And then some ignorant people will be busy asking why are you not in a relationship o why are you not married? It's because of these same issues year in year out people are being murdered by their own partners. No one deserves to die like that😢MHSRIP💔
Preach you'll be called all kind of names because one is so guarded around bringing a men in your life can be a death sentence not even homosexuals are safe
You are so right. As women we are too good and too sweet to men who abuse and manipulate us with love bombing and promises. I think some men just cannot handle a strong woman
No one deserves to die like that truly. That is why no one should get into these kind of relationships. Unfortunately majority choose to jump in without due diligence. Absolutely nothing wrong with relationships and marriage. Their quality is completely and totally dependant on the quality of the people in it.
Aybo, these things are done by strangers as well. Everyday someone is getting robbed, killed or harmed by strangers also Relationships are part of life as well, ungasabi kakhulu.
hahahaha sis, you nailed it. Each time i see these stories, it reminds me of how dangerous these relationships can be especially if you do not take your time to truly know yourself or the other person before setting up house with them. May Thembi rest in peace
Stop saying “welcome back”. Let’s get used to her taking her time and besides being busy, these stories can be emotionally draining for someone to be dropping them like flies. We appreciate your effort sis. Also remember that it takes lot of time to gather all this information. Take your time and take care of your mental health ❤.
I get your sentiment but there’s nothing wrong with saying “welcome back”. It could be that others are expressing their appreciation for her work and efforts by saying that
Welcome back is just another way of people saying “We missed you and happy to hear from you again.” I agree with your sentiments on her taking care of her mental health cos I am just a listener to what she compiled but I am always crying through these stories. I can’t imagine researching and compiling them and listening over and over while editing. Okare ke lla just reading about such online.
The Mother's strength is admirable i cant imagine losing your daughter in this manner and few days stand up and speak of her in public sending them healing ❤
I feel you and I understand and I'm sorry you feel that way But for me these are educational and informative videos. They help in learning human behavior and to be aware of the different characters in people,to be alert of red flags and to learn that all that glitters is not gold and that also that the devil comes into our lives finely polished in Italian suits...@@queenmadonsela3079
My mom goes to church with the Letlape family and they are the nicest and most down-to-earth people who are so involved at church. When my mom told me about Thembi's death I was broken - this is a GOOD family. I do not trust this Sibusiso guy for a minute and they must continue to deny him bail. I don't even believe his version of events. He assaulted his ex with a granite stone and laptop - that says A LOT about what he is capable of. Throw him under the jail!
Fear Man especially, if they are "not your equal" or not from your similar background.. the inferiority complex and jealousy Is deadly. I'm talking from experience. 😮
It depends. I've been with girls from rich fanilies and have never felt jealous or hatred for them, how could u when ur supposed to luv n support them. N altho it ended up not workin out in the end, we both moved on n still remain friends. Boys need to be taught from a young age to respect woman n to know how to treat a woman properly n how to act properly in certain situations.
@@bonmiya5448 unfortunately they are not. You can go to the woman for change page just to get a glimpse. Just because she isn’t uploading, doesn’t mean people have stopped killing, some cases don’t even make it to the media.
please do the one about a girl from medical school in UKZN, her name is Mamohau Kutoane , who was brutally killed by her boyfriend and he also took his life. The incident happened on the 28th of September 2024.
Alcohol and drugs are becoming a scourge in our country. We need to stop. This boy is a successful businessman but looks like a Para. Where's our pride?
@@Inprogress_of_newbeginingssuccess is relative. For someone it could be the ability to pay rent. For others its driving a Lamborghini. He was living in 4ways...even sleeping on a friend's couch is expensive.
@@Inprogress_of_newbeginings he was successful, a University graduate, running his own business, that is a success to me. Not everyone gets that. And he threw it all away because of drugs.
Most emotional issues don't just start, they are gradual and eventually reach a boiling point. I would further like to hear how he treated all his gf's, his children,etc? This men hit his ex-gf and baby mama, didn't seek help but ran away from accountability. He dealt with his immense stress with alcohol and drugs. He clearly doesn't know how to manage his emotional self. I don't know any successful person ( this is especially important for men in any society) who is a success and doesn't manage that. People in this comment and outside think physical attributes make a man successful. Emotionally weak men infact want to acquire physical things to be seen as successful. This man is book intelligent. I will say again, this men is not successful. We need to change our definition of success.
I think we ladies should be very careful who we allow in our lives, it's okay to want to be loved but at what expense. Lets not be blind inlove that we ignore any form of warning signs. Red flags are always there always, let's do back ground check on this man that we are going with. Let's not be charmed by cars, drips and flaxs there is more to life than all that. Its really hard sometimes to think that your prince charming can be a devil but my dear people are sick Mentaly and Spiritually sick sick. Let's be vigilant out there. MHSRIP
Thank you!!!! I met a very handsome, clean man and he told me that he is the "driver" of our relationship, i should know who is the man and who is the woman in this relationship. That was after i went out for drinks with my friend and refused to go home after he told ne i should be home within 10 minutes. I blocked him everywhere after that phone call
Background checks should be standard by now... I wish the South Africa police would have all police reports digitized and accessible to the public so women can check these even if it was just a complaint
@@MsSwanlake struuu. Cause if he could do it to the previous woman and she walked away alive, the second, third or fourth would not be that lucky. An abuser will forever be abusive unless he gets proper help and he stops his ways. I'm grateful for platforms and channels like this that truly puts us on high alert of our cycles🤞
My advice would be to take it slow. Hold out on having s e x with them aslong as u can n if they keep pushing it n wanting it but then get PO'd that u ain't given any. Then leave n run as fast as u can. Coz if they gonna get mad over sonethin as lil as not getn any, then can u imagine what else would tick em off
We’ve missed you. It would be great if you could also do videos of updates in some your cases as new developments arise (such as this one). I wish you could upload more. Really enjoy your coverages of South African true crime. ❤
😭😭😭😭😭💔 Giiiiirrrrrlllll please atleast leave us with a bunch of videos so we dont miss you too much when youre gone. Appreciate the time and effort you put in these videos but dont ghost us like this😭💔
Heh banna! I know Sibusiso. We went to Jeppe Boys together. Although he was two grades my senior. Was even on the same Cross Country team together. He was such a nice guy back then. Tjo. I'm shook.
@@joyphotography2511 stay far away from drugs. If you can, avoid alcohol and smoking too. Those things do more harm to us than good and we never talk about it. Overcome>numb.
@@MentalFacility-u7o I don't know what are you trying to imply but for your info I don't do and never have ingested any form of drugs. So please. You don't know me, I don't know you. If you don't have anything better to say. Just keep scrolling
@@fruitypopwhickle6806 That is your interpretation and assumption of what you think I might know. But you are not me, so I'll leave you to your assumptions
Her dad is one of the most genuine members of parliament. He tears into policies that are meant to uplift black people but have been sadly misused. Such a gentle giant and one of the few good apples. I have seen him work once and I immediately wanted to know more about him. I’m so sad for them.
They met in 2023, 2024 she's already gone 😢 Sibusiso Zitha uyiSitha shem Attacking his ex with a slab of granite and laptop was diabolical enough, charges should have been attempted murder
Thank you for such a beautiful narration, eloquently so, again and again. 🙏🙏🙏 What a sad story. May Thembi get justice. Life can sometimes be like we're living in the Amazon jungle, without knowing it, until that very last moment. These incidents hit very hard to people left with such void, their loved ones being gone forever.
Money and Success do not mean anything the important thing is to ask wisdom from God because success and money without the involvement of God is useless the devil is on the run God is there to protect us
Women are brave. You know a man had a history of abuse and you still date him. A baby daddy Nogal. I need my girls to choose themselves. R.I.P pastry princess 😢
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Assumption: he was jealous of her. If you ever hear your boyfriend saying stuff like "You're a rich kid, moes wena". RUN
Those fast moving relationships are a red 🚩 because with speed you can't see true characteristics, then before you know it boom
True that, fast moving means run for your life.
And then some ignorant people will be busy asking why are you not in a relationship o why are you not married? It's because of these same issues year in year out people are being murdered by their own partners. No one deserves to die like that😢MHSRIP💔
Preach you'll be called all kind of names because one is so guarded around bringing a men in your life can be a death sentence not even homosexuals are safe
You are so right. As women we are too good and too sweet to men who abuse and manipulate us with love bombing and promises. I think some men just cannot handle a strong woman
No one deserves to die like that truly. That is why no one should get into these kind of relationships. Unfortunately majority choose to jump in without due diligence.
Absolutely nothing wrong with relationships and marriage. Their quality is completely and totally dependant on the quality of the people in it.
Aybo, these things are done by strangers as well. Everyday someone is getting robbed, killed or harmed by strangers also Relationships are part of life as well, ungasabi kakhulu.
hahahaha sis, you nailed it. Each time i see these stories, it reminds me of how dangerous these relationships can be especially if you do not take your time to truly know yourself or the other person before setting up house with them. May Thembi rest in peace
"She loved someone that did not deserve her."
Stop saying “welcome back”. Let’s get used to her taking her time and besides being busy, these stories can be emotionally draining for someone to be dropping them like flies. We appreciate your effort sis. Also remember that it takes lot of time to gather all this information.
Take your time and take care of your mental health ❤.
You are an angel💯😇
Very true.. also takes time to follow cases and compress the info in a video...🎉
I get your sentiment but there’s nothing wrong with saying “welcome back”. It could be that others are expressing their appreciation for her work and efforts by saying that
Welcome back is just another way of people saying “We missed you and happy to hear from you again.” I agree with your sentiments on her taking care of her mental health cos I am just a listener to what she compiled but I am always crying through these stories. I can’t imagine researching and compiling them and listening over and over while editing. Okare ke lla just reading about such online.
Woah. Calm down. Any comment on this unfortunate story?
The Mother's strength is admirable i cant imagine losing your daughter in this manner and few days stand up and speak of her in public sending them healing ❤
True ur left with no choice no 1 can tell a story better than ur mom rather than writing a letter speak it's part of healing ❤
@gugumazibuko7453 Absolutely its very courageous of her as i can imagine nothing prepares a parents of this.
She's baaaaaack ❤️ I hope you will be blessing us with ten videos this week since you've been gone for so long.
Sooo true
..I couldn't believe it when I saw the notification for this episode.
That's disgusting guys. U know someone's child has to die for u to watch these videos. I hope it's not u, or family member
@@queenmadonsela3079 I like your sense of humour
I feel you and I understand and I'm sorry you feel that way But for me these are educational and informative videos. They help in learning human behavior and to be aware of the different characters in people,to be alert of red flags and to learn that all that glitters is not gold and that also that the devil comes into our lives finely polished in Italian suits...@@queenmadonsela3079
My mom goes to church with the Letlape family and they are the nicest and most down-to-earth people who are so involved at church. When my mom told me about Thembi's death I was broken - this is a GOOD family. I do not trust this Sibusiso guy for a minute and they must continue to deny him bail. I don't even believe his version of events. He assaulted his ex with a granite stone and laptop - that says A LOT about what he is capable of. Throw him under the jail!
Hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪
Fear Man especially, if they are "not your equal" or not from your similar background.. the inferiority complex and jealousy Is deadly. I'm talking from experience. 😮
Sad truth 😢
The background part is true. Children from afluent famalilies should just date each other
It depends. I've been with girls from rich fanilies and have never felt jealous or hatred for them, how could u when ur supposed to luv n support them. N altho it ended up not workin out in the end, we both moved on n still remain friends. Boys need to be taught from a young age to respect woman n to know how to treat a woman properly n how to act properly in certain situations.
This cannot be emphasized enough
@@nonozi4147i agree
I know her mom from UJ when I was still a student. She is such a good woman with great influence
"A drunk man's actions are a sober man's thoughts", regardless of how intoxicated u are, u wouldn't hurt someone u actually love
That mum is strong!
Most men should and must work on themselves because you'll never be capable of loving the next person when you can't love and respect yourself
This 💯 %
Most people should work on themselves, man and woman
I can't imagine what the 10 year old went through that evening😢😢. All what people see is gbv! The child went through h3ll and is probably traumatised.
Can you imagine him driving her in clothing covered with blood, it’s really sick.
My dear I could listen to you all day and night,you deserve an Award as South African Crime investigator of the century 🎉🎉🎉
The day I catch you😢, ga ke happy ka wena nex nex. Welcome back 🎉
That's me😂😊
😂😂😂😂😂❤
Most of us are happy because it means murder cases are decreasing
@@bonmiya5448 unfortunately they are not. You can go to the woman for change page just to get a glimpse. Just because she isn’t uploading, doesn’t mean people have stopped killing, some cases don’t even make it to the media.
The level of detail is really amazing… wow
please do the one about a girl from medical school in UKZN, her name is Mamohau Kutoane , who was brutally killed by her boyfriend and he also took his life. The incident happened on the 28th of September 2024.
What!😮
@@nokubongamazibuko-ngidi8772 so painful😥
@@nokubongamazibuko-ngidi8772 so painful😥
Please Please do😢
Her mother is so well-spoken. Such a tragedy...
Had she known she would have just stayed home with her parents and just baked😢
Exactly 😢
She took a chance like all of us. People have demons in them and they need a host.
OMG she’s back!!!! So excited!!!
U are simply the best, I had put this as a request & I am happy to see that U have indeed delivered. Thank U. God bless U.
Please try and post more videos am tired of rewatching your old videos 😅😅
Yooooo that's me, watching them over and over😂😂😂😂
@@thobekiledlamini same here
I just wish people stop killing each other ❤
My wish too manje usathane ubusa emhlabeni yoh kubantu💔@@thembiencube-s2u
Lol.. me too
Very close to 100k bbes keep going we missed yu
A man in the house is more dangerous than the man outside.
💯
They are all dangerous at this point sisi😢😢😢.
What is a man in the house?
@clarencemaseko428 the man with you when doors are locked...
Lovely lady RIP
Alcohol and drugs are becoming a scourge in our country. We need to stop. This boy is a successful businessman but looks like a Para. Where's our pride?
But he wasn't successful. We need to change our definition of what success is.
@@Inprogress_of_newbeginingssuccess is relative. For someone it could be the ability to pay rent. For others its driving a Lamborghini. He was living in 4ways...even sleeping on a friend's couch is expensive.
@@Inprogress_of_newbeginingshe was succesful
@@Inprogress_of_newbeginings he was successful, a University graduate, running his own business, that is a success to me. Not everyone gets that. And he threw it all away because of drugs.
Most emotional issues don't just start, they are gradual and eventually reach a boiling point. I would further like to hear how he treated all his gf's, his children,etc?
This men hit his ex-gf and baby mama, didn't seek help but ran away from accountability. He dealt with his immense stress with alcohol and drugs.
He clearly doesn't know how to manage his emotional self. I don't know any successful person ( this is especially important for men in any society) who is a success and doesn't manage that. People in this comment and outside think physical attributes make a man successful.
Emotionally weak men infact want to acquire physical things to be seen as successful.
This man is book intelligent. I will say again, this men is not successful. We need to change our definition of success.
How does one date for 10 years? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I did it 11 years. Worse injury you can do to yourself
I think we ladies should be very careful who we allow in our lives, it's okay to want to be loved but at what expense. Lets not be blind inlove that we ignore any form of warning signs. Red flags are always there always, let's do back ground check on this man that we are going with. Let's not be charmed by cars, drips and flaxs there is more to life than all that.
Its really hard sometimes to think that your prince charming can be a devil but my dear people are sick Mentaly and Spiritually sick sick. Let's be vigilant out there.
MHSRIP
Such wise words!
Thank you!!!! I met a very handsome, clean man and he told me that he is the "driver" of our relationship, i should know who is the man and who is the woman in this relationship. That was after i went out for drinks with my friend and refused to go home after he told ne i should be home within 10 minutes. I blocked him everywhere after that phone call
Background checks should be standard by now... I wish the South Africa police would have all police reports digitized and accessible to the public so women can check these even if it was just a complaint
@@MsSwanlake struuu. Cause if he could do it to the previous woman and she walked away alive, the second, third or fourth would not be that lucky. An abuser will forever be abusive unless he gets proper help and he stops his ways.
I'm grateful for platforms and channels like this that truly puts us on high alert of our cycles🤞
True, many times we are sleeping with the devil and don't even know it.
I even started watching( tshego paledi telling the told and untold )girl i really missed you 😢, please try posting more often ❤❤❤
‘…she loved someone that did not deserve her’ men hate us!🥹💔
Men hate us..
men hate you?😂😂😂😂😂
It’s sad
It’s so hard to date nowadays, you just don’t know this sick the other person is. Psychopaths are not branded. You might just bring one home. 😢
You right cause you will never know which one of these people is psychotic😢😢😢
The things this men say everyday clearly shows how much they hate us
My advice would be to take it slow. Hold out on having s e x with them aslong as u can n if they keep pushing it n wanting it but then get PO'd that u ain't given any. Then leave n run as fast as u can. Coz if they gonna get mad over sonethin as lil as not getn any, then can u imagine what else would tick em off
Welcome back ❤
Am praying people to stop killing each other 😢😢
We’ve missed you. It would be great if you could also do videos of updates in some your cases as new developments arise (such as this one). I wish you could upload more. Really enjoy your coverages of South African true crime. ❤
Im so glad you shared this story. I used to work with her at exclusive books back in vasity. She was such a beautiful soul and soo ambitious
Not in a bad way but I won't date someone who has history of abuse and assault 🙌🙌🙌🙌
You wouldn't know they don't share those details
How will you know ,they have history of abuse ?
Knowingly...
@@Zimruns when you date a person you do some background checks
@@elizabethmatlala2044 how I think we need to educate each other
😭😭😭😭😭💔 Giiiiirrrrrlllll please atleast leave us with a bunch of videos so we dont miss you too much when youre gone. Appreciate the time and effort you put in these videos but dont ghost us like this😭💔
Bruh and she has us in a chokehold that time. Why are we so loyal ?? This is an abusive relationship struu🤞🏽
@yolanda.7033 😂😂😂😂😂 i knooow right! Imma stick beside her!❤️
Ooooh so happy to see you ke Ntombi😍😍
Thank you for the upload ♥️♥️
Am I the only one wanting to know what she actually typed in the message to her mom😢
@@michellewhitneyprince1298 SAME! But the State is keeping this info to themselves for now, incase they go to trail. 😮💨
help
Me too,so curious
Thank you for posting another video 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I look forward to your posts ❤
Rest in peace, Thembi. Condolences to her loving family , especially her mom and dad.
I am happy with the subscribers 😊, road to 100k. Well deserved ♥️
💃🏽🎉yay, what a wonderful surprise. The way we miss your awesome work when you are scarce… welcome back.
She used to be my client and friend! What a beautiful soul Thembi was 🥹❤️. Continue resting Thembles
Girl, I must say I missed you. Welcome back 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
I've missed you so much dear.Everyday I was checking your videos.Thank you for the good work.
His ex is just as sick as him! And her brother sies
How are they not charged?😮😮😮😮😮
Yhoooh sweerie welcome back we were starting to get worried 🥺😯🥰♥️🙏🏽don't ever leave us like that
Welcome back!!! We missed you!😊(I am sure I speak for many)
Haibo the Exs brother Nolwandles brother should be arrested for future crimes cause how can he suggest such a horrible thing
Wow what a sad story😢 I wasn’t even aware it took place
As parents we should ground our children and ensure they fear God. All achievements can be meaningless sometimes when there's drugs💔
I love mama's speech❤😢
Welcome back🙏🏾🥺I missed you
Heh banna! I know Sibusiso. We went to Jeppe Boys together. Although he was two grades my senior. Was even on the same Cross Country team together. He was such a nice guy back then. Tjo. I'm shook.
You mean he seemed like a nice guy...
Being nice doesn't equate to being good.
@@joyphotography2511 stay far away from drugs. If you can, avoid alcohol and smoking too. Those things do more harm to us than good and we never talk about it. Overcome>numb.
@@MentalFacility-u7o I don't know what are you trying to imply but for your info I don't do and never have ingested any form of drugs. So please. You don't know me, I don't know you. If you don't have anything better to say. Just keep scrolling
@@fruitypopwhickle6806 That is your interpretation and assumption of what you think I might know. But you are not me, so I'll leave you to your assumptions
Women, we need to learn how to discern. We need to look at the small things people do everyday, it is those things that show you who a person is.
Yhooo, we missed you... Please sunqaba
Thanks for the video and coming back 😊
Men guys men 😭😭😭
At this point, I am done with men
Her dad is one of the most genuine members of parliament. He tears into policies that are meant to uplift black people but have been sadly misused. Such a gentle giant and one of the few good apples.
I have seen him work once and I immediately wanted to know more about him. I’m so sad for them.
Your story telling skill 🥺I missed your voice ❤❤❤❤
Yoh the mum is so strong, she spoke so beautifully about her daughter.
They met in 2023, 2024 she's already gone 😢
Sibusiso Zitha uyiSitha shem
Attacking his ex with a slab of granite and laptop was diabolical enough, charges should have been attempted murder
Its been awhile thank you for this one again
missed you so much!! I hope life is treating you well, mama.
Once a person says - they had a black out you know they are going to plead temporal insanity to get a lesser sentence
True..
Thank you sis I have been waiting for this story❤❤
You really know how to punish us mara😢 yooooooo please stop disappearing, we miss and love you❤❤
Me being interested in Cartrack after the ad😁
Such a strong woman umamakhe 😢.
Yo welcome back!!! I have been checking your page EVERYDAY❤❤❤
You r missed a lot ❤❤❤pls don't go away for this long
Thank you for such a beautiful narration, eloquently so, again and again. 🙏🙏🙏
What a sad story. May Thembi get justice.
Life can sometimes be like we're living in the Amazon jungle, without knowing it, until that very last moment.
These incidents hit very hard to people left with such void, their loved ones being gone forever.
Money and Success do not mean anything the important thing is to ask wisdom from God because success and money without the involvement of God is useless the devil is on the run God is there to protect us
Im so heartbroken i always watch your uploads but yoh this 1 broke my soul
Welcome back.
I enjoy watching your videos.
❤❤
Durban Central here Nice episodes 🎉🎉
You never disappoint ❤😊😊😊😊😊😊❤ l enjoyed the movie 😉
So refreshing and we get to sit and relax
This story is so chilling.
It's frightening how most of these stories involve Wits graduates
Missed you so much babe, thanks for the video.
❤️🙏🏽
Welcome back… throughly enjoyed
😢hugs to Mum and Dad😢❤❤
working hard all your life to build a successful career/life, only to throw it away over drugs and jealousy...weak, weak!!!
That is what demons hiding behind Career,
Why would the ex put herself in all this😢😢😮
Knowing that that could have easily been her.
The person who hit someone with a granite piece.😰😰And tried to hide evidence...
That’s why I say women are brave. Mina a man who has a violent history can never be my man. Ngeke!
Kudos to her for finding her passion and not pursuing what her parents may have wanted. Rip beautiful.
So Happy to have you back❤
This is just too sad. I'm glad that the mom was so strong during the funeral and I hope they get stronger and more blessings come for her family
Welcome back🎉🎉🎉Happy😛😍
Im scared of being in a relationship because people are broken
Women are brave. You know a man had a history of abuse and you still date him. A baby daddy Nogal. I need my girls to choose themselves. R.I.P pastry princess 😢
I know him, I know his baby mama and the baby mama's brother. This is super crazy. Fucked up on so many levels.
Do you know the baby mamas parents?
Welcome back Girla🥰
Please keep these coming
Where have you been?we have missed you my wife and I loves your stories .
Not 1 but 2 knives?????
Madman!
Ladies fear men.
Hey, did you not hear her mom saying she was not the best person. A binge drinker and a drug taker. And argumentative.
Im so sorry Thembi, you loved and trusted him 💔RIP.
Ohhhh God have mercy on us #women🙏🙏🙏🙏🎚️.. Enough is Enough 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔🙌🙌