6 Tips To Build Your SELF WORTH Drastically . when no one taught you HOW!!

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[@asiakhanasiakhan-do9gc]

After 12 years of married life i realized that u cant happy to any one ,bcoz they dont want to happy ..i destroy my beautu ,my confidence ,my personality even my all happiness ....bt before 6 mnths i jst started to spend my life according to my will,..i did all the things that i want to do...n i am very happy to make my self happy ...4 my all creative positive routine my kids ,n etc ...what ever she is saying 💯 true ..so identify ur self ..

[@dilstylemania5706]

same here sister

[@pollytheparrot8929]

In my own family, my mom especially.. Says job hogi tabhi respect hogi! I told no, insaan ka behaviour is important! Har waqt meri weight, job lessness ko lekar taunt, humiliate karti rehti hai

[@javeriamoeed1733]

Same here 16 years dusron ka soch soch kr usko bura nalaga mere apni personality kharab hui😢

[@muhammadabdullah5983]

Same here sister pray for me too k ma b aisa kr sakon q k ma itni tentions leti hon k headache hony lagi ha mujee ab

[@scorpido128gaming9]

27years I wasted for my husband and his family and they always criticised me.

[@hinazeb6752]

Totally agreed, Alhamdulilah i learnt this all in my first year of married life, just Allah pak ki support k sath, WO kafi hai❤️

[@user-cr9xq5vr5d]

Salaam, I was so lazy person, I was so messy person, depreed all the time, belive me after watching your vloges I changed my self, Allah Bless you, don't stop to making encouraging vedioes for people like me, you changed my life I swear, I have no mother no sister any relatives at all, no body told positive things thoes you told, thank you so much, ❤❤ 5:53

[@khansafarooqi9048]

Apny ksy khud ko change Kia plz tell me

[@user-cr9xq5vr5d]

Sister. Mujy khuch b acha nhe lgta tha koi kisi ne kbi smjaya, but after watching this vilog me ne bout khuch realize Kya, tim laga, ahsta ahsta khud ko smjaya, khud ko drag kr kr k rkhrhi kr, jb lazy hoti dobara volgs dekhti phir motivate hoti, mere pas Pta nhe kitni New sutis hang they, Nhe phenti thi dil h mar gya tha, bahir Nhe jati log h Nhe ashy lgty thy, after all I realized that I'm something, and Allah mujse naraz hoga k me ne khud ko ese lga, han time lga, kfi had tk chang hogai, pori raat fazol m jagti thi, but ab 10 ya 11 tk sojati hon and is m b kfi time laga, bs Allah koi Waseela bna leta hy,.

[@khansafarooqi9048]

Kia ap married thin m to shadi k bad change hona chahti m also ver messy and depressed

[@nidahashimkitchen2202]

​@@khansafarooqi9048me b shadi k bad change hui but belive me ye hm khud hi hayn jo khud badal sktay hyn... wapis wahii bn sktay hynn. Ap b koshsh kryn self grooming sa strt kryn khubsurty apko confidence dety hy trust me

[@nasreenkureishi2869]

Every word you say is 100% right

[@motivationandselfdiscipline]

Mam I am forced to comment kuki you are too good❤❤❤ I am from India, hindu but mam apka har video dekhti hun 10 din pele apka channel feed me aya you are my role modal from now ❤❤❤❤love you from india

[@user-qh4tw2yb5i]

Mjhe TU literally bht acha lagta h k AP achy kpre pehnti ho or hathon mein yeh sab pehnti ho actually all suits on u

[@craftandfun535]

You are inspiring every women
Waiting for your vlogs daily topics are good
👍

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 🙂

[@lizz34]

Love from india 🇮🇳 ❤️
Can you share tips for teenage or unmarried girls... which you teach your daughter...
I am 20 year old ❤️

[@herfablife]

Sure 😊

[@dr.tayyabaasghar7]

Can you please share some tips ,how to deal with our teenage girls as a mother❤

[@herfablife]

Watch today's vlog I've shared

[@memesboys175]

​@@herfablifeبالکل میری بھی ایک فرینڈ ایسے ھی مجھے پیار پیار میں بے عزت کرتی رھتی تھی. سو اب میں نے اس سے تعلق کم کر دیا ہے

[@mahwisheffendi9882]

Mujhy ap ki videos dakh k bohat acha lagta hay Meri Ammi ki death ho Gai hay but ap ko sun k bohat relax lagta hay

[@aanoomanoo7645]

True true everything u say is worth listening n must apply for a peaceful mind n life

[@MuhammadOmarKhalid-ce4xn]

Gd speech aisy hi mRNA chaiy log apni khami chupany k let agly bndy ko only d great kr dety hn aj hn

[@mehreennasir9387]

Never commented on anythinf but ur vlogs are a daily dose of inspiration. May Allah bless you❤

[@herfablife]

Glad to hear that

[@user-qh4tw2yb5i]

U r correct jab tak insan apni worth ko Khud nh pehchanega especially women's in houses tab tak koi dusra apko worth nh dega

[@kulsumb129]

Aap k liye or apki family k liye bht saari duaye mam ...AP ek ammi ki tarah hame bht saari acchi batey batati ho..jazak Allah khairn

[@muzammil4418]

Absolutely right aap kbhi kisi ko khush nh rakh sakte. Khan kr k joint family me. Aap k kehne k mutabik bger kisi ki parwa kie ap ny ap ko respect dn and be happy with ur kids and ur husband

[@shazia5462]

Currently i am in a phase of struggling married life.your words give me lot of support..currently living in nuclear family but when in laws come to spend time with us that days become so tough for me to handel them kindly give some tips how to manage relations specially in laws husband kids being a working lady how to manage guests who come to live for months specially in laws..

[@ishrathzahedkhan2089]

Aap jo bol rahi hai vo self confidence or self happiness k lia perfect hai....bt kabi aisa krne par log game battameez boldete hai...aur aisa kehte hai ki kisi ki sunti he nahi apni hi krti hai....

[@cook.stitch]

Absolutely right,mujy yt video bnana acha lgta hy but Mera channel grow nahi hua ,buht sy log khty time wast ,koi Kam kro acha youtub Wala asy tunt krain gy but I believe on my self 😊,I think Jo jealous ho ga wo hi baat kry ga AP ko,so focus on your self & your goals 😊

[@mominriaz9832]

Mam you are a pure soul of spirituality...I can't see a person so pure lik you.... JazakAllah JazakAllah

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot

[@bjs6394]

Aapki ek hi baat muje bahot achchhi lagti he wo ye ki hum kabhi kisi ko khus kar hi nahi sakte... sabki tarah mere sath b yahi huaa he.. me aaj tak kisi ko khus nahi rakh payi.. mene b apna dab kuch kho diya.. yahan tak ki apni job bhi or bachcho pr b dhyan nahi diya.. but ab or nahi.. me apne husband, apne bachche or khud k liye ab jiti hu...

[@pinkperiwinkle_7649]

Alhamdulillah. JazakAllah. Such an informative vlog. Wish had this advice known at my marriage time. But as they say. Der àye durust aaye. JazakAllah. Will share with my daughter. Allah bless you dear. Just love your channel ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@herfablife]

Thank you, I will

[@aamirshah1655]

Same here

[@mazhariqbal9208]

Salaam baaji u are too good mashallah your vlog was super good. I so agree with you saying tik tok is a waste of time. I don't watch it. I love reading and especially islamic books. May Allah bless you with a long happy and healthy life. 😊

[@mallikam1667]

Nice vlog,when you say 'beleive me', it is really very soothing to hear, good appreciated views,thank you.

[@herfablife]

My pleasure 😊

[@ishitapandey25]

Recently I have started watching ur vlogs, couldn't stop myself from commenting u r truly inspirational 👍 keep inspiring

[@sawera1368]

Yes apperence matter and yes we normally change our like and dislike when someone criticize that u don't know anything don't have scene now after fourteen years I relized grooming matters not only for others for our own self too thanks

[@shaziakayani8281]

سسٹر آپ چھا گئی ہیں ❤👍👏

[@herfablife]

Jazakallah

[@cookingtips2908]

وعلــــیکم اســـلام ورحمـتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ ماشاءاللہ ہمیشہ خوش رہیں ڈئیر سس اللہ پاک ہم سب کے لیے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین

[@dr.tayyabaasghar7]

Thankyou soo much for such a good tips , it helps me alot

[@herfablife]

My pleasure 😊

[@user-hx9lh7lc1n]

Hi irum! I recommend your channel to my family members and they love watching your vlogs. Plz make a video on how to forget your past if something bad happend to you and u cant forget that shit😢😢

[@masoomaghori7946]

Aunty apki aur mri thinking boht milti hai mne to download krli ha apki ye video😊

[@abdulraheem3012]

Yes ap ne jo bola sab acha hai hum jase thai wase rehna chaiye😊

[@ziauddin1124]

Highly appreciated maam 👍😀👍I m fully motivated frm ur points thnkx alot 😊

[@herfablife]

My pleasure 😊

[@eshaalfatima7296]

Bht axhy vlog hoty hy ap k api ap ko daikh kar m khud m bht changing lai hn amazing 😊

[@princessak1536]

True api mein ne sab ke lye sab kuch keya hain but at the end mein sab se bore ho meun apni marzi se koi km nae kr sakte

[@fatimakadernani515]

Thanx for sharing nice tips!

[@user-sr9cf6dp6t]

Must say...golden words hay aap k ..sada salamat rahy aapp❤

[@mindandgrowth]

As a Psychologist I must say all are good tips..

[@hiramohsin1251]

Kya bat kar di 👌jitna kam hota h utna karo

[@Atibavlogs]

Aapki sari tips sahi hoti hai ❤💯👍I am very interested in your video and ek maa ki tarah uid krte ho aap . love from 🇮🇳 thank you so much.

[@herfablife]

Thanks 😊

[@AbdulRaffay-bh3jj]

Aoa thankx for such a nice suggestions for happy life,really thankx,it's raila nasir from abbottabad,

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much 😊

[@nadiazafar9090]

Erum plz is topic pe bhi video zaroor bnaey k jb husband he apni wife ko dosron ke maid bna de tou kya kren.

[@dilstylemania5706]

Erum, thanks for addressing this concern. 😊

[@muhammadshafaymuhammadshaf5898]

Aj many apki motivation sy cake bake kia baked loaded fries bnaye😮😮😮❤

[@fairytail413]

Exactly💖💖💖💖💖💖u r not a onlyyyy vloger u r a motivator👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@MuhammadMustafa-ez8iw]

Waelikmusalm again MashaAllah MashaAllah excellent topic jazakAllah

[@aanoomanoo7645]

Pls share from where u buy bed sheets i loooooovvvvve it n some other stuff as u have zaberdast choice , May Allah bless u

[@kamranslifestyle1286]

Assalam O Alaikum dear sister may Allah bless you and your family .
Juma mubarak dear sister dua main yaad rkhye ga

[@herfablife]

Thank you so much

[@ayeshaanjum8313]

Ma NY APK vlog abi dakhna start kia or yh to video download kr LI hai thnx

[@misbahhina1270]

Very informative and reality based vlogs and videos 😊😊

[@arhamnasir-xt4cj]

Api ap ny mery dil ki bat kahi mery sath b asa he hota hai sai kha ap ny ❤❤❤❤❤

[@lubnarehman3242]

Aoa
Your this video is so much helpful to me..
In shaa ALLAH I will doing same accordingly your great advice.
A

[@herfablife]

Thanks for liking

[@fareeda1497]

Zaberdast vlog, n zaberdast thoughts u have. ❤

[@geetakhurana6864]

Aap ki sari baten muje bahut bahut achi lagti hai
Aap se bahut kuch seekhne ko milta hai
Kabhi lagta hai ye meri hi story hai
Mei akela bacha hu shadi Hui joint family mei muje khana banana ata tha par kahan 2 logon ka aur kahan 10 ka muje quantity mei nahi ata tha
Muje bahut tane sun ne ko milte the
Mei b bahut bably thi hamesha haste rahna
Jis din meri dolli gayi meri sas ne bola Bahu ko itna hasne bolne ka koi haq nahi
Mei hasna kya bolna bhool gayi
Sara din Kam mei lga rahti thi
Aaj hum dono hai ghar mei bache other city mei settle hai
Par husband ko wo hi adat hai ma jaise bolne ki
Ab mei mast ho gayi hu
Mera frd circle hai
Kitty hai maine apne aap ko busy rakha hai
Par ghar kabhi neglect nahi kiya
Aap ki bahut badi motivation hai
Aaj veg rspy bahut achi lagi
Apna rspy channel ka link b de do plzz..
Dher saraaaaa pyarrrrr
Aap meri chotti bahen ho
Aap ko Bhagwan ne mere liye hi bheja hai
❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-cv5xw7fy1m]

Superb Allah Bless u And ur Family❤

[@bawarchidunya]

Kuch log khud ko badalna hi nahi chahty waqt kay sath insan ko kuch tu change hona chahiy

[@hafizamaryamfazal8836]

Aslam o Alaikum ma sha Allah mam kiya he bat ha g chaa gaye o tusi g mai apki har videos bht he aram sakoon se dekhti hu or apk baqi channels b subscribe kiye ha ma sha Allah bht he achy se ap explain krti hain or apki video dkeh k na bht kuch sekhnay ko milta ha khush rhein Allah pak do jahan ki har khushi se nawazein apko or apni zaat k siwa Allah kabi b ksi ka mohtaj na Karin love u mam keep smiling always g 😍😊

[@Spiceitup3M]

Aapk videos motivational hain. Ache hain.. Aap ye bataiye k apni izzat kaisi banaye rkhe.. Auraton ko ye hota hai k har jagah apni, apne shauhar ki izzat banaye rkhein, chahe wo maike mein ho ya othr people. Kya krne se izzat maintained rahegi? Pls make video ok that.. Also share some books to read

[@fairytail413]

Bilkulll esaa he hyyy meri saaas ny or jithaniii ny jeeena azab kiya hua ......sirf haaasid hyn wologgg😑😑😑😑😑😑😑😢😢😢😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏Allah sb behno ko algg ghrr de

[@maryambatool5668]

Exactly 💯.very motivated video. ❤

[@Mano_5678]

❣️💯💯

[@user-zh8gg6qc3o]

Assalam o alikum thank you so much,,, it's amazing

[@sadiaw0rld462]

Ap na bat karne ka lia bht acha topic select kia

[@nazworld1.0]

Thank sister amazing tips❤❤🇧🇭🇧🇭🇧🇭❤️❤️mind fresh ho gaya❤

[@herfablife]

My pleasure 😊

[@user-ko9rg2fx9h]

❤🎉 a o amasha allah very nice and u r Very good bouht acha laga please mere liye bi dua kare q k me bilkul nakam hu mujhe samej hi ni aati k me kia karoo me khuch kr hi ni paati please u healp me

[@MuhammadIbrahim-md6bt]

Boht zarurat thi 8s vlog ke .thanks ❤😊

[@nosheenrashid-hy5xe]

Agreed 💯 right

[@SS_Pets67]

Hi today is my birthday .

[@Sanakhan-697]

Happy Birthday 🎉

[@herfablife]

Happy birthday!

[@Tajfacts313]

Happy birthday
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@dilstylemania5706]

Happy birthday 🎉

[@MuhammadMustafa-ez8iw]

Happg birthday🎉

[@sairanasir1560]

Yes api u r write myry shadi k bd logo ny itny phisacally galtia nikaliy thy k nak aysy hy wax ki hui hy bazo aysy hy rng wesa hy iss ka rizalt ye nikla myray husbnd b mujy sy same d great krny lggy ahker mujy husband ko jawab dyna pra k my allhapak ki bny huy hu alhamdollilha mujy dhikyay sf dyta hy suny acha dyta hy sungny ki his theak hy my b agar ap my galtiya nikalo to hazar kamiya hy lykin hr bndy ko allhapak ny byqar nyy bnya tb husbnd chop huy

[@Lubnaqamervlog1]

Nice dear😊

[@RakhiLama-pm7en]

Hello di ❤ LOVELY vlog beautiful sweet voice nd super saying ❤

[@herfablife]

Thanks a ton

[@mamtaraninagra4809]

Nice vlog ❤❤

[@Tajfacts313]

Mashallah Mashallah Mashallah sister I like your all very it's very very good ❤❤❤❤ keep it up ❤❤❤

[@Learn-eco]

Mam you're absolutely right,same happened with me within 4 months of marriage,I give up because I change my personality for inlaws but still they blame me and not happy from my side.

[@ahmadraza1137]

Nice madam good velog

[@user-nk6nu5xh4u]

Muja intzaar hota hai ap ka video ka

[@herfablife]

Thanks 😊

[@roysaleh8553]

Sana safinaz ka winter maha aa Gea ha shoping kab Kran ge

[@sangeetaramteke7102]

मेरी शादी को 18साल हो गए हैं 15 साल सास ससुर के हिसाब से रही तो बहुत अच्छी है बोलते थे और जब किचन का एक सामान अपने हिसाब से करी तो सास ने गलत गलत बाते बोलना शुरू कर दी बहुत सुनने के बाद मैन अपना जीवन आपने हिसाब से जीना शुरू कर दी और पति भी मेरे साथ हैअच्छे दोस्त की तरह मेरीखुशियो का ध्यान रखते हैं और मैं उन लोगों का ही धन्यवाद करती हम दोनों का साथ प्यार पहले से ज्यादा मजबूत हुआ है अपने ही बेटे बहू को प्यार से खुशी खुशी रहते नहीं देख सकते हैं वो उनकी बदनसीबी हैं आपकी विडियो मुझे बहुत कुछ सिखाती हैं मैं पहले से ज्यादा खुश रहने लगी हू धन्यवाद 🎉❤❤

[@junaidanwer3516]

Very motivational vlog heart touching words tnx for sharing this

[@herfablife]

Thanks and welcome

[@dimplekundlas9547]

Mam ager husband disrespect karre to kya kree iss per ekk video bnana mam plz

[@user-kq7cr4sy2er]

Mary sath bilkul ase hi hota he

[@VioletSidhu]

Totally agree with, nice.

[@RobinaRiyaz-jv3gn]

I like your videos very much. These are very helpful. I like your each and every video. Your video motivates me.

[@herfablife]

Glad to hear that

[@ShiekhAdnan-xp2ed]

Thanks

[@priyadash]

Meri aapse ek question hai, aapne jo no1 wala point bataya wo dusre k liye thik hai, lekin apni husband hi ese ho toh kya kare....?

[@ayeshasadiqa9580]

Mam g please apna vlog daily upload kia kry otherwise din bohat bore guzarata

[@user-hx9lh7lc1n]

Love from Peshawar❤

[@mamakidolls9711]

V good ak aak bat ap ki good hy bukal asa he ho Raha hy. Meri life nai ati Kiya Kiya Karo

[@saniaayesha5745]

Yes I will do what my heart says❤

[@husnavlogger5404]

Maza a gya vlog dekh k

[@shahzainabbas-rk3qh]

I am ur big fan plz share some tips for moms of toddlers please

[@user-mh6sx3uw4x]

Very well said ...plz share some baking in oven ..starting from easiest

[@herfablife]

Sure 😊

[@user-mh6sx3uw4x]

My 7 year boy likes cup cakes, muffins so much . Jo ki bhot costly padta h 30-40 rs ka ek pack bus ek bar k liye hota h ..maine kai baar try Kiya h oven m bnane ka but mere bete ko pasand nhi aata...m Electrolux ka oven use krti hu uske bare m b btaye...💞

[@Sanamishari]

I'm first

[@rubinatariq9692]

Exactly. About rings

[@Learn-eco]

Self worth and self realization is so important for both male and female, specific on time of marriage when parents says that susral is important, you should have to adjust there, change according to them,I think that's wrong way to educate your girl,now need to change the definition of adjustment.

[@herfablife]

Agreed

[@SonuSingh-zc5ue]

Hello ma'am learning lots from ur videos love from India ....ma'am r u wearing blue sapphire ring in ur hand or it's just a blue stone ❤

[@user-mi3es6lx1u]

Kaafi video me aap k mic ka masla aa rha hai, please sort it. Thank u

[@Mueenu]

Yes people always degrade us

[@abaankhan1380]

Mashallah bilkul sahi kaha apne

[@simplyhappy452]

Wow.... What an inspirational video

[@herfablife]

Thanks a lot