Crazy Racist Karen Tries To Fight My Girlfriend On A Cruise Ship

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  • @maryhartman5044
    @maryhartman5044 ปีที่แล้ว +457

    I’m 77 yrs old and hate to hear it whether it’s race or religion. I enjoy living vicariously thru your cruise videos. I loved cruising and unable to cruise anymore. Have fun. Life is short.

    • @lbee8247
      @lbee8247 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @Mary Hartman
      I hope you get to cruise again. If you stopped because of health or finances I hope you can recover and cruise again for the next 20 years again.
      For health follow Dr. Berry for the proper human diet.
      For finances. I'm praying for you.

    • @cesiliaduarte1781
      @cesiliaduarte1781 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God bless you.

    • @doctorwewe9436
      @doctorwewe9436 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No one cares about your age

    • @salty_lizard
      @salty_lizard ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'll cheers to you, miss Mary, next month on the Celebrity Summit 🥰

    • @P.Kenney
      @P.Kenney ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are a lovely, good looking couple!

  • @sueb4368
    @sueb4368 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Lauren has a secret weapon: pretend she doesn't know what the aggressor is talking about and just speak French. It's amazing how when people don't think they are being understood they will back down and leave.

    • @Kai...999
      @Kai...999 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I mean, what the point in talking shit if the person can't understand the shit that's being talked? I mean lol, come on now.

  • @RicanCurves85
    @RicanCurves85 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I’m Puerto Rican and my husband is black. We’ve experienced racism too in our 17 year relationship. Sadly, it’s been from our own people. Hispanic men racist against my husband and black women racist against me. I think it stems from the whole “they’re taking all our men/women” mentality which is quite sad.
    We teach our sons that they can love anyone from any race as long as they are happy and being treated right.
    Lauren is a sweetheart but I’m glad she’s got some French sass because unfortunately we live in a world with many ignorant people so instances like this aren’t too uncommon.

    • @faithruckdeschel1294
      @faithruckdeschel1294 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've had that happen a lot to me and my hubby(a Black man) as well, but I'm mixed(French/Italian/Black/American Indian and only look Hispanic. A few times Hispanic men have given me dirty looks and will actually tell me that I should "stay within my own race!" My hubby went to work the next day and told his PR friend about it and his friend said that there's a lot of racism even among Hispanic ppl, and that his ppl(PR's)are very racist and look down at the darker skinned toned races like Mexicans and Cubans, but that a lot of PR's also do not like Black folks. I've gotten the most racist remarks and attitudes from Black women and that's always hurt me because I really do love and respect them.

    • @Coco-fi4mv
      @Coco-fi4mv ปีที่แล้ว

      See I don’t care I want you all to have these BM because they aren’t doing anything but deleting BW and bashing us on podcast so it’s foolish of BW to fight anyone over them

    • @RedneckandPinay
      @RedneckandPinay ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@faithruckdeschel1294I’m white and my wife is darker skinned Filipina. We live in the Philippines now, and I see other Filipinas treat my wife very disrespectfully. It’s usually the lighter skinned Filipinas with dyed hair and heavy makeup…you know, trying to appear Americanized. Pisses me off to no ends too.
      It’s just plain ol’ jealousy.

    • @daphnee646
      @daphnee646 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where is your husband is from?

  • @rockhopper01
    @rockhopper01 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    You did exactly what you should’ve done, defending your lady regardless of color.
    Also, we should think about the real victim in all of this: the husband that puts up with her.

    • @frankieroberson3398
      @frankieroberson3398 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Poor husband; like the clerk in Meance to Society; I feel sorry for ya Motha, lmao!!!!

  • @rachelfrank8647
    @rachelfrank8647 ปีที่แล้ว +360

    I never understand why people immediately get aggressive or violent. If she was really concerned about her husband's cup (we know that was just an excuse) then they shouldn't have left it unattended.

    • @goodvibesonly153
      @goodvibesonly153 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Exactly 🎯 why leave the drink unattended

    • @selfishbeats
      @selfishbeats ปีที่แล้ว +14

      when you have a drink you should drink it tbh. would solve all the problems.

    • @rasbo4317
      @rasbo4317 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I agree who walks away from their now a days

    • @ralphlongo1975
      @ralphlongo1975 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      People are already upset about something else, the proverbial cup is already full, then an incident pushes the water over the edge. I worked in the food service industry for over 30 years, you have to learn to deal with it as it comes in that industry.

    • @panther5592
      @panther5592 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We don't know if it was an excuse though. I like this guy and this channel but on this video I felt like he made a few assumptions

  • @clarehernan
    @clarehernan ปีที่แล้ว +340

    As a Puerto Rican married to a “white boy” I can totally understand. You get hate from others and it’s expected here in America, unfortunately. The hardest part to grasp is that … Sometimes it’s your own people judging your relationship. I’m glad you made this a topic! And I hope y’all enjoy the rest of the cruise! I love you guys and Lauren’s accent is everything 🥵😍

    • @humanchildofgod3126
      @humanchildofgod3126 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am a Latina… I don’t date Latin me (I have PTSD from my Puerto Rican Sperm donor, refuse to call him father!). You are correct!! Your own… will be the most racist and ignorant. There is no filter between their mouth and brain!! I crossed the street, and I can tell you, I will never go back!

    • @joeo7693
      @joeo7693 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes, there are many things which cloud peoples minds: all forms of prejudice, jealousy, and culture to name a few. The problem with this world? There are not enough people who have God in their heart. We took God out of schools and through the generations, He was lost from most homes. God is Love, without love…we have the world we live in today. (That is WAY deeper than my normal post. Not sorry. 😇)

    • @clarehernan
      @clarehernan ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@joeo7693 exactly, the book says we are all brothers ✨❤️

    • @clarehernan
      @clarehernan ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dextersdad6920 you are embarrassing to your own soul 🤣😂 ugly energy!

    • @davva360
      @davva360 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I dont understand why anyone would even care what the color of your husband is in this day and age. The only thing that should matter is how he treats you and your family.

  • @ashkaidee1626
    @ashkaidee1626 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    That is so disheartening. I am a black woman and her behavior was disgusting. Jay I totally understand your perspective. Some people just look for confrontation. Glad you handled this situation the way you did.

    • @Bellz972
      @Bellz972 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here. Am African and I was so embarrassed 😳 by her behavior. In this day and age people are mixing more and more, she gotta get used to it

    • @theharleys23
      @theharleys23 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes I love the blue Long Island ice tea. Also so sorry she had to go through that. There are so many people out there that are just nasty! Glad it didn’t escalate into a fight. Love your videos, keep up the good work.

  • @juanitafurtado8805
    @juanitafurtado8805 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    We can't control other people's bad behavior. We can only control how we react, and you and Lauren handled this situation withe intelligence and maturity. it sounds like a combination of ignorance, racism and alcohol. It also sounds like Carnival security was on the job! You and Lauren are a class act!

  • @jeffreviews8995
    @jeffreviews8995 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I never understood how somebody go on vacation and want to fight for the dumbest things

  • @merrylharwood5051
    @merrylharwood5051 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    There is no excuse for racism in this day and age. We are all trying to do the same thing, live our lives and love our loves. It does not matter what color you are or what gender you are. If they are living their best life, leave them alone!!
    We got you Jay and Lauren!! I personally think you make the cutest couple ever!!!!

    • @Rollinghard7
      @Rollinghard7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But yet racism is here and Blacks experience it more than any

    • @Jtankiller
      @Jtankiller ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rollinghard7 Racism is here but blacks do not experience it more than any. Stop spreading ignorance.

  • @truth7572
    @truth7572 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    It's great to see you and Lauren living your lives, being yourselves. You get to be citizens of the world if you want to be! No one should have to live a stereotype, just to please other people. For every jerk who gets upset about you, there are plenty of other people from all walks of life who are inspired by you. Keep on breaking the mold!

  • @turkeshahuggins2462
    @turkeshahuggins2462 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I’m so sorry that happened to you and Lauren. She seems to be super sweet and cool and for her to experience something that crazy is ridiculous. Love has no color.

    • @andrewebb3283
      @andrewebb3283 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love has no color lol but dude don't like any blackwoman and don't care for your friendship. I have been around blackmen like this and HE HATES YOU AND HIS GIRLFRIEND HATES YOU BECAUSE YOUR A THREAT. You need to grow up to the reality of this world when a Blackman outwardly chooses a whitewoman over you.

  • @joeo7693
    @joeo7693 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    "We're not animals, we know how to communicate." Exactly!

    • @williamadams5695
      @williamadams5695 ปีที่แล้ว

      Unfortunately many people do not know how to communicate!

    • @NoobGamer-sc9lt
      @NoobGamer-sc9lt ปีที่แล้ว

      totally agree with you but some people really need a punch in the face when they come after you with their stupidity and ignorance over and over again

    • @joeo7693
      @joeo7693 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@NoobGamer-sc9lt True, need/deserve/are asking for a punch or slap in the face. Unfortunately, those actions will get you a visit by Security, not them. 🙄

  • @Cruisetravelers
    @Cruisetravelers ปีที่แล้ว +205

    First off, I love it anytime she is on camera. She’s so adorable. You two look great together. 🥰
    Secondly, I’m sorry this happened. People suck sometimes. You are both class acts and handled a difficult situation very well.

    • @designdoctor247
      @designdoctor247 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      i agree w your comment. it was heart breaking to me...i am sadden that Lauren did not feel ...well and honestly was ...not safe...w us Americans...we should be on our VERY BEST behavior with visitors from other countries...Lauren i pray u keep giving us chances because IMO more kindness and acceptance is here than ...well...everyting u sadly experianced... my heart believes in u two as a couple and if we are blessed to have u want to join our country and become a citizen i pray u forgive those who have been unkind... and i pray u see kindness, acceptance and love EACH day here.

    • @MrKarmapolice97
      @MrKarmapolice97 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have noticed Americans will get violent over some other 1st world countries

  • @chevelle837
    @chevelle837 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I’m sorry you guys had to go through this J. We are no longer in the 1950s or 1960s. People need to mind their business and stop the hate. Sometimes it’s our own people with the bs!! Love you guys❤

  • @timpritchard
    @timpritchard ปีที่แล้ว +46

    A few things to note. Lauren is so sweet and she was super cute in this video. You are blessed. I am a white man and dated a black woman about 25 years ago, the racist things were so bad. One restaurant literally served me on glass plates and her on paper plates. I was furious, she said she was used to that treatment. You bless us with your channel and it is always good to see you and Lauren together.

  • @gaillewis8265
    @gaillewis8265 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    We were on the Carnival Pride last week. No fights. We found the people of all ages and races very friendly. We enjoy watching your videos, and love how you interact together. Lots of wisdom and common sense.

  • @daletimmothy
    @daletimmothy ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Thank you for just speaking honestly. It’s great to hear TH-camrs talking frankly and free.

    • @davidvickers8271
      @davidvickers8271 ปีที่แล้ว

      AMF..Adios motherfu####?
      Last time I had two of those in Chiang Mai Thailand I woke up in a police cell,still don't know what happened..Not big or clever🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cheryllassonde8080
      @cheryllassonde8080 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm on a ship right now. The rudness of some people is unreal, and their entitlement. I gave up today and spent a peaceful day in my cabin on on my balcony.

    • @connorthompson05
      @connorthompson05 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree, it’s very refreshing.

  • @mrfiness
    @mrfiness ปีที่แล้ว +47

    No race has a monopoly on ignorance I’m watching this video because I’m about to go on my first cruise and u been very informative, I don’t spend thousands of dollars to go somewhere and fight with someone I wanna have a good time !! Stay smart stay safe be proactive not reactive!

    • @robertfontaine6491
      @robertfontaine6491 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is very well said

    • @menow7851
      @menow7851 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've seen some weird folk on cruises but 100% its a great vacation. Security will assist quickly if people start to argue. Many will be jailed or ordered to stay in their cabin, where a guard sits at their door. Physical fighters are put off the ship at the next port and banned from that cruise line. When you sail realize you are just a person in a new city. Watch your valuables and your surroundings just like at home. At the Ports beware of pickpockets. Use the Safe in your cabin for Passport, wallet, jewelry. For folk that seem to be asking too many personal questions, I'll say I'm from a different city than I live in. I'll keep my last name secret....so they can't Google me. However, many of my cruising friends like making new friends and they share contact info for after the cruise. They visit each other around the world. You may find new friends on your cruise. Whatever happens the cruise makes me smile all day & night. Go to the Live Shows. Don't miss the fun stuff. Adult Scavenger Hunt is a must.. Read the daily schedule of activities. Happy sailing.
      PS-little known fact....if you gamble thru $1,500 in the Casino, you will be offered another cruise for Free or super cheap, with free drinks. Royal Caribbean does that, so the others follow. Ask the Casino manager to verify. Since you put your ship card is in the slot machine gathering points for your end of cruise prizes, the Casino computer can see who's gambling heavy. You get perks. Need a Mimosa? Enjoy.

  • @luluballoon
    @luluballoon ปีที่แล้ว +33

    As a Canadian (where we apologize when someone else is the one to bump into us!) I always find this kind of hostility on cruises shocking. It's terrible you have to deal with horrible comments and judgements about your relationship just because you're different races (In 2023!). Your love of travel and fun really shines through in your videos together.

  • @quecreations3244
    @quecreations3244 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    "I'm not a chick. I'm not American." Love that line.

    • @MrPlowboy66
      @MrPlowboy66 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She's a chique😅

    • @vhodgdon
      @vhodgdon ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂❤

    • @Bellz972
      @Bellz972 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 Tell em

  • @taylynn4728
    @taylynn4728 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I'm new to your channel and I think it's nice that you put Lauren in your videos. I'm sorry you and Lauren have to go through this. As a woman of color I go through it as well. We just need more love in today's world. Stop looking at the color of skin. Just love people as human beings. Love your channel and I'm learning a lot. Thank you for your content.

    • @cherylloshinskie6049
      @cherylloshinskie6049 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I Agree color of a persons skin shouldn't matter. Why can't we all get along.

    • @dheyes803
      @dheyes803 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This world and the people in it just need to accept what they cannot change.

    • @MrMonopolistic
      @MrMonopolistic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Only black people say silly stuff like this 🤣

  • @jillcampbell3510
    @jillcampbell3510 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sorry this happened to you. If she's worried about her drink, she probably shouldn't leave it unattended in a crowded place. She's lucky she didn't get roofied leaving her drink all over.

  • @TerryMartin-sp6yn
    @TerryMartin-sp6yn ปีที่แล้ว +15

    People at times, seem to want to build their own self-worth by destroying some one else's self worth. These people need professional help but they will not reach out to find the help they need. I'm glad everything worked out for you and Lauren as it could have been worse time. Peace and Love, Terry

  • @roguz444
    @roguz444 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    We know it wasn't covid that caused her to act stupid. She saw you with Lauren and lost her teeny tiny crazy mind. I went on a Carnival cruise in 2016 with a coworker and saw something like this happen. Along with people drunk by 11AM stumbling around. (what's happening in your life when you're drunk before lunch?) I love seeing Lauren in your videos. I always say, everything sounds better in French. Keep up the great work!

    • @xXxSapphir3xXx
      @xXxSapphir3xXx ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If I'm drunk before lunch it means I'm on vacation! 🍻

    • @elouise5593
      @elouise5593 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alcoholics many times are drunk before lunch.

    • @elouise5593
      @elouise5593 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@xXxSapphir3xXx Sad, if that is true!

    • @TheHuskyIsabella
      @TheHuskyIsabella ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's called vacation lol

    • @LWalks64
      @LWalks64 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Drinking before lunch is what you do on vacation 🤦🏻‍♀️😂WTH???

  • @jpistella
    @jpistella ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love the way the two of you interact with each other. Lauren has a great sense of humor. Hope that didn’t ruin your night. Enjoy the rest of the cruise.

    • @jaypee5633
      @jaypee5633 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Is that a Karen I just met?" That comment is gold.

  • @sanchezhandymen3444
    @sanchezhandymen3444 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    MY ex spouse was black and BOY was it an experience. I got to see a different side of racism, I already experienced it due to being Mexican but discrimination to a racially mixed couple is real and still very much alive. AND I got it from both sides, black people also treated me with racism because I was with a black spouse, every race had an opinion, none paid our bills so the heck with them all. You are a lovely couple may you be well.

  • @amonioda
    @amonioda ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bless you both 💕 It’s so sad how ignorant and rude people can be. I hope y’all enjoyed the rest of your cruise!!

  • @johntatum
    @johntatum ปีที่แล้ว +43

    People are crazy. Hopefully the rest of your time on the ship is a little less eventful. Keep doing you, man!

    • @davormijatovic7999
      @davormijatovic7999 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This happens only in america

    • @altabird44
      @altabird44 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davormijatovic7999 I was thinking the same thing

    • @johntatum
      @johntatum ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@davormijatovic7999 this literally happened in the middle of the ocean.

  • @aprilwebsterdavis1845
    @aprilwebsterdavis1845 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow, If covid was really important she shouldn't have walked away from the cup.

    • @jeffbrown6533
      @jeffbrown6533 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!

    • @TheRobmcknz
      @TheRobmcknz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If covid was that big of a deal, she wouldn't be on the cruise in the first place.

  • @harrys4104
    @harrys4104 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for keeping it real and sadly it’s reality. There aren’t a lot of ignorant people out there but it only takes one to ruin someone’s fun. Glad it was de-escalated and no violence was taken place. Stay safe!

  • @DianeRoma1
    @DianeRoma1 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can imagine stuff like this on weekend booze cruises but not Transatlantic two week cruise. Lauren is lucky to have such an adoring and protective man. If all people were that way, there wouldn’t be so many unhappy people willing to fight over stupid things.

  • @ac08844
    @ac08844 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Guys- I’ve seen this crap going on my whole life. I’ve learned in the past, especially when my father was the Archie bunker of ignorance . It makes me sick that people need to overreact on a situation that makes completely no sense. The best thing to do is to walk away and just ignore people. I know it’s tough because I can sometimes retaliate myself and that’s not the right thing to do. You are just need to stay. positive. Thanks for bringing this to my attention, I will be on the Celebration for two weeks in February. Thanks for bringing us all up-to-date. I must say I always try to keep the faith in people Peace out to everybody.

    • @snaggledaggle7027
      @snaggledaggle7027 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't think this happened on the Celebration, though.

    • @ac08844
      @ac08844 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@snaggledaggle7027 Am I reading this wrong? The video was made on the celebration. Unfortunately racism can happen anywhere. It a shame how people react in any type of situation. 😮‍💨

    • @snaggledaggle7027
      @snaggledaggle7027 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ac08844 Maybe I heard wrong. I'm not sure if this was on the Celebration or not 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @derekho6750
    @derekho6750 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Race should not entered into a discussion… regardless of issues. I accept all people of all colors just the same as long as they are pleasant & nice. The only people I hate are the “Stupid & The Ignorant” one. You guys are awesome…. Be Safe!

  • @Sanibella
    @Sanibella ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi Jay and Lauren I’m so sorry this happened - you two are the loveliest people and we so enjoy seeing you and chatting with you both on the ship! Peace, love and happiness to you both always ❤❤ Your Ft Myers friends Bonnie & Peter

  • @JaneHasGame
    @JaneHasGame ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The first time my son encountered a racial incident was on a cruise. It took until he was 14 and I had to explain what was going on. We live on Vancouver Island and he's grown up with a culturally varied group of kids without any comment from anyone. He gravitated to a mixed group of teens on the ship and they got along great. One of the teens was black and they weren't getting served at the restaurant the way the other kids were and he wanted to know why. I live for a world where it just doesn't matter.

  • @charlayned
    @charlayned ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I am so sorry about this happening. You two are so cute together. Some people don't pack their manners, thinking that what happens on the ship won't go out. We've seen enough of this crap out in the world, vacation isn't fun when someone does that. Give that cute girl a hug (not weird, I'm a 65 year old grandmother of 9, so I tend to hug alot) and tell her that there are a lot of Americans who care what happens. And hey, if you're free, hit the Allure out of Galveston the first week of May, the crazy grandma with the weird color hair zipping around the ship in a wheelchair with Santa who is wearing his Hawaiian shirts would love to buy y'all a drink. Don't sweat the stupid stuff, it'll get tends to bounce back on the person who put it out. ((hugs)).

  • @robertdeland3390
    @robertdeland3390 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I always wondered if this sort of thing happened to you on a cruise. You handled it with your usual good class. Keep up the good work. You're great.

  • @Kparc1212
    @Kparc1212 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    “I’m not a ‘chick’. I’m not American.” LMAO! What a great comment!!!

  • @themusicactor
    @themusicactor ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You didn't even have to say she was Black...we already knew..... I date White men , and I get that same energy from Black men.

    • @SeanJ2A
      @SeanJ2A ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I strongly doubt it. Maybe Ghetto black men but us non Ghetto Black men don't care.

    • @yslgyal4873
      @yslgyal4873 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here. I’ve experienced it as well and it’s really ridiculous- black men are even more aggressive about it, we just don’t complain about it as openly.

    • @eastcoastbrotha
      @eastcoastbrotha 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea and god will delete u soon if u don't repent....Deu..7v6...Isa..13v13-16...wake up B#DWE%CH..

  • @jeffbrown6533
    @jeffbrown6533 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bro J, there's no explanation for that lady's behavior other than ignorance and as another commenter noted "too much liquid refreshment"! You & Lauren just continue to live your best life!

    • @michelerosenow3936
      @michelerosenow3936 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don’t let them old folks drink😂. I’m 63 and I know I don’t belong in NO club drinking!!!

  • @dee_mcgee11
    @dee_mcgee11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You two are the sweetest. Shame on anyone who would hurt you in any way 🤗

  • @marygood8920
    @marygood8920 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She makes a good point about grown adults acting like children,having fits, in the United States. It's mind boggling and it seems to be getting worse.

    • @t.prophoto
      @t.prophoto 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Drunk Americans acting out what they see on TV. Pitiful. They all think they’re starring in their own reality show. Drama, drama, drama.

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yup. It definitely is getting worse.

  • @thomasdreyer2464
    @thomasdreyer2464 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. I’m sorry this happened to you and Lauren. It’s awful. Thanks for telling about us this difficult event.

  • @rogermccall9055
    @rogermccall9055 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Sorry this happened to Ya'll. True it can happen on ANY ship, but for some reason Carnival seems to attract a higher percentage of ignorant people. I have personally done in excess of 120 cruises, but only 3 on Carnival. Didn't take me too long to figure it out.

    • @elouise5593
      @elouise5593 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I never had a problem on a Carnival cruise, but I usually ignore people who attempt to treat me bad. Life's too short.

    • @kattykat9600
      @kattykat9600 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really do believe it's the affordability of it. It seems to attract a lower quality of humanity. Also seems to be more true with the shorter cruises. That's why we try to do the 6-8 day cruises, nothing less.

  • @dearmeecha1310
    @dearmeecha1310 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What a nightmare. People are such a mess inside. And clearly that lady has some personal issues regarding black men with white women maybe even visa versa, who knows. It’s so unfortunate. You guys handled it well. And I love listening to Lauren (not sure if that’s how you spell it) talk. Her “accent”’is so nice and she seems like such a sweet person. Hope the rest of the trip goes great!!

  • @j.metzli8187
    @j.metzli8187 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Deescalting it would have been saying, “my bad” and walking away. Making her feel stupid is what set her off.

  • @ralphbell2953
    @ralphbell2953 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad it didn't get any worse and I think you both give a great perspective. Enjoy your channel and keep doing what you do!

  • @Canuck1000
    @Canuck1000 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two handled the situation very well. Hope the rest of the trip goes well.

  • @Kayla-xw8no
    @Kayla-xw8no ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Lauren is a total vibe. You're both wonderful!! I hate you both had to experience such foolishness. Again, you're both totally wonderful and emit beautiful light!!

  • @mariefeser6720
    @mariefeser6720 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow, I'm so sad this happened to you both. People need to mind their own business, be kind, and stop the hate.

    • @handsomeX
      @handsomeX 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly 💯

  • @rayt1452
    @rayt1452 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We all have encountered situation/people that were quite annoying; even annoying people encountered annoying stuff. I admired you and those who handled that with calm and cool.

  • @teresah5318
    @teresah5318 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Unfortunately, ignorance and aggressiveness have no bounds. You two are a good-looking couple. We were on the Panorama last October for a Mexican cruise, and I saw so many different groups from all nationalities. We didn't go to the nightclub. My husband likes to remind me that nothing good happens after midnight where alcohol is served. I agree. I will not go on another Carnival ship just because the atmosphere is so loose. Rudeness and entitlement were everywhere. I must be showing my age - over 60. Thanks for sharing and just live your life!!

  • @nylancollins4002
    @nylancollins4002 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m so disappointed in any woman that would act like that towards anyone especially another woman. Why would you leave your drink unattended in the first place? Ignorance at its finest! So sorry that happened to Lauren and to you Jay. Just love each other and live your life the best you know how to do. I love you guys and appreciate your content.

  • @MoeMoe__
    @MoeMoe__ ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw your videos in my suggested feed. Only watched a few but I really appreciate how you are able to lay out the story without letting it seem to be about rave.
    Much respect, it's earned a follow for sure.

  • @seanflynn5359
    @seanflynn5359 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow! Racism sucks, and unfortunately it is all too prevalent throughout society. I'm glad you put this out for the world to see because you handled it perfectly and I hope others gain value from your insight in situations like this. You and Lauren are the cutest couple and bring such a great vibe to travel adventures, hope to see y'all one day on the high seas ⛴️🇵🇷

  • @anastasiaallen7695
    @anastasiaallen7695 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I ❤️ watching you guys! Do whatever you have to do to stay far away from ignorant people!

  • @andyturner206
    @andyturner206 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Incidents like this are one of the reasons I will never sail on Carnival. I'm looking for different clientele.

  • @ciaracavell2160
    @ciaracavell2160 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When she said “I talk when I want to talk” I realized how much of a sense of humor she has

  • @ketomoma9349
    @ketomoma9349 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm a old school older lady and if you go to the dance floor to dance you put a napkin over your drink this mean "don't touch my drink I will return to finish it". If I go to the bathroom you cover your drink with a napkin and it's a signal that I will be returning don't dump my drink. You must understand that it 's crowed their but we still need a little personal place. If you had a plate of food on that table would you like a stranger to place a bags or drink near your food. I think the older lady went over board, but if that was your drink would you be okay with some stranger putting their personal thing near it.

    • @Milwaukee-Cane
      @Milwaukee-Cane ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly! Why would you put anything by a drink with a napkin over it. I’m definitely appalled by him calling a black woman a Karen! He’s a raccoon for that!

  • @simplyursula6195
    @simplyursula6195 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Sadly this isn't the first time and it definitely won't be the last time you have to deal with foolish people. Don't let it get in the way of you and Lauren's cruise. Some people seek out trouble but I'm glad you guys are above it!

  • @t.nash8
    @t.nash8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for the peek into your world.
    Just know that while some people may get an attitude seeing the two of you together, there are many folk from my generation who are pleased, and see you as evidence that things are moving in the right direction.

  • @daveb8679
    @daveb8679 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    54 yo white guy. Dated a black woman in Baltimore 20 years ago. We got heat exclusively from the black community every time we went out in public. I later married a Korean woman. Never have my wife and I received any static.
    By the way. Lauren is beautiful. Your channel is outstanding. Subscribed. I am an avid cruiser.

  • @cruisingg9563
    @cruisingg9563 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like that we can always expect different content from your videos. I also like your candor and how you approach such sensitive topics. Thanks

  • @mimimuses
    @mimimuses ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks for sharing your crazy experience. As someone who has been in an inter-racial marriage for 20+ years it is always interesting to the stories of people in similar situations. Luckily, over the years, we do not have too many stories like this to tell. Racism is usually subtle, a vibe of hostility that we pick up on. You are in the enviable position of seeing the world and meeting many people. My own experience of travel and having lived on 3 different continents, is that decent and kind people are by far in the majority. Lastly, you two are very sweet together.

  • @luisgregorich1500
    @luisgregorich1500 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm sorry this happened to you guys, nowadays people are just looking for arguments if they see something about you that they don't like, instead of just accepting and respecting people, I only been on 2 cruises so far, never on a Carnival, but this type of behavior is making me think twice about being around that many people. Thank you for the content, keep up the good job!

    • @elouise5593
      @elouise5593 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never had a problem on Carnival. I usually ignore anyone who tries to start trouble with me, though. I never even realize it half thd time.

  • @sherryldavis6543
    @sherryldavis6543 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That’s just crazy. For one thing why would you leave a drink unattended, someone could have dropped something in it. Never leave a drink unattended. Sorry that happened to you Lauren and Jay.

  • @nancyjordan4275
    @nancyjordan4275 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is making me so angry just listening to it. Unfortunately there is no cure for ignorance. Love you guys! God bless ❤️

  • @erniesimmons4452
    @erniesimmons4452 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why would you leave your drink unattended and look back for it? I would never do that.

    • @TropicLuv
      @TropicLuv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AND it wasn’t even her drink! She said it was her husbands, where the hell was he????

  • @taeshawynn4895
    @taeshawynn4895 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That actually sucks that it happened. However, just remember it could have happened on a newer ship as well so just be aware of surroundings and take care of your family the best way you can. Love watching your channels

  • @JustMe-cy3wg
    @JustMe-cy3wg ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my goodness!!! Stupid comes in all colors and ages and it’s such a shame. You and Lauren continue to love and enjoy each and your cruising ❤❤

  • @samueldotson2809
    @samueldotson2809 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love is love. I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for an interracial relationship. They are the ignorant ones. Live your life and love who you love

  • @franchellestevens1393
    @franchellestevens1393 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm glad that Laren stood her ground because the woman seem to have had to much to drink as the saying goes alcohol make ppl say things that they normally wouldn't say if they wasn't drinking

  • @PixieDustedTara
    @PixieDustedTara ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You and Lauren are as classy as they come!
    When the world realizes that love knows no color nor gender our world will be a better place.
    Hope I get to meet you both one day 😊

  • @robertlefrancois9614
    @robertlefrancois9614 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video guys. I’ve dealing with that exact issue for the past 35 years with my beautiful Korean wife. You’re right, just part of being in the real world.

  • @garyf2012
    @garyf2012 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I chalk a lot of these altercations up to mental illness. There's a lot of mental illness, particularly among older people (dementia). You can't let this stuff get to you.

    • @blessednettie69
      @blessednettie69 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂 I love it!!

    • @bernicetodd9717
      @bernicetodd9717 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please don't blame mental illness. The majority of people with mental illness don't act like this. I think hard as it is we need to understand that there are people who are just nasty and also people who are truly evil and don't fall within the diagnosis of mentally ill. I think this woman was just plain nasty.

    • @astoldby
      @astoldby ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! I think too many people have let their mental illnesses go uncheck.

    • @garyf2012
      @garyf2012 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bernicetodd9717 I agree. Most people with mental illness do not act like this. But there has to be something wrong mentally with someone that would act like that. I like to think that rational people know the proper way to behave. But maybe I'm naive.

    • @snaggledaggle7027
      @snaggledaggle7027 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah, people just have stank attitudes!!

  • @daphnewheeler2664
    @daphnewheeler2664 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That’s a shame that happened to you two. I hope you continue to have a great time and no other issues.

  • @sharonstriluk8680
    @sharonstriluk8680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry this happened to you guys. Lauren is so cute when she talks. Glad her seasickness is not bothering her.

  • @wyawn
    @wyawn ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you are spot on. I appreciate you speaking up and speaking out about these things. I have been on 30+ cruises. I've always thought of a cruise ship as a utopia where everyone is happy. But lately it is sad that we have to deal with people who need drama and unhappiness even while being on vacation.

  • @jenniferrogers1920
    @jenniferrogers1920 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jay
    Very sorry to hear that this nonsense happened to you and Lauren. You have every right to defend your girl. Glad it did not end in violence. It seems as if some people don’t realize that other passengers are on the cruise ship to enjoy a well earned vacation.
    It doesn’t matter what colour Lauren is, all that matters is that you obviously love and care for each other. Good for you for taking the mature way to resolve this situation.
    Regards
    Jennifer and Duncan from Canada 😊

  • @jonlintner6083
    @jonlintner6083 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Of course, sorry this happened to you both. I'm glad it didn't escalate. I hope you both enjoy the remainder of your trip and this doesn't spoil any more of this. Au revoir!

  • @elizt5184
    @elizt5184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aussie here, enjoy your channel, enjoy your content and love seeing Lauren and love her accent. I think that your content is great and I love cruising and hope you and Lauren don't let this situation ruin your cruise people can be horrid everywhere and lose it and be so abusive about anything it's just awful.

  • @lisakegley4469
    @lisakegley4469 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are so cute together, sorry you all had to experience that situation. Ridiculous. Keep doing what your doing, enjoying your best life! Love the videos. ❤😊

  • @byoung1520
    @byoung1520 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "People think I make this stuff up" I feel you, man

  • @bullforcetrading9995
    @bullforcetrading9995 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm black and the ninjas can call me a self hater all they want. I'm a classist. I don't tolerant nor want to associate with ghetto minded people. That's why I would NEVER EVER go on a cruise that has a price point in which certain types of people can sail on which are short older ship cruises. I tend to stay away from Carnival for that reason. Ms. Ghetto clearly wanted to cause an issue with Lauren and used the drink and Covid as an excuse and a lame one at that. More then likely she was jealous of Lauren. When you dismantled her weak Covid argument with facts, then she had no choice but to lash out with her true issue. First off, anyone with common sense knows that.to NEVER LEAVE A DRINK UNATTENDED in the first place. So she was in the wrong yet she coped an attitude as if you and Lauren were the problem.🙄

  • @timothystroud62
    @timothystroud62 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep grinding. You guys have fantastic content. Some people will never see the value of your peace and happiness. 💪🏾👌🏾✌🏾

  • @sharonmiller6291
    @sharonmiller6291 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Live your best life! Unbelievable, that in our “civilized world”, you have to deal with these ignorant interactions. Thanks for sharing your story, stay strong! 😊

  • @christymurphy6571
    @christymurphy6571 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm on my 1st & last Carnival cruise right now. The crew has been amazing. The cruisers have not. I'm excited to be on RCL Allure in Jan!!!

  • @noodlepuff5065
    @noodlepuff5065 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lauren and you are so freaking cute together. I'm sorry that happened to the both of you I know how much of a damper someone's negativity can affect your days left on the cruise. I would say most adults are just 10 years old with 20+ years of experience. Thank you for sharing with us!

    • @elouise5593
      @elouise5593 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahahahaha! I loved that comment! 10 years old with 20+ years experience! Lol!

  • @lindaroney4820
    @lindaroney4820 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's just horrible...You are a wonderful man, she is lucky to have you!!! I appreciate your total honesty on all your posts...Keep up the good work. Love conquers all...protect that precious woman at all costs.

  • @Sara-eg9uk
    @Sara-eg9uk ปีที่แล้ว

    I have seen so many shots of Lauren in your videos and never knew she was French! I was shocked when she started talking! Love it!

  • @tammi7746
    @tammi7746 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a shame this happened to you all. Hope the rest of your cruise goes without any issues like that. God bless you both.

  • @shootingstarsphotography174
    @shootingstarsphotography174 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    So sorry this happened to you two! Thank you for sharing your experience with us! I hope the staff was able to resolve everything. Who needs drama on vacation? If she was so concerned about COVID - why leave the drink behind at all? Thank you for all that you do! Wendy

    • @JohnnyFuturePast
      @JohnnyFuturePast ปีที่แล้ว

      Better yet if she was concerned about covid why the F is she on a crowded cruise ship with a mask optional policy????? No rational thought behind this!!!

  • @sircharlesmormont9300
    @sircharlesmormont9300 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sorry that happened to you two while you were just trying to enjoy your evening. Much love and thanks for sharing your adventures with all of us.

  • @MaryManion
    @MaryManion ปีที่แล้ว

    Sad that some folks can't even enjoy their vacation without causing trouble. Nice to see you two are so positive and happy regardless. 👍❤️

  • @metromaster2010
    @metromaster2010 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Firstly, I am thankful that this was de-escalated quickly before anything physical occurred. I don't understand what has happened to society that makes it seem like so many people are walking around "on the verge of a violent temper tantrum". Be cautious and keep enjoying your life. And by all means keep these reports coming.

  • @radical5585
    @radical5585 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Carnival is so ratchet bro, I had a guy almost fight me because my lady was walking too slow on Debarkation day 😂 I told buddy to see me outside the terminal, Wasnt risking my status on Carnival lol

  • @mimoa1347
    @mimoa1347 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Jay, we totally understand and support you! You do you and what’s best for your happiness. 👍

  • @montegerman3964
    @montegerman3964 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We're all in this together, It's sad that some people can't go with the flow

  • @kimberlylee8639
    @kimberlylee8639 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hey guys. I’m so sorry that happened. Please be careful. You will be there with her for a few more days.