing on this is actually INSANE Taty! My self care/confidence journey was built bc of you🤍 And trying to work up to maybe starting my own channel soon abt self confidence because I care sm abt taking care of yourself. But now I’m going through a breakup w my 1st love that I thought would last years, and ts hurts. You dropped this at thE PERFECT time!! Thank you sm for just doing what you’re doing, because you inspire me so much, and you keep it real no matter what!🫶🫶🫶
well thanks tat, i just heard what ive been wanting to hear, i balled my eyes out the whole vid it felt so good tho tysm ly 🫶🏼
Me watching this as somebody who has never been in an actual relationship: 🥸
Good, take your time to choose the best husband material.
I have been watching your videos since 2020❤ you have really helped me