They love the thick neck, the broad shoulders, the barrel chest, the strong arms if you are stocky and not cut up, it makes you "cuddly", which they love.
So long as a man is athletic and muscular, it doesn't matter if he's of the lean or thick variety. He can get women. Hell, a man can be outright fat and get lots of action, if there are muscles and power underneath the fat, and he's somewhat handsome.
Co-signed!!! 5-11 265 and I don't have any trouble getting em- they approach me most of the time. The big arms, shoulders and a xtra crisp mouthpiece makes a difference.
This video was straight fire. I was pondering why you were going to start making live videos again....whipping out that genius bruiser build; I see you Uncle. Fellas its all about optimizing your efforts to fit your genes. Whether your stocky with a 4 pack or lean with an 8 pack, your effort, discipline, and aura will be on display the more you operate at 100%. Nothing's better then motivating your fellow brothers to strive forward and get in shape. Remember the body is the first thing that should be overcome on your way to being a conqueror, and not the other way around(99% of the worlds problems are health relate/body insecurities) ...... and trust' this body game' may not get all the women , but your going to be swimming without getting wet that's fosure'.
I was strangely getting noticed by women for my current appearance and complimented more than ever before. That's when I had realized I'm not a skinny dude anymore. Eating good does wonders. Lol
Shalaurie Dunn you call your black American men, BOY! I can see why they go for white white! You black American women can't take a joke and have a bad attitude. Smh! Am glad I don't live in trash america! Bye
The truth is a man who is strong and solid has less fear - aka more confidence - because he knows he is more capable in situations, relative to other men. Tall is great, since in prehistoric times when those guys could see threats more easily. Tall and strong is ideal, but as Rom said, tall is only 3% of the population. Strong and average height is sometimes better than tall and skinny.
You know why? When you are that big, you can tell you are big with a shirt on. When you’re 6’1 190 lean like me, you can’t really see how big I am with a shirt on. My shirt is on most of the time so I don’t get noticed like a big dude like you
great topic Rom, I'm 5'5 210lbs athletic build, little pouch but overall no fat and stay with alot of options and told by other men that I have the confidence of Kobe but I'm just being myself
Brother Rom you are spitting facts!!! After the military I went to college full time. I was on the Offensive Line and I was 6'7 310 with 20 plus inch biceps. I received alot of attention, from the ladies because of the aesthetics and there feeling protected. I would pull the pretty petites based on my size. No cap, but I favored the dude in your thumbnail back then. I'm in my 40's now and I am still stocky. I work in a mental health and medical setting, and it's still much of the same. Stocky men need to be mindful of their body composition as they age. Excercise and eat right to have a healthy weight and body fat ratio. This will keep away the hypertension and diabetes. Keep speaking the truth!!💯💯💯💯
Mustang gang 5.0 True to a large degree bro. 1. Some women feel the size is too big. 2. It seems like you're self absorbed. 3. As Rom said, they feel intimidated. 4. They think you're dumb 5. They think you're broke, because of all the time you spend lifting. 6. Those hot women are superficial creatures only into looks, those ain't worth shit
GM Brethren!☕ 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤 5'8 220, workout 5days a week, I always kept my mouth shut and like you said and my late father said know your type's. Lol you seen my info 👍👍👍👍👍
Absolutely right Rom,I'm 5'6 at 240. I'm not fat,hell my lady is 5'9.Told her I was going to drop 10 to 15 pounds and she said for what? Told me she was going to feed me if I didn't look right...lol
I'm 6'7 325lbs (not to muscular yet, but my veins stick out) but I workout 5 days a week, trying to lose another 40lbs and I attract short women which is cool because I love me a short woman. I never though short or petite women liked big guys but I was wrong, even when I was 500s I still got plenty of play because I never "showed" my weight. They like to be picked up, held down, thrown around (dominated) they get off on it.
Rom I second that Stocky Brothers be winning I'm 5'8 and 230 and been killing it since My late teens and I'm to turn 45 in January and I've pulled some bad Honey's in Time including a super model that host one of them Runway challenge reality shows . Like she told me she want a Man that can lift Her up and put it on Her not them tall skinny basketball type dudes . Oh Brother Rom can you touch on Single Dads being pussy magnets .
I used to be able to bench almost 400 but i got hurt on the job and went from 225 to 190 i lost my weight and my woman but at the same time got one that looks even better and told me she likes how i look SMH!!!!
It's all a matter of preference which everyone has a right to. You can have muscles and run into a woman who hates it or you can find a woman who hates obese men and wants the bodybuilder or skinny dude. Point is no matter what build you are a woman somewhere will like it or hate it. It's best to just be the best you whether you choose to be skinny, stocky, muscular, or fat and be confident about it or change it if you dont like it. Either way find a woman who will accept and appreciate you regardless of size if you are truly comfortable with your build and if you aren't comfortable then fix that for yourself.
A great physique helps. At the end of the day, you need to give off that confident vibe. I got a buddy that stays in the gym but he is socially awkward...
Eh I'm socially awkward but I learned to master being a introvert like you said in your other video and it works and gym helps but that's from childhood being called fatass all the time lmao
I'm tall and lanky dude, but plenty of my friends are stocky and I need to share this with them. In fact, it was usually the stocky ones that were getting the most play from the women. It had a lot to do with their confidence as well as how they were put together. That's why Olympic weightlifters, competitive strongmen or even rugby players get a lot of attention. But as far as women trying to feed a man and what not, there's often an ulterior motive. I mean feeding a man is a form of mate guarding for women. If a woman noticed that a man is stocky and appears to eating good, it usually means he's got a woman that's a great cook. Just like in your previous video about women needing to having good/great cooking skills. There's a reason why for some people promoting the dadbod. But, as it's been mentioned time and time again. one has to take everything with a grain of salt. "The only time a man can have the upper hand is when looked flier than the woman." - Ice-T, Good Hair "That's instant gratification for a woman. I'm tellin' all of you young girls that. Learn how to cook. If you love that man and you wanna keep him, cook. That's how Paula Deen got me." - Tracy Morgan, Bona Fide
I believe that the stocky guy is sought after by black women because he is more attainable. The perfectly fit men usually aren't checking for your everyday sisters. So even though a lot of women say they want a man 6 foot plus, chiseled up, in perfect shape, they are actually intimidated by those types of guys. These women now that if they go out in public with the man, he'll get tons of attention from both men and women. She'll feel left out. I've heard various black women say that they do not want a man that looks better than them. That's where the stocky guy comes into play. Not fat or skinny, and better yet not physically imposing to a sister's ego.
6'1 230 and I stay on that bench press n arm curls, the stocky guy ain't judge/jury on a woman's insecurities about her body, weight, or age. We're shrinks with XL magnums... til shit goes LLLLEEEEFFFFTTTT
Stocky is literally average height while being massive wit broad shoulders. All the biggest bodybuilders on the planet are stocky as fuck. Search up big ramy, 5 9, Nick walker 5 7.
I'm 6'4ft 215 lbs I get a lot of women that i guess feel like they have to 'shoot they shot' Idk what's causing the obligation but as I've started back to working out 3 times a week some are intimidated and I don't live a check to check lifestyle....but I've had some friends that were stocky muscular build without hitting the gym that got women...so yeah it's true...
YOU AINT LYING ROM! Shorty I'm wit say she like stocky/muscular dudes but she with me. I'm 6'0 only 180lbs.....but she keeps coming back. Take women's public BS with a grain of salt.
I got thick neck , wide shoulders bit stocky I’m putting in muscle mass . I get a lot glance 👀 looks. I’m not even 6feet 😂. But I’m more focussed on my goals and living healthy lifestyle
Y'all better listen to this man. My baby mama told me just last night everybody got muscles now. I thought to myself hold up I'm at the gym all the time and I don't see anyone that looks like me. Yeah everybody got muscles but everybody can't hold 230 to 240 and still be in shape. Whenever I get down to 220 the women start complaining. even my daughters tell me they don't like the way I look.
Bzywzy BM probably talking about the fact that IG makes it seem that way... I've had the same results when getting leaner. But as someone mentioned above, clothes off is a whole different game. My experience shows that the people who like big, will not like leaner/smaller, but more more people like leaner - when they can see the definition. Just my .02
I'm 5'8 220. Use to bodybuild/powerlift. Never had a problem getting women now granted I had to develop conversation at a young age but your right it's tricky at the same time bcuz when I was lean around 180. Females wasn't checking for me me I got more women at my off season weight at 220. And yes they wanted to to straght dominate them I mean pinn them down pick them up choke them pull hair ect.
Nicholas Jordan, damn that sounds just like me back in the day. When I was around 185 slow game. Got up to 5'9" 225, my trick is I would tell them that me and Emmit Smith were the same size. I am in the medical field and it was on from there. I was referred to as built like a pitbull.
Damn..Here I am at 5'8 160lbs. 8 pack and all. Have to stay light because I'm an athlete. Although girls can't see the abs under some clothes. Having some extra fat makes you appear way bigger than some lean muscle especially if you aren't naked.
You're right, Rom. Being in the UK, I've been criticized for being skinny. A lot of girls at the time wanted me to be bigger. Funny enough, black girls I know pay attention to my wide shoulders. This surprised me, cause they are not into fitness or anything, but can go into detail about the V shape. Lol!
The way women talk about a man has to be tall I've never heard that one before. Not even in person from a woman. That's why I'm open to learning new things.
this is my typeeeee. I mean not really muscular just solid idc if its fat or muscle. I'm not into tall or lanky/skinny. I'm already skinny, I want a guy who's bigger.
#Facts Another gem by the Master Teacher Rommy Rom!! Women love to be dominated. Like the OG Goldie said in How to be a Player....a woman wants to be dominated, has to be dominated, needs to be dominated in order for the continuation of this man woman thang!! BTW...that book (In Search of GoodPussy) I'm about half way through it....IS THE BIBLE lol. Big Thank you!
I had a stocky build throughout my teens and early twenties. Sort of built like Cole from the show "Martin". But when I got in my mid-twenties and thirties and now, I maintained an aesthetic ripped frame. Some females absolutely love it especially non-black women. But there are still some women from my past that say I looked better with a little more padding. I guess I looked more jolly lol.
Don't sleep on the stocky or that homer looking type of dude. I remember when a married couple got hired working at my job and the guy's woman was straight up eye candy, thick, just gorgeous. Well within a year the husband did not like the job and went on to go working for a truck driving company where he had to the whole interstate thing hardly was ever at home. Well rumors were starting to fly around the the guy's wife was messing around with this chubby short guy at work. If you were to look at this guy you wouldn't believe it he looked like carl from family matters. everyone at the job couldn't believe it. It blew our fucking minds. Well it so happens that some of the women at the job was really good friends with the short guy's wife and had all the intel. The women were hating so bad that they had her fired and divorced because they told her husband which it's fucked up. But yeah man it's all about what you say or when you catch them at a vulnerable time, test the waters or see what she throws back at you when you get to teasing with her and the answers will reveal its self at least that's what that dude told us. They ended up getting married what a lucky bastard.
This is true 💯💯5’5here 200 lbs, broad shoulders , krisp mouth piece. Once i lifted more , got more solid n toned i got more attention when i lost 60 lbs. but women do like being man handled , and squeezed on. Women more komfortable with me when they’re naked n they bodies 💯💯
Rom Wills excellent commentary as always! You are absolutely right brother Rom! My thing is if you are let's say 5'5 5'6 5'7 go to the gym work on your physique lots of push ups, get a nice chunk on the shoulders, chest and on the arms and always wear clothes to accentuate your physique to give you that athletic build! am 5'7 and women always ask me if am a sprinter! Or a dancer? Short men have short legs! To give it a longer look wear slim trousers,or trousers! Never wear skinny jeans or pants!
Dont give a fuck and I mean that in the nicest way...do you bro and they will come ,have all the confidence in yourself and if you have to fake it till you beleive it do it
General Rom,there’s probably some ASP’S that are 5’8”-5’11” with stocky-roughneck physiques that are out there in the streets-real life streets☯️☯️☯️🐉🐉🐉🐅🐅🐅
Yo... That's my body type! Hahaha! I've got a football player build and women find me very attractive. I've had hard tens in college who rarely showed anyone attention go out of their way to set up weekend dates with me. I'm just starting to trust my instincts on this. My best friend is short, full beard with a stocky build, but he gets smoking hot petite girls. Feminine women need a masculine compliment. I'm cutting down, but I want to maintain my thickness and bring in my abs.
Women who want 6-2 plus men are only a small part of population remember Rebecca Lynn Pope they're a far more stockier guys like a John Cena I'm built more like a Rey Mysterio n Kalisto
Rom Wills I remember a high school classmate was a running back he was short muscular and stocky. Dude had one of the finest chicks in his class and he was smashing other chicks on the side too.
rom this is what i ve experienced in my limited exposure to women. without substance as a man any type of game is a short term strategy and it will be a pain in the ass to constantly game your woman. also she knows that i am playing games with her so there will be a radical drop in sexual attraction. up to you correct me if i am wrong
"Game" just means knowledge and common sense. At least in the context I use it. I strongly advocate being authentic. In the future listen to the video.
Gentlemen, just believe in yourself. Forget about what is being said out there. You want something, don,t be afraid to approach or go for want you want. My friends is 5' 8". A quality woman with a good background.She is my height about 140 pounds. I would say same size, because both of us wear a size 6 (Canadian size). She is a very good looking woman. There were a a couple of guys trying to date her and guess what? A couple of years ago, she married a man who is about 5' 4 and he is not rich. Just an average gentleman. Some people could not understand why she chose this man, but she told me she saw qualities in him she did not see in those other men. She is very happy with this man, he treats her like a queen and they are living a happy life. All of these nonsense about height, size, riches, color is just not realistic when looking for a suitable mate. You accept the person who you think will have your back. Beauty and attractiveness only last for a period of time. We are not in this world to stay. This world and the thing that are contained in it are just pacifiers. So why should we waste our time by what is being advocated by the media. The media is controlled by a bunch of Jewish men whose aim is to do nothing good for mankind. They teach us nothing so let us not follow them.
Yeah we know this that is why you the only woman that has the respect a Man needs. And trust most dudes are not here to just talk bout mundane things they also looking for guidance and learn how to get long term companionship. We appreciate your opinion very much. I know I do at least. Salute!
Rom please reply. What are your thoughts on weed? I am taking your advice, and im trying to have the best body i can. Im trying to increase my testosterone as much as possible. U said to pay attention to the streets. Why do I always see the guys who smoke a lot of weed everyday get women? When i workout i try not to smoke weed because i dont want that lowering my test levels. But then again i also want a social life and hang out with the bros too. But they smoke weed
Yes sir 6 ft 2 290 lil stomach but still get the eyes....yall bros know how we do ..non black women always checking us out, unfortunately not many black women at my gym
I'm 5'9& I had a couple of pretty &tall women fall hard for me for some odd reason I mean they were pretty too especially when I was stationed in San Diego
MY POSITION IS DIFFERENT I ATTRACT MORE FAT GIRLS. THE SLIMMER OR LIL THICK CHICK TELL ME I'M TO PRETTY. I GET CONFUSE BECAUSE I DON'T VIEW MYSELF AS A PRETTY BOY.
My ideal body is slim. Look man, I'm 5'8 and the baddest female I ever ran into was when I was like this. I was on a bike and my stamina was unreal...you think she didn't know. I was eating primo food and living as an athlete...uncle Rom do you hear me!
Dude that was me 7 years ago(21) back in highschool I was 255lbs abiscuit away from 260 just fat I did Insanity lost 40lbs and I was getting looks like damn and highschools would come up to me and say I always had a crush on you(from your previous vids "I always thought you were fine") haha
IDK why u keep saying 6-2. The ideal for females is 6-0 and up as along as u are in that 6ft category, thats what they like. Me and all the men in my family are 6'2. I didnt know it was a good thing until women kept asking my height online
I don't like skinny guys or muscular guys. I guess I like them stocky lol ...I love tall guys but I never been with one. I think the tallest guy I've dated was 5'10. Your right lol I can't have a man who's cuter than me lol I got to be the cute one. The guy definitely need to be bigger than me too
I am 5'8 210 pounds and definitely stocky built and live in Atl where a lot of dudes be skinny and out of shape and everywhere I go they stay choosing especially women from my past who remember when I was 135 pounds about 4 yrs ago
Aww sh*t my type of video. 6 feet 215, gonna get back in the 190’s tho. I could use a trim but i always had that muscular build (mesomorph). Throughout school they called me “brolic”, “muscle head” and the girls loved my eye color for the most part lol Sh*t, I remember back in middle school this pretty brown-skin model type chick used to go out with this “pretty boy” that was more popular than i, girls liked him, he was light skin and a mix of slim and chubby, he wasn’t built. Anyway, me and his shawty messed around and the nigga was asking me bout it all insecure and some other kids we knew was talking bout “but why you?” (Towards me) lmfao! They had lasted a long time tho Btw i recently found shawty on instagram, she aint follow back but her look still make me wanna make love to her 😂 lol
U right Rom I'm 5ft 8 215 and ladies all races and sizes flock 2 me they also love beards and u gotta have a street look and swagg that helps gotta be 100 sistas can tell a fake nigga lol
They love the thick neck, the broad shoulders, the barrel chest, the strong arms if you are stocky and not cut up, it makes you "cuddly", which they love.
Many women love that.
Yes! 🥰
Football analogy: QBs, WRs, CBs, and SS/FS are the tall in shape or pretty boys. RBs and FBs are the shorter stocky guys. Linemen are the big boys.
salchih exactly
Truth. All of the them have their specialties.
salchih you are accurate as hell my brother. The LBs And TE are in between
Linebacker
@@RomWills yea all of em millionaires!... jk
So long as a man is athletic and muscular, it doesn't matter if he's of the lean or thick variety. He can get women. Hell, a man can be outright fat and get lots of action, if there are muscles and power underneath the fat, and he's somewhat handsome.
Real talk.
I’m 5’10” 220... I lift weights. Big shoulders and chest. Not much of a gut, but no six pack. I get more attention than I did at 190.
I went through the same thing.
Co-signed!!!
5-11 265 and I don't have any trouble getting em- they approach me most of the time. The big arms, shoulders and a xtra crisp mouthpiece makes a difference.
Athletic in my younger day. But ever since i went up to bear mode get way more attention.
That's how it happens.
This video was straight fire. I was pondering why you were going to start making live videos again....whipping out that genius bruiser build; I see you Uncle. Fellas its all about optimizing your efforts to fit your genes. Whether your stocky with a 4 pack or lean with an 8 pack, your effort, discipline, and aura will be on display the more you operate at 100%. Nothing's better then motivating your fellow brothers to strive forward and get in shape. Remember the body is the first thing that should be overcome on your way to being a conqueror, and not the other way around(99% of the worlds problems are health relate/body insecurities) ...... and trust' this body game' may not get all the women , but your going to be swimming without getting wet that's fosure'.
I like how you put that fam.
All women have a certain body type that they want from a man, which is a win win for guys who are stocky, slim, or fit.
Exactly. A man just has to figure out who's checking for him.
Im 6' 2" 225lbs. Relating to your video from yesterday... I tend to attract the 5'0"-5'2" size women. I guess women do like to be man handled.
That's the money size right there. Tall with some muscle on you.
Darron Brown Yes women love to know they are dealing with a man . Yes ,they loved to be dominated , in a good way . They like to feel protected .
I was strangely getting noticed by women for my current appearance and complimented more than ever before. That's when I had realized I'm not a skinny dude anymore. Eating good does wonders. Lol
You see what I'm saying.
Yes stocky be getting it . Women like something to hold . Plus women like someone that’s gets attention but not to much .
Buts facts like always Unc ROM .
You stated it perfectly. Women want to be the center of attention.
Facts
He is preaching guys please listen to this man lol
Jamil London boy bye! 👋🏾
Jamil London lol ok 😂
Shalaurie Dunn you call your black American men, BOY! I can see why they go for white white! You black American women can't take a joke and have a bad attitude. Smh! Am glad I don't live in trash america! Bye
Jamil London lol why are you so mad? You want a hug? 🤗Here you go
Stop TROLLING!
The truth is a man who is strong and solid has less fear - aka more confidence - because he knows he is more capable in situations, relative to other men.
Tall is great, since in prehistoric times when those guys could see threats more easily.
Tall and strong is ideal, but as Rom said, tall is only 3% of the population.
Strong and average height is sometimes better than tall and skinny.
Good points.
All facts! I'm 6'1 240 built like a linebacker. Somethin about that "country strong" look the women love
They love it.
You know why? When you are that big, you can tell you are big with a shirt on. When you’re 6’1 190 lean like me, you can’t really see how big I am with a shirt on. My shirt is on most of the time so I don’t get noticed like a big dude like you
great topic Rom, I'm 5'5 210lbs athletic build, little pouch but overall no fat and stay with alot of options and told by other men that I have the confidence of Kobe but I'm just being myself
Confidence means a lot.
That stocky build is a good goal for me to attain,since I’m 5’11”,myself.🥊🥊🥊👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿☀️☀️☀️
Brother Rom you are spitting facts!!! After the military I went to college full time. I was on the Offensive Line and I was 6'7 310 with 20 plus inch biceps. I received alot of attention, from the ladies because of the aesthetics and there feeling protected. I would pull the pretty petites based on my size. No cap, but I favored the dude in your thumbnail back then. I'm in my 40's now and I am still stocky. I work in a mental health and medical setting, and it's still much of the same. Stocky men need to be mindful of their body composition as they age. Excercise and eat right to have a healthy weight and body fat ratio. This will keep away the hypertension and diabetes. Keep speaking the truth!!💯💯💯💯
Thanks for your testimony.
@@RomWills Your Welcome Brother!
Those body built type of guys get the best looking girls. I can’t even hate on them
I would say everybody can get theirs regardless of build.
Mustang gang 5.0 True to a large degree bro. 1. Some women feel the size is too big. 2. It seems like you're self absorbed. 3. As Rom said, they feel intimidated. 4. They think you're dumb 5. They think you're broke, because of all the time you spend lifting. 6. Those hot women are superficial creatures only into looks, those ain't worth shit
ReallyStrongGuy when ever I see those types they usually have some short woman like 5’2. “Fun sized”
Mustang gang 5.0 True. Short and built just right!
GM Brethren!☕ 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤 5'8 220, workout 5days a week, I always kept my mouth shut and like you said and my late father said know your type's. Lol you seen my info 👍👍👍👍👍
They like that size range.
Absolutely right Rom,I'm 5'6 at 240. I'm not fat,hell my lady is 5'9.Told her I was going to drop 10 to 15 pounds and she said for what? Told me she was going to feed me if I didn't look right...lol
Many women like that stocky build. It make them feel safe.
5’6 240 not fat? Lol
@@almightyhector8695 theres something call body building
@@1Xzss does he sound like a body builder.
@@1Xzss nah bro 5’6 240 is really high on that BMI scale
Always go by what you see, if your woman says she can't stand this dude or hate him or call him ugly check into it she probably feeling him.
Real talk.
So true Mike! Red flag!
I'm 6'7 325lbs (not to muscular yet, but my veins stick out) but I workout 5 days a week, trying to lose another 40lbs and I attract short women which is cool because I love me a short woman. I never though short or petite women liked big guys but I was wrong, even when I was 500s I still got plenty of play because I never "showed" my weight. They like to be picked up, held down, thrown around (dominated) they get off on it.
You see what I'm saying.
Rom I second that Stocky Brothers be winning I'm 5'8 and 230 and been killing it since My late teens and I'm to turn 45 in January and I've pulled some bad Honey's in Time including a super model that host one of them Runway challenge reality shows . Like she told me she want a Man that can lift Her up and put it on Her not them tall skinny basketball type dudes . Oh Brother Rom can you touch on Single Dads being pussy magnets .
philtyrich1, Yes Yes, professional single dad who takes care of his kids, women love it.
Bro Curtis you ain't lying fam .
philtyrich1, and don't have a place large enough for your kids to have there own room with their own stuff. Its on from there!!!!!!
Brother Curtis I made sure she had her own room from the jump .
I still have that one on the list.
I used to be able to bench almost 400 but i got hurt on the job and went from 225 to 190 i lost my weight and my woman but at the same time got one that looks even better and told me she likes how i look SMH!!!!
Feeling happy that I’m stocky, time to work on my approach
I'm 5'6. ...and I gets it in! Hahahaha
I know it fam.
Lucky.
It's all a matter of preference which everyone has a right to. You can have muscles and run into a woman who hates it or you can find a woman who hates obese men and wants the bodybuilder or skinny dude. Point is no matter what build you are a woman somewhere will like it or hate it. It's best to just be the best you whether you choose to be skinny, stocky, muscular, or fat and be confident about it or change it if you dont like it. Either way find a woman who will accept and appreciate you regardless of size if you are truly comfortable with your build and if you aren't comfortable then fix that for yourself.
Well said.
A great physique helps. At the end of the day, you need to give off that confident vibe. I got a buddy that stays in the gym but he is socially awkward...
LMAO
That happens.
That could be why he stays in the gym... Lol that shit sucks though. You can't fake confidence with women.
Eh I'm socially awkward but I learned to master being a introvert like you said in your other video and it works and gym helps but that's from childhood being called fatass all the time lmao
I'm tall and lanky dude, but plenty of my friends are stocky and I need to share this with them. In fact, it was usually the stocky ones that were getting the most play from the women. It had a lot to do with their confidence as well as how they were put together. That's why Olympic weightlifters, competitive strongmen or even rugby players get a lot of attention. But as far as women trying to feed a man and what not, there's often an ulterior motive. I mean feeding a man is a form of mate guarding for women. If a woman noticed that a man is stocky and appears to eating good, it usually means he's got a woman that's a great cook. Just like in your previous video about women needing to having good/great cooking skills. There's a reason why for some people promoting the dadbod. But, as it's been mentioned time and time again. one has to take everything with a grain of salt.
"The only time a man can have the upper hand is when looked flier than the woman." - Ice-T, Good Hair
"That's instant gratification for a woman. I'm tellin' all of you young girls that. Learn how to cook. If you love that man and you wanna keep him, cook. That's how Paula Deen got me." - Tracy Morgan, Bona Fide
Feeding a man is how some women mark their territory. The smart women do it anyway.
At 5’5 240 keep it coming Rom I’m appreciating all this. Iknew they liked a big body but I always felt the height throws it off
The height thing is overrated.
Rom Wills I see. Now I gotta pay attention to choosing signals
Whats your thoughts on brasilian women and women from dominican republic also african women.
I'm 6'1 192lbs. I attract big girls, young girls, and ratchet chicks. I have the basketball build type.
That's a good build. Women like men in that range.
I notice when you have big shoulders and you are confident like me it works every time.
Oh yeah. They love it.
Big shoulders give the indication that a man can "shoulder" responsibility.
Sniper 11 N.D., yes Sir I can cosign on the shoulders I wear a 48R at 5'9".
I understand. They get very loose around us.
Sniper 11 N.D. I FEEL YOU COCRAOCH MAN
I believe that the stocky guy is sought after by black women because he is more attainable. The perfectly fit men usually aren't checking for your everyday sisters. So even though a lot of women say they want a man 6 foot plus, chiseled up, in perfect shape, they are actually intimidated by those types of guys. These women now that if they go out in public with the man, he'll get tons of attention from both men and women. She'll feel left out. I've heard various black women say that they do not want a man that looks better than them. That's where the stocky guy comes into play. Not fat or skinny, and better yet not physically imposing to a sister's ego.
Real talk.
im 5'9 220. I get attention from any type of women.
Facts..it’s just like dudes who go after fat women..insecure so they aim low
6'1 230 and I stay on that bench press n arm curls, the stocky guy ain't judge/jury on a woman's insecurities about her body, weight, or age. We're shrinks with XL magnums... til shit goes LLLLEEEEFFFFTTTT
Actually that's part of the magic. Stocky and bigger men have a way of making comfortable.
Stocky is literally average height while being massive wit broad shoulders. All the biggest bodybuilders on the planet are stocky as fuck. Search up big ramy, 5 9, Nick walker 5 7.
I'm 6'4ft 215 lbs I get a lot of women that i guess feel like they have to 'shoot they shot' Idk what's causing the obligation but as I've started back to working out 3 times a week some are intimidated and I don't live a check to check lifestyle....but I've had some friends that were stocky muscular build without hitting the gym that got women...so yeah it's true...
That's how it works.
YOU AINT LYING ROM! Shorty I'm wit say she like stocky/muscular dudes but she with me. I'm 6'0 only 180lbs.....but she keeps coming back. Take women's public BS with a grain of salt.
Every man has his tribe.
Unfortunate looking? That's some funny shit!!!
I got thick neck , wide shoulders bit stocky I’m putting in muscle mass . I get a lot glance 👀 looks. I’m not even 6feet 😂. But I’m more focussed on my goals and living healthy lifestyle
Y'all better listen to this man.
My baby mama told me just last night everybody got muscles now. I thought to myself hold up I'm at the gym all the time and I don't see anyone that looks like me. Yeah everybody got muscles but everybody can't hold 230 to 240 and still be in shape.
Whenever I get down to 220 the women start complaining. even my daughters tell me they don't like the way I look.
Women feel some type of way around stocky men.
Bzywzy that extra fat will make you appear more muscular than you are especially with clothes on. When the shirts come off it's a different story
Keyboard Warrior That's what I know. But the women talk big shit when I get a real slim waist line.
Bzywzy BM probably talking about the fact that IG makes it seem that way... I've had the same results when getting leaner. But as someone mentioned above, clothes off is a whole different game. My experience shows that the people who like big, will not like leaner/smaller, but more more people like leaner - when they can see the definition. Just my .02
ReallyStrongGuy people like healthy. Obviously we all have different ideas of healthy.
I'm 5'8 220. Use to bodybuild/powerlift. Never had a problem getting women now granted I had to develop conversation at a young age but your right it's tricky at the same time bcuz when I was lean around 180. Females wasn't checking for me me I got more women at my off season weight at 220. And yes they wanted to to straght dominate them I mean pinn them down pick them up choke them pull hair ect.
Nicholas Jordan, damn that sounds just like me back in the day. When I was around 185 slow game. Got up to 5'9" 225, my trick is I would tell them that me and Emmit Smith were the same size. I am in the medical field and it was on from there. I was referred to as built like a pitbull.
Women want to physically submit to men.
Damn..Here I am at 5'8 160lbs. 8 pack and all. Have to stay light because I'm an athlete. Although girls can't see the abs under some clothes. Having some extra fat makes you appear way bigger than some lean muscle especially if you aren't naked.
Nicholas Jordan damn they freaky
Push-ups pull-ups dips don’t Skip leg day
You're right, Rom. Being in the UK, I've been criticized for being skinny. A lot of girls at the time wanted me to be bigger. Funny enough, black girls I know pay attention to my wide shoulders. This surprised me, cause they are not into fitness or anything, but can go into detail about the V shape. Lol!
The V-shape does for women what an hour glass shape does to men.
Hi Rom l am 6'7" 250 lb 13% body fat and some women say l am to tall for them ,have you ever heard of that one before?
The way women talk about a man has to be tall I've never heard that one before. Not even in person from a woman. That's why I'm open to learning new things.
this is my typeeeee. I mean not really muscular just solid idc if its fat or muscle. I'm not into tall or lanky/skinny. I'm already skinny, I want a guy who's bigger.
Stocky man + Ruebenesque woman = major incoming matches
I'm sending this video to my cousin he needs to hear this.
Thanks.
Thanks pastor
trill will you could not be more right dir vary dope video sir my hat goes off to you sir
#Facts Another gem by the Master Teacher Rommy Rom!! Women love to be dominated. Like the OG Goldie said in How to be a Player....a woman wants to be dominated, has to be dominated, needs to be dominated in order for the continuation of this man woman thang!! BTW...that book (In Search of GoodPussy) I'm about half way through it....IS THE BIBLE lol. Big Thank you!
That's the book.
I had a stocky build throughout my teens and early twenties. Sort of built like Cole from the show "Martin". But when I got in my mid-twenties and thirties and now, I maintained an aesthetic ripped frame. Some females absolutely love it especially non-black women. But there are still some women from my past that say I looked better with a little more padding. I guess I looked more jolly lol.
Different groups are going to like different types. I met Cole one time and he had this fine sista hanging off of him.
I'm both 6"2' and stocky at 240 lbs. No gut. Women definitely love it.
Yep.
On point brother rom
Thank Brotha.
Don't sleep on the stocky or that homer looking type of dude. I remember when a married couple got hired working at my job and the guy's woman was straight up eye candy, thick, just gorgeous. Well within a year the husband did not like the job and went on to go working for a truck driving company where he had to the whole interstate thing hardly was ever at home. Well rumors were starting to fly around the the guy's wife was messing around with this chubby short guy at work. If you were to look at this guy you wouldn't believe it he looked like carl from family matters. everyone at the job couldn't believe it. It blew our fucking minds. Well it so happens that some of the women at the job was really good friends with the short guy's wife and had all the intel. The women were hating so bad that they had her fired and divorced because they told her husband which it's fucked up. But yeah man it's all about what you say or when you catch them at a vulnerable time, test the waters or see what she throws back at you when you get to teasing with her and the answers will reveal its self at least that's what that dude told us. They ended up getting married what a lucky bastard.
Dudes like that know how to make a woman comfortable. A man can a woman best by making her comfortable.
Rom Wills exactly 👍🏽 great channel man.
BIGWORLD0074 damn
Carl from family matters was fat not stocky. Stocky men are like a thick woman. Not fat and not skinny.
@@clw-md7vg good point
Morning Unc ROM .
Good morning fam.
This video is facts the bulk size and muscle gets love.
You've seen it.
Can you make a video about the Short man's Game?
It's just a matter of not anything hold them back.
This is true 💯💯5’5here 200 lbs, broad shoulders , krisp mouth piece. Once i lifted more , got more solid n toned i got more attention when i lost 60 lbs. but women do like being man handled , and squeezed on. Women more komfortable with me when they’re naked n they bodies 💯💯
Any game for the Short Men ?
Brandon Dominic how tall are you my brother, maybe o can help!
I''ve know some short dudes who were tearing it up. They just didn't let anything hold them back. They went full tilt.
Rom Wills excellent commentary as always! You are absolutely right brother Rom! My thing is if you are let's say 5'5 5'6 5'7 go to the gym work on your physique lots of push ups, get a nice chunk on the shoulders, chest and on the arms and always wear clothes to accentuate your physique to give you that athletic build! am 5'7 and women always ask me if am a sprinter! Or a dancer? Short men have short legs! To give it a longer look wear slim trousers,or trousers! Never wear skinny jeans or pants!
Brandon Dominic two words. GRATEFUL energy.
Dont give a fuck and I mean that in the nicest way...do you bro and they will come ,have all the confidence in yourself and if you have to fake it till you beleive it do it
General Rom,there’s probably some ASP’S that are 5’8”-5’11” with stocky-roughneck physiques that are out there in the streets-real life streets☯️☯️☯️🐉🐉🐉🐅🐅🐅
6ft tall here, I can confirm. All the cute smurfs were at me...but don't worry folks their bitchness compensated their smurfness!
I feel you.
Yo... That's my body type! Hahaha! I've got a football player build and women find me very attractive. I've had hard tens in college who rarely showed anyone attention go out of their way to set up weekend dates with me. I'm just starting to trust my instincts on this. My best friend is short, full beard with a stocky build, but he gets smoking hot petite girls. Feminine women need a masculine compliment. I'm cutting down, but I want to maintain my thickness and bring in my abs.
Sex appeal is based upon the evaluation of the whole physical specimen including the face by the womb-wise observation of women.
Women who want 6-2 plus men are only a small part of population remember Rebecca Lynn Pope they're a far more stockier guys like a John Cena I'm built more like a Rey Mysterio n Kalisto
Truth.
6 foot 1 inch...255 lbs...and over 40...gettin' much play..especially from them gym babes..lol Brotha' Rom...you butterlaid as fuck brah.
you don't sound over 40!!
Hey Bronze!!! Sup my dear....yeah...I am...lol
I'm chilling most of the time.
Rom .."butterlaid" also means a person or thing that is a cut above...Your game is "Butterlaid"..
Rom what do you mean by stocky? Short muscular guys?
Dudes like the one in the thumbnail. Think of pro football running backs.
Rom Wills I remember a high school classmate was a running back he was short muscular and stocky. Dude had one of the finest chicks in his class and he was smashing other chicks on the side too.
I'm 5'11 and 180. Is that a good build for what women would like?
Yeah that's a good one.
rom I've been bulking for 3 months now and I'm sick of this shit but it needs to be done
Do it for yourself. At the end of the day you have to comfortable carrying the weight.
5'6 250 stay with a braud lolll
I see you playa.
Both my Sister like Stocky Men. They got to be over 250. They say big guys make them feel secure.
When I was weighing 240 a lady wanted to put 40 pounds on me.
I am 5'10 225 and I get some bad women
Many women love that body build.
rom this is what i ve experienced in my limited exposure to women. without substance as a man any type of game is a short term strategy and it will be a pain in the ass to constantly game your woman. also she knows that i am playing games with her so there will be a radical drop in sexual attraction. up to you correct me if i am wrong
"Game" just means knowledge and common sense. At least in the context I use it. I strongly advocate being authentic. In the future listen to the video.
ok
I had to remind myself I was short when I've been around tall men my personality was tall so it compensated
As long you are comfortable being you.
Gentlemen, just believe in yourself. Forget about what is being said out there. You want something, don,t be afraid to approach or go for want you want. My friends is 5' 8". A quality woman with a good background.She is my height about 140 pounds. I would say same size, because both of us wear a size 6 (Canadian size). She is a very good looking woman. There were a a couple of guys trying to date her and guess what? A couple of years ago, she married a man who is about 5' 4 and he is not rich. Just an average gentleman. Some people could not understand why she chose this man, but she told me she saw qualities in him she did not see in those other men. She is very happy with this man, he treats her like a queen and they are living a happy life. All of these nonsense about height, size, riches, color is just not realistic when looking for a suitable mate. You accept the person who you think will have your back. Beauty and attractiveness only last for a period of time. We are not in this world to stay. This world and the thing that are contained in it are just pacifiers. So why should we waste our time by what is being advocated by the media. The media is controlled by a bunch of Jewish men whose aim is to do nothing good for mankind. They teach us nothing so let us not follow them.
Well said.
Rom Wills Thank you
Yeah we know this that is why you the only woman that has the respect a Man needs. And trust most dudes are not here to just talk bout mundane things they also looking for guidance and learn how to get long term companionship. We appreciate your opinion very much. I know I do at least. Salute!
mrdrich4prez Thank you.
Now if your stocky build dude but at the same time you are handsome goodlooking and etc?
Rom please reply. What are your thoughts on weed? I am taking your advice, and im trying to have the best body i can. Im trying to increase my testosterone as much as possible. U said to pay attention to the streets. Why do I always see the guys who smoke a lot of weed everyday get women? When i workout i try not to smoke weed because i dont want that lowering my test levels. But then again i also want a social life and hang out with the bros too. But they smoke weed
It's not the weed. Women like something about the men and the women probably smoke weed too.
Yes sir 6 ft 2 290 lil stomach but still get the eyes....yall bros know how we do
..non black women always checking us out, unfortunately not many black women at my gym
u ain’t lyin dis one jawn said she liked me with more weight. Felt better to lay own according to her words. I’m a stocky 5’7
I'm 5'9& I had a couple of pretty &tall women fall hard for me for some odd reason I mean they were pretty too especially when I was stationed in San Diego
Not surprised. That's how it goes.
Is this the best place to do video request?
Hit me up here, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html.
MY POSITION IS DIFFERENT I ATTRACT MORE FAT GIRLS. THE SLIMMER OR LIL THICK CHICK TELL ME I'M TO PRETTY. I GET CONFUSE BECAUSE I DON'T VIEW MYSELF AS A PRETTY BOY.
Just find your tribe fam.
I think you attract more fat girls because you're skinny fat girls love skinny men & vice versa
I can relate to this as a slim dude we tend to attract the opposites.
opposites attract
My ideal body is slim. Look man, I'm 5'8 and the baddest female I ever ran into was when I was like this. I was on a bike and my stamina was unreal...you think she didn't know. I was eating primo food and living as an athlete...uncle Rom do you hear me!
And when I tighten up another kid pops out(hell with that)
Do what works for you.
Well this explains a lotttt
Dude that was me 7 years ago(21) back in highschool I was 255lbs abiscuit away from 260 just fat I did Insanity lost 40lbs and I was getting looks like damn and highschools would come up to me and say I always had a crush on you(from your previous vids "I always thought you were fine") haha
That's how it goes.
Damn..
Im 5'6" 210 shaved head look like between pitbull /fat joe.
Females go like this type or not?
Depends on the woman and how your body likes.
IDK why u keep saying 6-2. The ideal for females is 6-0 and up as along as u are in that 6ft category, thats what they like. Me and all the men in my family are 6'2. I didnt know it was a good thing until women kept asking my height online
This is why I I use 6'2", th-cam.com/video/H6ONHDmDD8s/w-d-xo.html
I don't like skinny guys or muscular guys. I guess I like them stocky lol ...I love tall guys but I never been with one. I think the tallest guy I've dated was 5'10. Your right lol I can't have a man who's cuter than me lol I got to be the cute one. The guy definitely need to be bigger than me too
Shalaurie Dunn Wait 5'10 not tall enough?
Shalaurie Dunn,
I've had many women tell me that privately.
Real Judah I'm 5'6
Mitchel Lewis 5'10 is great! I'm just saying I haven't been with anyone taller than that.
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Distinctly non-distinct haha love it
That click bait got my view
I don't do click bait.
Hellafied video
I'm 6'1' 250 and petite women LOVE me. And I love them back every chance I get.
They want to feel protected.
I am 5'8 210 pounds and definitely stocky built and live in Atl where a lot of dudes be skinny and out of shape and everywhere I go they stay choosing especially women from my past who remember when I was 135 pounds about 4 yrs ago
Women love stocky men. They want to feel protected.
Aww sh*t my type of video.
6 feet 215, gonna get back in the 190’s tho. I could use a trim but i always had that muscular build (mesomorph). Throughout school they called me “brolic”, “muscle head” and the girls loved my eye color for the most part lol
Sh*t, I remember back in middle school this pretty brown-skin model type chick used to go out with this “pretty boy” that was more popular than i, girls liked him, he was light skin and a mix of slim and chubby, he wasn’t built.
Anyway, me and his shawty messed around and the nigga was asking me bout it all insecure and some other kids we knew was talking bout “but why you?” (Towards me) lmfao! They had lasted a long time tho
Btw i recently found shawty on instagram, she aint follow back but her look still make me wanna make love to her 😂 lol
Women like those brawny men.
💯
U right Rom I'm 5ft 8 215 and ladies all races and sizes flock 2 me they also love beards and u gotta have a street look and swagg that helps gotta be 100 sistas can tell a fake nigga lol
1320-1426 nothing but the truth