You Haven’t Noticed, But God Is Saying YES About that Man If . . .
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- Is God saying "yes" to you about a man? Are you missing God's yes? Here are 5 things that often happen God is telling a woman yes about a man but she is missing it.
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“He wants you to be married if you want to be married. Because he’s the one who gave you that desire he’s the one who made marriage” 👏
Wow Well said!!! Thanks for the clear and beautiful affirmation, God Bless!!
i really needed to read this awe 😊❤
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Thank you for this
1. You like him, and he is a real Christian;
2. Is this man likes you and you are prepared to honor the Lord, God is saying yes;
3. Your prayer has been answered, but you keep asking for confirmation;
4. If this man is pursuing you but you are waiting for some reason to accept his pursuing, God is saying yes;
5. Both want to serve the Lord together.
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Thanks for the summary! 😊
Thankss
I am a man who loves relationships, but a Fatah wife who is honest and frank
All of that, and pastora still told pastor no
Me: God please send me a sign
God: [sends sign]
Me: 👀 ok so... I'm gonna need a "sign-ee-er" sign.
God: 👀👀👀
A signy-er sign 😂
So relatable. I can hear him loud and clear and still be like you sure God.
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God brings people together in HIS timing and He will cause those two people to desire one another. The relationship will be effortless...not meaning you won't have to put any effort into it, but that you won't struggle. You will want to be with him and he will want to be with you. Your likes and dislikes, your values will be similar. You will feel comfortable together like two old friends. And you will have peace in your spirit about your relationship.
I'm a guy praying for a girl. But like the video said, I kept asking GOD to send me "yes"signs. HE kept giving me "yes" signs but my lack of faith continued asking for more.... Now I'll just step out in faith for her!!!
“You’re prepared to honor God” 👏
“It’s going to be confirmed with the desires God gives you to for that man” 👏
My common prayer lately is that God will give men more courage to take initiative. It seems like often both men and women are waiting for each other, or that things like social media have made guys less confident to approach women in an organic way. Many would rather hide away playing their video games..
Hi Mark, I literally ask God just a couple of minutes ago to tell me something positive about this man, with relation to being together and here is your video.... Thank you Lord, so timely❤️❤️❤️
God bless!
Wow! That is so wonderful! Praise the Lord
All of these reasons slapped me in the face and humbled me. Thank You God and thank You for speaking through Mark. 🙏🏾
All glory to God!
Praying for you sister, there is hope up ahead! Hold on!
Exactly, Mark. "the feelings must be mutual. God is saying no if you are not romantically interested. It would be unbiblical to be with a man you don't want to be with. God is not standing in your way." So good. Thank you.
Sometimes the man is pursuing, but the woman is not interested, and therefore, doesn't encourage the pursuit, out of compassion for that person.
God gave us freewill. Signs come from the devil too
Thank you brother Mark! This is exactly what I needed to hear! It is so encouraging. Jesus just recently brought a Christian young man into my life and we are surprised by His grace, right before Christmas too!!! Friends, hold on, there is hope, praying for you 🙏
I felt so bad asking for so many confirmations as I was just thinking about this man during the day and wondered if it was worth it after he’s pursued me but I was too scared. I’m in shock. Thank you mark for this video
I receive this Word with gladness Amen
Wow very clear. Praise God
This REALLY helped me!! God is so awesome. ❤
Amen Confirmation equally yoke🙏 Pray that He may have courage to speak to me🙏
You always have wise, Biblical advice Brother Mark. Thank you for all that you do! God bless! 🙏🏻
Your teaching concerning this matter has simplified the topic for me.
Thank you for spreading God's word!
Wow!😮 always accurate on my situation right now. God always uses this as a message for clear understanding and confirmation on his will for me.I think' this is the time that I need to step up and have courage to try.🙏💖✨
I always look forward your videos, Mark. Because it helps navigate the dating in a biblical way in which much needed nowadays. 👏
Thank you God for this message! God bless your ministry Mark!!!
I agree with your opening statement that we over complicate things. I keep having dreams about a particular individual but yet I feel like it's not clear in my waking life. I do think it's going to happen but I have to wait
Thank you Father God for this great video & the clarity provided. And, thank you brother, Mark for your ministry (AGW) & for the great messages! God bless you & your family. In Jesus name amen
So glad this was useful! All glory to God!
Been told to wait and it is not easy as someone who has struggled to adopt patience. In low moments keep asking for more confirmation I understand correctly, that it is so and that if I wait enough it will happen, etc, but I know that that is a bad habit and I must just take waiting in stride and handle it with grace. The next step will come and I will be made aware of it when the time comes, as difficult as waiting is!
Thank you, Mark & AGW! God bless you!
I, myself, have been wondering about this very subject. Your video gave me great insight on God and his possible signs, especially on how to interpret them.
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Thank you for this video! I overthink a lot about what god is trying to tell me, I constantly pray “plz god reveal if this man is my future husband” everyday and sometimes I get anxiety out of no where and I overthink that god is saying no leave your boyfriend don’t marry him. Then some days I feel like he’s the one and I should marry him.
I do the exact same thing!
@@alexbrown6647 I’m glad I’m not alone💜
I bought your book!! (Christ-Centered Dating)
Great Job Mark. I look forward to your videos.
Amazing video Mark!!!
Thank you very much!
Thanks for your videos. I came across your channel a month or so ago. I watch all your videos. They are very informative. Is nice to hear perspective of dating from a man's point of view.
God told me on May 23rd this year, that I am going to get married next year. Which will be a miracle, as I don't currently have any prospects. But I am trusting His timing and what He has repeatedly told me. Now putting my future in His hands, as I should. I know He will direct us together.
God bless as you seek the Lord's leading!
Thank you for your good time good man for this video.
God bless you sir
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God bless!
Amen
God bless!
Master I will be waiting for you still
God bless!
Please make us another video with the sa.e topic but fro a man's perspective 🙏
Amen 🙏❤️🙏✝️🕊️
God bless!
Even Rebecca was given the option to marry Isaac. Even though God put them together, He didn't force them to be together.
#3 really seems to apply! I felt confirmation summer 2023, both situationally, through his family and otherwise, but I've been doubting it and thinking maybe it's not him it's someone else I know. I need to stick with what I really believe Jesus told me in July!
Thanks, Mark!👍🏻
I wish this was the case! I only have 1 or 2 of those things! I have no clue where his head is at, regarding me, though???
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Awesome advise - if your not romantically interested it’s not the man for you
Amen, I strongly agree too that God wants me to be married otherwise I will not have the desire for a companionship with a man I believe he has for me. But I have heard of some fellow Christians saying 'what if God wants you to be single' give me the strength to continue waiting patiently for your right timing Lord no matter how sooner I wish you can lead me to that special man for me only. Amen
What if it’s clear both people like each other however, both people are shy. However, the woman would prefer chivalry meaning she doesn’t want to reach out and be the first one to ask the guy out then what?
I only got 3 outta 5 🤔
I'm not a Christian but I truly believe in the works of lord Jesus. Amen ❤
How do I know if my prayers have been answered if he is not here at my door on his knees? I’ve always heard “if he wanted to, he would” 😢
Sounds like a no to me. A man will pursue you if he wants to be with you. There's probably someone better out there for you if this is not the one!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger 💔 thank you
Question🙋🏼♀️! I can say yes to all these 5 reasons. However, what if me and the guy I'm courting are different types of Christians? I am Pentecostal, and he is Baptist. We agree on most everything and have the same goals and future plans. However, we find it hard to find a way around or get past these religious differences as we have very different views on things. How do you deal with that sort of thing? We are both strong in our beliefs and have a lot of iron sharpening iron moments. What do you do about the differences, though?
hi mark
So my story is like this God came to me in a dream about a man that i don't know and he didn't show me his face in January this year and told me to pray for him coz he's going through alot and he came in a series of dreams still not showing his face but rather things about him that will be able to identity him but no one since this date as came or any confirmation but i have been praying for him the entire year and yes there were times where i wanted to give up coz i don't know him but God keeps reminding me bout me praying for him so i honestly don't know and doubt tends to creep in like maybe i am praying for this person but for another person 😢But what is your take , thank you
Hey Mark, I love your videos. I've been watching for some years here and there.
I want to hear your opinion on this because i disagree with something you said. You said that God will never tell you someone is your spouse without 1st going on a date with them. I have heard many testimonies where this, in fact, happened and sometimes it be through dreams as well. I also believe there is nothing wrong with a asking God for multiple answers to make sure they know something is from God. If we His children come to Him regarding sometime and truly 100% want to know and do His will/desire in whatever then im sure our Father would be fine with us coming to Him multiple times before doing something. Now if God blatantly told them already then ya there should be no need to ask again just do it lol and sometimes people just really arent that aware of what God is saying even tho He already answered. Also what if God brought someome in a person life to be their spouse and He let them know but die to fear in them they back away after getting close? I would say just because someome says tbey arent ready isnt God saying no but rather the person could be living in fear and just needs to make a faith choice. Would love to hear what you think. Thanks brother🙂
So I'm interested in my boss's boss, and I asked for a very specific sign from God if she was the one, that was delivered the very next day. Was it a fluke or not? I have no idea what her thoughts and feelings are (I'm autistic) but I do know I have no chance unless I switch departments to get out from under her or leave the company altogether. What should I do?
i don't believe that it's unbiblical for God to tell you to marry someone you're not attracted to necessarily. He told Hosea to marry a harlot as part of His plan for his life...I'm guessing that she wasn't Hosea's first choice.
That is surely not the norm and it was only used to prove a point : his love for us EVEN WHEN we are not faithful. This marriage had a purpose, it’s not your standard.
Looks are not everything, that’s for sure. But you must be attracted to your person. If attraction didn’t matter in a marriage then we don’t need marriage, we can clearly love any man or woman in Christ. So what makes a marriage different from any other friendship ? Let’s not overly spiritualise this…Many people made this mistake and let me tell you who suffers most, the one who isn’t desired. You feel it. Everybody deserves to be desired and attractive to their spouse, chemistry is not really that difficult …there is surely people out there finding you attractive. You don’t have to force yourself !
What if you like a man who doesn't know you do, but has also not shown a sign whether what you feel is mutual, but he has all the qualities you desire in a godly husband?
you need more information. You won't know if there is a future together until you interact with him more
Thank you 🙏🏼
19 years and still waiting 😂
OK one of the girls is pursuing though I think that’s why there’s a stall too if like everything else was a yes and then that’s happening
Dating is not a prerequisite to marriage. Why would it be in these days. Dating is not even mentioned
what if a certain person has been on your heart for a little while & you have been having dreams of them bc you have been praying about kingdom marriage ?
The man is ghosting me because he is insecure. He makes me insecure. He persues me via telepathy. I respect all the signs and all religions. I have asked God for too many signs because telepathy and signs are really too fluffy to me. So I thought everything was getting pretty surreal. Also I was in doubt whether someone was pulling my leg via telepathy. I am an author and I have a very lively imagination and also there have been psychic attacks on people recently so I need a confirmation of a mans interest in real life. I would say yes to a date to this particular man I met this summer. I was married earlier and I take one step at a time in life. I cocreate with a man. I don't like to plan anything ahead. I want life to be surprising. I am a protestant but a buddhist too and I love hindu music and I practice meditation. I don't know if this man is an atheist or Christian or a buddhist or spiritual person but I respect all convictions.
What if his words say no but his actions say yes.
My bf and I want to get married, honor the Lord as he commands in the gospels. he’s the only person I’ve been with and I’m the only person he’s been with, almost 4 years together. He is perusing God and I am as well, but for some reasons I just want him to pray to the Lord for confirmation about me and I’m doing the same about him if he’s the man God wants for me to be with and also for him to grow mentally as a man yk, no more child behavior and he’s doing well.
I met a guy through a family member who really wanted me to date him and the guy informed me that he goes to church which I assume was that he was letting me know that he is a believer of course that didn't mean he was a Christian. I was not attracted to him at all, physically and I didn't like his personality. He told me in a conversation that he likes to go to the strip shows in Vegas and he likes to gamble. I let him go and thanked God.
Hey Mark, since its very unlikely that the guy that God told me im gonna marry is gonna see this video, im just gonna tell you. The thing is i actually know this guy and God has been answering my prayers about him but like u said "You keep asking for confirmation" and God told me this through his word in a dream. Like it was words straight from him not a bible verse. But if Im the one confused here after knowing that God is not a God of confusion but of peace then....
In a deep state of confusion... there's a guy who's pursuing me but I don't have feelings for him and my mum is also against us dating.My relationship advisor has also cautiouned me against dating a man that my mum has "rejected".
This man is spiritual and he always checks on me. Like upt to thrice a week.He wants us to meet so that we can decide on whether to take the relationship further since we're already friends.Though I want to politely turn him down.I really don't know if that's the best decision but I pray God guides me.
So how'd it go? I'm sort of in a similar situation
@@idowuajayi8721 I sought the Lord and He guided me to let him go
@@idowuajayi8721 I sought the Lord and He guided me to let go of the guy
Every time I ask God for confirmation about this man, if he’s my spouse I got it but he hasn’t gotten any. Do you think I might have idolized marriage that’s why God hasn’t confirmed it to this man?
Confirmation from God would include this man liking you. The confirmation you think you are getting about this man is most likely not actually confirmation from God. Biblical romance is always mutual
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger thanks for your response, I know now. I will apologize to this man and let him know I heard God incorrectly.
Brother mark, please i need your advice on this, so i was in a relationship with a lady for 6months where we were both christians who love God, did bible study together, prayed together online, we never visited each others house, we placed boundaries but later on i encountered a Popular apostles video in my country of how God told him to leave his relationship in order to get power, so this burden came on me to also leave my relationship in order to get power and fulfill God's desires for me... Our relationship got to the ground during those days and i started to hear voices tell me to leave her or i wont fulfill purpose, or i wont get a good job etc sometimes the voice says she is a wicked lady who pretends and will destroy me later in the future..... To the point that i dreamt "where a lady i knew told me that just because she is spiritual doesn't mean she is the one"... Since then we broke up.
Brother mark do you think this is God?
What if God told you that he’s your spouse, and you told him and he said he didn’t receive the same confirmations and he’s not ready to marry yet because of finances. Should I still have hope?
Two can live cheaply as one. It sounds like an excuse. I'd pull back. Fast, pray and intercede for him. There is active spiritual warfare preventing Godly marriages these days. Unprecedented warfare. I'd advise never tell a man he's your husband. That's very aggressive. That's out of order.
No, you should assume you heard God wrong and move on. If God really told you that, this man would feel the same. Yes, his feelings could change. But more than likely they will not. Just my opinion.
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger I agree with Mark. My man pursued me. Solidified the relationship. Was clear I was sent to him from the Lord. Only thing, Mark is..he's a new convert to Christ. I don't think he knows how to serve yet but he wants to follow the Lord. Any thoughts?
What if you haven’t received an answer? I won’t make this long BUT I will say I’ve known this particular man a year now and he’s expressed interest BUT isn’t pursuing. We now live in different states and the communication hasn’t changed BUT he thinks of me or vice versa and the communication is short. I feel strongly for him, I think about him A LOT! BUT bc things haven’t progressed the way I like I want to move on….and I have asked the Lord to “show me” OR “release him from my spirit” and I have nothing (lol). I have been praying this since May.
Advise 😇
Maybe let him know your feelings, that you would like to be pursued or try to gauge his interest somehow. If he doesn't respond by taking a step forward, like meeting up or something, I would move on.
@@em77775 you know, I actually have; honestly. And the conversation didn’t pan out the way I liked. So I told myself I will move on, asked God to fix my mind and heart d/t past disappointments with all men. He still continues to pop up in my mind and I be thinking it’s torment! And at this moment all I do is pray for him. The communication is still the same, he pops in to make his presence known then we go without speaking. I don’t reach out. I do want to move on, and I pray that also.
To be honest with you and something that I myself have learned, a man who really really wants you, will do everything to be in your space, to keep in contact, to see you etc
When a man thinks he found a good wife, the last thing they want is risk losing that person. Not pursuing is literally saying “ I am not worried to lose you”. Your person will cherish you and will put in a lot of effort, I can assure you. If you have to beg, it’s not your portion…and sometimes the answer is right in front of you, but maybe you don’t want to see it. You don’t need a dream from God saying “ it’s not him” when you have all these signs in your face.
I know it’s difficult especially when you want them ( been there, done that) but I realised men don’t work like us. If they really really want you there is no way they don’t quickly invest.
Do yourself a favour and respectfully pray to receive your actual husband. Make sure you learn to be a good woman in Christ and He will give you what’s yours. Don’t waste your time on confusions …
@@yhwhal amen. I receive it. It is hard because YES I feel as though he’s a good fit to what i have prayed for, BUT the signs are obvious. I also think at times that things may change since I am moving to his state/ near city. I waver with that. I only communicate when he does to save myself the head (and heart) ache; but it’s still that hope I have. I know better to hold on TOO long as I have also “been there, done that” myself.
@@cyndiva83 There are plenty good men who in appearance seem to fit like a glove. The thing is, not all the good men are yours. There is one man who God knows is your best option. Not to say others cannot tick some boxes you might have in terms of your desired husband, but still doesn’t make them your husband…We can accept this and know that our person will choose us.
I am in a long distance right now….this man was so annoyed at the situation because most men don’t want or do long distance, it’s just very difficult. He hated every minute of it. But he knew my value in God…and did everything to communicate, to see me often, to call every single day, etc and he is clearly not your sweet guy. It was very difficult but I knew he really meant it! If this man is only available when you are in his presence/ close by then you are a convenience to him….thats all. You deserve someone to choose you anytime anywhere in spite of distance and other circumstances.
I am not going to rule out the fact sometimes timing is everything and maybe it’s not meant to be right now but it will be later. What I am worried about is you waiting around in hope and nothing happens. When a man truly desires you, he won’t play around…no point if he only wants you when things are easy or convenient to him when you move closer.
Interesting I had most of the signs but….. I don’t like him😬
Well you just missed the first sign then, attraction 😂 you need to like them lol
That’s the first sign 😂
I don't like to date
Women: God send me a man
God: ok
Women: Ew not that one he's 5'7"
God:...
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lol 😂 nah forget the word look at the clock???? No way
Dude do you make any videos for men seeking a wife? Or is this a channel just for women? It makes me feel gay watching these videos through a woman’s perspective when I’m trying to figure out what I need to be and look for… 99% of your videos are just for woman.
If it’s for women then watch something else lol
@@annabelle1471 the channel says for Christian singles not just Christian women. But all the videos are for women.
He has a general channel about Christian relationships and he also does separate videos (I believe on two other channels), each specifically targeted to either men or women. He has a lot of great info. Check it out.
Amen
God bless!