You Are Doing Home(and School) Education Wrong

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  • @karenl.3565
    @karenl.3565 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My child is 10 and struggling with decimals. I never thought to use physical numbers and a decimal point that I could move until I saw you making clay letters. Thank you!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You're welcome! I also linked some fun and fast paced Math games in the description. Once he starts to get a hang of decimals, you can play Decimal War with him and it'll help reinforce all the learnings. Good luck!

  • @MJ-jw8nb
    @MJ-jw8nb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is so helpful! My entire childhood education consisted of people explaining a concept maybe 1-2x, then shoving school books into my face, and being told to finish so many pages. I hated every second.
    I distinctively remember math making NO sense in my child brain... I hated it, then I learned to fear it as adults around me became frustrated with my math difficulties. Only just now it clicked! It was too abstract for my brain to enjoy just writing down numbers on paper. I remember the DAY someone brought out pennies to minuis or plus. Then I enjoyed math. When the pennies were taken away, I hated it again. I begged for the pennies. But they always took away the pennies or objects within a few uses because it was "cheating" and I needed to "use my brain instead of my fingers or pennies". I remember hiding my hand under the table, so I could try to count my fingers without anyone seeing. I did this even up into highschool.
    Getting to devision, multiplication, ect At around 8, I remember a core memory, crying my eyes out how angry my teacher got with me. She had a math book, and hovered over my every number I wrote. I didn’t have the best attitude, and was clearly misrable. I was eventually screamed at for "not being focused enough, and if I were just more focused I'd understand". I ran from the table sobbing, feeling so stupid. From that day on, math genuinely would cause fight/flight in my body.
    I just didn't get it unless there was a physical representation. If I had that enough, then I was able to move to just using my brain, pen and paper after!
    Your explanation makes so much sense now. I'm going to do your model with my kids when it's time.

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@MJ-jw8nb wow, I’m so sorry for your experience. Everything I’ve learned about the human brain in the last few years suggests using these techniques for children.
      It’s so inconvenient for schools to change their ways. They’d rather run a business than care about innocent kids being tormented by less than capable teachers.
      I’m glad this message resonated with you.
      On my last video, people are questioning why I’m sharing these ideas and this is the reason why.
      Even if a future child benefits from this, my efforts will be well worth it.

    • @LeonEifler
      @LeonEifler หลายเดือนก่อน

      @AparnaJain
      Thanks for your effort. Your channel is gold. Found it yesterday. Can you recommend specific studies or books that you studied about brain development in children and metalearning concepts? Thanks! Keep it up, Greetings from Germany.

  • @FashionbyBrittany
    @FashionbyBrittany 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I ABSOLUTELY want to thank you!!
    I have been homeschooling for five years, and I have been so caught up in finding the right curriculums and making sure that we check off a lesson of language art math a day. Our school days have become very dry and and not with a lot of excitement. I really love your approach to teaching. I would really really love to see more examples of your day-to-day teachings! I am so new to this type of schooling, but I love how fun and memorable it seems ❤❤ any other resources that you use for your Homeschool also be really helpful. Other channels, books, or ideas of that sort! This is so what I have been needing 🥰🥰🥰❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻 thank you

  • @HazeyAfterglow
    @HazeyAfterglow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your homeschool videos have been so insightful. We are wanting to homeschool our kids in the future. Wondering if you could do a video on book/podcast recommendations. Would love to learn more about the psychology of learning & motivation etc 😊

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm gonna make a video about it soon!

  • @mohmeegaik6686
    @mohmeegaik6686 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The future will be between school-educated children & home-schooled children. You are a great person with high intelligence.

  • @katrinakim4145
    @katrinakim4145 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is such a refreshing perspective!!! Thank you for this video!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@katrinakim4145 thank you for the kind words ☺️

  • @amymoorer2128
    @amymoorer2128 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    English is "2 rules, 1000 exceptions." 💯 As a native English speaker/writer, I agree whole-heartedly.

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amymoorer2128 such a pain!

  • @Seeking_Zóé
    @Seeking_Zóé 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    These educational concepts your speaking about with such ease are likely foreign to a majority of people who watch these videos that were brought up in a public school setting. As a first time homeschool mom of 4 children (two school age) I have absolutely no idea how to unlearn my public education ways so that I don’t force them upon my children! As we argue to get thru worksheets of multiplication I am too thinking to myself “when do I ever use multiplication as an adult!” (And yes obviously we all use basic multiplication on a daily basis - but I’d argue we never use all the multiplication facts we were forced to learn - and especially not complex division!)
    I love these homeschool videos!!!!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you. It's true that many will find these ideas foreign and that's my motivation to make more content like this.
      I have read so many books about productivity for adults, and I notice a pattern- all the groundbreaking ideas are far from what school taught us.
      Nobel prize winners don't get to that level because they muscled their way through extreme focus, concentration, and discipline(maybe that was only a part of it). They are able to achieve high levels in their fields because of their love for play- playing with chemicals, physics, maths, language, journalism etc.
      That's all I'm trying to bring into my home education. I am confident this works because of all the good literature I have read on topics like brain development, anthropology, neuroscience, and even many biographies.

  • @ramyaallam
    @ramyaallam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Most awaited video for me!! Please keep making these. Sharing to my friends too!!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @acharyahardika
    @acharyahardika 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Absolutely right! My kiddo plays with building blocks since 1yr old. Now he is six. When he turned 4, i started some math with him. I thought let me introduce addition and all. But to my surprise, he didn't use blocks or fingers or any manipulatives, he just answered 4+5=9. I asked him how did know, and he said he has to do this math while making the block structure. Just like that he uses multiplication n division to build lego planes and all. I was so happy that it saved both of us lots of struggle to learn these basic concepts. 🤪 So .. let the kids play guys. They learn a lot with building blocks and open ended toys or anything available in the household. If needed i would introduce the concept and give him related material, if we have, to him and just leave it there. He does all the process to understand the concept. I think over involvement kills the motivation in my child.
    Thanks dear. I will definitely apply that time to let him live on his terms for a week. It sounds amazing. ❤❤

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@acharyahardika I agree, let them be! They learn so much without our meddling.

  • @hollyhodgson7253
    @hollyhodgson7253 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is such a useful video. I love your homeschooling content. Please make more!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! Will do!

  • @ann8786
    @ann8786 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is talking from experience! So many useful strategies to practice with kids. I love your content! Looking forward to hearing more. New subscriber here.

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ann8786 thank you for the kind words! More coming soon

  • @doodlebug5105
    @doodlebug5105 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AMI Montessori guide here, appreciate your videos so much!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@doodlebug5105 ah thank you so much! I’m curious, where are you based?

    • @doodlebug5105
      @doodlebug5105 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AparnaJain1 Colorado!

  • @faridabilla839
    @faridabilla839 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such an insightful video call practical suggestions! Thank you Aparna ❤new subscriber here

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @beenajain8005
    @beenajain8005 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Highly appreciated vedeo so many useful ways to practice with kids they will enjoy learning bless u 🙌❤️

  • @caitsters
    @caitsters 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you are a homeschool/mom genius

  • @HappySingh-gv1bw
    @HappySingh-gv1bw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really appreciate your insight and ideas for kids education.
    Can you please add more pictures and videos of how you do these things at your home.
    Thanks a ton again.

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@HappySingh-gv1bw coming up in the next video

  • @k16e
    @k16e 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good job!

  • @Ramya519
    @Ramya519 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    New sub here , thanks for these ideas

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for subbing!

  • @katedurkan9910
    @katedurkan9910 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing this content. It has been by far the most succinct and helpful content on this subject I have viewed. I would love to see more 😊

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the kind words. Please share your struggles or concerns and I'll be happy to cover those topics.

  • @Journeyofathousandsmiles
    @Journeyofathousandsmiles 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a natural Montessorian!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Journeyofathousandsmiles thank you! I’m so grateful to learn Maria Montessori’s ways. She was light years ahead of her time!

  • @UrviShah
    @UrviShah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How about making puppets of letter 'P and Q'? It may help them improve their imagination too.
    I really loved your presentation of this topic. I am homeschooling my kids since few years but your video made me rethink why I started in the first place.

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@UrviShah oh I love the puppet idea, thank you!
      Thank you and I’m so glad it helped!

  • @elenahajda9291
    @elenahajda9291 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so good ❤ Thank you!

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 🙏

  • @stab0uch
    @stab0uch 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd like board game suggestions for 7 and 10 year olds. I love playing strategy games with my kids

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My kids are obsessed with Catan Junior. I can't believe the quick calculations my four-year-old does to exchange resources- amzn.to/3zrD5s2
      Ticket to ride(kids version)- amzn.to/3MEeqUp
      Ticket to ride(adults version) - amzn.to/3TqJBWK
      Battleship(my 7 year old loves it, great for the siblings to play together) - amzn.to/3Xq0ySq
      UNO Card Game - amzn.to/3LT4GVN
      Monopoly Junior Board Game - amzn.to/3A7Or4u
      UNO Show ‘em No Mercy Card Game - amzn.to/3WTPuNt

  • @marcusaurelius8605
    @marcusaurelius8605 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 😊

  • @amymoorer2128
    @amymoorer2128 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your videos are really helping me! Thanks for your advice and guidance. :)

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amymoorer2128 glad it is helpful ☺️

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @AshJSmithAJS
    @AshJSmithAJS 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What curriculums do you use?

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AshJSmithAJS we don’t really use a curriculum, but last week I was just going through ixl.com to get ideas for topics to introduce

  • @SahitiSeemakurti
    @SahitiSeemakurti 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would love to all these things you are saying in your videos. But i get stressed out a lot. I want to learn so much about childhood brain development. And a million other topics. But i dont have time for anything. And i get frustrated and yell at my family when they dont listen to me. Is the solution to live alone? If i cant even handle communication with my own family, how can my kids learn to communicate?

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's challenging to say the least, and I hear you. If you live in a joint family, there are blessings associated with living that way too. Focus on the good stuff and slowly chip away to make progress in a new direction. It will take a while for others to see the benefits. They have never heard of these ways, so give it time. They will respect the work you are putting in.
      Just learn one topic at a time, there is no rush. Ask for help in areas where you struggle. Communicate your expectations to your family calmly and clearly.
      If you have specific questions, comment here and I will include answers in my future videos.
      You're stressed means that you care. Use it in a positive way. You're doing great!

  • @drdkt80
    @drdkt80 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How to contact u..i m having spl need child..can u help me in his teaching..

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@drdkt80 I’m not qualified to advise. But please feel free to try the suggested methods in my videos. I choose them so the child can learn based on their interest.

  • @PrincessHasnat
    @PrincessHasnat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your communication skill❤❤

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you 😊

  • @apsingh18
    @apsingh18 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He only likes to play

    • @AparnaJain1
      @AparnaJain1  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Play is great, so much learning can happen through play. All the best work done by nobel prize winners is done because their spirit of play was still alive. Protect his play.

    • @thevegansons1713
      @thevegansons1713 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Mine too. My son learned to count by 10's by playing The Game of Life. He's learning time by asking how much time until he sees his friends.