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Stop doing these mistakes after marriage || how I changed myself after 15 years || MENTALLY STRONG
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such a great video...I sacrificed so much after my marriage even to the point of leaving my job to move with my husband to a different state where he was offered a good paying job. Sadly he never cared for all I did for him...then I decided to enter medical school, took entrance exam being 7 months pregnant, finished 4 years of medical school in the US at the age of 40. I totally agree how important it is to be independent. U become stronger and a role model for your kids. my daughter looks up to me and dreams to be a doctor like me.
That's great dear . so proud o f u
Great job
I agreed but I am in a situation I can't leave my kids behind so I don't know what to do and how .. secondly kindly elaborate how to give respect to yourself??? Pls
Well done soo proud kindly let us know what qualifications you had in Pakistan as I wanna start my education or career in uk
Wow!
Omg this the reality of every newly married girl
Aap kitna na cover karte ho har cheez openly batate ho
Jazakhallahu khaira ❤
Thank you for sharing your story with us. It gave me courage. It's not only your in-laws who can make your life miserable. Sometimes your own mother and siblings can exploit you and make you miserable.
Very true I can co relate myself to this it's true when ur own mom or dad or siblings wants to make ur life miserable it's worst
I can relate too 😢
So true.. I'm facing same.. I have narcissistic family
So true yr 😢 inlaws to in-laws apny parents b masha Allah h
Bohat struggle karni perti hai susral mai😢mene b ki apni jithani ki waja se😢har waqt mujhse apna mukabla karti thi😢or saas 😢jab husband mere pas ate to unko bola liya karti thi ya mujhe😢Hume sath rehne nai deti thi.kam Kara Kara k itna thaka Diya jata tha k kamre Mai jate hi sojati thi😢😢😢.ab sabse Jan chot gae Alhamdolilah.har bandi bohat struggle karti hai shadi k bad
Me India se hu baji or apko dekh kar mere life bhot change hue thanks dil❤ se allah apko khush rahye
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Bahut impressive baat ki hai and motivate Kiya hai aapne .it's really true for our life❤.meri life me bhi behad struggle aaye hai.or aaj main bhi desperation ki tablet leti hun last 6 years se.but aapne mujhe himmat di hai. Thank you so much ❤
Mam maine b apni married life main bohat problems dekhi hain ... bohat choti age main hi....lekin ab maine b apni boundaries set kari hai.....aur bohat acha laga apne apne bare main bataya hamein.....
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I'm from vadodara Gujarat..
I'm now 42 years old n i can relatable to your talks..
What ever we suffer we must see to it that our daughter in laws don't suffer.We must teach appreciate n encourage our daughter in laws.Its Allahs test and good n bad days r tests of Allah.
U r such a sweetheart
Talking to us like a sister❤
Such a sweet voice n heart..
JazakAllah plz continue it....
Watching from USA l am mother of 3 at age 24 I am so glad that I discover your channel plz make more videos on mental health love your vlogs
Thank you so much 😊
May Allah bless all daughters. ameen.its hard to recover from damage that negative people do
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@@herfablifecomplete home tour krae
Kuch b nahi bas alot of hugs to you😢 ap meri strength hain Allah pak apko salamat rakhay❤
Aameen n jazakallah
Assalam o Alaikum sister maine ajj hi apka channel dekha hy or yaqeen karen mujhy bht motivation mili hy please humary liye asi mazeed videos banati rahain apne experience sy 💖 JAZAKALLAH sister 😊
Even mine story is same as yours, I also started fighting against my rights after 15-16 years, really that was hard time after marriage can't even open your mouth, very true nobody will tell us all these points, not even ur mom ❤
Assalamualaikum mai india se hu mujhe apki video bahot achi lagti hai ap hame motivate karti hain Allah apko achi sehat ke sath lambi Umar de ameen 💐
Aameen
Love your vlogs n content❤Much appreciated n needed watçhing from Chandigarh India and am going through a lot 51 years single parents r no more n doing things singlehandedly thanku for all the motivation❤
Thanks a ton
You are really a good speaker I feel that I listen my own story from you.. that was a worse time of my life still I don't forget that time while I thought I feel anger n aggressiveness ufff thanks to Allah now that time is best but not better انشاءاللہ it will be changed soon
In sha Allah
Assalamualaikum.First time apko comment karrahi hu.apke videos mujhe bohut acche lagte hain.Main daily ratme sone k time apke motivational speech sunti rehti hu.Main mere married life me mere in-laws ki wajahse bohut struggle karrahi hu.Mere 19month k chota sa baby hain.They literally hate me & my baby boy. My husband does not tell them anything about their wrong doing.But main mere husband ko nehi chodhsakti hu.Please mere liye duwa kare k Allah mujhe himmat de,main mere baby ko lekar zindegi mein aage badh pauu..Mere baby ko Allah k nek dill insan banane k liye highest try kaarpau.
Apke videos mujhe bohut inspire karte hain
Thank you so much.
May Allah bless you & your family.
Lots of love from Bangladesh 💚❤
U r amazing......im in china for last 6 mnths.....ur vedios fullfill my craving of missing pakistan .....u r my positive energy......nw i also take care of my hands n feet.....i started watching ur vedios frm oldest to new....ur cooking grooming and this channel as well.....u r sweet heart 💞
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So true Same situations in my life love you sister many many love blessings respects to you and your family love from india ❤❤❤❤ 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Aapki video dekkhne ke bad meri zindagi Badal gyi mene apni life me bht sari chize khatam kar di hai mujhe bht kuch sikhne ko Mila hai thank you Me apse milna chahti hu
Assalmulakum dear! I’m from Lahore, you’re subscriber nd fan of your vlogs 💖 Every women have a tough time!! Brave lady love you ❤️ waiting for your Shopping haul 😉
Thank you so much 😊
You are describing true realities . i m mother of two under 3years of age and i am still suffering and struggling . but now i have started online job also started to work on youtube my channel.
Asalamu alaikum dear ,mai bilkul aap ki baat se sehmat houn kunki mai b aise halaaat se recently nikal k aaye houn ...aap nai sahi kaha hum kisi ko khush nahi ker sakte balai he hamare Jaan nikal Jaye behtar ayhi rehta hai khud per ore apni family per dyaan de ore doosroo ko khush kerne k bajai ignore kere ye best formula hai khush rehne ka😊
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Aj wala vlog bohat zaberdast tha, apne jo batain shear ki bilkul sahi kaha..esa hi hota ha jab nayi nayi shadi hoti ha kuch time k bad himmat ati ha ye sab kuch face karne main..
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Thnax dear for sharing.aisay lagta meri e story ap ne sounai ha start mery liye b bht mushkil tha .bht motivation milti ap ki batun se . Allah apko khush rakhy ameen 💕
Asalamo Alykum wa Rehmatullah... What ever you are saying ,all true...
None knows the background of a successful and happy life..
Salute to you...
Tysm
Its goosebumps for all girls❤❤
I m from india..
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Superb vlog, superb points, superb explanation... mashallah... impressive and ifective... 👍
Pehli baar kisi ko youtube par on laws m bare mein itna ho estly bolte suna....courage chahiye...❤
Thx dear
From faisalabad and I feel that I listen my story from you and thanks for motivation❤
It's my pleasure
What a lovely.and positive lady ur ❤️
Its bearable if inlaws do this but if your own husband is toxic theres no way out
Yes vry ttrue. My husband s not supportive to me.. He always supports his parents nd sister though dey do wrong to me. He s complaining simple simple mistakes of household to his mother. It's really vry hurting nd so mny problems r der in my life by him and fmly😢
@@kamilaniaz7380 When he's not respecting u and ur feelings, what's the point in staying with him!!?? Please leave him ASAP.. U deserve the best.. God bless❤
Wat to do... It's all my fate. 😭
G sister ap bilkul sahi farma rahi hn...hm ne b shiro mn bhot tufftime guzara alhamdulillah Allah ne bhot asanian ata ken...mushkil waqt guzr hi jata hy....i,m from abbottAbad...idr b mosam bhot acha ho gya hy Allah k karam se❤umme mohib❤
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Ap k vloge to jesy serf mujhy motivte krny kly hi boht kuch sekhny ko milta hi boht sy change Lai hon ap ki bato sy ❤Thank you give us good life love you dear sister iam from kohat
Thx dear
thank u so much sis ur videos are good teaching for me n grt therapy m from grw i always wait for ur new videos
aoa.im in lhr.mujy ap ki vedios boht motivat karti hn.apki hr vedio sy muny kuch na kuch sekhny ko milta ha.thanku sooooo much
Apke vlog dkh kr bhut kuch lyf m sikhne ko milta h🎉 ki himmat nai harni chahiye...
Aameen
im newly married mjhe bht acha laga apk vd dekh k. mre sath bhe same masla he mai khi se peshwar shade ho k aye hn or yahan or wahan k chezon mai bht farq he . or jab mai kse chz ka pochte hn to aise he react karte hen ajib sa.
Assalamu alaikum i had completed 19 years married life.. me too was too young when I got married and I don't know anything about cooking style in their family and lifestyle too.. they all were new to me so my mom in law often used to command me everything to do each and everything she used to command me.....but after 19 years subhanallah!!!!!! Still she uses to do the same.... all were changed my children grown up my homemaking skill went to extreme my cooking style has changed a lot .... but my mom in law remains the same she treats me as a new daughter in law who came to her house without any homemaking knowledge still i don't know how to overcome this problem... i feel ashame on myself ......
plz don't feel bad about yourself problem is not in u .
@@herfablife thanku so much for ur reply... sabr and namaz will help me
@@Katheejabeenadheeraact as if u r not hearing what she says at all. And mind ur own business. Don't fall in her trap. My sis in law is the same. I learned everything and I cook well. Still she talks as if I'm newly married and I don't know anything.
@@rachurachu2994 yeah u r right thanku so much
Asslam o Alikum sister I was not your regular viewer...... But now days I am watching your videos regularly I am improving my self too love you sis❤ I am watching you from Karachi
Dear i am from India 🇮🇳, 48 years mai aap ka oh shadi k baad sukoon vdo dekh apne ko 25% badalne me kamyab huee hun Alhumdulilla and ye vdo kya aap ka sab motivation vala vdo best hai ,aap ke baat ka attitude hi itna sahi hai k ,zabardast Mashallah Allah aap,aap ki famly ko hamesha khus rakhe apne hifzoaaman me rakhe,mujhe 25 year Mashallah hogaye aur mai 3sal huye apne haq k liye ....kayabi kuch to hua hai aur in sha Allah age bhi Allah hai jazakallah Khair 😊
Thank you so much!
Bht shi bat boli mam.aur jb insan pr gujarti h wo waqt k sath strong ho jata h
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Sister, yesterday my mom in law told me dt i can't handle d kitchen...i got so frustrated and i replied her back..dt yes may b i cant handle but i yes i can cook good Alhamdulillah...der wa nothing wrong in dt i hope so. Actually dey r so jeleous of my everything...mujhe haste h fir mujhi s recipe puchte h...den she tested me and told me to cook biryani all alone...muje v gussa aaya hua tha...Allah ka naam lekr shuru kiya banana aur Alhamdulillah bht acha bana..sasur and husband ko bht zyada pasand aya...sis in law and mom in law as usual jeleous 😂😂😂😂....so girls mai yahi bolungi k kahi kahi pe aapko jawab dena parta h nhi to log apni hadd hi bhul jate h aur muh utha k kch v bol dete h
Zabardast aunty me apke vlogs boht shoq se dkhti hu aur apki baton pe amal bhi krti hu boht kch seekhti hu ap se allah give u more happiness in ur life and akhirah as well.
Aameen
Assalam O alaikum
Hum Hyderabad India🇮🇳 se hai aap ki baatein sunkr relax feel hota hai . Daily kaam krte aap ka blog dekhti
hu
Thank you so much 😊
M following you from D.G.Khan pakistan nd ur videos helping me alot
Ham Lalamusa sy ap ko dekhti h.mashaallah bhna ap ke mehnat or lgn nzr a rhi h bhna Jo himat or SBR sy Allah ko pukarta h wo kabi harta nhe Allah usy ghirny nhe deta or ap bht bht mehnati ho Allah ap ko slamt rkhy Ameen.
Aameen
Mein ny ap ka velog dykha us k bad ap k he dykhi ja rai hon mujy ap ki batyn bohat achi lagi
Good talking and information I liked ur videos
Mash Allah you are a strong lady.❤ from the uk.
Jazak Allah for you vlogs i really appreciate them sister.
Thank you so much 😊
Mam meri v story app se hi milti hai mera v marrige ka first year sabse dark year raha hai pure 1 saal aisa koi din nhi guzra jb mai roi na ho aur mai us time pregnent v thi mera v first year ka bahut hi bad experience hai jisko yaad krke aaj v meri rooh kaap jaati hai avi meri saadi ko 11 years ho chuke hai but avi v life me bahut saare sttrugals aur tention hai but aapke vlog se mujhe bahut motivation milti hai mai v apne aap ko strong banane ki koshish kr rahi hoon mujhe aapke life experiences wale videos bahut acche lagte hai kyuki meri v life v aisi hi hai. Love❤ from INDIA.
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I m Ur silent subscriber and like Ur all videos.ur videos always guide me and give me energy.u r a good motivater ❤before Ur vlogs I was always in anger with my kids and don't show love with them Ur videos changed my personality and I learned many things through Ur motivation .my married life is now 15 years and I will try my best through Ur guidness
Thank you so much 🙂
Amazingggg vlog .erum can u plzz make a detailed video on menopause. I am almost 41 and i get lots of mood swings, i get panic attacks, wheni see ur videos i get lot of courage. Its a request to make a video about menopause. I have seen lots of videos on youtube but none of them are useful i want u to make a video bcz i think u will explain each n everything in detail plzzz its a req .
U also watch kari wright videos they r al on menupause
41 is very young for menopause
Same story of mine really hard to stand for myself no boday understand what is my place but now i left taking care of others now ....
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Beutiful messages for women.l am from INDIA, TAMILNADU, MADURAI.Thank you for sharing your personal views,mostly women face problems,they might be of many types,as you know the social set up is that woman have to struggle for there rights and freedom,thankyou
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Assalamualaikum mujhe bhi 14 years lage yeh sab krne me pr ab alhamdulillah sab thik he
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Amazing vlog.....truthful....luv the way you sharing your experiences ❤️
Thank you so much
But i wil teach my twins daughters what i made mistakes in life that cooking is imp.
Mashallah i really like ur v.logs recently subscribed u i am 4rm lahore
Thank you so much 😊
Ap bilkul Sahi keh rahi Hain har Kisi ki zindagy Mai mushkil ati hai.
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Gg shukarrr Allah ka...hr hall m krna chahiye.
I am from pindi infact living your aas paas hi as my daughter studies in sapient hall which is the best school in this area love your vlogs learned a lot from you regarding life style fashion and now about mental health ❤
I am 34 n i really crurious to watch ur vlogs
Allah pak nazry bad sy bchay ap ko or hum subko
Assalam O Alaikum dear sister may Allah bless you and your family . From karachi
Thank you so much
Ur experience is same as all experience
amazing tips after a lot of time I have found your channel from where we can get a lot of advises to improve our personality.kwep up your good work .
I am from Lahore and very authentic tips
I am mother of three kids watching you from Islamabad ❤
Thanks 😊
You are really brave and confident woman ❤❤
Thanks a lot
Apky vlogs mere most favourite hain❤
I follow your tips and tricks... love you❤ aj Ka vlog BHT important tha... dark phase of life...
Thanks a ton
Brilliant Ma'am...... You are amazing..... Stay blessed......
Yaqeen karn ap ki story bhaut achi thi par belkul bhi tough life Nahi thi agr ap Koch logo ki life dhykn gi Jo bahut tough hoti hi .
And plz share my story in your blog as I motivate me a lotttttt.
Mai khush nhi rehty thy but aapney mujhe bht kuch seekhaya life me
Allah aapko dono Jahan ki daulat really mere ankho me aansu hai sach me dil se dua hai aapko
Same wid me maam after 15yrs I react ki bas ho gya ab nhi...
And mujhe b kuch nhi aata hai kyuki mery shadi mere studies b beech me hi thy Mai graduation final me thy.
Now I m a good cook plus baking b sekhy TH-cam se
Padai ki I m mba ,blisc,mlib
Now alhamdulillah no body dares ki mujhe call karey sunaee
I went through depression also.
Believe me ye sab sach hai .i hope mere jaisa kisi ke sath na ho .
Lekin mera waqt b badla hai.15saal baad hi mai b strong hui.
Susraal ke torture.
Shauhar ke torture
Sab kuch saha ...
Lekin aaj I m very strong women
That's great
Rawalpindi sy watch daily
Alhaaa .. jo batyin app bta rhi hyin m ye fhase sy guzer rhi hun...
Mri shadi ka pehla saal b boht borra tha.... abhi b 4 saal hogy aysy hi situation hy😢
Jugranwala sa ap ka hr vlogs Bohatt zabdarast motivate hotya hy ❤❤❤thanks ap sa Bohatt Kuch sakhana ko milty hay appi g❤❤❤Ap Bohatt achi huain I love you ❤❤
Thanks so much
Awwww that arvi story, i just want to give you a hug, actually you were too young to handle that mess, i handled that quite well as i got married quite late, sub ko set krdia shadi k pehle e saal😝😝
Bilkul thek
I like your vlogs. They are very motivational. Love you from faisalabad
Beautiful Bedsheet nd Comforter kidar say buy ke Ap nay ??
Ap k vlogs dkhti hn ..bht kuch sekhne ko milta hai.. thank apii ...from kohat city..
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Hyderabad Telangana state India sister aapke videos se bahut motivation milti hai God bless you😊
Sister aap Kahan se ho
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Sister,i love you so much❤❤❤❤❤.ap bhot Acha Kam kr rhe han😊
Allah Pak sub betioo K achy Naseeb kry
I m a govt teacher n support 💯 to my in-laws but JB bhe bat krty hn yehe I m useless 😢
aameen
Aap ke har video bohat achi hoti hae
Thx
Erum where is this bedsheet set from? V pretty❤
Kohnoor
😢Thank u dear I think I really needed to hear this 😢😢😢very true hard to swallow 😢
You are so welcome
Lots of love from south africa ❤
.ughe apka vlog dekhkr bohot sukun milta h
Sab k situations different hote hn...but fir b problems sabko hote hn...
Erum ...I'm addicted to ur vlogs😂
Glad you like them!
Beri motivation milti h ap ki bato se m Lahore se
Ap 15 16 sal bad strong bani tw us sy phly strong Kesy bany ye btaeyn plzz..shadi k phly sal tw strong nhe ban skty zahir hy lekin usky bad strong Kesy bany wo btaeyn..
Mam we r watching all ur videos from manila phillipines very inspirig all
Itni zabardast life shairing par aik heart❤ to bunta hyy app ky ley
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Jin ko pkana ata unko bhi khty nahi ata pkana😊
Strongly agree with your points
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