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@@SolidSnake240 You just made that up. The fact is, buzzing him off was the only rational choice. She is there to meet someone. He doesn't want her. She'd be stupid to just sit there and wait for him to buzz her off
She wanted to proactively reject him so he didn’t have the opportunity to do it first. A lot of unattractive/overweight women do it so they can get the upper hand and claim they rejected the other person first and don’t have to experience the rejection themselves.
@@elan8213 that is 100% self-sabotage and needs to be fixed immediately by the individual. They already don’t work out/don’t watch what they eat. Where are all these men that LIKE big women? You think women like her could manifest these men, or at least assume the guy in front of them is one of those men
@@elan8213 I've noticed that many also post things publicly to show how much they reject men or how picky they are, to try to make up for their own insecurity for being rejected by so many men. It's not really helping them though, they really need to address this within themselves.
oh man. Just want to say you guys saved me today. 58 year old bloke, UK, mentally broken at the mo but watched all of this and it totally lifted me man. You two flippin rock. Thanks
60 year old woman in the UK, mentally broken too, pleased to meet you!. It's hard to keep your sanity in this shit hole at the moment. Obviously I don't know your personal circumstances, but try keep your chin up and glad you got a lift watching this.
What’s funny is the big girl really might’ve played herself. At no point did he say he wasn’t interested in her. When the button turned red, he didn’t move a muscle. The question was “is she someone you would usually date?” He said no. That doesn’t mean he wasn’t interested in dating her. And of course, he didn’t even get to explain why she’s not someone he would typically date. He could’ve also been explaining why he wanted to try something different with her. She rejected herself. And then got buzzed in no time because of her sign 😂😂😂😂
@@noctusvolpes def didn’t get that vibe. He was clearly highly bothered with her appearance. And was simultaneously feeling much regret from kissing this wide body woman.
@@DefenderOfTheEnd He wasn't. It's highly likely he might have tried a date. Not sure about a relationship in the long run, but that might have been down to her self-consciousness more than anything else.
As an ex-actor myself, Aba is 100% correct. I went to college for that shit and everyone in class was a complete wacko. Pronouns, casual trauma talk, self-absorbed personalities. I almost fell down that hole myself and nearly became exactly what Aba is describing. If you want to be an actor, know when to shut it off and don’t make it your whole identity. You’ll end up crazy, jobless, and very disliked. It’s a beautiful art form, but be mature enough to understand it’s just a job and not a way of life.
@@Vashthestampede967 Find a hobby or passion to ground yourself in outside of those people. Work out, read, do model trains, WHATEVER, as long as it totally separates you from that entire group of people. The moment you are full-dive interacting with them 24-7 is the moment you start to loose yourself.
One thing that people don't say about actors is that their job is to lie, and to lie convincingly. Knowing that, I think I'd have a hard time fully trusting an actor.
The first guy was probably the nicest and most honest person I’ve seen on this. He probably wasn’t even gonna press the button on her after saying she wasn’t his type but she just automatically assumed and put her own insecurities on him.
she did the right thing. He was obviously not attracted to her (to not say repulsed). What does she get from staling another minute or two for the same outcome? Im confused that people seem to think only the more attractiv part is allowed to press the button
@@pingu6028 I'm confused that people blame her insecurities like really? I would press the button if I was looked at that way he was clearly disappointed.
First guy is a true speaker, the way he doesn’t care to throw his accomplishments and lead risky conversation light heartedly is something that jus started clicking with me… his humorous tone/delivery carried a lot of that from cringe to just flat out blind dating and getting to know someone tbh
Females hate rejection. That is why they refuse to walk up to a man and ask for a number, even if they would be super attracted to the man. But down with the patriarchy !
Can’t believe she passed on turtleneck, honest, likes em naughty, scuba diving, good kissing dude just because he said he wouldn’t normally be into her. He didn’t say he wasn’t. He just said he wouldn’t normally.
She's fat, knows it, doesn't do anything about it, and wants someone who will ignore it like she has. She also looks for any pushback so that she can blame it on her size.
Nah I wouldn't trust "not normally". Doors open all over the relationship. Don't be a maybe or a second choice. Get with somebody that actually likes you.
Why settle for someone who told you flat out you're not their type? They're gonna compare you to everyone they are naturally into, and their attraction to you will be forced, or dependent on a few traits that can change. It's not worth it.
100%...I also got "you look better in person". And always appreciated that. Even my husband told me that he wasn't sure based on pictures before we met. People who make themselves look better in pictures have some insecurities imo. You guys are awesome and hysterical! Love this!
This! Nothing worse than being dolled up all the time in pics and ppl don’t even recommend you in person! Same with those who get dolled up everyday then look the same when a special occasion or event rolls around…. No extra wow factor bc they’re always extra.
A big part of it, in my opinion, is my personality too. I’ve had people tell me that I was charming and that they didn’t really find me all that physically attractive at first, but once they met me and saw my personality, they fell in love. I absolutely agree with Aba. I undersell my looks online. I would much rather have someone be supersized than be catfished
Him stalling for time, was very smart. Basically he tested her, as in a game of chicken, and given how she had already shown her insecurity earlier, that was the best call he could've made. Also notice how he not only was honest, but also the question was "normally", meaning there's still room for exception implied, as he didn't actually reject her.
But as insecure as she is, even if they did start dating she would constantly be comparing herself to other women that he normally would date. He dodged a bullet. She's not ready
If I get rejected for my looks, being that I'm a big girl I'm not going to feel hurt over it. Take for example she found him "hot" There were aspects of him she instantly was attracted, physically. He's not into her appearance. SO WHAT? She should find someone who is into all of her. He was being genuine and didn't instantly wait for that button to turn red to tap her out. She's the one here who looks bad.
Everybody is free to reject another person for the look (one cannot say 'You MUST appreciate me') as there is no universal standard for beauty. The problem is rejecting someone ONLY for tiny flaws in the look, which is something rather superficial in my personal opinion. For instance, some girls get rejected because they have freckles (which are not even a flaw), that's why at least some of them try to cover them with tons of makeup
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)
@@AtheneHolder Hella late, but at least I'm there. Whoo hoo. But the date ones are funny but the ppl push the buzzer when they feel they're about to get buzzed.
Omg, that dude pressing the button over and over like an ejector seat once he heard the word "marriage" had me cracking up so hard I could barely breath!
Aba is right about the guys thinking their garbage. I had a lot of girls come up to me in school and flirt with me when i was just a emotionally sad/mad teenager and it still affects me to this day
Yeah, I went from being ugly/bullied in middle school to a few girls showing interest in me in high school/college. It never crossed my mind that I'd even be remotely attractive to anyone so I just distanced myself. I still feel that way but I'm getting better
@Dank Waifu after many girls started coming for me out of no where when I'm physically not that great it boosted my confidence, but I've been rejecting them since I feel nothing for them, I think it's more now that I'm no longer desperate people are attracted towards my direction, not me persae but a literal magnet type situation, it's weird.
@Dank Waifu so I suppose my advice is, just live life having fun, don't care about having a relationship and if you're desperate / wanting one just don't, and people will eventually appear. It doesn't make sense but that's how it is for me. I don't know if it applies to everything, obviously money won't appear in your bank account just because you're not desperate, but you may get it somehow.
@@jesusespinoza8467 you have misunderstood. OP is talking about the ability to read peoples motivations, lifestyles and thought processes with very little factual information.
I've definitely played into the low expectation thing. I rarely wear makeup and will show up to a first date without makeup (at most I might do spot coverage for blemishes) and i'll dress really casual, jeans and tshirt. If the date goes well then I'll put a bit more effort into looking cute on 2nd or 3rd date. If they're not interested in my most natural state why should I care to doll up? It makes it very easy to "impress" people when you surprise them when they've just been used to seeing your natural look, bags and all lol. I've literally gotten compliments all day when all I did was apply eye liner. Definitely boosts your confidence, but I'm not doing that every day. What a pita.
Oh I get you. I always have a natural photo on my dating profile. I don't know why people use filters or heavy makeup on all photos because that just leads to disappointment. I'd rather exceed then disappoint 😂
@@traceyevans2757 early 30's- mid, i'm married now so not sure where that puts my value in dating market lol. I'm introverted and I've always thought that men prefer the social butterfly so with everything else I would have thought I was average to a bit above for my substance. I'm independent and not high maintenence but for the superficial I'm average or below. But I was never interested in superficial so didn't matter to me. Above average to my husband :) And he's the social butterfly, I guess opposites attract a bit in our case.
If they happen to say something that could be considered bad they won’t just be considered a horrible person to the people at the studio they’ll considered that to this channel’s audience. People have been contacted after shows like this. You could also say it’s what they signed up for but maybe they wanted to try something new and fun they’re not going to necessarily think about the consequences.
Honestly that was my go to answer when I don't want to hurt someone's feeling in the past. However I realize recently, just be upfront before you go out and meet them. Don't bother giving someone a chance you are not attracted to, it rarely works out in a pure dating environment. Maybe it would work out if started as friends though
SO TRUE!!!! I almost didn't send my now husband a message on a dating site because I thought he was out of my league BUT I told myself F*CK IT the worse thing that can happen is that he doesn't respond or that he's super mean which in that case good riddance and we are now happily married for 10 plus years with 2 kids I'm so happy that I found the balls to send him a message because he's the love of my life 😊
I appreciated hearing that. I often don’t swipe right on guys I think are out of my league. Didn’t think about it as rejecting myself before. I’ll be more ballsy going forward 😊
I went to a party of a friend who was studying acting once. He and his friends were talking about acting the whole damn night, doing impersonations, speaking uncomfortably louder, trying to get attention as much as possible to the point that one guy pretended to be some sort of orc/gnome the whole night. It was a bizarre moment the whole night. I stayed 2 hours to be polite but I never went again to those things. They have no interest in getting to know anyone deeply, just show their "skills" and talk about acting
I wonder if this is how people view me and the Football team because basically all we talk about is football, shit that's happened during our season, thr NFL, college ball, or its a dick measuring contest somewhat, even in the campus gym we just kinda stick together 💀
I'm an overweight female and I completely understand the first girls reaction to the button lighting up. She's used to men rejecting her based solely on first impressions (him seeing her weight). Stuff like that is difficult to change because it's essentially programming your brain to think one way. She's not going to find true happiness until she breaks the way she thinks.
@@wonnone6010 I can't speak for her or her experience. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. Personally, I cannot afford a gym membership, so I do what I can from my home. This topic also has nothing to do with any of this. I said what I said because I have been that kind of person before in the past and finally moved past that type of self loathing.
I don’t understand what the point of going on this type of show is. It’s a social media world where image is king, so if she isn’t happy with her self image to the point where she’s clearly insecure about it, why do this?
@@coolsquirtlesquad I hear you but it could work to find real connection. The contestants would have to figure out if they’d be ok with forfeiting an all expenses paid date or continue to date the person in front of them for no reason. I think it could curb people’s natural response to not get rejected and it could still be entertaining maybe not as entertaining. They could even offer the contestants like $5 voucher at a restaurant if they choose to reject the person.
@@J.boxedin It definitely would work because of you both refuse to push the button because you don’t wanna leave then we can assume you like each other and the next set can come In
You guys are mad funny! I loved watching you guys improv and make up relevant jokes along the way. Reminds me of Key & Peele but modernized. Keep up the good work! I don’t usually comment on videos, but I wanted to show support 💚
Agreed about the not having accurate pics in a profile. I learned the hard way to never interact with the women that only have face pics in their profile, and even then, I have had women laugh and tell me their profile pic was when they were 30lb lighter, or a decade old pic. Granted it's not fun putting pics of yourself up, but you might as well show what you are because all it does is setup a potentially uncomfortable situation when you finally meet.
Women logic is I get attention now deal with consequences later it’s all about garnering mens attention and getting dates not actual connection women checked out of dating 20 years ago
@@dazedconfuseds that always work s best. A lot of women put up only face pictures with make up on, and filters on top of that. It feels awkward to have to ask for a real picture lol
Never realized what Aba said about the industry until now. I never tell people that I’m part of the industry until I feel comfortable. I’ve run into so many models, actors, etc and they really act as if they are better than you and I always felt I had to walk on eggshells with all the political ness that’s now mashed into it. It’s literally so much that I hardly go to the events, but if I do, it’s with someone or alone. And she definitely let her insecurities get to her. I remember I had a friend tell me to grill this guy who so happen to be white because he would only be wit me because I’m black and has a fetish. Which kinda made me nervous in my date but Went on the date and it was completely different than what that person said. I almost let an insecurity that wasn’t mine get to me and ruin a good date.
facts.. clearly delusional. shes the type just angry that she has to “convince” people that she looks good. she will always be that insecure chubby girl watching the other girl’s purses!! them types float from 1 reality talking to ppl on social media/dating apps to another irl actual reality.. that why she said what she say after she rejected dude..She super average not pretty but not ugly. Overweight damn near obese.There isn’t anything particularly outstanding about her personality uniquely yet she thinks otherwise when she’s not even a participation trophy..she needs a gym membership & therapy
I have a feeling the girl at the end was just there to reject everybody. She hit the button at every opportunity. So at the end it didn't matter what he was going to say
Anyone that brings a dad joke knows full well how cringeworthy they are and you still bring it now that has character that shows some guts I fx with that The strength of character to be non conforming. S tier super power
@@ajh.4131 you shallow basic af. You cant even see the strength of character it takes to be confidently cringe. You think people dont know dad jokes are cringe? Yet he still brought it! Plus the hair. This guy is unapologetically himself. Id take that energy 3x over some cookie cutter pop culture’s factory bulk purchase discount fake squishy fashionable person. My guy is raw and real But ngl, that confidence… prolly one serious f boi extraordinare 🤷♀️
As someone in the industry I agree . The bio stuff comes from the fact that the industry is hyper lefty , you won’t get a job unless you display all the right opinions . I never was able to put my values aside to that degree and in fact I got nowhere , I’ve had people distancing themselves from me simply because they were scared that following me on insta would give them a bad look cause I have no pronouns in my bio . It’s ruthless
@@Shark-hn4mv Same bro. I got fired from my job for saying that I think same sex relationships are disgusting and evil. Like it’s just my opinion tho right?
I go to an art school and get asked my pronouns on the regular and its so awkward... I have a muscular build, a beard, sorta deep voice, and present male in every conceivable way... Its honestly insane to me that I have to answer that question so often... One time I said “Take a guess, you’ll probably get it” and people found that “Transphobic” and were acting like there was no way to infer my gender based on appearance cuz "There is no way a male or female is supposed to appear" and that I "Could just as easily be a women". IT IS A SICKNEEEEEEEESSS!!! Have also heard people call not having pronouns in your bio transphobic. Why can't it just be that people who are clearly male or female are assumed to be male or female, and if we ever "get it wrong" with someone they can just let us know what they want to go by and THEY can be the ones with their precious identity in their bios? Like do they not realize it's only important to them? The burden of explaining your gender should only fall on those who choose to make that shit complicated.
Confidence is one of the sexiest things you can wear. And she dropped her own. If you don’t believe you’re beautiful than he can’t either. Get it together girl!
😂😂😂😂 confidence wouldn’t have help her in that situation at all ctfu being a healthy weight and fit would have. Seeing a therapist and doing the work would have.. man i swear women keep women single thru they’re terrible dating advice.. sheesh it’s like Women are masters at lying to themselves about themselves. look at these chicks co-signing this SICKNESS!😂 it’s why most chicks will have little to no difficulty and no remorse lying and minimizing to you. if she followed your “confidence” shtick she’d only just be angry that she has to “convince” people that she looks good. she will always be that insecure chubby girl watching the other girl’s purses! cuz it’ll be a facade. best thing she can do is work on herself.. diet exercise and get some help
Aba right about guys not thinking much of themselves. I believe it's actually pretty common among us. There's been times in my life when I've had people admit they had a crush on me for a long time but I just didn't or couldn't see it. It doesn't help when a lot of people also admire from a distance like wishing someone would ask you out but not even talking to that person at all.
@@madeinheaven1860 Instead of pouring out your "nobody ever asks me if I'm fine so I'll project my trauma to other people" why don't we HOPE he's fine as I have stated before and call it a day.
Back in the AOL days before we had all these online dating, we had chat forums. A couple of women started up a local group for people in the area to come in and chat. This was with no pictures of any kind. Just pure blind talking and maybe you describing yourself to them. When one of the women asked me to describe myself I said "I am a butt ugly jerk". They would all ask me why I would say that? I said it is for 2 reasons...1)when we meet and you agree I can say well I did tell you 2)when we meet and you disagree then it is a pleasant surprise for them and it gets better from there. It worked really well because everyone who asked always wanted to meet. None of them seemed upset or said they agreed with my description...I base that on meeting other times after that or the activities that happened later that night ;) So IMO it is probably better to have them expecting less and get more instead of expecting more and getting less. It's like playing the lottery...You aren't expecting to win but when you do even if it is for a little bit it is better
I remember that.. remember just talking on a chat line meeting different people..now it's really hard trying to date .I'm like when I was 18 I met alot of men now it's really hard to meet men everything is online.
Dude you're in for a treat. These guys are awesome, and Preach's laugh could cure cancer. I envy you the opportunity to go through their backlog of videos and see them for the first time again.
Me and my ex still talk from time to time and I follow her on social media. She be posting things like “ I don’t understand why I’m not in a relationship, I got so much love to give.” And yet our entire relationship she was cheating on me and had MULTIPLE men she entertained in her DMs. There’s nothing more of a SICKNESS than a woman’s delusion.
@@Losdayeti4 not friends at all, You know how when you break up with someone and they’re best time to reach you is during your birthday or holidays?? Like that. I wasn’t wrong so I don’t have any animosity it jus blows my mind.
So girl wants someone to support her & her dreams/goals but definitely doesn’t want to be there to be supportive of anyone else seeking a similar goal? Funny when she was projecting that he “must” be self involved when she is in a similar position. I see you sis!! 🤨
Classic "rules for the, not for me" type scenario. She's one of those people who takes and takes and takes and never gives in return, she's probably also one of those people who thinks it's okay for her to step out of the relationship but not the partner.
But their positions are not really that similar, though. One person is in FRONT of the camera and the other person is BEHIND it. Kind of opposite positions, in a way.
@@MusicFanOnline Its still extremely more similar in comparison to the wide variety of professions one can pursue than it is different. Its the same industry, and in that industry a certain approach is a common theme for actors and the people responsible for the behind the scenes work. Its not like the OP is comparing an actor and an electrician. There is so much overlap in terms on how people in the film industry are expected to act that the post is still accurate. You might be missing the forrest for the trees in this situation.
This show loves to set great looking dudes up with super overweight, unattractive women. It's a win win for the show because they're either hooking the flubber up with a huge W or they get to showcase that MANBAD MAN ALWAYS BAD. And the times they _do_ send out unattractive guys? No way in fucking hell would they have a model looking girl set with some slob blindfolded. People wouldn't be crucifying her in the comments for being upset, they'd be crucifying the show for "doing that to her" and "setting a trap for her". Hell, even the _guy_ would still get flack if he dared to be like, "what changed?" And holly fuck.. if they _kissed?_ that girl would, without exaggeration, have a chance at filing charges _successfully._
I originally liked the premise of this show, but the agenda that you perfectly stated has become clear now. I really cringed when they had a trans on buzzing ppl if they were not into that. The show is run by gay and/or overweight feminists and beta male cucks… It is a shame because Cut had potential…
Oh that compliment at the end that she is a good kisser is the best way he could have ended that! But lets be truthful here he would never go for her, he is way over her league.
Someone being in your league or not doesn't really have anything to do with it though. I think it's more on what you make each other feel. I've seen gorgeous people date people "out of their league" and they were doing better than those who were picky with their partners. People should really normalize looking into character more than outer appearance. Cause beauty fades and character just gets better the more time you're with that person(considering you're both in love and are a team). On another note though, people on this kind of show have only been going for looks as far as I've seen so I'm not too hopeful and just watch for what kind of bs they're going to use as an excuse
@@tapioca6863 Everyone goes for looks initially, but for men it is more important. If you don't feel attracted to the other person what is the point, after the initial attraction then you can see what is the person all about and in these shows you don't have time to do that. And if woman reject a short and unattractive man her excuses how she was not feeling it are justified usually while a man is shallow if he says something like that as a reason for rejecting an unattractive woman.
she kept saying "that's the vibe i got" after she asked the question and she got a response she didn't like, she barely listened to what he had to say and rejected him mid answer. she doesn't deserve him anyways
I’m an ex-actor. I thought it was my dream job to do, and in a sense I still have a passion for studying movies and acting. People like what Aba is describing is absolutely true. Pretentious, self-absorbed, and narcissistic assholes all over the industry. Those people exist in droves and it completely killed it for me.
Is there really no way to ignore people like that? I'm not an actor but I've had to ignore people like that in my job. Is it different in the acting world?
Can I ask, what exactly do you particularly enjoy studying? :) I've always found film interesting too (I just don't know jack about it lol have considered looking into a class though)
When she wanted to press the button on the first dude due to the fear of being rejected it proved Preach's point from a last video of the button being in control. I love both Aba and Preach but sometimes it comes across as if Aba always wants to be right. I mean it in no disrespectful way..I really do enjoy you guys. 🤍
To be fair and pull this from both ends of it, the homie be effing based AF most of the damn time nearly every video last couple weeks has been fire and needed points to put out in our culture. It's in regards of his own values and cultural beliefs to how we engage in our relationships with each other that he stands firm on thats earned my respects. It's not necessarily the need to be right when I'm not looking to be right or wrong to what that is for everyone else in a sick and chaotic society. As long as my own morals and codes I live by are right within me, I'm good. Like how they display full integrity in some of these recent videos like that discussing topics on people they don't even mess with but because it was the right thing they thought they needed to put out And that's 💯.
lol i think you are projecting. it’s not the need to be right if he guesstimates and calls it right a majority of the time through accurately reading ppl. If your in sales or a businessman you got to know how to read the room & read ppl..
I used to think the same thing about Aba.. but you're wrong. Just stay for the ride and you'll see he's just based AF because he doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks of him.
Has this man learned nothing from the men who have gone before him? This is clearly the type of show where you hug early and save the kiss for the second date.
Aba N Preach make my day better. Like having a shitty day, had a shitty night, fighting with my girl and then I find out yall got a new video out and my day just gets better😌
Nigerian Brothers & Sisters... Lets do a roll call for the Ghanaians black sheep of our family. If this video gets to 30k Likes... me & preach will eat nigerian and ghanian jollof on camera and review it.
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Her pressing the buzzer before he could explain why he didn't find her attractive was a defensive mechanism and, in his mind, he was thankful for it!
I said the same. She don’t need to be dating AT ALL until she get herself together
Why wouldn't she buzz him?! 😂 He isn't attracted to her. NEXT
@@Vasilia4 because she did it out of pure projection and to save face
@@Vasilia4 Because she is insecure af.
@@SolidSnake240 You just made that up. The fact is, buzzing him off was the only rational choice. She is there to meet someone. He doesn't want her. She'd be stupid to just sit there and wait for him to buzz her off
the fact she wanted to reject him WHILE knowing he CANT SEE her transcends time and reality. wow i am speechless goodnight .
She wanted to proactively reject him so he didn’t have the opportunity to do it first. A lot of unattractive/overweight women do it so they can get the upper hand and claim they rejected the other person first and don’t have to experience the rejection themselves.
She knows deep down she will get rejected as soon as he takes the blindfold off, yet she does not do anything to get in shape.
@@elan8213 that is 100% self-sabotage and needs to be fixed immediately by the individual. They already don’t work out/don’t watch what they eat. Where are all these men that LIKE big women? You think women like her could manifest these men, or at least assume the guy in front of them is one of those men
@@elan8213 I've noticed that many also post things publicly to show how much they reject men or how picky they are, to try to make up for their own insecurity for being rejected by so many men. It's not really helping them though, they really need to address this within themselves.
@@anthonyc2159 That's exactly what I'm saying. If she's so scared lose weight 🥱
oh man. Just want to say you guys saved me today. 58 year old bloke, UK, mentally broken at the mo but watched all of this and it totally lifted me man.
You two flippin rock. Thanks
60 year old woman in the UK, mentally broken too, pleased to meet you!. It's hard to keep your sanity in this shit hole at the moment. Obviously I don't know your personal circumstances, but try keep your chin up and glad you got a lift watching this.
Tough times don't last, hope you feel better soon!
Stay strong sir
Be well, sir. ✌️
Hope that your situation improves soon and whatever is bothering you goes away or gets resolved sir. Stay strong
She’s acting out of fear because she’s used to being rejected for her weight so she’s gonna leave before she’s left.
Why wouldn't she just go to the gym?? She can actually change her look naturally
@@khanisbrown6424 lazy or health problems
@@MeYou-gb7zy I don't think it is health problems
@@khanisbrown6424 for all you know she could have lost 100lbs. Gtfoh
@@Confettifun I think you're fatty too
What’s funny is the big girl really might’ve played herself. At no point did he say he wasn’t interested in her. When the button turned red, he didn’t move a muscle. The question was “is she someone you would usually date?” He said no. That doesn’t mean he wasn’t interested in dating her. And of course, he didn’t even get to explain why she’s not someone he would typically date. He could’ve also been explaining why he wanted to try something different with her. She rejected herself. And then got buzzed in no time because of her sign 😂😂😂😂
Yep. Instant karma. The vibe I got from him was that he was willing to try to date her. She definitely hung herself out to dry
@@noctusvolpes def didn’t get that vibe. He was clearly highly bothered with her appearance. And was simultaneously feeling much regret from kissing this wide body woman.
@@DefenderOfTheEnd He wasn't. It's highly likely he might have tried a date. Not sure about a relationship in the long run, but that might have been down to her self-consciousness more than anything else.
Exactly
If he said NO, then he's not interested. How much more clear does it need to be?
As an ex-actor myself, Aba is 100% correct. I went to college for that shit and everyone in class was a complete wacko.
Pronouns, casual trauma talk, self-absorbed personalities. I almost fell down that hole myself and nearly became exactly what Aba is describing.
If you want to be an actor, know when to shut it off and don’t make it your whole identity. You’ll end up crazy, jobless, and very disliked. It’s a beautiful art form, but be mature enough to understand it’s just a job and not a way of life.
Any tips? Asking for me as a insecure dude. No cap.
I don’t mind sensitive souls, but l don’t date actors cuz I don’t want to end up supporting someone and cuz I think they’re more likely to cheat.
@@Vashthestampede967 Find a hobby or passion to ground yourself in outside of those people. Work out, read, do model trains, WHATEVER, as long as it totally separates you from that entire group of people. The moment you are full-dive interacting with them 24-7 is the moment you start to loose yourself.
One thing that people don't say about actors is that their job is to lie, and to lie convincingly. Knowing that, I think I'd have a hard time fully trusting an actor.
ngl living in LA for a while i've met a lot of people like that. Don't wanna bash all actos or something but damn
The first guy was probably the nicest and most honest person I’ve seen on this. He probably wasn’t even gonna press the button on her after saying she wasn’t his type but she just automatically assumed and put her own insecurities on him.
Modern dating . First guy is nice and decent na fuck it button .
Thats why she is single 4 lyfeeee
@@Deszigames most men don't because were not all fuck boys and tinder is awful for a regular guy . It fucks up our self esteem
she did the right thing. He was obviously not attracted to her (to not say repulsed). What does she get from staling another minute or two for the same outcome? Im confused that people seem to think only the more attractiv part is allowed to press the button
@@pingu6028 I'm confused that people blame her insecurities like really? I would press the button if I was looked at that way he was clearly disappointed.
"Fresh! My man's 28 going on 80" - Gets me EVERY SINGLE time 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
First guy is a true speaker, the way he doesn’t care to throw his accomplishments and lead risky conversation light heartedly is something that jus started clicking with me… his humorous tone/delivery carried a lot of that from cringe to just flat out blind dating and getting to know someone tbh
Females hate rejection. That is why they refuse to walk up to a man and ask for a number, even if they would be super attracted to the man.
But down with the patriarchy !
down bad
@@Yellow.1844 ?????????????????????
That “why?” She asked is so brutal. She projected her insecurities right onto him.
I would've told her my why.
@@michaelrichards5340 shit me too.
@@michaelrichards5340 he tried to be a gentleman!
Took the rejection and moved on.
@@LeMan8o4 she asked a question, I would've answered the question. This isn't about being a gentleman, I'm addressing her question.
Someone pleeeaase clip that "...No...." 6:07 lmao
Can’t believe she passed on turtleneck, honest, likes em naughty, scuba diving, good kissing dude just because he said he wouldn’t normally be into her. He didn’t say he wasn’t. He just said he wouldn’t normally.
Girl was insecure about her weight she refuses to loose.
She's fat, knows it, doesn't do anything about it, and wants someone who will ignore it like she has. She also looks for any pushback so that she can blame it on her size.
Nah I wouldn't trust "not normally". Doors open all over the relationship. Don't be a maybe or a second choice. Get with somebody that actually likes you.
Why settle for someone who told you flat out you're not their type? They're gonna compare you to everyone they are naturally into, and their attraction to you will be forced, or dependent on a few traits that can change. It's not worth it.
@@storm14k Or, maybe just make yourself into a person people would actually like. (Lose weight)
100%...I also got "you look better in person". And always appreciated that. Even my husband told me that he wasn't sure based on pictures before we met. People who make themselves look better in pictures have some insecurities imo.
You guys are awesome and hysterical! Love this!
This! Nothing worse than being dolled up all the time in pics and ppl don’t even recommend you in person! Same with those who get dolled up everyday then look the same when a special occasion or event rolls around…. No extra wow factor bc they’re always extra.
Yeah, but some people are naturally photogenic. So they would have to edit and make themselves look bad in photos.
A big part of it, in my opinion, is my personality too.
I’ve had people tell me that I was charming and that they didn’t really find me all that physically attractive at first, but once they met me and saw my personality, they fell in love.
I absolutely agree with Aba. I undersell my looks online. I would much rather have someone be supersized than be catfished
Him stalling for time, was very smart. Basically he tested her, as in a game of chicken, and given how she had already shown her insecurity earlier, that was the best call he could've made.
Also notice how he not only was honest, but also the question was "normally", meaning there's still room for exception implied, as he didn't actually reject her.
Exactly
It's a way to get out of saying "I don't like fat girls".
Bingo. I still hated it, though 😅
But as insecure as she is, even if they did start dating she would constantly be comparing herself to other women that he normally would date. He dodged a bullet. She's not ready
@@shahana_style you nailed it
If I get rejected for my looks, being that I'm a big girl I'm not going to feel hurt over it. Take for example she found him "hot" There were aspects of him she instantly was attracted, physically. He's not into her appearance. SO WHAT? She should find someone who is into all of her. He was being genuine and didn't instantly wait for that button to turn red to tap her out. She's the one here who looks bad.
That's racist.
Or take initiative and lose weight? If she knows that some dudes aren't going to be into her for her size then do do something about it.
Everybody is free to reject another person for the look (one cannot say 'You MUST appreciate me') as there is no universal standard for beauty. The problem is rejecting someone ONLY for tiny flaws in the look, which is something rather superficial in my personal opinion. For instance, some girls get rejected because they have freckles (which are not even a flaw), that's why at least some of them try to cover them with tons of makeup
If she lost weight, she would have a lot more options. Why are the Cheetos more important than health and relationships?
Looking bad doesn’t even start with your physical appearance.
You know Aba's "This is a sickness" line is serious when you see other creators use that line in their videos which makes it even more funny.
Oh like who? It's funny asf honestly
He's actually quoting a Ugandan Pastor or something with that
It's not Aba's line
Its not his line tho😂
@@Tionaintown876 WesSideLive 😂😂
That’s the smoothest sponsor transition I’ve ever seen 😂😂
You haven’t watched Linus tech tip vid
@@Pc.Farmer those are always fun
Abba is having way too much fun today and I'm here for it
Making you cornballs laugh at lame jokes.
@@bxi1547 but I'm not a cornball though
@@bxi1547 ok cool guy save some 🐱 for the rest of us
@@UnknownUser-nu8ny What a sorry attempt at sarcasm you corn ball. Get back to laughing at hand puppets clown.
@@bxi1547 fresh & fxcked fan?
I'm on medical leave and I just discovered you two last week.
You two make me forget what I'm going through. I receive your goofy gent's.
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)
you're late to the party then.... they've got some really good stuff lol
@@AtheneHolder Hella late, but at least I'm there. Whoo hoo.
But the date ones are funny but the ppl push the buzzer when they feel they're about to get buzzed.
@@KawaiiNyaGirl1 Stop preaching on TH-cam!!!!!!!!!!
@@seekingnaturalhappinessaga2542
you're late but.. It means you have lots more good stuff to watch than us!!
enjoy and get well soon
Omg, that dude pressing the button over and over like an ejector seat once he heard the word "marriage" had me cracking up so hard I could barely breath!
I was rolling 🤣 the panic press "is this red?"
"It's not a vibe, it's you projecting your insecurity" Gadayum absolutely spot on.
Aba's lead into the ad read was top tier. Bravo, sir, bravo.👏👏👏
That was so clean
Dead ass amazing
For real tho, thats how you do it.
Like I was into the story, just stayed through to hear the rest of it 🙆🏾♀️Ad with class
Aba is right about the guys thinking their garbage. I had a lot of girls come up to me in school and flirt with me when i was just a emotionally sad/mad teenager and it still affects me to this day
You just need help, cuz that is pathetic. But talk to a professional
Yeah, I went from being ugly/bullied in middle school to a few girls showing interest in me in high school/college. It never crossed my mind that I'd even be remotely attractive to anyone so I just distanced myself. I still feel that way but I'm getting better
@Dank Waifu after many girls started coming for me out of no where when I'm physically not that great it boosted my confidence, but I've been rejecting them since I feel nothing for them,
I think it's more now that I'm no longer desperate people are attracted towards my direction, not me persae but a literal magnet type situation, it's weird.
@Dank Waifu so I suppose my advice is, just live life having fun, don't care about having a relationship and if you're desperate / wanting one just don't, and people will eventually appear.
It doesn't make sense but that's how it is for me. I don't know if it applies to everything, obviously money won't appear in your bank account just because you're not desperate, but you may get it somehow.
@@localgrassfieldboneshandler "if you really want something just stop wanting something" 🤓
Awesome advice bro.
Damn I wish I had a few grains of people reading skills Aba possesses. He's a fucking wizard Harry.
Seems like that last woman has them too, haha!
It’s a skill that so many people lack and need more of!
@@ajh.4131 true!
It’s pretty easy brother body language and facial expressions
@@jesusespinoza8467 you have misunderstood. OP is talking about the ability to read peoples motivations, lifestyles and thought processes with very little factual information.
I've definitely played into the low expectation thing. I rarely wear makeup and will show up to a first date without makeup (at most I might do spot coverage for blemishes) and i'll dress really casual, jeans and tshirt. If the date goes well then I'll put a bit more effort into looking cute on 2nd or 3rd date. If they're not interested in my most natural state why should I care to doll up? It makes it very easy to "impress" people when you surprise them when they've just been used to seeing your natural look, bags and all lol. I've literally gotten compliments all day when all I did was apply eye liner. Definitely boosts your confidence, but I'm not doing that every day. What a pita.
Oh I get you. I always have a natural photo on my dating profile. I don't know why people use filters or heavy makeup on all photos because that just leads to disappointment. I'd rather exceed then disappoint 😂
Curious how old you are and what your value in the dating market is in your own opinion.
@@traceyevans2757 early 30's- mid, i'm married now so not sure where that puts my value in dating market lol. I'm introverted and I've always thought that men prefer the social butterfly so with everything else I would have thought I was average to a bit above for my substance. I'm independent and not high maintenence but for the superficial I'm average or below. But I was never interested in superficial so didn't matter to me. Above average to my husband :) And he's the social butterfly, I guess opposites attract a bit in our case.
Man wish men could dress casual to a date cheat sheet for women is real
I love pitas
"its the vibes" is the only answer these people know how to say in this show
It's the generic, non-specific, non-confrontational escape 'pod'.
If they happen to say something that could be considered bad they won’t just be considered a horrible person to the people at the studio they’ll considered that to this channel’s audience. People have been contacted after shows like this. You could also say it’s what they signed up for but maybe they wanted to try something new and fun they’re not going to necessarily think about the consequences.
Honestly that was my go to answer when I don't want to hurt someone's feeling in the past. However I realize recently, just be upfront before you go out and meet them. Don't bother giving someone a chance you are not attracted to, it rarely works out in a pure dating environment. Maybe it would work out if started as friends though
SO TRUE!!!! I almost didn't send my now husband a message on a dating site because I thought he was out of my league BUT I told myself F*CK IT the worse thing that can happen is that he doesn't respond or that he's super mean which in that case good riddance and we are now happily married for 10 plus years with 2 kids I'm so happy that I found the balls to send him a message because he's the love of my life 😊
Yay! 😀👍
Please on what dating did you and your husband meet?
I appreciated hearing that. I often don’t swipe right on guys I think are out of my league. Didn’t think about it as rejecting myself before. I’ll be more ballsy going forward 😊
As soon as he took that blindfold off, he wishes he were anywhere but there
She seems terrified of rejection so she's gotta buzz first! 😂
I went to a party of a friend who was studying acting once. He and his friends were talking about acting the whole damn night, doing impersonations, speaking uncomfortably louder, trying to get attention as much as possible to the point that one guy pretended to be some sort of orc/gnome the whole night. It was a bizarre moment the whole night. I stayed 2 hours to be polite but I never went again to those things. They have no interest in getting to know anyone deeply, just show their "skills" and talk about acting
thats so embarassing lmao, they sound narcissistic asf.
I wonder if this is how people view me and the Football team because basically all we talk about is football, shit that's happened during our season, thr NFL, college ball, or its a dick measuring contest somewhat, even in the campus gym we just kinda stick together 💀
@@joshuasatterwhite9520 probably they do view you guys like that
@@juniperfox1064 probably, but we still try to be coo with everyone, we just cliquey and a bit roudy at times
The gnome was on drugs
Our man Aba is on peak form tonight.
Reading these misfits like a book...
He's got administrator access to their souls
@@OutOfNamesToChoose I think Aba is a crossroads demon. He is to good
Bro got a whole crystal ball or some shit lol 🔮🤣💯
Aba was ON FIRE with the jokes today! I am gasping for air ahahahahahahaha
If you’re laughing that hard you’re very easily amused.
@@bxi1547 true! I like to have joy in my life, and I definitely avoid being a joy killer for others ;)
Yea he was on a roll
Don't encourage the cornball, it must've been the colour of his shirt. Yes he totally enjoyed himself, 3:00 was brilliant.
‘This your premier… get the fuck up outta here!’ PMFSL!!! I can’t…. 💀 I laughed all the way through this LOL thank you 🙏🏼
I'm an overweight female and I completely understand the first girls reaction to the button lighting up. She's used to men rejecting her based solely on first impressions (him seeing her weight). Stuff like that is difficult to change because it's essentially programming your brain to think one way. She's not going to find true happiness until she breaks the way she thinks.
just lose weight.
It's not that difficult to start going to the gym tho
@@wonnone6010 I can't speak for her or her experience. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. Personally, I cannot afford a gym membership, so I do what I can from my home. This topic also has nothing to do with any of this. I said what I said because I have been that kind of person before in the past and finally moved past that type of self loathing.
I don’t understand what the point of going on this type of show is. It’s a social media world where image is king, so if she isn’t happy with her self image to the point where she’s clearly insecure about it, why do this?
just lose the fucking weight and you won’t have this problem
THIS IS A SIIIIICKNESS!! 🤣How can anyone hate on Aba?
I am loving the African impression he does.
@@stevenhewes1990 have you seen the video/guy he's quoting when he does that? Shit's funny a fuck.
@@ldawg7117 link?
It's deviant, there for we dont want it . Eeey😆😆
🤣🤣🤣🤣
5:37 the only answer he could’ve gotten away with is: “I’m only in to black women”😂😂
Ayyyy
W answer 👀 ✊🏾
My weakness is a nice big booty so I’d probably go with that too.
🤣🤣🤣
Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂 YOOOOOOOOOOO
They would have called him a fetishizer. No winning on this one 💀
"If I reject a 10/10, it makes me better than him."
If they press the red button, THEY should leave, not the other person!
Agree. And the button shouldn’t pop up so quick
That makes no sense, then people would just not press it and if the date went wrong just stay there in silent and waste everyone's time
@@coolsquirtlesquad I hear you but it could work to find real connection. The contestants would have to figure out if they’d be ok with forfeiting an all expenses paid date or continue to date the person in front of them for no reason. I think it could curb people’s natural response to not get rejected and it could still be entertaining maybe not as entertaining. They could even offer the contestants like $5 voucher at a restaurant if they choose to reject the person.
@@J.boxedin It definitely would work because of you both refuse to push the button because you don’t wanna leave then we can assume you like each other and the next set can come In
@@coolsquirtlesquad the show doesn't make sense anyways. When pretty girls get up there, they run the show cuz no one is ready to buzz but her
Preach's facial expressions be killin' me when Aba goes on his rants🤣
You guys are mad funny! I loved watching you guys improv and make up relevant jokes along the way. Reminds me of Key & Peele but modernized. Keep up the good work! I don’t usually comment on videos, but I wanted to show support 💚
Agreed about the not having accurate pics in a profile. I learned the hard way to never interact with the women that only have face pics in their profile, and even then, I have had women laugh and tell me their profile pic was when they were 30lb lighter, or a decade old pic. Granted it's not fun putting pics of yourself up, but you might as well show what you are because all it does is setup a potentially uncomfortable situation when you finally meet.
Women logic is I get attention now deal with consequences later it’s all about garnering mens attention and getting dates not actual connection women checked out of dating 20 years ago
@@TheAwe50me I actually put up basic pictures so when they see me in person I look better! I'm it works.
@@dazedconfuseds that always work s best. A lot of women put up only face pictures with make up on, and filters on top of that. It feels awkward to have to ask for a real picture lol
the fatties always have the same downangle face'n'boob selfie in their dating profile. you will pick onto their game quickly.
Never realized what Aba said about the industry until now. I never tell people that I’m part of the industry until I feel comfortable. I’ve run into so many models, actors, etc and they really act as if they are better than you and I always felt I had to walk on eggshells with all the political ness that’s now mashed into it. It’s literally so much that I hardly go to the events, but if I do, it’s with someone or alone.
And she definitely let her insecurities get to her. I remember I had a friend tell me to grill this guy who so happen to be white because he would only be wit me because I’m black and has a fetish. Which kinda made me nervous in my date but Went on the date and it was completely different than what that person said. I almost let an insecurity that wasn’t mine get to me and ruin a good date.
yup, that person is a doofus and you probably shouldnt take what they say very seriously
Her calling herself "heavy" and not "fat" tells me everything I need to know about her.
Yeah any valuable women you plan on dating has to be able to be openly honest with herself.
Yh
facts.. clearly delusional.
shes the type just angry that she has to “convince” people that she looks good.
she will always be that insecure chubby girl watching the other girl’s purses!! them types float from 1 reality talking to ppl on social media/dating apps to another irl actual reality..
that why she said what she say after she rejected dude..She super average not pretty but not ugly. Overweight damn near obese.There isn’t anything particularly outstanding about her personality uniquely yet she thinks otherwise when she’s not even a participation trophy..she needs a gym membership & therapy
@@Popcornkernal29Good luck with that. Most modern day women are delusional, especially the fat ones .
Yeah she's obese. & I would use heavy for overweight but not obese
“The act never stops.” 💯💯💯💯💯
I feel like this video ended too soon. The guy at the end was right to call her out.
that joke was kinda buns tho
That joke was trash. If that was his approach, then he deserved it. When you start talking about horoscopes (even if it is a joke), it’s cringe af.
I have a feeling the girl at the end was just there to reject everybody. She hit the button at every opportunity. So at the end it didn't matter what he was going to say
Anyone that brings a dad joke knows full well how cringeworthy they are and you still bring it now that has character that shows some guts
I fx with that
The strength of character to be non conforming.
S tier super power
@@ajh.4131 you shallow basic af. You cant even see the strength of character it takes to be confidently cringe.
You think people dont know dad jokes are cringe?
Yet he still brought it!
Plus the hair. This guy is unapologetically himself.
Id take that energy 3x over some cookie cutter pop culture’s factory bulk purchase discount fake squishy fashionable person.
My guy is raw and real
But ngl, that confidence… prolly one serious f boi extraordinare
🤷♀️
Aba and Preaches jokes and humor are so smooth and fantastic. Props to them, I was on the floor.
THIS IS A SIIIIIIIIIICKNESSSSSSS - I live for this moment in every video 😂😂
I feel the same. It always has me laughing within seconds.
It is deviant and therefore we do not want it.
@@WeAreInYourWall hahaha I love it so much!!!!
This is the best line I've heard all year
@@lovefool.99 sustains a brother, spiritually.
I just came across this channel and you guys are hilarious. The creaky floorboards are so well timed lol
Yea, they tried to record elsewhere, but we begged for the creamy floor 😹
Abas consistency with “Unforgivable” references is why these guys are the 🐐s
😂
That’s what makes him an OG cause only OG’s remember the old TH-cam Days watching Unforgivable and saying the same quotes at school with friends 😂
What was the reference, I think i missed it
The goats of what?
💯💯💯💯💯💯
The true purpose of this show has devolved from genuinely getting to know someone into who hits the button first and how many times they can do it…
Sadly
What show is this???
Aba seems a lot happier lately
This is a sickness!!!!😂💀💀🤣
Aba's African rants & Preach's creole rants make my days👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Aba went OFF. Man woke up and hit his funny bone.
This dude Aba was next level wilding out in this episode but dammit we need more of it.
That "What did I do?" was so cool, actually 😅😅😅
Why is no one calling out the button for asking HIM “is this the type of person you’d normally date?” 😂. They knew what they were doing
This. They keep doing it as if its going to change some how.
Yes.
7:45
«I don’t like straight A student»
Not gonna lie, that killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣
As someone in the industry I agree . The bio stuff comes from the fact that the industry is hyper lefty , you won’t get a job unless you display all the right opinions . I never was able to put my values aside to that degree and in fact I got nowhere , I’ve had people distancing themselves from me simply because they were scared that following me on insta would give them a bad look cause I have no pronouns in my bio . It’s ruthless
Sorry to hear that. It's amazing how the so-called "good guys" are the most intolerant even over the smallest things.
@@Shark-hn4mv Same bro. I got fired from my job for saying that I think same sex relationships are disgusting and evil. Like it’s just my opinion tho right?
I go to an art school and get asked my pronouns on the regular and its so awkward... I have a muscular build, a beard, sorta deep voice, and present male in every conceivable way... Its honestly insane to me that I have to answer that question so often... One time I said “Take a guess, you’ll probably get it” and people found that “Transphobic” and were acting like there was no way to infer my gender based on appearance cuz "There is no way a male or female is supposed to appear" and that I "Could just as easily be a women".
IT IS A SICKNEEEEEEEESSS!!!
Have also heard people call not having pronouns in your bio transphobic. Why can't it just be that people who are clearly male or female are assumed to be male or female, and if we ever "get it wrong" with someone they can just let us know what they want to go by and THEY can be the ones with their precious identity in their bios? Like do they not realize it's only important to them? The burden of explaining your gender should only fall on those who choose to make that shit complicated.
That’s insanity
@@damnedifido1062 yeah it's just an opinion.
13:05 I’m on the floor 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you killed me! “This is you’re premiere - get the f outta here” 😂😂🙌🏾
Confidence is one of the sexiest things you can wear. And she dropped her own. If you don’t believe you’re beautiful than he can’t either. Get it together girl!
You put it in perfect words🔥🔥🔥
Not at all how that works
😂😂😂😂 confidence wouldn’t have help her in that situation at all ctfu being a healthy weight and fit would have. Seeing a therapist and doing the work would have..
man i swear women keep women single thru they’re terrible dating advice.. sheesh it’s like Women are masters at lying to themselves about themselves. look at these chicks co-signing this SICKNESS!😂
it’s why most chicks will have little to no difficulty and no remorse lying and minimizing to you.
if she followed your “confidence” shtick she’d only just be angry that she has to “convince” people that she looks good.
she will always be that insecure chubby girl watching the other girl’s purses! cuz it’ll be a facade.
best thing she can do is work on herself.. diet exercise and get some help
@@jayclearmen411 facts
Facts
The last dude's joke gave me Cancer.
Lol
The joke was a Gem in my eyes ♊
Felt like someone pisces in my eye.
It was a bit capricorny
Surfer-martial-artist? Bruce Libra.
“Men reject themselves everyday.” So true, I’ll be honest that’s something I need to work on myself
I think the show reveals people's level of patience and willingness to get to know people. If it isn't instant they hit the button quick.
its crazy how nowadays u just dont get to know people at all, the smallest thing can be the reason. wtf is happening
Aba right about guys not thinking much of themselves. I believe it's actually pretty common among us. There's been times in my life when I've had people admit they had a crush on me for a long time but I just didn't or couldn't see it. It doesn't help when a lot of people also admire from a distance like wishing someone would ask you out but not even talking to that person at all.
Too long only read 2 words
Any one notice Preach sound so down today....hope he's fine, his laughter is infectious.
Everyone has their days, can’t be all positive and happy 24/7 lol
@@madeinheaven1860 Instead of pouring out your "nobody ever asks me if I'm fine so I'll project my trauma to other people" why don't we HOPE he's fine as I have stated before and call it a day.
@@TH-camgh56 so everything people say now is projecting, snowflake
@@TH-camgh56 tf are you going on about, man didn't even say that shit
@@TH-camgh56 buddy just said nobody 100% everyday.
My fellow Ghanaians ASSEMBLE
charlie, sorry ehn, nothing for you
We dey!!
Here here
@@MargoArthurE hey what’s up
There's 5 of you good job ctfu
This was pure comedy, and comedy at its best 🤣
Amy is still there rejecting people 3 weeks later. 😂😂😂
Just garbage she needs therapy
She’ll even reject herself if she’d had the chance.
Amy needs to take a good look in the mirror and lower that self esteem a bit
@@wolfhawk1999 it is already low though, that's why she's rejecting people before they can reject her.
She exclaims "oh you look good" but she rejects him cause he "might" not like her. Damn logic
He wasnt into her it was clear to see
Back in the AOL days before we had all these online dating, we had chat forums. A couple of women started up a local group for people in the area to come in and chat. This was with no pictures of any kind. Just pure blind talking and maybe you describing yourself to them. When one of the women asked me to describe myself I said "I am a butt ugly jerk". They would all ask me why I would say that? I said it is for 2 reasons...1)when we meet and you agree I can say well I did tell you 2)when we meet and you disagree then it is a pleasant surprise for them and it gets better from there.
It worked really well because everyone who asked always wanted to meet. None of them seemed upset or said they agreed with my description...I base that on meeting other times after that or the activities that happened later that night ;)
So IMO it is probably better to have them expecting less and get more instead of expecting more and getting less. It's like playing the lottery...You aren't expecting to win but when you do even if it is for a little bit it is better
I remember that.. remember just talking on a chat line meeting different people..now it's really hard trying to date .I'm like when I was 18 I met alot of men now it's really hard to meet men everything is online.
I miss those forums and the chatrooms so much.
Keep expectations low and never be disappointed.
Aba is right! We Nigerians are in here!!! 🤣
yess ohhhhhh🤣🤣🤣
We dey here 🇳🇬
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Naija on top 😭
That Fresh going on 80 shot had me dying🤣🤣
Aba is a marketing genius for that. The flow, the deliver and execution... A one
Love it !
Legend says that Amy is still pressing that buzzer
This is my first time watching you two and I had to watch this video again. It was too funny and the “this is your premier line” had me dying! 😭😭
Dude you're in for a treat. These guys are awesome, and Preach's laugh could cure cancer. I envy you the opportunity to go through their backlog of videos and see them for the first time again.
They really pulled an ad ambush on us
Yep, I didn't like it
We need a second part, Aba was 🔥🔥🔥🔥 today 😹😹😹
Me and my ex still talk from time to time and I follow her on social media. She be posting things like “ I don’t understand why I’m not in a relationship, I got so much love to give.” And yet our entire relationship she was cheating on me and had MULTIPLE men she entertained in her DMs. There’s nothing more of a SICKNESS than a woman’s delusion.
Narcissist
And y'all still friends?
@@Losdayeti4 not friends at all, You know how when you break up with someone and they’re best time to reach you is during your birthday or holidays?? Like that. I wasn’t wrong so I don’t have any animosity it jus blows my mind.
@@Nytellem lol no I don't know that at all. You just want to be on tap for some boom boom in the future. Lolol.
What are her socials so I can hit her up
He's definitely got the personality i would imagine a grown man that rocks a goatee and a turtleneck would have lmfao
Your comment is essentially “he acted how he looked”. I’ll remember that next time I see crime here in Detroit. 😊
The way he said “scuba diving” made me want to slap something
@@atlas4837 bruh
@@Louganda hey man whatever you take from my comment is your own takeaway. All I said was an act and a place, you picture who you want to picture.
He looks like Alan Wake
If she knows that "heft" is a problem when dating, why is she on a dating video? 😂😂
"BITCH YOU AINT NO NERD?!!! COULDVE SWORE U WAS..." SHOUT OUT 2 ABA QUOTING THAT UNFORGIVABLE 💯💯💯 THAT SHITS A CLASSIC 😂
🤣🤣 Aba been a different level of funny these last couple of videos
The boi be having existential crisis it seems
Its funny you think that cuz to me its trying to hard same hack shit.
@@doviangraciano4359 get ur money up instead of hating my boi cuz "it's a sickness and we do not want it"
@@doviangraciano4359 your comment is un-readable......wtf are you trying to say?
It’s apparent you guys will laugh at anything.
So girl wants someone to support her & her dreams/goals but definitely doesn’t want to be there to be supportive of anyone else seeking a similar goal? Funny when she was projecting that he “must” be self involved when she is in a similar position. I see you sis!! 🤨
Classic "rules for the, not for me" type scenario. She's one of those people who takes and takes and takes and never gives in return, she's probably also one of those people who thinks it's okay for her to step out of the relationship but not the partner.
who we talking about here?
But their positions are not really that similar, though. One person is in FRONT of the camera and the other person is BEHIND it. Kind of opposite positions, in a way.
@@MusicFanOnline Its still extremely more similar in comparison to the wide variety of professions one can pursue than it is different. Its the same industry, and in that industry a certain approach is a common theme for actors and the people responsible for the behind the scenes work. Its not like the OP is comparing an actor and an electrician. There is so much overlap in terms on how people in the film industry are expected to act that the post is still accurate. You might be missing the forrest for the trees in this situation.
@@wavetech_ the one that is in film that uses her camera phone
That was such a SLICK Segway into advertising !!!! 🙌🏾
This show loves to set great looking dudes up with super overweight, unattractive women. It's a win win for the show because they're either hooking the flubber up with a huge W or they get to showcase that MANBAD MAN ALWAYS BAD.
And the times they _do_ send out unattractive guys? No way in fucking hell would they have a model looking girl set with some slob blindfolded. People wouldn't be crucifying her in the comments for being upset, they'd be crucifying the show for "doing that to her" and "setting a trap for her". Hell, even the _guy_ would still get flack if he dared to be like, "what changed?" And holly fuck.. if they _kissed?_ that girl would, without exaggeration, have a chance at filing charges _successfully._
I originally liked the premise of this show, but the agenda that you perfectly stated has become clear now. I really cringed when they had a trans on buzzing ppl if they were not into that. The show is run by gay and/or overweight feminists and beta male cucks… It is a shame because Cut had potential…
Everyone on this buzzer show is ugly.
Super facts
Every show with an attractive women rejecting guys u hear idiots in the comments telling her she's too picky , she's a 304 , she'll die alone
Oh that compliment at the end that she is a good kisser is the best way he could have ended that! But lets be truthful here he would never go for her, he is way over her league.
Yep
Someone being in your league or not doesn't really have anything to do with it though. I think it's more on what you make each other feel. I've seen gorgeous people date people "out of their league" and they were doing better than those who were picky with their partners. People should really normalize looking into character more than outer appearance. Cause beauty fades and character just gets better the more time you're with that person(considering you're both in love and are a team).
On another note though, people on this kind of show have only been going for looks as far as I've seen so I'm not too hopeful and just watch for what kind of bs they're going to use as an excuse
@@tapioca6863 where do you think "making someone feel something" comes from?
@@tapioca6863 Everyone goes for looks initially, but for men it is more important. If you don't feel attracted to the other person what is the point, after the initial attraction then you can see what is the person all about and in these shows you don't have time to do that. And if woman reject a short and unattractive man her excuses how she was not feeling it are justified usually while a man is shallow if he says something like that as a reason for rejecting an unattractive woman.
I think he would have given her a chance he made no move for the button wasn’t even leaning it
she kept saying "that's the vibe i got" after she asked the question and she got a response she didn't like, she barely listened to what he had to say and rejected him mid answer. she doesn't deserve him anyways
What are you Ares? buzz !! Lol
I’m an ex-actor. I thought it was my dream job to do, and in a sense I still have a passion for studying movies and acting. People like what Aba is describing is absolutely true. Pretentious, self-absorbed, and narcissistic assholes all over the industry. Those people exist in droves and it completely killed it for me.
Is there really no way to ignore people like that? I'm not an actor but I've had to ignore people like that in my job. Is it different in the acting world?
Can I ask, what exactly do you particularly enjoy studying? :) I've always found film interesting too (I just don't know jack about it lol have considered looking into a class though)
These people also exist everywhere else so it's not exclusive but the industry is ripe with them.
When she wanted to press the button on the first dude due to the fear of being rejected it proved Preach's point from a last video of the button being in control. I love both Aba and Preach but sometimes it comes across as if Aba always wants to be right. I mean it in no disrespectful way..I really do enjoy you guys. 🤍
To be fair and pull this from both ends of it, the homie be effing based AF most of the damn time nearly every video last couple weeks has been fire and needed points to put out in our culture. It's in regards of his own values and cultural beliefs to how we engage in our relationships with each other that he stands firm on thats earned my respects. It's not necessarily the need to be right when I'm not looking to be right or wrong to what that is for everyone else in a sick and chaotic society. As long as my own morals and codes I live by are right within me, I'm good. Like how they display full integrity in some of these recent videos like that discussing topics on people they don't even mess with but because it was the right thing they thought they needed to put out And that's 💯.
lol i think you are projecting. it’s not the need to be right if he guesstimates and calls it right a majority of the time through accurately reading ppl. If your in sales or a businessman you got to know how to read the room & read ppl..
I used to think the same thing about Aba.. but you're wrong. Just stay for the ride and you'll see he's just based AF because he doesn't give a damn what anyone thinks of him.
You said you weren't trying to be disrespectful, but I'm still confused on how him guessing the character of a person is a need to be right?
The fact you felt a need to assassinate his character tells me everything I need to know...... Women ☕
Has this man learned nothing from the men who have gone before him? This is clearly the type of show where you hug early and save the kiss for the second date.
Aba showing Nigeria love😂❤
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Aba 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭 I'll let this one slide.
Preach thanks for not selling us out like Aba did.😂😂😂
That astrology joke made me remove my headset, walk outside and stand in the middle of my street with my face in my hands.
That’s how you know he really scuba dives. He keeps is cool even when he can’t see. The lose of vision didn’t throw him off at all
I really hope Amy is happy and content in life. That she's well rested, hydrated, and wakes up every morning with the sun on her smiling face.
Aba N Preach make my day better. Like having a shitty day, had a shitty night, fighting with my girl and then I find out yall got a new video out and my day just gets better😌
12:00 bros tryna start WW4 🤣🤣🤣
Aba said what Surfshark wished they could put in their script 💀🤣
Liked the video as soon as I heard Aba yell “THIS IS A SEEEKNESSS”
9:56 funny how the person voicing the button didn't call her out on it but did it to the previous guy in a previous video.