The Dark Truth About Adultery: Consequences Revealed

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  • #disciplemaking #purity #consequencesofadulteryinthebible
    Adultery and sexual immorality is a very real risk if you are a disciple seeking to make disciples. You are on the front lines and will find yourself under attack. A common area of attack is sexual purity, and, if you are married, the temptation to commit adultery. Here is a strategic way to protect yourself.
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  • @12Church
    @12Church  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What is your strategy for protecting yourself, your ministry and your family? Whether or not a tool like this one appeals to you or not, please be sure to have some kind of plan.

    • @donnasimmons2241
      @donnasimmons2241 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My plan is simple to never commiting adultery. Firstly...,There is nothing or no one or any pleasure worth losing my salvation for. Jesus died for my sins and paid the price for the privilege of my eternal life. Nothing on this earth is worth jeopardizing that gift. Secondly.., I would never do anything to break my husband's heart. He trusts me and I promised I would forsake ALL others till death do us part. There is no temptation worth more than eternity with Jesus and the love and respect of my husband. Life isn't that hard really. Let Jesus be your example and never break a promise to anyone you love. That includes Jesus and your spouse. Pray everyday!

  • @Countdown-ct7iv
    @Countdown-ct7iv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Don't loose your family by committing adultery, you might loose everything, it's not worth it, follow the law of God. Don't be filled with regrets like me. Jesus is truth and the way.

    • @Countdown-ct7iv
      @Countdown-ct7iv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And life.

    • @12Church
      @12Church  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Proverbs 5, 6, 7 and really expand on the harsh outcomes of sexual immorality.

    • @awomansstory.2019
      @awomansstory.2019 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen.

  • @JesusChistLovesYou
    @JesusChistLovesYou 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This includes lust in the eyes and heart as Jesus said, if a man looks upon a woman with lust he has already committed adultery in his heart. So remember that looking lusting, thinking of it, PORN is destroying your wife, your family, your salvation it’s sin against your wife family God yourself. Don’t do it. It’s so painful it’s horrific and it destroys marriages. ❤

  • @darthjedi99
    @darthjedi99 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How many christians are in 2nd marriages and adultery? Jesus says only death breaks the marriage covenant and all divorce and remarriage is adultery. Mark 10:11-12, Luke 16:18, Romans 7:2-3, 1Cor 7:10-11...Jesus says to remain unmarried or get back with your spouse. There is no exception , Jesus is clear. Matt5:32, 19:9 Jesus used 2 different words and was talking about the betrothal period.

  • @edwardroberts1297
    @edwardroberts1297 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That is true Jesus told me don't have sex im divorced no sex since 2014 victory in Jesus name

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My wife had affair 2019 it was traumatizing we married 20 years beautful family daughter was 12 at time- a home wrecker manipulated her
    I forgave and loved and had a good fight 2019 and 2020, her ap got married 2021 and was very angry and abusive. By 2022 we succumbed to resent unforgiveness and anger. She never showed remorse or tried at all, I did it all, trips, gifts, love but was too hurtful.
    Hurting children is the most
    God forgive us. I lost my family because my wife cheated , and I even tried and still lost her
    I can’t believe it

    • @12Church
      @12Church  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very sorry to hear about this. "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."

    • @efthimios
      @efthimios 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@12Church thank you God bless you fur your love and prayers

    • @reachhonduras8955
      @reachhonduras8955 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t understand your post.
      Did your wife re-marry?

    • @nicolapetersen1633
      @nicolapetersen1633 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Typical of this type of people. It's never them.

    • @margekeler3112
      @margekeler3112 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Consider listening and reading the website and podcast of Rejoice Marriage Minstries. Not all hope is lost. God Bless.

  • @leonseva4980
    @leonseva4980 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Do not be deceived, those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.

    • @fernandosalas8589
      @fernandosalas8589 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It says practice if you keep doing it without repentance. Jesus forgave a woman who got caught in adultery he didn't say well you got caught your condemned.

  • @angloaust1575
    @angloaust1575 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Even marriage has its problems
    Troubles of the flesh
    Best to stay single and pure
    Become a eunuch!

    • @michaelweston1042
      @michaelweston1042 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      God puts families together. Mark 10:6-9

    • @angloaust1575
      @angloaust1575 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not to be taken in a literal sense
      He provides the attraction
      However the choice is theirs
      I myself have stayed single
      Even at the age of 77
      Not all are suited for marriage
      As the divorce statistics reveal!

  • @andreaguenther5207
    @andreaguenther5207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is no such thing as a private sin. Everything has consequences. Even the "thoughts" of sinning cause us to lose our personal and public joy. It's like shutters that start to dim the sparkle in our eyes. This sparkle is so very attractive to both believers and the lost. I know that this sparkle is a direct result of being free in Christ. No current regrets or blatant sin. I want this!!! Thank you God that you give us a "re" button that is called forgiveness. Thank you for consequences that if remembered or thought about help us to cling to you in the battle. Thank you for Godly friends or family that are able to speak into our lives and help us hold fast to what we want and know to be truth. Thank you for Daren's awareness of his need for you and others to keep "Sparkling" openly for you! Show us how to fight personally, privately and professionally sin that hurts all relationships and our ability to love and share your love...Amen.

    • @efrainbrown1
      @efrainbrown1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thoughts or desiring that which is not yours is coveting!!! Yeshua spoke about the sin of coveting it is the sin of the heart.

  • @teresat6876
    @teresat6876 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I have had more issues that I do not even know where to start since my x has been in so many adulterous affairs over the years so I have suffered and my children

  • @jacquelinedotson9970
    @jacquelinedotson9970 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sad to say my husband's adulterous affairs for over 35 years has not caused him harm but it has caused all problems in my life as well as our children. Our two sons are serving time in prison I suffered mental emotional and financial burdens So my husband's affairs caused harm to his family whereby his life goes on untouched. I love The Lord and will continue to serve Him.

    • @nina-raedelong158
      @nina-raedelong158 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sometimes the devil allows sinful people to live a life free of trouble, because he doesn't want them-such as your husband- turning to God. Since his life is comfortable, he doesn't see a need to leave an open jail cell. One day, it'll be too late.

    • @Mamaohhh04
      @Mamaohhh04 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sorry

    • @jtika1978
      @jtika1978 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh no, it’s not untouched. Unless you don’t believe the Word? He’s miserable, even if you don’t see it.

    • @mountzionmovingstorage687
      @mountzionmovingstorage687 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hahaha. You think God wants to destroy him because he commit adultery. You have to forgive your husband. God doesn’t kill and he will never destroy. It is only God goodness that leads men to repentance.

    • @Mamaohhh04
      @Mamaohhh04 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@mountzionmovingstorage687 God actually corrects his children.
      Like any good parent… children have consequences. Never know what it’ll be but yes consequences of some kind will be in order.

  • @RyanREAX
    @RyanREAX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Adultery = divorce and remarriage too

    • @Thomas116-m2n
      @Thomas116-m2n 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It depends upon the situation. 1 Cor 7:15=abandonment by a nonbeliever. Matthew 19:9-Adultery by the other spouse.

    • @nina-raedelong158
      @nina-raedelong158 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Thomas116-m2n if abandoned by an unbeliever, remarriage isn't mentioned. It just says to let the unbeliever go. Also, "sexual immorality" means fornication (read KJV), not adultery.

    • @RyanREAX
      @RyanREAX 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Thomas116-m2n no. Those only pertain to DIVORCE.. its not a license to remarry.. you're blind.

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Makes me cringe!!
    Horrible evil to DESTROY OTHERS LIVES!

  • @edwindrewlo1990
    @edwindrewlo1990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for talking about our vulnerability in this matter, Daren. Those are very powerful questions that can help a lot in resisting this awful kind of temptation.

    • @12Church
      @12Church  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's something we've got to be intentional about.

  • @Guidance777
    @Guidance777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Can you please pray for my husband salvation?

    • @12Church
      @12Church  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May his eyes be opened and may he turn from darkness to light and from the power of satan to God, may he receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those sanctified by faith in Christ Jesus. (based on Acts 26.18)

  • @JAZJAZZY-g3s
    @JAZJAZZY-g3s 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Does that go for both the husband and the wife or just the wife gets crucified for it??!??!?!?!!???

  • @donnaweiss3268
    @donnaweiss3268 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What don't you people understand about Lord Jesus paying it all with His finished works on the cross when The Holy Spirit comes on you and shows you this fact in Lord Jesus words in His Bible that once we were without Lord Jesus, but then we are reborn into the Holy Spirit and we live in Lord Jesus now when He was the sacrificial Lamb of God that the only way to the Father in Heaven is by Lord Jesus Christ going to the cross for our sins and shed His blood for us that believe in His finished works, because our works couldn't cover a fly's life let alone our lives.
    Jesus told us we can do no works to be saved, that is why He had to, the perfect Lamb of God Almighty paid for the wages of sin and whomever believes in Him that sent Him and paid the price you will be saved for everlasting life. That is why Lord Jesus said it was Good News, do you really think that would be Good news to hear you also have to pay for your own wages of sin without Lord Jesus doing it for you! Boy, you are being led by Satan if you believe that! You are a scoffer and don't write to me anymore. I pray you get saved, because that is what Lord Jesus tells us to do pray for you to get saved! Amen, Amen!

  • @achildofthelight4725
    @achildofthelight4725 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How many breakups does one have before they tie the knot? Why is it so different after?
    I think were missing the point in trusting God somewhere!

  • @efthimios
    @efthimios 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being away from your wife a week? makes you vulnerable geez how high is your drive ? I can see months or more okay..

  • @donnaweiss3268
    @donnaweiss3268 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What am I doing to protect myself is go to Jesus and pray to my Lord to Keep me from Temptations and keep me from evil and He has taken my sins away, because I believe in Lord Jesus finished work and His power in Heaven that I can do all things through Christ and that is hear His words to keep me from the wilders of the evil one and Lord Jesus has my back and keeps me from it all! I trust in His Faith to keep me safe at all times.
    I don't rely on other people, I rely on Lord Jesus in prayer to keep me away from those Temptations, and He has since I walked away from evil life, I was living almost 24 years ago. I love my Lord and Savior and know He is my first love and my last and soon He will be coming to rapture us up to that Manion in the sky, with my brothers and sisters and being Happily living with Lord Jesus Christ for eternity!

  • @jeanniemacdonald5916
    @jeanniemacdonald5916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So good! …what is the billy graham rule?

    • @12Church
      @12Church  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      The nutshell is that he would avoid spending time alone with a woman other than his wife. And there was, and is, a lot of pushback against it, even from Christians.

    • @johnknop6825
      @johnknop6825 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Billy Graham went even further in that he was not even alone with his daughter - as to not even give the appearance of impropriety. This rule will - for the most part - keep you safe.
      But even Jesus was so liberal as to drink and to be left (almost) alone with a woman.
      My wife and I take a different view in that we have a 1 Cor 7 definition of marriage. This being if the marriage fails then celibacy for life.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    2 people each from the opposite sex who agree to marry are not committing adultery when doing so if one or both sets of parents are against that man's choice of mate. It says in the bible that is true. Time will tell if a man in that situation will be able to withstand Satan's attacks against his marriage more so than towards other marriages because he wants to keep Christian communities negave in malice divided.

    • @ksdueckforming218
      @ksdueckforming218 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jesus expanded on that in Mathew 5:27-28.

  • @shaneryan9040
    @shaneryan9040 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a strange lump on my scrotum.what should I do Jesus?

    • @bobleglob162
      @bobleglob162 ปีที่แล้ว

      The scriptures say, "If your eye offends thee, cut it out" So maybe apply that to your scrotum.

    • @shaneryan9040
      @shaneryan9040 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bobleglob162 thanks lord.from both me and my scrotum.

    • @reachhonduras8955
      @reachhonduras8955 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The LORD rebuke you!!

    • @shaneryan9040
      @shaneryan9040 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@reachhonduras8955 is that like a referral?

    • @shanezurcher1787
      @shanezurcher1787 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Go to a Dr immediately!
      Testicular cancer survivor here...get checked out