I love their love because as a young gay guy... can I say that? Tom is a year younger than me. As a young gay guy, it means a lot to see two men who are so into what they do career wise find and support each other in such an openly sincere and sweet way. Also I want Lance to write a book about how he still looks 25 when he's in his 40s
2021 Olympic gold medalist!! Tom said that he was happy with his home life, with his husband and Robbie!! You can tell the difference!! Started watching all of Tom’s videos and I love the two of them!
"you can't help who you fall in love with"...so true. I love my man so much too :) Age is just a number so long as the two of you are comfortable with it, no one else opinion matters
0:57 to 1:21 just GETS me. I'm in love with it. So genuine. So much admiration and love. Love them both! I wish incandescent happiness for them both for the rest of their lives!
Who gives a damn about age? Yes Dustin is older, so what? They both legal age, they both love each other, what more do you need? Age and love are too very different things.
I was a little weirded out when I first learned about the age difference... but watching this, you can tell that their lives are full of mutual repect, mutual admiration, and a really strong bedrock of love. All my best wishes to the happy couple!!
This comment is old to respond to but I want to leave mine for anyone reading after this…age only becomes an issue where there is a power dynamic at play. With Tom, he was forced to grow up quicker, he has his own money, he is the more famous one etc. So he isn’t dependent on Lance. If that was the case, it would be a completely different dynamic that could cause problems.
@@dananezat This is an excellent point! And in the four (wow) years since I made this comment I got into a relationship of my own with an age difference. Once both parties are adults who can stand on their own two feet, age doesn't *have* to be an issue. If you have equal power, a shared vision of how you want a relationship to be, and equal voice, then there's no inequality to exploit -- which is often the issue when age-gap relationships do become problematic.
I agree with everything except Tom being more well known. It depends on what you are into.....not everyone is into sports.......after all Lance is a well respected writer...producer....director...activist and Oscar winner. So depending on what circles you travel in I would guess they are both pretty famous.
@@serendipit_y Definitely - an important question to ask yourself when you or a loved one is in a relationship, especially with a large age gap or other possible power imbalance, is how you/they would do after a break up. For example, there's nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent, or generally staying home if you can afford it - but if someone goes from living with their parents to staying at home full time without their own source of income, that often means they're easier to manipulate into staying in a bad relationship (because they have nowhere else to go). Generally, if someone financially stable coerces someone else into giving up on further education/training or to stop working, that's something to be wary of - can be fine, but it shifts the power dynamic. Experience is another thing, if someone doesn't have much experience with relationships it can be harder to judge what's normal/okay - but often a smaller issue in the lgbtq community because people have their "firsts" at vastly different ages due to stuff like homophobia. Obviously, "I changed his diapers when he was a baby and we're now married" is weird af as well - if you had a parent like relationship with someone growing up, then a) no sane person is gonna see them in a sexual way anyways, and b) that's very easy to manipulate. Age gaps that are fine when both people are consenting adults are not fine at all when one party isn't (shouldn't have to be said, but unfortunately some folks still argue against that), or they had some sort of relationship during that time.
Just got goosebumps when I saw how Tom was looking at you Dustin. So Raw and Real. 💞 think you both will sustain each other through your celebrity tough times. Bless you Dustin and Tom. Ps. Glad I got to see and hear the real Dustin on TH-cam 👍🍾🌹💞🇬🇧
Tom Daley is an absolute credit to his family, especially his Dad who passed away to young but would be so proud of him. I’m from Plymouth and as far as I’m concerned he’s our first son. Such a delight and also so brave.
I have such good feelings about both Lance and Tom. First off, I found myself chuckling a little when Tom talked of Lance being "twice his age." Since I am "68 going on 69" (a variation on "The Sound of Music," lol), I should be so old! I briefly met Lance, but I haven't met Tom, yet I feel this good feeling for both for different reasons. In the case of Lance, I came up to him outside the Castro Theater after the premiere of "Milk" and told him---based on my experiences of not only actually trying to write s screenplay once as well as being an amateur film historian--- he was going to win the Oscar for his screenplay. So, I have a cinematic crystal ball. In the case of Tom, the feeling is different because when I was in the closet in the 1970s, I was a professional sports writer who covered big league baseball and football. Granted, sports like swimming or track and field are a little easier for gay athletes than being a (hush-hush) gay athlete who hits a grand slam home run, yet the atmosphere for any gay athlete usually is some element of caution. So, these young man are heroes to me. Long may they smile and love each other.
I love this entire video and the message. You can tell that Lance is a writer from his excellent way with words. However, beyond all of the deep stuff, the final clip is still my favourite
i just found out about this cutie couple.. and when i checked out their profile, i'm just like "Holy shit, lance is 43". i really thought that he is in his twenties. he looks so younggg ..
Tom and Dustin are such a beautiful couple and lets all hope that their love will always be there for each other. I would hate to see any other way than together.
Hey saw your video: you and Tom are so cute and adorable amazing together. Wonderful Couple. So blessed to have each other for support. I can see how much Tom loves you Dustin. Qapla for both your future plans and endeavours. I do hope you get married. But I know from experience relationships are often complicated. Bless you both guys 🌹🌹💞😘
No matter how it seems, you really are an incredibly fortunate person to have the (one and only) tom daly as your husband. I do mean that with respect . For what an honor to have the privaledge to be openly gay at such a young age and to be able to be openly married with all the world at your feet. What an exciting adventure life can be when your with the love of your life and all is happy. Very handsome couple yaull are and peace beyond all understanding be with the both of you .
He should have had the Gold. I don't know what happened to Tom, but he must have lost confidence in the end, He was doing so well from the beginning. I have to say, I was a little shocked at the results, At least he got the Bronze in the Pairs Comp.
Wow. Lance could have finished his Associates Degree in College by the time Tom was born. Absolutly crazy, you love who you love, no need to rush, two decades a part.
Lance looks soooooooo young! He must be an alien. Or from another dimension and just slipped into ours to help make this world a better place. I LOVE this guy.
I’ve just known them today but it feels like I’ve known them for ages. They are so cute together and there isn’t a word in the dictionary that can describe how beautiful this moment is.❤️❤️❤️
This is a truly beautiful love story, Thank God times have moved on for gay people. I though Dustin was about 7 years older than Tom:-0 Christ ! age is not an issue when true love comes to visit.
Hey Lance I've watched your vlog a couple times before and still love this honesty and down to earth interview you gave here. I know this was posted 4 years ago but I got to know you a little more than later vlogs. Thanks again.... I've posted before... sorry.
Holy moly, I didn't know Lance was 20 years older than Tom. He does not look like he is 42.
I thought he was like 28 or something!!
Same I thought they were the same age!
I just googled it
Sapageb omg 😮 don’t say !
I always thought they were the same age...
omg !!!! He is nearly 40 years old but looks like around 27-30. I coudnt believe untill I looked up in Wikipedia
L'orso he's 42
L'orso 42 is the answer to the ultimate question
He's 43 now but same man. Same
he's 50 now
The way Tom looks at him in the first scene... woow.
Katarina he looks so...vulnerable. Safe.
I love their love because as a young gay guy... can I say that? Tom is a year younger than me. As a young gay guy, it means a lot to see two men who are so into what they do career wise find and support each other in such an openly sincere and sweet way. Also I want Lance to write a book about how he still looks 25 when he's in his 40s
I completely agree with you! especially about the book thing 😂
@@lucyastoyan9915 n
But how in the world is Dustin so young looking like wooooo
Taylor Delma I liked to see a pic of his family just to see if it runs in the genes
It may be cuz gay guys tend to look after themselves well, better than straight guys. Vanity also helps to keep looking youthful.
Yes I totally agree .He’s just like 30’s
Dustin and Tom are relationship goals!
Nathan Be0zzz,ard
Dustin is one GORGEOUS, smart and kind man! Tom got super lucky!!
so did lance
@@roonil3931 absolutely
They're so adorable.
This is the cutest thing ever oml
This is so beautiful...i love them
2021 Olympic gold medalist!! Tom said that he was happy with his home life, with his husband and Robbie!! You can tell the difference!! Started watching all of Tom’s videos and I love the two of them!
TOM AND LANCE ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL COUPE
I'm crying rainbow tears, no seriously Tom and Lance are too cute
They are even double cute now having their son Robbie who turns three this year.
I'm a straight woman, but Gosh I love Tom and Lance's relationship ❤
Me too❤
"you can't help who you fall in love with"...so true. I love my man so much too :) Age is just a number so long as the two of you are comfortable with it, no one else opinion matters
0:57 to 1:21 just GETS me. I'm in love with it. So genuine. So much admiration and love. Love them both! I wish incandescent happiness for them both for the rest of their lives!
I love how proud Lance is at 2.30 🙊
Who gives a damn about age? Yes Dustin is older, so what? They both legal age, they both love each other, what more do you need? Age and love are too very different things.
So true. If you ever notice, most of the people who say their ages are too different, are single themselves.
You are exactly correct. Love knows no age for anyone. If someone doesn't like it-it's not their job to like it, it's your's.
Agreed
Yes as long as both are legal in age.
@@luihrms Of course Tom and Dustin are
They are so cute together
Lance doesnt even look forty. :)
I know , I legit thought he was in his 20s not 40s
dddorota Right!?
I dont understand how he can be 42... i just cant
I was a little weirded out when I first learned about the age difference... but watching this, you can tell that their lives are full of mutual repect, mutual admiration, and a really strong bedrock of love. All my best wishes to the happy couple!!
This comment is old to respond to but I want to leave mine for anyone reading after this…age only becomes an issue where there is a power dynamic at play. With Tom, he was forced to grow up quicker, he has his own money, he is the more famous one etc. So he isn’t dependent on Lance. If that was the case, it would be a completely different dynamic that could cause problems.
@@dananezat This is an excellent point! And in the four (wow) years since I made this comment I got into a relationship of my own with an age difference. Once both parties are adults who can stand on their own two feet, age doesn't *have* to be an issue. If you have equal power, a shared vision of how you want a relationship to be, and equal voice, then there's no inequality to exploit -- which is often the issue when age-gap relationships do become problematic.
I agree with everything except Tom being more well known. It depends on what you are into.....not everyone is into sports.......after all Lance is a well respected writer...producer....director...activist and Oscar winner. So depending on what circles you travel in I would guess they are both pretty famous.
@@serendipit_y Definitely - an important question to ask yourself when you or a loved one is in a relationship, especially with a large age gap or other possible power imbalance, is how you/they would do after a break up.
For example, there's nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent, or generally staying home if you can afford it - but if someone goes from living with their parents to staying at home full time without their own source of income, that often means they're easier to manipulate into staying in a bad relationship (because they have nowhere else to go). Generally, if someone financially stable coerces someone else into giving up on further education/training or to stop working, that's something to be wary of - can be fine, but it shifts the power dynamic. Experience is another thing, if someone doesn't have much experience with relationships it can be harder to judge what's normal/okay - but often a smaller issue in the lgbtq community because people have their "firsts" at vastly different ages due to stuff like homophobia.
Obviously, "I changed his diapers when he was a baby and we're now married" is weird af as well - if you had a parent like relationship with someone growing up, then a) no sane person is gonna see them in a sexual way anyways, and b) that's very easy to manipulate. Age gaps that are fine when both people are consenting adults are not fine at all when one party isn't (shouldn't have to be said, but unfortunately some folks still argue against that), or they had some sort of relationship during that time.
Just got goosebumps when I saw how Tom was looking at you Dustin. So Raw and Real. 💞 think you both will sustain each other through your celebrity tough times. Bless you Dustin and Tom. Ps. Glad I got to see and hear the real Dustin on TH-cam 👍🍾🌹💞🇬🇧
Tom Daley is an absolute credit to his family, especially his Dad who passed away to young but would be so proud of him. I’m from Plymouth and as far as I’m concerned he’s our first son. Such a delight and also so brave.
They are goals 😍
The way Tom looks at Lance.... I'm sobbing it's so cute
I have such good feelings about both Lance and Tom. First off, I found myself chuckling a little when Tom talked of Lance being "twice his age." Since I am "68 going on 69" (a variation on "The Sound of Music," lol), I should be so old! I briefly met Lance, but I haven't met Tom, yet I feel this good feeling for both for different reasons. In the case of Lance, I came up to him outside the Castro Theater after the premiere of "Milk" and told him---based on my experiences of not only actually trying to write s screenplay once as well as being an amateur film historian--- he was going to win the Oscar for his screenplay. So, I have a cinematic crystal ball. In the case of Tom, the feeling is different because when I was in the closet in the 1970s, I was a professional sports writer who covered big league baseball and football. Granted, sports like swimming or track and field are a little easier for gay athletes than being a (hush-hush) gay athlete who hits a grand slam home run, yet the atmosphere for any gay athlete usually is some element of caution. So, these young man are heroes to me. Long may they smile and love each other.
William Snyder y
I´m gonna fucking cry. They are so adorable...
Will never lose interest in Tom Daley. He is completely gorgeous
I love this entire video and the message. You can tell that Lance is a writer from his excellent way with words. However, beyond all of the deep stuff, the final clip is still my favourite
The most amazing feeling is to have someone truly believe in you when you aren’t even sure about yourself 💜
Heart warming. Every best wish for the future.
I want Lance to live for 100 years.🥺❤
This is precious
Mary Bach to
i just found out about this cutie couple.. and when i checked out their profile, i'm just like "Holy shit, lance is 43". i really thought that he is in his twenties. he looks so younggg ..
Both are beautiful... inside and out. Special souls.
I love the fact that they are happy
Tom and Dustin are such a beautiful couple and lets all hope that their love will always be there for each other. I would hate to see any other way than together.
How the fuck is he is in his 40's, like come on! Crazy! Really cute couple!
I still can't believe they have a kid now! I'm so happy for them!
Two beautiful people that I love dearly...
Hey saw your video: you and Tom are so cute and adorable amazing together. Wonderful Couple. So blessed to have each other for support. I can see how much Tom loves you Dustin. Qapla for both your future plans and endeavours. I do hope you get married. But I know from experience relationships are often complicated. Bless you both guys 🌹🌹💞😘
Wish them all the luck in the world. They are perfect together. Both really lovely men.
OMGGGGGAAAAA tom u got yourself a daddy good job
NiorBlanc lol
lol but he doesn't look that old...
i was shocked
Now they’re gonna be actual daddies
NiorBlanc i
that last bit had me internally screaming!!!!!
oh my gosh same
Two awesome guys better together. im glad i found them here on TH-cam. very inspiring.👍
Damn! Brought tears to my eyes ... love you Lance. 😅
oh my god. the way tom looks at lance. you can tell that he's like feeling butterflies. hoo. the feels.
wow they look very peaceful and satisfied each other. Good to see this loving couple. God bless !
He looks young, great complexion and a head full of hair
I love how Dustin loves Tom. He is the Ultimate husband material.
Congratulations Olympic champion Thomas Daley! Being a dad and husband truly changed him for the best! ❤️
Everytime I listen to lance I like him even more
No matter how it seems, you really are an incredibly fortunate person to have the (one and only) tom daly as your husband. I do mean that with respect . For what an honor to have the privaledge to be openly gay at such a young age and to be able to be openly married with all the world at your feet. What an exciting adventure life can be when your with the love of your life and all is happy. Very handsome couple yaull are and peace beyond all understanding be with the both of you .
He should have had the Gold. I don't know what happened to Tom, but he must have lost confidence in the end, He was doing so well from the beginning. I have to say, I was a little shocked at the results, At least he got the Bronze in the Pairs Comp.
And now he got the gold 🏅 ☺️❤️
I think that was the best time for him to get gold in individual, but he won this year in synchronized game, still happy anyway
Tom and Lance are a most beautiful couple with a genuine lasting love for each other.
they are so adorable
They're too damn cute
Wow. Lance could have finished his Associates Degree in College by the time Tom was born. Absolutly crazy, you love who you love, no need to rush, two decades a part.
I LOVE LANCE'S VOICE OK
Love dustin. So inspired could listen him all day
Lance, I love following you guys! I hope some day to have somebody that loves me like you do Tom! God Bless you guys!!!
Lance looks soooooooo young! He must be an alien. Or from another dimension and just slipped into ours to help make this world a better place. I LOVE this guy.
Good for tom daley he needs lots of love which dustin will give him handsome couple
oh damn, lance is awesome !
The entire beginning melted my heart like omg 😍☺️☺️☺️
I’ve just known them today but it feels like I’ve known them for ages. They are so cute together and there isn’t a word in the dictionary that can describe how beautiful this moment is.❤️❤️❤️
Dustin looks amazingly young - you two are so beautiful together- stay strong
A good interview , Lance speaks very well that is where the 42 yrs come in . Very good Lance 👍
You age like Dustin Lance when you’re unproblematic.
om the way tom looks at dustin is just heartwarming *-*
This is a truly beautiful love story, Thank God times have moved on for gay people. I though Dustin was about 7 years older than Tom:-0 Christ ! age is not an issue when true love comes to visit.
OMG the cuteness!!!! I just can't
They are so cute
Reading lance’s book mama’s boy and it’s truly brilliant- I you haven’t got it ... get it
I love the way they look at each other 🥰
You know its love when he says something wonderful and you just melt.
no way he's 42 years old
Hey Lance I've watched your vlog a couple times before and still love this honesty and down to earth interview you gave here. I know this was posted 4 years ago but I got to know you a little more than later vlogs. Thanks again.... I've posted before... sorry.
Gorgeous Lance🤗🙋♀️ Perfect match
Love = beautiful. Always.
age is just a number ...Woah !! i love this couple
You have that cute smile.
and dustin doesn't look like 42 years old... he looks 27
I am so envy - they are definition of a perfect match!
These two are a miracle ahead of time. As in one is a tick, and the other is a compelling of balance to each other, tock.
They are so adorable together. I can't believe that Dustin in his 40's. He looks younger day by day.❤ I thought they are same age
I love their love it’s just so real and pure and I hate when people says ugly things about Lance just cause he’s age ... 👬😍💖🌈
Very good interview with Lance
I absolutely agree; it's what's going on in your mind and heart that makes the difference.
I am a fan of this LOVE TEAM. 😊😍🇵🇭
Even if Tom is bisexual, I hope he is true and faithful. His lover is a very special guy. I wish you both great happiness. Love is giving .
Tom isnt bi. he told that he dont like labels. he loves Lance and dont need people to put him in box .
I love seeing them together
they're so cute 😭😭😭
See Mr. Black's great contribution to LGBTQ history: "When We Rise" (ABC-TV, 2017).
I wish You a lot of hapiness
sorry i can *not* believe that he is about 42 years old.
AGHHHHHHH they are sooooo cute together. They are sweet to each other and agh
THIS IS SO CUTE
What a great story...2 amazing men