BEFORE YOU MARRY- 6 Important Conversations To Have Before Marriage!

[@gbemijames7777]

PL forgot Financial discussion. This is very important. All points noted

[@marvellouscaleb2620]

. Talk about Expectations
. Conflict resolution
. Family planning and children
. Spiritual Goals
. Extended family
. Health
. Secrets
. Life Goals
🔥🔥🔥

[@evansosinaike]

Things to talk about
2:12 Expectations
6:07 Conflict Resolution
9:29 Family Planning & Children
13:47 Spiritual Growth
15:58 Extended Family
20:25 Secrets
Courtship is the time to love intelligently, and marriage is the time to love blindly

[@adesuwapisibor7804]

Thanks

[@LovelynAdaife3095]

Thanks

[@reallifeissueswithmarge]

Thank you 🙏

[@ifeoluwaakinniyi2789]

I think it's also important to talk about residential preferences(plan for the future, preferred locations) and migration plans if any.

[@MaureenOkeke-v7g]

The way I skip relationship advice videos thinking I know everything there Is about relationships. Thank God I decided to watch this video. Thank you PL

[@sonitayufenyuy]

1. Expectations ( what do you expect in a wife/husband, how do you define a goodwife,helpmeet,how do you expect me to support in your ministry
2. How do we handle conflicts (who do we call, what do we approach disagreements.
3. Family planning and children (what method of birth control will we use, )pay attention to his mindset abt trending issues
4. Spiritual goals. Equally yoked
5. Extended family. ( are there going to live with you ) love. How do there do things in your family
6. Life goals. What interests them
Thank you mme 🎉❤ my note pad is full😅.
GOD BLESS AND INCREASE YOU IN ALL GOOD AREAS ❤

[@precious5596]

Hello Pastor Laju. Please talk about what to do in a relationship or marriage where the Lady is more spiritually mature than the guy. Thank you ma❤.

[@CounsellorOT]

Right? We need answers to that

[@ifyama]

Find yourself before finding a partner. Self discovery and personal development should be non-negotiable. 👌

[@ifyama]

Courtship is a time to love intelligently while marriage is a time to love blindly.

[@baileyope855]

Courtship: love intelligently
Marriage: love blindly 📌📌📌📌

[@ademolasamson8760]

Conversations about Money and Finance

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

Pay very close attention to what people DO not just what they SAY.

[@Oluwagbenga_Jason]

Thank you PL, maybe Conversations about food and football clubs too ma😎

[@samuelolaniran2034]

Talking about finding your goals and life purpose before getting married is very important but the truth about this is that it does not apply to everyone that way as some goals reveal over time. Time really reveal alot of things , my advise is that partners should be flexible.

[@priscazigede7325]

Wow I can’t believe my partner and I have discussed all of these from start to finish✅

[@hassanblessing4783]

I’m just concentrating on the beauty 😊. God finish work on her 😎😩🥺

[@favourndakara]

Commenting before watching because I’m sure it’ll be that good! 🤩

[@anastasiaogomaka3717]

The safest method of family planning is
Natural Family planning ❤

[@adeleketobi1]

***Finding Yourself, Before You Find Your Partner - Have idea of what you are going to do/what you want to do/what you desire to do/where you are going in future. 🙏🥳

[@seyramie]

This woman is blessed with intelligence and wisdom! God bless and continue to increase you ma’am!

[@oromidayoaiyeyemi289]

Conversation on Finances

[@mahongochinyama7869]

Lol it’s the witchcraft part for me .. yooh otherwise very educative , thank you mama😀

[@lilicasablanca1056]

Gems all around. thx for the heads up.

[@GracefullyKaren]

If you haven’t subscribed to this channel, what are you doing dear? Please it’s free. Go ahead and subscribe. Okay let’s enjoy the video 👏🏾👏🏾🥁❤️. God bless you Pastor Laju 🥁🤗

[@benitaobasuyi4905]

Pls talk about long distance relationship. As a believer, how do we navigate through the troubles that comes with long distance relationships before marriage?

[@chinonsonnamani5234]

Thank you Ma.
Hobbies and Personal interest
Finances - like debts, saving or financial goals (Probably secrets)
Household Responsibilties
Intimacy and Sexual expectation - I might assume this one is under Family planning and children
Communication Style - I think this one comes under Conflict resolution

[@DoxaTony-ll7ur]

I just love PL❤

[@nwokejikingsley7867]

Thank you PL!
Questions about finances is another one

[@agahiuruth6279]

I just like to hear you laugh PL😂. Thank you for sharing this Ma.

[@nnaemekaugwu2734]

Create no expectations. It’s best not to have expectations cos you may get disappointed

[@favourubi5788]

"I laugh in itsekiri"
😂😂

[@ohishelen7781]

😂😂

[@ikemehgoodnews]

How disruptive is your past relationship to our marriage?
Finance, Support and Budgeting allocation

[@EstherOkafor-qk3cl]

I really appreciate this...

[@glorycharles6035]

Wow this has too much wisdom 🥹
The conversation on family planning stood out for me🎉
Thank you PL❤

[@babiryeprecious6214]

Thank you for sharing.... God bless you 🤗🤗🤗

[@bisiriyurukayatabiodun3833]

Thank you so much ma.
God bless you ma.

[@anthoniabalogun]

You are looking beautiful Pastor Mrs.

[@ijeomaharmony1347]

Her laughter is so beautiful😊

[@Model_e_leona]

Conversations about finances

[@busayoawujoola1337]

And your voice Ma. It's so heavenly, so cool and wonderful to listen to Ma 😊 Podcast friendly Ma 🥰

[@janetnowel8286]

I love your laughs in between the conversations.
Fun to watch and value filled.
Thank you ma.

[@Ceelight20]

Thank you for blessing my life Pastor Iren.
This is my first time watching 😊

[@helenfrancis4321]

This is so insightful!

[@YourstrulyMo_]

Thank you my PL❤❤❤
How about finances? Some people think it’s too sensitive a conversation to be had before marriage

[@LajuIren]

It’s an important conversation to have. I cover this in another video coming soon

[@OyinAlao]

PL, you laugh in Itsekiri?😭😂😂😂

[@Joyandfelixfamily-go9wg]

Good One And Thanks ❤️🖐️

[@maxwellakhabue2834]

Good one.. thanks alot

[@modestafrimpong3850]

God bless you woman of God ❤

[@abimbolaolumuyiwa]

Nice video as always PL! Finances is another important conversation to have before marriage

[@MulweliMulaudzi-jw1sw]

This was too good thank you ❤

[@winifredakoni2124]

WOW
Am noting. I'll soon have to use this knowledge. Thank you Mme

[@ilesanmiomolayo5050]

Thank you PL it’s so impactful

[@fridayeno]

Good points thank you ma

[@rhodaking6558]

Thanks for this insightful series

[@temitopebalogun1531]

Full of insights. Thank you ma

[@TitilopeEuniceFakunle]

Thank you PL😍, this is really an eye-opening

[@OyinAlao]

Very important conversations to have truly!

[@boluwatifemichael1444]

I so much love this particular episode! Very expository and practical! Thank you PL!

[@ezeelizabeth7548]

Wisdom ❤ wrapped up in beauty

[@shidinje]

Welcome PL, my past 2 fridays have been empty without your videos and laughter

[@preciousmomentswithtasha353]

Thank you Ma,on my way to conduct interview 😁

[@MiracleImoudu]

Thank you pastor ma

[@asontachinyere41]

Very profound. Thank you Pst Laju

[@eloehiovonlen8754]

My fave🤗🤗 love your videos PL 🙌🏽✨

[@OyinlolaOlagbemi]

Thank you pastor Laju

[@busayoawujoola1337]

My book is full. Thank you Ma. 🙏❤️

[@atoyebishittufunsho4906]

Keep up the good work ma'am.

[@preciousogbonna1205]

Thank you PL!!!!!

[@olaitanyemisi9469]

Thank you PL for this insights. My note is full. God bless you greatly ma.

[@ngonguiordye3092]

Nice one

[@adadioramma6232]

Thank you so much PL!

[@bankolevictor6597]

All points noted and will definitely be taken into consideration. Thank you Pastor Mrs Laju Iren. More wisdom from above.

[@justtbella5153]

Thank you PL for the wisdoms in this video. … That narrative about the tribe “that gives a visitor their wife” is false though.

[@Olamideofthenations]

Thank you so much PL

[@ayomide.a]

i love this so much God bless you ma

[@ezeelizabeth7548]

Thank you Ma for sharing

[@adadioramma6232]

Finance is also key.

[@owolabiolamide6980]

Thank you, PL👏

[@titilayoola-oluwa7485]

Inspiring and full of wisdom..

[@Justdiddy-d3w]

Thank you for this video pastor Laju🤍🙏🏻

[@MsGlory-1]

Thank you Jesus🙏
Thank you Ma❤

[@favourojiruen6524]

Wooowww
So eye-opening 👏👏
Thank you ma

[@amarachianele4671]

Thank you so much for these points ❤

[@ajifaaaaaa]

Thank you so much ma!❤

[@chikereolive8204]

Thank you Pastor Laju

[@blessingokafor2709]

Thank you ma
Really deep matters to talk about
Conversations on finance and how to save is also necessary

[@couragefred8704]

This is so educative thank you pastor ma

[@sharonajanlekoko573]

Thank you for this PL!!!
I do want to ask how to go about marriage counseling in CCI. Who and how do I reach out?

[@peteradeleye5713]

Thank you so much PL for this. Such wisdom tips to be applied. All these points noted ma'am.

[@odupeleprecious]

Thank you for this, PL

[@onyinyechiihe8965]

Thank you so much, PL❤.

[@Guchiloba]

Whether you choose to build your house on a rock or not, rain will come and wind will blow.
Challenges will come regardless of who you decide to be with and it would be hard! So choose your hard wisely 📌📌📌

[@oluwatobielegbeleye5430]

Thank you for this, PL ❤

[@davidbamidele5397]

Thank you Pastor Lajuuuu

[@preciousosarodion7946]

Thank you Ma, I love your videos.

[@faithossai8849]

So much wisdom. Thank you so much PL ❤️

[@NessaEyeson]

This is so helpful! Thank you PL

[@ChikoChuma]

An amazing message... thank you may❤😊

[@CharlesEtieneAbasi]

Celebrate God, be fruitful and multiply.

[@blessingonuche4508]

So beautiful,thank you ma.