It is bad for your mental health. Imagine how many naive kids are now under impression that they know a lot about psychology just because they watched some of this stuff.
@MAK gaming you can't trust *everything* on the internet, but you can know which sources to trust with research. The internet is an infinite bank of knowledge, correct knowledge mind you, if only used correctly.
I used to be toxic, but I’m getting better and better every day. Even though I still am toxic, I’m forgetting that. I hope I will never be toxic. I don’t want to hurt people.
That is awesome so you’re aware of that and that you’re trying to improve because the thing is most toxic people would not like to improve and not recognize they were being toxic and the reality is we can all be toxic but what’s important is we recognize that I’m so glad to hear that you recognized that😁😁
Get comfortable getting uncomfortable. Caterpillars literally breakdown into liquid to be transformed into butterflies. Growth is a painful yet beautiful process. Change is coming. You got this. 💗 Dr. Liz
2020 has been the BIGGEST “character-growth” for me lol I haven’t been the same since this year had started, I think I’m a slightly different person now; whether that be for the better or worse.
Realising that you're toxic and wanting to become a better person is the biggest sign that you already are a way better person. I'm not completely over my toxic behaviour but the progress I've made, after being brought up in a really toxic environment, makes me wanna keep getting better at being a decent human being ❤
I find that Instead of aiming for positivity it's better to learn to be content in all states of affairs. It's OK to feel all feelings and you shouldn't try to shut any out. Just know that they will pass in due course. Negativity, pain and discomfort should be interpreted as signs for action. There is no escaping the human condition you can just learn to not create more Un necessary suffering. I think that its more realistic than aiming for positivity. Also you don't learn when your winning, you really learn when times get hard. So make them an opportunity not a struggle!🖒
8 signs you're becoming a better person 1. You are self- aware 2. You are conscious of your affect to the people 3. You accept your shortcoming and mistakes 4. You are okay being vulnerable with others 5. You find the actual causes of your problems 6. You are more selective when you choosing your friends 7. You make your own decisions. 8. You ask more questions.
@@HolisticDistraction5 Questions about everything, like for example if you want to read books then you can ask questions to others for recommendation or about things that you are interested in and want to learn more like football, a specific subject etc
I find it difficult being vulnerable around others, every time I do so It feels "weird" afterwards, like I shoudn't have said that and kept it for myself. This comment is a good example lol
Same,, in fact sometimes (rather often these days) its not even exactly about being vulnerable, like.. just simple things I said or did and a while later, I feel I shouldn't have and keep pondering that for quite some time
Same and after that i cant help but to cringe at myself then i just stay away from those people i told my problems to all of a sudden bcos of this inside feeling thinking they're judging me..idk man
It's the same for me. I find myself feeling guilty afterwards, that's why I try to keep everything for myself... Yeah, this comment is a bad example lmao
Thank you, I’ve noticed I’m a toxic person and I’m trying to better myself. Three of my friends left me bc they got sick of my bs, it was a huge wake up call.
Me over here thinking that I'm a terrible person because of what other say about me, but finding out I have been a good person after all. I really needed this today thank you!!
I'm definitely working to become a better person. I'm learning more and more each day how to love myself. When, for years. I've always put others first beford myself
I needed to hear all of this.. I took a break from almost everything that affected my mental health for a month: Instagram, tiktok, my friends and acquaintances too. God the amount I realized about my relationships and my confidence really felt redeeming. :) I’m taking a lot more action now for myself!!
The difficult thing about self-improvement is distinguishing between traits of yours that are toxic, and traits of your that are simply shortcomings. Quite often, we live in a society that sees such things as interchangeable, giving not only false standards of perfection, but the expectation that literally everyone can achieve perfection. If any of the signs in this video relate to you, I have to be honest - you're not becoming a better person. You're becoming YOURSELF. The likelihood is, if this is the way you choose to deal with your traumas, you always had kindness in you, and you simply needed the right moment to bring that out. So congratulations are in order for many of you, in more ways than one.
It may sound crazy guys, but clean your room if it’s messy, and organize it! Don’t just shove things in drawers. The process of dedicating time to do it, committing to it, and recycling/donating what you don’t need anymore, is not also peaceful, but extremely cathartic. I felt so good about myself after doing it. And it made me want to find balance with areas of my life. It’s a great first step towards bettering yourself.
I am always oversharing by accident and sometimes put the focus on myself without the intention to, but I am finally getting better at being more mindful of what I say
*TIME STAMPS BELOW:* 1) You are self-aware [0:55] 2) You are conscious of your affect on other people [1:23] 3) You accept your shortcomings and mistakes [1:55] 4) You're okay being vulnerable around others [2:27] 5) You find the actual causes of your problems [2:56] 6) You are selective with who you spend time with [3:26] 7) You make your own decisions [3:55] 8) You ask more questions [4:18]
I’m trying so hard to be better that it started to overwhelm me , so I told myself to take it easy from here .. one step at a time . I now believe that my current self is ok ..i mean I don’t need to change in asap but it has to improve at the end
Maybe EVERYBODY uses some manipulative techniques to get a little more in life to go their own way. Maybe they (most of them anyway) just don't realize it, or even they hide from it. Maybe the worst and most destructive lies are the lies we tell ourselves to avoid our own responsibilities. AND maybe, just maybe, you're becoming more and more aware of all the moments you've used some technique or other to manipulate situations for your advantage. Maybe there really isn't an escape from being able to manipulate someone at some point, pretty much everywhere in life. SO what do we do about it? Maybe instead of the knee-jerk "Manipulation bad" response, we stop for a moment and ask ourselves "Why should I manipulate this situation or this person?"... If we think about it in terms of what we can get them to do for themselves, then maybe it's NOT so bad that we manipulated them. Maybe this power of manipulation CAN be used for someone else's good, too. Sometimes, it's not an act of pure evil that you manipulate someone. Just becoming self-aware enough to realize it's what you do, you've come farther than most. Accepting this about yourself also makes it become a part of you, and like your own hand is a part of you, YOU can now learn to control it. I'd hazard that there's still responsibility to be undertaken with it, but that this isn't for the worst. The fact you find it important enough to type out in the Comments and make an accountenance of it says you're better than that. ;o)
Sitting with heartbreak and negative feelings is necessary instead of acting on them in spite. You gain inner strength and understanding of who is on your side and what you actually want in life
i have been conscious that i have became a better person during this year, so this video is just a confirmation that it's a real change and i am really glad for that
im trying so hard to become a better and this video helped me realize my small steps that sometimes we have a hard time to see, ive become such a strong mature person and ive been getting out of my comfort zone and learning :)
i’ve hurt a lot of people, and i’ve just now become aware of all of the people. i’m working on coming to them and holding myself accountable and apologizing to them so i can help give them closure as well myself, the guilt has been really eating at me and i feel terrible. all i know is that i don’t want to hurt anymore people and i’m going to heal so it never happens again.
I love this channel. I lost my boyfriend to covid-19 in Feb 2021. Since then I've been on a mission for purpose. In the midst of my search I started looking for peace. And now I'm seeking to make a better me. 💗💗💗✌️
I feel like sometimes i'm very focused on the things that I didn't achieve yet and don't pay enough attention to the progress that I've already done and the things that I already achieved. The video helped me realize that I need to give myself more credit.
When you are stuck in a world that always make you feel like you're not good enough, even if you do your best to change, in the end you just want to be loved and appreciated just as you are.
Wow this almost made me cry. I’ve been trying so hard to be a better person and stop procrastinating but it feels like I haven’t been really getting anywhere. I have almost if not all of these signs though, which makes me feel like I’m actually making progress. So thank you this made me feel a lot better.
#3, accepting my shortcomings and mistakes is probably the biggest problem I've been having. Thank you for doin this. Every day is a fight, and your guys' videos help pull me back whenever I'm on the edge again.
I don't know if I'll ever stop loving this channel's videos. I just love how calming you are. And I really do want to become a better person -- more empathetic & loving. Less judgemental towards others & myself. More kind and understanding of why others make the choices they do. But also more diligent about where I want my life to go.
Love your soothing voice and narration and the fact that there is no background music when you speak. So the mind has only one thing to focus on. Quite an effective strategy I realize.
I relate to some of these signs, still working on vulnerability around others and asking more questions or being curious. I find myself still leaning back and hiding myself in a corner in my chest. I've got further steps to make, and the process isn't linear but it's a process. If you're reading this far, rememebr it's a process. Be gentle, take care
I am always on my way to becoming a better person. But the outside world doesn't seem to care. In fact, the better I try to behave, the worse people behave towards me. The people I meet when I leave the house make it very difficult and frustrating for me to try to be a nice person. It's like they respect me more when I don't care about them.
Even through all the stuff that’s happened this year, I think I’ve become a slightly better person in a lot of ways. I’ve learned a lot about myself and others around me. I’m hoping I’ll be able to take this knowledge for when life has become a bit less... chaotic.
I know I have a way to go to improve myself, but I've been working on this for so long I'm impatient to get better. As in be more sure of myself and what I want in life.
I was honestly a big headed, had a big ego and also aggressive back then! I did mistakes and probably cause lots of problems to people and my teachers who i really want to apologize.... Its good to know that i kinda change.... Though i still can't say my feelings out loud and make some decisions on my own that depends on the situation......Well I'm still learning and changing... So who ever who's trying to change.... Remember that your past isn't who you are even if other people are looking or comparing you to your past! I know that it's hard to come out from addiction and other things.... But don't give up!, 🐙
Man...i feel good after hearing all of these and seeing myself on it, I still need to get better at it thought, I hope everyone is doing fine and getting better too ❤
I have a long journey behind me. I was so depressive and dissoziated a year ago, I talked about my traumatic past in therapy and feel much freer now, some days I have to deal with it again and again, but because I already made process, I think it is gonna become better. Honestly I don't See myself in a lot of points from the video, honestly I think sometimes "it is okay for me to do that? to try different things? Do become the best version?" I feel still unworthy and am afraid of these decisions. Non the less I think that I am growing, I grew already so I am gonna grow furhter and further into freedom
I noticed that I’m catching the causes to my problems and making different approaches in situations or events. I’m also learning how to help people better understand how that works. Thank you guys for helping us continuously throughout this time❤️
OK. Yes, I am on the journey. It is, indeed, a process. Am glad that this came up in my recommends today. I will be sharing this with others. Thank you.
The last thing i gotta be is a vulnerable person and let others know how I feel but I’m still scared for that to happen because of my habit to overthink. I really hope one day I tell people how I truly feel…
Ive made the mistake of allowing myself to be vulnerable with the wrong people so I stopped being vulnerable but that still didn't stop them so I learnt to be more selective. Still problems were unavoidable so I became vulnerable again but now I have a better understanding of what I need and my boundaries.
I think am becoming a better person because I can relate to all the signs.Thank you for letting me know because at first I thought it wasn't a good thing.Thank you
2 years ago, I was definitely struggling with hard times in to seeing my worth and everything with depression. In 2019, I was able to power through the depression and decided to change my ways during that summer. Fast forward to the end of 2020, and I've been growing A LOT this year especially after a harsh breakup I also had to go through earlier this year. Since then, Im proud to day that Ive been more curious about the world and taking interest in school, Im becoming more spiritual, and I love myself a lot more. I guess my point is I can relate to EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of those signs 💖
Feels like number 4 and number 6 come hand in hand. Cuz while some people bottle up and become distrustful, some instead tend to overshare all details of their life to try to show they have nothing to hide and are very open and trustworthy individuals. Number 4 is for the former to be more relaxed and number 6 is for the latter to learn to set boundaries
I am trying to become more engaged with others! sometimes my mindfulness can make me feel aloof with others, remembering not to get lost in the environment and remembering to be present with others as well. This video was so helpful.
Working on number 6 adn 7 soon!! As in work in progress. XOXOXO. "Learning to trust yourself and the decisions you make. Becoming more curious about the people around you and the world"
Learning to be the best version of yourself is one of the hardest journeys that can last a life time. One thing that has help me to become the best person i can be is learning about myself, what works for me and what doesnt, what i like and what i dont like, what i need and what i dont need, how i learn, how i express myslef, How I act, How i think, how I cope, how I react in situations. My strengths and weaknesses, my insecurties and the things I am most proud of. These are some questions I have asked my self and leanred about my self. Self discovery has been one of the most helpful coping skills for my depression (yes I was properly diagnosed). Anyways even trying to answer one of these questiosn about your slef is progress!
I love the video. Yes, through thus hard times I have had the time to self-reflect and find more about myself and what I want to be in the future. Yes, all of these signs are presently happening to me right now and I'm so glad I'm growing up. Thanks for the video, Pysch2Go. I like the animation, it's so cute! Thank you also for adding korean subtitles, I'm not korean but I really appreciate it.💜💜💜
Life is a journey of learning and growing. From my teenage years and beyond I've been continuously searching for understanding of who and what I am. We each go at our own pace, and face our own failings and challenges. We each experience our dark times. I have bipolar mood disorder. I have had to deal with depression since my teen years. I was a teenager when I first thought about suicide. I only considered it momentarily, then I rejected it entirely. I promised myself and my God that no matter how bad I feel, or how terrible my life may look or feel, I would never deliberately end my life. I've experienced dark enough times that I fully understand and empathize with those who have committed suicide, or attempted it. I'm not sure how I got through some of those days and actually still did my job. I am currently doing well, and my moods are stable. I have also recently successfully dealt with the last of my emotional baggage. I'm now seeking my next goal or direction I need to pursue. Even though I'm 54 now, I'm still growing as a person. We should never stop learning. If you aren't learning and growing, then you're cheating yourself. No mater how much you hurt, no matter how terrible your life may seem, never give up. Fight to the bitter end if you have to. Life doesn't just suck, it is horrible, sometimes. Make something good of it. You can succeed. You can become a better person than you were before. You can look despair in the eyes and not blink. When you are at your weakest, you can find strength. Strive for it; fight for it.
“your life is not like a krama” hit hard🥺 my expectations are so high for my love life because of kdramas but I didn’t know that it was a bad thing.. sigh I’ll never find someone like Ji Chang Wook :/
I am being more vulnerable with people, and am finding out that many people will tell you: -just be more positive -only you can help yourself -how they managed to achieve where they are -unsolicited advice And I am glad that I read up on validation of experience and emotion and can recognize when to stop or start listening~
8 uncomfortable signs you are becoming a better person 1. You're self-aware 2. You are conscious of your affect on other people 3. You accept your shortcomings and mistakes 4. You are okay with being vulnerable around others 5. You find the actual causes of your problems 6. You're more selective with the people you spend time with 7. You make your own decisions 8. You ask more questions Haven't see anyone do it so i do it myself
At the moment I struggle with depression and anxiety but these videos really help me to achieve motivation early morning before school with a cup of coffee, thank you ❤
My problem is that whenever I start to feel okay about myself, I feel like I start to get selfish and seek attention or something. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for me to be proud of myself, because when I think I’m good, I get these intrusive thoughts saying everything I disagree with like “oh your better than that person” or “you don’t need to help that person” which is what I absolutely hate because I just want to be a good person. I’ve always been a kind hearted, caring person. I am generally very nice and put others before myself, so when I try to take care of myself, I just feel selfish, then the thoughts creep in and tell me things I know I would never say but it freaks me out, I just don’t understand it or myself at all. I don’t know what I really want. I always just resort to ignoring it and I feel like I have to remind myself why I’m not good. A lot of times I worry about dumb things and I have gotten a lot better at coping, now I’m able to tell myself I’m a good person but a lot of times it feels like I’m lying to myself. Please don’t worry about me though, I have a therapist, I’m working it out and I am a lot better than I was. I really just needed to vent, I think it helped. I’m probably gonna delete this, but I would like to say that these videos really help me, thank you!
Thank you so much , from past few days I was feeling so lonely like why is it hard for me to talk to other people now , why I am becoming isolated but it’s just that I am becoming more self aware and trying to become a better person ! Removing non essential people from my life and doing the things which matters 💜
Can you make one about “am I getting groomed?” Because one of my friends have been making me feel uncomfortable and does/says weird things. I told my friend and she said I might be getting groomed...
Hey there wholesome. It’s not wrong to cut things off with people that make you feel uncomfortable. Take it from me, people who don’t respect your boundaries can really hurt you mentally and spiritually in the long term. There are too many people in the world that will make you feel great, to spend even one minute with someone who makes you feel a little uneasy. It’s not just about feeling uncomfortable. But the uneasiness is an indicator, a sign, that something could be very wrong. It’s your body/spirit’s advance warning system alerting you of s possible danger to your wellbeing. Trust those feelings or yours and most important- ACT! Your human intuition will figure things out before our brain is able to make sense of things. Don’t walk, run! I mean it. Your life will be better and you will be safer without that influence in your life. There are consequences to every path and action. Don’t ignore the warning signs. You can do It!
Here is a link (below). This may or may not be helpful to you. It touches on how malevolent people will prey on naivety of malevolence, which having little experience in the world, limited education, and often a comparably happy childhood, is the state of most young people. Please also search what to do if you think you are being groomed. I hope you don’t ignore fixing the situation. Whatever happens in life you will carry the memories. Be active about avoiding and cutting off anyone who might be trying to use you. I really wish you the best. th-cam.com/video/whKaja3bg4A/w-d-xo.html
The last point made me smile. I thought I might be irritating other people with so many questions to get a clear idea of whatever the subject is but this one made me feel better. Now I'm ready to throw questions with no hesitation.
Maybe TH-cam is telling me I’m becoming a better person with these recommendations
Haha true
Yeah
Yes✨
We love that for you 😊❤
Me too☺️☺️☺️
Parents, teachers, adults: TH-cam isnt good for your mental health
TH-cam: *laughs in Psych2Go
It is bad for your mental health. Imagine how many naive kids are now under impression that they know a lot about psychology just because they watched some of this stuff.
@@romany8125
That's those kid fault. This video is meant to makes you understand yourself, not to teach you psychology.
TH-cam is the best thing happened to me during lockdown
Haha yeah that's right😅
@MAK gaming you can't trust *everything* on the internet, but you can know which sources to trust with research. The internet is an infinite bank of knowledge, correct knowledge mind you, if only used correctly.
5 things to quit right now:
1. Overthinking
2. Worrying
3. Trying to make everyone happy
4. Living in the past
5. Doubting yourself
That's all I ever do 😂😂
agree 👍
psych2go should make a vid on 'how' to quit those 5 things, it'll be cool!
I'm having those issues right now. I'm hoping to find the time to meditate and think about that.
*sweats profusely*
I just learned to stop pleasing everyone these days and say no it's so important now I feel so happy and proud
Teach me your ways qwq
@@acigarette1379 we'll just say no into Thier eyes and stop caring if they become angry or not don't care because you worthy as well
@@juliakazama1402 :o thank you :D
@@acigarette1379 your welcome you made my day
I EXPLODED YESTERDAY CUZ I WAS LITTERLY HELPING EVERYONE THEN I FOUND SOMETHING I CANT BEAT!!!@!
Self improvement isn't about not making mistakes, it's about realizing what mistakes you can prevent, and what mistakes are just part of being human
Your right guess I kinda forget that sometimes.😅😌
@@kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 me to
@@Sambocha But hey it ok🌸it just happens sometimes essentially if you having a bad or something like that.😌😅
You're absolutely correct
You grow when you learn from your mistakes
I used to be toxic, but I’m getting better and better every day. Even though I still am toxic, I’m forgetting that. I hope I will never be toxic. I don’t want to hurt people.
I used to be a toxic person, and I always am scared of becoming that person again.
I'm still a little toxic but I'm trying to be better 👍
If this is joke about your name then haha
If nit then Im sorry :))
@@labudig5022 it's not
That is awesome so you’re aware of that and that you’re trying to improve because the thing is most toxic people would not like to improve and not recognize they were being toxic and the reality is we can all be toxic but what’s important is we recognize that I’m so glad to hear that you recognized that😁😁
I'm proud of you, at least now you're a better person 👌
“With great power comes great responsibility”
- Uncle Ben
***"With great power comes great electricity bill"
- A wise Man
@@aylii *pakalu papito
Voltaire said it first
This is what I learnt from this video:
"Self awareness doesn't stop you from making mistakes, it allows you to learn from them & grow"
Howd u time travel
@@whatifieatedsoap the video was unlisted and now it’s not
@@moon_3609 where do i find the video when its unlisted
@@whatifieatedsoap in the playlists, but you really have to search
@@hooft747 whats it called?
They really called me out when they said "nor is your life a k-drama 😂😭
Lol same
Me too!!!
and that yoonji-???
Me too HAHAHHA
Lmao I also felt called out! 😂😅
Get comfortable getting uncomfortable.
Caterpillars literally breakdown into liquid to be transformed into butterflies. Growth is a painful yet beautiful process. Change is coming. You got this. 💗 Dr. Liz
Thank you so much beautiful :) That was a wonderful description..
Beautiful idea.
brb gonna break down into liquid
@@Jimmyeatshrimphaha it'll be worth it!
well, gotta go sulfuric acid shopping then, brb
2020 has been the BIGGEST “character-growth” for me lol
I haven’t been the same since this year had started, I think I’m a slightly different person now; whether that be for the better or worse.
I'm happy for you bro
Same
Good to hear!
I made it 100 likes...Idk why but I feel proud
@@Bprimemod I'm streaming epiphany 😤
@@youtubelover2613 YOU A REAL ONE THEN haha lol 😂🤭💜
Realising that you're toxic and wanting to become a better person is the biggest sign that you already are a way better person. I'm not completely over my toxic behaviour but the progress I've made, after being brought up in a really toxic environment, makes me wanna keep getting better at being a decent human being ❤
I can relate to some of them.
The journey is long, but I'm slowly getting there.
*The most important thing in your self-journey: positivity.*
Ammmy 💜💜
Armyyy 💜💜
I'm having mental break down... there is no positivity
Denying your negative feelings can be just as bad as indulging them.
I find that Instead of aiming for positivity it's better to learn to be content in all states of affairs. It's OK to feel all feelings and you shouldn't try to shut any out. Just know that they will pass in due course. Negativity, pain and discomfort should be interpreted as signs for action. There is no escaping the human condition you can just learn to not create more Un necessary suffering. I think that its more realistic than aiming for positivity. Also you don't learn when your winning, you really learn when times get hard. So make them an opportunity not a struggle!🖒
8 signs you're becoming a better person
1. You are self- aware
2. You are conscious of your affect to the people
3. You accept your shortcoming and mistakes
4. You are okay being vulnerable with others
5. You find the actual causes of your problems
6. You are more selective when you choosing your friends
7. You make your own decisions.
8. You ask more questions.
but what kind of questions?
@@HolisticDistraction5 Questions about everything, like for example if you want to read books then you can ask questions to others for recommendation or about things that you are interested in and want to learn more like football, a specific subject etc
@Berkod78 ah okay
There is nothing more rewarding than self-evolution. ♥️
I find it difficult being vulnerable around others, every time I do so It feels "weird" afterwards, like I shoudn't have said that and kept it for myself. This comment is a good example lol
Same,, in fact sometimes (rather often these days) its not even exactly about being vulnerable, like.. just simple things I said or did and a while later, I feel I shouldn't have and keep pondering that for quite some time
I'm always vulnerable around one of my classmates. she's my best friend
Same and after that i cant help but to cringe at myself then i just stay away from those people i told my problems to all of a sudden bcos of this inside feeling thinking they're judging me..idk man
It's the same for me. I find myself feeling guilty afterwards, that's why I try to keep everything for myself... Yeah, this comment is a bad example lmao
@@4137._.gm._.0 same thing happens to me
Thank you, I’ve noticed I’m a toxic person and I’m trying to better myself. Three of my friends left me bc they got sick of my bs, it was a huge wake up call.
Me over here thinking that I'm a terrible person because of what other say about me, but finding out I have been a good person after all. I really needed this today thank you!!
This channel has helped alot with finding my girlfriend that we have been together for a few months and I owe it to this channel
omg congrats!
Congrats to you and your girl! ❤️
I'm definitely working to become a better person. I'm learning more and more each day how to love myself. When, for years. I've always put others first beford myself
"You're more selective of the people you spend time with"
I don't spend time with anyone XD.
Well, you're just being extremely selective then, lol. What a great person you are x)
@@jazzygiraffe8589 It's no longer natural selection, it's a mass extinction event.
For the most part, the only person I spend time with is my mom... xD I need to get a life.
All I got is my bestie, but that's perfectly ok with me. Because my old friends and ex bf turned toxic and such heh. I've always had my bestie though
With time you will get in close with people who love you
I needed to hear all of this.. I took a break from almost everything that affected my mental health for a month: Instagram, tiktok, my friends and acquaintances too. God the amount I realized about my relationships and my confidence really felt redeeming. :) I’m taking a lot more action now for myself!!
The difficult thing about self-improvement is distinguishing between traits of yours that are toxic, and traits of your that are simply shortcomings. Quite often, we live in a society that sees such things as interchangeable, giving not only false standards of perfection, but the expectation that literally everyone can achieve perfection. If any of the signs in this video relate to you, I have to be honest - you're not becoming a better person. You're becoming YOURSELF. The likelihood is, if this is the way you choose to deal with your traumas, you always had kindness in you, and you simply needed the right moment to bring that out. So congratulations are in order for many of you, in more ways than one.
After watching a lot of Psych2Go videos I get recommend this one, good timing
what does it mean?
Same..😁
Even Though 2020 was a Bad Year It Made Me A Better Person And Made Me More Productive 💖
Same right here
Yup same
Same
For me it was the opposite ive become less productive and more lazy to the point that i procrastinated so much that i dont end up doing any work 😔
Did you get early acces or smth- how is your comment 1 month ago
It may sound crazy guys, but clean your room if it’s messy, and organize it! Don’t just shove things in drawers. The process of dedicating time to do it, committing to it, and recycling/donating what you don’t need anymore, is not also peaceful, but extremely cathartic. I felt so good about myself after doing it. And it made me want to find balance with areas of my life. It’s a great first step towards bettering yourself.
I feel that I'm slowly, but surely, maturing little by little... this video was such a good reassurance,, it motivates me to keep growing!
I am always oversharing by accident and sometimes put the focus on myself without the intention to, but I am finally getting better at being more mindful of what I say
*TIME STAMPS BELOW:*
1) You are self-aware [0:55]
2) You are conscious of your affect on other people [1:23]
3) You accept your shortcomings and mistakes [1:55]
4) You're okay being vulnerable around others [2:27]
5) You find the actual causes of your problems [2:56]
6) You are selective with who you spend time with [3:26]
7) You make your own decisions [3:55]
8) You ask more questions [4:18]
I’m trying so hard to be better that it started to overwhelm me , so I told myself to take it easy from here .. one step at a time . I now believe that my current self is ok ..i mean I don’t need to change in asap but it has to improve at the end
I've realized I'm becoming a manipulative person for either better or worst
Being a Manipulative person doesn’t sound good ngl
At least you are accepting it - that’s like the next to last step in changing 180 degrees! ❤️❤️❤️
Maybe EVERYBODY uses some manipulative techniques to get a little more in life to go their own way. Maybe they (most of them anyway) just don't realize it, or even they hide from it. Maybe the worst and most destructive lies are the lies we tell ourselves to avoid our own responsibilities.
AND maybe, just maybe, you're becoming more and more aware of all the moments you've used some technique or other to manipulate situations for your advantage. Maybe there really isn't an escape from being able to manipulate someone at some point, pretty much everywhere in life.
SO what do we do about it? Maybe instead of the knee-jerk "Manipulation bad" response, we stop for a moment and ask ourselves "Why should I manipulate this situation or this person?"... If we think about it in terms of what we can get them to do for themselves, then maybe it's NOT so bad that we manipulated them. Maybe this power of manipulation CAN be used for someone else's good, too.
Sometimes, it's not an act of pure evil that you manipulate someone. Just becoming self-aware enough to realize it's what you do, you've come farther than most. Accepting this about yourself also makes it become a part of you, and like your own hand is a part of you, YOU can now learn to control it. I'd hazard that there's still responsibility to be undertaken with it, but that this isn't for the worst. The fact you find it important enough to type out in the Comments and make an accountenance of it says you're better than that. ;o)
I’ve learned to use my manipulation on ppl who decide to be rude and hurt others don’t know if I’m still a terrible person
@@YingLing that's pretty much my situation
Sitting with heartbreak and negative feelings is necessary instead of acting on them in spite. You gain inner strength and understanding of who is on your side and what you actually want in life
i have been conscious that i have became a better person during this year, so this video is just a confirmation that it's a real change and i am really glad for that
My brother is on his journey right now to becoming a better person and I'm Very, Very proud of him! ❤️
The road of self improvement should be the general path in life. Be better than yesterday 💪🏽
im trying so hard to become a better and this video helped me realize my small steps that sometimes we have a hard time to see, ive become such a strong mature person and ive been getting out of my comfort zone and learning :)
Let go of past mistakes, forgive yourself, and learn from past mistakes-and love yourself. 🌺
i’ve hurt a lot of people, and i’ve just now become aware of all of the people. i’m working on coming to them and holding myself accountable and apologizing to them so i can help give them closure as well myself, the guilt has been really eating at me and i feel terrible. all i know is that i don’t want to hurt anymore people and i’m going to heal so it never happens again.
I saw some of these in myself but the third point really stuck out to me. I feel like I’m trying to be a perfectionist.
Same! it’s really something that I’ve needed to let go of. Imperfections are hard to accept, but necessary
Ok so same but your comment is one month ago but this video was 18 minutes ago posted so....
@@only_us_ever , the video was unlisted
Agreed! It's really hard to accept that failing isn't something bad
i feel like im like that as well simply because a lot of the time i dont no which mistakes r ok to make and which ones most ppl really dont like
Sometimes I see videos just to read comments.... it's so great to see ppl opening up and discussing their feelings ✨❤️
I love this channel.
I lost my boyfriend to covid-19 in Feb 2021. Since then I've been on a mission for purpose. In the midst of my search I started looking for peace. And now I'm seeking to make a better me. 💗💗💗✌️
Thanks!
It's interesting how growth takes some uncomfortable feelings. Good thing is away from our comfort zone.
I feel like sometimes i'm very focused on the things that I didn't achieve yet and don't pay enough attention to the progress that I've already done and the things that I already achieved. The video helped me realize that I need to give myself more credit.
*we can do this every one! Everyday is a battle to changing yourself. Keep getting back up!*
When you are stuck in a world that always make you feel like you're not good enough, even if you do your best to change, in the end you just want to be loved and appreciated just as you are.
Wow this almost made me cry. I’ve been trying so hard to be a better person and stop procrastinating but it feels like I haven’t been really getting anywhere. I have almost if not all of these signs though, which makes me feel like I’m actually making progress. So thank you this made me feel a lot better.
Hopefully you made some progress I myself am struggling with the exact same thing sending love and positivity
#3, accepting my shortcomings and mistakes is probably the biggest problem I've been having. Thank you for doin this. Every day is a fight, and your guys' videos help pull me back whenever I'm on the edge again.
I'm trying to overcome my social anxiety and try to deal with autism. It takes bitter effort, but the results are always worth it.
I hope this channel gets to 8M subscribers soon cause they really deserve it 🐐
I don't know if I'll ever stop loving this channel's videos. I just love how calming you are. And I really do want to become a better person -- more empathetic & loving. Less judgemental towards others & myself. More kind and understanding of why others make the choices they do. But also more diligent about where I want my life to go.
Love your soothing voice and narration and the fact that there is no background music when you speak. So the mind has only one thing to focus on. Quite an effective strategy I realize.
I relate to some of these signs, still working on vulnerability around others and asking more questions or being curious. I find myself still leaning back and hiding myself in a corner in my chest.
I've got further steps to make, and the process isn't linear but it's a process. If you're reading this far, rememebr it's a process. Be gentle, take care
I am always on my way to becoming a better person. But the outside world doesn't seem to care. In fact, the better I try to behave, the worse people behave towards me. The people I meet when I leave the house make it very difficult and frustrating for me to try to be a nice person. It's like they respect me more when I don't care about them.
Even through all the stuff that’s happened this year, I think I’ve become a slightly better person in a lot of ways. I’ve learned a lot about myself and others around me. I’m hoping I’ll be able to take this knowledge for when life has become a bit less... chaotic.
You will 👍🏾
I'm trying very hard to be a better person and I actually get all of the signs!!! I am so happy!!!!
I know I have a way to go to improve myself, but I've been working on this for so long I'm impatient to get better. As in be more sure of myself and what I want in life.
I was honestly a big headed, had a big ego and also aggressive back then! I did mistakes and probably cause lots of problems to people and my teachers who i really want to apologize.... Its good to know that i kinda change.... Though i still can't say my feelings out loud and make some decisions on my own that depends on the situation......Well I'm still learning and changing...
So who ever who's trying to change.... Remember that your past isn't who you are even if other people are looking or comparing you to your past! I know that it's hard to come out from addiction and other things.... But don't give up!, 🐙
THAT SPIDERMAN CARTOON WAS SO SO CUTE!!! Man oh man, I wish my life was a kdrama hahahah
I remember commenting on a comment you made in another video. So I am commenting again. I always see your comments 😂😂
@@fairymystonight1783 hahahahahaha yes yes I remember!
Sameeee kdrama is life
@@ifrahjama2215 what has been your fav?? I’m looking for new ones to watch
what is a k drama?
I relate to all of them... I'm glad I chose to start becoming a better person.
Man...i feel good after hearing all of these and seeing myself on it, I still need to get better at it thought, I hope everyone is doing fine and getting better too ❤
I have a long journey behind me. I was so depressive and dissoziated a year ago, I talked about my traumatic past in therapy and feel much freer now, some days I have to deal with it again and again, but because I already made process, I think it is gonna become better. Honestly I don't See myself in a lot of points from the video, honestly I think sometimes "it is okay for me to do that? to try different things? Do become the best version?" I feel still unworthy and am afraid of these decisions. Non the less I think that I am growing, I grew already so I am gonna grow furhter and further into freedom
I noticed that I’m catching the causes to my problems and making different approaches in situations or events. I’m also learning how to help people better understand how that works. Thank you guys for helping us continuously throughout this time❤️
OK. Yes, I am on the journey. It is, indeed, a process. Am glad that this came up in my recommends today. I will be sharing this with others. Thank you.
The last thing i gotta be is a vulnerable person and let others know how I feel but I’m still scared for that to happen because of my habit to overthink.
I really hope one day I tell people how I truly feel…
Ive made the mistake of allowing myself to be vulnerable with the wrong people so I stopped being vulnerable but that still didn't stop them so I learnt to be more selective. Still problems were unavoidable so I became vulnerable again but now I have a better understanding of what I need and my boundaries.
“Treat people with kindness” - Harry Styles
Directioner ?! ❤️❤️❤️
Easy to say, hard to do, mostly when the person you're dealing with is difficult
It's incomplete , treat people with kindness till it doesn't hurt you and your mental health. Don't overdo it . If it's too much than its dangerous.
I think am becoming a better person because I can relate to all the signs.Thank you for letting me know because at first I thought it wasn't a good thing.Thank you
2 years ago, I was definitely struggling with hard times in to seeing my worth and everything with depression. In 2019, I was able to power through the depression and decided to change my ways during that summer. Fast forward to the end of 2020, and I've been growing A LOT this year especially after a harsh breakup I also had to go through earlier this year. Since then, Im proud to day that Ive been more curious about the world and taking interest in school, Im becoming more spiritual, and I love myself a lot more. I guess my point is I can relate to EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. of those signs 💖
Feels like number 4 and number 6 come hand in hand. Cuz while some people bottle up and become distrustful, some instead tend to overshare all details of their life to try to show they have nothing to hide and are very open and trustworthy individuals.
Number 4 is for the former to be more relaxed and number 6 is for the latter to learn to set boundaries
Becoming a better person isn’t about not making mistakes, it’s about making mistakes then learning from them.
I am trying to become more engaged with others! sometimes my mindfulness can make me feel aloof with others, remembering not to get lost in the environment and remembering to be present with others as well. This video was so helpful.
Thank you for sharing this with us!! How many signs applied to you?
This actually really made me feel good about myself.... I've been trying really hard to overcome my depression and improve my mental health....,❤️❤️
I am so glad to hear that sweetie :)
5. Finding the root of the problems and facing it head on. Can actually help you learn, in the long run!
"Figuring out the why's and the how's of a problem. IS a sign, that youre becoming a better person" -- Yasss.
Working on number 6 adn 7 soon!! As in work in progress. XOXOXO. "Learning to trust yourself and the decisions you make. Becoming more curious about the people around you and the world"
When we step outside our comfort zone do we begin to truly change, grow, and transform. But stepping outside it is by definition uncomfortable!
Learning to be the best version of yourself is one of the hardest journeys that can last a life time. One thing that has help me to become the best person i can be is learning about myself, what works for me and what doesnt, what i like and what i dont like, what i need and what i dont need, how i learn, how i express myslef, How I act, How i think, how I cope, how I react in situations. My strengths and weaknesses, my insecurties and the things I am most proud of. These are some questions I have asked my self and leanred about my self. Self discovery has been one of the most helpful coping skills for my depression (yes I was properly diagnosed). Anyways even trying to answer one of these questiosn about your slef is progress!
I love the video. Yes, through thus hard times I have had the time to self-reflect and find more about myself and what I want to be in the future.
Yes, all of these signs are presently happening to me right now and I'm so glad I'm growing up.
Thanks for the video, Pysch2Go. I like the animation, it's so cute! Thank you also for adding korean subtitles, I'm not korean but I really appreciate it.💜💜💜
Life is a journey of learning and growing. From my teenage years and beyond I've been continuously searching for understanding of who and what I am. We each go at our own pace, and face our own failings and challenges. We each experience our dark times. I have bipolar mood disorder. I have had to deal with depression since my teen years. I was a teenager when I first thought about suicide. I only considered it momentarily, then I rejected it entirely. I promised myself and my God that no matter how bad I feel, or how terrible my life may look or feel, I would never deliberately end my life. I've experienced dark enough times that I fully understand and empathize with those who have committed suicide, or attempted it. I'm not sure how I got through some of those days and actually still did my job. I am currently doing well, and my moods are stable. I have also recently successfully dealt with the last of my emotional baggage. I'm now seeking my next goal or direction I need to pursue. Even though I'm 54 now, I'm still growing as a person. We should never stop learning. If you aren't learning and growing, then you're cheating yourself. No mater how much you hurt, no matter how terrible your life may seem, never give up. Fight to the bitter end if you have to. Life doesn't just suck, it is horrible, sometimes. Make something good of it. You can succeed. You can become a better person than you were before. You can look despair in the eyes and not blink. When you are at your weakest, you can find strength. Strive for it; fight for it.
“your life is not like a krama” hit hard🥺 my expectations are so high for my love life because of kdramas but I didn’t know that it was a bad thing.. sigh I’ll never find someone like Ji Chang Wook :/
Yup 😭🤣🤣
SAMEEE😭✋
I'm 72 years old and where I am is fine with me. Don't need much in the way of contentment. Just be yourself and you'll be okay
I identified with the last two ones strongly. It feels really good to know that I'm making progress. Thank you psych2go! You made my day😊♥️
I am being more vulnerable with people, and am finding out that many people will tell you:
-just be more positive
-only you can help yourself
-how they managed to achieve where they are
-unsolicited advice
And I am glad that I read up on validation of experience and emotion and can recognize when to stop or start listening~
Uncomfortable Sign 1: You feel weird when you give your friends your diamonds in Minecraft
Ah yes
Haha
Yes
Too bad I don't have friends to play with in minecraft 😔
@@Ye_linlin Too bad i dont even know how to download minecraft 😔
This made me cry a little bit, because I do want to become a better person and i can see progress.
8 uncomfortable signs you are becoming a better person
1. You're self-aware
2. You are conscious of your affect on other people
3. You accept your shortcomings and mistakes
4. You are okay with being vulnerable around others
5. You find the actual causes of your problems
6. You're more selective with the people you spend time with
7. You make your own decisions
8. You ask more questions
Haven't see anyone do it so i do it myself
Thank you !
i do that tho your not the only one and im glad im not the only one
At the moment I struggle with depression and anxiety but these videos really help me to achieve motivation early morning before school with a cup of coffee, thank you ❤
Psych2go’s Spider-Man legit made me smile, doesn’t happen often tbh lol
Great help. I am better person now.
I don't live with toxic people
I related to all of these and I feel good about it 😌✨
My problem is that whenever I start to feel okay about myself, I feel like I start to get selfish and seek attention or something. I don’t understand why it’s so hard for me to be proud of myself, because when I think I’m good, I get these intrusive thoughts saying everything I disagree with like “oh your better than that person” or “you don’t need to help that person” which is what I absolutely hate because I just want to be a good person. I’ve always been a kind hearted, caring person. I am generally very nice and put others before myself, so when I try to take care of myself, I just feel selfish, then the thoughts creep in and tell me things I know I would never say but it freaks me out, I just don’t understand it or myself at all. I don’t know what I really want. I always just resort to ignoring it and I feel like I have to remind myself why I’m not good. A lot of times I worry about dumb things and I have gotten a lot better at coping, now I’m able to tell myself I’m a good person but a lot of times it feels like I’m lying to myself. Please don’t worry about me though, I have a therapist, I’m working it out and I am a lot better than I was. I really just needed to vent, I think it helped. I’m probably gonna delete this, but I would like to say that these videos really help me, thank you!
Omg, is that a reference to Boys Over Flowers?? Nice.
LMAO I THINK SO TOO
Lol
Thank you so much , from past few days I was feeling so lonely like why is it hard for me to talk to other people now , why I am becoming isolated but it’s just that I am becoming more self aware and trying to become a better person ! Removing non essential people from my life and doing the things which matters 💜
Can you make one about “am I getting groomed?” Because one of my friends have been making me feel uncomfortable and does/says weird things. I told my friend and she said I might be getting groomed...
Hey there wholesome. It’s not wrong to cut things off with people that make you feel uncomfortable.
Take it from me, people who don’t respect your boundaries can really hurt you mentally and spiritually in the long term.
There are too many people in the world that will make you feel great, to spend even one minute with someone who makes you feel a little uneasy.
It’s not just about feeling uncomfortable. But the uneasiness is an indicator, a sign, that something could be very wrong. It’s your body/spirit’s advance warning system alerting you of s possible danger to your wellbeing.
Trust those feelings or yours and most important- ACT! Your human intuition will figure things out before our brain is able to make sense of things.
Don’t walk, run!
I mean it. Your life will be better and you will be safer without that influence in your life.
There are consequences to every path and action. Don’t ignore the warning signs. You can do It!
@@lemonmorning1844 yeah its the thing people may try to force you to but its not good but one person who did goodly was nice
Try telling that friend that they are making you uncomfortable. If they don't change after that, then its a huge red flag
Here is a link (below). This may or may not be helpful to you. It touches on how malevolent people will prey on naivety of malevolence, which having little experience in the world, limited education, and often a comparably happy childhood, is the state of most young people.
Please also search what to do if you think you are being groomed.
I hope you don’t ignore fixing the situation. Whatever happens in life you will carry the memories. Be active about avoiding and cutting off anyone who might be trying to use you.
I really wish you the best.
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Proud of myself for making progress. We are all learning every day. Blessed be everyone 🙏😊💞
Ngl she's my favourite voiceover artist of psych2go
The last point made me smile. I thought I might be irritating other people with so many questions to get a clear idea of whatever the subject is but this one made me feel better. Now I'm ready to throw questions with no hesitation.
As a INFJ.. self-improvement on the daily is a priority!