What does each of Zarna's kids want out of a life partner and how does Zarna convince them that they're wrong? Apple: podcasts.apple... Spotify: podcasters.spo...
Zoya never lose your spark . Be the woman that you are . The world needs women like you . I can only imagine what a good role model you’ve been Zarna to raise a lovely daughter like Zoya .
So true. I know this is meant to be funny as well as serious but Zoya's beauty shines through. Both inner and outer beauty. That doesn't happen magically. Zarna, take credit for some great mothering. You have a wonderful family. Side note, my American daughter was not her Indian husbands family's first or even last choice but they can see a great marriage now and a they've had a beautiful child so all is well
This podcast is literally therapy for me. I have never laughed and smiled so much before!!!!! We need a part 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love it!
These kids feel confident in speaking their mind even if its not want mom and dad want to hear. Clearly Family is their safe place. And they all know how to have respectful discourse while advocating their position. Well done mom and dad!! Great kids.
Zoya, I love you. I 100 percent resonate with every single thing you said girl. I love how respectful Brij is towards you. What a gentleman. I love the reactions you both are bringing out of your parents. ❤
It was better when the dad spoke less...him speaking his mind killed the joy of the entire podcast, I wont be joining for the next one, if this is what I am going to get...And if he were to marry today, he wouldn't get a woman his age, leave alone someone 25 and leave even more alone Zarna at 25...IIT grads have brains but they lack minds and this is a living proof why these same IIT people die looking for girlfriends in college... Not a big deal to crack IIT and earn so much money if you have no respect for people and have the weird notions that the world is equal and fair for everyone and making a law is sufficient - too idealistic in an unidealistic world is like a square peg in a round hole... so please try improving your outlook... Supporting your wife is one thing, but if you cant support women in general then your words are hypocritical and you support her out of fear of having to raise the kids alone... I feel for you Zarna... sorry but his words are very patriarchal... typical UP thinking that still exists even now...
I don't understand why people take this seriously. This is a comedy show. Everything you see on the internet isn't real. I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult in 2023.
@@yomamasohot6411 podcasts aren't "comedy shows" they are discussing serious topics and humor shouldn't be in bad taste. Her standups are "Comedy" and funny even if they make fun of people. However, this podcast isn't comedy. If you want to put on a comedy show, don't deal with sensitive topics such as religion, equality, racism, crime and so on. There is a thin line between what's funny and what's insensitive.
I can't really comprehend going to America, chasing the American dream, having kids in America only to tell your daughter that her going to Stanford is gonna help her catch a rich guy. As a woman in India who is limited in her potential just due to my gender, I am shocked at this. If my daughter was going to Stanford I would want for her to become president.
Just marriage talk is a joke right? Seriously, marriage should be the last concern for these lovely kids you have raised❤. They are complete individuals with our without it
I just started following your podcast and OMG you guys are funny, make a point and are still respectful, hear each other out and older and younger ones still have a voice.. I’m all team ZOYA all the way .. She sounds smart , kind and makes a lot of sense .. Zarna love you too.. What a great family …
I love the respect that Brij has for his sister. He calls her didi and said his sister has to approve of the person he wants to date.❣️ Shalabh, I feel is too often dismissive of Zoya's opinion.
@@ZarnaGarghahah .. I feel Zarna here. But humor on one side I know she and Immigrant moms like her and me will come around. Off course we will. We are flexible.. plus we get to keep all the heritage gold 😂 the gori bahu won’t need that 🤪
Kudos to Zoya…wise and mature beyond her years. IF she chooses a life partner in marriage, he will have to match her intelligence and maturity. Such smart, nice kids!
So tired of the dad dismissing his daughter’s opinions. I rolled my eyes when he called her brainwashed. She’s very intelligent and has good judgment. Also the dad tries too hard to make wisecracks and be funny when he isn’t - it comes across as forced whereas Zarna is naturally more funny.
3:30 pm. I believe you and your husband have done a ‘spectacular’ job of raising your children. First of all, they are able to express their ‘authentic feelings/observations - knowing that you may not agree. You must be very proud of them- they will be very successful And enhance your heritage. As a mother and grandmother, I can say you and your husband have created a wonderful family. The episode was most engaging . You must be exhausted
very sweet family, however if being hygienic "seems very gay" and that "guys don't keep their rooms clean cause they have better thing to do such as fighting wars" you guys might want to question you ideas surrounding homosexuality. Gays are not guys, because they are gay? There are plenty of unhygienic gays who are in the army. I don't think there is any ill will meant, but it underlines some strange ideas you might have around gay people. Gay guys are guys... If you read history you will find there are many "gay men" who started wars... maybe realise that being gay is not an overarching characteristic that rules all aspects of one's life.
This was problematic on so many levels- sexist/ homophobic/ classist/ racist( the 50 yr old Desi man dismisses Gisele that she isn’t even a American) I strongly suggest you take this off the internet although you can never take back your words. TBH you possibly have messed up your older sons chances at college given his very problematic statements about his views on women. Your husband’s misogyny and patriarchal backward views are not surprising at all. Here I was a fan of Zarna- a woman who did break traditional stereotypes and made a name for herself as a stand up comedian in America, and I watched this with so much hope. My jaw dropped open to see this family far more regressive than even your average Indian immigrant family. Zoya is amazing despite her upbringing. The problem really isnt that the parents focus so much on money and Ivy League education as a parameter for success. It is the blatant lack of self awareness that makes me want to scream. Please don’t promote this a comedy because it wasn’t and don’t promote this as a informative podcast because it was appalling. Goodness where are the truly decent progressive Indians??? Please stand up!!!
Well west is misogynistic as well. The way they objectify women under the garb of individualism is pathetic. Also Asia is changing with time as well. Being an Indian woman I always got equal opportunities.
Aunty Z!!! I am soooo proud of Zoya! She is legit the star in your home! That girl is 🔥🔥🔥 - Boy with a sister ✅ - There have historically been more seats for men and women are told this is one token seat for you, now all of you fight ✅ - Some women just don’t want to get married done ✅ - Good hygiene in men is the bar. ✅
All her point was great except boy with a sister else a NO . Human need to understand human emotions despite women or men there .. there are honestly men who undergo a lot of emotions too Rest she was spot on very well said
@@locomate818this is my criteria as well. Men with sisters are more mature and caring. I don’t mind interacting with men who don’t have sisters. But I have seen them more frustrated at understanding women.
Definitely need a part 2. Totally amazing and enjoyed my time watching this over other TH-cam videos. Very interesting to know the pool of thoughts and exchange of real and honest feelings unfiltered.
I get what the dad was saying but isn't it better to raise a intelligent daughter which you have and have her go off to a great college like Stanford to become someone in life and make her dreams come true to sit home and only raise kids ? But that's not to say don't have kids but there moms out her for example her mom that's raising smart children and still doing what she loves
Looool Veer is the godfather. "Walking is not sport". the calmness in the delivery. Even in Zarna seriousness, it's packed with jokes. You guys made my day
Dear Zarna. Another hilarious episode. I live in Aus. Mother of two adult children. Both top professionals. Both married to Westerners. Very very funny. Love it love it. Brij reminds me of my son and Zoya of my daughter. I was laughing and smiling. Still smiling while typing this. I must send this to my two children. Love you 😍 ❤canberra Aus
Looking forward to more laughs. 😂 Advice to the kids… laugh more on the show.. have fun with it. Remember your mom is a comedian. Don’t take it so seriously. Life is about having fun too not just money and good grades🤗 Who knows maybe a network will pickup a reality show from this and you will all benefit and have another source of income 🤑
Actually arguably men have the harder deal with marriage because when there are children and divorce they are under extreme financial pressures as the legal system is stacked against them.
Zoya is literally about to cry .. .and I feel bad for her. I hope Brij sees his dad's humor and doesn't take that stuff seriously, cuz it does effect Zoya.
You’ve done such a great job raising your children. The mere fact every age was not afraid to be honest with their feelings and opinions infront of you both are just beautiful. They are respectful but very independent in their thinking. They all have great heads on their shoulders
Completely agree! So happy to see kids who are respectful and kind. It so hard to raise respectful children in US i think (splly with challenges going on within the family ❤️🩹)
I hope, 36:34 "Gender roles exist for a reason" is a clickbait statement for one of the upcoming podcasts. Nevertheless, the segment on gender and sexuality where Shalabh showed that he is from Ghaziabad afterall, left a sour taste to what was otherwise a wholesome discussion. Zoya as always was a rockstar calling out her family members for their pedestrian views on the topic they appear to not understand. More power to you Zoya! May you shine with your sensitivity, smartness and ambition.
Zoya, I think I partially understand you as a Turkish woman in her mid-twenties, you faced with many difficulties with your families' opinions and aware of unequalities as a woman and non-white person, and still deal with them, especially teenage brothers... I hope your mom will understand you better and better, you learned from her and you will teach each other in this journey. love
Yr I guess I hv seen the best unfiltered podcast.. literally watched it in one go...so good to see each person of family gets to lay down his or her opinion.. Fan of Zoya ❤️ @zarna auntie so relatable ❤️❤️
I am sorry but am i the only one who thinks that ZOYA is a bomb person and she is damn clear in what she thinks and wants and the convo of her marrying a rich sounded absolutely BULLSHIT..
I just wanted to make an observation on how Brij is always reassured and praised (ie: handsome son etc), rightfully so, but Zoya is often brought down and made fun of, especially by the dad. Im aware that this is only 40 mins of their lives and I don’t want to make any grand assumptions, but nevertheless it would be great if the parents would appreciate Zoya more on public platforms (not making general statement for what happens behind closed doors as I cannot claim to know what happens in their lives off reel). Women need to be commended too. Break the cycle of talking down to women and girls. She’s stunning and goes to an IV league. She deserves her opinions to be heard and respected. She’s the only one that makes sense 100% of the time. Great to see that Brij treats her with the respect she deserves.
Oh my god, this video is more horrifying than ep2. What is the matter with the father? You sent your daughter to Stanford to get married ? Zoya, you gotta make the run from this madness! You’re brilliant! Don’t let this pull you down.
Just loved this episode! Laughed a lot. Liked Zoya a lot... But Zarna I adore you for your spontaneity, humour sense and communication skills. Very lovely family!
Shalabh asking about Mother is a typical oblivious Indian Uncle lol! Men are very different when they have sisters. Men also, especially Indian men, treat their wives very differently with a lot less respect and empathy than their mothers.
Does the dad really thinks he is being funny, because all I can hear is cringe after cringe coming out of his mouth for his own daughter and the need to remind everyone that he is an IITian. 🤮 Keeping the 11 year old kid aside, looks like Zoya is the only one who is sane in this family and has immense respect for her own gender and the gay community. I hope her world views never changes and doesn't get influenced by her mom who is making money by stereotyping Indians. The less said about the dad's homophobia, the better.
Seeing your family interact is acting as a catalyst in me wanting to start a family of my own. Love your podcast and all the best for the upcoming episodes. Seeing everyone respectful and loving is such a joy to behold.
Your kids are v smart for their age… I agree with Zoya… an ambitious women needs a boy who has a sister. It makes a lot of difference. I am sitting here taking parenting tips. These are topics which parents need to talk about … the Bollywood movies screwed our minds… and cheers to Zarna and Shalabh for being honest that money tops love and vice versa depending on situation… one learns that later in life.
Beautiful conversation ❤ Wish all 3 kids with amazing life partners. I find Brij is more evolved person for his age. Yes Zoya is awesome ❤ For Veer, he has awesome role models in his own family ❤
Shalabh . Waiting for the day you realise Zoya will actually fix all of you one at a time . Its just a matter of time That girl is wisdom personified. Wait and watch time will tell . Good job Zarna , with Zoya xD
Great set of video's I just discovered them. I understand your POV as immigrant parents, and at the same time, I hope that the father evolves a little bit in his thinking. He is a little bit stuck in the conservative mindset. And the mom is really trying to understand the kids POV as well.
Zarna this is fantastic! I found it because of your instagram clip. Your family is AWESOME! The kids are so refreshing; traditional, yet cool at the same time! Your husband is a sweetie pie and such a good sport. And you are hilarious as always! Can’t wait to watch the other episodes! 😍
all these three kids had a great upbringing as it shows by the way they talk to each other and their parents. they have their respective opinions but they are very respectful while conveying the message out loud. looking forward to more such episodes.
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Zoya never lose your spark . Be the woman that you are . The world needs women like you . I can only imagine what a good role model you’ve been Zarna to raise a lovely daughter like Zoya .
Means the world
So true. I know this is meant to be funny as well as serious but Zoya's beauty shines through. Both inner and outer beauty. That doesn't happen magically. Zarna, take credit for some great mothering. You have a wonderful family. Side note, my American daughter was not her Indian husbands family's first or even last choice but they can see a great marriage now and a they've had a beautiful child so all is well
U were funny in ur stand up. This is not funny
Love you zoya 😍 your mom is very lucky to have you & the way she raised you ❤
@@bkirstie Zoya is in therapy? That does not sound good. The way her dad covertly cancels her is not healthy.
Your daughter is very articulated and very, very smart. No wonder she got into Stanford. She deserves it.
She really is!
BEAUTIFUL, TOO.
U guys really liked that feminist part didn't u?
"You guys are the problem" - yaaaas Zoya! Who cares about ANYONE's sexual orientation as long as they are good honest people ❤
yeah yeah yeah..
No its not OK to have any sexual orientation
It's not
Brij is truly honest, Zoya is truly wise beyond her years and Veer is truly adorable with his sport requirement 😂
Zoya is the only smart one here zarna and shalabh are all over the place 😅
Lol!
@@rakhis2575 I agree.
Zoya is very wise in her thoughts about whom she wants to marry. Kudos
Zoya is a star.✨✨✨ The extreme confidence when she shut everyone down with "If the five of us were in a war, I would win."😂😂😂
She’s a star.
I enjoyed this broadcast very much!
@@acidicasceticer😢😢
This podcast is literally therapy for me. I have never laughed and smiled so much before!!!!! We need a part 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love it!
Aw so glad to hear
Haha yes I agree and I feel a bit more normal listening to them. Who hasn't screwed their kids up? Etc.
I can relate with you, @skandavasuki-ue3pb 😂
So many truths in what the parents say. Wonderful. That's why they raised great kids.
Wow this podcast is awesome it makes me laugh so much and someone said laugher is the best medicine I need to laugh more ❤❤❤
These kids feel confident in speaking their mind even if its not want mom and dad want to hear. Clearly Family is their safe place. And they all know how to have respectful discourse while advocating their position. Well done mom and dad!! Great kids.
I was looking for a comment coz i have exactly the same point of view.
Shalabh is the dad who just worked and now not updated with the time but it’s amazing to see how Zoya and Brij are there to educate their parents! 😇
Haha figured it out
They are really brilliant kids and parents must be proud
Incredible kids. Glad that the middle brother calls his sister as didi. Regardless of the future, these three are good kids to each other.
Zoya, I love you. I 100 percent resonate with every single thing you said girl.
I love how respectful Brij is towards you. What a gentleman.
I love the reactions you both are bringing out of your parents.
❤
Never saw a more honest conversation.. kudos to you for encouraging your kids to be honest and accepting what they say and yet guiding them gently
These kids are so intelligent..I love their connections to each other.
It was better when the dad spoke less...him speaking his mind killed the joy of the entire podcast, I wont be joining for the next one, if this is what I am going to get...And if he were to marry today, he wouldn't get a woman his age, leave alone someone 25 and leave even more alone Zarna at 25...IIT grads have brains but they lack minds and this is a living proof why these same IIT people die looking for girlfriends in college... Not a big deal to crack IIT and earn so much money if you have no respect for people and have the weird notions that the world is equal and fair for everyone and making a law is sufficient - too idealistic in an unidealistic world is like a square peg in a round hole... so please try improving your outlook... Supporting your wife is one thing, but if you cant support women in general then your words are hypocritical and you support her out of fear of having to raise the kids alone... I feel for you Zarna... sorry but his words are very patriarchal... typical UP thinking that still exists even now...
Yeah his thinking is pretty misogynistic. You can't really get it unless you listen to him carefully.
Well it's not patriarchal to say this
I don't understand why people take this seriously. This is a comedy show. Everything you see on the internet isn't real. I can't believe I have to explain this to an adult in 2023.
@@yomamasohot6411 podcasts aren't "comedy shows" they are discussing serious topics and humor shouldn't be in bad taste. Her standups are "Comedy" and funny even if they make fun of people. However, this podcast isn't comedy. If you want to put on a comedy show, don't deal with sensitive topics such as religion, equality, racism, crime and so on. There is a thin line between what's funny and what's insensitive.
@@remuslupinhp You are the kind I'm talking about in the last sentence
I can't really comprehend going to America, chasing the American dream, having kids in America only to tell your daughter that her going to Stanford is gonna help her catch a rich guy. As a woman in India who is limited in her potential just due to my gender, I am shocked at this. If my daughter was going to Stanford I would want for her to become president.
That was an obvious family joke!😂
haha this is true!
Just marriage talk is a joke right? Seriously, marriage should be the last concern for these lovely kids you have raised❤. They are complete individuals with our without it
What’s wrong with finding a rich guy?
He was just trying to get her riled up but genuinely didn’t mean that. Ofc he doesn’t believe his daughter is just a baby making machine.
I can't help but just admire Zoya ❤ what a woman 🎉
Thank you!
She has inherited her beautiful eyes from her mother.
I think Brij did have light eyes as well. Veer is very solid.
I just started following your podcast and OMG you guys are funny, make a point and are still respectful, hear each other out and older and younger ones still have a voice..
I’m all team ZOYA all the way .. She sounds smart , kind and makes a lot of sense ..
Zarna love you too..
What a great family …
I love the respect that Brij has for his sister. He calls her didi and said his sister has to approve of the person he wants to date.❣️ Shalabh, I feel is too often dismissive of Zoya's opinion.
So true. Shalabh is very dismissive with Zoya
💯 he always shuts her up…he needs to chill off
And Zoya is a great Influence on her brothers
Mom is only focused on career and studying 😅
True!
@@brijgarg9987 India is not that bad ... I am also from uttarpradesh...aligarh!❤ 27:33
Zarna I can't wait for your oldest son to bring home someone who isn't Indian. I feel it's gonna happen 😂 Good for him.😊
Yeah I def can see him dating a blue eyed brunette white girl haha hope the mom is open minded
@@cookiesarelikecream she doesn't seem to be as of yet but hopefully she'll come around.
Oh my god...
@@ZarnaGarghahah .. I feel Zarna here. But humor on one side I know she and Immigrant moms like her and me will come around. Off course we will. We are flexible.. plus we get to keep all the heritage gold 😂 the gori bahu won’t need that 🤪
AS LONG AS IT AINT YT, its gonna be alright
Kudos to Zoya…wise and mature beyond her years. IF she chooses a life partner in marriage, he will have to match her intelligence and maturity. Such smart, nice kids!
Haha!
"Can you not fall for it?"
"I totally just fell for it."😂
We all fell for it, Shalabh!❤
Lol!
So tired of the dad dismissing his daughter’s opinions. I rolled my eyes when he called her brainwashed. She’s very intelligent and has good judgment. Also the dad tries too hard to make wisecracks and be funny when he isn’t - it comes across as forced whereas Zarna is naturally more funny.
!! thank you
Agree 100%.
The dad is hilarious . He’s a good man.
@@shireensaroea946 he’s not funny at all
3:30 pm.
I believe you and your husband have done a ‘spectacular’ job of raising your children.
First of all, they are able to express their ‘authentic feelings/observations - knowing that you may not agree.
You must be very proud of them- they will be very successful
And enhance your heritage.
As a mother and grandmother,
I can say you and your husband
have created a wonderful family.
The episode was most engaging .
You must be exhausted
very sweet family, however if being hygienic "seems very gay" and that "guys don't keep their rooms clean cause they have better thing to do such as fighting wars" you guys might want to question you ideas surrounding homosexuality. Gays are not guys, because they are gay? There are plenty of unhygienic gays who are in the army. I don't think there is any ill will meant, but it underlines some strange ideas you might have around gay people. Gay guys are guys... If you read history you will find there are many "gay men" who started wars... maybe realise that being gay is not an overarching characteristic that rules all aspects of one's life.
This was problematic on so many levels- sexist/ homophobic/ classist/ racist( the 50 yr old Desi man dismisses Gisele that she isn’t even a American)
I strongly suggest you take this off the internet although you can never take back your words. TBH you possibly have messed up your older sons chances at college given his very problematic statements about his views on women. Your husband’s misogyny and patriarchal backward views are not surprising at all. Here I was a fan of Zarna- a woman who did break traditional stereotypes and made a name for herself as a stand up comedian in America, and I watched this with so much hope. My jaw dropped open to see this family far more regressive than even your average Indian immigrant family. Zoya is amazing despite her upbringing. The problem really isnt that the parents focus so much on money and Ivy League education as a parameter for success. It is the blatant lack of self awareness that makes me want to scream. Please don’t promote this a comedy because it wasn’t and don’t promote this as a informative podcast because it was appalling. Goodness where are the truly decent progressive Indians??? Please stand up!!!
it’s not that deep girl
@@shayanahsan2151 clearly not deep enough for you to comprehend. Ignorance sure is bliss. Bye😀
Veer throughout these series is like why am i here ??? 😂😂😂 he is one who is going to need therapy after a few years !!! 🤪😂😂😂….
!!!😮😅😭
Honestly, you guys are the dream familyyy !! Communication is the key. Taking notes. Please keep making these videos. Love watching them 🫶🏻
Alsooo, It’ll be amazing to bump into any one of you. I’m located in Manhattan as well !
Haha!
@@shrishteekandoi120If you have breakfast in Four Seasons Hotel, Beverly Hills, you might actually bump into ZG; I did 🤗
Zoya is such a sweetheart and so amazing! And Brij is also so sweet ❤
I feel zarna is the least problematic person in the room
Shalabh is from another planet😆😆 Zoya and Zarna are running this ship🙌🏻 love them both
they encapsulate the misogynistic divide in asian people so accurate lol. zoya hearing how her parents are controlling and misogynistic is a vibe
Well west is misogynistic as well. The way they objectify women under the garb of individualism is pathetic.
Also Asia is changing with time as well.
Being an Indian woman I always got equal opportunities.
Aunty Z!!! I am soooo proud of Zoya! She is legit the star in your home! That girl is 🔥🔥🔥
- Boy with a sister ✅
- There have historically been more seats for men and women are told this is one token seat for you, now all of you fight ✅
- Some women just don’t want to get married done ✅
- Good hygiene in men is the bar. ✅
All her point was great except boy with a sister else a NO . Human need to understand human emotions despite women or men there ..
there are honestly men who undergo a lot of emotions too Rest she was spot on very well said
Thank you!!
@@locomate818this is my criteria as well. Men with sisters are more mature and caring.
I don’t mind interacting with men who don’t have sisters. But I have seen them more frustrated at understanding women.
Boy with a sister is so important. I married a guy with no sisters and I wish I had this criterion before I got married.
Keeping the room clean is a gay boy thing really? What you guys have been smoking 🙄
Definitely need a part 2. Totally amazing and enjoyed my time watching this over other TH-cam videos. Very interesting to know the pool of thoughts and exchange of real and honest feelings unfiltered.
I get what the dad was saying but isn't it better to raise a intelligent daughter which you have and have her go off to a great college like Stanford to become someone in life and make her dreams come true to sit home and only raise kids ? But that's not to say don't have kids but there moms out her for example her mom that's raising smart children and still doing what she loves
Can’t wait either!!!!! Ready for some more laughs, Zarna!!! You’re lowering my blood pressure. Just what the doctor ordered!
Zoya and Brij killed it!! They were on fire 🔥
@@bkirstie haha true..poor he wasn't being allowed to talk 🤣 and whatever he spoke ge made perfect sense to me..
:D
now I feel shalab is funniest in the family! you both should do a show together !!!!!!!!!
This can not be true!
Looool Veer is the godfather. "Walking is not sport". the calmness in the delivery. Even in Zarna seriousness, it's packed with jokes. You guys made my day
Love your husband!
Part of it was so hilarious! The kids are so clear in their heads! I just love them for that!
So glad!!
Zoya is amazing! She is going to do such great things in life. You did a great job raising your kids Zarna.
Thank you!!
Yes I would love to hang with her kids. 🎉🎉🎉😂😂😂
Dear Zarna. Another hilarious episode. I live in Aus. Mother of two adult children. Both top professionals. Both married to Westerners. Very very funny. Love it love it. Brij reminds me of my son and Zoya of my daughter. I was laughing and smiling. Still smiling while typing this. I must send this to my two children. Love you 😍 ❤canberra Aus
seems like everyone besides Zoya has a lot of internalized misogyny :/
I really wanna see Zarna and Shalabh's marriage pic. 😂😂 Esp after listening all this..
I learned something new" pull a girl". Haha. And Zarna's comedy in these sessions is too funny. Shalabh may be blunt but he is too funny as well.
Woo!
Looking forward to more laughs. 😂
Advice to the kids… laugh more on the show.. have fun with it. Remember your mom is a comedian. Don’t take it so seriously. Life is about having fun too not just money and good grades🤗
Who knows maybe a network will pickup a reality show from this and you will all benefit and have another source of income 🤑
Who needs a network. They can start their own reality show.
This is insanely serious and hilarious at the same time 😂 ❤ your shows Zarna!!!
Shalabh summed it up! Respect, friendship and acceptance… thank you for this lovely episode 🌺🌸🌼🌻
Actually arguably men have the harder deal with marriage because when there are children and divorce they are under extreme financial pressures as the legal system is stacked against them.
Your husband is also very funny too - he adds to the show for sure 😂 beautiful family!!!!!
Take the spotlight off him!
Zoya is literally about to cry .. .and I feel bad for her. I hope Brij sees his dad's humor and doesn't take that stuff seriously, cuz it does effect Zoya.
She is ok!
Zoya speaking straight facts! People (including her own family members) should follow her advice…especially in today’s era. 👏
You’ve done such a great job raising your children. The mere fact every age was not afraid to be honest with their feelings and opinions infront of you both are just beautiful. They are respectful but very independent in their thinking. They all have great heads on their shoulders
Completely agree!
So happy to see kids who are respectful and kind.
It so hard to raise respectful children in US i think (splly with challenges going on within the family ❤️🩹)
What a beautiful family! No wonder Zarna wants to fiercely protect it ❤
Aw thank you!
I’m new to your channel and I love it already. Your family is so interesting and fun to watch and the mother’s comedic timing is impeccable!
watched till the end... I really like the family, they seem very well intentioned but... The misogyny and homophobia in this family is Real!
Brij and Veer are so wrong and clueless about women's basketball. And sooo many people cared about Caitlin Clark breaking the record.
You are such a courageous family. I love that you still sit down and continue after something that would've spoken could end up in a really sore way.
Haha!!
Great conversation and the humor makes it extra 🔥 ❤
Woo!
Love Zoya! That’s a future leader right there!
This family is a riot! Zarna still trying to fall in love 😂😂😂
Subscribing right now. Super honest and hilarious conversation. I was able relate to Zarna and Zoya at so many parts. Loved it.
Shalabh just took the show by his closing statement ❤
Take the spotlight off him!
"I was just there"
😂😂😂
Veer inherited Mom's comedic ability!
I agree with Zoya..now today's women, are choosing not to marry .I completely resonate with her views
I loved this I’m not Indian but I talk to my daughter about finding her husband for her so far at 9 yrs old she agrees 😂😂😅
I hope, 36:34 "Gender roles exist for a reason" is a clickbait statement for one of the upcoming podcasts. Nevertheless, the segment on gender and sexuality where Shalabh showed that he is from Ghaziabad afterall, left a sour taste to what was otherwise a wholesome discussion. Zoya as always was a rockstar calling out her family members for their pedestrian views on the topic they appear to not understand. More power to you Zoya! May you shine with your sensitivity, smartness and ambition.
Hilarious conversation.. Love to see what young indian origin Americans are thinking ♥️
Zoya, I think I partially understand you as a Turkish woman in her mid-twenties, you faced with many difficulties with your families' opinions and aware of unequalities as a woman and non-white person, and still deal with them, especially teenage brothers... I hope your mom will understand you better and better, you learned from her and you will teach each other in this journey. love
Yr I guess I hv seen the best unfiltered podcast.. literally watched it in one go...so good to see each person of family gets to lay down his or her opinion.. Fan of Zoya ❤️ @zarna auntie so relatable ❤️❤️
This is the result of women's sacrifices all the time love you all
I am sorry but am i the only one who thinks that ZOYA is a bomb person and she is damn clear in what she thinks and wants and the convo of her marrying a rich sounded absolutely BULLSHIT..
I just wanted to make an observation on how Brij is always reassured and praised (ie: handsome son etc), rightfully so, but Zoya is often brought down and made fun of, especially by the dad. Im aware that this is only 40 mins of their lives and I don’t want to make any grand assumptions, but nevertheless it would be great if the parents would appreciate Zoya more on public platforms (not making general statement for what happens behind closed doors as I cannot claim to know what happens in their lives off reel). Women need to be commended too. Break the cycle of talking down to women and girls. She’s stunning and goes to an IV league. She deserves her opinions to be heard and respected. She’s the only one that makes sense 100% of the time. Great to see that Brij treats her with the respect she deserves.
It’s part of the act dude. They are super proud.
The boy speacks with “like” as young americans ( lack of vocabulary) His mother who hasn’t grown in US speacks correctly!
Oh my god, this video is more horrifying than ep2. What is the matter with the father? You sent your daughter to Stanford to get married ?
Zoya, you gotta make the run from this madness! You’re brilliant! Don’t let this pull you down.
Why are you rude to the father . You think if he was not a good father the children you are admiring now will be what they are
Zoya is correct, because it's true that women have been held back for centuries.
Just loved this episode! Laughed a lot. Liked Zoya a lot... But Zarna I adore you for your spontaneity, humour sense and communication skills. Very lovely family!
The fact Zoya discards a guy as a potential on the grounds he doesn't have a sister is ridiculous. That is judgement. Get to know someone first.
I think for match making topic teenagers are not right audience or could able to think . Sorry . Zoya is eligible.
Shalabh asking about Mother is a typical oblivious Indian Uncle lol! Men are very different when they have sisters. Men also, especially Indian men, treat their wives very differently with a lot less respect and empathy than their mothers.
I could listen to Zoya speak all day she’s smart, well spoken and stunning.
Exactly.. she's just perfect
She's alright...
@@ZarnaGarg
Ouch! 😂
I really loved it ❤️ 😍 💕 the kids were amazing!!
Does the dad really thinks he is being funny, because all I can hear is cringe after cringe coming out of his mouth for his own daughter and the need to remind everyone that he is an IITian. 🤮 Keeping the 11 year old kid aside, looks like Zoya is the only one who is sane in this family and has immense respect for her own gender and the gay community. I hope her world views never changes and doesn't get influenced by her mom who is making money by stereotyping Indians. The less said about the dad's homophobia, the better.
Beautiful! Laughed a lot too, especially at the mother in law bonding part + your expressios 😂
Thank you!
Seeing your family interact is acting as a catalyst in me wanting to start a family of my own. Love your podcast and all the best for the upcoming episodes. Seeing everyone respectful and loving is such a joy to behold.
Your kids are v smart for their age… I agree with Zoya… an ambitious women needs a boy who has a sister. It makes a lot of difference. I am sitting here taking parenting tips. These are topics which parents need to talk about … the Bollywood movies screwed our minds… and cheers to Zarna and Shalabh for being honest that money tops love and vice versa depending on situation… one learns that later in life.
Beautiful conversation ❤
Wish all 3 kids with amazing life partners.
I find Brij is more evolved person for his age.
Yes Zoya is awesome ❤
For Veer, he has awesome role models in his own family ❤
I'm 43 yrs, I will never say the "V" in front of my parents 😂
Love to watch your podcasts.. continue this series ❤❤❤❤❤
Shalabh . Waiting for the day you realise Zoya will actually fix all of you one at a time . Its just a matter of time That girl is wisdom personified. Wait and watch time will tell . Good job Zarna , with Zoya xD
Great set of video's I just discovered them. I understand your POV as immigrant parents, and at the same time, I hope that the father evolves a little bit in his thinking. He is a little bit stuck in the conservative mindset. And the mom is really trying to understand the kids POV as well.
Veer is like, why am I here?
Zarna this is fantastic! I found it because of your instagram clip. Your family is AWESOME! The kids are so refreshing; traditional, yet cool at the same time! Your husband is a sweetie pie and such a good sport. And you are hilarious as always! Can’t wait to watch the other episodes! 😍
Oh finally .. The next episode. So good to see the matured talks of your family. Amazing all the best
Pls exclude Veer from this.kind of conversation. Poor child is looking lost. He is too young dear....
I like the way your family discuss things!! Good open conversations!!
:)
Please make these type of family podcast . I like this. Brij, zoya and veer ❤.
Aw so glad
You are totally misunderstanding India 😂 it has changed a lot through year and things are totally different now than your parents time
all these three kids had a great upbringing as it shows by the way they talk to each other and their parents. they have their respective opinions but they are very respectful while conveying the message out loud. looking forward to more such episodes.
Six months just not enough to raise a kid. There are a lot more before and after that. So sad that we still have to prove that . Zoya ❤❤
OMG I totally agree with Zoya, guys who have sister are more patient more emotionally sensitive and has so much manners .
This got very toxic!!! Not fun to watch and listen to at all. Too raw. Maybe they should turn it down a notch or two or three.