I love their love because as a young gay guy... can I say that? Tom is a year younger than me. As a young gay guy, it means a lot to see two men who are so into what they do career wise find and support each other in such an openly sincere and sweet way. Also I want Lance to write a book about how he still looks 25 when he's in his 40s
2021 Olympic gold medalist!! Tom said that he was happy with his home life, with his husband and Robbie!! You can tell the difference!! Started watching all of Tom’s videos and I love the two of them!
0:57 to 1:21 just GETS me. I'm in love with it. So genuine. So much admiration and love. Love them both! I wish incandescent happiness for them both for the rest of their lives!
"you can't help who you fall in love with"...so true. I love my man so much too :) Age is just a number so long as the two of you are comfortable with it, no one else opinion matters
Who gives a damn about age? Yes Dustin is older, so what? They both legal age, they both love each other, what more do you need? Age and love are too very different things.
Tom Daley is an absolute credit to his family, especially his Dad who passed away to young but would be so proud of him. I’m from Plymouth and as far as I’m concerned he’s our first son. Such a delight and also so brave.
Just got goosebumps when I saw how Tom was looking at you Dustin. So Raw and Real. 💞 think you both will sustain each other through your celebrity tough times. Bless you Dustin and Tom. Ps. Glad I got to see and hear the real Dustin on TH-cam 👍🍾🌹💞🇬🇧
I was a little weirded out when I first learned about the age difference... but watching this, you can tell that their lives are full of mutual repect, mutual admiration, and a really strong bedrock of love. All my best wishes to the happy couple!!
This comment is old to respond to but I want to leave mine for anyone reading after this…age only becomes an issue where there is a power dynamic at play. With Tom, he was forced to grow up quicker, he has his own money, he is the more famous one etc. So he isn’t dependent on Lance. If that was the case, it would be a completely different dynamic that could cause problems.
@@dananezat This is an excellent point! And in the four (wow) years since I made this comment I got into a relationship of my own with an age difference. Once both parties are adults who can stand on their own two feet, age doesn't *have* to be an issue. If you have equal power, a shared vision of how you want a relationship to be, and equal voice, then there's no inequality to exploit -- which is often the issue when age-gap relationships do become problematic.
I agree with everything except Tom being more well known. It depends on what you are into.....not everyone is into sports.......after all Lance is a well respected writer...producer....director...activist and Oscar winner. So depending on what circles you travel in I would guess they are both pretty famous.
@@serendipit_y Definitely - an important question to ask yourself when you or a loved one is in a relationship, especially with a large age gap or other possible power imbalance, is how you/they would do after a break up. For example, there's nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent, or generally staying home if you can afford it - but if someone goes from living with their parents to staying at home full time without their own source of income, that often means they're easier to manipulate into staying in a bad relationship (because they have nowhere else to go). Generally, if someone financially stable coerces someone else into giving up on further education/training or to stop working, that's something to be wary of - can be fine, but it shifts the power dynamic. Experience is another thing, if someone doesn't have much experience with relationships it can be harder to judge what's normal/okay - but often a smaller issue in the lgbtq community because people have their "firsts" at vastly different ages due to stuff like homophobia. Obviously, "I changed his diapers when he was a baby and we're now married" is weird af as well - if you had a parent like relationship with someone growing up, then a) no sane person is gonna see them in a sexual way anyways, and b) that's very easy to manipulate. Age gaps that are fine when both people are consenting adults are not fine at all when one party isn't (shouldn't have to be said, but unfortunately some folks still argue against that), or they had some sort of relationship during that time.
I have such good feelings about both Lance and Tom. First off, I found myself chuckling a little when Tom talked of Lance being "twice his age." Since I am "68 going on 69" (a variation on "The Sound of Music," lol), I should be so old! I briefly met Lance, but I haven't met Tom, yet I feel this good feeling for both for different reasons. In the case of Lance, I came up to him outside the Castro Theater after the premiere of "Milk" and told him---based on my experiences of not only actually trying to write s screenplay once as well as being an amateur film historian--- he was going to win the Oscar for his screenplay. So, I have a cinematic crystal ball. In the case of Tom, the feeling is different because when I was in the closet in the 1970s, I was a professional sports writer who covered big league baseball and football. Granted, sports like swimming or track and field are a little easier for gay athletes than being a (hush-hush) gay athlete who hits a grand slam home run, yet the atmosphere for any gay athlete usually is some element of caution. So, these young man are heroes to me. Long may they smile and love each other.
I love this entire video and the message. You can tell that Lance is a writer from his excellent way with words. However, beyond all of the deep stuff, the final clip is still my favourite
Tom and Dustin are such a beautiful couple and lets all hope that their love will always be there for each other. I would hate to see any other way than together.
i just found out about this cutie couple.. and when i checked out their profile, i'm just like "Holy shit, lance is 43". i really thought that he is in his twenties. he looks so younggg ..
Hey saw your video: you and Tom are so cute and adorable amazing together. Wonderful Couple. So blessed to have each other for support. I can see how much Tom loves you Dustin. Qapla for both your future plans and endeavours. I do hope you get married. But I know from experience relationships are often complicated. Bless you both guys 🌹🌹💞😘
No matter how it seems, you really are an incredibly fortunate person to have the (one and only) tom daly as your husband. I do mean that with respect . For what an honor to have the privaledge to be openly gay at such a young age and to be able to be openly married with all the world at your feet. What an exciting adventure life can be when your with the love of your life and all is happy. Very handsome couple yaull are and peace beyond all understanding be with the both of you .
Lance looks soooooooo young! He must be an alien. Or from another dimension and just slipped into ours to help make this world a better place. I LOVE this guy.
Wow. Lance could have finished his Associates Degree in College by the time Tom was born. Absolutly crazy, you love who you love, no need to rush, two decades a part.
He should have had the Gold. I don't know what happened to Tom, but he must have lost confidence in the end, He was doing so well from the beginning. I have to say, I was a little shocked at the results, At least he got the Bronze in the Pairs Comp.
I’ve just known them today but it feels like I’ve known them for ages. They are so cute together and there isn’t a word in the dictionary that can describe how beautiful this moment is.❤️❤️❤️
Hey Lance I've watched your vlog a couple times before and still love this honesty and down to earth interview you gave here. I know this was posted 4 years ago but I got to know you a little more than later vlogs. Thanks again.... I've posted before... sorry.
This is a truly beautiful love story, Thank God times have moved on for gay people. I though Dustin was about 7 years older than Tom:-0 Christ ! age is not an issue when true love comes to visit.
Holy moly, I didn't know Lance was 20 years older than Tom. He does not look like he is 42.
I thought he was like 28 or something!!
Same I thought they were the same age!
I just googled it
Sapageb omg 😮 don’t say !
I always thought they were the same age...
The way Tom looks at him in the first scene... woow.
Katarina he looks so...vulnerable. Safe.
I love their love because as a young gay guy... can I say that? Tom is a year younger than me. As a young gay guy, it means a lot to see two men who are so into what they do career wise find and support each other in such an openly sincere and sweet way. Also I want Lance to write a book about how he still looks 25 when he's in his 40s
I completely agree with you! especially about the book thing 😂
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omg !!!! He is nearly 40 years old but looks like around 27-30. I coudnt believe untill I looked up in Wikipedia
L'orso he's 42
L'orso 42 is the answer to the ultimate question
He's 43 now but same man. Same
he's 50 now
But how in the world is Dustin so young looking like wooooo
Taylor Delma I liked to see a pic of his family just to see if it runs in the genes
It may be cuz gay guys tend to look after themselves well, better than straight guys. Vanity also helps to keep looking youthful.
Yes I totally agree .He’s just like 30’s
Dustin is one GORGEOUS, smart and kind man! Tom got super lucky!!
so did lance
@@roonil3931 absolutely
They're so adorable.
Dustin and Tom are relationship goals!
Nathan Be0zzz,ard
2021 Olympic gold medalist!! Tom said that he was happy with his home life, with his husband and Robbie!! You can tell the difference!! Started watching all of Tom’s videos and I love the two of them!
TOM AND LANCE ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL COUPE
This is so beautiful...i love them
0:57 to 1:21 just GETS me. I'm in love with it. So genuine. So much admiration and love. Love them both! I wish incandescent happiness for them both for the rest of their lives!
This is the cutest thing ever oml
"you can't help who you fall in love with"...so true. I love my man so much too :) Age is just a number so long as the two of you are comfortable with it, no one else opinion matters
I'm crying rainbow tears, no seriously Tom and Lance are too cute
They are even double cute now having their son Robbie who turns three this year.
They are so cute together
I'm a straight woman, but Gosh I love Tom and Lance's relationship ❤
Me too❤
Who gives a damn about age? Yes Dustin is older, so what? They both legal age, they both love each other, what more do you need? Age and love are too very different things.
So true. If you ever notice, most of the people who say their ages are too different, are single themselves.
You are exactly correct. Love knows no age for anyone. If someone doesn't like it-it's not their job to like it, it's your's.
Agreed
Yes as long as both are legal in age.
@@luihrms Of course Tom and Dustin are
I love how proud Lance is at 2.30 🙊
I dont understand how he can be 42... i just cant
Lance doesnt even look forty. :)
I know , I legit thought he was in his 20s not 40s
dddorota Right!?
Tom Daley is an absolute credit to his family, especially his Dad who passed away to young but would be so proud of him. I’m from Plymouth and as far as I’m concerned he’s our first son. Such a delight and also so brave.
I´m gonna fucking cry. They are so adorable...
Just got goosebumps when I saw how Tom was looking at you Dustin. So Raw and Real. 💞 think you both will sustain each other through your celebrity tough times. Bless you Dustin and Tom. Ps. Glad I got to see and hear the real Dustin on TH-cam 👍🍾🌹💞🇬🇧
I was a little weirded out when I first learned about the age difference... but watching this, you can tell that their lives are full of mutual repect, mutual admiration, and a really strong bedrock of love. All my best wishes to the happy couple!!
This comment is old to respond to but I want to leave mine for anyone reading after this…age only becomes an issue where there is a power dynamic at play. With Tom, he was forced to grow up quicker, he has his own money, he is the more famous one etc. So he isn’t dependent on Lance. If that was the case, it would be a completely different dynamic that could cause problems.
@@dananezat This is an excellent point! And in the four (wow) years since I made this comment I got into a relationship of my own with an age difference. Once both parties are adults who can stand on their own two feet, age doesn't *have* to be an issue. If you have equal power, a shared vision of how you want a relationship to be, and equal voice, then there's no inequality to exploit -- which is often the issue when age-gap relationships do become problematic.
I agree with everything except Tom being more well known. It depends on what you are into.....not everyone is into sports.......after all Lance is a well respected writer...producer....director...activist and Oscar winner. So depending on what circles you travel in I would guess they are both pretty famous.
@@serendipit_y Definitely - an important question to ask yourself when you or a loved one is in a relationship, especially with a large age gap or other possible power imbalance, is how you/they would do after a break up.
For example, there's nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent, or generally staying home if you can afford it - but if someone goes from living with their parents to staying at home full time without their own source of income, that often means they're easier to manipulate into staying in a bad relationship (because they have nowhere else to go). Generally, if someone financially stable coerces someone else into giving up on further education/training or to stop working, that's something to be wary of - can be fine, but it shifts the power dynamic. Experience is another thing, if someone doesn't have much experience with relationships it can be harder to judge what's normal/okay - but often a smaller issue in the lgbtq community because people have their "firsts" at vastly different ages due to stuff like homophobia.
Obviously, "I changed his diapers when he was a baby and we're now married" is weird af as well - if you had a parent like relationship with someone growing up, then a) no sane person is gonna see them in a sexual way anyways, and b) that's very easy to manipulate. Age gaps that are fine when both people are consenting adults are not fine at all when one party isn't (shouldn't have to be said, but unfortunately some folks still argue against that), or they had some sort of relationship during that time.
The way Tom looks at Lance.... I'm sobbing it's so cute
Will never lose interest in Tom Daley. He is completely gorgeous
They are goals 😍
I have such good feelings about both Lance and Tom. First off, I found myself chuckling a little when Tom talked of Lance being "twice his age." Since I am "68 going on 69" (a variation on "The Sound of Music," lol), I should be so old! I briefly met Lance, but I haven't met Tom, yet I feel this good feeling for both for different reasons. In the case of Lance, I came up to him outside the Castro Theater after the premiere of "Milk" and told him---based on my experiences of not only actually trying to write s screenplay once as well as being an amateur film historian--- he was going to win the Oscar for his screenplay. So, I have a cinematic crystal ball. In the case of Tom, the feeling is different because when I was in the closet in the 1970s, I was a professional sports writer who covered big league baseball and football. Granted, sports like swimming or track and field are a little easier for gay athletes than being a (hush-hush) gay athlete who hits a grand slam home run, yet the atmosphere for any gay athlete usually is some element of caution. So, these young man are heroes to me. Long may they smile and love each other.
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Both are beautiful... inside and out. Special souls.
The most amazing feeling is to have someone truly believe in you when you aren’t even sure about yourself 💜
I love this entire video and the message. You can tell that Lance is a writer from his excellent way with words. However, beyond all of the deep stuff, the final clip is still my favourite
Tom and Dustin are such a beautiful couple and lets all hope that their love will always be there for each other. I would hate to see any other way than together.
I still can't believe they have a kid now! I'm so happy for them!
This is precious
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Two beautiful people that I love dearly...
I love the fact that they are happy
I want Lance to live for 100 years.🥺❤
Wish them all the luck in the world. They are perfect together. Both really lovely men.
OMGGGGGAAAAA tom u got yourself a daddy good job
NiorBlanc lol
lol but he doesn't look that old...
i was shocked
Now they’re gonna be actual daddies
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oh my god. the way tom looks at lance. you can tell that he's like feeling butterflies. hoo. the feels.
Two awesome guys better together. im glad i found them here on TH-cam. very inspiring.👍
How the fuck is he is in his 40's, like come on! Crazy! Really cute couple!
wow they look very peaceful and satisfied each other. Good to see this loving couple. God bless !
Congratulations Olympic champion Thomas Daley! Being a dad and husband truly changed him for the best! ❤️
Damn! Brought tears to my eyes ... love you Lance. 😅
Tom and Lance are a most beautiful couple with a genuine lasting love for each other.
i just found out about this cutie couple.. and when i checked out their profile, i'm just like "Holy shit, lance is 43". i really thought that he is in his twenties. he looks so younggg ..
Everytime I listen to lance I like him even more
I love how Dustin loves Tom. He is the Ultimate husband material.
that last bit had me internally screaming!!!!!
oh my gosh same
Love dustin. So inspired could listen him all day
Lance, I love following you guys! I hope some day to have somebody that loves me like you do Tom! God Bless you guys!!!
they are so adorable
Hey saw your video: you and Tom are so cute and adorable amazing together. Wonderful Couple. So blessed to have each other for support. I can see how much Tom loves you Dustin. Qapla for both your future plans and endeavours. I do hope you get married. But I know from experience relationships are often complicated. Bless you both guys 🌹🌹💞😘
No matter how it seems, you really are an incredibly fortunate person to have the (one and only) tom daly as your husband. I do mean that with respect . For what an honor to have the privaledge to be openly gay at such a young age and to be able to be openly married with all the world at your feet. What an exciting adventure life can be when your with the love of your life and all is happy. Very handsome couple yaull are and peace beyond all understanding be with the both of you .
He looks young, great complexion and a head full of hair
Lance looks soooooooo young! He must be an alien. Or from another dimension and just slipped into ours to help make this world a better place. I LOVE this guy.
They're too damn cute
Wow. Lance could have finished his Associates Degree in College by the time Tom was born. Absolutly crazy, you love who you love, no need to rush, two decades a part.
He should have had the Gold. I don't know what happened to Tom, but he must have lost confidence in the end, He was doing so well from the beginning. I have to say, I was a little shocked at the results, At least he got the Bronze in the Pairs Comp.
And now he got the gold 🏅 ☺️❤️
I think that was the best time for him to get gold in individual, but he won this year in synchronized game, still happy anyway
I’ve just known them today but it feels like I’ve known them for ages. They are so cute together and there isn’t a word in the dictionary that can describe how beautiful this moment is.❤️❤️❤️
Dustin looks amazingly young - you two are so beautiful together- stay strong
OMG the cuteness!!!! I just can't
no way he's 42 years old
You age like Dustin Lance when you’re unproblematic.
You know its love when he says something wonderful and you just melt.
I LOVE LANCE'S VOICE OK
om the way tom looks at dustin is just heartwarming *-*
Hey Lance I've watched your vlog a couple times before and still love this honesty and down to earth interview you gave here. I know this was posted 4 years ago but I got to know you a little more than later vlogs. Thanks again.... I've posted before... sorry.
Good for tom daley he needs lots of love which dustin will give him handsome couple
These two are a miracle ahead of time. As in one is a tick, and the other is a compelling of balance to each other, tock.
This is a truly beautiful love story, Thank God times have moved on for gay people. I though Dustin was about 7 years older than Tom:-0 Christ ! age is not an issue when true love comes to visit.
The entire beginning melted my heart like omg 😍☺️☺️☺️
oh damn, lance is awesome !
and dustin doesn't look like 42 years old... he looks 27
A good interview , Lance speaks very well that is where the 42 yrs come in . Very good Lance 👍
sorry i can *not* believe that he is about 42 years old.
age is just a number ...Woah !! i love this couple
Gorgeous Lance🤗🙋♀️ Perfect match
They are so cute
They are so adorable together. I can't believe that Dustin in his 40's. He looks younger day by day.❤ I thought they are same age
Love = beautiful. Always.
I am so envy - they are definition of a perfect match!
See Mr. Black's great contribution to LGBTQ history: "When We Rise" (ABC-TV, 2017).
Robbie be like in the future: My dads are Olympic Gold Medalist and Oscar Awardee
Reading lance’s book mama’s boy and it’s truly brilliant- I you haven’t got it ... get it
I love the way they look at each other 🥰
You have that cute smile.
Very good interview with Lance
I absolutely agree; it's what's going on in your mind and heart that makes the difference.
AGHHHHHHH they are sooooo cute together. They are sweet to each other and agh
I love seeing them together
Even if Tom is bisexual, I hope he is true and faithful. His lover is a very special guy. I wish you both great happiness. Love is giving .
Tom isnt bi. he told that he dont like labels. he loves Lance and dont need people to put him in box .
I am a fan of this LOVE TEAM. 😊😍🇵🇭
Another stat for the age gap: Lance said that he came out in high school (I think), so he'd already come out at least a year before tom was born
My god I love this human.
What a great story...2 amazing men
It's all about meeting the right person. Age is a number, that's it.
THIS IS SO CUTE