best quote "you have to accept the man as he is, not what his potential is" and a high value man is not the most successful or handsome, he is the one who "cherishes you and treats you like a princess" Great interview! thanks , anna
Yes, this realization finally came to me after two divorces. For me it's no more fixer-uppers, whether men or houses. I've done my share of that. Now it's relationship ready or move-in ready.
I met a low quality man who treats women very badly but treats other people so well and he is so respected. He pretends to be someone else in public but abused women in private. So it’s tricky to judge him by how he treats others. People are faking it out there. They are acting.
So true, some 'men' seem to view love/sex the same as war. They have no morality. They can be the most respected and trusted business man or pillar of the community. It is very sad.
@@joshhutchinson6053 yeah we connected on a level i never have, we had basically everything in common ! what about her ? same as every other woman, she dumped me becaus i am useless at pick up. Its nothing to do with depression, i always lose out on women because i am autistic, ive realized at the ripe old age of 45 that connection to a woan does not matter, its all about how good you are with women, i knew i shouldnt be giving her so much affection and doing everything for her and giving her things, it always chases women away, every picck up artist will tell you thins, but i loved her so much i did it anjyway, and it bit me on the ass, and when she pulled back, just like a clueless idiot i tried even harder, i guess the word pick up artists use is simping, but it wasnt her depression, the same thing happened with every other woman i ever liked too and non of them were depressed, its just me, im bloody usless with women, i cant get any and the one that was meant for me i messed up too !
This is such an important message for young women. The fact that u are encouraging women to work on themselves , and see value in themselves first (bc we cannot depend on men to “save us”) is such a strong and empowering sentiment for young women these days!
Oh Anna your videos have been a God send. I lost myself in my 30s and now on a reinvention journey. I started with purging all toxic family, selling off items that no longer serve me, decluttering, donating old clothes. I realised i was never bwing respected in my marriage. If i asked my husband to hand me something, he would throw it in my direction. I wasn't even worthy of being handed an item. I started treating myself better in private, dresisng better, putting in an effort, walking and speaking differently. I was just mocked further by my husband and family and continued to be disrespected. These people would laugh at me. This journey can be hard but im going to continue to be the best version of myself. I am now living alone and someone else will get the best vesrion of me.
Yes, "moving towards you." I am 50 and found the love of my life after being divorced 8 years. I have a Ph.D and it was hard for me to find a man of my caliber. Then he appeared one day and we moved closer and closer together. Now we're together forever.
Oh my gosh Anna - my ears perked up when you started talking about "the guy before the guy" - I'm literally putting together wedding invitations right now to marry my best friend next year, and you are so right about this. I met my wonderful, sweet, hardworking fiance right after getting out of the worst, most toxic relationship in my life. I've seen this with many of my friends as well.
I'm very supportive of this theme, of women knowing what they want and asking for it, especially when it comes to commitment and marriage. I've come to the realization that the "sexual revolution" has trapped women into accepting casual interactions/sexual situations with men which do not fulfill their needs. We need to reject the latter in order to have the former.
erm the opposite, the sexual revelution has freed women up to chose between commitment or lots of sex, the reason women dont chose commitment isnt because they are trapped its because they prefere cheap hookups pick up artists and dominant alpha males over relationships.
@mcpartridgeboy, only emotionally stunned people choose hookups. If you are only attracted to the physical and can only give the physical, you'll only desire hookups. People who develop their minds and hearts want the whole package because they give the whole package.
Anna, this style of video is like a window into what healthy, levelled up friendships look like. We are bombarded by "The Real Housewives" toxicity. This was so refreshing and hopefully, illuminating to many young ladies. Everything from your presentation, tone of voice, volume, eye contact, easy banter, topic of conversation, mutual support, mutual respect....just lovely! 🥰🥰🇨🇦♥️
Two beautiful Queens talking about Queen stuff. I love it. I think that “it happens when you least expect it” because your energy that has been devoted to this man hunt is cleared. And when that space in your life is cleared of erroneous, impatient or misleading energy, the proper experiences have space to flourish.
When you try too hard, you look desperate. Once you connect with yourself and start living your life for you, you attract the right people and good things happen. Great segment❤
Ok, first of all, this video was AMAZING and precisely what I needed, since I am back to dating after years of being in a relationship and although I am still healing and working on myself, I am neither playing games or wasting time with low quality men. Something I learned the hard way, after spending five years with who I thought was the right one, is that I am not obligated to accept a man because of what he could become if in the present he is destructive. We are not their mothers, their teachers or their therapists. Believing that we as somehow obligated to watch out for them is ultimately damaging for us. Prioritize yourselves, ladies. Your peace of mind is the goal.
See the problem is these men you say are low quality (wownt commit, abusive, disloyal, rude, e.t.c) are the men who are getting the women, so if he got you, and if he didnt commit that means he is getting a lot of other women as well then that guy bhy defenition in terms of womens opinions is a high quality man, someone like me who would have been loving and caring and a loyal bf gets nowere with women, so i have to think i am the low value man as i cant get a date and he is the high value man.
@@mcpartridgeboy yeah, he is not getting me, neither of anyone like him, luckily. Also, dude, stop with the projection, nobody wants you because you are a failure. Leave us alone.
Your channel is making a huge difference to me. I am a lady who lives in the woods and cuts my own wood with a chain saw, but that doesn't mean I can't level up my game and be a better version of myself. I have been shopping and am finding out what my style is. Thank you so much. I love this format and Alexis is so lovely. God bless you.
Anna I'm a single ( divorced two kids ) 40 year old woman. I lost everything a few years ago after a video of me went viral. I have been healing and working on myself a lot but you have been making me rebuild my life again. I am so greatful to you x
This is one the most honest conversations I have ever seen on the subject of love and dating; no ridiculous strategies or games. I am considerably older than you ladies, but I have gained some helpful insight. Thank you and I would love to see you reconnect on the subject again.
I love the authenticity of this discussion - Anna and Alexis are being real in digging in to the level-up mindset, the need for true connection, the small doses of jetset life, the need for balance, all of it. Every true woman can benefit from taking in their life lessons and applying it to her own situation.
I'm not straight but as a queer woman I found your content very helpful. Last year when I followed you I got very inspired. I got out of a bad relationship and now I'm working on my inner issues. Many of Your videos might not be helpful for people who want same sex relationships but some of your tips are very important and helpful when it comes to leveling up and dating better people. Thank you!
This is very timely. I’m in the stage of my life where I am sure that I already want to be in a serious relationship. I am learning a lot from this chitchat. Thanks Anna and Alexis ❤
Worth watching start to finish. You ladies talk so authentically and so openly about so many important topics in this. Thank you Anna for this. Thank you Alexis for bearing your soul and being so genuine.
Never date potential! And give chances often, beware of red flags. A high value man is relaxed, emotional, kind, cool in difficulties. And studies give a man and a woman quality and broadmindedness 😃❤️ keep up these videos Anna!
When I met my boyfriend both he and I were in a slump and both suffering through chronic illness. We are rising in our potential together. I’m 49 he’s 35. We both leveled up our jobs twice already since meeting each other because we lift each other up. He treats me like a princess. If you are a fixer upper yourself then I guess you’re not too good to date a fixer upper. Maybe I should have picked a rich man - I’m pretty enough - but I’ve never met one I liked. My boyfriend isn’t considered handsome but he’s young and I am attracted to him and at ease with him at all times.
Anna, it was so refreshing listening to you and Alexis engage in such a mature and honest conversation about relationships and the importance of working on ourselves first.
Fascinating to listen to her! She’s very authentic and it sounds like she’s had her struggles - as we all have. However she has worked to overcome her issues and is now in a happy place, so in my view she’d qualified to give guidance. I like the format too.
I need more content like this! I love seeing this unscripted side of Anna. I watched the video in one sitting. The conversation truly flowed organically, and it was just like listening in to two besties chat about their experiences. Great video! 💕
Kudos for always trying out new, fresh formats and content! Love all the help you've given me over the years, Anna. It's inspired me and motivated me to dress, behave and ultimately feel better. Thank you!!! ❤️
My number one rule for guys: If my dog doesn't like you, don't even bother continuing. She's a great judge of character. I enjoyed this interview format. It's nice to hear how other people's level up stories have evolved over time.
This was elegance all through. This is what we women should aspire to be. I admire your class and grace and learned a lot from this. the luxury life is pointless without a true connection. It truly is nice in small doses but looses it's allure after awhile. I truly love this format, it makes you more personable.
One of the bests, or actually THE BEST TALK I've ever listened to about men and woman and relationship!!! Everybody should listen to that!! Thank you again so much Anna! You're just THE BEST!!! And your guest also, very very smart and nice. So great to see two smart woman together!!
Really great interview! It's so important to be internally happy vs having the outside look of happiness. This is why it is so hard for me to envy anyone else's life. I have genuine happiness and I can live the life of my dreams.
Same here...I am genuinely living in a state of bliss... I'm neither married nor have kids but I am grateful for the blessings I have presently and I know that with time, all good things shall come to me
Anna this is the best so far!. I love this format but don't leave aside the old format too. Nancy has such a wonderful personality and charisma. Thank you so much Anna.
Thank you Anna, for having the courage to show up as your true and authentic self. I love your videos and this one truly meets the mark. Happy holidays to you and yours!
Loved this longer more conversational format! I’d love to see more videos like this in the future. Thanks to you and Alexis for letting us listen in on a quality conversation ❤
Thank you very much Anna and Alexis… I could not agree more with the life changing benefits of therapy and the “inner work”, but also enjoyed your inspirational thoughts. I loved this format of a casual interview❤️
Anna, I wanted to thank you! Because of you, I found the love of my life, very high calibre, generous and good hearted man. ❤ Also Swedish like you, I moved to Stockholm for him and we are very happy together, thank you and wish you all the best.
Loved this chatty video. I was making jokes about marrying my husband four months on after we started dating! What you say about feeling immediately safe with that person is so true.
I enjoyed this conversation even though I already have a wonderful husband! The points discussed are applicable to many areas of life! I love these more casual videos to be thrown in now and again, simply listening to Anna is already helping me level up!
I already am older with 2 kids and never had any leveling up ambition until a couple years ago when i found Anna bey. The motivation of a beautiful down to earth successful woman was what I needed in my life. I have two girls and they know Anna bey and how much i adore her journey and honesty and wisdom she shares. It's hard for me to go on my journey and also find a decent man because like i said i'm 38 two kids and I've been single for a long time because no guy interested in me is the guy i would want to be with. The quality i attract isn't great. What I like about the beginning of this talk is that i and winning out of the superficial stage where I think okay I need to get my body right my face right my hair right everything to find a guy. I realize i put so much energy into that that and it hasn't happened, so that's clearly not the magic thing. This is the year i make my transition from partying, and a superficial man hunter, into exploring more my passions and hobbies and new better opportunities. And if it happens it happens. But no more putting so much energy into appearance and man hunting. It's exhausting. And i hope Anna bey will continue to guide me through ever step like she has been. Love you all. ❤️
Loved this new format! Thanks Anna. I wonder if you have ever made a video on how to look classy and put together when at home! Like when you're not out there, but instead at home with your man/family. Thanks again! Lots of love
Such a wonderful and informative video! So genuine and human moments! As a mental health counselor and inner-awareness coach I love that you promote therapy and self-awareness. Looking forward to more, similar videos!
Anna Bey, this interview was probably the most rewarding interview I've seen on TH-cam on finding the right husband. I didn't know that you were a certified matchmaker? I need to connect with you.
This format is a great addition to your tutorials. Congratulations on finding another way to engage with your audience! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience.💗
I loved this format. I loved you both ladies, great energy beaming from both of you. It is clear that you have done the work and the universe brought you the reward. All the best xo
Thank you so much Anna. The talk about being your authentic self and not trying to be the perfect girlfriend is so true. Being true to yourself is freedom. Thank you Anna and Alexis. Please give us more relaxed videos like this. Happy holidays and merry Christmas in advance
Love the format Anna! I really like your other videos, especially when it comes to clothing. But this one was perfect, I had dinner while listening to both of you. Felt I was enjoying a nice conversation in your living room. Will definitely watch more of these again 😊
Hey Please I sincerely need help, things have been really going bad for me recently and it's a whole lot to deal with and watching Anna's videos is a way for me to learn to be more elegant and feminine as I'm struggling through a lot right now... Can you please help me out with $50 to afford a nice meal this holiday I have tried reaching out to Anna but i don't think she replies to DM
I think this is your best video. You are raw and down to earth. Of course, I love your regular videos too, but since I am a psychotherapist, I was so amazed by what you had to say and will be sharing with my clients. Keep up your good work at keeping women elegant and strong!
4 minutes in and I am loving this, I am so hard on myself especially in my business . I beat myself down all the time when things don’t go well. I also shrug off great things I have achieved and it is so hard to take compliments . I have recently tried to work on it and it’s difficult to keep on going . This is eye opening 🙏, thanks ladies.
❤️ I think you are right in everything you say. My experience has been quite the opposite, compared to many women. I have found it easy to find committed men. However, I felt that they were putting on a facade and weren't themselves, which made me lose interest. I think this is because I find it easy to open up and be myself. So I guess this is what men are attracted to, and not just men, this is what I was attracted to when I met my man.
Anna, congratulations on this new type of content, it’s really meaningful and helpful. You never fail to amaze me, keep going, you mean a lot to us. Also your dress is gorgeous 😍
What a nice video with such nice ladies! This format is great, and I look forward to more just like it. My preference is more videos from an instructive way, but sprinkle in longer casual ones like this one.
My Dear Anna , thank you for sharing this video as it has great wisdom within it. I adore you and your personality and wish you all the best as you are constantly helping me improve myself and my life. . I personally found your pervious work more attractive to me as its short and to the point and with various topics. However, I know this video will benefit many women in the community as I went through similar stages till I found the love of my life, my husband, and the father of my baby girl. In short, I love your mindset and all the work you present to us so do the work you enjoy the most, and we will cheer you on always.
Hi Anna! I would love it if you did a video on "pick-me girls" and how that contributes to women accepting low standards. Also, the "when you stop trying it happens" is due to the law of attraction. When you release resistance everything you want comes to you.
We find love when we least expect because when we leave every expectations and hopes we just become ourselves, we stop pretending like someone. And when we become and completely accept ourselves the way we we our , we *Glow differently*, that glow, beauty, and confidence attracts the love interest, opportunities in our life. That's why as cliche as it sounds "Be yourself" ❤
I love this!! :) It's so refreshing to see women own up to their parts in previous relationships instead of pointing at the men. This is so mature and healthy, I love it!
Will watch the rest after some sleep. So far ladies I am enjoying this format. Remember the saying 'to open up to truly love someone, you must first learn to love yourself'. 🇦🇺🌸♥️
Hey Please I sincerely need help, things have been really going bad for me recently and it's a whole lot to deal with and watching Anna's videos is a way for me to learn to be more elegant and feminine as I'm struggling through a lot right now... Can you please help me out with $50 to afford a nice meal this holiday I have tried reaching out to Anna but i don't think she replies to DM
When you stop thinking about wanting someone in your life, you start thinking about your needs and about yourself. So that's why it happens when you least expect it. 😆😍i like this videos.
When you allow yourself to live in the moment & you truly like & love yourself and are not laser focused on an outcome (I need to find my man), you vibrate at a high feminine energy and this attracts or magnetizes your man as you are at ease, and allow yourself to receive love.
I love this Anna, it's so helpful to hear from your personal experiences like this and I love when you bring other ladies to share their experiences to hear from other perspectives too 💓
Anna you have such a kind and beautiful soul, I love listening to you so much❤ this format is very comfy, it is evening time in my country now and it feels like I am having this nice talk with you girls❤❤
Great video, loved that you broke it down and timestamped it. My only criticism would be that you sounded a little far away from your mic during the interview. Your friend sounded crisp and clear though! Beautiful insights!
Anna, I love this video! I have been following you almost from your very beginning. :) I started by working on how to become a worthy woman for a kind of a man that I want for myself. Recently I broke up for the second time with my fiancé because I finally have the courage to admit that I am ready for marriage and family and he is simply not. And even though is difficult, I am super determined to go for what I want. Your videos have been so inspiring for me from relationships, clothing, leveling up. :) thank you for everything. 💜
This was a wonderful session to listen to. Alexis is also honest and to the point. Having gone through the 'dating' phase myself, this discussion def brought out a well balanced outlook to relationship. Thanks Anna, it's always informative and sometimes, a good reminder to life and love to listen to your channel.
best quote "you have to accept the man as he is, not what his potential is" and a high value man is not the most successful or handsome, he is the one who "cherishes you and treats you like a princess" Great interview! thanks , anna
Yes, this realization finally came to me after two divorces. For me it's no more fixer-uppers, whether men or houses. I've done my share of that. Now it's relationship ready or move-in ready.
I met a low quality man who treats women very badly but treats other people so well and he is so respected. He pretends to be someone else in public but abused women in private. So it’s tricky to judge him by how he treats others. People are faking it out there. They are acting.
Same here! How he treats the closest people shows volume!
So true, some 'men' seem to view love/sex the same as war. They have no morality. They can be the most respected and trusted business man or pillar of the community. It is very sad.
Inshort he is a narcissist
That’s very true… this is where true value comes in. You can’t buy real love.
@@Haryanvigirlishu narcissists don't change ,you either plan your way out or choose to endure until death do you part
“If your insides are troubled, you can’t connect with someone.” Such a beautiful interview. Love this style!
yeah thats nott true at all i onnected really well and fell in love with a depressed woman !
I couldn't agree more with this too!
@@mcpartridgeboy ya u did but what about her.. depression stands for a “lack of expression”
@@joshhutchinson6053 yeah we connected on a level i never have, we had basically everything in common ! what about her ? same as every other woman, she dumped me becaus i am useless at pick up. Its nothing to do with depression, i always lose out on women because i am autistic, ive realized at the ripe old age of 45 that connection to a woan does not matter, its all about how good you are with women, i knew i shouldnt be giving her so much affection and doing everything for her and giving her things, it always chases women away, every picck up artist will tell you thins, but i loved her so much i did it anjyway, and it bit me on the ass, and when she pulled back, just like a clueless idiot i tried even harder, i guess the word pick up artists use is simping, but it wasnt her depression, the same thing happened with every other woman i ever liked too and non of them were depressed, its just me, im bloody usless with women, i cant get any and the one that was meant for me i messed up too !
@@mcpartridgeboyyeah but did she genuinely connected with u?
This is such an important message for young women. The fact that u are encouraging women to work on themselves , and see value in themselves first (bc we cannot depend on men to “save us”) is such a strong and empowering sentiment for young women these days!
All women 😘
But I like women... 😣
But with men life is much easier
Oh Anna your videos have been a God send. I lost myself in my 30s and now on a reinvention journey. I started with purging all toxic family, selling off items that no longer serve me, decluttering, donating old clothes. I realised i was never bwing respected in my marriage. If i asked my husband to hand me something, he would throw it in my direction. I wasn't even worthy of being handed an item. I started treating myself better in private, dresisng better, putting in an effort, walking and speaking differently. I was just mocked further by my husband and family and continued to be disrespected. These people would laugh at me. This journey can be hard but im going to continue to be the best version of myself. I am now living alone and someone else will get the best vesrion of me.
Yes, "moving towards you." I am 50 and found the love of my life after being divorced 8 years. I have a Ph.D and it was hard for me to find a man of my caliber. Then he appeared one day and we moved closer and closer together. Now we're together forever.
💕💕💕
Great, brings back hope
"He appeared one day" - can you elaborate?
That sounds wonderful. All the best to you! 😊
Oh my gosh Anna - my ears perked up when you started talking about "the guy before the guy" - I'm literally putting together wedding invitations right now to marry my best friend next year, and you are so right about this. I met my wonderful, sweet, hardworking fiance right after getting out of the worst, most toxic relationship in my life. I've seen this with many of my friends as well.
Congrats 🎉🍾
Wow this happened to me too ❤
@@Wandertheworldwithme I’m so happy to hear you’re happy now 🥹❤️
Congratulations 💖
happy for you ❤
I'm very supportive of this theme, of women knowing what they want and asking for it, especially when it comes to commitment and marriage. I've come to the realization that the "sexual revolution" has trapped women into accepting casual interactions/sexual situations with men which do not fulfill their needs. We need to reject the latter in order to have the former.
Yes ❤
erm the opposite, the sexual revelution has freed women up to chose between commitment or lots of sex, the reason women dont chose commitment isnt because they are trapped its because they prefere cheap hookups pick up artists and dominant alpha males over relationships.
yes
@@mcpartridgeboy Be gone, incel.
@mcpartridgeboy, only emotionally stunned people choose hookups. If you are only attracted to the physical and can only give the physical, you'll only desire hookups. People who develop their minds and hearts want the whole package because they give the whole package.
Only 5 minutes in, and loving this relaxed format; more of this type of content, please and thank you!
So true❤
Yes, i loved it!
Anna, this style of video is like a window into what healthy, levelled up friendships look like. We are bombarded by "The Real Housewives" toxicity. This was so refreshing and hopefully, illuminating to many young ladies. Everything from your presentation, tone of voice, volume, eye contact, easy banter, topic of conversation, mutual support, mutual respect....just lovely!
🥰🥰🇨🇦♥️
I agree. I never got into reality. Now I see why. I was always elegant. 👩🏽 🥳 🎉 🙌🏽
Two beautiful Queens talking about Queen stuff. I love it. I think that “it happens when you least expect it” because your energy that has been devoted to this man hunt is cleared. And when that space in your life is cleared of erroneous, impatient or misleading energy, the proper experiences have space to flourish.
The casual, unscripted format is lovely! Thank you, Anna and Alexis!
Very inspiring to see two polished professional women having an honest conversation that can help others!
Totally agree!
When you try too hard, you look desperate. Once you connect with yourself and start living your life for you, you attract the right people and good things happen. Great segment❤
What an intelligent and well-spoken friend that you brought on! She addressed some very valid and insightful points.
Ok, first of all, this video was AMAZING and precisely what I needed, since I am back to dating after years of being in a relationship and although I am still healing and working on myself, I am neither playing games or wasting time with low quality men. Something I learned the hard way, after spending five years with who I thought was the right one, is that I am not obligated to accept a man because of what he could become if in the present he is destructive. We are not their mothers, their teachers or their therapists. Believing that we as somehow obligated to watch out for them is ultimately damaging for us. Prioritize yourselves, ladies. Your peace of mind is the goal.
Exactly, never date or marry potential.
See the problem is these men you say are low quality (wownt commit, abusive, disloyal, rude, e.t.c) are the men who are getting the women, so if he got you, and if he didnt commit that means he is getting a lot of other women as well then that guy bhy defenition in terms of womens opinions is a high quality man, someone like me who would have been loving and caring and a loyal bf gets nowere with women, so i have to think i am the low value man as i cant get a date and he is the high value man.
@@mcpartridgeboy yeah, he is not getting me, neither of anyone like him, luckily. Also, dude, stop with the projection, nobody wants you because you are a failure. Leave us alone.
Beautiful conversation. Thank you!
Your channel is making a huge difference to me. I am a lady who lives in the woods and cuts my own wood with a chain saw, but that doesn't mean I can't level up my game and be a better version of myself. I have been shopping and am finding out what my style is. Thank you so much. I love this format and Alexis is so lovely. God bless you.
Anna I'm a single ( divorced two kids ) 40 year old woman. I lost everything a few years ago after a video of me went viral. I have been healing and working on myself a lot but you have been making me rebuild my life again. I am so greatful to you x
Wishing you the best 🌻🌻🌻
May I ask, respectfully, out of genuine curiosity, were you a catfish?
May I ask, respectfully, were you a catfish?
Absolutely love this format, this guest, this topic!! Impressive how you always try new things Anna! ❤️
This is one the most honest conversations I have ever seen on the subject of love and dating; no ridiculous strategies or games. I am considerably older than you ladies, but I have gained some helpful insight. Thank you and I would love to see you reconnect on the subject again.
I love the authenticity of this discussion - Anna and Alexis are being real in digging in to the level-up mindset, the need for true connection, the small doses of jetset life, the need for balance, all of it. Every true woman can benefit from taking in their life lessons and applying it to her own situation.
I'm not straight but as a queer woman I found your content very helpful. Last year when I followed you I got very inspired. I got out of a bad relationship and now I'm working on my inner issues. Many of Your videos might not be helpful for people who want same sex relationships but some of your tips are very important and helpful when it comes to leveling up and dating better people. Thank you!
Same! Glad there are more of us here 🙂
Glad to know other queer women are on this channel too!
I concur as a queer woman. Where can I find a beautiful, elegant, high quality wife? I too find Anna's videos inspiring and helpful.
I'm a queer man and I find Anna's content to be helpful.
Same 🙋🏻♀️
This is very timely. I’m in the stage of my life where I am sure that I already want to be in a serious relationship. I am learning a lot from this chitchat. Thanks Anna and Alexis ❤
Same here ❤
Same here as a 38 year old male I want to be in a serious relationship with a woman and treat her like a princess I have never dated any women at all
Worth watching start to finish. You ladies talk so authentically and so openly about so many important topics in this. Thank you Anna for this. Thank you Alexis for bearing your soul and being so genuine.
Never date potential! And give chances often, beware of red flags.
A high value man is relaxed, emotional, kind, cool in difficulties. And studies give a man and a woman quality and broadmindedness 😃❤️ keep up these videos Anna!
When I met my boyfriend both he and I were in a slump and both suffering through chronic illness. We are rising in our potential together. I’m 49 he’s 35. We both leveled up our jobs twice already since meeting each other because we lift each other up. He treats me like a princess. If you are a fixer upper yourself then I guess you’re not too good to date a fixer upper. Maybe I should have picked a rich man - I’m pretty enough - but I’ve never met one I liked. My boyfriend isn’t considered handsome but he’s young and I am attracted to him and at ease with him at all times.
Anna, it was so refreshing listening to you and Alexis engage in such a mature and honest conversation about relationships and the importance of working on ourselves first.
Fascinating to listen to her! She’s very authentic and it sounds like she’s had her struggles - as we all have. However she has worked to overcome her issues and is now in a happy place, so in my view she’d qualified to give guidance. I like the format too.
I would watch regularly if Anna has podcast videos or videos like this...❤️
me too
We all would she is the best mentor. I am older and walked the path looking back to have had a mentor like this would had changed everything
She does have her own podcast.
I need more content like this! I love seeing this unscripted side of Anna. I watched the video in one sitting. The conversation truly flowed organically, and it was just like listening in to two besties chat about their experiences. Great video! 💕
Kudos for always trying out new, fresh formats and content! Love all the help you've given me over the years, Anna. It's inspired me and motivated me to dress, behave and ultimately feel better. Thank you!!! ❤️
My number one rule for guys: If my dog doesn't like you, don't even bother continuing. She's a great judge of character. I enjoyed this interview format. It's nice to hear how other people's level up stories have evolved over time.
This was elegance all through. This is what we women should aspire to be. I admire your class and grace and learned a lot from this. the luxury life is pointless without a true connection. It truly is nice in small doses but looses it's allure after awhile. I truly love this format, it makes you more personable.
Loving this new easy chit chat format ! 😍 Thank you both Alexis and Anna. Will be expecting more videos like this, very well done 😘
I enjoy seeing you less scripted. Your mannerisms and your way of carrying on a conversation is a lesson in itself. Thanks for the video, Anna.
Casual, confident and really deep conversation. That's what I like. Thanks Anna
I really appreciate you having a women of color on here Anna, I absolutely love your videos. It truly has helped me.
One of the bests, or actually THE BEST TALK I've ever listened to about men and woman and relationship!!! Everybody should listen to that!! Thank you again so much Anna! You're just THE BEST!!! And your guest also, very very smart and nice. So great to see two smart woman together!!
Something about this video that’s really good… very honest and genuine came from both you.. thank you 😘
Really great interview! It's so important to be internally happy vs having the outside look of happiness. This is why it is so hard for me to envy anyone else's life. I have genuine happiness and I can live the life of my dreams.
Same here...I am genuinely living in a state of bliss... I'm neither married nor have kids but I am grateful for the blessings I have presently and I know that with time, all good things shall come to me
Anna this is the best so far!. I love this format but don't leave aside the old format too. Nancy has such a wonderful personality and charisma. Thank you so much Anna.
She expresses herserf so good...and I loved this new format, Anna, congratulations. I see in your work a really good evolution❤️
Thank you Anna, for having the courage to show up as your true and authentic self. I love your videos and this one truly meets the mark. Happy holidays to you and yours!
OMG I didn't want this video to finish! Thank you both for being so transparent and lovely❤
Loved this longer more conversational format! I’d love to see more videos like this in the future. Thanks to you and Alexis for letting us listen in on a quality conversation ❤
New longer format was perfect! Can’t wait to see more videos in this format. Happy holidays for everyone!
Love this show so much. Thanks for inviting this wonderful genuine guest.
Love the interview format. I’d love to hear more of this with women in different stages of their level up journey
Thank you very much Anna and Alexis… I could not agree more with the life changing benefits of therapy and the “inner work”, but also enjoyed your inspirational thoughts. I loved this format of a casual interview❤️
I love this format and would love more content like this! Thank you Anna!
Anna, I wanted to thank you! Because of you, I found the love of my life, very high calibre, generous and good hearted man. ❤ Also Swedish like you, I moved to Stockholm for him and we are very happy together, thank you and wish you all the best.
Loved this chatty video. I was making jokes about marrying my husband four months on after we started dating! What you say about feeling immediately safe with that person is so true.
Thank you, Alexis & Anna, for making this video.😊 Everything you spoke about was exactly what I needed to hear in this moment of my life.❤️
So good, Anna and Alexis! Love the candor, insight, high-value conversation and definitely the unfiltered format.
I enjoyed this conversation even though I already have a wonderful husband! The points discussed are applicable to many areas of life! I love these more casual videos to be thrown in now and again, simply listening to Anna is already helping me level up!
Love love love this for your channel! This needs to be a permanent series. This was very helpful 💗
I already am older with 2 kids and never had any leveling up ambition until a couple years ago when i found Anna bey. The motivation of a beautiful down to earth successful woman was what I needed in my life. I have two girls and they know Anna bey and how much i adore her journey and honesty and wisdom she shares. It's hard for me to go on my journey and also find a decent man because like i said i'm 38 two kids and I've been single for a long time because no guy interested in me is the guy i would want to be with. The quality i attract isn't great. What I like about the beginning of this talk is that i and winning out of the superficial stage where I think okay I need to get my body right my face right my hair right everything to find a guy. I realize i put so much energy into that that and it hasn't happened, so that's clearly not the magic thing. This is the year i make my transition from partying, and a superficial man hunter, into exploring more my passions and hobbies and new better opportunities. And if it happens it happens. But no more putting so much energy into appearance and man hunting. It's exhausting. And i hope Anna bey will continue to guide me through ever step like she has been. Love you all. ❤️
I loved this interview. I've been trying to "figure it out myself" for decades!!!!!! And you gave some very valuable insights! Thank you xx
thank you so much Anna. I cannot express how grateful I am for all the knowledge you share with us. 🙏
Loved this new format! Thanks Anna. I wonder if you have ever made a video on how to look classy and put together when at home! Like when you're not out there, but instead at home with your man/family. Thanks again! Lots of love
I think there's one video about lounge wear. Maybe check it out. May God bless you this season ❤️
I had to watch till the end, was so engaged that I forgot to drop a comment earlier. I love Unfiltered with Anna
Such a wonderful and informative video! So genuine and human moments! As a mental health counselor and inner-awareness coach I love that you promote therapy and self-awareness. Looking forward to more, similar videos!
Anna Bey, this interview was probably the most rewarding interview I've seen on TH-cam on finding the right husband. I didn't know that you were a certified matchmaker? I need to connect with you.
Congratulations on the new format. I absolutely love sincere conversations. This feels like a girl chat, and I think it's a winner!
Such a wonderful format! Absolutely loved it - you should definitely start a series
This format is a great addition to your tutorials. Congratulations on finding another way to engage with your audience! Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience.💗
I loved this format. I loved you both ladies, great energy beaming from both of you. It is clear that you have done the work and the universe brought you the reward. All the best xo
yeah reward of sitting at home, living on the man's money.. sht what a life
Thank you so much Anna. The talk about being your authentic self and not trying to be the perfect girlfriend is so true. Being true to yourself is freedom. Thank you Anna and Alexis. Please give us more relaxed videos like this. Happy holidays and merry Christmas in advance
Thanks for sharing this insight and quote. "Being true to yourself is freedom". This is so, so true!!!
Love the format Anna! I really like your other videos, especially when it comes to clothing. But this one was perfect, I had dinner while listening to both of you. Felt I was enjoying a nice conversation in your living room. Will definitely watch more of these again 😊
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Please I sincerely need help, things have been really going bad for me recently and it's a whole lot to deal with and watching Anna's videos is a way for me to learn to be more elegant and feminine as I'm struggling through a lot right now...
Can you please help me out with $50 to afford a nice meal this holiday
I have tried reaching out to Anna but i don't think she replies to DM
I think this is your best video. You are raw and down to earth. Of course, I love your regular videos too, but since I am a psychotherapist, I was so amazed by what you had to say and will be sharing with my clients. Keep up your good work at keeping women elegant and strong!
4 minutes in and I am loving this, I am so hard on myself especially in my business . I beat myself down all the time when things don’t go well. I also shrug off great things I have achieved and it is so hard to take compliments . I have recently tried to work on it and it’s difficult to keep on going . This is eye opening 🙏, thanks ladies.
❤️ I think you are right in everything you say. My experience has been quite the opposite, compared to many women. I have found it easy to find committed men. However, I felt that they were putting on a facade and weren't themselves, which made me lose interest. I think this is because I find it easy to open up and be myself. So I guess this is what men are attracted to, and not just men, this is what I was attracted to when I met my man.
Anna, congratulations on this new type of content, it’s really meaningful and helpful. You never fail to amaze me, keep going, you mean a lot to us. Also your dress is gorgeous 😍
This video makes you more beautiful ❤, it’s admirable how strong and resilient you have being during those hard times
This was such a wonderful interview. I love seeing women connect and share how they’ve evolved. So inspiring. Thanks ladies 💕
What a nice video with such nice ladies! This format is great, and I look forward to more just like it.
My preference is more videos from an instructive way, but sprinkle in longer casual ones like this one.
My Dear Anna , thank you for sharing this video as it has great wisdom within it. I adore you and your personality and wish you all the best as you are constantly helping me improve myself and my life. . I personally found your pervious work more attractive to me as its short and to the point and with various topics. However, I know this video will benefit many women in the community as I went through similar stages till I found the love of my life, my husband, and the father of my baby girl. In short, I love your mindset and all the work you present to us so do the work you enjoy the most, and we will cheer you on always.
this conversation was so refreshingly honest, unfiltered, and elegant!
Hi Anna!
I would love it if you did a video on "pick-me girls" and how that contributes to women accepting low standards.
Also, the "when you stop trying it happens" is due to the law of attraction. When you release resistance everything you want comes to you.
Relaxed Anna is perfect!!! More of these please😊💜
Thank you ladies for this inspiring conversation! Such a pleasure to listen to it while watching your grace and radiance!
Dear Anna, the format is prominent, enjoyed it so much. So grateful for what You do:)
Just started watching and I am loving this format. I hope you doing well! Love from NY ❤
Dear Anna, this is one of your best videos so far. Thank you 🙂 And you and Alexis look absolutely stunning inside and out, truly high caliber ladies
What an elegant and adult interview. It is very reassuring to listen to you ❤️
I truly like this formula Anna and a more unfiltered version of these TH-cam videos.
I love and can relate to what was said about the requirement to be your authentic self before you can find your husband.
We find love when we least expect because when we leave every expectations and hopes we just become ourselves, we stop pretending like someone.
And when we become and completely accept ourselves the way we we our , we *Glow differently*, that glow, beauty, and confidence attracts the love interest, opportunities in our life.
That's why as cliche as it sounds "Be yourself" ❤
I love this format so much!!! 😍 Please, we need more 👏🏽
I love this!! :) It's so refreshing to see women own up to their parts in previous relationships instead of pointing at the men. This is so mature and healthy, I love it!
Will watch the rest after some sleep. So far ladies I am enjoying this format. Remember the saying 'to open up to truly love someone, you must first learn to love yourself'. 🇦🇺🌸♥️
I enjoyed every minute of this talk, that is so inspiring! thank you for sharing your background, experience, and insights ❤
Hey
Please I sincerely need help, things have been really going bad for me recently and it's a whole lot to deal with and watching Anna's videos is a way for me to learn to be more elegant and feminine as I'm struggling through a lot right now...
Can you please help me out with $50 to afford a nice meal this holiday
I have tried reaching out to Anna but i don't think she replies to DM
I'll watch absolutely anything by you anna, vlogs, less editing, more relaxed, anything 🙂💝
Pure gold! Thoroughly enjoyed it, thanks Anna & Alexis! 🙏💛
When you stop thinking about wanting someone in your life, you start thinking about your needs and about yourself. So that's why it happens when you least expect it. 😆😍i like this videos.
When you allow yourself to live in the moment & you truly like & love yourself and are not laser focused on an outcome (I need to find my man), you vibrate at a high feminine energy and this attracts or magnetizes your man as you are at ease, and allow yourself to receive love.
I love this Anna, it's so helpful to hear from your personal experiences like this and I love when you bring other ladies to share their experiences to hear from other perspectives too 💓
Anna you have such a kind and beautiful soul, I love listening to you so much❤ this format is very comfy, it is evening time in my country now and it feels like I am having this nice talk with you girls❤❤
Great video, loved that you broke it down and timestamped it. My only criticism would be that you sounded a little far away from your mic during the interview. Your friend sounded crisp and clear though! Beautiful insights!
Anna, I love this video! I have been following you almost from your very beginning. :) I started by working on how to become a worthy woman for a kind of a man that I want for myself. Recently I broke up for the second time with my fiancé because I finally have the courage to admit that I am ready for marriage and family and he is simply not. And even though is difficult, I am super determined to go for what I want. Your videos have been so inspiring for me from relationships, clothing, leveling up. :) thank you for everything. 💜
This was a wonderful session to listen to. Alexis is also honest and to the point. Having gone through the 'dating' phase myself, this discussion def brought out a well balanced outlook to relationship. Thanks Anna, it's always informative and sometimes, a good reminder to life and love to listen to your channel.