One Customer Changed Everything (A Pattaya Bar Girl's Tale) | Thailand Stories
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ก.ย. 2024
- You know those stories about guys falling for bar girls in Thailand? Well, this time we're flipping the script. Noi is gonna tell us what it's like from her side of the bar as we follow her journey from the rural countryside to the Pattaya nightlife and beyond.
Follow along with today's story of cultural experiences accompanied by a calming Hua Hin street walk recording, while we explore the realities of dating in Thailand.
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I moved to Thailand 6 years ago at the age of 49. I married my girlfriend that I met online. She is an old fashioned traditional Thai woman. We now have 2 children and are building a nice life together. I always wanted to have children. Now I have happiness and everything I ever wanted
I love this story. There are plenty of bar girls that have good hearts but are constantly being reshaped by their experience with every customer.
The bargirls are cleverer than the likes of you, nieve and your going to lose big time 😂
I don't know about plenty, but the nice ones are there. You get back the kind of energy you give out. And after living in Asia for 20 years, you get a sense of who the nice ones are.
They have the face of an Angel but the heart of a pirate
@@terryb4547 you are missing the point.
@@terryb4547I assume you mean naive.
I lived this story years ago. Costa Rica girl. Not a bar girl but dirt poor. Married with a son. She split after 14 years. Left me with our 11 year old son. They are never happy no matter what you do.
Was it your son or another man's son?
Facts!
They have the consciousness of predatorial/parasitical animals.
That's why you cannot reason with them, and why they always try to get over on you.
It's sci-fi stuff in real life. smh
These girls also know how to play the Long game this story is horse manure
Nah - it is much more common than you think. Sounds like you've been burned. I get that too.
Yep completely one sided.
@@alexandersmith9499 never completely one sided like this.
These women don't deserve sympathy, and Western men have zero obligation or responsibility to "save" them.
You are not a romantic. It CAN heppen. (I think.)
Another chapter in the great book of stories that never happened...
You know Jack shit mate. I know this kind of story first hand. It does happen.
cool story bro, keep sending money to people thousands of miles away 👌
I am happy for Alex and Noi.
One of my neighbors has almost the same happy story - except I saw them worked hard for more than twenty years. The lady used to work in a massage parlor about a city block from my place. The guy is her boss' son. Later they got married, she help his family's metal working shop and is now the manager of the shop. Thanks to the support and encouragement of the guy's parent - who are retired school teachers (unbelievable but true), she finished high school and got a college degree. Now their metal shop is one of the biggest in town, and they has also diversify into food business.
Nieve, new guys in Pattaya trying to be nice to bargirls which they dont understand ! Is a No No ! This will only lead to the guys heartache 😢 there's no good news stories in Pattaya it always ends in tears, youve been told 😂
Ehhh, men can always be respectful to the ladies. It doesn't cost a thing to be kind. Expectation of outcome is different than being nice & respectful.
@@shawnandrukates5790it's not what he saying, sir.
I hear ya, I went to Vietnam and sat down at a restaurant, a couple sat caddy corner to me, he was telling her I pay for everything why are you still doing that? I can only assume she was a bar girl, she was definitely finessing him, while he was constantly telling her, her facial expression was I dont give a fawk.. you guys need to learn these women are iceberg cold.
@@dre7018 and how, exactly, do you know what he is saying? Let me guess, new guys go to Pattaya, they are nice to bargirls hoping the girl will fall in love with them. Bargirl takes advantage of unsuspecting nice guy. Nice guy gets heart broken. How did I do?
@@shawnandrukates5790 difference between nice and respectful. Which is what the guy was getting at. Being respectful is one thing being nice is another. In the west its one in the same, in those places. one can lead to getting finessed out your money. These women's game is atleast on pimp level.
Noi doesnt understand why the guy leave Pattaya after having fun and dont look back?? why the guy should care when he is only a walking wallet. Bar girls dont see us men as people with feelings they see us as men with wallets full of money... and they want that money
Facts!!!
This is 💯 percent correct, and all the naive foreign simps need to wtfu! These gals view us men as resources, nothing else. And Chinese and Philippine women are no different. I lived in Asia for years, there is no such thing as "love".
Farang and Bar Girl/Holiday Girlfriend success stories like this are outliers. Exceptions. Farangs, would you rather be an exception or take your chances where success rates are higher? Go meet Thai women who actually have normal careers and can support themselves. Be respectful. Don't be a damn simp. Treat Bar Girls the same you would treat Vegas Escorts: paid entertainment. These types of women are mainly after your money/assets. Chances of them loving you are rare. Don't be the fool. Think with the correct "head" and don't let your emotions govern you.
Im happy for noi. I recently brought my girlfriend over from phillipines and married her. Her life has also changed so much lately. She also misses home but learned to deal with it. GOD always looks out for you just have faith and do your best
Amazing how many of you guys are now doing the Thai Bar Girl Jackanory
Really, he came from the UK for a weekend !!?? Plus everyone gets their line number in seconds
Yeah, it is all bullshit. None of it ever happened except in this guy's head.
@tbj
I concur, it's BS plus.
i traveled all over this marble and those girls in Thailand have their game on fr. its like amature hour in the Philippines and other places compared. These girls are professional at the bar game...you gonna lose every time
Love the eloquent narration of your stories. Pleasant and enjoyable to listen to. Thanks for sharing. Keep them coming.
Thanks for the kind words, and thank you for listening 🙏
500 Thai Baht = Approx 14 USD and 13 Euro.
This same thing happens in The Philippines as well as many other Third World Countries...
Great story , it does show that the girls have proper feelings, and if you get them to trust you which is the hardest part then you will have a great chance. As this story shows the girls get hurt and they get lied to so don't believe other men ,
Finally Happy Ending.❤
God Bless their family.
Excellent report from Thai woman’s POV. Good insight and positive stories like these help combat the abyss of negative ones that foster stereotypes and abuse.
This is Hua Hin, you can see the Hilton in the background and restaurants that extend out into the Ocean!
A 20+ year history with Thailand and everywhere in it. Married to a Thai.
This story isnt that special or new. Sometimes it works out most times its an unmitigated disaster.
I'm sure you sit up all night making these stories up I guess it's entertaining to some
You're a miserable soul 😂
It's fiction, "Noi" does not exist.
You know Jack shit mate. This does happen and I know first hand.
@@ianwarren3588 of course I Know Jack schitt he is here having a drink with me while we giggle at your comment sweetheart
😂@@yesitisdakid4903
Noi never knew that England was about to fall into ruin.
I am happy for them, but would never brig my Thai girl back to the US other than to visit. There a re a couple reasons. One is that I can't wait to leave this place and move to Thailand (in the planning and prep stages). Two is she could be Americanized and which I want nothing to do with. Strong, capable, and feminine Thais are what I prefer.
I've made several small choices that changed my life but one that I will always be grateful for is finally giving in to a friend who had been trying to get me to visit Thailand for over 10 years. I fell in love with it on that first short trip.
@noneyabizness7288 Good for you my friend I’m hoping to make the move early next year as well want to meet a good woman but will most certainly be keeping my guard up 👍🇹🇭
@@AntonPryor-lb3sdoh. Definitely keep your guard up. And mistakes are made, even by me from time to time. But I found myself a very sweet one this summer. I live in Shanghai at the moment, but I may have to move to Thailand next year to hold on to this one. No sense in bringing her to China. I had two different Indonesian wives that I took to where I was working and they weren't very happy, in general.
@daemeonation3018 Thank you very much it’s hard because there will always be stigma when it comes to Thai women there will always be horror stories but it doesn’t mean you can’t meet a good one I guess you just have to have your head screwed on as best as you can do your best to understand their culture in the hope that they will understand yours as well
@@AntonPryor-lb3sd Having lived all over Asia (physics teacher) and wife 2 and 4 were dancers, a lot of it is just experience to know which girls to avoid. I can almost LOOK at them and see. But the nice ones are there. I usually don't comment like this because I don't feel like being attacked, but I wanted to come in here and support the guys who have had positive experiences. My girl video calls me every day and I guess now I am expected to play the guitar and sing for her on every video call? 😂
@@daemeonation3018 Lol sounds like an interesting relationship and yeah you’re right It’s good to support the guys that have had positive relationships with Asian women because even if they legitimately have they’ll still be someone that judges them
Look, a lot of women in places/ countries like that could end up exactly like Noy, the problem is that some are so broken that they don't want to see a way out. Many women would rather take advantage of foreigner men who genuinely love them and respect them instead of wanting to live a good and productive life with them
It's good to hear a positive story about these girls. It's wrong to assume that they are all evil. I have been around Asia for 20 years and have metmy share of evil women, believe me. But the nice ones are out there. In some situations, it's very useful to make friends with a mamasan that you trust. Buy that mamasan drinks consistently and she will steer you in the right direction. 😉
You're right. Only 97% of them are evil - 100%.
Talking about Pattaya, but looking at Hua Hin in the video😮
I’m glad they met and changed noy s life lovely story
Many good stories from Pattaya and the likes . I met my now wife in Hui Hin 7 years ago . Happy married ,she now runs a successful business in Perth Australia .
A one in a million fairytale
Not one in a million but may one in a hundred or a thousand. I'd love to see the statistics on this, and I mean the real statistics, but doubt the research will ever be done. I've personally have known about 8 or 10 girls that have similar stories of moving to Pattaya from Isaan, working for a time, having ups and downs but eventually meeting a foreigner who genuinely care for them and takes them back to their home country. I include myself in this as I met my wife 21 years ago in Thailand, we celebrated our 19th anniversary earlier this month. I've a lot of theories on how girls can succeed in their lives, create opportunities and then capitalize on them, but that's for different subject. I enjoyed the story and appreciate the video.
@@ermd96 What country are you in?
@@Lat265 I’m American. Live in Hawaii
The nature of men is no more dark or evil than the nature of women. Cool story, but we must remember not to demonize the men who are persecuted and repressed for their desires the world over. They come to Pattaya because they finally can be free in a world that holds them down.
Awesome story. True or not, it could be a real story. I know a couple like this. Rare? Of course it is? I read the comments by the bitter men below, many of whom have been burned perhaps. It's a two way street...
I know this style of story first hand....ive been there and this is my life as well and i couldn't be any happier than with my Noi. Australia 🇦🇺 oi oi oi noi noi noi😊
thigs that never happened...
Noi shared her line ID with her 20 other farang boyfriends and now earns more in sugar daddy money than she did working in the bar. Noi now has enough from her side hustle to retire from the bar world and work full time as hustler of men all the world!
Showing Hua Hin & talking about Pattaya...what you smokin ?.
I was a successful businesswoman in SEA and could retire comfortably at 40 . I was a single mom and met an airplane mechanic who was very nice. We got married and I followed him to the west and my son i send to college. In my whole life , I worked very hard and save He on the other hand spend every dime and then after seeing how capable I was, he decide not to work and do bad stuff. I went 5 years of that nonsense and decide to divorce him , gave him a fully paid house and he asked for alimony. I gave him some monies and never looked back. You can get them out from the trash but u can't get the trash out of them unfortunately.
Lovely story, nice to hear from the other side for a change.
Yeah, right. I get tired of all the negative stories. My experience in Asia has been completely different. Yeah... I have met bad ones. But I didn't MARRY them. I had a good one. She died 7 years ago. I JUST found myself another good one and I am planning on keeping her.
It's BS. 😂
As I listened to this story, I was thinking that near the end you were going to say that the bloke was you and if that was the case, I would believe it more. Don't get me wrong, it could happened, sure. I clicked on this because I thought it would be about you interviewing an actual person, but this was just story telling. I've never been to Thailand and I agree that guys should not be rude and/or disrespectful. But as for them just leaving when they were done .....yep. There are lots of suckers out there who get con into sending someone they met just a few times money when they get back to their home country. However, that same lady is getting money from over seas from multiple guys. So I don't think I would go there and fall in love thinking I'm the only one in her "romantic" life.
And yes, I totally understand that life is hard from them over there. It's not easy. But as a westerner we also hear the horror stories of home ladies look to scam guys out of money so I suspect lots of guys go there for the fantasy and that's it.
Nice try, I doubt it……
I know of 3 success storys from Soi 6, 1 from La La Land bar and 3 from Lisa bar, it does happen, but similar to getting struck by lightning...
thats 4 :)
Sorry, pattaya incorrectly pronounced.
Great story and so truthful
Magnificent video mate just like same thing happened to me and my thai wife ❤😂
I mean she is living in the UK which is a hell of its own
Still better than selling herself as a bargirl
To great fiction
Alex was simp 😑
Hahahah, I wonder if he kept simping when the woman got a better paying job in England
Nice story, but it would have been better when the actual footage is from Pattaya and not from Hua Hin.
That English man did not do his research, I guess. Best wishes to him. I would love to hear about him and Noi after 05 or 10 years.
I would as well
Very touching good and happy years ahead for her and alex❤❤❤❤❤
the myth says that Noy is still an "easy woman"...and searching for more cash ... Do NOT be so dramatic with a woman who stays with you for MONEY ! ...Do NOT be NAIVE , men !!!.... wake up bro !!!
Quite a few things I could say here but I’ll focus on one. Moving to a foreign country to live with a guy is a huge gamble. Not only foreign culture, language, ways, prejudice, you are also totally dependent on the guy. Let’s just take a simple problem, he gets bored with you and goes back to Thailand to find a new girl. Maybe marrying in Thailand and settling down there for a few years might help, I don’t know. It doesn’t guarantee safety but at least the relationship will be a bit stronger. And don’t forget this has started as a prostitute/client relationship (which is primarily business). That alone is a huge hurdle to get over. I don’t say it can’t work but the odds are heavily stacked. So be prepared and able to cope with when that does happen.
love this amazing story. ❤ It’s said though, that so many men are disrespectful to women as in this story. These men will struggle with other things later.
Exactly. I can't tell you how much the girls and the mamasans respect guys who treat the women nicely.
Great video!!!
Unfortunately your just a atm. When they go to other countries it doesn't last long, a richer one comes along and your dust
Alex had concerns he knew her background but he still sent her money ie: sponsored her. Fairy tale
This is beyond awful. I can't believe any self-respecting human would come up with and execute such a hideous idea. Truly tragic.
Another fairytale based on Cinderella. No credibility at all.
This story does not correspond to reality. Thousands of girls like Noi make the same decisions and therefore don't have the same opportunities. The reality is different. England is my neighbor country and going back and forth to Thailand alone is more than 1 weekend. In all the years she worked in a bar, it's hard to believe that he was the first person interested in her. What about the friendly man she went out with the first time? He was different from the others, wasn't he? Don't take the story out of context. I know many situations here in my country who are married to a Thai and whose relationship is over after several years because they constantly keep sending money to their family. Result: husband has lost his wife and she is back to her country. I also know Thai people here who come from the bar world and who return to that job because the money comes in faster instead of working in a factory or as a maid, even though she lives in another country and is married.
Good luck to them.
These girls are sending home more like 40,000 a month. Thailand inflation is wild.
It would seem that Alex's family didn't accept her.
Yes they had a quiet wedding - bringing a Thai girl back to the west is a big risk
Happy for them 😊
Ok, so you put a clip about Pattaya and your opening is from Hua Hin?
Poverty is sad.
Wonderful uplifting video.
My heart rejoices for Noi and Alex!!!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This story sounds like BS.
One in a lifetime but she did well and happy ever
This information is very important and good to know. I only wish more foreigners would watch this and respect Thai customs. My Thai wife is always teaching and correcting me. Good job.
This story has a part 2 lol
I believe many of the men are genuine and are more than willing to be the knight in shining armor. But due to the many scams and shadier type of girls men avoid any and all commitment.
They chose to be bar girls by choice... easy money.
So he flew from England to pattaya for the weekend, yesh of course he did. Straight out of a cheap mills and boon book that story. Also vey annoying the way you say pattaya. Its patt, aya not patt, ier no i at the end
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Thanks for the feedback
Nice story. Sadly I don't think that happens very often.
Absolute nonsense.....
Play with them that's all Do not take them home with you
This is a BS Story. Please 😂
Not many good stories from Pattaya so this is more like a drop in the sea....
Yes it sounds like a real story 😂🤣💩
Where did all these onions come from?
If all about pattya why you filming in hua hin
Its a beautiful love story...thank you
Now do part 2 where she cheated on him / divorced and married someone richer / went back to sex work
A t m thats what they see their is a few good ones far and between 😂😂😂😂😂
This video is filmen in hua hin
Your a writer.
Ya ya.. 😊
a story about a Pattaya girl but video footage from Hua Hin
I try to vary the footage a bit for each story
I noticed that also
Hua Hin
@@thailandunfilteredyou just copy other you tubers. Loser
nope, big pant load.
Such a story you can heare since more than 40 years !!! But what I can see , that you want to make money with such a story !!! And nothing more !!!
Not pattaya
Yawn.
Yawn another fairy story !.
L o l. He goes to another country to get a beautiful girl.Can't do it in the states. These men are a trip. These women are struggling. They will do whatever to get out. Says a lot about the quality of men laugh out loud.
Please stop saying "A father just took off after 10 years" without getting his side of the story. Don't we know females and what they are capable of ?
Bargirls never leave Thailand
Bs story
Such a bullshit