Good common sense tips. Glad I stumbled onto your channel. If you are a guy and have spent any significant time with women in your own country or anywhere else, you should already know better than to try and figure them out. I wasted many years in my youth trying to do just that and eventually banging your head into that wall gets old. Waited till I was 40 to get married to a beautiful Puerto Rican girl with a bad temper. Managed to stay married 20 years. When she passed, my Muay Thai buddies introduced me to some friends-ended up living with two Thai girls here in the US. Best three years of my life. But they are all bat shit crazy. I don’t care where they’re from. The sooner you embrace this universal truth; he more you refuse to be dragged into the weeds, the happier your life will be! Keep on keepin’ on! 🙏
Thanks for all your tips. Going to Thailand in a few months so have no experience in that country's hostess bars. Myself and friends do have some experience in K and V bars so many things are similar. Some girls will only ask to buy a 'good luck' drink for mama and some will include drinks for her 'sisters' (other bgirls). Good to buy 1 for mama and tell them no for friends. Usually the bgirl will not bring up her life's dramas at the initial meet. One thing is different that we pay as we go, not run a tab. Running a tab is hazardous, LOL. Another thing is that many bgirls worked at different bars so they might recognize you, which has drawbacks. We will probably just go couple gogo bars to experience them but stick to hostess bars and gent's clubs.
Thank you for your work..This channel gives me the insight and tips I need. They are actually the things I think about.. I'm planning on moving there. This helps so much. Thank you
@@TerryT324 lol. Hi thanks for asking. I forgot that i even commented. 😅 . Let me keep it short to answer your question. - It was a great man. If you haven't gone. Please go. I liked Bangkok a little more. Personal preference. Pattaya and other places around Thailand are all great. 👍👍👍👍👍
You need to define “Hostess Bars”, “Pool Bars”, and “GoGo Bars” for your viewers. Frankly, I’ve never heard of Hostess or Pool Bars. There are either Gentlemen’s Clubs, Beer Bars, GoGo Bars, or Massage Shops.
Excellent video, a lot of nuts and bolts info, which I have experience in and others I have not. I found the tip about taking charge of the conversation from the outset important. Don't let the bar girl think you are a pushover; she will respect you if you diplomatically assert your authority, and she will fall in line. The other is to audit your bill openly and let the bargirl and the staff see that you are keeping tabs or paying your bills as they come in with a tip to the server; that way, she stays on your side for the next tip. Remember, this is how these people make their living. Lastly, don't lose your cool or be confrontational if some scam happens. The last thing you want is to get into an ugly situation, turning violent and ruining your vacation completely. Pay the scam, probably no more than ten or twenty dollars, and never return, but do it respectfully and diplomatically. Thai people lose respect for people who can't control themselves.
The only thing you need to know about Russian bars is this, STAY AWAY, these are owned by shady Russians, and are managed as such. The girls will force you to buy high priced drinks and scary looking thugs will be looking at you at all times. The girls will not get naked and also will not go with you. If all this sounds fund, then go for it.
Very often some girl just grabs my arm and puts me on a chair. Then we just start hanging out. Maybe im just lucky to have an easy time. But I only visit outside of high season.
go where others dont go. or in your case "when" others dont go. im a fan of this. in the past i have ended up with the finest girl in the bar for trips etc when during the previous high season she didnt even glance at me.
Krystal bar in Thong Lo is good. Go with somebody is preferred imo. But for my budget i like Baccara on soi cowboy and its good to go with groups or alone. But if I ever feel like spending a lot ill try the pimp club or villa.
i have not been in awhile but so far, over the last 18 months of hanging out here i would say 6th street seems to have the lookers and prices are still reasonable for beer. On the North side of the street they are mostly owned by one company and so its pretty standard pricing, etc. less worries / hassles. ive pulled over to a lot of others but once sitting down they just dont look as good as when i drove by. the only other place i would try is Soi Made in Thailand area off of Soi Buakhao for a bit more relaxing, laid back time. theres some good live music in this area too.
Mostly the bar girls I met were awful drunken. That's no surprise cause they make th money with it. Chiang Mai was an exception. She drunk only orange juice, don't smoke and I had not to pay Barfine because she stopped working 5 p.m. every day and we went to her room. Fantastic time before covid
Head momma-san off at the pass......offer her a drink when she comes before she asks. She'll respect you for it. Then get right to business with her, bar fines, rates, clarify is the girls drink ie: rum and coke one drink or two? Then ask how you can buy them as just "one drink" etc....but be nice, never confrontational. Then she'll be off.....and you've developed a quasirelationship....so when the mob comes a running, you can quietly go ask her to run them off except for the girl you like. UNDER NO circumstance pay 15,000TB to anyone that joins you on a vaca! Insane! 3000 MAX, 2000 is better/day. You're going to end up paying for her food and drink and probably small gift. Otherwise, get one when you get there! 15,000TB!??? No way!
Dude, yiur making this way more complicated than it really is. Let me break it down - youre a falang, you have money, the women want you! Just remember, no matter how besutiful they are, yiu rent and never buy. Have fun, stay safe and have the time of your life
Thailand requires too much study of rules, tips, and dos and donts with the bar hookers. NOT worth it especially if you factor in how much money you will lose.
Not at all, you would change your mind if you tried it. There is 100 times more hussle to get and maintained girl in the western coutries than in Thailand. Believe me or other hundreds of thousand tourists who experienced it. Places like Pattaya are ultimate easy mode for getting women, girlfriend experience, ONS and whatever you wish.
Good common sense tips. Glad I stumbled onto your channel.
If you are a guy and have spent any significant time with women in your own country or anywhere else, you should already know better than to try and figure them out.
I wasted many years in my youth trying to do just that and eventually banging your head into that wall gets old.
Waited till I was 40 to get married to a beautiful Puerto Rican girl with a bad temper. Managed to stay married 20 years.
When she passed, my Muay Thai buddies introduced me to some friends-ended up living with two Thai girls here in the US. Best three years of my life.
But they are all bat shit crazy. I don’t care where they’re from. The sooner you embrace this universal truth; he more you refuse to be dragged into the weeds, the happier your life will be!
Keep on keepin’ on! 🙏
Thanks for all your tips. Going to Thailand in a few months so have no experience in that country's hostess bars. Myself and friends do have some experience in K and V bars so many things are similar. Some girls will only ask to buy a 'good luck' drink for mama and some will include drinks for her 'sisters' (other bgirls). Good to buy 1 for mama and tell them no for friends. Usually the bgirl will not bring up her life's dramas at the initial meet. One thing is different that we pay as we go, not run a tab. Running a tab is hazardous, LOL. Another thing is that many bgirls worked at different bars so they might recognize you, which has drawbacks. We will probably just go couple gogo bars to experience them but stick to hostess bars and gent's clubs.
Super info - can not wait for Thailand to open again without any virus
Keep traveling and creating videos for us!
We will!
Thank you for your work..This channel gives me the insight and tips I need. They are actually the things I think about.. I'm planning on moving there. This helps so much. Thank you
Thx for the comment. I’ll definitely do more of this kind of thing!
Thanks for the tips!
sure!
Wow... Stressful holiday it sounds like 😅 i am booked to go in a couple of weeks. Is ignorence bliss?
How did it go?
@@TerryT324 lol. Hi thanks for asking. I forgot that i even commented. 😅 . Let me keep it short to answer your question. - It was a great man. If you haven't gone. Please go. I liked Bangkok a little more. Personal preference. Pattaya and other places around Thailand are all great. 👍👍👍👍👍
You need to define “Hostess Bars”, “Pool Bars”, and “GoGo Bars” for your viewers. Frankly, I’ve never heard of Hostess or Pool Bars. There are either Gentlemen’s Clubs, Beer Bars, GoGo Bars, or Massage Shops.
Ok how would you define those categories? Thanks.
He’s referring to beer bars like on soi6 where a “hostess “ takes you from the street or entrance , and brings you to a table to sit and chat .
Excellent video, a lot of nuts and bolts info, which I have experience in and others I have not.
I found the tip about taking charge of the conversation from the outset important.
Don't let the bar girl think you are a pushover; she will respect you if you diplomatically assert your authority, and she will fall in line. The other is to audit your bill openly and let the bargirl and the staff see that you are keeping tabs or paying your bills as they come in with a tip to the server; that way, she stays on your side for the next tip. Remember, this is how these people make their living. Lastly, don't lose your cool or be confrontational if some scam happens. The last thing you want is to get into an ugly situation, turning violent and ruining your vacation completely. Pay the scam, probably no more than ten or twenty dollars, and never return, but do it respectfully and diplomatically. Thai people lose respect for people who can't control themselves.
Super info mate coming soon hopefully everything open and back normal
Hope so
Greetings from Australia, Perth....... ...///
Great video, but you didn't mention about the Russian bars in Pattaya.
Good call! i dont actually know where they are. walking street? do you know some and ill make a video.
No idea. I just asked out of curiousity having heard stuff about these clubs and what goeson etc,etc.
The only thing you need to know about Russian bars is this, STAY AWAY, these are owned by shady Russians, and are managed as such. The girls will force you to buy high priced drinks and scary looking thugs will be looking at you at all times. The girls will not get naked and also will not go with you. If all this sounds fund, then go for it.
The Russian bars sound problematic.
Very often some girl just grabs my arm and puts me on a chair. Then we just start hanging out. Maybe im just lucky to have an easy time. But I only visit outside of high season.
go where others dont go. or in your case "when" others dont go. im a fan of this. in the past i have ended up with the finest girl in the bar for trips etc when during the previous high season she didnt even glance at me.
Haha yeah they can be very aggressive. Completely change of pace to have woman literally chasing after you and dragging you in.
any idea what is the best and high end ladies bar in Bangkok ?
Krystal bar in Thong Lo is good. Go with somebody is preferred imo. But for my budget i like Baccara on soi cowboy and its good to go with groups or alone. But if I ever feel like spending a lot ill try the pimp club or villa.
Which the best hostess bar in pattaya?....?
i have not been in awhile but so far, over the last 18 months of hanging out here i would say 6th street seems to have the lookers and prices are still reasonable for beer. On the North side of the street they are mostly owned by one company and so its pretty standard pricing, etc. less worries / hassles. ive pulled over to a lot of others but once sitting down they just dont look as good as when i drove by. the only other place i would try is Soi Made in Thailand area off of Soi Buakhao for a bit more relaxing, laid back time. theres some good live music in this area too.
6th street means Soi 6.....
Mostly the bar girls I met were awful drunken. That's no surprise cause they make th money with it. Chiang Mai was an exception. She drunk only orange juice, don't smoke and I had not to pay Barfine because she stopped working 5 p.m. every day and we went to her room. Fantastic time before covid
A friggin game.
Yep agree
Head momma-san off at the pass......offer her a drink when she comes before she asks. She'll respect you for it. Then get right to business with her, bar fines, rates, clarify is the girls drink ie: rum and coke one drink or two? Then ask how you can buy them as just "one drink" etc....but be nice, never confrontational. Then she'll be off.....and you've developed a quasirelationship....so when the mob comes a running, you can quietly go ask her to run them off except for the girl you like. UNDER NO circumstance pay 15,000TB to anyone that joins you on a vaca! Insane! 3000 MAX, 2000 is better/day. You're going to end up paying for her food and drink and probably small gift. Otherwise, get one when you get there! 15,000TB!??? No way!
Bro.. EQ.
Dude, yiur making this way more complicated than it really is. Let me break it down - youre a falang, you have money, the women want you! Just remember, no matter how besutiful they are, yiu rent and never buy.
Have fun, stay safe and have the time of your life
Exactly!
lady‘s drink
yeah....
Thailand requires too much study of rules, tips, and dos and donts with the bar hookers. NOT worth it especially if you factor in how much money you will lose.
Not at all, you would change your mind if you tried it. There is 100 times more hussle to get and maintained girl in the western coutries than in Thailand. Believe me or other hundreds of thousand tourists who experienced it. Places like Pattaya are ultimate easy mode for getting women, girlfriend experience, ONS and whatever you wish.
How much money you will lose is key here!
do you prefer Pattaya or Bangkok?