Why Indian Parents Are STILL Against LOVE Marriages ?

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  • @guffugaming3864
    @guffugaming3864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1256

    Target Audience 👴👵
    Actual audience👨👩

    • @Cyber_seakerx
      @Cyber_seakerx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      It's a good thing cause we too will get older and this thing will be less dominate

    • @allforyou6288
      @allforyou6288 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Parents ko bhej dijiye 😂

    • @Death__0
      @Death__0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No one is against anything, problem is most love marriage don't work properly. There is not much family support from behind, and after some time romance runs out. Parents has seen many such cases that's why they are bit alert and scepticle, if you sit with them develop understanding they will agree.
      Yes, if you are a girl then it will be bit difficult. Boy must have money, good family then it will work smoothly.

    • @PoojaKumari-ty6sh
      @PoojaKumari-ty6sh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Death__0 😂😂😂oh! boy !! I have news for u...
      Most of the women and women don't wanna get married because of the trauma the f*ked up relationship of their parents left on them.
      Most of the women live like prisoners in marriage just tolerating it for the sake of their children because their whole life from birth the only purpose pushed onto them was being a wife and not a self sufficient human who could earn on their own while men were raised to be ATM machine for their parents while on the other hand sister was being raised alongside to do the same to her husband and children.
      ARRANGE MARRIAGES R HORRIBLE SETTINGS....TRULY HORRENDOUS!!!

    • @kenokyu7227
      @kenokyu7227 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@Death__0 arrange marriage works because majority of female are not financially independent and parents force to have kids which acts as a anchor in the marriage so women can't leave the marriage.

  • @Farhan.imator
    @Farhan.imator 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1150

    Bro is giving serious competition to pre existing youtubers in this category

    • @Priyaykanth2
      @Priyaykanth2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Most Parents doesn't want to take the Risk of Marrying there Child in different Caste
      Because it is more Risky
      Food, Language accent, Clothing Style, etc
      In Same Caste there is high Chance most habits will be Same
      However habits are also changing by Family Profession Change
      & In Future with the Implementation of NEP it will change more Fast
      Then Regional Area will become Identity - Regional Culture will be Identity

    • @SoulSync17
      @SoulSync17 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Bhai neutral rhega yahi ummid hai ❤

    • @Farhan.imator
      @Farhan.imator 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SoulSync17 ummid to h

    • @ALJ1HAD
      @ALJ1HAD 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Farhan.imator The liberalistic ideas of this guy are not good bro
      It leads to premarital affairs which definitely leads to zina
      Stay away from such things
      Follow the ISLAMIC PATH

    • @akshatjuneja1021
      @akshatjuneja1021 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@Priyaykanth2 Inn reasons ke wajah se agar kisi ko dusri caste wale se shadi karni h aur pyar bhi h to wo na kare fir ?

  • @soumyadipsaha2499
    @soumyadipsaha2499 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +437

    In India we don't marry because we want to but because we have to....in my opinion not marrying is better than forcibly marrying someone

    • @keshavvats6422
      @keshavvats6422 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That's true bt then also they say y, and ask plenty of questions and even think of smthng tht is our child is gay/lesbian or wht not 😂😂,

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@keshavvats6422Consciousness is not An Acceptable trait In Your Community
      And by 'Your' I mean every Underdeveloped Country's Situation

    • @Death__0
      @Death__0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ??! Bro no one forcing you to marry!! But if you don't marry.. after 35,40 you'll regret it so it best to marry at good age even if its arranged marriages.
      I mean you can choose to accept or reject arrange marriages.

    • @xacademia9646
      @xacademia9646 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@Death__0yuck no

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​​@@Death__0 Khud ke Selection Aur bacche ke Development mein difference hota hai
      Aur Conservative Countries me shaadi nahi ki toh parents ghar se nikaal sakte hain son ko, kabhi kabhi apni daughter ko maarte bhi

  • @PawanSera
    @PawanSera 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +574

    Fun Fact:Sachin made this video because he can't directly say this to his parents 😂😂

  • @adityaagrawal1731
    @adityaagrawal1731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +722

    Bro marriage is like a gamble , parents wants to play it , but consequences humko hi dekhne hain

    • @sachinawasthiunscripted
      @sachinawasthiunscripted  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      Kya baat hai ✨

    • @ankitgrover-r6x
      @ankitgrover-r6x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      Yr mein.. to arrange marriage ko contract samajhta hoon...
      Aur iss contract mein sab stakeholder hai.. mainly agar family joint ho.. Isn't it..
      Plus, iss hi wajah se divorce rate bhi kam hai.. apne india mein... Compare to western countries..
      Kehte hai na.. ki indian mein rishta ., do pariwaron ke beech hota hai..
      Na ki do individual ke beech..
      Mein kitna shi bol rha hoon.?

    • @ankitgrover-r6x
      @ankitgrover-r6x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And yes , gamble to hota hi hai...
      Consequence sab stakeholders hi face krte hai.. face karne ka percentage kam jyada ho skta hai..

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@ankitgrover-r6xsaare marraige contract hai, but men have more to loose.

    • @sudipto9551
      @sudipto9551 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      ​@@ankitgrover-r6xThoda wait karo. Next 10 year ke baad arrange marriage mein bhi divorce rate same hoga.

  • @ayushirai7471
    @ayushirai7471 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +875

    If Love marriage is tricky then arrange marriage is 100× scary🙂

    • @Darkweb1212
      @Darkweb1212 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      kyu?

    • @ZoldicsDiaries
      @ZoldicsDiaries 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Who said?

    • @sudipto9551
      @sudipto9551 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

      Men are not going to understand how scary is to live with an unknown person

    • @ashutoshgupta2135
      @ashutoshgupta2135 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

      Apni gf se sadi karna always better than marrying someone else gf😂​@@ZoldicsDiaries

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      ​@@ashutoshgupta2135 exactly
      I'd rather die single than marrying a 'second hand used ' product

  • @holyspirit8520
    @holyspirit8520 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    truth : They themselves did not got the chance to do love marriage at their time so as their own love life was unfullfilled they get jealous of their children doing love marriage, its hard to digest but that is a point

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      İn many cases, i agree.

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aapko like isliye kam mile kyuki ye point galt hai

    • @priyalsinha8939
      @priyalsinha8939 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kisi ne mere dil ki baat kehdi idhar exactly parents ek time p jealous hote h ki unke bachhe apne choice k krlie

    • @protagonist6605
      @protagonist6605 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      But they are successful in their lives. I doubt that with this generation. Divorce rates are rising and Long term relationships are ruined.

  • @TrishaBiswas-1176
    @TrishaBiswas-1176 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +298

    No matter who the boy gets married to the parents will eventually hate the bride.

    • @Ritikaguptaa11
      @Ritikaguptaa11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂

    • @khushimishra6032
      @khushimishra6032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      True

    • @flamestones
      @flamestones 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@artist_anjalii_ Unfortunate but true

    • @N7_YES
      @N7_YES 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Property mein say hissa bhi to bhai and uski bride hi legi bahan and uskay groom ko kuch nhi milta thenga kay siwaay...

    • @wahidkazi1076
      @wahidkazi1076 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Fact

  • @riyasingh90
    @riyasingh90 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +299

    It may sound wrong to many people but in India most of the arrange marriages couple have a lot of problems like domestic violence, no mutual respect, verbal abuse on daily basic but people continue it because of there family respect in society and family pressure. female who continue sometimes because they are dependent on the man of family for money but her contribution to family is never seen or recongized.

    • @rajkumarvishwakarma478
      @rajkumarvishwakarma478 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not must,
      But yes many.

    • @rajkumarvishwakarma478
      @rajkumarvishwakarma478 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Not most

    • @khushimishra6032
      @khushimishra6032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Haa maine bhi apne aas paas dekha h ye bohot 💔

    • @Lifestyle12360
      @Lifestyle12360 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Haa mere khud ke ghar me maine dekha hai, compatibility in arrange marriage between couples is always very low, literally among relatives I know 3 arrange marriage couples and 1 love marriage,and to be true none of the arrange marriage couples have compatibility they barely have mutual respect and domestic violence is common in all 3(where in 2 the women is suffering and in 1 the man) whereas the love marriage couples are living much more happily they respect eachother and eachother's family a lot

    • @Animoworld-ex4mc
      @Animoworld-ex4mc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Lifestyle12360 well if things are so good in love marriage then why is there such a high divorce rate?

  • @Monika0207s
    @Monika0207s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    My experience - ladke k papa ko cast issue tha but usse jyada ego issue tha..(meri bat nahi man raha means muze koi value nahi)
    Ladke ki maa ko caste issue nahi tha but she got insecure (abhi se beta itna stand le raha hai shadi k bad to wife k pass hi jayega)
    That’s why ladke k parents ko aaisi ladki se shadi karana hota hai k ladke ka emotional bond na bane ladki se..
    Love less relationship me bandhana hota hai so that ladka bas parents ki sune
    Insecure parents..
    Jo secure parents hote hai unko bas beta happy rahe itna hi chahiye hota hai

    • @khushimishra6032
      @khushimishra6032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg😂

    • @farjiyoutuber4701
      @farjiyoutuber4701 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂😂​@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg

    • @Hui-kv8xm
      @Hui-kv8xm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yehi h wo insecure parents ​@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg

    • @shehascoffee
      @shehascoffee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      ​@MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg konsi tribe Bhai, 90s me reh Raha he kya ki abhi bhi casteism ko support karta he.
      And second point beta he ki koi property, you've given a life to your child that does not give you the right to play with him like a puppet, and agar vo khud k life decisions sahi galat jo bhi khud nahi lega, so what is the point of having your own brain and consciousness. Giving respect does not implies ki andhe aur behre ban k jo vo bole karne lago.

    • @shehascoffee
      @shehascoffee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @MayankTrivedi2-bg3dg we were not living in that time, and idk uss time k kya reasons they ki varnasankara originate hua and it is discouraged, but in now times i do not think that isse badhava dena chahiye there is literally no sense to it, kitne shatriya armys me jaate aur kitne pandits scholars bante we know that. so casteism should not be promoted, nobodys is pure nowadays and nor any particular caste, earlier times were verry different. i do worship krishna ji, shiv ji, support my religion but i believe i do not need to support smthg negative if i find any. and if im considered a bad hindu for it let it be kalyug me mostly everyone is doing sins.

  • @shubhankartiwari7071
    @shubhankartiwari7071 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    The only trait required is maturity. People falling in love in age brackets 18 to 20 themselves realize after crossing 27 and 28 that they didn't intended this relationship in life. Often maturity peaks after 25. Maturity means understanding your truest core and expectation from life. Unfortunately this sense of self understanding comes very late and people hurry in marriage before realising their own true self. Rest is a disaster then which can unfold in either arrange or love. Communicate openly with partner about your expectation in life and their are no perfect answers. Match your compatibility with a person having similar thought process. Marry, it hardly mattes then whether it arrange or love. Both formats are equally successful if couple is mature enough to respect and communicate in relationship.

    • @madhisathya2766
      @madhisathya2766 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Well said.

    • @MedinipuriTuka036
      @MedinipuriTuka036 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bahut acche se explain kiye, isliye shaadi jo logon ko Karna pasand nhi, unpe bhi zor dalna logon ko band karna chahiye

  • @Amanhunbhaimain
    @Amanhunbhaimain 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    nothing wrong in inter caste marriage
    but inter religion marriage their should be a precaution and well researched and no religious motive

    • @MuskanKumari-eg7xo
      @MuskanKumari-eg7xo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Sahi bola

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Even as a guy, AGREED.

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@PureRythmHuh❓

    • @MedinipuriTuka036
      @MedinipuriTuka036 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@PureRythm yha pe ladka ladki ki baat kahan se aayi 🤨

    • @MedinipuriTuka036
      @MedinipuriTuka036 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bilkul sahi bolen hain

  • @Toxin8282
    @Toxin8282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

    Sad part is that our parents are not gonna watch this video as well 😂😂

  • @kartikeygupta3958
    @kartikeygupta3958 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    In the country of KRISHNA people are ashamed of Love.
    We are truly forgot our god's teaching and start following something else.

  • @Darth77x
    @Darth77x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    Most of the divorces in love marriage happen because parents completely cut contact with their children, leaving a hole in their life as societal beings. You gotta have incredible mental strength and maturity to go through fights alone and not divorce. One thing I agree about our culture that divorce shouldn’t be made so easy barring the cases of domestic violence.

    • @vanshpaliwal-mh6gs
      @vanshpaliwal-mh6gs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Bro arrange marriage is to much scary

    • @yashaswinikrishnan1878
      @yashaswinikrishnan1878 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      definitely agree 💯

    • @asharahmad1068
      @asharahmad1068 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@vanshpaliwal-mh6gs well even love marriage is scary.

    • @HimanshuSharma-mh7bz
      @HimanshuSharma-mh7bz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@vanshpaliwal-mh6gsitni nahi hoti jitni love merrage

    • @tm_aaransh256
      @tm_aaransh256 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@vanshpaliwal-mh6gshow ? Can you tell ?
      Our parents are the one who marriage arranged and then we are here and when you will see divorce case it is more in love marriage than arrange marriage ig arrange marriage is better than love marriage even you can see in how actor/ actress married and then leave each other after some years but this case is not in arrange marriage

  • @Taniyaaaaaa_.17
    @Taniyaaaaaa_.17 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    It's so true that most women don't know where they will go after getting divorce so they stay. Even at times they have shelter but " parivaar ki izzat" is more important so they stay.
    Marriage is actually scary. If it's an arranged marriage you don't know enough about your partner, the person with whom you are supposed to stay your whole life, For women You don't the family, daheej or you can say GIFTS. And in love marriage, the horror of meeting each other's parents. You have to put so much efforts just to convince them. Receiving threats like " usse shaadi ki toh humari aaulad nhi hai tu", " mere beti/beta ko bhul jao" . Parents acting not interested in the marriage even if they agree. 🤡💀

  • @akshaymalviya9478
    @akshaymalviya9478 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +401

    Prime Time with Sachin Awasthi..✔

  • @yashahire886
    @yashahire886 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    Mujhe toh lagta hai ki arrange marriage (ladko ke case me) mainly dahej ke liye kari jaati hai kyuki agar ladka love marriage karega toh vo most cases me dahej nahi lega.

    • @rky656
      @rky656 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Dahej to love marriage me v chalta hai

    • @Ritikaguptaa11
      @Ritikaguptaa11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True 😂😂

    • @priyankapattanaik5414
      @priyankapattanaik5414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dehaj😂😂😂😂... Bhai extortion ka naam suna hai.. Ladki walon ki demand hi nahi kahatm hote..

    • @agentsmith_
      @agentsmith_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      agreed, same case here

    • @khooni5653
      @khooni5653 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Agr sirf Aisa hai to love marriage k liye ladki ki family kyu nhi maanti .. aise me unka daheej bhi bachega... Or mene mostly aisa dekha hai jisme ladke k parents love marriage k liye maan jate hai lakin ladki k parents love marriage k liye raaji nhi hote hai.........

  • @Janedoe-q4i
    @Janedoe-q4i 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    Abhi ek tisri class bhi aayi hai, jo ab marriage mei believe he nai karti.
    "Marriage has lost it's relevance."

    • @Here_we_go..557
      @Here_we_go..557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      Those people live long and and peaceful than most of you😂

    • @animeyours7259
      @animeyours7259 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Real​@@Here_we_go..557

    • @shashanks631
      @shashanks631 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      just have multiple partners and explore porn style fantasies with them 😅
      i m working on this concept

    • @arnoygayen1984
      @arnoygayen1984 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      To aap ka kaya problem hay usme.
      Jisko shadi na karna wo nahi karega.
      Aap ko to koi na rok raha hay.

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Toh dikkat kya hai?
      Kisi ajnabi se shaadi karke dukhi rehne se toh acha hi hai na...
      Or are you one of those old types?

  • @yashraghuwanshi3693
    @yashraghuwanshi3693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +252

    Haan toh bhai mai toh gharwaalo ke bharose hoon, Pyaar toh hone se raha, bs darr lgta hain yeh mere bharose toh nhi

    • @sachinawasthiunscripted
      @sachinawasthiunscripted  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      🤣🤣

    • @adityakumarsingh69693
      @adityakumarsingh69693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same😂

    • @Aishyhere
      @Aishyhere 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Nhi vo to taiyaar honge jb ha kr denge turant ladki khoj denge aapke liye💯

    • @yashraghuwanshi3693
      @yashraghuwanshi3693 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@Aishyhere Aree woh normal logo ke liye, meri harkate dekh ke mujhe yeh confidence nhi aata ki meri bhi girlfriend ho skti hain,
      mtlb mai toh ek second ke liye khud sadme mai chale jaaunga ki arre😶‍🌫️ meri bhi girlfriend hain🤯
      Toh shaadi toh Durr ki baat hain

    • @Cupcake0228
      @Cupcake0228 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@yashraghuwanshi3693bhai me ladki hu but my situation is same

  • @riyandas9332
    @riyandas9332 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

    I don't know about other states but in most Bengali household parents have no problem accepting love marriages. In fact they prefer it because It is very taxing to find a suitable bridge/ groom in Arrange marriage scenario

    • @Lifestyle12360
      @Lifestyle12360 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Bro then you are from upper middle class cause in lower middle class and lower class people,caste, religion matters and every thing mentioned in this video matters I myself a Bengali but literally my parents literally are "love marriage korbina" all those soft brainwashing done to show why arrange marriage is better is done,and same is about my relatives and my locality, although I also do soft brainwashing and have succeeded in making maa understand that even if I do arrange marriage I will date that girl for atleast 4-5 years before marriage or love marriage but don't know about baba

    • @itsakingfisher4354
      @itsakingfisher4354 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am a Bengali and I can assure you it's NOT true

    • @PULKITKAUL-great
      @PULKITKAUL-great 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bengal is super woke

    • @kritibajpai4085
      @kritibajpai4085 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bengali parents are playing until it's with another Bengali. Wahi wokeness khatm ho jati h unki

    • @Lifestyle12360
      @Lifestyle12360 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@PULKITKAUL-great that's not true,I have seen so many cases they are just like parents of any other states, maybe things maybe different for bengalis living in ultra rich localities of Kolkata otherwise it's all the same

  • @IshwarMishraYT
    @IshwarMishraYT 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    You are a great orator, all the best for your new channel!

  • @itsakingfisher4354
    @itsakingfisher4354 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Love marriage ❌
    Arranged marriage ❌
    No marriage ✅

    • @83loke
      @83loke 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🗿 nice

    • @aniljadhav1141
      @aniljadhav1141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      kaash apne yeh comment 6 years pahle kiyaa hotaa.

    • @Fr4XILES
      @Fr4XILES 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aniljadhav1141 abe 6 saal pehele ye video hota tab karta na

    • @aniljadhav1141
      @aniljadhav1141 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Fr4XILES mera bolne kaa matlab samaj bhai

    • @Fr4XILES
      @Fr4XILES 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aniljadhav1141 wo samaj raha hu me bhi just joke mar raha tha jo joke nahin lag raha but jo bhi hai accha hai😂

  • @coloursoflife862
    @coloursoflife862 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Mere family me 3 generations se love marriage hua hai or 2 shadiya intercaste. Sab khush hai kisi ka divorce nahi hua ab tak.
    Ek member ki arrange marriage hui thi same caste me or she lost her life.

  • @hariomkore
    @hariomkore 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Most underrated creator
    Your subscriber from main channel from the days it had 100k subscribers

  • @shashank_srivastava
    @shashank_srivastava 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    "kyuki unko ye lag sakta hai ki aap unke khilaaf jake koi decision le rhe ho ya aap unko respect nhi kar rhe ho. Unko ye lagta hai unki samaj mein kya izzat rah jaegi ki batao bacchon ki khushi k liye apni ego chhod di" ....nobody acknowledges this point but true indeed 🥺🤍

  • @sunnykathaniya9420
    @sunnykathaniya9420 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Today I realised that divorce is not always a bad thing 😊

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Teen?

  • @simransharma7345
    @simransharma7345 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    DIL JEET LIYA YAAR TUMNE.... SAB KEH DIYA JO HUM SAALON SE ANALYSE KAR RAHE H🤌🏻🙏🏻GOD BLESS YOU MAN

  • @Abhisektheone
    @Abhisektheone 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    You r matured when you realise there is no such difference between Love and arrange marriage. Only initial period is different and after some time everything is same

    • @po8ikradiation
      @po8ikradiation 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Bhai kya baat boli hai
      Marriage ke baad responsibilities badh jaati hai

    • @Robyjhon65
      @Robyjhon65 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Noo bohot log lifetime kush rethata ha

  • @adiroxlife
    @adiroxlife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I will be honest with you I have seen serious blunder in both marriages but arranged marriage blunder is way more expensive. I know a acquaintance who loved a boy and her parents came to know about it at age 19 . Her bf was of same caste and class, infact her family knew them and had cordial relationship but hated the fact that she fell in love without their permission and “ naak Kay di”. They got her married without her will to someone from their village to teach her a lesson. That man was not even a college graduate but they had overconfidence on their choice . They literally gave him dowry of around 2 crore because his family was from a reputable family in their community . That 2 crore was given to set up a business along with it a luxury car and a flat was also given to his family . The total dowry must have been around 5 crore since the flat her ex husband received was in prime location in city. After marriage his fmily wanted her to conceive but she couldn’t due to health , so she underwent ivf and all expenses were taken care of by her family . His family did not give single rupee. Her delivery expenses were also taken care by her family and not by his .
    They had a daughter and when the daughter turned 5 , he got addicted to to gambling and lost all his property and money to gambling and ran away for his life . His wife and daughter had to face exploitation by lone sharks in his absence. Now they both are divorced because he would not give a single rupee for girl child. Her fees money is also given by her nana. The lady in question tried doing job but developed severe psychiatric trauma and disease which are incurable . She has episodes of bipolar, mania, hypomania, depression, psychosis etc . Her list of diagnosis is longer than a recipe for a gravy. Even during divorce hearing her father for izzat and shit demanded no alimony and only wanted them to be together. She doesn’t get any child support or alimony because he is bankrupt and is not earning much but is preparing to get married again to an innocent village women. Many don’t believe it but parents can fuck up life pretty bad out of ego. Her life was messed up since age 19 and now she is 36 . Whatever gifts, dowry money her father spent on that man’s family is now of no use as her ex husband has lost everything and cannot even afford to pay the daughter’s school fee. He doesn’t even care to buy a pencil for her . Her sister wanted a daughter so she has almost adopted the girl because my acquaintance is mostly in psychiatric ward and her hospital bills are paid by her dad who tries hard to still save his face in society.
    My parents are genuinely one in a million and amazing people so I don’t have any complaints but I genuinely wonder why some parents are enemies of their own children. Her ex husband literally received a dowry almost worth 5 crores but has lost everything in gambling addiction. He doesn’t even care to give even 5 rupee to his ex wife and his girl child out of sympathy or sense of duty for hospital treatment or education. I wish parents actually looked at morals and kind of human being their children are getting married to instead of only caste or religion.

    • @adiroxlife
      @adiroxlife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@artist_anjalii_ that’s true…. A distant cousin I know got arranged married to someone he doesn’t love . He loved a girl for 10 years but didn’t had guts to stand up for himself so married the choice of his parents. The parents didn’t like his gf because some stupid Indian parent logic. The present wife’s family gave handsome gifts initially and hid the fact smartly that they have sons and their property is not fully theirs but is highly disputed among many brothers and cousins. The girl also looked very homely and sort of pretty but highly educated. The boys parents were mentally convinced she is only daughter with tons of property and she is extremely docile and submissive. They were under illusion that they will receive handsome dowry . Within few months after marriage they found out she has siblings and their property claim is disputed by everyone . They wanted to get her married desperately because she has psychiatric and neurological issues which her family hid even from her relatives . She wasn’t allowed friends because they didn’t wanted anyone to know . His family never received all the gifts and properties they expected and her brothers enter their home anytime she feels threatened. The girl is heavily influenced by her mother and father and would shut her bedroom door if things don’t go her way . She leaves for her hometown whenever she wants . If u try to have serious conversation with her she cries and cries . He can’t divorce because izzat he is a coward . Now they have a daughter together and the daughter is showing signs of autism like level 3 severe kind and adhd . That girl also has kidney disorders . They are planning another kid because one suffering isn’t enough.

    • @shivampandey5978
      @shivampandey5978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@adiroxlifeit's nightmare I am never gonna marry😂

    • @adiroxlife
      @adiroxlife 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@shivampandey5978 I wish that cousin dude showed some guts and not became greedy or acted dumb. Can u imagine that guy had all the brains to do phd but no brains in choosing a girl.

    • @shivampandey5978
      @shivampandey5978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@adiroxlife generally ,,those who fell in luv doesn't have guts to accept it to their parents..
      They want both parents money and excitement of love..
      They do both but with different persons

  • @deekshapancholi4587
    @deekshapancholi4587 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I think we are the last generation suffering from this issue, next generation parents will not let their children suffer from this

    • @abhishekksaini4696
      @abhishekksaini4696 หลายเดือนก่อน

      उम्र के साथ साथ महत्वाकांक्षाएं कम होती जाती है। युवावस्था और वृद्धावस्था के बीच का जो phase है उसमें समाज की कुंठाए और इस Rat race की उलझन में हम हमारी मूल ideology को मार देते हैं।
      (But I hope that we may change the trend)

    • @protagonist6605
      @protagonist6605 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Coming generation will suffer a lot.

    • @loveyourself-n6y
      @loveyourself-n6y 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Next generation me shadi hi nahi rahega 😂
      Shadi ka kya faida jab shadi se pehle hi sax sux ho jata hai 😂

    • @protagonist6605
      @protagonist6605 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@loveyourself-n6y सही कहा। शादी से पहले सेक्सुअल पार्टनर शादी के पवित्र रिश्ते को अपवित्र करता है।

    • @protagonist6605
      @protagonist6605 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@loveyourself-n6y अगर ये सब चलता रहा तो नाजायज़ बच्चे बढ़ेंगे जिनको अपने माता पिता का नहीं पता और शादी के बाद अवैध संबंध आम बात हो जाएगी। और कुछ खुद्दार, स्वाभिमानी लोग खुदको ऐसे घटिया समाज से दूर रखेंगे।

  • @krishbishwanath
    @krishbishwanath 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Mera to manna h ki shadi honi chahiye to unse honi chahiye jaha variations hai. For example, UP ka ladka ho, Punjab ki ladki ho, to kitna badhiya ho, khane me variations, culture me variations, logo ko janne ko milega etc.

    • @1stdivisioncaptain
      @1stdivisioncaptain 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Genetic variation bhi
      Bacho main

    • @priyankapattanaik5414
      @priyankapattanaik5414 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jeevan sathi mein acc bana lo fir.. But beware

    • @Professional-o6k
      @Professional-o6k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Kya kya ajeeb ajeeb thoughts rakhte ho tum log 😂

    • @AFhard
      @AFhard 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Punjab ki ladkiyon ko UP ki londe ni chahiye😂 bro wake up

  • @gaurangbajpai4410
    @gaurangbajpai4410 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I personally feel , the society is living with mindset that everything that 's part of western culture is wrong , and since love marriage is an essential aspect of western culture , it is viewed in such a way ...
    Another point is the ongoing cases in the society whether its rape , murder , case of physical violence which is often realted to relationship issues , so thats also one of the reason for parents to be cautious about there children !

    • @ayushpal4518
      @ayushpal4518 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      How is love marriage is western concept h shree krishna ne mata rukmini ko bhaga kr shaadi ki thi wo love marriage hi thi ya fir jb mata subhadra ne arjun ko bhaga kr shaadi ki thi to love marriage ka concept tha pr wo humesha se upper class mein tha lower class mein parents humesha se rudhivaadi rhe hain dikkat ye h

    • @niini01
      @niini01 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      gandharv vivah kabse angrezo ki hone lagi siyane?? apne devi devta arrange kam love zyada kiye baithe h😂😂

    • @agentsmith_
      @agentsmith_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ayushpal4518 even in upper middle class, they're the same especially the parents are blind followers of right wing conservative ideology

    • @telegoholic
      @telegoholic 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And what about more than 80% of rapes committed by closest relatives of the girl?
      Who will talk about that?
      Is that also related with relationship issue? 🤨🤨

    • @protagonist6605
      @protagonist6605 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's still better than single mothers, divorces, step father, hook ups,situationships, swingers, double digit bodycount.

  • @ankitabhadouriya2545
    @ankitabhadouriya2545 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    Love marriage me dahej ni milta, love marriage wali bahuye pitayi ni khati. Unhe manipulate karke mayke se paise ni maangana muskil hota h. Beta bahu k vash me ho jata h ......bla, bla, bla

    • @ansumann
      @ansumann 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      dahej se economy boost hota hai GDP badhti hai

    • @AditiRaj-believer
      @AditiRaj-believer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@ansumann

    • @Animoworld-ex4mc
      @Animoworld-ex4mc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dowry to illegal hai fir bhi kyu de rahe hai log 😑

    • @PureRythm
      @PureRythm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      İ think it's less to do with dowry, and more with the other points you mentioned...along with casteism. Casteism plays a major role in all this, yk...

    • @ansumann
      @ansumann 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PureRythm casteism? How

  • @srishtichaudhary2194
    @srishtichaudhary2194 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm always looking forward for your video. Your way of narration is really catchy and enjoyable, 10mins video feels too small. Keep going sir, full support ❤️

  • @AmanYadav-jk7ec
    @AmanYadav-jk7ec 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Love marriage ka sbse negative point h ki uske liye ldki hone chahiye vo bhi love mai 🫂

    • @rubinsingh9383
      @rubinsingh9383 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      deep bhai deep

    • @Grggttty
      @Grggttty 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Us bhai us

    • @Here_we_go..557
      @Here_we_go..557 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Or jo arranged marriage mei sirf tere 💵 lootne k liye aate hai😂

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Negative kyu hai ye🤔

  • @AmanKumar-ch4td
    @AmanKumar-ch4td 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Thanks for supporting them who desires to love marriage, believe me, many youtubers or some youth is against love marriage, they say like- our parents know better than us like crap
    Some parents just Don't know parenting, they ought to taught parenting

  • @roshnimandal4454
    @roshnimandal4454 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Itna accha explanation regarding the issues ye pehli baar suna.. wow..
    🎉🎉❤❤

  • @_kajalj
    @_kajalj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    According to Indian parents, if a love marriage fails then the couple made a bad decision by choosing each other as partner and if an arranged marriage fails it's just the luck ain't on their side🙃

  • @luffy5775
    @luffy5775 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Beautiful bhai bahut bdia tarike se aapne explain kra hats off!

  • @surajgupta92197
    @surajgupta92197 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Thank you so much yaar 🙏
    Finally Koi toh hai internet par jo en sab muddo pe khul ke baat karta h 👍
    Humare desh mein aap jaise influencers ki jaroorat h jo reform laane ki takat rakhte hain

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Topic main hai, Creator nai

  • @albertEinstein-b5u
    @albertEinstein-b5u 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    your politeness hits me , also force to watch ur whole video 🙃

  • @DilipSingh-wj1cr
    @DilipSingh-wj1cr 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Most important thing is the why indian parents against love marriage is unka beta hath se nikal Jayega. Samaj mein ab main dekh raha hu ki betiyon ko phir nhi izzazat mil rahi hai apni pasand ka ladke se shadi karne ki par in situation mein bete ka bura haal aaj bhi hain . Beta love marriage kar lega toh Bahu usse kabze mein le legi. Aise hazar bate hum apne parents ki nhi mante par love marriage ke baad agar galti se ek baat bhi nahi maani toh aise drama create karenge jaise humne unko thappad mar diya ho.

  • @prachitiwari5801
    @prachitiwari5801 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Best content and wonderful speech delivery 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @rishipramanick6823
    @rishipramanick6823 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am not a matrimonial consultant but i can say
    Kids who do love marriage do because of love they dont oversee the family conditions of bride or groom past history salary etc
    So there are chances of the marriage to break after 3 yrs
    But in arranged marraiges i have seen in my family firstly there is no love in marriage but then gradually as time passes by love is involoved and the couple live a peaceful life
    So parents are always against love marriage in arranged marriage parents find a bride or groom wrt their family background salary etc
    In the long run salary is important because when u use the word men or women
    U state it that he or she is highly successful in their undertaking

  • @bhootiyabhoot6807
    @bhootiyabhoot6807 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Me Uttarakhandi brahmin my gf dalit Buddhist from Maharashtra. 😅I don't know how it will end up.

    • @RakeshDey-rt4yk
      @RakeshDey-rt4yk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Simple boldo he Brahmin hu । Me tumse Marry nahi karskte he।

    • @bhootiyabhoot6807
      @bhootiyabhoot6807 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@RakeshDey-rt4yk kyu

    • @RakeshDey-rt4yk
      @RakeshDey-rt4yk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bhootiyabhoot6807 bro Brahmin dalit ke sath Sadi nahi karte । Tum suse shadi Karo to tumhara children ar Brahmin nahi rahega।

    • @bhootiyabhoot6807
      @bhootiyabhoot6807 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@RakeshDey-rt4yk it's completely fine bro, children brahmin janam se nahi karam se bante h

    • @bhootiyabhoot6807
      @bhootiyabhoot6807 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@RakeshDey-rt4yk karamo k hisab se varna milta h Bhagwat gita padho

  • @akashverma5756
    @akashverma5756 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Harsh Fact :- There is no selfless love in the world. Even Parent's love come with a lot of condition and expectation.

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      चेतना का उच्चतम स्तर समस्त जनो में नहीं है
      कलियुग में तो अल्पता में भी नहीं

  • @Neetukumari-qz2ke
    @Neetukumari-qz2ke 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Ladke k parents ka reason hai ki love marriage me unko dahej nhi milega n second bahu ko control me bhi nhi kr payege

  • @stutikhanna987
    @stutikhanna987 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Marriage itself is a scary thing. Parents play gamble and we pay the prize. Feels like its a Mahabharata.

  • @manviksaxena5894
    @manviksaxena5894 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Appreciable Content 🔥🔥

  • @Prantar5
    @Prantar5 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    sahi ja rahe ho bro with this new channel..great content

  • @shikhapandey242
    @shikhapandey242 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Bhai dil jeet lia! very realistic video! My husband Marwari from Jharkhad and I am Brahmin from UP and on the top of it my husband is bald with an opthalmic issue and I have vitiligo and it took us two years to get our parents on same page! 5 years down the line we still face issues on parents front sometimes!

    • @abhijeetkumar2204
      @abhijeetkumar2204 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Meri GF Tamil Brahmin hai main Bihari OBC. Mujhe to darr lagg rha hai future ke liye. But she said her parents is liberal & open minded. Still pta nhi kya hoga. We truely love each other..& Congratulations to for your marriage ❤🎉

    • @pag3160
      @pag3160 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As A Person with Vitiligo I can understand How much you would have faced !!

    • @vishnupratapmishra5862
      @vishnupratapmishra5862 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@abhijeetkumar2204 teri koi gf brahmin nhi h tu brahman ko defame karne ko ye likh rha h bhimte ya obc ya mulla jo bhi tu h

    • @rahulp4830
      @rahulp4830 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Marwadi is not a caste. Marwadi is a regional identity.
      A Marwadi can be a Marwadi Baniya (Hindu/Jain), Marwadi Rajput, Marwadi Jaat, Marwadi Brahmin or Marwadi dalit.

  • @THE_ME6
    @THE_ME6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bawal video❤❤
    Phla video dekhkr hi subscribe karliya👏🔥

  • @LifeGeneralist
    @LifeGeneralist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Fantastic video Sachin bro, loving this new channel

  • @AnonymousPhilosophee
    @AnonymousPhilosophee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Recently one of my brother and sister have gotten arrange married . Believe me.! I have seen in real both their parents met and they already knew each other so ladka aur ladki ko 5 minute akele baat krne k liye bhejte hain, after those 5 minutes everyone is looking at their faces and expecting a 'YES'. If by any chance you say No, first of all they will make sure there is no chance like this, but if still by any chance you managed to say a No.! Then remember both these families as well as the people related with these families will never talk for life and this will be made an issue of Pride and prejudice. Also ab unki marriage bilkul bhi acchi nahin chal rahi hai dono ki. SO BASICALLY THERE IS NO PROOF THAT IF YOU ARE DOING ARRANGE MARRIAGE BASED ON YOUR PARENTS TERM IT WILL BE A SUCCESS. HAN EK CHIJ MAIN BOL SAKTI HUN KI UNKE FAMILY MEIN BAHUT PROBLEM CHAL RAHI HAI DONON KI BUT STILL THE FAMILY IS PLAYING THE ROLE OF MAKING SURE THAT THEY BOTH DON'T SEPARATE. THIS IS THE ONLY THING THAT THEY ARE DOING FOR THEM. NOTHING ELSE SAMAJ KAHIN KAM MEIN NAHIN A RAHA HAI. IN FACT JO SAMAJ KE LIYE UNHONE SHAADI KI THI NOW THAT'S SO MUCH IS LIKE CHHODO HAMEN KYA LENA. Also nowadays if you are a person of this generation and thinking of getting arranged marriage remember u r probably marrying someone's ex.😂😂

  • @IShotMyPants
    @IShotMyPants 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    no bs and properly researched videos
    keep making these type of videos and all the best!
    P.S. dont frgt to make videos on ur other channel! (especially the mom ones, my mom gets so irritated when i show them to her)

  • @AsimKhan-qb6fl
    @AsimKhan-qb6fl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Most relatable channel of all time love you sachin bhai ✌️

  • @jatinkumar890
    @jatinkumar890 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Everything is top notch here
    Your content
    Story telling
    Editing
    Pyari awaz
    My best youtuber ❤

  • @sankkham
    @sankkham 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    They check finance more than caste or religion actually. I never saw any family saying no to a man who is rich bt has lower caste or even he is Muslim.

    • @Sodomedium
      @Sodomedium 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not totally true humare yahan ldka humble background ka chlega but sirf ladka rich ho aur family mentally downtrodden hi ho toh koi nhi chunega..
      Not true for everyone.

    • @gladiator1047
      @gladiator1047 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then u r wrong rich ladka obc caste ka ni Kiya mere cousin ka ladki Brahman h
      Just pride k Karan ki hm Brahman h neech jati me shadi ni karenge

    • @76262
      @76262 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No brother. My partner is assistant manager in bank .good behavior. Everything is oke for me. But my parents are against it because of caste. Both us are belong to obc catagory .stilll😢.i tried a lot to convince them. They says that guy with no job from same caste is okey for them.

    • @darksider17
      @darksider17 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@gladiator1047brahmin toh sbse kr le rhe . Brahmin girls 😍 Jai bhim

  • @kaiffarazalam9262
    @kaiffarazalam9262 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boht sahi bhai..ek number 👍🙌

  • @nidhi4032
    @nidhi4032 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Time stamp 9:24 India is not a free country specifically for women ... Nah freely ghoom sakte hai rape k daar se ..nah freely hume choice hoti hai partner choose karne ki ....

    • @Gagz-xu9oy
      @Gagz-xu9oy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Abe rape har desh mai hota hain to world is not free

  • @CSAdityaHoon
    @CSAdityaHoon 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro content has been evolving so nice to see you spreading such a thoughtful information 😊

  • @adityaagrawal1731
    @adityaagrawal1731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Bro money is important , baap ka paisa chayiye toh log maan lete hain uski baat , warna kamane wali janta ( jo max audience hogi is video ki) ko ghanta farak nahin padta parents se

    • @sachinawasthiunscripted
      @sachinawasthiunscripted  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Mujhe lgta h fark padta hai par wait krne ki or manane ki ek limit hoti hai, thak jata h insan or parents ki zid ni khatam hoti, tb koi b independent insan apne man se hi decisions lega

    • @adityaagrawal1731
      @adityaagrawal1731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@sachinawasthiunscripted haan matlab farak naa padne wali stage aati hain max logon ki and yes looks are important ugly people like me thode kam rebel hote hain, pata hain khud se naa ho payega
      Baap hi karwayega naa

    • @shivampandey5978
      @shivampandey5978 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dil se bol rha bhai tu😂❤​@@adityaagrawal1731

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai Majaak karra☠️

  • @NitiKatyayana
    @NitiKatyayana 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    WE NEED MORE SUCH CONTENT. Like, generational gaps, etc.

  • @ankur2804
    @ankur2804 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Love ur content sachin bhai ❤

    • @sachinawasthiunscripted
      @sachinawasthiunscripted  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you ankur 🫡

    • @ankur2804
      @ankur2804 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sachinawasthiunscripted ❤️❤️🔥🔥

    • @ankur2804
      @ankur2804 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sachinawasthiunscripted bro next video kab

  • @Ankit_fromEarth
    @Ankit_fromEarth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very good summarised the problem. 👏👏

  • @WarriorSpirit008
    @WarriorSpirit008 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Bhai to be very honest. Who gives a F? This is your life and future, love marriage karo ya arranged karo ye poora ka poora tum decide karoge. Parents ko acche number chahiye, dediya, accha job chahiye, dediya. Future aur wife to tumhara hoga, wo to khud decide karo, parents kya bol rahe hai kya fadak padta hai tumhe? It's your whole life ahead of you, and you decide it, not 2 other people.
    Bade ho gaye ho, apne saare descisions khud lete ho, lekin fir bhi kya tum baccho ki tarah apne maa baap pe majboor rahige tumhare liye biwi dhoondne ke liye?

    • @Drawtoon123
      @Drawtoon123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesss true

  • @anuragkat66
    @anuragkat66 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kya baat h bhai Comedy ho ya Serious Mudda, kya mast presentation h, Subscribe yaha bhi kar diya h, Keep Growing😍

  • @avi4854
    @avi4854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Bhai aapka content ...on both channel badiya hai .... Bas jaldi aapko fame mil jaye .... ❤🎉

  • @himanshupathak5023
    @himanshupathak5023 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro....this channel is a hidden gem
    ..I was fan of your comedy videos...but this channel...omg..amazing 🎉

  • @Monipb3rm
    @Monipb3rm 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Humare parents jis generation se hai uss generation ke logo ne humesha aankh band kar ke apne parents, aur samaj ki baat maani hai.
    Aur isiliye vo bhi yahi humse chahte hai. Social conditioning is also one of those reason here.
    And our generation has opposite thought for it.
    Humari aane wali generation iss marriage aur career vale mamle me bahut lucky hogi.

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      याद रखिए प्रकृति ने चेतना को सर्वदा चुनौतियां दी हैं♨️

  • @alok1704
    @alok1704 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Acha banate ho video, apka comedy wale videos dekh aaya tha but yeh zyada acha laga mujh.....Lots of love and hope this gets much more success than the comedy ones!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!💯💯💯💯💯

  • @Trentz2
    @Trentz2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Younger generation accuse older generation of being conscious of “what will people say”….but then don’t talk one bit about how they are obsessed with other people’s opinions and thoughts. They just replaced rishtedar with friends, colleagues and now “followers “. Parents atleast are concerned about people they really know, but youngsters are worried about people whom they don’t well or probably will never meet or someone across the globe. The obsession for likes is crazy. How many people post in comments section when they get some likes, “I am famous “ or I never got so many likes. They are even worried if unknown people like their comment or not. What is that?

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhaisaab Agar ye banda marriage ke baare me na bolta ya kisi Aise vaise topic par toh views hi nahi Aane the
      Log khudko introvert bolte fir Social Media bhi use karte🤡

  • @vibhormishra8997
    @vibhormishra8997 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Samaaj me izzat ki chinta sirf middle class ko hoti hai , ameer aur gareeb ko nhi

  • @AdityaRaj-xo3hn
    @AdityaRaj-xo3hn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I am still waiting for the day when I will get a heart from my fav TH-camr Sachin Awasthi ❤😎

    • @visheshrao5629
      @visheshrao5629 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Mil gya heart, khush?

    • @AdityaRaj-xo3hn
      @AdityaRaj-xo3hn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@visheshrao5629 haa

  • @samrreyy
    @samrreyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make a video on pros and cons of Arrange & Love marriages!💒

  • @mohitshukla3604
    @mohitshukla3604 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Editor deserves a raise

  • @AWritersVlog
    @AWritersVlog 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loving the videos. And of course details chahiye. Next video wo hi hona chahiye❤❤❤❤

  • @ranjanasrivastav9213
    @ranjanasrivastav9213 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Mujhe bahut achcha lagta hai jab aap apna content late ho kyunki ismein mujhe bahut hi samajik jankari milati hai thank u ❤

  • @studyspiritual8412
    @studyspiritual8412 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bro your opinions are solid..i rarely comment on any video but i just couldn't stop after watching your video❣️

  • @jerobyarts5654
    @jerobyarts5654 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Iam in my late twenties and i would never marry as love and arranged marriage are extremely superficial and most people including my friends are only marrying due to peer pressure and having no hobbies other than work and spending money on their families . Personally i have lots of hobbies from animation to game design, and i wouldn't spend my time investing in marriage as of now

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bhai Government Job mil Gayi tab toh badhiya Nature mein rahunga mai

  • @diss-sh5hq
    @diss-sh5hq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Bhai ne family group mein share kiya tha..
    But bua ne bhai ko group se nikal diya 😂😂

  • @Death__0
    @Death__0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    No one is against anything, problem is most love marriage don't work properly. There is not much family support from behind, and after some time romance runs out. Parents has seen many such cases that's why they are bit alert and scepticle, if you sit with them develop understanding they will agree.
    Yes, if you are a girl then it will be bit difficult. Boy must have money, good family then it will work smoothly.

    • @user-yk5xu8gr1e
      @user-yk5xu8gr1e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Total bakwaas

    • @Anurag_gupta011
      @Anurag_gupta011 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro be living in his own imagination... Arrange marriage is a total disaster, just look at the domestic violence

    • @mithulohar5442
      @mithulohar5442 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Anurag_gupta011 just look at divorce rate and elomony issue in love marriages

  • @rahulrathore2529
    @rahulrathore2529 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Knowledge with entertainment😅❤

  • @ADITYAMITTALCA
    @ADITYAMITTALCA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Straight to the point!!

  • @divyanshsingh4274
    @divyanshsingh4274 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Main point toh bataya hi nhi mummy papa ko kaise manaya 😂 btw superb work ❤

  • @AMan-cx4ns
    @AMan-cx4ns 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think you took some people in the country and made a generalized conclusion without any strong sample or data.
    I see many Love marriages in this country, especially where I'm from.

  • @75335
    @75335 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2 videos - 1) shadi kyu karni chahiye
    2) shadi kyu nahi karni chahiye
    I don't believe ki aaj ke time me agar kisi se pyar karte ho aur jindagi bhar sath rehna chahte ho to shadi karna is important. It is just a rasm.
    (Can help you in writing content of this video)

  • @shivpatel9647
    @shivpatel9647 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video ❤

  • @KARISHMA163
    @KARISHMA163 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So Happy to see you use your platform and your reach to voice such meaningful topics. You have always made us laugh and what you are doing now through this channel is commendable. More power to you!💫

  • @abhijeetkumar2204
    @abhijeetkumar2204 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Meri GF Tamil Brahmin hai main Bihari OBC. Mujhe to darr lagg rha hai future ke liye. But she said her parents is liberal & open minded. Still pta nhi kya hoga. We truely love each other 🥰

    • @619ry7
      @619ry7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@abhijeetkumar2204 bhai kidhar se set kiya apne? College me?

    • @abhijeetkumar2204
      @abhijeetkumar2204 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@619ry7 ye set karna kya hota hai bhai ?😂

    • @Unknown_11person
      @Unknown_11person 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@619ry7shame on u

    • @averyelf3557
      @averyelf3557 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@abhijeetkumar2204 "ye set karna kya hota hai bhai ?", really bro, your girl is very lucky to have you. Mature men like you , who are in love, know how to address their women. I hope everything goes in your favour.

  • @GamingFreak69
    @GamingFreak69 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Quality of Content I want

  • @TravellingXsoul_Bhashkar
    @TravellingXsoul_Bhashkar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bhai kya gjjb ka topic pick kiye aur kya ekdam point to point baatein kiye ho
    Respect bro

  • @jyotiranjannaik820
    @jyotiranjannaik820 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bro is leading in both Comedy & Informative catagory in youtube❤.. talent hai bhai talent hai👍🏻

  • @meditateguru651
    @meditateguru651 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have a deep understanding on this topic bro

  • @aryamahima3
    @aryamahima3 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sabse bada reason toh bola hi nahi: ladke walon ko lagta h ki hamara ladka gya hath se agar love marriage ki

    • @SoJangHo37
      @SoJangHo37 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ye Mommas boy banake rakhne ki hi to problem hai

    • @Robyjhon65
      @Robyjhon65 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SoJangHo37like maa ke respect karna aachi baat ha I also say ka bawi aata he maa ko mat bhul jyo lakin iska matlab yea to nihe ke shadi ka cake ke pehli bite maa ko dea do😂😂(just an example)

  • @mamtamishra3384
    @mamtamishra3384 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good efforts love to see your different side from Instagram
    Keep it up😊✨

  • @adityaagrawal1731
    @adityaagrawal1731 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Waise meri ek story hain last year ,ek ladki jisse main shaadi ke regarding baat kar raha tha use maine reject kr diya for some reason , pata nahin kahan se uski family mere mama ke relatives nikle toh , toh us ladki ki family ne mere mama se bol diya ke aapke bhanje ( yaani maine) ne shaadi karli hain and he is living in bangalore with his wife, when my moron mama told this to my parents they panicked and called me at 11 PM and mom say in sarcastic mode beta rakhi pe akele hi aaoge naa ghar , phir papa ne phone liya aur kaafi man to man conversation hui , then only thing with which i convinced them , ke papa mammi aapko lagta hain aapke bete ki aisi shakal hain ke usse koi ladki love marriage kar legi , tab bole haan beta woh toh hain , us din thodi rahat aur dher saala self doubt mila aur main so gaya !!🤣🤣

    • @Ritikaguptaa11
      @Ritikaguptaa11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oohh god... That's sad and hilarious at the same time 😅

    • @Ubermensch-t1j
      @Ubermensch-t1j 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Tere mama >> shakuni mama >> kans mama >> Katappa mama

  • @realbeautyofvillagelife.7346
    @realbeautyofvillagelife.7346 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Bros content is in top notch

  • @Sarfarazal-v4j
    @Sarfarazal-v4j 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Love marriage me problem ye he ki usme biwi ke aage parents ki nhi chalti he ,
    Isliye parents arrange marriage karate he taki ladka ladki parents ke hisab se chale , fir ladka , ladki khush rhe ya na rhe . Lekin parents ko apni chalani he ,