Didi's life did not matter because she was a high achiever, it mattered because she was human and the weak-ass coward of a dog had no right to end it. Rest in peace beautiful girl. My beautiful cousin Phumeza was also killed by her monster ex-husband. I hope she hugged and welcomed you when you got to heaven ❤
You are 💯 correct. I also think why they speak of her as a high achiever is because, she was directly and indirectly touching other people lives with her achievements. There are some people who when they die, they live a legacy.
And the justice system is so limient in South africa 🇿🇦 and in Namibia 🇳🇦 because we are using the same criminal procedure act and this monster's beast and demons keep on murdering our women as if they are nothing they do it like buying sweets in the shop because they know that they will find themselves free on the streets again
Because women are programmed to go for money or looks instead of love or the personality their partner has. That's why we men sometimes wonder how on earth would a woman date someone whom we as men would not allow in our circle due to the fact that we know his behavior.
I'm currently going through the same. I told my family, they can go ahead with the family meeting...but as for me, I won't be in attendance. My decision is that I'm not prepared to spend another day staying and trying to fix someone who is and has been broken long before they met me. 17years of ongoing abuse, I stayed because of these family meetings. He was never addressed, they were always addressing me, telling me to forgive and stay. I'm done! No more!
Ladies please don’t tell a violent and jealous man you want to leave him when you are in a private setting. Pack up and leave without alerting him,be strategic about it. If you can make sure you relocate to a place he’ll never find where you are. May her soul rest in peace. This story is sad
The problem is that according to research, and what we have all seen in a series of cases, the most dangerous time for a woman in a relationship, is when she attempts to leave, so basically we are doomed when we stay, or when we leave 💔 it's hard for women 💔
Unfortunately the more we advise women to not let men be the hill they will die on the more they say "sofela empini". Women only feel worthy through the validation of a man. 🤷🏽♀️
As an African, so sick of African families putting men ‘s interests before women’s safety and well-being. Ladies….. if u want to leave…….. don’t ask family……just leave. Some r low key jeolous of your success, and will convince u to stay…. So u suffer like them
Fully agree 👍 I am 55, I left 6 years ago without a family meeting. I just informed them that I have left and I applied for divorce. Before the end of the year he was married again! I have never been so at peace ✌️
@@vanillabee2790 people mask their evil ways with being nice, once they take the mask off you’ll see who they really are. Let’s stop blaming women,because some of these men are not who they portray themselves to be.
That age gap was the first immediate red flag. Men that date women that are significantly younger tend to be very controlling & they'll never see you an equal.
Women tend to trust the Maturity of an older man since Men take long to Mature… many marriages with age gaps lasted longer if you look at our parents marriages, an older man should be feeling like & treat a younger woman like the previous Flower she is…. Clearly this man Here was just to weak to even solve his Problems or leave the Marriage… Pathetic nje uDoti🚮
I’m noticing a disturbing pattern of brilliant, intelligent women being unalived by jealous men. This case reminds me of Annie Le (among several others). RIP Didi 🕊️
You right. Since there's a good rise in successful women. But having a gent live with a woman on condition that she must be lower than his success is sad. We'll be left with "slay queens" who say, "I am the table," and he'll be part of the reason I meet such a woman 😢.
My ex was so jealous of my success, it was insane! He would covertly punish me for it. 2 years free now. Never deal with a man who has less than you...
What a sad story.😢 In my 39yrs of being in this world, I've come to learn that this life is more spiritual than what we actually see in the physical. With all the achievements of the deceased, it's very much possible that she was surrounded by a lot of jealousy. The bible teaches that we fight not against flesh and blood, but there are powers of darkness and principalities. And sometimes it's those people who act like they love us the most that turn out to be used by these dark forces to destroy us. For the family to advice her to go back and work things out, was rather taboo. Especially for someone who was well able to live an independent life like her. Even this Aunt who wants to be seen fighting for justice could not be as innocent. Yoo guys, all I'm saying is that, make Prayer your priority, Trust Only God. This is sooo painful, makes one wonder if being successful in this world is actually a blessing or a curse. 😢 It's too much.
Wooow, 😭😭 thank you love, we need woman like you in our society to educate and teach our children the word of God. I couldn't agree more. U are my inspiration.. God bless you 👌💋🙌😘🙏
Exactly my sister that's why I took my little life and I ran abroad I'm safe and happy here south africa 🇿🇦 and namibia 🇳🇦 is just something else when it comes to passion killing its like america 🇺🇸 and India 🇮🇳
Insecure people (narcissists) don't want to see flaws in themselves let alone their reflection (significant others). They have worked so hard to build and present this facade of an image to the world and it drives them insane when the cracks begin to show so they feel the need to eliminate that flaw before other people see it too.
But you all know that BOFEBE KILLS. Since in the times of your great great grandmothers from whom you inherited that from. PERIOD. Men will always will deal with it same way. 1524 or 2025
But why not be this straight talker when they had the family meeting after she filed at the police. Their baby is now to grow up without both parents. Lets stop encouraging women to stay with their abusers!!!
@nai6474 I agree with you 💯 Telling the mourners about the Lekganyane surname and the ancestors was unhelpful and unnecessary,because the living and dead family failed their child.😢
NOOOO! Not DORCUS! I met her in Braamfontein. She lived down the corridor from me. Welcomed me to Johannesburg and was an extremely kind person. May your soul rest in eternal peace 😢
I am so sorry, the family is responsible, this is 2024 there is no reason why the family should have allowed their daughter to go back to a man who was literally hurting their child. They are responsible in my eyes, my mother would NEVER allow me to return to a man that puts his hands on me. 😢
I have 3 daughters , I would fetch my daughter 1st time a man lays his hands on her and I would not allow to go back. I'd lose my mind if anyone killed my child 😭😭😭 tjoo
The only way to change the culture is to hold families responsible by law. They should be charged with accessory and made an example of what happens when you force vics to drop charges. In other countries that is considered a crime, forcing someone to drop charges. 🤷🏿♀️
they sent her back to that Monster, they are all to blame, even that lady speaking. I don't respect them... Welcome back Ma'am, wonderful video as always.
This nonsense of families sending women to their death must stop. The very aunt speaking could be part of it. She is the one living with this monster. When someone beat your daughter, he is not worth it.
I would NEVER allow myself to go to a "family meeting" I find them useless. Such a smart woman's life cut short because of a weak, coward and jealous man. He must rot in jail.
Amadoda are problematic 😢😢😢instead of being proud and being motivated by his wife ,uyamshaya ,uyambulala😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬every time I come across stories like this I do not crave or wish for marriage at all. And how this beautiful smart woman manage to keep things together and excel at her career despite everything is extraordinary 😢😢😢😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
The fact that I just left a job of being a nanny because my ex boss would beat his wife for nothing, both are CA only to find out that the wife is more richer or on a higher ranks then the guy.. When I see such stories, the wife always cross my mind, I pray she walks out safe I pray someone or something save her because that guy mmmh. 😭😭 Jehoveh it's alot
One woman told me that if you are a high achieving woman, you better not get married. Marriage is for women that don't work. By nature a man will be threatened by your success ane start seeing you as his competition as he sees other men. I think men should also marry women who are not career headed or high achieving.
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When I first read this it broke my heart I showed my friend and we both just cried what a loss!!! As South African women we feel this deeply and fear for our lives daily 😢
His low self esteem was his demon and he never confronted it. This is not on! What a loss and the fact that we are both botany heads made it even worse for me. RIP DiDi! I love what the Aunt said in the end and o bua nnete tota tota!
Because of his insecurities the child will now grow up without both parents! What a sad way to end her beautiful and brilliant life. Praying for her family and mostly her child!!!
The information here is incorrect .... I am the closest family member and most of the things being said here are mostly lies ... please stop spreading lies because you are sabotaging the case..
Family meetings never helped anyone.... I left in 2018, they always tell you to pray. If you are in a abusive relationship just leave ladies ... Stop with bazothini abantu, people will be alright.
Soo heart breaking. For me this time around it’s not just a name. It’s a person I knew. It’s close to home. Rest well Didi. You did not deserve what that man did to you. But Didi has an older sister and Lethabo is her cousin.
I was abused emotionally, mentally, physically , financially and verbally by my ex husband i literally considered taking my life BUT thank God he came through for me. The guy would say i dont mind going to jail for killing you, its so pathetic what these monsters are capable of doing and best believe they will. My heart goes out to Didi ; such a bright shinning star. Though i don't know her personally it hurts so deep
I hope parents learn to listen to their daughters ,when they even open a case with the police that shows that what they experience behind closed doors is not normal ,stop pushing them to delete the case ,look now the dog has deleted her life ,r u proud?I'm sick and tired of stupid culture in marriage it doesn't work ,let the gals tell u what's happening behind closed doors and believe them
I like what old lady said at the funeral. Some funerals need a different type of message instead of saying it was God’s way or her Time. We decide when to kill it’s in our control. We create life and we can also take it. We need to keep it real with our boys.
RIP Didi. 💔This one is especially sad cause it makes one realise that even well educated women with flourishing careers can be victims of gbv. Reminds me of how shook I was when bonang spoke up about her abuse at the hands of that dj cause in my eyes she was the paragon of independence and having it together. So no one is above gbv.
I couldn't bear to watch the family speak. It's heartbreaking to think they failed to protect her when she needed them most. May she rest in peace, and may her abuser face the harshest consequences. This innocent child has tragically lost both parents. I hope she’ll be surrounded by love and care as she grows up.
It should be a celebration that you are not posting because it means GBV cases in SA are decreasing. I was sooo heartbroken when I heard this story💔 There is nothing terrifying to have an insecure man especially when you are a successful black woman. The entitlement from these type of men is astonishing.
Yeah thats what happened when a person is being neglected dont make it a gender thing its psychological ills that sterms from traumatic experiences hope one day the poor guy will come out as a better man.
Blaming the other family when you are possibly one of the family members who sent her back to the hands that killed her is sick 😢…. They knew, everyone knew yet here they are pointing fingers now. The powers the family claim to have should have worked to end this toxic marriage but here we are now 😢 Rest Didi
1 thing that I have realised about the so called family meetings is that they do not invite ppl who would stand for the truth, ppl who would tell a woman to pack and go, it’s always those who would say bhekezela.Not everyone is aware of what is going on, and judging by the way this lady is talking she would not be a good candidate for such family meetings because she will speak her mind. Families are good in hiding such information only a few would be aware of what is going on, other family members only find out when 1 is dead that there was even abuse
My condolences to the family and closed friends, Mama who was talking I feel your pain but God always answer ND his response is always powerful trust me
The LEKGANYE gogo is is starting to Offramp , the wife is gone . why threaten the mans family? yena shes also to blame , why did her family agree to get her to Drop the charges ? agg maahn if she wants a fight she must go visit the guy and threaten him
This is sad story yooo 😭😭 what bright and brilliant life just taken away like that, i sense umona nje from the husband. The lady speaking at the funeral i salute her.
Comment. When people love each other they can get into conflict & situationships. What families imagine is that people will be able to find a way out of a situation through love - because sometimes other couple's do work things out. Especially when there are children involved. What families miss is the gravity of the situation. Especially from a person who has jealousy rage. This ninja failed. South Africa is poorer without Didi. I also wish that our sisters keep very vigilant of their partners. This ninja robbed all us with Didi's life.
I am so sorry for the family of Didi and her child. I personally know of those family meetings to make peace and cancelations of domestic violence cases. It took me 13 years of endurance for all kinds of abuse you may name. Rest in paradise my princess with brains. The whole world has lost, not only your immediate family and colleagues
Didi's life did not matter because she was a high achiever, it mattered because she was human and the weak-ass coward of a dog had no right to end it. Rest in peace beautiful girl. My beautiful cousin Phumeza was also killed by her monster ex-husband. I hope she hugged and welcomed you when you got to heaven ❤
Even ex- husbabds also can kill you yah ne! We are not safe as women!
Don't insult dogs
You are 💯 correct. I also think why they speak of her as a high achiever is because, she was directly and indirectly touching other people lives with her achievements. There are some people who when they die, they live a legacy.
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And the justice system is so limient in South africa 🇿🇦 and in Namibia 🇳🇦 because we are using the same criminal procedure act and this monster's beast and demons keep on murdering our women as if they are nothing they do it like buying sweets in the shop because they know that they will find themselves free on the streets again
😢😢😢😢 Why are families still holding meetings to convince abused women to go back to their abuser? Rest in Peace Bright Star😭😭
Because women are programmed to go for money or looks instead of love or the personality their partner has. That's why we men sometimes wonder how on earth would a woman date someone whom we as men would not allow in our circle due to the fact that we know his behavior.
Family meetings are not only about that...stop being shallow minded.
You can say that again. Especially when they were aware of this man's abusive behavior.
@@1045VShe is obviously talking about this one specifically not EVERY family meeting. Come on now! 🙄🙄🙄
I'm currently going through the same. I told my family, they can go ahead with the family meeting...but as for me, I won't be in attendance. My decision is that I'm not prepared to spend another day staying and trying to fix someone who is and has been broken long before they met me. 17years of ongoing abuse, I stayed because of these family meetings. He was never addressed, they were always addressing me, telling me to forgive and stay. I'm done! No more!
Ladies please don’t tell a violent and jealous man you want to leave him when you are in a private setting. Pack up and leave without alerting him,be strategic about it. If you can make sure you relocate to a place he’ll never find where you are.
May her soul rest in peace. This story is sad
100% true....
I always tell my friends this.
So true. Don't say anything. Just leave unannounced. It works, and you save your life ladies.
Facts
Fully agree. The most dangerous time for a woman in an abusive relationship is when she is preparing to leave.
Praying for women to NOT let men be the hill they are willing to die on 🕯️🕯️🕯️ young beautiful intelligent and GONE 💔
The problem is that according to research, and what we have all seen in a series of cases, the most dangerous time for a woman in a relationship, is when she attempts to leave, so basically we are doomed when we stay, or when we leave 💔 it's hard for women 💔
Unfortunately the more we advise women to not let men be the hill they will die on the more they say "sofela empini". Women only feel worthy through the validation of a man. 🤷🏽♀️
As an African, so sick of African families putting men ‘s interests before women’s safety and well-being. Ladies….. if u want to leave…….. don’t ask family……just leave. Some r low key jeolous of your success, and will convince u to stay…. So u suffer like them
I agree with what you said.
Fully agree 👍 I am 55, I left 6 years ago without a family meeting. I just informed them that I have left and I applied for divorce. Before the end of the year he was married again! I have never been so at peace ✌️
How about you choose a good man to start with & have a happy life.
@@James-y7i6d As if anyone deliberately chooses a killer. Obviously his nasty character may take years to surface. 🙄
@@vanillabee2790 people mask their evil ways with being nice, once they take the mask off you’ll see who they really are. Let’s stop blaming women,because some of these men are not who they portray themselves to be.
That age gap was the first immediate red flag.
Men that date women that are significantly younger tend to be very controlling & they'll never see you an equal.
Absolutely correct. They probably were mediocre and their age appropriate partners let them know.
What does it say about women who prefer older men?
@OneKingAboveAll Maybe you know. Please tell us.
Younger woman will always think that she's making that old man a favour
Women tend to trust the Maturity of an older man since Men take long to Mature… many marriages with age gaps lasted longer if you look at our parents marriages, an older man should be feeling like & treat a younger woman like the previous Flower she is…. Clearly this man Here was just to weak to even solve his Problems or leave the Marriage… Pathetic nje uDoti🚮
I’m noticing a disturbing pattern of brilliant, intelligent women being unalived by jealous men. This case reminds me of Annie Le (among several others). RIP Didi 🕊️
Am 200% with you on this one , we need to do more as gents , this is not on at all
You right. Since there's a good rise in successful women.
But having a gent live with a woman on condition that she must be lower than his success is sad. We'll be left with "slay queens" who say, "I am the table," and he'll be part of the reason I meet such a woman 😢.
It's a man vs woman issue . I doubt credentials mean that much.
@vebrainlight it does, most successful and educated women are K%[[ Ed by their partners. It is jealous.
My ex was so jealous of my success, it was insane! He would covertly punish me for it. 2 years free now. Never deal with a man who has less than you...
What a sad story.😢 In my 39yrs of being in this world, I've come to learn that this life is more spiritual than what we actually see in the physical. With all the achievements of the deceased, it's very much possible that she was surrounded by a lot of jealousy. The bible teaches that we fight not against flesh and blood, but there are powers of darkness and principalities. And sometimes it's those people who act like they love us the most that turn out to be used by these dark forces to destroy us. For the family to advice her to go back and work things out, was rather taboo. Especially for someone who was well able to live an independent life like her. Even this Aunt who wants to be seen fighting for justice could not be as innocent. Yoo guys, all I'm saying is that, make Prayer your priority, Trust Only God. This is sooo painful, makes one wonder if being successful in this world is actually a blessing or a curse. 😢 It's too much.
I thought to myself that he must have been sent by the devil to destroy her. What a sad story.
Wooow, 😭😭 thank you love, we need woman like you in our society to educate and teach our children the word of God. I couldn't agree more. U are my inspiration.. God bless you 👌💋🙌😘🙏
Exactly my sister that's why I took my little life and I ran abroad I'm safe and happy here south africa 🇿🇦 and namibia 🇳🇦 is just something else when it comes to passion killing its like america 🇺🇸 and India 🇮🇳
You said it mouthful he really didn't know that he played with fire 🔥
This hit me hard 😢
Someone accusing you of infidelity is always a major sign of an insecure man and an insecure man is a dangerous man
Very dangerous, I always run away from any man who tries to control me.
@@ItsMeYourfavorite7 Agree. Also men who accuse their partners of infidelity, do so because they themselves are cheating
It's always a tell. An accusation that is usually a confession.
Insecure people (narcissists) don't want to see flaws in themselves let alone their reflection (significant others). They have worked so hard to build and present this facade of an image to the world and it drives them insane when the cracks begin to show so they feel the need to eliminate that flaw before other people see it too.
But you all know that BOFEBE KILLS. Since in the times of your great great grandmothers from whom you inherited that from. PERIOD. Men will always will deal with it same way. 1524 or 2025
I love the lady that is speaking at the funeral. She’s a straight talker and not buying any face
But why not be this straight talker when they had the family meeting after she filed at the police. Their baby is now to grow up without both parents. Lets stop encouraging women to stay with their abusers!!!
@nai6474 I agree with you 💯
Telling the mourners about the Lekganyane surname and the ancestors was unhelpful and unnecessary,because the living and dead family failed their child.😢
NOOOO! Not DORCUS! I met her in Braamfontein. She lived down the corridor from me. Welcomed me to Johannesburg and was an extremely kind person. May your soul rest in eternal peace 😢
Didi was my colleague. May her soul rest in peace
"It starts with someone raising their voice " 🗣❤
And that's when it is safe to leave 😢 that little push during an argument should be enough for us ladies to leave😢I'm so heartbroken
And stupido not walking away and find himself a stone to marry
Such an intelligent lady , SA was robbed 💔💔💔😭
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The world was robbed!
I am so sorry, the family is responsible, this is 2024 there is no reason why the family should have allowed their daughter to go back to a man who was literally hurting their child. They are responsible in my eyes, my mother would NEVER allow me to return to a man that puts his hands on me. 😢
I have 3 daughters , I would fetch my daughter 1st time a man lays his hands on her and I would not allow to go back. I'd lose my mind if anyone killed my child 😭😭😭 tjoo
He was jealous of her success what a cruel man
The only way to change the culture is to hold families responsible by law. They should be charged with accessory and made an example of what happens when you force vics to drop charges. In other countries that is considered a crime, forcing someone to drop charges. 🤷🏿♀️
Absolutely 😢
But Both Families are usually at the meeting… so her family too must be charged you reckon?
@nomynoms1969 Yes everyone who perpetuates the cycle. Instead of respecting their children's wishes.
@@nomynoms1969he is mentioning both families
they sent her back to that Monster, they are all to blame, even that lady speaking. I don't respect them... Welcome back Ma'am, wonderful video as always.
It is so sad when family send you back to someone you don't want to be with.
This nonsense of families sending women to their death must stop. The very aunt speaking could be part of it. She is the one living with this monster. When someone beat your daughter, he is not worth it.
Why listen to the family? The family don't know the whole story, only the people inside the relationship do. Trust yourself and get out!
I wish there was a law that states with domestic abuse. Retracting a case is not permitted until investigations are concluded.
THIS!!!!!
Presently that's the case...it is not possible to retract like before.
@queenmatshego4584 Oh wow that's amazing. Thanks for the info.
I felt chills at 7:50 when you said “ someone would come and not just dim her light but completely shut it off “💔
She had such a sweet voice ✨🥺
I KNOW! Sweet person nje! Overall!
Never date someone who has nothing to loose
I would NEVER allow myself to go to a "family meeting" I find them useless.
Such a smart woman's life cut short because of a weak, coward and jealous man. He must rot in jail.
I hate family meetings 😔 eish
You are so right, family meetings are useless they boost the abuser it's ego, to take more advantage to a abuse a person openly.
Amadoda are problematic 😢😢😢instead of being proud and being motivated by his wife ,uyamshaya ,uyambulala😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬every time I come across stories like this I do not crave or wish for marriage at all.
And how this beautiful smart woman manage to keep things together and excel at her career despite everything is extraordinary 😢😢😢😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
The way I am so scared of marriage...
Pray about this love...
33, successful and yes I will die single. I am not missing out on anything
The problem is it's not all men, just some men are problematic
Honestly you always hit the mark when telling the story with grace and respect. The aunties speech was so heartbreaking.
The fact that I just left a job of being a nanny because my ex boss would beat his wife for nothing, both are CA only to find out that the wife is more richer or on a higher ranks then the guy.. When I see such stories, the wife always cross my mind, I pray she walks out safe I pray someone or something save her because that guy mmmh. 😭😭 Jehoveh it's alot
This sounds terrible. I pray she comes out of that marriage alive😔
Mmm this is horrible
You were there for a reason.Alert and pray for her.
One woman told me that if you are a high achieving woman, you better not get married. Marriage is for women that don't work. By nature a man will be threatened by your success ane start seeing you as his competition as he sees other men. I think men should also marry women who are not career headed or high achieving.
Keep in touch with her and tell her the truth of why you left and what you r afraid of,
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When I first read this it broke my heart I showed my friend and we both just cried what a loss!!! As South African women we feel this deeply and fear for our lives daily 😢
I pray she gets the justice she deserves. It did not have to end this way💔💔
Lots of love from Nairobi. Please don't leave us like that again. We developed trust issues
It's really sad for the family and the little child who would grow up knowing that daddy killed mommy 😢
Which family, there one that forced her to stay in a abusive marriage?
When you disappear, you really disapear BUT you can never make me hate you shem 😍😍😍 Your loyal fan from Botswana 🥰🥰😘😘
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@@WendyMoseki Pardon?
It's nonsense a leopard never changes its spots I walked out of an abusive marriage That was the best descition I ever took RIP beautiful lady🙏🙏
You are strong I did too and am happy ❤
I was blessed to have met her and experienced her intelligence!
What a damn loss! I blame her family. They forced her to stay with a dangerous jealous coward man. Crying is for nothing now.
His low self esteem was his demon and he never confronted it. This is not on!
What a loss and the fact that we are both botany heads made it even worse for me.
RIP DiDi!
I love what the Aunt said in the end and o bua nnete tota tota!
We always looking forward for greatness she was, people who where to preserve our indigenous knowledge for the future of tomorrow😢
Because of his insecurities the child will now grow up without both parents! What a sad way to end her beautiful and brilliant life. Praying for her family and mostly her child!!!
We missed you sis😁. Thank you.
I wonder what the family is saying now, because honestly I blame them for asking her to drop charges 💔. This is sad.
The information here is incorrect .... I am the closest family member and most of the things being said here are mostly lies ... please stop spreading lies because you are sabotaging the case..
The age gap was an immediate red flag.
It hardly ever ends well with much older men. They'll never see you as an equal.
Possibly true. But even younger guys are just as ruthless. The first mistake was forgiving abuse. It shows inability to control emotions.
@@vebrainlightExactly, young guys are murdering their partners just as much, of not more.
The majority of cases like this are between people that are close in age.
Younger men are worse
Family meetings never helped anyone.... I left in 2018, they always tell you to pray. If you are in a abusive relationship just leave ladies ... Stop with bazothini abantu, people will be alright.
Soo heart breaking. For me this time around it’s not just a name. It’s a person I knew. It’s close to home. Rest well Didi. You did not deserve what that man did to you.
But Didi has an older sister and Lethabo is her cousin.
I was abused emotionally, mentally, physically , financially and verbally by my ex husband i literally considered taking my life BUT thank God he came through for me. The guy would say i dont mind going to jail for killing you, its so pathetic what these monsters are capable of doing and best believe they will. My heart goes out to Didi ; such a bright shinning star. Though i don't know her personally it hurts so deep
I hope parents learn to listen to their daughters ,when they even open a case with the police that shows that what they experience behind closed doors is not normal ,stop pushing them to delete the case ,look now the dog has deleted her life ,r u proud?I'm sick and tired of stupid culture in marriage it doesn't work ,let the gals tell u what's happening behind closed doors and believe them
I like what old lady said at the funeral. Some funerals need a different type of message instead of saying it was God’s way or her Time. We decide when to kill it’s in our control. We create life and we can also take it. We need to keep it real with our boys.
RIP Didi. 💔This one is especially sad cause it makes one realise that even well educated women with flourishing careers can be victims of gbv. Reminds me of how shook I was when bonang spoke up about her abuse at the hands of that dj cause in my eyes she was the paragon of independence and having it together. So no one is above gbv.
Why? God why? These arent women just laying around watching life go by...These are brilliant humans contributing to society.
I almost cried when listening to her mom. I felt her pain. It's as if I know the late lady.😢😢😢
Rest in peace nana you did not deserve such a horrible thing. He was jealous of your strength and capabilities
I couldn't bear to watch the family speak. It's heartbreaking to think they failed to protect her when she needed them most. May she rest in peace, and may her abuser face the harshest consequences. This innocent child has tragically lost both parents. I hope she’ll be surrounded by love and care as she grows up.
It should be a celebration that you are not posting because it means GBV cases in SA are decreasing. I was sooo heartbroken when I heard this story💔 There is nothing terrifying to have an insecure man especially when you are a successful black woman. The entitlement from these type of men is astonishing.
😢😢😢💔💔💔 a child has lost a mother because of s jealous abusive husband it really sad
Yeah thats what happened when a person is being neglected dont make it a gender thing its psychological ills that sterms from traumatic experiences hope one day the poor guy will come out as a better man.
@@mbalilulama8669nah. You have to deal with your issues. Relationships are for adults not kids. If he needs to be baby sat he is not worthy
Its about gender after all men are the ones murdering women, very few cases of women going physico murdering men, so please shut it@@mbalilulama8669
Family meeting tsa mas$&@!
Unfulfilled men are extremely dangerous and filled with jealously.
Haibo Guys is the value of a person about what they achieved what a time to be alive surrounded by idiots.
Welcome back Lady. I clicked so fast.
Right! Did too
Me too😂
Blaming the other family when you are possibly one of the family members who sent her back to the hands that killed her is sick 😢…. They knew, everyone knew yet here they are pointing fingers now. The powers the family claim to have should have worked to end this toxic marriage but here we are now 😢 Rest Didi
1 thing that I have realised about the so called family meetings is that they do not invite ppl who would stand for the truth, ppl who would tell a woman to pack and go, it’s always those who would say bhekezela.Not everyone is aware of what is going on, and judging by the way this lady is talking she would not be a good candidate for such family meetings because she will speak her mind. Families are good in hiding such information only a few would be aware of what is going on, other family members only find out when 1 is dead that there was even abuse
@@bridgettemadiba9496 true 💯
He took our hope away😢
I love how you narrate
Poor helper who found the scene 💔💔
Man I jealous honestly. May your soul rest in peace Didi🕯️🕊️
Thiza wam! Andavuya! Ndayigqibela nini; my favorite Investigation Channel 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾🔥🔥🔥
My condolences to the family and closed friends, Mama who was talking I feel your pain but God always answer ND his response is always powerful trust me
So glad to be introduced to your channel today. Thank you for telling us these stories and your approach is so professional.
Thank you so much Sue and welcome!
The LEKGANYE gogo is is starting to Offramp , the wife is gone . why threaten the mans family? yena shes also to blame , why did her family agree to get her to Drop the charges ? agg maahn if she wants a fight she must go visit the guy and threaten him
Yeah she was being a hypocrite coz they shoved her back into that situation
Hùsband didnt die...hes awaiting trial
Which 2 people are gone?
I missed you, I kept checking if you released a new video.
May Didi rest in peace 🙏. What a horrible thing to happen to a beautiful person like her ❤
Welcome back sisi, you were missed!! ❤
Also if you want to divorce an abusive man, don’t tell him just go when his not around😭😭
Sorry for the loss. It feels like I knew her😭
That country needs Jesus! The level of violence is unacceptable.
It's already a 'Christian country', by the majority. Churches overflow week in, week out. Jesus ain't doing shit man.
With abusers, it never gets better, it only gets worse.
Her Mother, the eloquence, the wisdom. Just wow, top tier.
🔥😢
Also do a video on this one - Disebo Portia Mosupa from Welkom, she was found in a shallow grave.
She had a beautiful send off today
Hhaibo ask nicely
@@MeAndMyLittleLife_ZA uwubanike wena ? Naka iyndaba zakho
What a beautiful soul❤.may her soul rest in peace.
Man's are animal's to us I thank God to decide stayjng single with my children's after my husband pas away its painful 😭
Please may you continue to stay with your children and stay away from men, so many men are broken out there. Keep your peace and sanity.
Spousal jealousy is deadly
You were so so missed. I was so worried and wondered what happened to you 😢 I’m glad you are ok. And thank you for another awesome video 🔥
Wow what a loss, ohh Didi, RIP baby
Welcome back dear. This story is so heartbreaking. Rest in peace didi
This is beyond heartbreaking.
This is sad story yooo 😭😭 what bright and brilliant life just taken away like that, i sense umona nje from the husband. The lady speaking at the funeral i salute her.
ooh Didi...robala ka khutso sesi. Bahwaduba homotsegang😢😢😢
Horrible story 💔😔💔 😢😢such an unnecessary death
Sad story 😭😭😭
What a loss💔 welcome back
Being a cultural person... This aunt has a point.
She has a point but she was supposed to make heads roll when their daughter came back home crying abuse
She is correct they had to go to Didi s family
It's not even about culture, just humanity. How do they not show up? Yho
What a bright lady ❤❤
I blame the family and all families who Force toxic marriages to continue. Shame on them!!
May your precious soul rest in eternal peace Didi. May justice prevail. 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Her family failed her the moment they held that meeting😭🤞🏼
Ka nnnete. What are we discussing when your daughter says she's being beaten up? 😢
Loyal subscriber from Eswatini 🇸🇿 🎉
😢 this is a very very sad genocide in SA And the law is failing in SA.
Welcome Back hun !
What a painful turn of events here 💔
Comment. When people love each other they can get into conflict & situationships. What families imagine is that people will be able to find a way out of a situation through love - because sometimes other couple's do work things out. Especially when there are children involved. What families miss is the gravity of the situation. Especially from a person who has jealousy rage. This ninja failed. South Africa is poorer without Didi. I also wish that our sisters keep very vigilant of their partners. This ninja robbed all us with Didi's life.
Welcome back sisi❤
This is so so sad. Such a bright woman with a bright future. RIP Diz
I am so sorry for the family of Didi and her child. I personally know of those family meetings to make peace and cancelations of domestic violence cases. It took me 13 years of endurance for all kinds of abuse you may name. Rest in paradise my princess with brains. The whole world has lost, not only your immediate family and colleagues
Aaah I missed you so much!!!!!!
“You are very very weak “
I could feel that woman
😢😢😢RIP she's so beautiful
I hope the family forgive themselves for what they caused…