I think I can speak for most men when I say we do not give a damn about astrology. In fact, when a woman starts talking about that and asking whats our sign, its a massive turn off!
5:56 🙋♀️ Black (mixed) woman here and i completely agree, the “I dont like you” threw me off so bad i thought she was joking. What an ego. The guy seems way more honest and assured in himself than she does lol
Yeah, no, it's absolutely stupid that this man literally called his PET a CHILD, especially to a woman who's a mother on a dating show for single parents, c'mon now 😂
This is my favorite episode from A&P... That rant Aba went on with Preach jumping in, saying things like "you can't call them Gypsies anymore" was funny af 😂😂😂.
@@HammersOverStrikers He got lowkey mad that Aba called a black woman a b*tch. But he wouldn't bat an eye if Aba said it about a white woman....... hmm.......
"Wakanda don't exist, what are you doing?" Preach comments got me howlin'. Thank you Preach for being the best straight man in the goofiest sounding rant Aba has ever tried to wind up.
I enjoyed the matched couple discussing the boundaries they set for their partners with meeting their kids. Very open, very honest, very mature, and a breath of fresh air to see on this usually extremely vapid "game." My mom was a widow with a 12 year old and she explained right off the bat that "my kids and I are a packaged deal." The man she met understood, acknowledged, and respected her terms. They'll be together 18 years in November.
Dude with the dog is killing me.... I have dogs and I love them and refer to them as my furbabies. But never in all my years of dog ownership would I have considered myself a single parent! (And I am one now, so I KNOW the difference!!!)
NEVER trust anyone who says "this is a safe space" Its the new version of "you can be emotionally vulnerable and if its weird, I can and will judge you for it"
I love how Preach keeps trying to reign in Aba when he goes off on his tangents. He sees ALL the demonitizations, the cancel crew coming for them and Aba is just rolling down that "Don't give a Heck" hill. Its hilarious!
@@frenchgirl5878 Idk where this comes from. As a mixed dude who knows other mixed ppl, we’re treated like abominations. Well at least the mixed men, maybe not the women.
As a crisscross person, I completely understand that no matter who I hang with, I'll never truly be one side or the other, but I'm cool just being invited to the cookout or the brunch. We got to eat too ☯️
@Treacherous J Slither I get where you're coming from, but during my younger years, I wasn't accepted, just tolerated, so that's why I look at it the way I do.
the first black girl was definitely projecting with her own baby daddy issues 💀💀 both of the guys she talked to were hella chill but she found problems regardless. The audacity to call the tatted one traumatized too 🤦🏽♀️ but i bet if the first guy said that when she rejected him it’d start an argument… she’s the red flag yall
The black girl saying " I don't like you" out of nowhere, got me flustered. This why Aba n Preach's observation skills help a great deal. I would have never understood myself why she suddenly turned cold
I feel like she was finishing the guys sentence. He was talking about being forced together during Covid and then you find out, and she says "I don't like you".
Kids are less judgemental because they haven't learned to recognize warning signs and they're trying to push boundaries to find out where they are. Kids are also extremely selfish and prone to lashing out and/or crying when they don't get their way.
Why do people do that?? Like being funny has to come naturally or with a specific atmosphere. Like yea I'm a psychologist; I'm not gonna therapy you in a bar. Etc
I think the reason why we got that much success in thia episode was the directness, knowing what they want and actually asking questions that could help them understand the other person better. All those factors I feel like come with more experience you get especially as an adult (not to mention if you got kids). Unlike the usual younger participants we usually see on the button.
Aba's rant was soo funny and then Preach trying to rein him in, they truly work so well together. Even if I had an option to visit their separate stand ups, after watching them together for so long, it just wouldn't be the same
I feel like the single parents were actually more open to the idea of bonding with someone there but were honest enough to admit it if they didn't click with the other person
I don’t know why but I always felt like people I just met telling me "this is a safe space" were not trustworthy. Why should I feel safe with a stranger?
@@mattb6646 Someone once said to me "You must be busy now that you're a mom" I was so confused. Turns out they called me a mom cause I got a puppy. It's becoming a normalized term, but it will also be weird to me when someone calls me a mom cause I have a dog, I hate being called a mom and I will never understand it.
@JaneFellDownAgain it just feels like they are over compensating. We all love our pets and most people treat them well. It's like someone telling you what a nice person they are, and usually aren't. If you have to advertise something normal that all adults are expected to do, you got an issue
The rant that aba did and preach trying to keep him straight was amazing! I was laughing so hard that it brought tears in my eyes. I replayed that video clip at least 5 times. Thanks for the laugh, I really needed it today. U guys are awesome! That's coming from a Latin taco selling brother :)
2:14 “you haven’t accepted your baldness, how are you gonna accept someone else’s child” truer words have never been spoken, and that’s coming from a bald man! 😂
ohh damnn, for a second when she said "i actually don't like you" I thought she was carrying on his sentence, like when covid hit and you have to spend time with someone and you realise "i actually don't like you" lmao.
As a single dad, I only have 50% of my time available as a single person. Of course I’m not going to waste it dating carelessly. Which in today’s world means not dating at all apparently… It’s rough out here. Watch who you have kids with & don’t take your good relationships for granted!
Dude same and that 50% is generally spent alone unless one of my friends is free which is rare. Been single for like a yr and I'm not even trying to date, dating scene is weird and I wanna work on myself before I even feel like I'm ready cus im not trying to go through this again. And by today's standards I have "nothing to offer"😅.
Hey kings, stay strong my brothers focus on that lil one, these broads out here by the bunch don’t even worry about it. Your lady is on her way, just make sure you’re ready when she arrives. Was single for 5 years before my lady came through. Stay strong kings
@@gimmieyogrits we just all in the same boat trynna make it fellas. I spend my time alone also , self improving, I wanna start travelling more . It might be possible to find meaningful relationships elsewhere where it’s means something 💯 stay strong guys, & let’s keep being great examples for our sons and daughters
Yeah dude I feel you, been a single mom for 6 years now, tried dating for the past 3 and it only gave me more PTSD, with my schedule I could only do online dating..my gosh never again. Most guys who are brave enough to talk to me only want one thing and it hurts..I'm an Eastern European girl who just wants to take care and love my man and not be used. I'm getting used to the idea of dying alone. Rough out there indeed my friend .
I doubt you guys will see this, but I just want to give you a thank you for encouraging me to be more open-minded in my beliefs and try to understand various perspectives that differ from mine. I may not agree with everything you guys say, but I've developed as a thinker from watching your videos, so thank you.
I am grateful for their videos too. Even if I do enjoy astrology. 😂 These guys are great and I love how much varying topics they cover and how balanced they are in their topics.
oi big up for this comment and your perspective. What you have a written is a perspective that enables evolution and change. May you become empowered and excited and continue to grow and contribute to yourself and the world, stay open, not so open that your head falls out, but just enough for all the good stuff to get in
"I don't like you." She wasn't saying that to him, she just didn't realize in time that he took it that way. She was narrating what she assumed his thoughts were toward his ex when they were forced to spend time together quarantining.
Think like what? That IR dating is an abomination or that black couples shouldn't seek affirmation with each other after centuries of being stripped of their culture and humanity.
@@desecration171 Uh, how exactly does 'being stripped of their culture and humanity' apply to black individuals in this day and age? This ain't the 1800s, let alone the 1960s, buddy. You got some underlying issues if that is the first thing you think about when it comes to dating people from specific ethnic backgrounds in the 2020s. If you're black and want to date black people, go ahead, but why do you feel the need to bring in your ancestors as the sole reason as to why you date people within the same ethnic background? That's weird to me. To be honest, you're clearly not ready for dating and need to mature before you even consider it if that's what your basing your preferences on. Again, weird.
@@mosdef6209 Guys like this confuse me. Same thing with racists. You really never thought another person outside of your own race was attractive? Yeah right. Id have a really hard time sticking to only one race to date
9:25 When Aba started going off and Preach started looking at him like wtf you can't say that great moment 😂😂😂 Understandable we love to see Black Love 👏🏾
Love to see Black Love? He was joking bruh 💀 as a black man I’m ashamed of all this bs the black community trying to force on me to date black women, I need me a fine Latina lol
The thing with single parents is you no longer have the fear of the relationship going south because it already happened to you at least once. That sense of entitlement of "this has to be the perfect match" is mostly gone and you are now ready to settle for a 7/10 since you know the cards you've been dealt ain't good enough for that 10/10 no more.
100% agree, but I think there's still a certain number of people, I think mainly women who still have that sense of entitlement because they're allowed to have it.
Then , I sure hope single parent only are interested in other single parent, how do you think it make someone feel if they know you consider them a second ( at best) choice for a partner ? I hope I m not too blunt but being good enough is a sucky thing to feel, if the other person know about it.
11:30 yep I'm also very glad they both share the same sentiments on that topic. I have a dad who's brought in a stepmom since I was 12, broke up after 4 years, and has been with 4 different stepmoms right after. all of them got turns and were brought in our house to live in, including their children. as I child/teen I had no words to express the lack of respect I was feeling. our mom passed away when I was 9, and this is how HER house is being trampled on by my dad bringing in new moms every year. I wish both parties respected their children's needs and wishes like these two do. 11:17.
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this episode, even with the dog guy he was the odd one out in that sense. Him and that woman talking about "you're not being honest" and "you call her the baby momma, red flag" belong together for sure, but all the other people were very sensible, direct, respectful, forward, honest, and understood what each other wanted. So cool seeing people click and have chemistry, big W to all those people in this video who did that.
It made me really happy when Preach knew who Serj Tankian was, and it made me even happier that he knew a song other than Chop Suey to back up his knowledge of System of a Down🤘
The way Preach was jumping in made it seem so script😂. But i watch them enough to know how good that chemistry was. The zoom ins on his face was priceless
Bro, you 2 are so real. I'm so glad I found you. In this crazy world, hearing someone keeping it real and not only that, being smart, moral, attentive to detail, have self respect and a proper intuition for people . Damn, you found each other so well. Great combo. Appreciate you 2 Also, damn, Aba is like freakin Nostradamus sometimes, having this mega wild guesses turn out correctly, so funny.
Glad we’re getting more of this kind of content! I miss seeing these types of videos more. You guys have valuable insights I on the darker topics you’ve been covering more often lately that I think is valuable for people to hear, so do your thing. But I miss this type of stuff in this video being more of the focus of the channel.
A lot of single people have this bright, shiny, happy outlook on dating until we get rejected enough that we have to rethink what’s important. For many single people right now, one of the biggest issues is people actually trying to change and learn and be realistic. I’ve been having to do that since my college years but the single scene has actually gotten worse.
Most of us what both the look and personality in a partner. Which is not bad thing however people start going into hair, hair color, skin color, eye color, butt size, muscle size, dick size, breast size.... etc. All I can say is the moment you start caring about such specific things that's how you know you going to be single for awhile before you actually settle down. Since general someone that looks good and good personality should be enough, specific details shouldn't be a deal breaker.
He probably said baby mama because he knows this will be public and its rude to put her name out there. Not to mention a lot of people say that instead of my ex out of respect since it's a far more important relationship than just an ex. She was reading too deep because she's the one with serious problems with her baby daddy.
I accepted my baldness at 21/22 and just shaved my head and left my beard 😂😂😂 I used to be the guy that just wore a beanie too until my friends roasted me for it, then I realized. I definitely relate to the “smell of head” in a hat you wear all day every day 😂😂 I feel like I look better with a clean head rather than people seeing where my hairline starts and assuming I was in my 30s when I’m in my early 20s 😂😂😂😂 2:31
Balding in your early 20s. I'm so sorry for your loss, I might be going down the same path to be honest, my hair is already majorly thinned out. I stopped losing any once I started eating better and used better shampoo/conditioner. Are you sure you went bald because of early balding or were you just not taking good care of yourself?
@@spartansquid5931 two both of you brothers, what I will say in general for men your hair doesn't matter. As long as you work on your body, like make sure you are fit and take good care of your hygiene and skin then I promise most people will give no shit about your bald head. Now if you don't like balding for personal reasons, then I definitely sympathize, but if worried about your dating experience then definitely don't. A man does not need hair unless you going for girls with children mindsets. Like I tell most guys, just no matter what do not let yourself have a dad bod, be fat, or just look to flabby when you are young. Only guys with handsome faces can get away with being even somewhat out of shape. Also hygiene #1 , like if you are very hygienic thats an immediate turn on for many.
@@bunnyrabi I do have a handsome face, but I couldn't become fat even if I wanted to, for now at least my metabolism is top-tier and I do cardio semi-regularly. I hear dad-bods are actually pretty popular among women though. I've got really long hair, and I'm a metalhead, so I'd rather not lose it, it's just part of my image at this point. I appreciate you trying to cheer me up just in case!
Being a participant of The Button is like a speedrun to ruining your day and confidence
😂😂😂😂 its everything but the goal of dating☠️
Why would anybody go on this ? Why? This generation is such trash.
Bro
Bro why do I see you all over the place on TH-cam. I see you in every comment section I look at bro.
@@liamflanagan490 bot to boost interaction to help algorithm
I am convinced that The Button is an ongoing social experiment in seeing how far people are willing to embarrass themselves
Those damn aliens are doing it again!😑
It shows me how people would rather be the rejector than rejected.
I think American idol did that way better it almost all of our reality TV people are quick to sell themselves out for a few dollars😂
Shows how liberals are two faced
Calling it a social experiment would be giving them too much credit 😂😂
Mfers just like drama. Drama is trendy. That’s it
The dog guy absolutely deserved that lmao. Coming on a single parent dating show was WILD
Charles Manson lookin mfer
And the way he holds his head is weird 😂
Lmao.😭 how the head was hanging said it all
@@talyahr3302 I agree now that you mention it but y’all sound insecure af judging that kinda thing 😂
@@talyahr3302 I agree now that you mention it but y’all sound insecure af judging that kinda thing 😂
I think I can speak for most men when I say we do not give a damn about astrology. In fact, when a woman starts talking about that and asking whats our sign, its a massive turn off!
Your not wrong 😂 and it just makes no sense
Shit I use it to my advantage. I study it just to shift it around to my favor
@@clearminddarkthoughts5477 Honestly I cant even be mad at that. Work smarter, not harder, right? lol
Everybody got an "astrology" some people call it Jesus.
Fr its a red flag imo
"95% of people I dislike like astrology for some reason,
and then the other 5% are Ethan Klein"
- Aba 2023
That was great😂
I'm shocked it wasn't ethan klein and fresh n fit 😂
So we can conclude Aba doesn’t like 20 people in total, which is kinda small amount of people to not like.
@@Artem6669111 or, Ethan is fat as hell
@@NotAdultingToday fresh and fit are into male astrology no?
5:56 🙋♀️ Black (mixed) woman here and i completely agree, the “I dont like you” threw me off so bad i thought she was joking. What an ego. The guy seems way more honest and assured in himself than she does lol
maybe she has autism? honestly
I hate how sometimes people make us believe that we can say anything because this is a "safe space", but inside they are dying to judge you.
I have only seen people doing that when they want tea on a person to weaponize it.
Yeah, no, it's absolutely stupid that this man literally called his PET a CHILD, especially to a woman who's a mother on a dating show for single parents, c'mon now 😂
He deserved to be judged for that
The second someone says this is a safe space I no longer feel safe
One of many concepts that have been ruined by modern conceit.
Aba: *says some messed up shit*
Preach: You can't say that.
Aba: *continues*
Preach: you can't say that!
It was preach's eyes that do it for me..they screamed WTF 😂😂😂😂
@@chumbo8032 aba has a little bit of ego... I know it cuz it's from my DNA in my eastern African, Ethiopian side... yeah it's ugly.
LOL
Thanks, we saw the video 💀
@@cryptogofer3080 recaps are totally normal. Get off me lol.
This is my favorite episode from A&P... That rant Aba went on with Preach jumping in, saying things like "you can't call them Gypsies anymore" was funny af 😂😂😂.
When did Preach become a racist?
@@nr1NPC hes not a racist😂
@@HammersOverStrikers It seems so!
@@nr1NPC he is making fun of those who subscribe to those beliefs.
@@HammersOverStrikers He got lowkey mad that Aba called a black woman a b*tch. But he wouldn't bat an eye if Aba said it about a white woman....... hmm.......
"Wakanda don't exist, what are you doing?" Preach comments got me howlin'. Thank you Preach for being the best straight man in the goofiest sounding rant Aba has ever tried to wind up.
that bit was fire
Preach was a phenomenal straight man for that bit. 😂
It was hilarious
This bit was the most hilarious thing ever
It was satire bro how you not catch that lol
the irony of astrology girl getting upset when the dude used astrology to reject her.
Heh... women.
@@shadowsintox9 lmao
@@shadowsintox9 ☕
The irony is when she told the guy he has trauma when she herself is a walking trauma
@@shadowsintox9 it’s not only women into astrology
I enjoyed the matched couple discussing the boundaries they set for their partners with meeting their kids. Very open, very honest, very mature, and a breath of fresh air to see on this usually extremely vapid "game." My mom was a widow with a 12 year old and she explained right off the bat that "my kids and I are a packaged deal." The man she met understood, acknowledged, and respected her terms. They'll be together 18 years in November.
"Wakanda don't exist, what are you doing?" Had me rolling 🤣 😂 you guys are great, keep up the fantastic content!
Dude with the dog is killing me.... I have dogs and I love them and refer to them as my furbabies. But never in all my years of dog ownership would I have considered myself a single parent! (And I am one now, so I KNOW the difference!!!)
Fucking hilarious he said that 😂😂😂
That was definitely set up 😂😂
Hahaha someone help that man!!
I love pets, I have a dog and a cat but I'm also a father and being a parent is not the same as having pets. People like that dude get on my nerves.
Thank you bc society cares more about pets than actual people these days, it’s sickening.
NEVER trust anyone who says "this is a safe space"
Its the new version of "you can be emotionally vulnerable and if its weird, I can and will judge you for it"
Nah weirdo homie went on a single parent dating show as a "dog parent" he definitely had that coming.
Nah bro, this case is an exception. Bro brought in the "it's complicated" energy but his child is a dawg 💀. Shut that shit off.
I’m everything that Aba roasts regularly
I’m a white girl
I’m American
And I’m a virgin
But at least I’m not into astrology
At least you got a W.
1-3 not the worst.
Astrology will kill any relationship
All that's missing is blue hair and pronouns
Thank goodness you’re not in to astrology,I personally don’t understand and don’t want to understand
pretty based i gotta say
I love how Preach keeps trying to reign in Aba when he goes off on his tangents. He sees ALL the demonitizations, the cancel crew coming for them and Aba is just rolling down that "Don't give a Heck" hill. Its hilarious!
As a halfbreed I am quiet often confused how to cross streets so I approve 😂😅
😂🤣
@Mal Theri True
And black people put mixed people on a pedestal because of colorism, so I guess it’s in your best interest to “go where you’re appreciated”.
@@frenchgirl5878 Idk where this comes from. As a mixed dude who knows other mixed ppl, we’re treated like abominations. Well at least the mixed men, maybe not the women.
As a crisscross person, I completely understand that no matter who I hang with, I'll never truly be one side or the other, but I'm cool just being invited to the cookout or the brunch.
We got to eat too ☯️
When did Preach become a racist?
He is obviously joking….
You're not one side or the other. You're both sides. Both sides! Why is that so hard for people to understand? How is it not obvious?
Why do people have such a strong need to identify with a skin color? .__.
@Treacherous J Slither I get where you're coming from, but during my younger years, I wasn't accepted, just tolerated, so that's why I look at it the way I do.
the first black girl was definitely projecting with her own baby daddy issues 💀💀 both of the guys she talked to were hella chill but she found problems regardless. The audacity to call the tatted one traumatized too 🤦🏽♀️ but i bet if the first guy said that when she rejected him it’d start an argument… she’s the red flag yall
they always bring her back and she's always a pain to witness, every single time
@@diegodevitti2105 that is likely why they bring her back.
The black girl saying " I don't like you" out of nowhere, got me flustered.
This why Aba n Preach's observation skills help a great deal. I would have never understood myself why she suddenly turned cold
That was …… insane 😐
Funny how women go off on men who get upset when rejected but don’t say anything when a women is rude to a man who is trying to impress her
I feel like she was finishing the guys sentence. He was talking about being forced together during Covid and then you find out, and she says "I don't like you".
@@ATLMike94 I thought that too but then he sort of clarified with her and it was like whoa that was quick
she was saying what he and the mother of his child were saying once they had to be around each other during covid
The first couple was the most wholesome thing I've seen on any of the buttons. They both seemed like genuine, real, decent people.
Kids are less judgemental because they haven't learned to recognize warning signs and they're trying to push boundaries to find out where they are. Kids are also extremely selfish and prone to lashing out and/or crying when they don't get their way.
Love is love, let people love who they want,
Water is water, so why don’t you drink from the toilet…
You can add big ass kids 18 thru 35 are also extremely selfish and prone to lashing out and or crying when they don't get their way. It's a new world.
@@geewalker2015I guess you missed Aba and Preach’a last video if you think this is a generational or age group problem.
@@geewalker2015 😂😂😂😂😂 only the one who cry to much is the lgbt and the soft ass generation we have now.
Infants, just a few days of age, are known to prefer conventionally attractive faces.
"You're a comedian? Tell a joke!"
is the same as "You're a waitress? Get me a sandwich"
Lol
I much prefer "You're a comedian? How many jokes do you know"
Why do people do that?? Like being funny has to come naturally or with a specific atmosphere.
Like yea I'm a psychologist; I'm not gonna therapy you in a bar.
Etc
@@Aliyaaaa Because they're stupid
Same energy as "Oh you're an artist, draw me"
I think the reason why we got that much success in thia episode was the directness, knowing what they want and actually asking questions that could help them understand the other person better. All those factors I feel like come with more experience you get especially as an adult (not to mention if you got kids).
Unlike the usual younger participants we usually see on the button.
Bruh, Preach commenting during Aba's diatribe got me crying 😂. That was gold.
lol right? That was f'ing hilarious!
I nearly choked on my dinner during that
It was too perfect,
I almost spat out my drink,that was too funny 🤣
"This is a safe space." [Presses the button]
Love you videos keep up the work
"and you're not welcome in it."
Insane red flag
So that was a damn lie.
The person who allowed this man in is evil 🤣 Totally deserved
Aba's rant was soo funny and then Preach trying to rein him in, they truly work so well together. Even if I had an option to visit their separate stand ups, after watching them together for so long, it just wouldn't be the same
I feel like the single parents were actually more open to the idea of bonding with someone there but were honest enough to admit it if they didn't click with the other person
Lol they better be
They don't have time to waste with the games
They been there, and been burnt
That first dude was goofy as hell
Surprised as they clearly were a bad judge of character the first time around
This racial slam had me in tears 😂😂😂 I practiced it all lol that scene is staying rent free in my head
Replay value!!!
I don’t know why but I always felt like people I just met telling me "this is a safe space" were not trustworthy. Why should I feel safe with a stranger?
As a mutt, I'm highly offended that Aba made me relive my high school experience of figuring out where to hang out before 1st period class started.
This🎉
Ah.
Find the ambiguous Latinos. Works every time.
lol real shit same
I was in the library HAHA
I don’t blame her. People that call their pets their children are insane.
My cat is my sister, is that the same?
They sure are. I've yet to meet a dog mom that's not absolutely nuts.
It's a white people thing .They love their dogs in a unhealthy way.
@@mattb6646 Someone once said to me "You must be busy now that you're a mom" I was so confused. Turns out they called me a mom cause I got a puppy. It's becoming a normalized term, but it will also be weird to me when someone calls me a mom cause I have a dog, I hate being called a mom and I will never understand it.
@JaneFellDownAgain it just feels like they are over compensating. We all love our pets and most people treat them well. It's like someone telling you what a nice person they are, and usually aren't. If you have to advertise something normal that all adults are expected to do, you got an issue
Preach went into “you can’t say that” mode when Aba was dropping bars. Classic!
I fuckin died as Preach was like “You can’t say that no more” Preach tryna protect your video and watching the chaos unfold 🤣🤣🤣
Women don’t like black men
The rant that aba did and preach trying to keep him straight was amazing! I was laughing so hard that it brought tears in my eyes. I replayed that video clip at least 5 times. Thanks for the laugh, I really needed it today. U guys are awesome! That's coming from a Latin taco selling brother :)
Omgosh, I LOVED that part! I died! XD
My stomach be hurting 😂😂😂😂
He should have edited down preach and put him on his shoulder
These Pan-African Spoken Word segments are outrageous, I’m all here for it 😂
"You understand the joke, but the frog dies."
That made me laugh like hell
2:14 “you haven’t accepted your baldness, how are you gonna accept someone else’s child” truer words have never been spoken, and that’s coming from a bald man! 😂
Of course it fucking is!!! 😂😂😂
@6:15 “a crown because my mom raised a king” more like raised a Latin King lmao
And this nigga got on a White Sox hat, definitely a Chicagoan.
@jash21222 That doesn't mean anything.
ohh damnn, for a second when she said "i actually don't like you" I thought she was carrying on his sentence, like when covid hit and you have to spend time with someone and you realise "i actually don't like you" lmao.
Me too😂 I got scared after a second
Yeah I was hoping she was just completing his sentence, nah, she’s just a bully :/
She was thinking of herself while he was talking. Tone-deaf to those around her.
I thought that, too, that lady needs therapy.
As a single dad, I only have 50% of my time available as a single person. Of course I’m not going to waste it dating carelessly.
Which in today’s world means not dating at all apparently… It’s rough out here. Watch who you have kids with & don’t take your good relationships for granted!
Dude same and that 50% is generally spent alone unless one of my friends is free which is rare. Been single for like a yr and I'm not even trying to date, dating scene is weird and I wanna work on myself before I even feel like I'm ready cus im not trying to go through this again. And by today's standards I have "nothing to offer"😅.
Hey kings, stay strong my brothers focus on that lil one, these broads out here by the bunch don’t even worry about it. Your lady is on her way, just make sure you’re ready when she arrives. Was single for 5 years before my lady came through. Stay strong kings
Why you at like this information is new we know about this 5000 years ago it's just that you didn't get the news
@@gimmieyogrits we just all in the same boat trynna make it fellas. I spend my time alone also , self improving, I wanna start travelling more . It might be possible to find meaningful relationships elsewhere where it’s means something 💯 stay strong guys, & let’s keep being great examples for our sons and daughters
Yeah dude I feel you, been a single mom for 6 years now, tried dating for the past 3 and it only gave me more PTSD, with my schedule I could only do online dating..my gosh never again. Most guys who are brave enough to talk to me only want one thing and it hurts..I'm an Eastern European girl who just wants to take care and love my man and not be used. I'm getting used to the idea of dying alone. Rough out there indeed my friend .
I believed in innocent until proven guilty; Then I saw the first dude and feel like we could make an exception
I love how Preach was making jokes and remarks that weren't landing with Aba, but Aba just ignored and moved on😂😂😂
That was on purpose, good bit 😂
I doubt you guys will see this, but I just want to give you a thank you for encouraging me to be more open-minded in my beliefs and try to understand various perspectives that differ from mine. I may not agree with everything you guys say, but I've developed as a thinker from watching your videos, so thank you.
I am grateful for their videos too. Even if I do enjoy astrology. 😂
These guys are great and I love how much varying topics they cover and how balanced they are in their topics.
Good for you, hope you continue in your pursuit of intellectual diversity while still holding onto your core principles 👍
They might not see this but we see it and we feel it too.
they will see it. and good for you :)
oi big up for this comment and your perspective. What you have a written is a perspective that enables evolution and change. May you become empowered and excited and continue to grow and contribute to yourself and the world, stay open, not so open that your head falls out, but just enough for all the good stuff to get in
"I don't like you."
She wasn't saying that to him, she just didn't realize in time that he took it that way. She was narrating what she assumed his thoughts were toward his ex when they were forced to spend time together quarantining.
I know Aba is joking about the interracial thing but the fact that people actually think like that it sad.
Whats even more sad is they're _low IQ_ and cant change that. Yikes 🤣
Think like what? That IR dating is an abomination or that black couples shouldn't seek affirmation with each other after centuries of being stripped of their culture and humanity.
@@desecration171 Uh, how exactly does 'being stripped of their culture and humanity' apply to black individuals in this day and age? This ain't the 1800s, let alone the 1960s, buddy. You got some underlying issues if that is the first thing you think about when it comes to dating people from specific ethnic backgrounds in the 2020s. If you're black and want to date black people, go ahead, but why do you feel the need to bring in your ancestors as the sole reason as to why you date people within the same ethnic background? That's weird to me. To be honest, you're clearly not ready for dating and need to mature before you even consider it if that's what your basing your preferences on. Again, weird.
@@mosdef6209 Guys like this confuse me. Same thing with racists. You really never thought another person outside of your own race was attractive? Yeah right. Id have a really hard time sticking to only one race to date
He ain't joking
Aba turned out today! As a mixed race person that yelled out "yeesssss" while laughing hard out when he said "listen mutts". You made my day😆🤣😂
Me too hahahaha fuckin love his rants dude so damn funny
Hahaha me too. I prefer to call myself a cocktail though. A pina colada 😂
It's funny Ethiopians are mixed too 😂 so he talking about himself there too lol.
@@admirekashiri9879stop with this bs no they’re not y’all are weird af
9:40 this whole sequence had me week. “Calm the fuck down” “we can’t say gypsies no more””we can’t say that” “Muts? Half breeds?” I can’t with y’all
9:25 When Aba started going off and Preach started looking at him like wtf you can't say that great moment 😂😂😂
Understandable we love to see Black Love 👏🏾
Had me dying 😂😂😂
Peak commedy😂
My favorite part, of this episode. 😂 Preach reacting to it, just icing on the cake.
Love to see Black Love? He was joking bruh 💀 as a black man I’m ashamed of all this bs the black community trying to force on me to date black women, I need me a fine Latina lol
Bruh his ass was joking😂
You stupid asf ngl💀
9:20 Preach is an excellent straight man when Aba goes about with his antics. Aba's whole tangent got me hollerin💀
Preach making the Serg/toxicity/system of a down reference is so gangster. 😂
The thing with single parents is you no longer have the fear of the relationship going south because it already happened to you at least once. That sense of entitlement of "this has to be the perfect match" is mostly gone and you are now ready to settle for a 7/10 since you know the cards you've been dealt ain't good enough for that 10/10 no more.
cooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooope lmao I'm just joking good point
100% agree, but I think there's still a certain number of people, I think mainly women who still have that sense of entitlement because they're allowed to have it.
What is a 10/10
Then , I sure hope single parent only are interested in other single parent, how do you think it make someone feel if they know you consider them a second ( at best) choice for a partner ?
I hope I m not too blunt but being good enough is a sucky thing to feel, if the other person know about it.
But imagine… that 6 guy maybe over joyed that this woman has lowered her standards a bit bc in reality he never stood a 10/10 chance.
The impromptu spoken word pieces by Aba cracks me up every time!
11:30 yep I'm also very glad they both share the same sentiments on that topic. I have a dad who's brought in a stepmom since I was 12, broke up after 4 years, and has been with 4 different stepmoms right after. all of them got turns and were brought in our house to live in, including their children. as I child/teen I had no words to express the lack of respect I was feeling. our mom passed away when I was 9, and this is how HER house is being trampled on by my dad bringing in new moms every year.
I wish both parties respected their children's needs and wishes like these two do. 11:17.
Preach replying to Aba on his 'Umar rant' is HILARIOUS 😂😅😂😂😂
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this episode, even with the dog guy he was the odd one out in that sense. Him and that woman talking about "you're not being honest" and "you call her the baby momma, red flag" belong together for sure, but all the other people were very sensible, direct, respectful, forward, honest, and understood what each other wanted. So cool seeing people click and have chemistry, big W to all those people in this video who did that.
2 oddballs together is just asking for a nuke together. Please, for the love of god, do not bring those 2 together lol
"Wakanda don't exist fuck is you doin?" I'm *DECEASED*
It made me really happy when Preach knew who Serj Tankian was, and it made me even happier that he knew a song other than Chop Suey to back up his knowledge of System of a Down🤘
Ironic, because the button is an example of prime Toxicity. 😄
Same!
Great moment
@@V4Now nice!
was even funnier when Aba looked at him like WTF
I always cackle so hard when Aba goes off on his Hotep slam-poetry rants and Preach does his best to deal with the foolishness! 🤦🏽♀🤣😂
It's been too long since we last got some spoken word bars from Aba. Welcome back my lyrically renowned, rhythmically endowed, Ethiopian brother.
LOL AYO AS A "HALF-BREED- IM FINNA MARRY A SNOW BUNNY JUST TO SPITE YOU ABA.
🤣🤣😅
Her: “So what made you ask me out”
You: “I’m just tryna spite Aba 🤷🏽♀️ you down?” 😂😂😂
😂😂 my goodness
You 'boutta get pinned
I’m already on my way there 😈😈
Actually based take
" I guarantee that a black woman is watching this and they can say this woman is being a bitch" he's damn right lmaooo
I second that!
I third that shit!!
But why th?
"I have a 17yr old non-binary"
I would have buzzed. Waayyy too much baggage there.
" bro you haven't even accepted your baldness how you gonna accept someone else's child" 😂😂😂😂
0:29 The way her smile just melts away
The way Preach was jumping in made it seem so script😂. But i watch them enough to know how good that chemistry was. The zoom ins on his face was priceless
i love when aba tries to be cringy, it's kinda weirdly wholesome.
Bro, you 2 are so real. I'm so glad I found you. In this crazy world, hearing someone keeping it real and not only that, being smart, moral, attentive to detail, have self respect and a proper intuition for people . Damn, you found each other so well. Great combo. Appreciate you 2
Also, damn, Aba is like freakin Nostradamus sometimes, having this mega wild guesses turn out correctly, so funny.
7:28 " it's ok baby, you're traumatized".. 🦅🦅📢
Shout out to the creaky floor for providing a score to Aba monologue. -snaps in succession-
Glad we’re getting more of this kind of content! I miss seeing these types of videos more. You guys have valuable insights I on the darker topics you’ve been covering more often lately that I think is valuable for people to hear, so do your thing. But I miss this type of stuff in this video being more of the focus of the channel.
1:24 LOOKIN AT LIFE THROUGH THE EYES OF A TIRE HUUUUUUB
This is my favorite episode of the button! It was refreshing to see some reasonable people for a change.
A lot of single people have this bright, shiny, happy outlook on dating until we get rejected enough that we have to rethink what’s important. For many single people right now, one of the biggest issues is people actually trying to change and learn and be realistic. I’ve been having to do that since my college years but the single scene has actually gotten worse.
Most of us what both the look and personality in a partner. Which is not bad thing however people start going into hair, hair color, skin color, eye color, butt size, muscle size, dick size, breast size.... etc. All I can say is the moment you start caring about such specific things that's how you know you going to be single for awhile before you actually settle down. Since general someone that looks good and good personality should be enough, specific details shouldn't be a deal breaker.
@@bunnyrabi I agree. And it’s those things that shouldn’t make this seem so difficult but it can.
4:26 wasn’t she saying “I dont like you” as in completing his sentence- the context of the story he was telling
Lmao 🤣🤣 Aba's a straight fool and I'm here for it! He says "Mish mash criss cross" 😭😭 when you're too much but just enough at the same time lol
As a Zulu girl that black love rap was hilarious 😂😂
South Africa represent 🇿🇦
Ngihlekeni.. HEBE!!!!!!
Funniest part is his girl IS white.
Eww Zulus
@@artair70 Ayo? 😂
And Preach took that personally LOL
Aba was having a BLAST on this episode! Preach was the sensible one this time and that shit was FUNNY AS HELL, yo! 🤣🤣🤣
As a Half-Breed, Mutt, Mulatto; I approve this message.
Black Love🖤
*"Pick a side" love.
@@unknowjlm what does that even mean lol.
@@samstits8982 IT MEANS PICK A SIDDEEEE!😂😂😂😂
@@samstits8982 PICK A SIDE AND stay THERE.
Reiterating the statement doesn't answer it bro.
This chick just got rejected by her sign. Way to turn the tables, king.
“She got the face of someone who got cheated on.”
Aba's joke is so true for many black families. If you don't marry the same race your basically exiled lol
And yet black families are not the worse compared to others
Oh my friend, that's even worse in other races/ethnicities. They just have to swallow it in many cases.
Mainly with low IQ black families, pretty much any low IQ family regardless of race though.
Nothing to miss
@@huldah1605 I mean they’re pretty bad, only Asian families tend to be worse
Preach searching for where Aba's speech is going had me in tears 🤣 10:08
Preach is a System of a Down fan confirmed?!?!?
Oh man. I think this gonna be a train wreck of a video 😂
Edit: this was wholesome
Everytime
how did you comment 4 days ago if the video was uploaded 9 mins ago? :|
Only wholesome because having little people that are always going to be prettier than you…. Does something, forces you to grow up
@@coleslift patreon
@@thiernosow11 ohhh wtf. so they just private the video for the subscribers? Honestly kinda worth the $ then lol
the Serj tankian reference was unexpected but mf perfect lmao
Didn't expect Preach to like SOAD😂
Preach being the straight man for Aba's dub poetry is gold
As a half breed I take this mishmash with gratitude and laughter 😂.
He probably said baby mama because he knows this will be public and its rude to put her name out there. Not to mention a lot of people say that instead of my ex out of respect since it's a far more important relationship than just an ex. She was reading too deep because she's the one with serious problems with her baby daddy.
" they're just walking on the streets till they get hit by a car by themselves " 😆😄
It seems like once you go through the ringer, relationship/children/co-parenting wise, you know not to jump into bs so quickly.
The ones that learn from it.
He kinda deserved it though. Owning a dog IS NOT like having a child.
Hilarious that they invited a dog owner on a single parents edition episode 😂 “when she cries I can just throw my baby in a cage its great”
I accepted my baldness at 21/22 and just shaved my head and left my beard 😂😂😂 I used to be the guy that just wore a beanie too until my friends roasted me for it, then I realized. I definitely relate to the “smell of head” in a hat you wear all day every day 😂😂 I feel like I look better with a clean head rather than people seeing where my hairline starts and assuming I was in my 30s when I’m in my early 20s 😂😂😂😂 2:31
Balding in your early 20s. I'm so sorry for your loss, I might be going down the same path to be honest, my hair is already majorly thinned out. I stopped losing any once I started eating better and used better shampoo/conditioner. Are you sure you went bald because of early balding or were you just not taking good care of yourself?
@@spartansquid5931 two both of you brothers, what I will say in general for men your hair doesn't matter. As long as you work on your body, like make sure you are fit and take good care of your hygiene and skin then I promise most people will give no shit about your bald head.
Now if you don't like balding for personal reasons, then I definitely sympathize, but if worried about your dating experience then definitely don't. A man does not need hair unless you going for girls with children mindsets.
Like I tell most guys, just no matter what do not let yourself have a dad bod, be fat, or just look to flabby when you are young. Only guys with handsome faces can get away with being even somewhat out of shape. Also hygiene #1 , like if you are very hygienic thats an immediate turn on for many.
@@bunnyrabi I do have a handsome face, but I couldn't become fat even if I wanted to, for now at least my metabolism is top-tier and I do cardio semi-regularly. I hear dad-bods are actually pretty popular among women though. I've got really long hair, and I'm a metalhead, so I'd rather not lose it, it's just part of my image at this point. I appreciate you trying to cheer me up just in case!
@@spartansquid5931 no its my genes. my dads got it, his brothers got it, my moms bothers got it, and so do my older and younger brothers LMFAOOO
Preach’s face because of Aba this whole video has me rolling 😂 he’s so done
My standards are low . . . But not that low 😂😂😂😂😂
10:06 best part of a Jubilee video Preach with the funniest reactions and Aba talking out his @ss XD
My god. My friends set me up with someone in highschool. They told her I was funny and she basically used me as a conduit for entertainment.